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0:00Do you want to start thinking in English faster instead of translating everything in your head?你想用英语开始思考 而不是翻译你脑子里的一切吗?
0:06In this video, you are going to shadow a real story written the way native English speakers在这部影片中,你将会给一个真实的故事留下阴影,这个故事是用英语讲母语的
0:12actually talk.其实是说话。
0:14This helps you connect English directly to meaning so you can stop translating这可以帮助您将英语直接连接到意义上,这样您就可以停止翻译
0:19so much and start understanding naturally.这么多,自然地开始理解。
0:23Shadowing also improves your pronunciation,影射也改善了你的读音,
0:26speaking rhythm, accent, confidence, and speaking because you are copying real English in real time.讲节奏,口音,自信, 和说话 因为你正在复制真正的英语实时。
0:34And through the story you will also learn new vocabulary, natural expressions, and sentence通过故事,你也会学习新的词汇、自然表达和句子
0:40patterns that native English speakers actually use.当地英语使用者实际使用的模式。
0:45So read with me, shadow out loud, and train跟着我念 大声的念 训练
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1Do you want to start thinking in English faster instead of translating everything in your head?你想用英语开始思考 而不是翻译你脑子里的一切吗?
2In this video, you are going to shadow a real story written the way native English speakers在这部影片中,你将会给一个真实的故事留下阴影,这个故事是用英语讲母语的
3actually talk.其实是说话。
4This helps you connect English directly to meaning so you can stop translating这可以帮助您将英语直接连接到意义上,这样您就可以停止翻译
5so much and start understanding naturally.这么多,自然地开始理解。
6Shadowing also improves your pronunciation,影射也改善了你的读音,
7speaking rhythm, accent, confidence, and speaking because you are copying real English in real time.讲节奏,口音,自信, 和说话 因为你正在复制真正的英语实时。
8And through the story you will also learn new vocabulary, natural expressions, and sentence通过故事,你也会学习新的词汇、自然表达和句子
9patterns that native English speakers actually use.当地英语使用者实际使用的模式。
10So read with me, shadow out loud, and train跟着我念 大声的念 训练
11your brain to think in English.用英语思考你的大脑
12And if you want to get my 3,000 most common English words designed如果你想得到我的三千个最常用的英语单词
13to help you understand up to 95% of spoken English, then you can get it in the description.帮助你理解95%的英语, 然后可以在描述中找到。
14Let's begin.让我们开始。
15The first story.初说法.
16Am I the a-hole for selling my boyfriend's Xbox slash games我是卖我男朋友的Xbox斜线游戏的混蛋吗?
17to pay his rent?付房租?
18Right off the bat, yes and no.从球棒上下来,是的,不是的。
19If he's not paying rent, then he has to pay it如果他不付房租,那他就得付
20somehow.不知为何
21So by selling those things, he can pay it.所以,通过出售这些东西,他可以支付。
22So it makes sense.故能通达.
23But on the other hand,但另一方面,
24you can't just take someone else's stuff and sell it.你不能随便拿别人的东西卖掉
25That's kind of like theft.这有点像偷窃
26Last week,上礼拜,
27I sold my boyfriend's Xbox and six of his games for 400 pounds.我以400磅的价格卖掉了我男朋友的Xbox和他的六款游戏.
28I did this because for the last我这样做是因为最后
29two months he has been depending on me financially, despite the fact that I, 20 female, am a student两个月来他一直依赖我 尽管我20个女学生
30who can hardly provide for herself.他们很难养活自己。
31I work a part-time job while studying because my student我一边打工一边读书 因为我的学生
32don't cover the cost of living.不支付生活费用。
33Meanwhile, my boyfriend, 22 male, has been out of a job同时,我男朋友22岁男性失业了
34for two months and lives in a flat by himself.两个月后 一个人住在公寓里
35In those two months, he has put almost no effort在这两个月里,他几乎不费力气
36into finding a new job.寻找新的工作。
37Instead, he was spending all his time playing on his Xbox,相反,他一直在玩他的Xbox,
38literally depending on me for money.从字面上看,我的钱。
39If you want to learn faster and go deeper than the video,如果你想学得更快 更深入的视频,
40然后把工作手册放到我的网站上 vollcaenglish.com
41The workbook explains工作手册解释
42everything in greater detail and comes with exercises to help you learn new vocabulary,更详细的事情 来练习 帮助你学习新的词汇
43grammar, tenses, sentence patterns, comprehension, and real English you can actually use.语法,紧张,句子规律,理解, 和真正的英语,你可以实际使用。
44I also have我还有
45workbooks for past videos so you can keep practicing and improving every lesson.过去录影带的工作手册 这样你就可以继续练习 并改进每一个课程。
46Click the单击
47link in my description to get the workbooks.链接在我的描述 获取工作簿。
48Last week, I just kind of lost it.上周,我只是有点失去它。
49I was fed up with我受够了
50him putting no effort into getting money and I didn't want to pay for another month's rent,他不费力赚钱 我不想再付一个月的房租
51so I instead sold his Xbox and games without his consent in order to pay his rent.所以我在未经他同意的情况下卖了他的Xbox和游戏 为了支付他的租金
52By the sounds of以声音
53it, she does recognize what she did was wrong because it was without his consent and she is她确实承认自己做错事了 因为那是未经他同意的
54very honest about that, so maybe this story is just to vent her frustration.所以也许这个故事只是为了让她感到沮丧
55I do feel guilty,我确实感到内疚
56okay, but I'm hoping at least someone understands my reasoning.好吧 但我希望至少有人能理解我的推理
57Am I the a-hole?我是一个洞?
