今天开始用英语思考｜A1-B2 初学者练习
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | The faster you can start thinking in English, the faster you can start speaking English naturally. | 用英语开始思考的速度越快,自然开始说英语的速度就越快. |
| 0:06 | That is why in this video you will shadow a real story written how native English speakers | 所以在这段视频中 你会记录一个真实的故事 写着讲英语的母语 |
| 0:12 | actually talk. | 其实是说话。 |
| 0:14 | This trains your brain to stop translating word by word and start understanding | 这训练你的大脑停止逐字翻译 开始理解 |
| 0:20 | English more automatically without the need to translate everything in your head before you | 更自动的英语,不需要翻译你脑中的一切 |
| 0:27 | At the same time you improve your pronunciation, speaking rhythm, accent, listening, and fluency | 同时提高你的发音,讲节奏,口音,听力,流利 |
| 0:35 | by copying natural English line by line. | 通过逐行复制自然英语行. |
| 0:39 | You will also pick up new words, useful phrases, | 你也会挑出新词,有用的短语, |
| 0:42 | and real sentence patterns that are easy to remember because they are inside a story. | 和真实的句子模式 很容易被记住 因为它们在故事里 |
| 0:49 | Read, listen, shadow, and let's train your brain how to think in English naturally. | 读,听,影子, 让我们训练你的大脑 如何自然思考英语。 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | The faster you can start thinking in English, the faster you can start speaking English naturally. | 用英语开始思考的速度越快,自然开始说英语的速度就越快. |
| 2 | That is why in this video you will shadow a real story written how native English speakers | 所以在这段视频中 你会记录一个真实的故事 写着讲英语的母语 |
| 3 | actually talk. | 其实是说话。 |
| 4 | This trains your brain to stop translating word by word and start understanding | 这训练你的大脑停止逐字翻译 开始理解 |
| 5 | English more automatically without the need to translate everything in your head before you | 更自动的英语,不需要翻译你脑中的一切 |
| 6 | At the same time you improve your pronunciation, speaking rhythm, accent, listening, and fluency | 同时提高你的发音,讲节奏,口音,听力,流利 |
| 7 | by copying natural English line by line. | 通过逐行复制自然英语行. |
| 8 | You will also pick up new words, useful phrases, | 你也会挑出新词,有用的短语, |
| 9 | and real sentence patterns that are easy to remember because they are inside a story. | 和真实的句子模式 很容易被记住 因为它们在故事里 |
| 10 | Read, listen, shadow, and let's train your brain how to think in English naturally. | 读,听,影子, 让我们训练你的大脑 如何自然思考英语。 |
| 11 | And if you want to get the 3,000 most common English words to help you understand up to 95% | 如果你想得到3000个最常用的英语单词 帮助你理解到95% |
| 12 | of spoken English then get it in the description. | 然后把它写进描述中。 |
| 13 | Let's get started. | 让我们开始吧。 |
| 14 | Am I the a-hole for choosing my wife over my mom? | 我是不是选我老婆而不是我妈的洞? |
| 15 | I, 32 male, have been married to my wife, | 我,32个男性,已经嫁给了我的妻子, |
| 16 | 33 female, for five years. | 33名女性,为期五年。 |
| 17 | I lost my dad when I was 16. | 我16岁时失去爸爸了 |
| 18 | I'm an only child. | 我是独生子 |
| 19 | Life was rough after | 之后生活很艰难 |
| 20 | he passed, but my mom is one of the strongest women I know. | 他过世了 但我妈妈是我认识的最强的女人之一 |
| 21 | I was shattered and she held | 我被打碎,她抱着 |
| 22 | everything together. | 一切如来. |
| 23 | I love her more than anything. | 我最爱她了 |
| 24 | Get my 3,000 most common English words PDF and | 把我的3000个最常用的英语单词PDF和 |
| 25 | learn the words that will help you understand up to 95% of everyday English. | 学习帮助你理解95%的日常英语的词汇。 |
| 26 | It includes real | 包括真实的 |
| 27 | definitions, real example sentences for every meaning, and everything is organized by CEFR level | 定义,每个含义的真正实例句子,以及所有事物都由CEFR级别组织 |
| 28 | and topic. | 和话题。 |
| 29 | Click the link in the description to get it. | 点击描述中的链接获取它 。 |
