中级英语听力训练｜可理解性输入
字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | I'm 26, unemployed and feeling depressed because all my friends have good jobs. | 我26岁了,失业了,感到沮丧 因为我的朋友都有好工作 |
| 0:05 | How can I figure out what career is right for me? | 我怎么知道什么事业适合我? |
| 0:08 | So today we're going to be reading stories and people's experiences looking for jobs | 所以今天我们要读故事和人们寻找工作的经验 |
| 0:13 | and trying to find jobs in this current job market. | 并试图在目前的就业市场上找到工作。 |
| 0:16 | Especially for new grads, since the unemployment rate for new grads has been going up in the | 特别是新学位,因为新学位的失业率一直在上升 |
| 0:21 | past few years with what economists call an entry-level hiring crisis. | 过去几年来,经济学家称之为初级雇用危机。 |
| 0:25 | Data indicates that the unemployment rate for recent college grads ages 22 to 27 has | 数据显示,22至27岁年龄组的大学生失业率 |
| 0:31 | surged significantly faster than the rate for the overall workforce, climbing roughly | 激增的速度大大快于整个劳动力的比率,大致上升 |
| 0:36 | 44% between 2024 and 2026. | 2024年至2026年间占44%. |
| 0:39 | So obviously you can see it's much, much harder for new grads to get a job now. | 所以很明显,你可以看到,对于新的毕业生来说,现在找到工作要困难得多。 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | I'm 26, unemployed and feeling depressed because all my friends have good jobs. | 我26岁了,失业了,感到沮丧 因为我的朋友都有好工作 |
| 2 | How can I figure out what career is right for me? | 我怎么知道什么事业适合我? |
| 3 | So today we're going to be reading stories and people's experiences looking for jobs | 所以今天我们要读故事和人们寻找工作的经验 |
| 4 | and trying to find jobs in this current job market. | 并试图在目前的就业市场上找到工作。 |
| 5 | Especially for new grads, since the unemployment rate for new grads has been going up in the | 特别是新学位,因为新学位的失业率一直在上升 |
| 6 | past few years with what economists call an entry-level hiring crisis. | 过去几年来,经济学家称之为初级雇用危机。 |
| 7 | Data indicates that the unemployment rate for recent college grads ages 22 to 27 has | 数据显示,22至27岁年龄组的大学生失业率 |
| 8 | surged significantly faster than the rate for the overall workforce, climbing roughly | 激增的速度大大快于整个劳动力的比率,大致上升 |
| 9 | 44% between 2024 and 2026. | 2024年至2026年间占44%. |
| 10 | So obviously you can see it's much, much harder for new grads to get a job now. | 所以很明显,你可以看到,对于新的毕业生来说,现在找到工作要困难得多。 |
| 11 | Like really frustrating when you pay tens of maybe hundreds of thousands of dollars | 就像你付了几万块 可能几十万块 真的很沮丧 |
| 12 | for your education and then no one even wants to hire you. | 为了你的教育,然后 没有人甚至想雇用你。 |
| 13 | And a lot of the times what I've seen people talk about, my own experience, my friends | 很多时候,我看到的人谈论, 我自己的经验,我的朋友 |
| 14 | All these companies want you with experience for entry-level roles. | 所有这些公司都希望你具备初级角色的经验. |
| 15 | But the thing is, they are the experience, they are the experience, they are an entry-level | 但问题是,他们就是经验,他们就是经验,他们是初级 |
| 16 | role. | 作用。 |
| 17 | You're not supposed to have experience when you enter an entry-level role. | 进入入门级角色时不应该有经验. |
| 18 | They are supposed to be your first experience. | 他们应该是你第一次体验 |
| 19 | And it's just like really frustrating that a lot of companies want like one, two, three | 这就像真的令人沮丧, 很多公司想要像一,二,三 |
| 20 | years of experience before they would even like hire or look at your resume. | 多年的经验 他们甚至想雇用或看你的简历。 |
| 21 | And it's like, I went to school so that you could hire me, but now you're saying I also | 我上学是为了让你雇我 可现在你却说我也是 |
| 22 | have to have experience, but I won't be hired to gain experience unless I already have experience. | 必须要有经验 但我不会被雇用来获得经验 除非我已经有经验了 |
| 23 | It's like a paradox. | 犹如悖论. |
| 24 | So let's read some stories of real people's experience about this from Quora. | 让我们从Quora那里读一些关于真实人经历的故事. |
| 25 | 今天没有Reddit。 | |
| 26 | And also I low-key feel like a lot of this is due to AI. | 我低调的觉得这多亏了AI |
| 27 | So fuck AI, but straight up, off for real. | 所以他妈的AI,但直上,关闭真的。 |
| 28 | First person's reply to this by Honey Lemon. | 第一人称回复 蜂蜜柠檬。 |
| 29 | I am you too. | 我也一样 |
| 30 | You see a lot of people experience the same thing. | 你看到很多人也经历同样的事情. |
| 31 | Just because you can't find a job, it doesn't mean it's you. | 只是因为找不到工作,不代表是你 |
| 32 | There are many external factors. | 外部因素很多。 |
| 33 | There are many like things you can't control. | 有很多事情你无法控制 |
| 34 | It's not you. | 这不是你。 |
| 35 | A lot of people are having trouble finding jobs. | 很多人找工作有困难。 |
| 36 | It doesn't matter how smart you were, how much experience you have, everything. | 不管你有多聪明 经验多丰富 一切 |
| 37 | Everyone still struggles to find a job unless you, you know, you know someone that could | 每个人都在努力找工作,除非你,你知道, 你知道,你认识的人可以 |
| 38 | get you a job. | 帮你找份工作 |
| 39 | Like that's just straight up nepotism and that'll just always be around. | 就像那只是直立的裙带关系, 那只会一直围绕。 |
| 40 | So you can't really, can't really beat that. | 所以,你不能真的,不能 真的击败。 |
| 41 | But for normal people, same age, same employment status, same concern, except for the depression | 但对于正常人来说 年龄相同 就业状况相同 除了抑郁症 |
| 42 | part. | 编。 |
| 43 | Maybe. | 也许 |
| 44 | I'm probably not the right person to give you advice, but my suggestion is to focus | 我可能不是给你建议的人 但我建议集中注意力 |
| 45 | on yourself first. | 自己第一个。 |
| 46 | Why are you unemployed right now? | 你现在为什么失业? |
| 47 | Is it because of your mental health issue or something else? | 是因为你的精神健康问题吗? |
| 48 | If it's caused by mental health issues, you can refer to a reliable counselor, therapist | 如果是由心理健康问题引起的,你可以指: 可靠的咨询师,治疗师 |
| 49 | or psychologist. | 或心理学家。 |
| 50 | In my country, we have counselors, therapists, psychologists in public clinics, but we need | 在我国,公共诊所有辅导员、治疗师、心理学家,但我们需要 |
| 51 | to be tested first. | 将首先测试。 |
| 52 | I myself was suspected to have mild depression, but since I was also underweight genetically | 我本人被怀疑患有轻度抑郁症,但因为我也体重过低 |
| 53 | and constantly lethargic, we decided to look into that first. | 我们决定先调查一下 |
| 54 | I suspected that I have anemia, but it turned out to just be slightly high bad cholesterol. | 我怀疑我有贫血 但结果只是胆固醇有点高 |
| 55 | So I feel a bit better now after trying to eat healthily, i.e. | 所以,我现在感觉好点了 尝试健康地吃,即。 |
| 56 | eat fruits before main | 在主食前先吃水果 |