58We have some edits.我们有一些编辑。
59Edit one.编辑一。
60Why didn't I communicate like an adult?为什么我没有像成年人一样沟通?
61I tried talking things through with him like an我试着和他说话 像一个
62adult on numerous occasions.在很多场合。
63I tried explaining that I can't afford to keep paying for his food,我试图解释 我不能继续支付他的食物,
64bills, rent, and everything else he needs to get by.账单 房租 还有他需要的一切
65He has borderline nothing in his bank account.他的银行账户里什么都没有
66Every single time I talked to him about his job search or tried talking to him, he would shrug每次我跟他谈他找工作 或试图和他说话,他都会缩头
67it off.它关闭。
68He never put any effort into conversations.他从不为对话付出任何努力。
69It was always a case of,它总是一个案例,
70I'll start looking tomorrow.我明天开始找
71Or, yeah, I know, yeah.或者说,是的,我知道,是的。
72He never started looking for a job as far他从没有开始找工作
73as I know.依我所知,我们是...
74I felt like him being on his Xbox was the sole reason, wasting all his time on that我觉得他坐在Xbox上是唯一的原因 浪费他所有的时间
75instead of productively searching for jobs.而不是生产性地寻找工作。
76I did use the money for rent because it was due我用这笔钱来付房租,因为钱是到期的
77and he would have had nothing to pay for it, but also because I thought it would be good to have他本可以不花钱的 但也因为我觉得有
78that distraction out of his life.他生命的分心。
79I would like to add something.我想补充一点。
80I feel like you definitely enabled感觉你绝对是有能力的
81this behavior by paying for his things.支付他的东西。
82I would not have paid for it, maybe for one month, but if我本来不会付钱的,也许一个月,但如果
83I can clearly see they're not putting any effort into finding a job and they're just starting to我很清楚他们没有努力找工作 他们才刚开始
84depend on me and mooch, then if I was in her situation, then I would just stop.依赖我和Mouch, 如果我在她的处境, 那我就停止。
85I'd be like,我会想,
86you need to find a job now.你现在需要找到工作。
87I helped you for a month and you literally haven't done anything.我帮了你一个月 你却什么都没做
88That's the end of my help.我帮不上忙了
89I'm not going to continue helping you, especially if I don't我不会继续帮助你,特别是如果我不
90have money because I'm a student and I have to work just to support myself and now you want me有钱是因为我是个学生 我只能工作养活自己 现在你却要我
91to support you too when you're not doing anything.当你什么都不做的时候也支持你
92You kind of did enable this behavior because he你这样做是因为他
93felt like he doesn't have to do anything because you will pay for it.感觉他什么都不用做 因为你会付出代价的
94Edit two, why didn't you just编辑二,为什么不只是
95let him get evicted?让他被赶出去?
