跟我读故事 + 影子跟读｜练习英语口语
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | Do you want to start thinking in English faster instead of just translating everything in your | 你想用英语开始思考吗? |
| 0:06 | head? | 头? |
| 0:06 | In this video you are going to shadow a real story written the way native English speakers | 在这部影片中,你将会影射一个真实的故事 写出英语母语的方式 |
| 0:12 | actually talk. | 其实是说话。 |
| 0:13 | This helps you connect directly to meaning so your brain starts processing English | 这能帮助你直接连接到意义 这样你的大脑就开始处理英语 |
| 0:19 | faster and more naturally. | 越来越快,更自然。 |
| 0:21 | At the same time you improve your pronunciation, rhythm, | 同时提高你的读音,节奏, |
| 0:26 | listening and speaking by copying real English. | 监听和发言,通过复制真正的英语。 |
| 0:30 | So read with me, shadow out loud and train your | 跟着我读, 阴影出来大声训练你 |
| 0:33 | brain to think in English. | 大脑用英语思考。 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Do you want to start thinking in English faster instead of just translating everything in your | 你想用英语开始思考吗? |
| 2 | head? | 头? |
| 3 | In this video you are going to shadow a real story written the way native English speakers | 在这部影片中,你将会影射一个真实的故事 写出英语母语的方式 |
| 4 | actually talk. | 其实是说话。 |
| 5 | This helps you connect directly to meaning so your brain starts processing English | 这能帮助你直接连接到意义 这样你的大脑就开始处理英语 |
| 6 | faster and more naturally. | 越来越快,更自然。 |
| 7 | At the same time you improve your pronunciation, rhythm, | 同时提高你的读音,节奏, |
| 8 | listening and speaking by copying real English. | 监听和发言,通过复制真正的英语。 |
| 9 | So read with me, shadow out loud and train your | 跟着我读, 阴影出来大声训练你 |
| 10 | brain to think in English. | 大脑用英语思考。 |
| 11 | This video is part of my 3,000 most common English words series | 这段视频是我最常用的三千个英文单词系列的一部分 |
| 12 | designed to help you understand up to 95% of spoken English. | 帮助你理解95%的英语 |
| 13 | If you want to get the 3,000 | 如果你想要三千块 |
| 14 | most common English words pdf it's in the description. | 最常见的英语单词pdf在描述中. |
| 15 | Let's get started. | 让我们开始吧。 |
| 16 | My brother | 我哥哥,你这混蛋 |
| 17 | and sister-in-law plan their baby shower on the same day as my wedding. | 和嫂子计划 他们的婴儿淋浴的同一天 我的婚礼。 |
| 18 | So to start off guys, | 所以,开始的家伙, |
| 19 | do you know what a baby shower is? | 你知道婴儿淋浴是什么吗? |
| 20 | Do you know what a baby shower is? | 你知道婴儿淋浴是什么吗? |
| 21 | If you know what it is, | 如果你知道这是什么 |
| 22 | let me know in the comments right now. | 现在在评论中告诉我。 |
| 23 | So a baby shower is a celebratory party held for parents | 所以,婴儿淋浴是一个庆祝派对 为父母举行 |
| 24 | that are expecting a baby. | 正在等待一个婴儿。 |
| 25 | So it's kind of to celebrate the upcoming birth of your child, | 所以这是种庆祝 你的孩子即将出生, |
| 26 | a baby shower. | 一个婴儿淋浴。 |
| 27 | So the child isn't born yet but the woman is pregnant so they celebrate the | 所以,孩子还没有出生 但女人怀孕了,所以他们庆祝 |
| 28 | upcoming birth of that child, a baby shower. | 即将诞生的孩子, 一个婴儿淋浴。 |
| 29 | And remember guys to read on the right hand side | 记住男人在右手边读书 |
| 30 | and shadow me. | 跟着我 |