| 30 | I met my wife in the first year of college. | 大学一年级时认识了妻子. |
| 31 | We've basically grown up together. | 我们基本上都是一起长大的 |
| 32 | She's my world. | 琌и |
| 33 | Right now, the three of us live together | 现在,我们三个住在一起 |
| 34 | in our apartment. | 在我们的公寓。 |
| 35 | My mom is getting older and needs care and I feel lucky that I have the two | 我妈妈年纪大了,需要照顾 我觉得很幸运我有两个 |
| 36 | women in my life under one roof. | 我生命中的女人在一个屋檐下 |
| 37 | Both my wife and I have good careers. | 我妻子和我都有良好的事业 |
| 38 | We're ambitious and doing well | 我们野心勃勃,做得很好 |
| 39 | and yes, we don't have a child that's a conscious decision. | 是的,我们没有孩子 是一个有意识的决定。 |
| 40 | I'm okay either way. | 我无所谓 |
| 41 | I love kids and | 我爱孩子, |
| 42 | would love to have one someday, but my wife doesn't want one right now. | 但我老婆现在不想要 |
| 43 | Maybe not ever. | 也许永远不会。 |
| 44 | We've had long | 我们玩了很久了 |
| 45 | conversations about it. | 谈论它。 |
| 46 | I have never forced her. | 我从来没有强迫她。 |
| 47 | It's her body. | 这是她的身体。 |
| 48 | She's at the peak of her career. | 身居事业巅峰. |
| 49 | She says she doesn't feel ready for motherhood and doesn't know if she ever will. | 她说她没有准备好做母亲 也不知道她是否愿意 |
| 50 | I respect | 我尊重你们 |
| 51 | that. | 那个 |
| 52 | The issue is my mom desperately wants a grandchild. | 问题是我妈妈急切地想要一个孙子 |
| 53 | For the past year, she's been | 在过去的一年里,她一直 |
| 54 | emotionally pushing. | 感情上的推力。 |
| 55 | Subtle comments. | 浅谈. |
| 56 | You'll understand when you have your own. | 等你有自己的孩子 你会明白的 |
| 57 | Don't wait | 别等了 |
| 58 | too long. | 太长了 |
| 59 | Women regret it later. | 以后女人会后悔的 |
| 60 | I kept brushing it off, hoping it would fade. | 我不停地刷掉它 希望它会消失 |
| 61 | Two days ago, | 两天前, |
| 62 | we had guests over who brought their kids. | 有客人带孩子过来 |
| 63 | After they left, my mom looked at my wife and said, | 他们离开后,我妈妈看着我妻子说, |
| 64 | you can't even give me one grandchild. | 你甚至不能给我一个孙子。 |
| 65 | Isn't that what women are meant to do? | 女人不该这样吗? |
| 66 | Your biological clock is already expiring. | 你的生物钟已经过期了 |
| 67 | My wife immediately said, isn't it my decision | 我老婆马上说,这不是我的决定吗? |
| 68 | whether I want to have a child? | 我想不想生个孩子? |
| 69 | It turned into a heated argument. | 化为热辩. |
| 70 | I stepped in and told my mom, | 我走进来告诉我妈妈 |
| 71 | please stop forcing us. | 请停止强迫我们。 |
| 72 | It's her decision. | 这是她的决定。 |
| 73 | Whatever she decides is final. | 无论她决定什么都是最后决定 |
| 74 | You don't get | 你没有得到 |
| 75 | to talk to her like that. | 这样跟她说话 |
| 76 | I won't lie. | 我不会撒谎的 |
| 77 | My tone was harsh. | 我的语气很严厉 |
| 78 | I've never raised my voice at my mom | 我从来没有在我妈面前提高我的声音 |
| 79 | before. | 之前,我刚说 |
| 80 | Ever. | 从来没有。 |
| 81 | I've always been respectful, but this time I snapped. | 我一直很尊重你 但这次我崩溃了 |
| 82 | I've been ignoring these | 我一直忽略这些 |
| 83 | comments for a year and hearing her question my wife's worth as a woman just broke something | 一年的评论,听到她的问题 我的妻子作为一个女人的价值 刚刚打破的东西 |
| 84 | inside me. | 我内心深处 |
| 85 | Now my mom hasn't spoken to me in two days. | 我妈两天没跟我说话了 |
| 86 | The house feels tense. | 房子很紧张 |
| 87 | I feel guilty | 我感到内疚 |
| 88 | for shouting at the woman who sacrificed everything for me. | 为我牺牲一切的女人大喊大叫 |
| 89 | But I also feel like if I hadn't stepped | 但我也觉得 如果我没有踩 |
| 90 | in, I would have failed my wife. | 我本来会辜负我妻子的 |
| 91 | My mom hasn't been eating well and mentioned she wants to move | 我妈吃得不好 说她想搬家 |
| 92 | out. | 出来。 |
| 93 | Am I the a-hole for losing my temper and shouting at my old mom like this? | 我是不是因为我发脾气 对我老妈妈这样大喊大叫? |
| 94 | Uh, yes. | 对 |