| 57 | meals or eat vegetables with main meals, avoid high carbs, causes blood sugar crash and then | 吃或吃蔬菜 与主餐,避免高碳化物, 造成血糖崩溃 然后 |
| 58 | food coma and saturated fat. | 食物昏迷和饱和脂肪。 |
| 59 | Get good quality sleep and moving my body around from time to time by doing chores. | 睡个好觉,不时通过做家务来移动我的身体。 |
| 60 | So I think this guy does bring up a good point. | 所以我觉得这家伙确实有道理 |
| 61 | You have to think about is it your mental health that's like stopping you from finding | 你要考虑一下 你的精神健康就像阻止你找到 |
| 62 | a job like mentally. | 像精神上一样的工作 |
| 63 | I'm really not sure how that would work, but maybe that's what's blocking you and keeping | 我真的不知道会怎么做 但也许这就是阻碍你和保持 |
| 64 | you from getting a job like somehow maybe something you're doing subconsciously due | 你从得到工作 不知何故... ... ...... |
| 65 | to something internally is causing you to struggle to find a job. | 内心的东西 让你挣扎找工作。 |
| 66 | So if you take care of yourself, you get good sleep, you eat healthy, do all these things | 所以,如果你照顾自己, 你得到良好的睡眠, 你吃健康,做所有这些事情 |
| 67 | and you just take care of yourself first, your body and your mind, then everything | 你只要先照顾好自己 身体和思想 然后一切 |
| 68 | else in your life will slowly start to fall into place. | 否则你的生活会慢慢地落到实处 |
| 69 | But it first starts by taking care of yourself. | 但首先要照顾好自己 |
| 70 | As for my mental health, I pretty much isolated myself from friends and parents, colleagues | 至于心理健康,我几乎与朋友和父母,同事隔离 |
| 71 | as well as job related social media content so that I'm not constantly in anxiety mode | 以及和工作有关的社交媒体内容 这样我就不会一直处于焦虑状态 |
| 72 | over feeling behind. | 感觉在后面。 |
| 73 | That's something really important. | 这很重要 |
| 74 | You shouldn't compare yourself to others because you're not in the same situation and you don't | 你不该把自己和别人相比 因为你的处境不同 |
| 75 | have the same circumstances. | 有同样的情况。 |
| 76 | Comparing yourself to others will only make you feel worse, bring you down, bring your | 把自己和别人比起来只会让你觉得更糟糕, 把你降下来,把你的 |
| 77 | mental state down, your motivation down and make you feel like what's wrong with me when | 精神状态低落 你的动机低落 让你感觉我怎么了 |
| 78 | there is nothing wrong with you. | 你没什么错 |
| 79 | It's good to like not compare yourself to others and kind of just try to focus on what | 最好不要把自己和别人比起来 尽量专注于什么 |
| 80 | you can control and yourself. | 你可以控制自己,也可以控制自己。 |
| 81 | Instead, I tried to surround myself with things that make me happy or melt my worries away. | 相反,我试图环绕自己的东西 让我快乐或融化我的忧虑。 |
| 82 | Example, cute and quirky pet videos, ASMR cooking videos and inspiring quotes that make | 例如,可爱和怪异的宠物视频,ASMR烹饪视频和鼓舞人心的引言 |
| 83 | me feel better about myself. | 我对自己感觉好多了 |
| 84 | Sounds like reality detachment, I know, but personally, I'm not ready to confront my work | 听起来像真人解脱,我知道, 但个人,我还没有准备好面对我的工作 |
| 85 | performance anxiety and fear of losing myself over work demands yet. | 表现的焦虑和恐惧 失去我的工作需要。 |
| 86 | So I might as well make myself feel good rather than dwell in those fears and negativity. | 因此,我最好让自己感觉好些,而不是停留在这些恐惧和消极。 |
| 87 | I think he has a good point and I understand his point, but it's also good to like be conscious | 我觉得他有道理,我明白他的意思, 但是也很高兴喜欢有意识 |
| 88 | of your situation and not just completely fall into getting external like dopamine from | 而不是完全陷入 外部像多巴胺从。 |
| 89 | other sources. | 其他来源。 |
| 90 | You should like strive to reach your ultimate goal of getting a job, but it is good and | 你应该努力达到找到工作的最终目标,但这是很好的 |
| 91 | I do agree with, you know, taking time to yourself, relaxing sometimes you don't always | 我同意,你知道的, 抽时间对自己, 放松有时你不总是 |
| 92 | have to work, work, work, work or try because that could really become depressing if you're | 工作,工作,工作,工作或者尝试 因为如果你是... |
| 93 | not succeeding. | 没有成功。 |
| 94 | Or if you have understanding, supportive and reliable friends, family and or social circle, | 或者,如果你有 理解,支持和可靠的朋友, 家庭和或社交圈子, |
| 95 | you can surround yourself with them and observe what they're doing as well as ask for their | 你可以环绕自己 观察他们在做什么 以及要求他们 |
| 96 | advice or encouragement. | 咨询或鼓励。 |
| 97 | When you're in a better mental and physical state, you'll be able to see your capabilities | 当你处于更好的精神状态和身体状态时,你会看到自己的能力 |
| 98 | more clearly, which will help you figure out the job that suits you. | 更清楚一点 这能帮助你找到适合你的工作 |
| 99 | Or if you're too afraid to start full time, maybe you can start slowly by working part | 或者如果你太害怕 开始全职, 也许你可以慢慢开始 工作部分 |
| 100 | time at a nearby chill cafe, library, animal welfare, et cetera, preferably anywhere that | 时间在附近的寒冷咖啡馆,图书馆,动物福利等等,最好在任何地方 |
| 101 | can help you hone the skills required in the full time job that you want. | 可以帮助您掌握您想要的全职工作所需的技能。 |
| 102 | But if you're unemployed because of something else that's outside of your control, example, | 但如果你失业是因为你无法控制的事 比如说 |
| 103 | have other responsibilities, limited physical capabilities, no transport, then you'll have | 有其他的责任, 有限的物理能力, 没有运输, 然后,你会有 |
| 104 | to find jobs that offer some flexibility to your needs like work from home jobs. | 寻找能够灵活满足家庭工作需要的工作。 |
| 105 | Remember that something is better than nothing and big salary jobs don't necessarily mean | 记住,有些事情比什么都没有好 高薪工作不一定意味着 |
| 106 | they're happy and free or maybe they're happy with their job, but the same job might not | 他们快乐和自由 也许他们很满意 他们的工作, 但同样的工作可能不会 |
| 107 | make you happy. | 让你快乐 |
| 108 | You don't need to be perfect right from the get go, but we'll eventually get close to | 出发后你不需要完美 但我们最终会接近 |
| 109 | perfection once we give ourselves the chance to prove ourselves wrong through the baby | 一旦我们给自己机会 通过孩子证明自己错了 |
| 110 | steps that we take to get over our self doubt and other inner demons. | 我们为克服自我怀疑和其他内在恶魔而迈出的步骤。 |
| 111 | I think a big challenge is just getting over that self doubt, just feeling like you're | 我认为一个巨大的挑战 刚刚克服了自我怀疑, 只是感觉你像 |
| 112 | not good enough. | 不够好。 |
| 113 | Realize that you are enough and you just need to keep on doing what you can control. | 知道你已经足够了 你只需要继续做你能控制的事 |
| 114 | There are a lot of things you can control and you shouldn't worry and stress about | 有很多事情你可以控制,你不应该担心和压力 |
