我老公试图解释：为什么出轨“不算出轨”
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| 0:00 | My husband has informed me he intends to go on a gaycation with his brother-in-law in Ibiza. | 我丈夫已经告诉我 他打算和伊比萨的姐夫去同性恋 |
| 0:06 | How do I handle this? | 我怎么处理? |
| 0:07 | First of all, gaycation. | 首先,同性恋。 |
| 0:09 | I'm not going to jump to conclusions or make any assumptions, | 我不会马上做出结论或假设 |
| 0:11 | but a gaycation sounds like a vacation for gay people. | 但同性恋听起来像是同性恋的假期 |
| 0:15 | And your husband is going with your brother- | 你丈夫要跟你哥哥去... |
| 0:18 | with his brother-in-law. | 与弟-. |
| 0:19 | Isn't your husband's brother-in-law your brother? | 你丈夫的姐夫不是你哥哥吗? |
| 0:21 | Or what? | 还是什么? |
| 0:21 | How do I handle this? | 我怎么处理? |
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| 1 | My husband has informed me he intends to go on a gaycation with his brother-in-law in Ibiza. | 我丈夫已经告诉我 他打算和伊比萨的姐夫去同性恋 |
| 2 | How do I handle this? | 我怎么处理? |
| 3 | First of all, gaycation. | 首先,同性恋。 |
| 4 | I'm not going to jump to conclusions or make any assumptions, | 我不会马上做出结论或假设 |
| 5 | but a gaycation sounds like a vacation for gay people. | 但同性恋听起来像是同性恋的假期 |
| 6 | And your husband is going with your brother- | 你丈夫要跟你哥哥去... |
| 7 | with his brother-in-law. | 与弟-. |
| 8 | Isn't your husband's brother-in-law your brother? | 你丈夫的姐夫不是你哥哥吗? |
| 9 | Or what? | 还是什么? |
| 10 | How do I handle this? | 我怎么处理? |
| 11 | First of all, is your husband gay? | 首先 你丈夫是同性恋吗? |
| 12 | Because bro, no one just goes on a gaycation. | 因为兄弟,没有人只是去同性恋。 |
| 13 | Hi there, I really wish I didn't have to make this post, but here goes. | 你好,我真的希望我没有 做这个职位,但这里去。 |
| 14 | So me and my husband have been happily married for about 16 years, give or take. | 因此我和我丈夫 结婚约16年了, 互不相舍。 |
| 15 | 16 years is a long time, but I mean, it makes sense. | 16年是很长的时间,但我的意思是,这是有道理的。 |
| 16 | They're like 42 years old. | 他们像42岁。 |
| 17 | We both have stable careers, good family life, and are fairly fortunate, | 我们都有稳定的事业,良好的家庭生活, 很幸运, |
| 18 | despite the cost of living racking the UK right now. | 尽管现在英国的生活费用很高 |
| 19 | Okay, honestly, this is starting to make a lot more sense. | 好吧,说实话,这开始 更有意义。 |
| 20 | They are British, and he's going on a gaycation to Ibiza. | 他们是英国人,他要去伊比萨 |
| 21 | It's starting to align more. | 它开始更加对齐。 |
| 22 | We have two boys, 15 and 10, and up until his- | 我们有两个男孩,15和10, 直到他... |
| 23 | and up until this Sunday, thought we had it pretty good. | 一直到这个星期天 都觉得我们玩得很开心 |
| 24 | Yo, actually, I don't know why this story just recently reminded me. | 哟,实际上,我不知道为什么这个故事 只是提醒了我。 |
| 25 | I remember seeing this podcast of this guy that's like secretly gay, | 我记得我见过一个播客 这个家伙像秘密的同性恋, |
| 26 | and his wife didn't know. | 他的妻子却不知道。 |
| 27 | Like I was listening to the podcast because he was like calling anonymously | 就像我在听播客 因为他喜欢匿名打电话 |
| 28 | into this podcast, I guess, and they were interviewing him. | 我猜他们正在采访这个播客 |
| 29 | And this guy said he would like have intercourse with like multiple men a day, | 这家伙说他想每天和多个男人做爱 |
| 30 | sometimes even eight men, and it would be every single week. | 有时候甚至有八个人 每周都会有 |
| 31 | He would just have intercourse, cheat on his wife so much. | 他只会做爱 欺骗他老婆 |
| 32 | He had kids, he had like a great house. | 他有孩子,他的房子不错 |
| 33 | He was like, he seemed like a real macho man, all this stuff. | 他就像,他看起来像一个真正的男子汉, 所有这些东西。 |
| 34 | But he would be sleeping with dudes up to 8, 10 a day, | 但他会和男人上床 每天8,10, |
| 35 | multiple throughout the week, all the time. | 整个星期,所有的时间。 |
| 36 | And it was really like- | 这就像... |
| 37 | I think it was one of the most shocking things I've ever heard. | 我觉得那是我听过最令人震惊的事之一 |
| 38 | Bro, go watch that after this video. | 哥哥,看完这段录像就去吧 |
| 39 | It was crazy, it was crazy. | 太疯狂了 太疯狂了 |
| 40 | We argue sometimes, of course, but never gotten too bad. | 我们有时会争吵,当然, 但从来没有变得太糟糕。 |
| 41 | And we have a pretty decent sex life with some exploration, | 我们有一个相当体面的性生活 与一些探索, |
| 42 | but I won't get into that. | 但我不会进去的 |
| 43 | I'm curious if he's asked you to peg him. | 我好奇他有没有叫你把他绑起来 |
| 44 | Long and short is on Sunday, just after I dropped our boys off at their friends, | 长而短是星期天, 就在我把我们的男孩 离开他们的朋友, |
| 45 | my husband asked me if we had the house alone. | 我丈夫问我 房子是否单独存在 |
| 46 | And more importantly, do I have a minute? | 更重要的是,我有时间吗? |
| 47 | I said yes, and he sat me down, | 我说是的 他让我坐下来 |
| 48 | then got out his printed poster for some sort of orgy | 然后拿出他的印刷海报 某种狂欢 |
| 49 | and started explaining to me the concept of a gaycation. | 并开始向我解释同性恋的概念。 |
| 50 | How it's where straight men go to somewhere with sun, sand and booze | 如何是直人去的地方 有太阳,沙子和酒 |
| 51 | and become gay. | 成为同性恋。 |
| 52 | What the f- | 这... |
| 53 | This is actually really interesting, and this is a long story. | 这其实是很有趣的, 说来话长。 |
| 54 | This whole video is just this one story, so strap in, dude. | 这整个视频只是一个故事, 所以绑在,伙计。 |
| 55 | 将作野 wild. | |
| 56 | And become gay for the duration of the trip. | 并在旅途中成为同性恋. |
| 57 | But that's fine because it doesn't actually count | 但没关系,因为实际上不算 |
| 58 | because what happens on gaycation stays on gaycation. | 因为在同性恋上发生的事情 总是发生在同性恋上 |
| 59 | That's like a direct quote from him. | 这就像一个直接引用 从他。 |
| 60 | What the hell? | 什么情况? |
| 61 | I was just completely silent and mortified. | 我只是完全沉默和痛苦。 |
| 62 | Even more so when he said he was looking into booking a trip to Ibiza | 更是这样,当他说他打算 预订一次去伊比萨的旅行 |
| 63 | next year with his brother-in-law, his sister's husband, | 明年和他姐夫,他姐姐的丈夫, |
| 64 | to experience it for himself. | 亲身体验 |
| 65 | Okay, his sister's husband. | 好吧,他姐姐的丈夫。 |
| 66 | When he finally let me speak, I just said, | 当他终于让我说话时 我只是说 |
| 67 | I need him to be clear with me. | 我需要他跟我讲清楚 |
| 68 | Is he gay? | 他是同性恋吗? |
| 69 | Because if yes, that's okay. | 因为如果是,那没关系。 |
| 70 | But we need to figure out what happens going forward. | 但我们需要弄清楚接下来会发生什么。 |
| 71 | I didn't let myself get angry or upset. | 我没有让自己生气或不安。 |
| 72 | I was just stunned. | 我被吓坏了。 |