| 31 | I 25 male met my beautiful fiance 25 female in September 2024. | 2024年9月我遇见了我美丽的未婚夫25名女性. |
| 32 | I moved from my state | 我从本州搬来 |
| 33 | to her state three months after we met so I could be closer to her. | 我们相遇三个月后,我就能接近她 |
| 34 | We got engaged in July 2025 | 我们在2025年7月订婚了 |
| 35 | exactly 10 months after we met and we set the wedding date for March 14th. | 我们相遇10个月后 我们把婚礼日期定在3月14日 |
| 36 | No offense but you | 无意冒犯,但你 |
| 37 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}你觉得那些女人会把戏带给我们的婚礼吗? | |
| 38 | Not in this case. | 这件案子不行 |
| 39 | My two older brothers, let's call them Dum aka J 36 male and Dummer aka Pat 33 male have brought | 我的两个哥哥,让我们叫他们 Dum aka J 36 男性和 Dummer aka Pat 33 男性带来了 |
| 40 | nothing but drama to my wedding. | 我婚礼上只有戏剧性 |
| 41 | So his brothers are a lot older than him. | 所以他的兄弟们比他大很多. |
| 42 | He's 25 and his other | 他25岁,还有另一个 |
| 43 | siblings are 33 and 36. | 兄弟姐妹分别为33和36。 |
| 44 | So that's an eight and 11 year difference. | 所以这是八和十一年的差别。 |
| 45 | I asked both of my brothers to | 我让我的两个兄弟 |
| 46 | be groomsmen since I was the best man in Pat's wedding and also in Jay's wedding. | 成为新郎,因为我是帕特婚礼和杰婚礼的伴郎 |
| 47 | They both said | 他们都说 |
| 48 | yes and that's where the drama begins. | 是的,这就是戏剧的开始。 |
| 49 | A month later Pat calls me and says he won't be able to | 一个月后,帕特打电话给我,说他不能 |
| 50 | make it to my wedding because his wife is pregnant and her due date is in late April. | 参加我的婚礼 因为他妻子怀孕了 她的到期日期是4月下旬 |
| 51 | Mind you my | 记住我的 |
| 52 | wedding is five to six weeks before her due date and it's only about a four hour drive. | 婚礼是在她到期前5到6个星期 而且只有四个小时的车程 |
| 53 | If you want | 如果你想的话 |
| 54 | 然后在我的网站Volca English.com上拿到工作手册。 | |
| 55 | The workbook explains everything in greater detail and comes with exercises to help you learn new | 工作手册更详细地解释了一切 并有练习来帮助你学习新的 |
| 56 | vocabulary, grammar, tenses, sentence patterns, comprehension and real English you can actually | 词汇、语法、时态、句子模式、理解和真正的英语 |
| 57 | use. | 使用时使用。 |
| 58 | I also have workbooks for past videos so you can keep practicing and improving every lesson. | 我也有过去录影带的工作手册, |
| 59 | Click the link in my description to get the workbooks. | 点击我描述中的链接获取工作手册。 |
| 60 | I brushed it off, congratulated him | 我擦干净了,恭喜他 |
| 61 | on the pregnancy and moved on. | 怀孕后继续 |
| 62 | I then asked another friend of mine who's also out of state, | 然后我问另一个朋友 谁也出州, |
| 63 | let's call him Steve, if he would take Pat's place and he said yes. | 让我们叫他史蒂夫, 如果他愿意取代帕特的位置, 他答应了。 |
| 64 | Come Black Friday I decided to | 黑色星期五来,我决定 |
| 65 | rent our suits since that's normally cheaper. | 租我们的西装,因为那通常便宜。 |
| 66 | It was $175 on sale because of Black Friday for the | 因为黑色星期五卖了175美元 |
| 67 | suit, shoes, shirt, belt and pants. | 衣服 鞋子 衬衫 腰带和裤子 |
| 68 | Steve and Jay complained that it was too much money, that it was | 史蒂夫和杰抱怨说,这是太多的钱,这是 |