| 115 | those things. | 那些东西。 |
| 116 | Or if you can do something about it, instead of worrying, just focus on that and just put | 或者如果你能做点什么,而不是担心, 仅仅专注于这一点,只是把 |
| 117 | your effort into doing everything you can to get the outcome you want by controlling | 尽力通过控制来取得你想要的结果 |
| 118 | the things you can control. | 你可以控制的东西。 |
| 119 | May all people like us be granted the everlasting clarity, courage, passion, and strength in | 愿我们这样的人 获得永恒的清晰、勇气、激情和力量 |
| 120 | proving and loving ourselves, as well as the best way out of this trial so that we | 证明和爱自己, 以及最好的出路 这场审判,让我们 |
| 121 | can spread the hope and positivity to others in need. | 可以向需要帮助的其他人传播希望和信心。 |
| 122 | Amen. | 阿门 |
| 123 | Does he mean amen? | 他是说阿门吗? |
| 124 | Pause. | 暂停 |
| 125 | I'm not going to try to assume anything. | 我不会试图假设任何事情。 |
| 126 | I am not sure what he's saying, but I did like that last paragraph. | 我不知道他在说什么 但我很喜欢最后一段 |
| 127 | It was kind of like a good wrap up to what he was saying. | 这就像一个很好的总结 他在说什么。 |
| 128 | Overall, I think I agree with most of what he said. | 总的来说,我认为我同意他所说的大部分内容。 |
| 129 | And yeah, let me know what your thoughts are on that as well in the comments. | 是的,让我知道你的想法 以及评论。 |
| 130 | The second post by not known. | 第二帖未详. |
| 131 | I'm also your age, a female decided to prepare for government exams after college, but got | 我和你一样大,一个女性决定 准备在大学毕业后参加政府考试, |
| 132 | no luck. | 没有运气。 |
| 133 | Not because I am dumb or something, but I was in too much pressure. | 不是因为我哑巴什么的 但我压力太大了 |
| 134 | Little did I know that was just the beginning. | 我不知道这只是开始。 |
| 135 | 2025 was the worst year in this term. | 2025年是这一时期最糟糕的一年. |
| 136 | My family started pressuring me for marriage. | 我的家人开始逼我结婚 |
| 137 | I knew if I give into their pressure, my life would become a monotonous, monotonous cycle | 我知道,如果我给他们的压力, 我的生活会变成一个单调的,单调的循环 |
| 138 | of serving, cooking, and cleaning. | 服务,烹饪和清洁。 |
| 139 | I'm glad this person knows what they want and knows what they don't want. | 我很高兴这个人知道他们想要什么 也知道他们不想做什么 |
| 140 | They don't want to that like that life of just serving, cooking, and cleaning. | 他们不想那样的生活 仅仅服务,烹饪,和清洁。 |
| 141 | So now if they don't want that, they have to go out and find a job. | 所以现在如果他们不想, 他们必须出去找工作。 |
| 142 | And I do respect that. | 我尊重这一点。 |
| 143 | Not only knowing what you want, but just knowing what you don't want. | 不仅知道自己想要什么 而且知道自己不想做什么 |
| 144 | So then you can just avoid that. | 这样你就可以避免了 |
| 145 | I don't want that. | 我不想那样 |
| 146 | I don't want to live an aimless life. | 我不想过无目的的生活 |
| 147 | So this person has like ambition and direction by the sound of it. | 因此,这个人喜欢野心和方向 通过它的声音。 |
| 148 | The pressure kept increasing to an extent that my father said things to me that broke | 压力不断增大 以至于我父亲对我说那些破碎的话 |
| 149 | me internally. | 我内心. |
| 150 | Things to me like, I'm not sure what this language is. | 对我来说,我不知道这语言是什么 |
| 151 | Let me translate this. | 让我翻译一下 |
| 152 | OK, so this is Hindi. | 好吧,这是印地语。 |
| 153 | And it means from today onwards, you are dead to me. | 从今天起,你死定了 |
| 154 | Your father said that to you. | 你父亲对你说的 |
| 155 | Well, your father might as well be dead to you because no parent, father or mother should | 你父亲对你来说 不如死了 因为没有父母 |
| 156 | ever, ever, ever, ever talk to their child like that. | 永远,永远,永远,永远,永远, 与他们的孩子这样说话。 |
| 157 | You are dead to me. | 对我来说你死定了 |
| 158 | I know it's a different culture and like I'm from the West. | 我知道这是一种不同的文化,和我来自西方一样. |
| 159 | It's just so hard for me to imagine speaking like this to your children or your child. | 我很难想象这样对你的孩子说话 |
| 160 | It's just really hard for me to understand that this is how it is in some parts of the | 我实在很难理解 某些地方就是这样 |
| 161 | world, you know. | 这个世界,你知道的。 |
| 162 | But that's just the reality. | 但这只是现实。 |
| 163 | But I didn't give up. | 但我没有放弃。 |
| 164 | OK, good. | 好吧,不错。 |
| 165 | That takes honestly a lot of courage and strength when people are constantly pushing | 老实说,这需要很多勇气和力量 当人们不断推 |
| 166 | down, pressuring you, telling you to do stuff, especially your parents, and you keep | 压住你 让你做点事 特别是你父母 你一直这样 |
| 167 | going, you're bound to succeed. | 你一定会成功的 |
| 168 | I am still preparing for government exams. | 我还在准备参加政府考试 |
| 169 | Becoming a civil servant is my dream and I will give my best even if I don't clear. | 成为一名公务员是我的梦想,我会尽我所能,即使我不明白。 |
| 170 | I practiced the skills I needed to get into corporate. | 我练习了进入公司所需的技能。 |
| 171 | I showed my work on LinkedIn. | 我展示了我关于LinkedIn的作品. |
| 172 | Opportunities opened. | 机会打开了。 |
| 173 | I have started working full time at an MNC, multinational corporation. | 我已经开始在多国跨国公司全职工作。 |
| 174 | Although it is not a very good position, but I had to start somewhere. | 虽然这不是一个很好的立场,但我不得不从某个地方开始。 |
| 175 | My friends are at bigger positions, some at companies like Amazon, but I am satisfied. | 我的朋友在更大的位置上, 有些在亚马逊这样的公司, 但我很满意。 |
| 176 | I know something good is waiting for me. | 我知道有件好事等着我 |
| 177 | I have to just keep working hard and trust in the plan of God. | 我必须继续努力工作 相信上帝的计划 |
| 178 | Dude, I really genuinely I love like I respect people with like that type of optimism and | 伙计,我真的很爱 就像我尊重别人那样乐观 |
| 179 | that belief in themselves that even though stuff isn't going good and people are doing | 相信自己 即使事情不顺利 人们也在做 |
| 180 | better than you and all this stuff, they still see it's going to get better. | 比你和所有的东西, 他们仍然看到它会变得更好。 |
| 181 | I just need to keep trying and never give up because if you never give up and you'll | 我只是需要继续尝试 永不放弃 因为如果你永远不放弃,你会 |
| 182 | never fail. | 永不失败。 |
| 183 | I respect this mentality. | 我尊重这种心态。 |
| 184 | Really respectable. | 真的很受人尊重,你觉得呢? |
| 185 | At 24, I got into PhD aerospace engineering at one of the top schools in the USA. | 24岁,我进入美国顶尖学校之一的航空航天工程博士 |
| 186 | A professor asked me to come with my own funds for a year. | 教授让我带自己的钱去一年 |
| 187 | Later this year, I can get a scholarship vacancies in his lab for PhD. | 今年晚些时候,我可以在他的实验室里 得到一个奖学金空缺 博士。 |
| 188 | I seeked my family for a co applicant for my educational loan. | 我寻找我的家人 一个共同申请我的教育贷款。 |