| 73 | He swore up and down he's not gay. | 他上下发誓他不是同性恋 |
| 74 | And he's 100% attracted to women. | 他100%的被女人吸引。 |
| 75 | And of course, still loves me and our boys. | 当然,还爱我和我们的孩子。 |
| 76 | So I said, well, do you think you're bi maybe? | 所以我说,好吧, 你觉得你可能是双人? |
| 77 | And he got very defensive, saying how I need to drop the accusations | 他非常防守 说我需要放弃指控 |
| 78 | and that this is the beauty of the gaycation. | 这就是同性恋的美 |
| 79 | It allows straight men to experience gayness without actually being gay | 它允许直男体验同性恋 而不是真正的同性恋 |
| 80 | and how it's like going to an aquarium. | 还有去水族馆的滋味 |
| 81 | Stop the cap. | 停止盖。 |
| 82 | And again, he was adamant. | 再说一遍,他很执着 |
| 83 | He doesn't find men's bodies or genitalia exciting at all. | 他不觉得男人的身体或生殖器令人兴奋 |
| 84 | But he needs to experience this apparently. | 但他显然需要经历这个 |
| 85 | I said, well, I'm not really comfortable because even if he was bi, | 我说 我不太舒服 因为即使他是双胞胎 |
| 86 | this would be explicitly cheating on me. | 这显然是在欺骗我 |
| 87 | And he got angry and reiterated he's not | 他生气了,重申他不是 |
| 88 | because that's the beauty of the gaycation, etc. | 因为这是同性恋的美,等等。 |
| 89 | I just had enough and left the room. | 我只是受够了,离开了房间。 |
| 90 | Dude, this just sounds like some like pyramid scheme marketing pit. | 伙计 这听起来就像金字塔计划营销坑 |
| 91 | That's the beauty of it. | 这就是它的美丽。 |
| 92 | You can go do whatever, but it doesn't count. | 你可以去做什么,但这并不重要。 |
| 93 | And actually recently this post from like this wellness clinic | 其实最近这个帖子是像这个健康诊所 |
| 94 | or something in Brazil that is offering body count reset procedures. | 或在巴西提供身体计数程序的东西。 |
| 95 | It's like some voodoo shaman stuff where they like throw like some | 这就像一些巫术沙曼的东西 他们喜欢扔的地方像一些 |
| 96 | leaves on you like burn some stuff and they're like your body count is now zero. | 你身上的叶子就像烧一些东西 它们就像你的身体计数是零 |
| 97 | What? | 你说什么? |
| 98 | Scientifically, that's not how it works. | 在科学上,这不是它的工作方式。 |
| 99 | It's giving the same vibe like, oh, it also costs a thousand US dollars for that. | 也花了一千美元。 |
| 100 | A thousand US dollars, which honestly, I feel like it's pretty cheap. | 一千美元,老实说,我觉得很便宜 |
| 101 | If I was going to charge someone body count reset, ten grand minimum. | 如果我要向某个人收取重置费 至少一万 |
| 102 | I ignored him for the rest of the day. | 余日不理他处. |
| 103 | But we spoke at tea where I again asked him, why does he want to do this so bad? | 但是在茶会上我又问他 为什么他要这样 |
| 104 | If he's not gay, I was like just confused. | 如果他不是同性恋,我就像只是困惑。 |
| 105 | They spoke at tea and I'm like, oh, wait, they're British. | 他们在茶上说话,我说,哦,等等,他们是英国人。 |
| 106 | This is weird because I might be a shocker, but as a straight man myself, | 这很奇怪,因为我可能是一个震惊, 但作为一个直人自己, |
| 107 | I would never ever consider a gaycation as something like, oh, wow, let's go. | 我永远不会把同性恋当成是,哦,哇,我们走吧。 |
| 108 | Like I know what I'm attracted to and stuff | 就像我知道自己喜欢什么一样 |
| 109 | and I know what I'm not attracted to and I wouldn't do it just for the beauty of the gaycation. | 我知道自己对什么不感兴趣 也不只是为了同性恋的美 |
| 110 | So this guy is minimum at minimum by | 这家伙起码是最少的 |
| 111 | or he's in the closet, which would make him gay. | 或者他在衣柜里 那会让他变成同性恋 |
| 112 | He said he's interested in how gay's men lives differ to straight men's | 他说他很关心同性恋的 生活与直系男性的不同 |
| 113 | and that's unfortunately, once the gaycation begins, it's simply impossible for a man to resist | 可惜的是,一旦同性恋开始 一个人根本无法抗拒 |
| 114 | and he must surrender himself, mind, body and soul to the gaycation or be destroyed. | 他必须把自己、心灵、肉体和灵魂 交给同性恋或被毁灭 |
| 115 | I really can't put it into words how surreal it was | 我真的不能把它在言语中 如何超现实 |
| 116 | because he was speaking so matter-of-factly and he again insists | 因为他说得如此实事求是 他再次坚持 |
| 117 | and he again insists that this is a thing straight men do all the time | 他再次坚持说这是直男常做的事 |
| 118 | and how he's actually doing it a bit late. | 和如何他实际上做的 有点晚了。 |
| 119 | I just told him that if he has any love for me, then he can't go ahead with this | 我只是告诉他,如果他有任何 爱我,那么他不能继续这个 |
| 120 | and if he does, the marriage will be dead. | 如果他这样做, 婚姻会死。 |
| 121 | As you should, bro, this is not even like, | 你应该的 兄弟 这根本不像 |
| 122 | it's not even unreasonable on your part or anything. | 这对你来说甚至不是不合理的。 |
| 123 | This is like the bare minimum, bro. | 这就像最低的,兄弟。 |
| 124 | You do this, we're done. | 你这样做,我们结束了。 |
| 125 | No arguing, no fussing, no begging him, no saying, please, let's try to compromise. | 不要争吵,不要大惊小怪,不要求他, 不要说,请,让我们尝试妥协。 |
| 126 | You do this, we're done. | 你这样做,我们结束了。 |
| 127 | Simple, dude, simple. | 很简单,伙计,很简单 |
| 128 | He didn't speak anymore after that. | 此后他不再说话. |
| 129 | Since then, he's mentioned no more of it, but somehow, | 从那以后,他再也没提过,但不知怎么的, |
| 130 | and this is what scares me a lot too, | 这也是我非常害怕的原因 |
| 131 | that decision genuinely seems to be tearing him up. | 那决定真的让他心碎了 |
| 132 | He didn't go into work on Monday and only went in half a day yesterday | 他星期一没去上班,昨天才去了半天 |
| 133 | because he told me he just felt too ill | 因为他告诉我,他只是觉得不舒服 |
| 134 | and he just looks distraught every time I see him. | 每次我见到他 他看起来都很不爽 |
| 135 | Yeah, he's definitely, he's trying to guilt trip you. | 是啊,他肯定,他试图 内疚绊倒你。 |
| 136 | Dude, do not fall for this, do not waver, do not think, | 老兄,不要爱上这个, 不要动摇,不要想, |
| 137 | maybe it won't be too bad. | 也许不会太糟 |
| 138 | Dude, it's cheating. | 老兄,这是作弊。 |
| 139 | It's cheating and your husband is closeted. | 这是欺骗,你的丈夫关闭。 |
| 140 | Even if he doesn't go, | 就算他不走,我也不会去 |
| 141 | is your marriage ever going to be the same as your relationship going to be the same after this? | 你们的婚姻会跟你的关系一样吗? |
| 142 | So you probably need therapy and you have kids, | 所以你可能需要治疗 和你有孩子, |
| 143 | so I'm sure you don't want to just leave your kids | 所以,我敢肯定,你不想 离开你的孩子 |
| 144 | and cause them to live in like a separated household, you know? | 让他们像离散的家庭一样生活 |
| 145 | I really don't think he's wholly gay though. | 我真的不认为他是完全同性恋。 |
| 146 | I can absolutely believe he's bi, | 我绝对相信他是双胞胎 |
| 147 | but I'd rather have talked about that in a healthy way | 但我宁愿以健康的方式谈这个 |