| 95 | I | 一、导 言 |
| 96 | would say yes. | 会答应的 |
| 97 | I would say anything like shouting, being mean, raising your voice to your mom. | 我会说什么,喜欢喊, 刻薄,提高你的声音 你妈妈。 |
| 98 | It | 这个 |
| 99 | doesn't matter the situation. | 不管情况如何 |
| 100 | You're a grown up. | 你长大了 |
| 101 | You shouldn't like let your emotions take over. | 你不应该让你的情绪占据。 |
| 102 | You can be frustrated and upset, but you don't need to yell at someone else, especially your mom. | 你可以沮丧和不高兴, 但你不需要骂别人, 尤其是你妈妈。 |
| 103 | I | 一、导 言 |
| 104 | would say for that you are in the wrong, but you're not in the wrong for defending your wife. | 但你保护你妻子不是错的 |
| 105 | It's | 这是 |
| 106 | her body, her choice, so she can choose what she wants to do. | 她的身体,她的选择, 她可以选择她想做什么。 |
| 107 | But the part you are in the wrong for | 但你错了 |
| 108 | is shouting and losing your temper. | 正在喊着 失去你的脾气。 |
| 109 | You are in the wrong for that. | 你错了 |
| 110 | I want you guys to take out | 我要你们出去 |
| 111 | your phone and give me a summary of what you've just read. | 把你的手机给我 总结一下你刚刚读过的东西 |
| 112 | Try to summarize it in one to two | 试着用一到二来总结一下 |
| 113 | sentences and record yourself so you can watch this video back in a couple months to see how much | 并记录自己 这样你就可以看这视频 在几个月后回来 看多少钱 |
| 114 | progress you have made. | 您已经取得了进步。 |
| 115 | Next story. | 下一个故事。 |
| 116 | Am I the a-hole for not doing my fiance's laundry after he snapped | 我是不是因为未婚夫崩溃后没洗衣服 |
| 117 | at me? | 对我? |
| 118 | I, 33 female, stopped doing my fiance's 33 male laundry after he snapped at me. | 我,33个女性, 停止做我的未婚夫的 33个男性洗衣 之后,他冲我。 |
| 119 | This was | 这是 |
| 120 | three years ago, but this morning he was grumbling about how he doesn't have any clean clothes | 3年前,但是今天早上 他抱怨自己没有干净的衣服 |
| 121 | per usual every week, and it starts to make me feel bad until I remember why I stopped doing it. | 每星期都这样 直到我记起我为什么停止这么做 我才开始觉得难过 |
| 122 | If you want to learn faster and really understand the English from this video, get the workbook on | 如果你想学得更快 真正了解这段视频中的英语, 获得工作手册 |
| 123 | 我的网站 bocaenglish.com. | |
| 124 | It goes into greater detail than the lesson and includes exercises to | 它比教训更详细,包括: |
| 125 | help you practice vocabulary, grammar, tenses, sentence structure, and comprehension. | 帮助您练习词汇、语法、时态、句子结构以及理解。 |
| 126 | I also | 我也一样 |
| 127 | have workbooks for past videos so you can keep learning and reviewing anytime you want. | 拥有过去录影带的工作手册,这样你就可以随时学习和审查。 |
| 128 | Get the | 拿来 |
| 129 | workbooks in my description. | 工作手册在我的描述。 |
| 130 | To set the scene, three years ago I was heavily pregnant with our son. | 我三年前怀上了我们的儿子 |
| 131 | I was put on light duty, not bed rest, due to his heart rate fluctuating. | 他的心跳波动,我被安排在轻勤上,而不是休息 |
| 132 | I was seeing a doctor | 我去看医生了 |
| 133 | weekly and even had a nurse coming to the house once a week to keep an eye on things. | 每周甚至有一位护士 每周来家里看一看 |
| 134 | When our son | 当我们的儿子 |
| 135 | was born, his cord was wrapped around his neck twice, which the doctor quickly unwrapped, | 他的绳子被绑在脖子上两次 医生很快就解开了 |
| 136 | and thankfully he has no issues because of it. | 幸好他没有问题 |
| 137 | The only problem after birth was the white of his eyes | 出生后唯一的问题就是眼睛的白色 |
| 138 | were completely bloodshot red. | 是完全血射红色。 |
| 139 | From the cord being wrapped, he is now perfect and healthy in every | 从被包起来的绳子,他现在完美而健康 |
| 140 | way. | 就是这样 |
| 141 | Three years ago, we didn't know why this was happening, so I was put on light duty. | 三年前,我们不知道为什么发生这种事,所以我被放轻松了。 |
| 142 | This | 这个 |