| 189 | You know how family works. | 你知道家庭如何运作。 |
| 190 | They backstabbed me though, and my family helped other relatives a lot for their marriage | 不过他们却背弃了我 我的家人帮了其他亲戚很多的婚姻 |
| 191 | and so on. | 诸如来. |
| 192 | Due to that circumstance, I took a full time job, yet they framed me as a failure. | 由于这种情况,我接受了全职工作,但他们却把我说成失败了。 |
| 193 | In reality, I cracked jobs in every field from software, mechanical, mechatronics, automation, | 事实上,我从软件、机械、机械、自动化 |
| 194 | defense industries, engineer to team lead and managerial roles till I turned 27. | 国防工业,工程师 团队领导和管理角色 直到我27岁。 |
| 195 | Got fully funded PhD and a lot of master's scholarships and job offers with sponsorships | 获得全额资助 博士和很多硕士奖学金 和工作机会 赞助 |
| 196 | up to 320,000 USD collectively. | 总计320,000美元。 |
| 197 | Wow. | 珃 |
| 198 | Yet my relatives or few friends framed me as a failure. | 然而,我的亲戚或几个朋友却诬陷我是一个失败者。 |
| 199 | But I kept cracking offers, publishing papers, patents, starting my own company and closed | 但我不断破解报价 发表论文 专利 创办自己的公司 关闭 |
| 200 | it. | 这个 |
| 201 | Learned how business works practically. | 了解了企业的实际运作方式。 |
| 202 | Came for second master's in one of the top universities abroad. | 成为第二名硕士 在国外最好的大学之一。 |
| 203 | Now I'm 29, seeking PhD still, yet people treat me as a failure. | 现在我29岁了,仍然在寻找博士, 但人们却把我当作失败者。 |
| 204 | You know what I feel? | 你知道我的感受吗? |
| 205 | If so many companies, universities believe in my potential, who the fuck are my relatives, | 如果这么多公司,大学相信我的潜力, 谁他妈的是我的亲戚, |
| 206 | society or friends to decide my success or growth? | 社会还是朋友来决定我的成功还是成长? |
| 207 | I know my potential, my parents know it and professors who trust me know it. | 我知道我的潜力,我的父母知道它 和教授谁相信我知道它。 |
| 208 | So the learning here is, do your work and keep on hustling. | 所以,这里的学习是,做你的工作 并保持histling。 |
| 209 | Face backstabbing and failures. | 脸部反扑和失败。 |
| 210 | Know who the real people are in your life and who the foxes are. | 知汝生中真众生及狐狸者. |
| 211 | Build your self-confidence and potential and trust yourself. | 树立自信和潜力,相信自己. |
| 212 | I'm not sure what this is, let me translate it. | 我不知道这是什么 让我翻译一下 |
| 213 | Everyone else is a slut. | 其他人都是荡妇 |
| 214 | Oh what? | 你说什么? |
| 215 | Is that accurate? | 准确吗? |
| 216 | It's Hindi too. | 印地语也. |
| 217 | Is that accurate? | 准确吗? |
| 218 | Shit, I don't even know. | 妈的,我什至不知道。 |
| 219 | But that's funny though. | 不过这很有趣 |
| 220 | Focus on yourself and grow with the people who trust you. | 专心于自己,与信任你的人一起成长. |
| 221 | Wow, dude I'm like low key have like chills. | 哇,伙计,我就像低键 有像寒冷。 |
| 222 | That shit was dude this person should be like an inspirational writer man. | 这家伙应该像个有灵感的作家 |
| 223 | That really gave me chills because I feel like it's so like relatable, | 这真的让我寒冷 因为我觉得这就像 令人反感, |
| 224 | such a relatable thing where you have people like pushing you down. | 这么令人高兴的事情 你的人喜欢推你下去。 |
| 225 | I feel like it's such a relatable theme and like it's something people always want to see. | 我觉得这主题很让人反感 就像人们总想看到一样 |
| 226 | People always want to see the underdog, the person everyone looks down on, casts on that. | 人们总是想看到弱者, 人谁看低, 投在那个。 |
| 227 | People want to see them succeed. | 人们希望看到他们成功。 |
| 228 | Like when you watch a movie, you want the underdog to win against like the big rival, | 就像你看电影的时候 你希望弱者像大对手一样赢 |
| 229 | the one that's undefeated. | 不败者. |
| 230 | You always root for the underdog. | 你总是为弱者着想 |
| 231 | Someone that is not supported by their friends, family, or society. | 一个得不到朋友、家人或社会支持的人。 |
| 232 | Constantly being told they're not enough, but then proving everyone wrong. | 不断有人说他们还不够,但证明每个人都错了。 |
| 233 | Getting scholarships, getting funded, getting masters, getting jobs, | 获得奖学金,获得资助,获得硕士,获得工作, |
| 234 | starting their own company, doing everything. | 成立自己的公司,做一切。 |
| 235 | Realizing that their self-worth isn't based on what the people close to them think. | 认识到他们的自我价值 并不是基于他们亲近的人的想法 |
| 236 | Like their family, relatives, and society. | 就像他们的家人、亲戚和社会 |
| 237 | They never supported them. | 他们从来没有支持过他们。 |
| 238 | So their self-worth should be how they feel about themselves. | 所以他们的自我价值应该是他们对自己的感觉. |
| 239 | Because if a lot of people believe in you, | 因为如果很多人相信你 |
| 240 | but it's just the people that are supposed to be the most supportive that aren't, | 但只有那些应该最支持的人才不会 |
| 241 | then it's not you, it's them. | 那不是你 而是他们 |
| 242 | They are the ones that are jealous of you, | 他们是嫉妒你的人 |
| 243 | that don't want you to succeed and want to keep you down. | 不希望你成功 想要让你失望。 |
| 244 | Oftentimes, like your friends and your family are often the ones that want to keep you down | 时常像你的朋友和家人一样 想压抑你 |
| 245 | because they don't want to see you get above them. | 因为他们不想看到你超越他们 |
| 246 | They're happy if you get to a certain point, | 如果你说到某个地方 他们很快乐 |
| 247 | but they don't want you to go past that or else you'll be better than them. | 但他们不希望你过去 否则你会比他们好 |
| 248 | And they can't let that happen. | 他们不能让这种情况发生。 |
| 249 | And you need to cut people like that out of your life. | 你得把这样的人从你生活中切掉 |
| 250 | Cut them out. | 少来 |
| 251 | You only want people that want you to go all the way, | 你只希望那些希望你走远的人, |
| 252 | all the way, no matter how far, all the way. | 一路走,无论多远,一路走. |
| 253 | Next post, comment by Subash Sankar. | 下一篇文章, |
| 254 | Let me address a couple of assumptions in your question first. | 让我首先谈谈你的问题中的几个假设。 |
| 255 | Assumption one, friends have good jobs. | 假设一,朋友有好工作。 |
| 256 | Maybe they do, perhaps they don't. | 也许他们知道,也许他们不知道。 |
| 257 | I like the way this guy talks, very like intelligent. | 我喜欢这家伙说话的方式 非常聪明 |
| 258 | You never know what's happening in someone's life facts. | 你永远不知道 发生在别人生活中的事 |
| 259 | It is never something they reveal in public. | 这绝不是他们公开揭露的。 |
| 260 | For all you know, they are going to sleep, | 你知道,他们会睡觉, |
| 261 | hoping that they don't have to wake up and get to work if they die. | 希望他们死后不用醒来上班 |
| 262 | So I think he's just saying maybe they actually hate their job | 所以我觉得他只是说 也许他们真的讨厌自己的工作 |