| 69 | Black Friday and that since they have kids they wouldn't be able to spend that much on renting | 黑色星期五,既然他们有孩子 他们就不会花那么多钱租房 |
| 70 | a suit. | 一件西装 |
| 71 | They then reached out to me separately and asked if we could buy instead since that would be | 然后他们单独联系我 问我们是否可以买下 因为那是 |
| 72 | So I gave in and the suits, shoes, belt, shirts and pants came out to a total of $250, so much for | 所以我放弃了衣服,鞋子,皮带,衬衫和裤子 总共250美元,所以... |
| 73 | buying being cheaper. | 买便宜。 |
| 74 | Fast forward to January, my fiance and I decided to have a joint bachelor | 一月前,我未婚夫和我决定 联合单身汉 |
| 75 | bachelorette trip in the mountains since we figured it would be more fun with more people. | 单身汉在山上旅行 因为我们觉得和更多的人一起会更好玩 |
| 76 | The girls would do their own thing during the day, the guys would do their own thing and we'd all do | 姑娘们白天会做自己的事 男人们会做自己的事 我们都会做 |
| 77 | group activity together in the evening. | 晚上一起进行团体活动。 |
| 78 | We decided to do it in January since Jay is an accountant | 我们决定在1月份做,因为杰伊是个会计 |
| 79 | and wouldn't have been able to do it sooner. | 也不可能早点做到 |
| 80 | After my fiance sent out all the details, | 在我未婚夫把细节都传出去后 |
| 81 | Jay and Steve declined the invitation to the batch trip. | 杰伊和史蒂夫拒绝了批量旅行的邀请. |
| 82 | Batch is just short for bachelor, | 单身汉的批量太少了 |
| 83 | the bachelor trip. | 单身旅行。 |
| 84 | Without my knowledge, my fiance had also included a question in the questionnaire | 不知不觉,我的未婚夫也在问卷里提了个问题 |
| 85 | she sent out asking whether the guys would want to save money and share a bed or pay extra to | 她派他们去问 这些人是想省钱 分享一张床 还是多付钱 |
| 86 | have their own bed. | 有他们自己的床。 |
| 87 | Jay and Steve saw this and started complaining behind my back and my brothers | 杰伊和史提夫看到这个 开始在我和兄弟背后抱怨 |
| 88 | and my dad then proceeded to call me gay for asking if the guys wanted to share a bed. | 我爸接着叫我同性恋 问他们要不要共枕 |
| 89 | The batch trip was absolutely incredible and so much fun. | 批量旅行是绝对令人难以置信的,而且很有趣。 |
| 90 | A couple of weeks after the batch trip, | 批量旅行几周后 |
| 91 | my fiance gets a text from my sister-in-law, Pat's wife. | 我的未婚夫收到我嫂子帕特的妻子的短信 |
| 92 | She sent us a save the date for her baby | 她给我们寄了个生日礼物 |
| 93 | shower and wouldn't you know it, the baby shower is on March 14th. | 淋浴,你不知道吗, 婴儿淋浴是在3月14日。 |
| 94 | Yep, the same day as my wedding. | 是的,同一天 我的婚礼。 |
| 95 | A week later, they had the absolute audacity to send my fiance an invitation to the baby shower | 一周后,他们胆大妄为地给我未婚夫发了婴儿澡 |
| 96 | with a message that said, we know y'all are far away, but we'd love it if you could come. | 有个消息说,我们知道你们都很远, 但是我们希望你能来。 |
| 97 | And what, | 还有... |
| 98 | miss our wedding? | 错过我们的婚礼了吗? |
| 99 | The reason they're having the baby shower on my wedding day, in my opinion, | 他们为什么在我结婚那天要洗婴儿澡 在我看来 |
| 100 | is because my sister-in-law can't stand my family so she chose our wedding day knowing none of my | 是因为我的嫂子受不了我的家人 所以她选择了我们的结婚日 |
| 101 | family would be able to attend, meaning only her family would be there. | 也就是说只有她的家人才能出席 |
| 102 | If you've seen The Help, | 如果你看过"帮助" |