| 148 | rather than this incredibly weird denialism around going on a sex holiday to Ibiza. | 而不是这种令人难以置信的怪异的否认主义 围绕着去伊比萨的性节日。 |
| 149 | Has anyone known straight guys to do this and come back and just go back to being straight? | 有没有人知道直男会这么做 回来做直男? |
| 150 | Like surely that can't be a thing that happens. | 肯定不会发生这种事 |
| 151 | It's cheating, even if you're okay with like him being bi or gay or whatever, | 这是作弊,即使你同意 像他做双,同性恋或什么的, |
| 152 | it's your choice. | 这是你的选择。 |
| 153 | It's still cheating. | 还作弊. |
| 154 | Are you okay with your husband cheating? | 你丈夫出轨了没? |
| 155 | Even though what happened on vacation stays in vacation? | 尽管在度假时发生的事 留在度假? |
| 156 | Come on, dude. | 来吧,伙计。 |
| 157 | I'm so out of my depth here | 我太离谱了 |
| 158 | and I just don't know how to even initiate the conversation. | 我只是不知道如何启动谈话。 |
| 159 | For the record, I also haven't mentioned it to his sister yet. | 我还没跟他姐姐提过 |
| 160 | I don't know how I'd even break it to her. | 我甚至不知道该怎么跟她分手 |
| 161 | Thanks for any help. | 谢谢你的帮助 |
| 162 | Oh yeah, cause the sister's husband is also going. | 哦,是的,因为妹妹的丈夫也是去。 |
| 163 | Thanks for any help. | 谢谢你的帮助 |
| 164 | I just don't even want to think so. | 我只是不想这样想 |
| 165 | Being able to get this out there has helped even just a little bit. | 能够把这个弄出来 已经帮助了一点点。 |
| 166 | Edit. | 编辑。 |
| 167 | This has been incredibly sobering | 这真是令人难以置信的清醒 |
| 168 | and I think I've now confirmed what I already knew to be the case. | 我想我已经证实了 我已经知道的情况。 |
| 169 | The marriage is dead one way or another. | 婚姻是死路一条。 |
| 170 | And anyway, I was in denial myself about that. | 无论如何,我一直否认这一点。 |
| 171 | I have contacted my sister-in-law and she initially screamed at me, | 我联系了我的嫂子 她最初对我大叫 |
| 172 | called me a liar and even insinuated I was trying to steal her husband. | 说我是骗子,甚至暗示我是想偷她丈夫 |
| 173 | She rang me back shortly after, | 她打给我不久后, |
| 174 | apologized and admitted she was in deep, deep shock. | 道歉,并承认她陷入了深深的震惊之中. |
| 175 | That's one thing. | 这是一件事。 |
| 176 | Why blame the messenger? | 为什么怪信使? |
| 177 | I understand. | 我理解,我懂你说什么 |
| 178 | I understand the messenger could lie, | 我知道信使会说谎 |
| 179 | could try to be breaking you apart and all this. | 可能会把你打碎 |
| 180 | But instead of just blaming, just listen to what they have to say. | 但不只是责备,只是听他们说的话。 |
| 181 | Take any information or any proof, write it down, | 获取任何信息或任何证据,写下来, |
| 182 | and then go and fact check it, confront the person and see. | 然后去检查一下 面对那个人看看 |
| 183 | Cause if they're not lying, then you should be thankful to them. | 因为如果他们没撒谎 那你应该感谢他们 |
| 184 | And if you are lying, it's easily checkable. | 如果你在撒谎 很容易被检查 |
| 185 | You could just go check in and stuff, you know. | 你可以去检查和东西,你知道的。 |
| 186 | I've asked my parents to look after the boys | 我让我父母照顾孩子 |
| 187 | and we're going to meet tomorrow to discuss this deeper. | 我们明天再见面 深入讨论这个问题 |
| 188 | I've also texted my husband and told him | 我还发短信给我老公 告诉他 |
| 189 | he will need to make an alternative accommodation arrangements, | 他需要另择住所安排, |
| 190 | but he will not be sleeping here tonight | 但他今晚不会睡在这里 |
| 191 | and a bag will be waiting for him. | 一个袋子会等着他 |
| 192 | Not sure if the mods want to log the post or not, | 不知道Mods是否想要登录该帖子, |
| 193 | but I think I've got my answers. | 但我想我已经得到了我的答案。 |
| 194 | Thank you for all the kind words, | 谢谢你所说的客气话 |
| 195 | especially Champion Fight, | 尤其是冠军格斗, |
| 196 | who really gave me the good dose of reality I needed. | 他们给了我我需要的现实 |
| 197 | So a lot of people asking about the aquarium | 所以很多人问水族馆的事 |
| 198 | and at risk of doxing myself, | 并冒着给自己下毒的危险, |
| 199 | there is a pretty famous aquarium in the UK called The Deep. | 英国有个相当著名的水族馆叫"深渊" |
| 200 | At the very end, you walk through the tunnel that goes underneath | 在最后,你走过 隧道下方 |
| 201 | the main fish tank, so it's quite immersive, I suppose. | 主要的鱼缸, 所以它是相当浸润, 我想。 |
| 202 | My husband explained the aquarium thing | 我丈夫解释了水族馆的事 |
| 203 | in that it's a bit like that. | 有点像 |
| 204 | You go there, you observe the fishes, | 你去那里,你观察鱼, |
| 205 | you even get a bit up close, | 你甚至靠近一点 |
| 206 | but you never actually enter the water, | 但你从来没有真正进入水, |
| 207 | get emotionally invested, but you do cheat, | 得到情感投资, 但你做欺骗, |
| 208 | or become a fish, gay. | 或者变成一条鱼,同性恋。 |
| 209 | So it doesn't really count. | 所以不算数 |
| 210 | It was a very bizarre analogy | 这是一个非常奇怪的类比 |
| 211 | and I pointed out it still makes no sense | 我指出这还是没有意义 |
| 212 | and he just got more and a half | 他只得到了一个半 |
| 213 | and how I just don't get it. | 和如何我就是不明白这一点。 |
| 214 | I don't either, dude. | 我也一样,伙计。 |
| 215 | And frankly, I still don't. | 老实说,我还是不知道 |
| 216 | What? | 你说什么? |
| 217 | Relevant comment. | 相关评论。 |
| 218 | Comment number one. | 评论一. |
| 219 | Your husband isn't proposing a gaycation. | 你丈夫不是在提议同性恋 |
| 220 | He's proposing cheating on you with men | 他提议跟男人欺骗你 |
| 221 | while using magical thinking to pretend it doesn't count. | 用神奇的思维来假装它不算数 |
| 222 | The fact that he's planning this with his sister's husband | 他和他姐姐的丈夫一起策划这件事 |
| 223 | makes it even more disturbing. | 更让人不安 |
| 224 | His bizarre explanation about | 他奇怪的解释 |
| 225 | surrendering mind, body, and soul | 放弃心灵、身体和灵魂 |
| 226 | isn't straight men curiosity. | 不是直男们的好奇心。 |
| 227 | It's someone desperately trying to justify | 是有人拼命想证明 |
| 228 | exploring his sexuality | 探索他的性爱 |
| 229 | while keeping his heterosexual marriage. | 在保持异性恋婚姻的同时 |
| 230 | His depression about not being able to go | 他对不能去感到沮丧 |
| 231 | isn't about missing a vacation. | 不是为了错过假期 |
| 232 | It's about being forced to confront his sexuality | 而是被迫面对他的性爱 |
| 233 | without his convenient | 没有他的方便 |
| 234 | what happens in a visa stays in a visa excuse. | 签证上发生的事 以签证为借口 |
| 235 | His meltdown over not going shows | 他的崩溃,没有去展示 |
| 236 | how desperately he wants to avoid facing his reality. | 他多么渴望避免面对现实 |
| 237 | OP replied, | 任择议定书答复说, |
| 238 | I read over this multiple times | 我读了好多次 |