| 263 | and sometimes they go to sleep hoping they won't wake up. | 有时他们睡觉 希望他们不会醒来。 |
| 264 | So then they won't have to go to work | 所以他们不用去上班了 |
| 265 | because just because someone has like this really high paying job | 因为有人有这么高的报酬工作 |
| 266 | with a fancy job title and an office and all this | 职称和办公室 |
| 267 | doesn't mean they like it and they're happy. | 不代表他们喜欢,他们很快乐 |
| 268 | It really does not mean that. | 这不是真的。 |
| 269 | Like I think the amount you get paid and stuff | 就像我认为你得到的薪水和东西 |
| 270 | does not correlate to like quality of life. | 与生活质量无关 |
| 271 | A lot of people in countries that are like less wealthy and economically developed | 很多人在像 不太富裕和经济发达的国家 |
| 272 | have a way better quality of life than people in like really rich countries | 拥有比真正的富裕国家的人更好的生活质量 |
| 273 | like in Europe or the West, assumption two. | 像在欧洲或西方,假设二。 |
| 274 | There is a right career for everyone. | 每个人都有合适的职业 |
| 275 | There isn't. | 没有 |
| 276 | 99% of employees think they would be better off in another job. | 99%的员工认为在另外的工作上会更好. |
| 277 | That's true. | 没错 |
| 278 | The bottom line is that attaching a paycheck to doing something | 底线是把工资加在做一些事情上 |
| 279 | and being reliant on that paycheck is a recipe for depression. | 依赖这种薪水是抑郁症的药方。 |
| 280 | Good or bad, you are in your mid-20s. | 无论好坏,你都在你的20年代中期。 |
| 281 | You are likely to have started something for three to five years. | 你可能已经开始了三到五年。 |
| 282 | You have some experience and it is better to go along even if you hate it. | 你有一些经验 最好继续走 即使你讨厌它。 |
| 283 | If you have started nothing, good news. | 如果你没有开始什么,好消息。 |
| 284 | You are still in your 20s. | 你还在20多岁 |
| 285 | You have time to figure stuff out, but don't. | 你有时间想清楚,但不要 |
| 286 | You don't know half your problems will go away | 你不知道你一半的问题都会消失 |
| 287 | if you stop thinking and start doing at least for a while at little. | 如果你停止思考,开始做 至少一段时间,一点点。 |
| 288 | That is true. | 没错 |
| 289 | A lot of times instead of doing things, people just think about them. | 很多时候,人们不做事情,只考虑他们. |
| 290 | They think, oh, I'm going to do this. | 他们认为,哦,我要做到这一点。 |
| 291 | They think I'm going to do this, this, this, that. | 他们认为我会这样做,这个,这个,那个。 |
| 292 | They think, oh, if I read this book on how to be productive or this self-help book | 他们认为,哦,如果我读这本书 关于如何生产 或者这个自助书 |
| 293 | or if I just read one more book then tomorrow then I'll start it. | 或者如果我再读一本书 那么明天我就开始 |
| 294 | But I just need to read this book or I need to watch this YouTube video | 但我只要看这本书 或者看YouTube的视频 |
| 295 | or I need to do this thing and then tomorrow I'll start doing something. | 或者我需要做这件事 然后明天我会开始做一些事情。 |
| 296 | It feels, I know it feels like reading a book or like doing something | 感觉,我知道这感觉 像看书或做一些事情 |
| 297 | or watching these self-help podcasts or YouTube videos. | 或者观看这些自助播客 或YouTube视频。 |
| 298 | It feels like you're doing something, but you're really not. | 感觉你在做一些事情, 但你真的没有。 |
| 299 | You're more just like kind of making yourself feel like you're doing something, | 你更像是让自己觉得自己在做点什么 |
| 300 | but it's not the same as actually doing something. | 但它并不一样 做一些事情。 |
| 301 | Actually going out and doing something whether that's starting a company, | 其实出去做一些事情 不管这是否要成立公司 |
| 302 | applying for jobs, studying, getting good grades, | 申请工作,学习,获得好成绩, |
| 303 | getting into the school you want, getting into the company you want. | 进入你想要的学校 进入你想要的公司 |
| 304 | The big difference between thinking you're doing something | 认为你在做一些事情之间的巨大区别 |
| 305 | and actually doing something. | 并实际上做一些事情。 |
| 306 | I don't know if you guys catch my drift there. | 我不知道你们能不能理解我的感受 |
| 307 | If you are looking for psychometrics, they are either expensive or least accurate. | 如果你正在寻找心理测量, 它们要么昂贵 要么最不准确。 |
| 308 | I can't help you precisely without knowing your qualifications and career expectations. | 没有你的资历和职业期望 我根本帮不了你 |
| 309 | However, just like me or anyone else, you are going to need money. | 然而,就像我或其他人一样,你需要钱。 |
| 310 | That's very true. | 没错 |
| 311 | You need money no matter what, even if like don't care about anything | 无论怎样,你都需要钱 即使你不在乎任何事 |
| 312 | but you need money or you're going to die unless you could really like live off the land, | 但你需要钱 否则你就要死了 除非你真的喜欢靠土地生活 |
| 313 | which many people can't, then you need money. | 很多人都做不到,你需要钱 |
| 314 | Figure out where the money flows even if it is remotely related to your qualification. | 找出资金的流向 即使它与你的资质有关 |
| 315 | Spend at least a year on employment even if the pay about covers your expenses with little EMI. | 工作费用至少一年,即使有关工资以小额工资支付。 |
| 316 | Any job that can keep money flowing will do. | 任何能维持资金流动的工作都会成功. |
| 317 | Understand the money market and the job market in whatever field. | 了解任何领域的货币市场和就业市场。 |
| 318 | Simple rules of the market. | 简单的市场规则。 |
| 319 | If more people are there for passion, money is less. | 如果有更多的人支持激情 钱就更少了 |
| 320 | If fewer people are there and demand is higher, the pay is higher. | 如果那里的人更少,需求更高,则工资更高. |
| 321 | If your job brings in money and you spend a year or two getting good at it, | 如果你的工作带来钱 并且你花一两年 越来越好, |
| 322 | it's a great job and you become irreplaceable. | 工作很出色 而你变得不可替代 |
| 323 | Good jobs don't exist. | 不错的工作不存在。 |
| 324 | Make your peace with it. | 令其安乐. |
| 325 | Depression is part and parcel of existence. | 抑郁症是生存的一部分。 |
| 326 | The only way to deal with it is to become a machine that works from 9 to 6 | 唯一的办法就是成为9到6的机器 |
| 327 | and a human who does leisure from 6 to 8. | 和6到8岁闲暇的人 |
| 328 | I have taken enough career-orientated courses | 我上过足够的职业课程 |
| 329 | to know that the only way to learn something is to actually do it. | 要知道学东西的唯一方法 就是真正做到这一点。 |
| 330 | That is true. | 没错 |
| 331 | I do agree. | 我同意你的观点 |
| 332 | I find myself really remembering something and learning it if I do it. | 我发现自己真的记得一些事情 如果我这样做,学习它。 |
| 333 | Whether it's like doing a math equation or an exercise or writing a paper or something, | 无论是数学方程式还是练习 或是写论文什么的 |
| 334 | I tend to remember that when I do it. | 我常常记得,当我这样做。 |
| 335 | But if I just read it in a textbook, | 但如果我在教科书上读到 |