| 143 | particular day, same exact day every week, I collected my fiance's laundry because why can't | 特别的一天, 同样的准确的一天 每星期, 我收集我的未婚夫的洗衣 因为为什么不能 |
| 144 | he use the basket designated for his dirty clothes and carry them to the stairs since our washer and | 他用他脏衣服的篮子 把它们带到楼梯上 自从我们的洗衣机和 |
| 145 | dryer is in the basement. | 烘干机在地下室里 |
| 146 | Two baskets of his dirty clothes sat for three days by the stairs as I | 他脏衣服的两篮子 坐在楼梯边三天 |
| 147 | reminded him multiple times a day to carry his laundry down. | 提醒他每天要背着他的衣服 多次 |
| 148 | Heavily pregnant, light duty, and | 重度怀孕,轻度工作,以及 |
| 149 | do not mix well. | 混合得不怎么样 |
| 150 | On the third day of his laundry sitting by the stairs, stairs are in my kitchen | 在他洗衣服的第三天坐在楼梯边,楼梯在我的厨房里 |
| 151 | by the way and right by our back door, which we use often, so very much in the way. | 我们经常使用的后门, 如此之多。 |
| 152 | I got a bit | 我有一点 |
| 153 | frustrated and in a more nagging tone complained about how he needs to carry his laundry downstairs | 沮丧,而且更烦躁的语气 抱怨他要怎么把衣服搬下楼 |
| 154 | so I can wash it for him. | 这样我就能帮他洗了 |
| 155 | He snapped at me. | 他冲着我 |
| 156 | He told me, it's my laundry. | 他告诉我,这是我的洗衣房。 |
| 157 | I'll carry it down when I | 我会把它拿下来,当我 |
| 158 | feel like it. | 感觉像它。 |
| 159 | With more expletives and I left for work. | 有了更多的刺激,我离开了工作。 |
| 160 | So I carried his dirty clothes back to the | 所以我把他的脏衣服带回了 |
| 161 | room. | 房间 |
| 162 | A few days later, he asked me to wash some of his clothes because he had no clean clothes | 几天后,他让我帮他洗衣服 因为他没有干净的衣服 |
| 163 | left. | 左边 |
| 164 | I told him no because I'll do it when I feel like it. | 我告诉他不,因为我会做 当我喜欢它。 |
| 165 | To this day, our dryer peaced out on us, | 时至今日,我们的干燥机已经安抚了我们 |
| 166 | so I've had to take the household clothes, two kids clothes, and my clothes to my mother's house | 所以我不得不把家服,两个孩子的衣服, 和我的衣服到我母亲家 |
| 167 | until we can get a new dryer. | 直到我们得到一个新的烘干机。 |
| 168 | I told my fiance I'll take his shirts, socks, | 我告诉我的未婚夫 我要他的衬衫,袜子, |
| 169 | underwear to my mom's too, but he has to collect it. | 我妈的内衣也是 但他得拿回来 |
| 170 | Like I said, why doesn't he use his designated | 就像我说的,他为什么不用他的指定 |
| 171 | basket? | 篮子? |
| 172 | And I put it in my car the night before. | 前一天晚上我把它放进车里了 |
| 173 | I only do laundry on Mondays. | 我周一才洗衣服的 |
| 174 | It's been over a year, | 已经一年多了 |
| 175 | he won't do it. | 他不会这么做的 |
| 176 | It's like Monday laundry day sneaks up on him or something. | 就像周一的洗衣日 偷偷摸摸摸摸着他什么的 |
| 177 | Either way, | 不管怎样 |
| 178 | I refuse to collect, carry, wash, dry, fold, return, put away everything. | 我拒绝收集,携带,洗涤,干燥,折叠,还原,收走一切. |
| 179 | If he can't even | 如果连他都不能 |
| 180 | collect it and carry it to my car, then that's his problem. | 把它收集起来 带到我的车上 这就是他的问题 |
| 181 | So am I the a-hole for not doing | 我也是个没做坏事的人 |
| 182 | my fiance's laundry anymore after he snapped at me? | 我未婚夫冲我冲我后又洗衣服了? |
| 183 | Oh, I feel like a year is a long time. | 我觉得一年很长 |
| 184 | You | 你们 |
| 185 | have made it clear what you want. | 已经清楚你想要什么。 |
| 186 | You want him to take his laundry, put it in a basket, | 你想让他洗衣服 放在篮子里 |
| 187 | and then put it in the back of your car and then you'll wash it. | 然后把它放进你的车后面 然后洗干净 |
| 188 | And he can't seem to do that. | 他似乎不会这么做 |
| 189 | Maybe like he's super, super busy and doesn't have time. | 也许像他超级,超级忙,没有时间。 |
| 190 | If that's the case, then yeah, | 如果是这样,那么是的, |
| 191 | I guess you're the a-hole. | 我猜你是一个洞。 |
| 192 | But if that's not the case and he has time to do it, but he just | 但是如果不是这样 他有时间做,但他只是 |