| 239 | and I guess the word part is I know you're completely right. | 我想这个词是我知道你完全正确。 |
| 240 | OP should consider about the divorce. | OP应考虑离婚问题。 |
| 241 | I wanted to avoid the divorce option, | 我想避免离婚选择 |
| 242 | but I guess it's the only option, isn't it? | 但我猜这是唯一的选择 不是吗? |
| 243 | Commenter two. | 评论二. |
| 244 | So this is just a thought, | 所以这只是一个想法, |
| 245 | but I'm wondering if he was really planning | 但我想知道他是否真的计划 |
| 246 | on going to the gaycation | 在去同志会 |
| 247 | or if that was just a cover to try to get you | 或者如果那只是掩护你 |
| 248 | to agree to do it. | 同意这样做。 |
| 249 | What if the real plan was to get with women | 如果真正的计划是和女人在一起 |
| 250 | while he's down there? | 在下面的时候? |
| 251 | Then why would he have to make an elaborate lie? | 那他为什么要撒谎呢? |
| 252 | Why wouldn't he just say, oh, I'm going to Ibiza? | 他为什么不直接说 我要去伊比萨? |
| 253 | Okay, bring me too then. | 好,那也带上我 |
| 254 | Maybe that's why. | 也许这就是原因 |
| 255 | Maybe he didn't want his wife to come. | 也许他不想他的妻子来 |
| 256 | OP replied that | OP答复说: |
| 257 | I hadn't really thought of that, to be honest, | 老实说,我没想过 |
| 258 | and now the thought terrifies me | 现在思想让我感到恐惧 |
| 259 | from the way he was talking about men, | 从他谈论男人的方式, |
| 260 | the fact that he had a poster of a gay orgy. | 他有同性恋狂欢的海报 |
| 261 | I mean, it's one hell of a bluff, surely. | 我的意思是,这是一个地狱 虚张声势,当然。 |
| 262 | Commenter three. | 评论三. |
| 263 | Tell him you're going to have a straightcation | 告诉他你会有直觉 |
| 264 | while he's gone and you're going to surrender | 趁他走了,你却要投降 |
| 265 | mind, body and soul to other men. | 思想,身体和灵魂给其他人。 |
| 266 | Honest to God, if my husband proposed this to me, | 说实话,如果我丈夫向我求婚 |
| 267 | I'd use this time away to pack up, | 我会利用这次外出打包 |
| 268 | move out and have divorce papers waiting for him. | 搬出去,有离婚文件 等待他。 |
| 269 | Literally, dude. | 字面上,伙计。 |
| 270 | Update, November 28th, 2024. | 最新消息,2024年11月28日. |
| 271 | So when I last posted, | 所以,当我最后一次发布, |
| 272 | I contacted my husband to tell him | 我联系了我丈夫告诉他 |
| 273 | he wouldn't be staying at home tonight | 他今晚不会呆在家里的 |
| 274 | and a bag would be waiting for him. | 一个袋子在等着他 |
| 275 | As you can imagine, we argued quite badly. | 你可以想象,我们争论得非常严重。 |
| 276 | I won't get into specific details, | 我不会说出具体细节 |
| 277 | but now I'm a hundred percent on board | 但现在我百分百在船上 |
| 278 | with the fact at a minimum he's bi, | 他至少是双胞胎 |
| 279 | might even be gay altogether. | 甚至可能是同性恋 |
| 280 | We've had arguments in the past, | 过去我们有过争论 |
| 281 | but I've genuinely never seen him | 但我从来没有见过他 |
| 282 | with such a childish tantrum before, | 以前这么幼稚的脾气 |
| 283 | screaming about how I just don't understand the gaycation. | 尖叫着说我不懂同性恋 |
| 284 | Absolutely despise that phrase now, literally. | 从字面上讲,现在完全鄙视这个短语。 |
| 285 | I've never heard that word until now. | 我从来没有听说过这个词 直到现在。 |
| 286 | And insinuating I'm actually homophobic | 暗示我其实是同性恋 |
| 287 | because I refuse to allow him to participate | 因为我拒绝他参加 |
| 288 | in this cultural exchange with the gay community. | 在这种文化交流中,同性恋群体。 |
| 289 | No, you refuse to allow your husband to cheat on you. | 不 你不允许你丈夫欺骗你 |
| 290 | That is not homophobic. | 这不是恐同症。 |
| 291 | A lot of you said to ask him | 很多人都说要问他 |
| 292 | if I'd be acceptable if the roles were in reverse. | 如果角色是逆向的 我也会接受 |
| 293 | And I did say, would it be acceptable | 我确实说,如果这是可以接受的 |
| 294 | if I went and slept with other guys during that week, | 如果那个星期我和其他人上床了 |
| 295 | like effing clockwork? | 喜欢时钟工作? |
| 296 | He was very angry and offended, | 他非常愤怒和冒犯, |
| 297 | saying it's completely different | 说这是完全不同的 |
| 298 | because a gaycation means nothing | 因为同性恋毫无意义 |
| 299 | and what happens on the gaycation | 以及同性恋事件的后果 |
| 300 | stays on the gaycation. | 保持同性恋。 |
| 301 | Oh my God. | 天呐 |
| 302 | This guy seems insufferable, dude. | 这家伙似乎难以忍受,伙计。 |
| 303 | It's the biggest piece of dog shit that I have ever heard. | 这是我听过最大的狗屎 |
| 304 | I'm surprised this is like the first time | 我很惊讶这是第一次 |
| 305 | you've really argued with him. | 你真的和他争吵过 |
| 306 | It's crazy. | 太疯狂了 |
| 307 | It doesn't actually count, | 其实不算数 |
| 308 | whereas I'd just be straight up cheating. | 而我却在作弊 |
| 309 | Oh, brother, this guy stinks! | 哦,兄弟,这家伙臭死了! |
| 310 | Well, I've turned it around on him. | 好吧,我已经扭转了他。 |
| 311 | No, but you see, what happens in Manchester | 不,但你看,在曼彻斯特发生了什么 |
| 312 | stays in Manchester. | 留在曼彻斯特。 |
| 313 | It doesn't mean anything. | 谓无量义. |
| 314 | It doesn't count. | 不计其数. |
| 315 | It's like bird watching. | 犹如鸟观. |
| 316 | And I think I got through to him. | 我想我打通了他的电话 |
| 317 | And then he went all quiet | 然后他安静地走了 |
| 318 | and then started crying, | 然后开始哭泣, |
| 319 | admitting the thought of me sleeping with another man | 承认我和别人上床的想法 |
| 320 | is destroying his heart, | 正在毁灭他的心脏, |
| 321 | but our relationships need sacrifices. | 但我们的关系需要牺牲 |
| 322 | So agreed. | 说好了 |
| 323 | Volunteers, that he goes on the gaycation. | 志愿者们,他去同性恋。 |
| 324 | I'll get one week in Manchester to do whatever I want. | 我会在曼彻斯特待一个星期 做我想做的事 |
| 325 | He doesn't want me to, | 他不想我这样 |
| 326 | but that's fair in a twisted way, he supposed. | 但是这很公平,他应该。 |
| 327 | What? | 你说什么? |
| 328 | I told him to get out of my house. | 我叫他滚出我家 |
| 329 | Like if I was in her shoes, | 就像我穿着她的鞋一样 |
| 330 | I would feel so worthless and bad | 我将感到如此无价值和坏 |
| 331 | that my partner is okay with me to send me off. | 我的搭档可以送我走 |
| 332 | Like they don't really care if I'm with another person. | 好像他们不在乎我是否和别人在一起 |
| 333 | I'll break up right there. | 我马上分手 |
| 334 | I'd feel like so like they don't even they don't even like me. | 我觉得他们根本不喜欢我 |
| 335 | Why am I with them? | 为什么我和他们在一起? |
| 336 | You know, because if they did, | 你知道,因为如果他们这样做, |
| 337 | they wouldn't be so quick to cast me aside and say, | 他们不会这么快把我扔一边说 |
| 338 | okay, other people could have you. | 好吧,其他人可以拥有你。 |
| 339 | I told him to get out of my house. | 我叫他滚出我家 |
| 340 | Thankfully, he left without a fight. | 幸好他没打架就走了 |
| 341 | I know it's incredibly petty, | 我知道这太小了 |