| 103 | my sister-in-law is Hilly Walters. | 我嫂子是希利・沃尔特斯 |
| 104 | Let me know if you guys have seen that movie. | 如果你们看过那部电影就告诉我 |
| 105 | I personally have | 我个人有 |
| 106 | not. | 没有 |
| 107 | Update. | 更新。 |
| 108 | A lot of people keep asking about my family and whether Pat is making them choose sides. | 很多人一直问起我的家人 帕特是不是让他们选择了一方 |
| 109 | No. | 没有 |
| 110 | My family can't stand Pat and Hilly, so even if they tried to pull that card, my family would | 我的家人受不了Pat和Hilly 所以即使他们想拉那张牌 我的家人也会 |
| 111 | still choose to come to my wedding without a second thought. | 仍然选择来参加我的婚礼 没有第二个想法。 |
| 112 | My siblings and my dad will be there. | 我的兄弟姐妹和我爸爸会在那里。 |
| 113 | и | |
| 114 | mom will not be attending as she passed away three years ago. | 妈妈三年前就去世了 她不会去上学了 |
| 115 | Now, for the part they'd probably | 现在,这部分 他们可能 |
| 116 | prefer I leave out. | 我宁愿不说 |
| 117 | This is not Pat and Hilly's first child. | 这不是Pat和Hilly的第一个孩子 |
| 118 | This is their third child. | 这是他们的第三个孩子。 |
| 119 | They | 他们 |
| 120 | already have two daughters and another girl on the way. | 已经有两个女儿和一个女孩在路上了。 |
| 121 | Hilly has had zero complications | Hilly没有出现并发症 |
| 122 | with any of her pregnancies or deliveries. | 怀孕或分娩。 |
| 123 | This is not an emergency, not a crisis, | 这不是紧急情况,也不是危机 |
| 124 | and not some tragic circumstance. | 而不是一些悲惨的情况。 |
| 125 | It is a conscious decision to hijack attention and yes, | 这是一个有意识的决定 劫持注意力 是的, |
| 126 | it's exactly as selfish as it sounds. | 和听起来一样自私 |
| 127 | And just when you think it can't get any worse, | 当你觉得事情不会更糟的时候 |
| 128 | the person who contacted my fiance was Hilly's best friend. | 联系我未婚夫的人 是Hilly最好的朋友 |
| 129 | For clarity, none of Hilly friends | 为了清楚起见,没有Hilly的朋友 |
| 130 | have any relationship with my fiance or me. | 跟我未婚夫或我有任何关系 |
| 131 | My fiance was intentionally included to make sure | 我未婚夫是故意加入进来的 |
| 132 | we knew that instead of celebrating our wedding, they'd be celebrating themselves. | 我们知道他们不是庆祝我们的婚礼 而是庆祝自己 |
| 133 | This was | 这是 |
| 134 | calculated unnecessary and dripping with main character syndrome. | 计算出不必要的和滴入 主角综合症。 |
| 135 | So no, this isn't a | 所以,不,这不是 |
| 136 | repeatedly showing everyone exactly who they are. | 一再向所有人展示他们的真实身份。 |
| 137 | Update two. | 更新二. |
| 138 | I was talking to my dad last night | 我昨晚跟我爸说话 |
| 139 | and shockingly, the baby shower fiasco came up again. | 令人震惊的是, 婴儿淋浴再次出现。 |
| 140 | It turns out Pat and Hilly went over to | 原来帕特和希利去了 |
| 141 | my dad's house on Saturday, my condolences, and he confronted them about why the baby shower was | 我爸爸星期六的家,我的慰问, 他面对他们 为什么婴儿淋浴 |
| 142 | scheduled on my literal wedding day. | 安排在我的结婚日 |
| 143 | Pat immediately played dumb and claimed he had no idea it was on | 帕特立刻装哑巴,声称自己不知道 |
| 144 | He then proceeded to claim that it was the only day they could host the shower, which is hilarious | 他接着声称,这是他们唯一能够主持淋浴的一天,这很有趣。 |