96I didn't want him to become homeless.我不想让他无家可归
97He isn't that close to his parents and他没有那么亲近他的父母
98so cannot rely on moving into their home.所以不能靠搬进他们的家
99I think losing an Xbox is way better than becoming homeless.我觉得失去Xbox比无家可归好
100I guess edit three, I know what I did was illegal and theft.我猜编辑3, 我知道我做了什么非法和盗窃。
101So the last point from edit two,所以,最后一点 从编辑2,
102my boyfriend was furious when he found out I sold his Xbox, but he never brought up charges.我男朋友发现我卖了他的Xbox时很生气 但他从没提起过指控
103He
104never said he would sue or report it to the police.从没说过他会起诉或报警
105He knows that he depends on me financially.他知道自己在经济上依赖我
106Edit four, yes, I understand this is theft.编辑四,是的,我知道这是偷窃。
107No need to keep repeating it in every single comment.不必每次评论都重复。
108That being said, I think I will break up with him soon.这么说,我想我很快就和他分手了
109I say this because so many of these comments我这样说,是因为这么多的这些评论
110have been saying dump him.一直在说甩了他
111I feel like that was pretty obvious to anyone reading this.我觉得这在读这个的人看来是很明显的
112He is没错
113depending on you and he's not helping you in any way.取决于你 而且他不会帮你
114The best thing to do would just be to最好的办法就是
115separate yourself and cut him off.分离自己,并切断他。
116Edit five, my last edit sounded way worse than I intended.编辑五,我上次的编辑听起来比我想象的还要糟
117I said, I think I will.我说,我想我会的。
118I didn't say when.我没说什么时候
119I don't mean right now, this very second and leave him我不是说现在,这秒钟就离开他
120with nothing.什么也没有。
121I read pretty much every single comment on this post and a lot of things mentioned我几乎都读过关于这篇文章的每一个评论 和很多提到的事情
122made me realize I can't keep on living with someone literally leeching off me.让我意识到我不能继续 与一个人 字面上流水离开我。
123Very true.没错
124I'll end up just as broke as him if I continue at this rate.如果我继续这样下去 我和他一样破碎
125I have already spent near 2k on him我已经花了近2千元在他身上
126in the last few months, digging through the little I have saved since I started working part time在过去的几个月里,挖掘我节省下来的小钱 自从我开始兼职工作以来
127at age 14.14岁时
128Yeah, this relationship really does not sound good for you.是啊,这种关系真的不 对你很好。
129I think he will just use you我想他会利用你
130and take everything he can until you can't offer anything else and then he'll leave you and look然后他就会离开你,看着他
131someone else to mooch off of.别人去他妈的。
132So am I the a-hole?所以,我是一个洞?
133Yep, I am.没错
134Taking someone's things and selling it拿走别人的东西卖掉
135is an a-hole move.这是一个洞的举动。
136Your boyfriend's also an a-hole, taking over $2,000 from you in the past few months.你男朋友也是个混蛋 在过去几个月里 从你那里抢走了两千多美元
137So I guess you guys are both a-holes.我想你们都是个混蛋
138You need to leave him by the sounds of it.你得从它的声音离开他
139I think that would我觉得这样会
140be better for you specifically.特别为你好
141Remember guys, I want you to take your phone and give me a summary记住了,我要你拿起你的电话,给我一个总结
142of the story you just read.你刚刚读的故事。
143It only has to be one or two sentences and this is just to have a video只需要一两句,这只是为了有视频
144of your pronunciation and accent.你的发音和口音。
145So in a couple months, you can look back on this video and see几个月后,你可以回顾这段视频
146how much you have improved.你进步了多少
147Try to do this for every story.试着为每个故事做这个。
148Am I the a-hole for throwing away我是丢弃的洞
149my husband's Xbox after he refused to look for our lost dog?我丈夫的Xbox 在他拒绝寻找我们失去的狗之后?
150Okay, so this one she didn't sell it.好吧,所以这个 她没有卖它。
151He threw it away.他把它丢掉了。
152Interesting.有意思,这很有趣
153This is going to be a little long.这会有点长。
154Please try to bear with me and请试着忍受我
155understand my situation.了解我的处境
156Thank you.谢谢
157For starters, I am a nurse, 35 female.首先,我是一名护士,35名女性。
158I have been extremely busy我一直忙着呢
159these past three months.过去三个月
160Even writing this post is a privilege and I am having to do this in bits连写这篇文章都是一种特权 我不得不做一些事情
161and pieces.和碎片。
162I also gave birth to my daughter six months ago.六个月前我还生了女儿
163I have an eight-year-old son as well.我还有一个八岁的儿子
164When I am not working, I take care of my children.我不工作的时候,我会照顾我的孩子。
165If you want to build a strong English foundation如果你想建立一个强大的英语基础
166fast, then get my 3,000 Most Common English Words PDF.快速,然后得到我的3000 最常见的英语单词PDF。
167You'll learn the most important words that你会学到最重要的话
168cover up to 95% of everyday English with clear definitions, real examples, and easy organization以明确的定义、真实的例子和简单的组织方式覆盖多达95%的日常英语
169by topic and CEFR level.按主题和CEFR级别。
170Click the link in the description.单击描述中的链接。
171In January 2019, my son suddenly2019年1月,我的儿子突然间
172developed this strong desire to have a dog.发展了这种强烈的渴望 养狗。
173He begged and begged for a puppy from my husband,他向我丈夫求了一条小狗
17435 male.35个男性。
175I protested against that because I had just found out that I was pregnant.我抗议是因为我刚刚发现我怀孕了
176My husband said that we should let our son have a puppy to teach him some responsibility and that我丈夫说我们应该让儿子养一只小狗 教他一些责任
177he would have some practice taking care of his baby sibling.他会有一些练习 照顾他的宝宝兄弟。
178He also promised that he would help他还保证过会帮忙的
179our son take care of the dog.我们的儿子照顾狗。
180I was absolutely unconvinced, but I had to give in eventually我绝对不相信 但我最终不得不屈服
181because my husband had already agreed and I didn't want to cause further fights.因为我丈夫已经同意了 我不想再吵了
182This is这是
183interesting because in my experience, because usually it's the mom that says, oh, just let them很有趣,因为根据我的经验, 因为通常是妈妈说,哦,让他们
184have a puppy.有个小狗。
185It's okay.没关系。
186And it's usually the dad that says, no, I don't want a dog or a puppy at通常爸爸会说,不,我不想要一只狗和小狗
187all.都一样
188But in this situation, it's reversed.但在这种情况下,它被逆转了.