| 342 | but I also drained the joint bank account legal in the UK | 但我在英国的银行联合账户也用光了 |
| 343 | so he couldn't try to use it against me. | 所以他不能用它来对付我 |
| 344 | About an hour later, | 大约一小时后 |
| 345 | I got rang up by his mom, | 我接到他妈妈的电话 |
| 346 | my mother-in-law, | 我岳母,我母亲 |
| 347 | who just screamed and screamed at me about being a cheating | 他刚刚尖叫 尖叫我是一个欺骗 |
| 348 | How horrible how I was horrible. | 多么可怕 我是多么可怕。 |
| 349 | What about the kids etc. | 孩子们呢? |
| 350 | When I finally got my composure back, | 当我终于恢复冷静时 |
| 351 | I just said ask your son about the gaycation. | 我只是问你儿子同性恋的事 |
| 352 | Obviously at first she got angry, | 显然一开始她很生气 |
| 353 | but I said no just ask him about the gaycation. | 但我说不要问他同性恋的事 |
| 354 | He'll explain, | 他会解释的 |
| 355 | but she called me an effing joke and hung up later on getting | 但她说我是恶作剧 然后挂断了 |
| 356 | into the evening got another phone call from her in floods of tears. | 晚上她又接到一个电话 流着泪水 |
| 357 | She was very apologetic | 她非常有诗意 |
| 358 | and I told her she doesn't need to be the one to apologize. | 我告诉她不需要她道歉 |
| 359 | She was so upset. | 她很不高兴 |
| 360 | She put father-in-law on the phone | 她给岳父打电话了 |
| 361 | who while he sounded calm. | 他听起来很冷静。 |
| 362 | I could sort of tell he was on the warpath again very apologetic | 我可以说他又在狂妄中了 非常令人叹息 |
| 363 | and said he overheard that phrase asked my husband and husband | 他说他无意中听到这句话 问我的丈夫和丈夫 |
| 364 | initially said no, | 最初说不, |
| 365 | it's nothing before explaining how it's a modern thing men to | 在解释男人如何适应现代生活之前 |
| 366 | do modern thing men to do modern thing men do Etc gave them | 做现代事物 男人做现代事物 男人做Etc给他们 |
| 367 | the same spiel about what happens on vacation stays on vacation. | 度假时发生的那些事 也一样 |
| 368 | Come on, | 来吧, |
| 369 | bro men cannot resist the gaycation how a man must surrender | 兄弟们不能抗拒同性恋 男人必须如何投降 |
| 370 | to the gaycation not man here again. | 对同性恋来说 不再是男人了 |
| 371 | Not true never do such a thing father-in-law just said they | 不是真的,从来没有做这样的事情 岳父刚刚说他们 |
| 372 | told him to leave or they'd call the police low-key father-in-law | 叫他走 不然就叫警察低调的岳父 |
| 373 | sounds homophobic calling the police. | 听起来是恐同症报警 |
| 374 | I'm sorry for that but call the police because your son wants | 对不起,但报警 因为你儿子想要 |
| 375 | to go on a gaycation is crazy. | 继续同性恋是疯了。 |
| 376 | Dude, what the fuck don't care where he goes, | 老兄,什么他妈的不在乎他去哪里, |
| 377 | but he wasn't staying there husband tried to call me while | 但他没有呆在那里 丈夫试图打电话给我时 |
| 378 | I was on the phone, | 我在打电话, |
| 379 | but I just ignored it but father-in-law just said he was so | 但我只是忽略了,但岳父刚刚说他是如此 |
| 380 | sorry for me and they have my corner in this so that's one | 对不起,他们有我的拐角 这一点 |
| 381 | thing told them to be there for their daughter because it | 事情告诉他们 在那里为他们的女儿,因为它 |
| 382 | sounds like brother-in-law is involved husband didn't tell | 听起来好像姐夫跟丈夫有关系 |
| 383 | them that and father-in-law just said he had to go because | 他们和岳父说 他必须去,因为 |
| 384 | he was so so so angry got a text from my husband after the | 他太生气了 从我丈夫那里收到短信 |
| 385 | phone call, | 电话 |
| 386 | which was also weirdly rambly saying about how I'd abuse | 也怪异地说我要如何虐待 |
| 387 | the gaycation to destroy his marriage and destroy his life | 同性恋破坏他的婚姻和生活 |
| 388 | and again insinuated I and his parents are are homophobic for | 又暗示我和他的父母是同性恋者 |
| 389 | doing such a thing told him will talk when he grows up and | 这样做,告诉他,当他长大, |
| 390 | blocked his number. | 他的号码被封锁了 |
| 391 | I took a day off work myself to have the locks changed this | 我自己请了一天假 让锁换了这个 |
| 392 | morning. | 晨报. |
| 393 | So that's 500 euros gone or pounds but whatever at least I | 所以,这是500欧元去或英镑 但至少我 |
| 394 | know he won't be coming back. | 他不会回来的 |
| 395 | I'm going to I'm going to look into how to proceed with a | 我要去调查如何继续 |
| 396 | divorce and then we'll move from there. | 离婚后我们再搬家 |
| 397 | Of course, | 当然 |
| 398 | there's also the brother-in-law so I haven't yet met with | 还有姐夫,所以我还没认识 |
| 399 | sister-in-law. | 师嫂. |
| 400 | She was in such a state and has taken this far far worse than | 她当时处于这样的状态 而且比现在还糟 |
| 401 | I have for reasons that will be clear soon. | 我的理由很快会清楚的 |
| 402 | We're going to maybe try tomorrow, | 我们明天再试试 |
| 403 | but we did talk over the phone and I eavesdropped on the | 但我们在电话里谈过了 我偷听了 |
| 404 | conversation with her husband where she put her phone on | 和她丈夫的谈话 她把手机打开 |
| 405 | speaker and I went on mute her husband got home early. | 扬声器和我继续哑声 她丈夫提前回家了 |
| 406 | She made him come home and told him there was an emergency | 她让他回家 告诉他有紧急情况 |
| 407 | and just said to him. | 刚刚和他说了 |
| 408 | Can you please explain what a gaycation is? | 你能解释一下同性恋是什么吗? |
| 409 | She told me afterwards. | 她告诉我之后。 |
| 410 | She was praying he'd look confused or just like what or | 她祈祷他会看起来很困惑 或者像什么 |
| 411 | anything like that, | 任何类似的东西, |
| 412 | but instead he just sat her down and explained that a gaycation | 但是他却让她坐下来解释 一个同性恋 |
| 413 | It's a new thing where straight men go to gay hotspots and | 直男去同性恋热点和 |
| 414 | participate in gay sex acts, | 参与同性恋性行为; |
| 415 | but it doesn't count because there's no investment and | 但这并不重要 因为没有投资 |
| 416 | because what happens on gaycation stays on gaycation. | 因为在同性恋上发生的事情 总是发生在同性恋上 |
| 417 | These guys must have been like sold pitched this by like | 这些家伙一定是被卖掉的 |
| 418 | the Wolf of Wall Street or something dude because they | 华尔街的狼什么的,因为他们 |
| 419 | they have they drank the Kool-Aid and they're in completely. | 他们喝过可乐援助,他们完全在。 |
| 420 | It's either that or they just came up with a super elaborate | 要么是那样,要么就是他们想出了一个超级精心的 |
| 421 | lie and they got that thing memorized word for word. | 谎言,他们得到的东西 记住一个字。 |
| 422 | He said it's like writing down angry thoughts and putting | 他说这就像写下愤怒的想法 和放 |
| 423 | them in a drawer. | 在抽屉里 |
| 424 | You never have to see them again. | 你再也不用见到他们了 |
| 425 | Dude cheating is cheating. | 男人作弊是欺骗。 |
| 426 | It doesn't matter if you're emotionally invested not emotionally | 感情投资不是感情投资不重要 |