| 336 | I'm probably going to forget that as soon as I'm done reading that last word, you know? | 我可能要忘记了 一旦我读完最后一个词,你知道吗? |
| 337 | Go for independent projects and a portfolio using gen AIs rather than courses. | 使用 gen AI 而不是课程来进行独立项目和组合。 |
| 338 | They give you discipline and a portfolio that employers prefer more than certifications. | 他们给了你纪律 和工作组合 雇主更喜欢 而不是认证。 |
| 339 | If you still feel depressed, maybe talk to a therapist or a career counselor. | 如果你还觉得沮丧,也许 与治疗师或职业顾问。 |
| 340 | From experience, I would say nothing worked like getting to depressing work. | 从经验来看,我想说的是,没有什么能比做压抑工作更有效。 |
| 341 | All the best. | 尽一切善根. |
| 342 | This guy, I think he did have some pretty good advice and good experience. | 这家伙,我想他确实有一些 相当好的建议和良好的经验。 |
| 343 | He does seem like a pretty wise person. | 他看起来确实很聪明 |
| 344 | But overall, I would agree. | 但总的来说,我同意。 |
| 345 | Do instead of read or say you're going to do. | 而不是读或说你会做。 |
| 346 | There's a difference between actually doing something and thinking you're doing something. | 实际做一些事情和认为你在做一些事情是不同的. |
| 347 | My current job was reposted online. | 我目前的工作在网上被重新公布。 |
| 348 | Should I be worried? | 我该担心吗? |
| 349 | Yeah, you should start looking for a new job. | 是啊,你应该开始寻找一个新的工作。 |
| 350 | Low key. | 低键. |
| 351 | Because even if they aren't trying to replace you, | 因为即使他们不想取代你 |
| 352 | you could probably get a higher pay somewhere else. | 你可能会得到更高的报酬 其他地方。 |
| 353 | I've been working at a company for a few months. | 我在一家公司工作了几个月 |
| 354 | Recently, I searched for the company and noticed that my exact job title and description were | 最近,我搜索了公司, 发现我确切的职称和描述 |
| 355 | posted a few days ago. | 几天前发的 |
| 356 | No one in my immediate team has left and I haven't received any negative feedback. | 我的直属团队中没有人离开 我没有收到任何负面反馈 |
| 357 | I've been trusted with process improvements and day to day support tasks. | 我被信任在流程的改进 和日常的支持任务。 |
| 358 | My manager has asked a few times if I'm happy and whether I'm enjoying the role. | 我的经理已经问了几次,我是否高兴,以及我是否喜欢这个角色. |
| 359 | I sometimes worry that I may come across as quiet or very focused rather than expressive, | 有时我担心我可能遇到 安静或非常专注 而不是表达, |
| 360 | especially as I'm still learning and finding certain things a bit confusing. | 尤其是我还在学习 发现某些事情有点混乱 |
| 361 | But I haven't been told there are performance concerns. | 但我还没听说有表现问题 |
| 362 | Is it common for companies to auto refresh job postings? | 公司是否通常会自动刷新职位? |
| 363 | Or could this indicate they're planning to replace me or hire additional support? | 或者这是否表明他们计划 取代我或雇用额外的支持? |
| 364 | One thing I think that you should never get too comfortable in a job. | 有件事我觉得你不应该在工作上太舒服 |
| 365 | Genuinely, companies most likely always see you as something replaceable. | 公司很可能会把你当成可以替代的东西 |
| 366 | As soon as they see that they can hire someone else for cheaper or they can use AI or they | 一旦他们看到他们可以雇用别人 更便宜或他们可以使用AI或他们 |
| 367 | can outsource to a lower cost country or anything, they'll do that because at the end of the day, | 可以外包到一个成本较低的国家 或任何东西,他们会做到这一点, 因为最终, |
| 368 | a company is there to make profit and make money for the shareholders. | 公司为股东赚钱和赚钱。 |
| 369 | Even if it's just one shareholder. | 即使只是一股东。 |
| 370 | Yeah, there are the rare companies that has a good owner and the owner just wants to take | 是啊,有一些稀有的公司 有好老板 老板只是想拿 |
| 371 | care of everyone and doesn't really care about making that much money. | 关心每个人,并不真正关心 赚这么多钱。 |
| 372 | But most companies are for profit and want the maximum profit. | 但大多数公司都是为了利润,想要最大的利润. |
| 373 | So if they can replace you for cheaper, they will. | 所以,如果他们能替代你 更便宜,他们会。 |
| 374 | That's why you should never be too comfortable and never be too loyal to a company because | 这就是为什么你不应该太舒服 也不应该对公司太忠诚 因为 |
| 375 | they most likely won't be loyal to you. | 他们很可能不会忠于你 |
| 376 | Always try to keep your options open. | 总是尝试保持您的选项。 |
| 377 | And maybe you have a specific job in mind that you've always really wanted. | 也许你有一份你一直想要的工作 |
| 378 | You can keep your options open and maybe apply for those jobs, have interviews, | 你可以保持你的选项开放, 也许申请这些工作, 面试, |
| 379 | see if you can actually land a role like that while you're still at your current job. | 看看你能不能在现在工作的时候 登上这样的角色 |
| 380 | But that being said, sometimes you do find good employers and good jobs. | 但是说到这里 有时你会找到好雇主和好工作 |
| 381 | And honestly, if you're happy at a job and your employer is good and you've kind of like | 老实说,如果你在工作上很快乐 你的雇主是好的,你喜欢 |
| 382 | and familiarity with your current position. | 并熟悉你目前的处境 |
| 383 | But most like big, big companies, like multinational companies, | 但大多数像大公司,大公司, 像跨国公司, |
| 384 | they really don't care about you. | 他们真的不在乎你 |
| 385 | A lot of these like huge corporations, they don't really care. | 很多人喜欢大公司, 他们并不真正关心。 |
| 386 | You're just another person, another number, and they'll replace you. | 你只是另一个人,另一个号码, 他们会取代你。 |
| 387 | A lot of times, like smaller companies, whether it's like a couple of people, | 很多时候,像小公司, 无论是像几个人, |
| 388 | like five to 10 people or 20 people, they care more about their employees. | 比如5到10人或20人 他们更关心自己的员工 |
| 389 | Instead of like replacing you for someone cheaper, they'll just build you up, | 而不是像取代你 一个更便宜的人, 他们会只是建立你, |
| 390 | train you more to make you a more valuable employee rather than trying to replace you | 训练你更多 让你成为一个更有价值的员工 而不是试图取代你 |
| 391 | the next new batch of fresh graduates. | 接下来一批新毕业生 |
| 392 | So it really depends. | 所以这真的取决于。 |
| 393 | If you do work at like a huge multinational, yeah, I would low key be afraid of this. | 如果你像一个巨大的跨国公司一样工作 我会害怕这个 |
| 394 | But if it's like a small, small company, | 但如果它像一个小公司, |
| 395 | you could just talk to the owner and be like, oh, what's up with this? | 你可以直接跟店主说说,这是怎么回事? |
| 396 | Would you ask your manager directly or just wait and see? | 你会直接问你的经理 还是等着瞧? |
| 397 | I would ask my manager directly. | 我会直接问我的经理 |
| 398 | I'd be like, oh, what's this? | 我想,哦,这是什么? |
| 399 | Should I be worried? | 我该担心吗? |
| 400 | Should I try to look for a new job? | 我应该找份新工作吗? |