189Five days ago, my son had accidentally left the back五天前,我儿子不小心离开了后面
190door of our house open and the dog ran away.我们家的门打开,狗跑了。
191These five days were also some of the busiest,这五天也是最繁忙的
192most grueling days of my work.我最讨厌的工作日
193And I had to take up night shifts because a colleague had fallen我不得不上夜班 因为有个同事摔倒了
194sick.恶心
195Our son first went to my husband for help.我们的儿子先去找我丈夫求救
196He refused to help him and said that it was his,他拒绝帮助他,并说这是他的,
197my son's responsibility to care for the dog.我儿子有责任照顾狗
198And he has to do something about it himself.他必须自己做点什么
199My husband has the privilege of working from home.我丈夫有在家工作的特权
200He works at a law firm.他在律师事务所工作
201He works for maybe three他为三个人工作
202to four hours a day and plays Xbox the entire time and sometimes gets up to check up on our每天4小时 一直玩Xbox 有时会去检查我们
203daughter.女儿们
204He literally has no added pressures.他实际上没有额外的压力。
205Five days ago, when our son told me in tears that五天前,当我们的儿子在泪里告诉我
206dad won't look for Tippy, I talked to my husband who said that it would teach our son some爸爸不会找蒂皮的 我和我丈夫谈过 他说他会教我们儿子一些
207responsibility to take care of things in the future, which I found very callous since a dog将来要负责照顾好事物, 我发现这很冷酷,因为一只狗
208is a living sentient being and not a thing.是一个活的神灵 而不是什么。
209That is very true.这是非常正确的。
210A dog is alive.一只狗还活着。
211You can't你不能这样
212just lose it and then be like, oh well, I'll get another one.只要失去它,然后就像, 哦,好吧,我会得到另一个。
213No, it's alive.不,它还活着。
214He was playing他在玩游戏
215Xbox when I was talking to him as well.我跟他说话的时候是Xbox
216He also said he won't look for the dog or anything.他还说他不会找狗什么的
217Yesterday, after coming home at night, the first thing I did was unplug the Xbox console and昨天,晚上回家后, 我做的第一件事是解开 Xbox控制台和
218controller and throw them in the trash can.控制器把它们扔进垃圾桶
219This morning before going to work, my husband今天早上上班前,我的丈夫
220threw a fit when he didn't find his Xbox in the living room.当他在客厅里找不到他的Xbox时,就发了个疯.