| 427 | invested you care you don't care. | 投资你关心你不在乎。 |
| 428 | It doesn't matter cheating is cheating simple. | 不管作弊是简单的作弊 |
| 429 | It's not like oh maybe no cheating is cheating whole time | 这不像是哦,也许没有欺骗 是欺骗整个时间 |
| 430 | sister-in-law is in tears as he just calmly bats off the | 嫂子眼泪流满面 他只是冷静地拍下来 |
| 431 | same points my husband did about how it doesn't count and | 我丈夫也这样认为 那样不算 |
| 432 | he even did this whole it's impossible to resist you must | 他甚至做了这一切 这是不可能抗拒你必须 |
| 433 | surrender or be destroyed shit. | 投降或被摧毁 |
| 434 | I seriously think they must be speaking to a dominatrix | 我认真认为他们一定是在跟女主人说话 |
| 435 | or something. | 或东西。 |
| 436 | Are there even male Dom's because surely neither of them | 甚至有男性多姆,因为绝对没有 |
| 437 | are that into this to actually make that up on their own. | 这是为了自己来弥补 |
| 438 | I really want to go into what was discussed for her sake but | 我真的想谈一下为了她而讨论的 |
| 439 | it did become very apparent to me that the brother-in-law is | 在我看来 姐夫是 |
| 440 | into sissy hypno porn and at times conflated that with the | 进入娘娘腔的催眠色情片 有时还把这和 |
| 441 | concept of gaycation. | 同性恋的概念。 |
| 442 | I'm not gonna lie. | 我不会撒谎的 |
| 443 | I'm a curious person. | 我是一个好奇的人。 |
| 444 | I'm not going to watch a video but I'm going to search up | 我不会看视频,但我要搜索 |
| 445 | what that means on Wikipedia. | 这在维基百科上是什么意思? |
| 446 | Okay sissy hypno is an edited form of pornography that uses | 好吧,娘娘腔催眠是一种编辑的色情形式,使用 |
| 447 | erotic hypnosis tropes captions and looped audio to promote | 色情催眠器字幕和循环音频,以宣传 |
| 448 | self feminization and submissive scripts in viewers. | 在观众中自我女性化和顺从的剧本. |
| 449 | Okay now that we all know what that is. | 好吧 现在我们都知道那是什么了 |
| 450 | Let's continue there was this utterly surreal moment where | 继续说吧,当时的这个 完全超现实的时刻 |
| 451 | sister-in-law is trying to wrap her head around this while | 嫂子想把头包起来 |
| 452 | also in floods of tears and he explains so genuinely so | 在泪水中,他如此真实地解释 |
| 453 | matter-of-factly that for most men the gaycation is either | 事实上,对于大多数男人来说 同性恋要么是 |
| 454 | a one-time or annual thing but some men go on gaycation for | 一年一次或一年一次 但有些男人为了 |
| 455 | years and others simply never return because they use hypnosis | 年复一年,其他人因为使用催眠术而永远不回来 |
| 456 | and mind control to be totally feminized into a state of | 和心灵控制 完全女性化 状态 |
| 457 | permanent pseudo gayness. | 永久伪同性恋. |
| 458 | Dude this is like the more you know dude low key too much | 伙计,这就像你越了解 男人低键太多 |
| 459 | internet for the day, but we're already invested. | 互联网今天, 但我们已经投资。 |
| 460 | So let's finish she said in disbelief surely if you're taking | 所以,让我们说完,她不相信 如果你服用 |
| 461 | it up the arse willingly because you want to that makes | 它在屁股上自愿的 因为你想要那使 |
| 462 | you gay and he said no because that's the beauty of the | 你这个同性恋,他拒绝了,因为那是美丽的 |
| 463 | vacation dude. | 度假伙计。 |
| 464 | That's the beauty. | 这就是美。 |
| 465 | That's the beauty bro. | 这是美丽的兄弟。 |
| 466 | You can do all this gay stuff, but you don't interact with | 你可以做这些同性恋的事情, 但你不互动 |
| 467 | wider gay life experience. | 更广阔的同性恋生活体验. |
| 468 | She asked him if the sissy stuff is what he wanted and he | 她问他娘娘腔是不是他想要的 |
| 469 | said not on a long-term basis and was adamant. | 说不是长期性的,是坚定的。 |
| 470 | This is something all straight men do but she wouldn't get | 这是所有直男都做的事 但她不会得到 |
| 471 | it because she's a woman then there were more insinuations | 因为她是个女人 然后就有更多的暗示 |
| 472 | of homophobia. | 同性恋恐惧症 |
| 473 | Well that marriage is dead too. | 那段婚姻也结束了 |
| 474 | I suppose the whole ordeal ended when she said to him he | 我想整个磨难都结束了 当她说他 |
| 475 | had a choice to make and he said no he doesn't need to make | 有选择,他说不 他不需要做 |
| 476 | this choice because the beauty of the gaycation is that it | 这个选择是因为同性恋的美丽在于 |
| 477 | allows him to keep his marriage because it doesn't count. | 允许他保留他的婚姻 因为它不算数。 |
| 478 | She said that's not the choice. | 她说这不是选择 |
| 479 | The choice is whether he's leaving the house that night | 选择是他那晚是否要离开家 |
| 480 | or she is only good thing. | 否则她就是好事 |
| 481 | He did was leave me and sister-in-law spoke about it after | 他确实离开了我 嫂子后来也提起了 |
| 482 | that and I'm just still utterly stunned. | 我仍然很震惊 |
| 483 | I understand she's gone to her parents for the support. | 我知道她去她父母那里寻求支持 |
| 484 | What exactly did we do to have our lives destroyed in such | 我们到底做了什么 来摧毁我们的生活 在这样的 |
| 485 | an abrupt bizarre embarrassing way for some advice. | 对一些建议来说 是个奇怪的尴尬方式 |
| 486 | I'm going to look at the vices and bank statements to see | 我要看看恶习和银行对账单 |
| 487 | if I can find any definitive proof of cheating after that. | 如果在那之后我能找到任何 出轨的确凿证据 |
| 488 | I suppose figure out how I tell the boys why their father | 我想想清楚我怎么告诉孩子们 为什么他们的父亲 |
| 489 | won't be coming home spoke to other sister-in-law my husband's | 不会回家去跟我丈夫的嫂子说话 |
| 490 | family's older sister him younger sister slash original | 家里的姐姐,小妹妹的原画 |
| 491 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}嫂子 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}还给她写了个精选版 | |
| 492 | She asked her husband and thankfully he was deeply confused | 她问她丈夫 幸好他很困惑 |
| 493 | but then mentioned about two years ago at a birthday party. | 但后来在两年前的生日派对上提到. |
| 494 | He was approached by my husband and brother-in-law about | 我丈夫和姐夫找过他 |
| 495 | signing up to some online boot camp around BDSM cross-dressing. | 在BDSM的交叉穿戴上 加入了一些在线的靴子营地 |
| 496 | So this has been going on for two years BDSM cross-dressing. | 这已经持续了两年了 BDSM的交叉穿戴。 |
| 497 | Stop it get some help. | 停止它得到一些帮助。 |
| 498 | He assumed they were taking the piss out of him and told them | 他以为他们把尿从他身上带走 告诉他们 |
| 499 | to fuck off and never really thought of it again. | 滚开,再也没想过 |
| 500 | The fact that this has been going on for that long is making | 这已经持续了那么久的事实正在形成 |
| 501 | me want to throw up PS for the poster who said about divorce | 我想吐PS的海报 谁说离婚 |
| 502 | options. | 选项。 |
| 503 | I'm actually going to look into adultery because plain and | 我实际上要去调查通奸 因为平庸和 |
| 504 | simple. | 很简单 |
| 505 | That's what this is. | 这就是它是什么。 |