| 401 | Like, I'm not trying to be blindsided here. | 喜欢,我不是试图 在这里盲目。 |
| 402 | So yeah, should I also step up my game and act extra happy or engaged? | 所以,是的,我也应该 加大我的游戏 表现额外的快乐或订婚? |
| 403 | I just find it a bit confusing why they keep checking up on me. | 我只是觉得有点困惑 他们为什么一直在查我 |
| 404 | By the sounds of it, since you're already worried about it, | 听起来你已经很担心了 |
| 405 | I think there's no really harm in trying to look for a new job anyways, | 我觉得找份新工作没什么不好的 |
| 406 | because the worst that can happen is you lose your job at this current company, | 因为最糟糕的情况是你失去了现在公司的工作 |
| 407 | but you're been looking for a new job anyway. | 但你还是在找新工作 |
| 408 | So it's going to be faster to get a new job. | 因此,获得新工作的速度会更快. |
| 409 | And the best case scenario is you find a new job that pays higher | 最好的情况是你找到一份报酬更高的新工作 |
| 410 | and then you just go to that job, right? | 然后,你只是去那个工作,对不对? |
| 411 | Sixth post. | 第六邮报. |
| 412 | Hey, did you see that? | 你看到了吗? |
| 413 | Sent you a quick message. | 给你发了个快讯 |
| 414 | I'm guessing you aren't going to do it. | 我猜你不会这么做的 |
| 415 | Can't at least say that. | 至少不能这么说 |
| 416 | Hi, blank. | 嗨,空荡荡的。 |
| 417 | Generally, I decline any sort of automated coding | 一般来说,我拒绝任何自动编码 |
| 418 | or aptitude exams prior to in-person interviews. | 或在亲自面试前进行能力考试。 |
| 419 | I find that they do a very poor job of assessing the real skills | 我发现他们在评估真正的技能方面做得很差 |
| 420 | required for development positions, especially senior roles, | 发展职位,特别是高级职务 |
| 421 | where work is more often defined by understanding business needs | 更经常通过理解企业需要来界定工作 |
| 422 | and design trade-offs than implementing a heap sort. | 和设计权衡 而不是执行一个堆。 |
| 423 | If blank would like to schedule an initial call, I'm open to that. | 如果空的想安排一个初始电话 我愿意接受 |
| 424 | There's no chance you realistically think I'm going to vouch on your behalf | 你不会真以为我会代表你担保吧? |
| 425 | for my client when you're left me on read for five days on this, right? | 你离开我读了5天的书给我的客户看,对吧? |
| 426 | Up to you. | 由你决定 |
| 427 | I have no incentive to spend unpaid time on a quiz | 我可没兴趣在考试上花点时间 |
| 428 | that has almost nothing to do with the responsibilities | 这几乎与责任无关 |
| 429 | of a role for a company that hasn't even spoken to me. | 一个连我都没说过话的公司的角色 |
| 430 | I have a job and my time is not free. | 我有一个工作,我的时间是不自由的。 |
| 431 | I respect this and the way this guy talks, | 我尊重他说话的方式 |
| 432 | it sounds like he's an older person, probably middle-aged. | 听起来他是个老人 可能是中年人 |
| 433 | He's been in the industry a lot. | 他经常从事这个行业. |
| 434 | He has a lot of experience and he knows not to take like bullshit from anyone. | 他有很多经验,他知道不要像对待任何人一样胡说八道。 |
| 435 | Yeah, people will always want you to like do this, do that, do that. | 是啊,人们总是希望 你喜欢这样做,做到这一点,做到这一点。 |
| 436 | It's like my time is valuable. | 好像我的时间很宝贵 |
| 437 | If you want me to do it, pay me for it. | 如果你想要我做 就付钱给我 |
| 438 | I don't think this is valuable for these reasons. | 我认为这是没有价值的 出于这些原因。 |
| 439 | And yeah, if you're not okay with it, well, I already have a job. | 如果你不同意的话 我已经有工作了 |
| 440 | I do respect that, but I also think he's able to do that because he has a job. | 我尊重他,但我也认为他能够做到这一点 因为他有工作。 |
| 441 | Seventh post, I'm done. | 第七位,我结束了。 |
| 442 | I'm going to be honest. | 我今当诚实. |
| 443 | I'm officially done. | 我正式结束了。 |
| 444 | I can't do this anymore. | 我不能再这样下去了 |
| 445 | I'm so tired of the scams, the rejections, the coffee chats, the ghosting, | 我厌倦了骗局 排斥 咖啡聊天 鬼魂 |
| 446 | the saying you're going to help and then not, the applying, the show off my work, all of it. | 说你会帮助,然后不, 申请,炫耀我的工作,这一切。 |
| 447 | Every day for the last two years, I have been trying. | 过去两年里,我每天都在努力。 |
| 448 | All I could do is get unpaid work that I take on because it's something, | 我所能做的就是得到无报酬的工作, 我承担了,因为这是一个东西, |
| 449 | but I can't keep doing this. | 但我不能再这样下去了 |
| 450 | So I'm done. | 我受够了 |
| 451 | Maybe I'll try again in the future. | 也许我将来会再试一次 |
| 452 | But for now, I don't want to participate in the game | 但是现在我不想参加比赛 |
| 453 | that is making me lose hair and keep me up at night. | 这让我失去头发 并保持我晚上。 |
| 454 | This is honestly like sad. | 这真的像悲伤。 |
| 455 | You can hear in the tone and the way this person is talking is | 你可以听到的语气和他说话的方式 |
| 456 | they are genuinely like so tired and so done. | 他们真的像 如此疲惫和做。 |
| 457 | And it's really sad to see someone give up, | 看到有人放弃真可悲 |
| 458 | especially after trying every single day for two years | 特别是两年来每天试一次 |
| 459 | and then just giving up. | 然后放弃 |
| 460 | It doesn't even matter, not even looking for jobs, | 这甚至不重要, 甚至找工作, |
| 461 | but maybe starting a company or trying something new | 但也许成立公司 或者尝试一些新的 |
| 462 | and they fail, fail, fail, fail. | 他们失败,失败,失败,失败。 |
| 463 | And then they succeed and then they finally succeed. | 然后他们成功,然后他们终于成功。 |
| 464 | Personally, I think you should never, ever give up. | 就个人而言,我认为你不应该,永远放弃。 |
| 465 | No matter how long you've been trying, | 不管你尝试了多久 |
| 466 | no matter how defeated you feel, | 无论你是多么的失败, |
| 467 | just try to take a step back maybe for a couple of days or a couple of weeks. | 试着往后退一步 也许几天或几周 |
| 468 | Clear your head, look at what you've been doing | 清空你的头,看看你一直在做什么 |
| 469 | and see how you can do something different. | 看看你如何能做点别的 |
| 470 | Because if you've been doing the same thing every single day for two years | 因为如果你两年来每天都做同样的事情 |
| 471 | and it hasn't worked, then maybe change up what you're doing | 但它没有发挥作用, 然后也许改变你在做什么 |
| 472 | and try something different. | 并尝试不同的东西。 |
| 473 | Eighth story. | 第八说法. |
| 474 | I feel like a failure. | 我觉得自己是个失败者。 |
| 475 | No work experience, only a master's, | 没有工作经验,只有硕士 |
| 476 | and still no job after 10 months past graduation. | 毕业10个月后仍然没有工作 |
| 477 | I graduated in May last year, 2025, | 去年5月毕业,2025年, |
| 478 | and have been looking for jobs since. | 从那时起一直在寻找工作 |
| 479 | Nothing and stuck living with my parents. | 什么都没有,并困住 与我的父母。 |
| 480 | I couldn't even work as an intern during my master's in HCI. | 我甚至不能做实习生 在我主修HCI期间 |
| 481 | Let me see where that is. | 让我看看它在哪里。 |