| 193 | literally doesn't do it, then it's not your fault. | 从字面上讲,不这样做, 那么这不是你的错。 |
| 194 | You just want him to put it in the laundry basket, | 你只是想让他把它放在洗衣篮里 |
| 195 | which is super, super normal. | 这是超级,超级正常。 |
| 196 | Like why would you throw your clothes around everywhere anyways? | 就像你为什么把衣服扔到哪儿一样? |
| 197 | You just want him to put it in the laundry basket and then bring it to your car the night before | 你只是想让他把它放在洗衣篮里 然后在前一天晚上把它带到你的车里 |
| 198 | Monday. | 礼拜一 |
| 199 | I feel like it's not a lot to ask for. | 我觉得没什么好要求的 |
| 200 | So I don't think you're the a-hole in this situation. | 所以,我不认为你是一个洞 在这种情况下。 |
| 201 | However, if your husband is super, super busy, he works just constantly, doesn't have time, | 然而,如果你丈夫是超级,超级忙碌, 他只是不断工作,没有时间, |
| 202 | then yeah, you're the a-hole. | 那就对了 你就是个混蛋 |
| 203 | Also, if you're pregnant, then no, you're definitely not the | 还有,如果你怀孕了,那么不,你绝对不是 |
| 204 | a-hole. | 一个洞。 |
| 205 | But you said this is a year after, so I assume you're not pregnant anymore. | 但你说这是一年之后, 所以我假设你不再怀孕了。 |
| 206 | Next story. | 下一个故事。 |
| 207 | Am I overreacting for feeling jealous after my boyfriend called someone else the woman of my | 我是不是反应过激了,因为我男朋友 说别人是我的女人 |
| 208 | dreams? | 做梦? |
| 209 | Oh, I'm going to say no, bro. | 哦,我要说不,兄弟。 |
| 210 | That's crazy. | 这太疯狂了 |
| 211 | Why would he say that? | 他为什么要这么说? |
| 212 | So my boyfriend and I, | 所以,我男朋友和我, |
| 213 | have been together for a year. | 在一起已经一年了 |
| 214 | Everything has been great. | 一切顺利 |
| 215 | We barely have any arguments. | 我们几乎没有任何争论。 |
| 216 | We | 我们 |
| 217 | enjoy our time together and I feel like he supports me. | 享受我们在一起的日子 我觉得他支持我 |
| 218 | Everything was perfect. | 一切都是完美的。 这一切是完美的。 |
| 219 | But two days ago, | 但两天前, |
| 220 | we were walking and a woman around the same age came to us screaming excited. | 我们走着,一个同年龄的女人 冲我们尖叫着兴奋 |
| 221 | He looked at her | 他看着她 |
| 222 | and started screaming as well. | 还开始尖叫 |
| 223 | Red flag. | 红旗. |
| 224 | They hugged, jumped together. | 他们拥抱,跳在一起。 |
| 225 | At that moment, | 此时此刻 |
| 226 | I genuinely thought it was a great friend or maybe a family member that he had not seen | 我真心觉得他是个好朋友 也许是个没见过的家庭成员 |
| 227 | in a long time and I was happy for them. | 很久之后,我为他们感到高兴。 |
| 228 | They started chatting a little bit and then he | 他们开始聊天,然后他 |
| 229 | introduced me. | 介绍一下 |
| 230 | Not as his girlfriend, but by my name. | 不是作为他的女朋友,而是我的名字。 |
| 231 | That's a little weird. | 这有点奇怪。 |
| 232 | Two red flags. | 两面红旗. |
| 233 | It was odd, but okay. | 这是奇怪的,但没关系。 |
| 234 | They continued catching up, really excited and exchanged phone numbers. | 他们继续追赶,非常兴奋和交换电话号码. |
| 235 | I was just there. | 我当时在场 |
| 236 | At that moment, it didn't feel wrong. | 在那一刻,它并没有感到错误. |
| 237 | I understood they were old friends | 我知道他们是老朋友 |
| 238 | and that was it. | 就是这样。 |
| 239 | But after she left, he just kept looking at her until he couldn't anymore. | 但在她离开后,他一直盯着她 直到他再也不能了 |
| 240 | Looked at me right in the eye and told me, you just met the one that was the woman of my dreams. | 看着我的眼睛,告诉我, 你刚刚遇到了那个是我的梦想中的女人。 |
| 241 | I would break up immediately. | 我会立刻分手 |
| 242 | Immediately. | 马上 |
| 243 | If someone said this, bro, we're done. | 如果有人这么说,兄弟,我们就完了。 |
| 244 | We're done. | 我们结束了。 |
| 245 | Anyways, let's see what she does. | 无论如何,让我们看看她在做什么。 |
| 246 | I was frozen. | 我被冻僵了。 |
| 247 | I didn't know what to say, so I just | 我不知道该说什么,所以... |
| 248 | nodded. | 点头 |
| 249 | He didn't even realize I was shocked. | 他甚至没意识到我震惊了 |