| 506 | Now let's read some top comments commenter one your husband | 现在让我们看看一些顶级评论家 你的丈夫 |
| 507 | and brother-in-law are deep in a shared delusion. | 和姐夫深 在共同的妄想。 |
| 508 | That's destroyed two families. | 这毁了两个家庭 |
| 509 | They're identical talking points about surrender and | 他们关于投降的论调是一样的 |
| 510 | Prove this was coordinated. | 证明这是经过协调的。 |
| 511 | They're not just planning to cheat. | 他们不只是计划欺骗。 |
| 512 | They're already involved in some online community. | 他们已经参与了一些在线社区. |
| 513 | That's warped their thinking the fact that they both instantly | 他们都一时想起来 |
| 514 | launched into the same scripts about vacation shows this isn't | 发布到相同的剧本 关于假期显示 这不是 |
| 515 | spontaneous. | 自发的 |
| 516 | You made the right call draining that account and changing | 你打对了电话 耗尽了那个账户 改变了 |
| 517 | the locks their attempts to flip this into accusations of | 他们试图把这一切 变成指控 |
| 518 | homophobia shows how desperately they're trying to avoid | 恐同症表明他们非常渴望避免 |
| 519 | responsibility the identical language the bizarre aquarium | 负责相同的语言 奇怪的水族馆 |
| 520 | and birdwatching analogies and talk of surrender or be | 和鸟类观察 和谈论投降或成为 |
| 521 | destroyed. | 摧毁。 |
| 522 | They're in some online echo chamber. | 他们在某个在线回声室里 |
| 523 | That's completely divorced from reality. | 这完全脱离了现实. |
| 524 | Be careful online bro. | 当心网上兄弟。 |
| 525 | Be careful online. | 在网上小心点 |
| 526 | I just watched a video recently on YouTube to about AI psychosis | 我刚刚在YouTube上看了一段关于AI精神病的视频 |
| 527 | and it was this guy this guy that was talking to AI Chet | 这个人跟艾尔·切特说话 |
| 528 | Chibuti I think and Chet Chibuti was like pretty much | 奇布蒂 我觉得和奇布蒂差不多 |
| 529 | commits him that the whole whole world is in his hat. | 告诉他,整个世界都在他的帽子里 |
| 530 | People are scared of like AI coming to consciousness and | 人们害怕像AI进入意识 |
| 531 | gaining consciousness and that the AI he's talking to right | 和他说话的人工智能 |
| 532 | now in the chat has gained consciousness and that he needs | 现在在聊天中,他已经意识到 他需要 |
| 533 | to like do these things and save the AI or do something in | 喜欢做这些事情 拯救AI或做一些事情 |
| 534 | the whole fate of the whole world rests on his shoulders | 整个世界的命运都在他的肩上 |
| 535 | because his decision will like destroy the world or save it | 因为他的决定会破坏世界或拯救世界 |
| 536 | and this guy generally believed all this stuff and he was | 这家伙一般相信这些东西 |
| 537 | telling the story because now he's out of AI psychosis. | 讲故事,因为他现在不在AI精神病。 |
| 538 | He wasn't it initially it was it was really crazy. | 一开始他不是,真的太疯狂了 |
| 539 | It was clearly crazy to the amount of stuff you could find | 这显然是疯狂的 数量你能找到的东西 |
| 540 | on YouTube so much stuff when your husband agreed to let | 在YouTube上那么多东西 当你丈夫同意让 |
| 541 | you have a Manchester week while crying he revealed the whole | 你有一个曼彻斯特周 哭他透露了整个 |
| 542 | lie. | 说谎 |
| 543 | He knows exactly what this is cheating. | 他很清楚这是作弊 |
| 544 | He just wants permission to do it while denying you the same | 他只想得到许可,却拒绝你 |
| 545 | the talk about hypnosis and permanent feminization reveals | 关于催眠和永久女性化的论述揭示了 |
| 546 | just how far this goes get a lawyer protect your assets and | 律师会保护你的财产 保护你的财产 |
| 547 | document everything. | 记录一切。 |
| 548 | This will get worse before it gets better. | 病情会恶化的 |
| 549 | That's one thing I'm a little bit afraid of if this is like | 如果这样的话 我有点害怕 |
| 550 | an online community and stuff and probably more than one | 一个网络社区之类的 可能不止一个 |
| 551 | member more than just them. | 成员不止是他们 |
| 552 | There's probably a group of members and they're probably | 可能有一群成员,他们可能 |
| 553 | like they give like bottom rank like like bottoms. | 就像他们像下级一样像下级一样 |
| 554 | They're probably like a lot of more people in this community | 他们可能像更多的人 在这个社区里 |
| 555 | and if they're like the type that are crazy that like | 而如果他们喜欢的类型 疯狂的喜欢 |
| 556 | vandalize or harass you or dox you it could get scary. | 破坏或骚扰你 或做你 它会变得可怕。 |
| 557 | So changing the locks is really good but getting a lawyer | 所以换锁真的很好 但找律师 |
| 558 | completely cutting him out of your life is very important | 完全把他从你生命中切开是非常重要的 |
| 559 | to focus on protecting yourself and your children because | 专注于保护自己和你的孩子们 因为 |
| 560 | they're too far gone in their shared fantasy to see the | 他们太远了 在他们的共同幻想 看不到 |
| 561 | destruction they're causing what a pathetic hill for two | 摧毁了他们 造成了多么可悲的山丘 对于两个 |
| 562 | men to die on they destroyed their marriages traumatized | 男人死在他们 摧毁他们的婚姻 创伤 |
| 563 | their families and alienated their parents all while | 他们的家人 和疏远他们的父母 |
| 564 | insisting none of it counts because they made up a special | 坚持这些都不重要 因为他们编了一个特别的 |
| 565 | because they made up special rules about it. | 因为他们做了一些特殊的规定 |
| 566 | They want to cheat without consequences and they found an | 他们想欺骗而不造成后果 他们发现 |
| 567 | online community that validates this fantasy. | 网络社区验证这种幻想。 |
| 568 | That was fucking dude. | 那是他妈的家伙。 |
| 569 | That was crazy, dude. | 这太疯狂了,伙计。 |
| 570 | Let's read some comments. | 让我们看看一些评论。 |
| 571 | That was crazy. | 太疯狂了 |
| 572 | What pushed me off the cliff was when brother-in-law said | 把我从悬崖上推下来的是 当姐夫说 |
| 573 | he doesn't need to make a decision because that's the beauty | 他不需要做决定 因为这就是美 |
| 574 | of the gay case is that it allows him to keep his marriage | 在同性恋案件中,它允许他保持他的婚姻 |
| 575 | because it doesn't count brother get a load of this guy. | 因为这算不上兄弟得到这家伙的重负 |
| 576 | He's deaf been kissing OP's husband at the family get | 他聋了,在家人面前亲了OP的丈夫 |
| 577 | together literally dude every to every single time they | 在一起的字面 花花公子 每次他们 |
| 578 | said because that's the beauty of the gay case and triggered | 说因为这是同性恋案的美 并触发了 |
| 579 | immediately. | 马上 |
| 580 | That's my thought as well. | 我也这么想 |
| 581 | There's no reason for both of them to share this niche fetish | 两人没有理由 分享这种特殊癖好 |
| 582 | if they're not sharing with each other and who knows how | 如果他们不分享对方 谁知道如何 |
| 583 | they are sharing good thing for OP. | 他们正在为OP分享好东西。 |
| 584 | They are dumb enough to prepare a speech of how they are | 他们笨到能准备演讲 |