221I told him that I'd thrown it away我告诉他我把它扔掉了
222because he was so addicted to it that he couldn't even get up and help our distressed son.因为他对它如此上瘾 甚至无法站起来 帮助我们痛苦的儿子。
223When I当我
224came back from work, he told me he had found his Xbox in the trash since the garbage truck hadn't下班回来后,他告诉我 他发现他的Xbox 在垃圾桶,因为垃圾车没有
225arrived yet.还没到呢
226Now he's being incredibly snarky, giving me the cold shoulder, and he's angry现在他变得令人毛骨悚然,给我冷血的肩膀,他生气了
227because his controller isn't working.因为他的控制器坏了
228He also hasn't taken any measures to look for our dog他也没有采取任何措施寻找我们的狗。
229and our mutual best friend called and said my reaction was incredibly childish.我们的好朋友打电话来 说我的反应非常幼稚
230Now I'm现在我
231spending my free day calling every neighbor of ours, making internet posters, contacting花我的免费日 打电话给我们的邻居, 制作互联网海报,联系
232animal shelters and animal control to see if Tippy had turned up anywhere and consoling my动物避难所和动物控制 来看看蒂皮有没有出现在任何地方 安慰我
233heartbroken son and my the a hole edit.伤心的儿子和我的洞编辑。
234My husband is a lawyer.我丈夫是律师
235A lawyer's job depends on how many律师的工作取决于有多少人
236clients he has.他的客户。
237My husband currently has almost no clients due to obvious reasons.由于明显的原因,我丈夫目前几乎没有客户。
238He told me this他告诉我的
239himself.他本人
240So his workload is significantly less.所以他的工作量要小得多
241This is for all those people who are saying that这是给那些说
242I am downplaying his work.我在轻描淡写他的作品
243Update.更新。
244Tipby还没找到
245My shift has ended about我的工作结束了
24630 minutes ago and I'll go home and drive around in my neighborhood and surrounding area to look30分钟前,我回家 在附近附近开车看看
247for him.为了他
248I have posted some pictures of Tippy on my profile for those who requested.我在个人资料上贴了一些提皮的照片,
249Husband is still老公还没死
250sulking about his controller.对他的控制器很生气
251I am at my wits end.我脑筋已经到了
252Update.更新。
253Tippy has been found.泰皮被发现了
254If you're serious如果你是认真的
255about becoming fluent in English, I've built a full speaking and pronunciation course that shows我做了一个完整的演讲和发音课程
256you exactly what to do step by step.你该一步一步地做什么
257You get instant access to 80 plus video lessons right away你马上可以进入80加视频课
258and I add three to five brand new lessons every week so you can keep improving consistently.我每周增加3到5个全新的课程 这样你才能不断改进
259And还有
260this is not just a course full of random videos.这不仅仅是一个充满随机视频的课程。
261You'll get an exclusive chat GPT prompt that allows你会得到独家聊天的GPT提示
262you to master the pronunciation of any word plus a clear practice structure so you always know您要掌握任意单词的发音 加上清晰的练习结构,所以您总是知道
263exactly how to study, what to focus on, and how to make real progress.确切地说,如何研究、注重什么以及如何取得真正的进展。
264Inside we work on pronunciation,里面我们研究发音
265accent, rhythm, and natural speaking so you can stop hesitating, sound more natural, and speak口音 节奏 自然说话 这样你就可以停止犹豫 听起来更自然
266English with real confidence.英语很有自信
267Join today in the description.加入今天的描述。
268Well at least we ended on a high note至少我们以高调结束
269with some good news.有个好消息
270Okay so overall I would say your husband is pretty lazy and he's definitely好吧,所以总的来说,我会说 你的丈夫相当懒惰,他肯定
271上瘾了Xbox。
272He's probably lazy because he's addicted to the Xbox so trying to get rid他可能很懒 因为他迷上了Xbox 所以想摆脱
273of that I mean makes sense in theory but in practice it won't work because he's addicted我的意思是,在理论上是有道理的 但实际上,它不会工作 因为他的上瘾
274to it right?对不对?
275Overall should you have thrown his Xbox away?你该把他的X盒扔掉吗?
276No.没有
277You probably should have just tried你也许该试试
278to communicate more and talk to him and if he still doesn't understand it then I don't think和他多沟通和交谈 如果他仍然不明白,那么我不认为
279this is like marriage ending worthy but definitely talking to maybe like a therapist or bringing a这就像婚姻结束 值得但肯定说话 也许像治疗师或带来一个
280third party in so that you guys can talk about it.第三方进来 这样你们就可以谈论它。
281He understands your point of view and so that他理解你的观点 所以
282you understand his point of view.你明白他的观点。
283I think that would help a lot.我觉得那会很有帮助
284Sounds like someone who's really听起来像一个真正的
285addicted to playing video games.沉迷于玩电子游戏
286I remember at one point in my life when I was young young like 15我记得在我生命的某一点 当我年轻的时候,像15岁
287I used to be addicted to games.我以前对游戏很上瘾
288Yeah I wouldn't really want to do anything else so I could是啊,我真的不想做 任何事情,这样我可以
289understand being addicted to games.理解对游戏上瘾。
290It's not good.岂不善哉.
291That's why I don't really play video games anymore.所以我不再玩电子游戏了
292What do you guys think?你们觉得怎么样?
293Remember to give me a summary of the story and record yourself so记得给我一个故事摘要 并记录自己这样
294that you can look back at this video to see how much you have improved.你可以回顾一下这段视频 看看你的改进程度
295Remember if you want to记住,如果你想
296get the 3,000 most common English words it's in the description.获得描述中最常见的3000个英文单词.
297It's in the description.说法中.
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