| 250 | We kept going and that was it. | 我们一直走 就这样 |
| 251 | But I had been | 但我曾经 |
| 252 | thinking about it these two days and it's driving me crazy. | 想想这两天 这让我发疯 |
| 253 | Especially because she looks nothing | 特别是因为她看起来一无所有 |
| 254 | like me. | 像我一样 |
| 255 | I don't feel ugly and she is also pretty, but in a different way. | 我不觉得丑,她也很漂亮, 但以不同的方式。 |
| 256 | My friends are sure | 我的朋友们肯定 |
| 257 | I should dump him. | 我该甩了他 |
| 258 | Me too. | 我也一样。 |
| 259 | But I'm not sure. | 但我还不确定 |
| 260 | I kind of want to have a conversation with him | 我想和他谈谈 |
| 261 | and try to continue the relationship. | 并尝试继续这种关系。 |
| 262 | But why? | 为什么? |
| 263 | I feel like he just told you that that is the | 我觉得他刚刚告诉你,这就是 |
| 264 | woman of his dreams, not you. | 他梦想的女人,不是你。 |
| 265 | He literally told this to your face. | 他当面告诉你的 |
| 266 | That's just what happened. | 就是这样 |
| 267 | We both are 23 years old. | 我们都23岁了 |
| 268 | He told me they were together in a couple of classes in college. | 他告诉我他们在一起 在大学的几个班级。 |
| 269 | He quit college two years ago and hadn't seen her since then. | 两年前他退出大学,此后再也没有见过她. |
| 270 | And the phone number exchange we work | 还有我们工作的电话号码交换 |
| 271 | in and the phone number exchange we work in slash like arts and it was more about some projects. | 和电话号码交换,我们的工作 像艺术的斜线, 它更多的是一些项目。 |
| 272 | She did mention she has a boyfriend and said we could all meet sometime and he didn't seem | 她确实提到她有个男朋友 说我们什么时候可以见面,他似乎没有 |
| 273 | upset about it. | 很难过 |
| 274 | Now to the update. | 现在看最新消息 |
| 275 | I don't even know how to start. | 我什至不知道如何开始。 |
| 276 | I went to his house yesterday | 我昨天去他家了,我去过他家 |
| 277 | around 11am. | 11点左右 |
| 278 | I prefer it that way so I don't have ghosts in my house. | 我更喜欢这样 这样我家里就不会有鬼了 |
| 279 | I went thinking there was a | 我当时在想 |
| 280 | 50-50 chance to either break up or work on it. | 要么分手,要么努力解决 |
| 281 | When I got there he was with a male friend and the three | 当我到了那里,他和一个男性朋友和三个人在一起 |
| 282 | of us were talking. | 我们谈论。 |
| 283 | Then around an hour later boyfriend got a call. | 大约一小时后男友接到电话 |
| 284 | It was her. | 这是她。 |
| 285 | She needed some | 她需要一点 |
| 286 | pictures for her work and asked him if he was available. | 并问他是否有空 |
| 287 | He said I'm with my girlfriend and a | 他说我跟我女朋友在一起 |
| 288 | friend. | 哥们儿 |
| 289 | Then he asked me if we could go take the pictures and come back. | 然后他问我能不能去拍照然后回来 |
| 290 | I didn't tell him I needed | 我没有告诉他我需要 |
| 291 | to talk and I thought it was a good opportunity to see how they would behave now that it wasn't a | 我认为这是一次很好的机会 看他们会如何行为 现在,这不是一个 |
| 292 | after two years of not seeing each other. | 两年没见面了 |
| 293 | So I said yes. | 所以我答应了 |
| 294 | His friend said he had nothing else to do | 他朋友说他没什么可做的 |
| 295 | so he also went. | 所以他还去了 |
| 296 | We got there in an Uber so I had no idea where it was. | 我们坐着Uber车到了那里 所以我不知道它在哪 |
| 297 | They were acting normal. | 他们表现正常。 |
| 298 | She works in a private art school, gave us the tour and mentioned they are looking for a new teacher. | 她在一所私立艺术学校工作,给我们巡回演出,并提到他们正在寻找一位新的老师. |
| 299 | Boyfriend told her I'm in my last semester and they could hire me. | 男朋友告诉她我在上学期 他们可以雇我 |
| 300 | She said she will mention it | 她说她会提的 |
| 301 | the owner. | 拥有者。 |
| 302 | I had been struggling with getting a job so I was glad about it. | 我一直为找工作而挣扎 所以我很高兴 |
| 303 | Everything went normal | 一切都恢复正常了 |
| 304 | until the end. | 直到结束 |
| 305 | When we went outside the building she asked him how much it was for the pictures | 我们出去的时候 她问他照片多少钱 |