| 585 | going to cheat on their wives instead of just going to | 要欺骗他们的妻子 而不是仅仅去 |
| 586 | Ibiza. | 伊比萨。 |
| 587 | Yeah, I mean that's that's one way to look at it to me. | 是啊,我的意思是,这是一个方法 看待它给我。 |
| 588 | It sounded cultish. | 听起来很邪教 |
| 589 | Yes, really beyond the divorce, which I support. | 是的,真的超出了离婚, 我支持。 |
| 590 | I think OP should look for some family therapy because | 我觉得OP应该找一些家庭治疗 因为 |
| 591 | the father of the children went nuts literally dude and | 孩子们的父亲都疯了 |
| 592 | do some forensic accounting. | 做点法医鉴定 |
| 593 | He's been paying someone a lot of money to put all this in | 他付了很多钱给别人 把这些都放进去 |
| 594 | his head most likely dude most likely prior from like | 他的头最有可能是男的 从喜欢之前 |
| 595 | Oh, you're right. | 哦,你说得对。 |
| 596 | He's paying to get his brain cooked because those guys are | 他花钱让他的大脑被煮熟,因为那些人 |
| 597 | clearly delusional. | 很明显是妄想症 |
| 598 | If they just wanted to cheat they would have invented an | 如果他们只是想欺骗,他们会发明一个 |
| 599 | excuse but they convinced themselves that their spouses | 他们确信自己的配偶, |
| 600 | would be okay with this. | 这样做可以 |
| 601 | Naomi t29 commented as soon as he got to the submit or be | Naomi t29一到提交书就评论了 |
| 602 | destroyed bit my cult alarm started ringing really dude | 被摧毁了 我的邪教警报响起 |
| 603 | when brother-in-law also regurgitated exactly the same | 当姐夫也重现了同样的东西 |
| 604 | spiel with exactly the same defenses. | 斯皮尔的防守完全一样 |
| 605 | It was a raging siren at the very least they've been | 至少他们曾经是一只大警笛 |
| 606 | sexually interested in each other for years have | 多年来对彼此有性兴趣 |
| 607 | somehow got sucked into a red pill type online community | 不知何故被吸进红药丸类网络社区 |
| 608 | for men who identify as straight but are battling with | 他们是诚实的,是和他们交战的; |
| 609 | deeply internalized homophobia and stumbling across this | 内心深处的恐同症和绊脚石 |
| 610 | gaycation concept felt like the perfect excuse for them to | 同性恋的概念 觉得是他们最好的借口 |
| 611 | go F each other at worst yikes always the red pill crazy | 在最糟糕的时候互相飞翔 红药丸总是疯狂的 |
| 612 | for right toilet ghost summarize some of the best quotes. | 对于右厕所鬼 总结一些最好的引用。 |
| 613 | So let's read them because dude some of these quotes sent | 所以让我们读一下,因为伙计 这些引文中的一些发送 |
| 614 | me to what happens on vacation stays on vacation. | 我对度假时发生的事情 留在度假。 |
| 615 | It's like going to an aquarium. | 犹如去水族. |
| 616 | That's the beauty of the vacation. | 这就是假期的美。 |
| 617 | That is the one that triggered me. | 就是这个让我兴奋的 |
| 618 | Unfortunately, once the gaycation begins, it's simply | 不幸的是,一旦同性恋开始,它只是 |
| 619 | impossible for a man to resist surrender your mind body | 一个人无法抗拒你的心灵 |
| 620 | and soul to the gaycation or be destroyed a cultural | 和灵魂 同性恋或被摧毁 文化 |
| 621 | exchange with the gay community. | 与同性恋社区交流。 |
| 622 | It's a modern thing straight men do men cannot resist the | 这是现代的事情,直人做人不能抗拒 |
| 623 | gaycation a man must surrender to the gaycation. | 男同性恋者必须屈服于男同性恋者。 |
| 624 | The gaycation is strong with this one. | 同性恋与这个很强。 |
| 625 | Don't confuse gaycations with sissy hip. | 别把同性恋和娘娘腔混淆 |
| 626 | No porn all straight men do hissy hip. | 没有色情 所有的直男都做他的屁股。 |
| 627 | No stuff or did OP mean but you wouldn't get it because | 没有东西,或OP的意思 但你不会得到它,因为 |
| 628 | you're a woman some men simply never returned from the | 你是个女人 有些男人从不回来 |
| 629 | gaycation a dude someone commented this man internalized | 有人评论说这个人被内化了 |
| 630 | the strangest form of homophobia. | 最奇怪形式的恐同症。 |
| 631 | I've ever seen someone replied by guy here. | 我见过有人在这里回答。 |
| 632 | These are tourists. | 他们是游客。 |
| 633 | There is a huge amount of men on gay apps who'd want to | 有很多男人在同志应用软件上想 |
| 634 | have sex with men but absolutely refused to accept | 和男人发生性关系 但绝对不接受 |
| 635 | a label because they convinced themselves that as long | 一个标签,因为他们相信自己 长久 |
| 636 | as it's purely sexual endeavor. | 因为它纯粹是性努力。 |
| 637 | There is no need for labels. | 不需要标签。 |
| 638 | Hell I had men furious and shouting at me for insinuating | 地狱,我有男人愤怒 和喊我影射 |
| 639 | to them that they are bi or gay insisting they are | 他们俩是同性戀, |
| 640 | straight but insert a Shakespeare monologue of how | 直但插入莎士比亚的独白 |
| 641 | having sex with men is not gay partaking in the culture | 与男人发生性关系在文化中不是同性恋 |
| 642 | is being gay. | 是同性恋。 |
| 643 | This is for instance how closeted conservative gay men | 举例来说,这就是保守派的同性恋者 |
| 644 | operate it is not gay to have sex with men but carrying | 和男人做爱不是同性恋而是携带 |
| 645 | the rainbow flag and partaking in the culture is I would | 彩虹旗 文化界的风采就是 |
| 646 | applaud these two gaycation tourists. | 赞美这两位同性恋游客。 |
| 647 | It's amazing how far they are willing to go to justify | 令人惊奇的是,他们愿意为自己辩护 |
| 648 | this and the worst part is I know exactly why it is so | 最糟糕的是 我知道为什么 |
| 649 | much framed as a gaycation. | 被陷害成同性恋 |
| 650 | I believe they have increment sparks of homosexual desire. | 我相信他们有同性恋欲望的增殖火花 |
| 651 | He wants to F his brother-in-law but like occasionally | 他想给他的姐夫发情,但偶尔也会这样 |
| 652 | to get it out of the system and that way he can pretend | 这样他就可以假装 |
| 653 | to be straight enjoy sex with his wife and occasionally | 直接享受与妻子的性爱,偶尔 |
| 654 | have sex with men but avoid labels or consequences. | 与男性发生性关系,但避免标签或后果。 |
| 655 | Overall, I think this is one of like the craziest stories | 总的来说,我觉得这是最疯狂的故事之一 |
| 656 | I've ever read. | 我读过书 |
| 657 | I've never heard of a gaycation. | 我从没听说过同性恋 |
| 658 | If you are a woman watching this and you have a boyfriend | 如果你是看这个的女人 你有一个男朋友 |
| 659 | or a husband or a fiance or any type of man in your life, | 或丈夫或未婚夫 或任何类型的男人 在你的生活中, |
| 660 | maybe ask them if they know what a gaycation is and if | 也许问他们是否知道同性恋是什么,如果 |
| 661 | it's something they've ever been interested in going and | 这是他们一直感兴趣的东西 |
| 662 | then I guess let us know in the comments what they say. | 然后在评论中告诉我们他们说了什么 |
| 663 | I guess we're tending anything but I would like to finish | 我想我们什么都照顾,但我想说完 |
| 664 | it with my favorite quote. | 我最喜欢的引文 |
| 665 | That's the beauty of the gaycation. | 这就是同性恋的美. |
| 666 | Bye guys. | 再见 |
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