| 482 | Human Computing International. | 人类计算国际. |
| 483 | Human Computing Interaction. | 人类计算互动. |
| 484 | Because that market was that limited. | 因为市场是那么有限。 |
| 485 | Yeah, sounds limited. | 是啊,听起来有限。 |
| 486 | I've never heard of that. | 我从来没有听说过。 |
| 487 | Now I have nothing and on top of this, | 现在我一无所有,而且, |
| 488 | being gaslit by my entire family that I'm a failure. | 被我全家打气说我是个失败者 |
| 489 | Oh wow. | 哦,哇呜。 |
| 490 | That's something I'll never understand because me personally, | 这是我永远无法理解的 因为我个人 |
| 491 | I know I'm lucky so I'm not trying to like flex or anything, | 我知道我很幸运 所以我不想喜欢弹性什么的 |
| 492 | but my family has never like made me feel like a failure, | 但我的家人从来没有喜欢 使我感到失败, |
| 493 | put pressure on me because I couldn't find a job | 压住我 因为我找不到工作 |
| 494 | or I didn't do good at something. | 或者我做错什么了 |
| 495 | It was always just like support and like you can do better or you can try this. | 它总是就像支持, 喜欢你可以做的更好 或者你可以尝试这个。 |
| 496 | And it's just like support rather than bringing you down by saying you're a failure. | 这就像支持 而不是让你失望 通过说你是一个失败。 |
| 497 | That really does not help. | 这真的帮不上忙。 |
| 498 | If anything, it makes everything worse. | 如果有什么,它让一切更糟。 |
| 499 | Always be supportive to the people around you. | 永远支持你身边的人 |
| 500 | I'm trying more practical approaches like networking on LinkedIn, | 我在尝试更实用的方法 比如在LinkedIn上联网 |
| 501 | working part-time in retail, | 从事零售业兼职, |
| 502 | which I am particular about and limiting to a few companies | 我特别关心和限制少数公司 |
| 503 | as it's not my long-term field. | 因为它不是我的长期领域。 |
| 504 | Something else my family doesn't like though, | 我家人不喜欢的东西 |
| 505 | they don't mind me working in retail. | 他们不介意我在零售业工作 |
| 506 | But my brother said that's not enough and because I have nothing, | 但我哥哥说这还不够 因为我一无所有 |
| 507 | I am at a low position to bother about working the right job | 我身处低位,想找工作 |
| 508 | and networking with professionals on LinkedIn. | 并与专业人员建立链接网。 |
| 509 | Not saying I'm expecting my dream job, | 不是说我在等待我的梦想工作 |
| 510 | just a job in my field UX ideally, | 只是我领域的一个工作 UX理想, |
| 511 | or at least some job that pays well, | 或至少有些工作 报酬不错, |
| 512 | or if in retail pays me at all and isn't toxic to work in. | 或者,如果在零售 付我所有 并且没有有毒工作。 |
| 513 | I am neurodivergent as well. | 我也是神经分裂者 |
| 514 | Even then in UX, I've applied to almost every position available. | 即使在UX,我已经申请了 几乎所有的职位。 |
| 515 | My brother and father then say I should go to every business in person every day | 我哥哥和爸爸说,我应该每天亲自去所有生意 |
| 516 | and ask companies to even do freelance since I have nothing. | 并要求公司甚至做自由职业 因为我什么都没有。 |
| 517 | Take the heat if they reject me, which most likely they will. | 如果他们拒绝我,就拿热, 他们很可能会这样做。 |
| 518 | Not against freelancing, just the approach, | 不反对自由舞, 只是方法, |
| 519 | but still open to it once I get a retail job. | 但只要我找到零售工作 仍然可以接受 |
| 520 | Even then my family says I'm dumb for not considering that on my own | 连我家人都说我傻了,因为没有自己考虑 |
| 521 | and no matter what I've tried already, | 不管我已经试过什么 |
| 522 | applications, referrals, nothing has worked. | 申请,转介,没有效果。 |
| 523 | I'm still a failure to them. | 我对他们来说还是个失败者 |
| 524 | I don't know what to do at this point. | 此时不知所措. |
| 525 | This is a toxic family environment. | 这是一个有毒的家庭环境。 |
| 526 | Really any environment where people are bringing you down | 真正的任何环境 人们正在把你降下来 |
| 527 | and calling you failure is toxic | 叫你失败是有毒的 |
| 528 | and I feel like it hurts even more if it's your family | 如果是你家人,我更伤心 |
| 529 | because your family really should be the one people | 因为你的家人应该是一个人 |
| 530 | or the one group of people in the whole world | 或全世界一个群体 |
| 531 | support you unconditionally, no matter what. | 不管怎样 无条件支持你 |
| 532 | Always support you, always push you up, always have your back. | 总是支持你,总是推你,总是有你的背。 |
| 533 | But when they are the people that are bringing you down | 但当他们把你降下来的时候 |
| 534 | and calling you a failure and all this, | 并称你是一个失败和这一切, |
| 535 | then I feel like that hurts deeper than if anyone else said it. | 那么我觉得这比别人说的更痛苦 |
| 536 | It's your family. | 这是你的家人。 |
| 537 | It's like they're the people that are the closest to you | 好像他们是最接近你的人 |
| 538 | and mean the most to you and they're the ones bringing you down. | 对你来说最重要 也是他们把你弄下来的 |
| 539 | No one should really ever feel like that, honestly. | 老实说,任何人都不应该有这样的感觉。 |
| 540 | That's really sad. | 这真的很可悲。 |
| 541 | That's all the stories for today. | 这就是今天的所有故事。 |
| 542 | Let me know what you guys thought about this topic, | 通知我你们对这个话题的看法 |
| 543 | the unemployment, trying to find a job, | 失业,试图找到工作, |
| 544 | and listening to other people's stories that are also struggling. | 并听别人的故事 也在挣扎。 |
| 545 | Did these help you? | 这些能帮你吗? |
| 546 | Did these kind of give you motivation | 这有给你动力吗? |
| 547 | or maybe any ideas on how to try different? | 或者有什么想法 如何尝试不同的? |
| 548 | Or maybe it just helped you feel more seen | 砛琌琵稰谋 |
| 549 | because other people are also in a similar situation | 因为其他人也处于类似的情况 |
| 550 | going through the same thing every day. | 每天都在经历同样的事情。 |
| 551 | Let me know, guys, and also let me know if you want me | 通知我,伙计们,如果你想我,也通知我 |
| 552 | to do more on this topic of unemployment, new grads, | 在失业、新毕业、 |
| 553 | trying to just navigate the world, find a job, | 试着环游世界 找到工作 |
| 554 | {\fn黑体\fs20\shad2\2aH82\3aH20\4aH33\fscx95\3cH592001\be1}当大家都在雇人的时候 | |
| 555 | but no one's hiring at the same time. | 但没有人同时雇用。 |
| 556 | Everyone has a job posting but no one is hiring | 人人都有工作,但没人雇 |
| 557 | and it feels like everyone is just targeting you. | 感觉每个人都在针对你 |
| 558 | They don't want to hire you but you see all your friends, | 他们不想雇你 但你看到了你的朋友 |
| 559 | everyone around you getting jobs, doing all this stuff, | 你们周围的人都找工作 做这些事 |
| 560 | but then you just feel stagnant. | 但你只是觉得停滞不前。 |
| 561 | Anyways, guys, I'll see you in the next video. | 总之,伙计们,下次见 |
| 562 | Remember to subscribe, like, and comment. | 记住,像,和评论。 |
| 563 | Bye, guys. | 再见,伙计们。 |
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