| 306 | and he said it was nothing. | 他说没什么 |
| 307 | Before at his house he was talking about how he needed | 在他家之前 他在谈论他需要什么 |
| 308 | money. | 钱 |
| 309 | She insisted and told him she wasn't paying the school was. | 她坚持并告诉他她没有支付 学校是。 |
| 310 | He still didn't accept. | 他还是不接受 |
| 311 | His friend told him not to be stupid and at least asked for the money he used for the Uber. | 他的朋友告诉他不要傻,至少要他用来给Uber的钱. |
| 312 | She agreed but he said no it's fine. | 她同意了 但他说不行 |
| 313 | They kept going a couple of times with the same thing | 他们不停地去几次 与同样的事情 |
| 314 | until she went well then let me at least invite you to dinner. | 直到她好起来 至少让我邀请你吃饭 |
| 315 | Then he smiled and accepted. | 后来他微笑并接受了. |
| 316 | That was it. | 就这样 |
| 317 | The sign I was looking for. | 我在找的标志。 |
| 318 | Even his male friend looked at me and I could see in his | 连他的男性朋友都看着我 我都能看到他 |
| 319 | face he was sorry for me. | 面对我 他为我感到难过 |
| 320 | In the Uber I went totally silent thinking about how to end the | 在Uber,我完全沉默地思考如何结束 |
| 321 | relationship. | 关系。 |
| 322 | Then I saw a park that is not so far away from my place and asked the Uber to leave me | 然后我看见一个离我家不远的公园 叫尤伯离开我 |
| 323 | there. | 这里 |
| 324 | He asked me what happened but I didn't answer. | 他问我发生了什么 但我没有回答 |
| 325 | I just got out of the Uber and walked. | 我刚刚走出Uber,走了。 |
| 326 | The now ex followed me asking what was wrong and I couldn't ignore him anymore. | 现在的前男友跟踪我问出了什么问题 我不能再忽视他了 |
| 327 | I told him everything. | 我什么都告诉他了 |
| 328 | I'm proud of how I told him. | 我以我告诉他的事为荣 |
| 329 | I wasn't yelling at him hysterically but I was firm. | 我没有歇斯底里对他大喊大叫 但我很坚定 |
| 330 | He asked | 他问 |
| 331 | for a chance to explain himself. | 为了解释自己 |
| 332 | I told him he would waste our time because my decision | 我告诉他他会浪费我们的时间 因为我的决定 |
| 333 | was made but he begged so I stayed. | 被制造出来,但他求我留下 |
| 334 | He said a lot of things but here are the main points. | 他说了很多话 但这里是要点 |
| 335 | They were never a couple or something like that but he did ask her out and she said she wasn't | 他们从来就不是情侣 但他确实约了她 她说她不是 |
| 336 | interested so I don't have to worry about her because she doesn't like him. | 有兴趣,所以我不必担心她 因为她不喜欢他。 |
| 337 | He is entirely sure | 他完全肯定,他不会 |
| 338 | about it because he asked her out three times and she said no all three times. | 他约了她三次 她又说三次都不行 |
| 339 | He is not looking for | 他没有在找 |
| 340 | her anymore because she has a boyfriend not because he loves me or because we have a future. | 她现在有了男朋友 不是因为他爱我 也不是因为我们有未来 |
| 341 | He didn't say that but that is what I thought in the moment. | 他没有这么说,但这是我当时的想法。 |
| 342 | If for any reason she changed her mind | 如果有什么原因 她改变主意 |
| 343 | and looked for him in that way he would say no because he is with me again not because he loves | 如此寻找他 他会拒绝 因为他再次和我在一起 不是因为他爱 |
| 344 | me. | 来啊 |
| 345 | If you're serious about becoming fluent in English I've built a full speaking and pronunciation | 如果你真的想说流利的英语... ...我建了一个完整的演说和发音 |
| 346 | course that shows you exactly what to do step by step. | 教你们一步一步地做什么 |
| 347 | You get instant access to 80 plus video | 你可立即访问80+视频 |
| 348 | lessons right away and I add three to five brand new lessons every week so you can keep improving | 即刻上课,我每周增加三到五个全新的课,这样你就可以不断改进 |
| 349 | consistently and this is not just a course full of random videos. | 这不仅仅是一个充满随机视频的课程。 |
| 350 | You'll get an exclusive chat | 你会得到一个独家聊天 |
| 351 | GPT prompt that allows you to master the pronunciation of any word plus a clear practice structure so you | GPT 提示, 允许您掌握任意单词的发音, 以及清晰的练习结构, 所以您 |
| 352 | always know exactly how to study, what to focus on and how to make real progress. | 总是知道如何研究、注重什么以及如何取得真正的进展。 |
| 353 | Inside we work on | 在里面我们工作 |
| 354 | pronunciation, accent, rhythm and natural speaking so you can stop hesitating, sound more natural | 发音,口音,节奏和自然说话 这样你就可以停止犹豫,声音更自然 |
| 355 | and speak English with real confidence. | 以真正的自信说英语。 |
| 356 | Join today in the description. | 加入今天的描述。 |
| 357 | After he finished I | 在他完成我之后 |
| 358 | told him I wasn't going to be in a relationship with someone who flirts with others and asked him | 告诉他我不会跟别人调情 问他的人交往 |
| 359 | to leave me alone. | 离开我一个人。 |
| 360 | When I walked away he said I know I said she was the woman of my dreams | 当我走的时候,他说我知道我说过 她是我梦中的女人 |
| 361 | but you are the woman of my life. | 但你是我生命中的女人 你是我的爱人 |
| 362 | I just told him good luck with that and went home. | 我只是告诉他 祝你好运 然后回家 |
| 363 | I told my | 我告诉过我 |
| 364 | friends everything and they went to my place with break up snacks and we had a sleepover where we | 朋友们,他们去了我的地方 与分手的小吃 我们有一个过夜 我们在那里 |
| 365 | cried, cursed him and laughed. | 哭泣,诅咒他,嘲笑他。 |
| 366 | Unfortunately he and I are together in some projects so I can't just | 可惜他和我在项目里在一起 所以我不能就这样 |
| 367 | block him but they were in favor of a petty revenge and asked some male friends that he doesn't know | 挡住他,但他们赞成小报复 问一些男性朋友 他不知道 |
| 368 | to go to my Instagram and write some comments like they are flirting with me. | 去我的Instagram写一些评论 就像他们跟我调情。 |
| 369 | Lastly this morning I | 最后,今天上午,我 |
| 370 | actually got a call from the school owner. | 实际上接到了学校老板的电话 |
| 371 | He offered me the children and teenager groups. | 他给了我少年儿童团体 |
| 372 | The | 那个 |
| 373 | schedule is flexible so it doesn't interfere with my classes and the pay is not bad so I said yes | 计划很灵活,所以不会影响我的课 薪水也不差 所以我答应了 |
| 374 | I will start next Monday and well that's it. | 我下周一开始,就这样 |
| 375 | I'm not going to lie I still feel sad even though I | 我不会撒谎的,我还是觉得很伤心 虽然我 |
| 376 | know I did the best for myself. | 我为自己做了最好的事 |
| 377 | He was kind of my first really serious relationship and I really | 他是我第一次很认真的关系 我真的 |
| 378 | thought he was the one until that problem but I'm thinking about looking for therapy to find out | 一直以为他就是那个问题之前的那个人 但我想找治疗来找出 |
| 379 | why I thought about staying with someone like that so I don't make the same mistakes. | 为什么我想和这样的人在一起 这样我就不会犯同样的错误 |
| 380 | What I got from | 我从哪里得到的 |
| 381 | this I really have amazing friends and I should listen to them. | 我真的有很棒的朋友 我应该听他们的 |
| 382 | This community is also great and | 这个社区也很棒 |
| 383 | now I have a job so it wasn't all bad. | 现在我有份工作了 所以还不错 |
| 384 | Well overall I personally think she did the right thing by | 总的来说,我个人认为她做的对 |
| 385 | leaving him. | 离开他 |
| 386 | By the sounds of it she was kind of just a replacement for the person he originally | 听起来她只是代替他原来的人 |
| 387 | wanted and if he had the chance he would probably choose that other girl so I think in the long run | 想要,如果他有机会 他可能会选择另一个女孩 所以我想从长远来看 |
| 388 | this was the right decision to make and she has good friends so that's a bonus. | 这是正确的决定 她有好朋友 所以这是奖金 |
| 389 | If you want to | 如果你想的话 |
| 390 | get the 3,000 most common English words with definitions and separated by CEFR and topic | 获得3000个最常用的有定义的英文单词,并由 CEFR 和主题分隔 |
| 391 | then it's in the description. | 然后在描述。 |
| 392 | I'll see you guys next time. | 下次见 |
| 393 | Bye. | 再见。 |
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