| 145 | considering he knew the date when I asked him to be a groomsman. | 考虑到他知道的日期 当我要求他成为新郎。 |
| 146 | And when we got the save the date, | 当我们得到保存的日期, |
| 147 | Hilly openly admitted she knew it was the same day as our wedding. | Hilly公开承认她知道 那天是我们的婚礼 |
| 148 | So yeah, that was a lie. | 所以,是的,这是一个谎言。 |
| 149 | For some background, because this behaviour didn't come out of nowhere. | 对于一些背景来说,因为这种行为并不是从哪里冒出来的. |
| 150 | Back in August 2025, | 2025年8月时 |
| 151 | when I asked Pat and Jay to be my groomsmen, we were on a family vacation. | 当我请帕特和杰做我的新郎时, 我们在度假。 |
| 152 | Normally my dad | 通常我父亲 |
| 153 | buys the groceries for these trips and doesn't expect anyone to pay him back. | 买这些旅行的杂货,不料有人还他. |
| 154 | This time before | 这一次之前 |
| 155 | we even arrived, Pat and Hilly decided to go rogue, bought groceries for everyone without telling us, | 我们甚至到达,帕特和希利 决定去无赖, 为每个人买杂货 不告诉我们, |
| 156 | and then informed us we owed them $70 per person slash couple. | 然后通知我们 我们欠他们每人70美元 |
| 157 | No discussion, no heads up, | 没有讨论,没有注意, |
| 158 | just a Venmo request. | 只是一个文莫请求。 |
| 159 | At the time my fiance and I had just gotten engaged, I genuinely couldn't | 我和未婚夫刚订婚的时候 我真的不能 |
| 160 | afford it, especially since I had already paid my dad $450 for our share of the Airbnb, which is | 特别是因为我已经付了我爸450美元 我们那份的Airbnb |
| 161 | normal in my family and something we had planned for months in advance. | 和我们几个月前计划好的一样 |
| 162 | What I did not plan for | 我本来没打算的 |
| 163 | was a surprise $70 grocery bill for food I didn't ask for and didn't know existed. | 一个惊喜70美元杂货 食品,我没有要求,不知道存在。 |
| 164 | However, | 不过, |
| 165 | I refused to pay it, considering I couldn't afford it and their lack of communication was | 我拒绝支付,因为 我买不起 而且他们缺乏沟通 |
| 166 | not about to cost me $70. | 不会花我70美元。 |
| 167 | My refusal apparently caused too much drama, so my dad paid Pat the | 我的拒绝显然引起了太多的戏剧性, 所以我爸付帕特 |
| 168 | $70 on our behalf just to make it stop. | 70美元代表我们 只是为了让它停止 |
| 169 | Fast forward to this weekend, while visiting my dad, | 赶在周末 去看我爸的时候 |
| 170 | Pat mentioned that his wedding gift to me would be the $70 I never paid him. | 帕特提到他给我的结婚礼物 就是我从未付给他的70美元 |
| 171 | My dad snapped and | 我爸爸崩溃了 |
| 172 | told him he had already paid it. | 告诉他他已经付了 |
| 173 | Pat then denied ever receiving the money confidently until Hailey | Pat就一直拒绝收钱 直到海莉 |
| 174 | finally corrected him and confirmed that yes, my dad did pay him. | 终于纠正了他 并证实是的 我爸爸确实付了他钱 |
| 175 | And because why not pile it on, | 因为为什么不把它堆起来, |
| 176 | Pat also complained about how expensive our wedding registry is before purchasing the cheapest | 帕特还抱怨我们的婚礼登记费多贵 才买最便宜的 |
| 177 | item on it. | 中的项目。 |
| 178 | This is from the same man who proudly put a $70 Yeti cooler on his registry a few years | 这是同一个人写的 他骄傲地把一个70美元 叶蒂冷却机在他的注册几年 |
| 179 | ago. | 刚才 |
| 180 | So to recap, lies about the date, selective amnesia about money that was already paid, | 重述一下,谎称日期, 选择性的失忆 关于钱已经支付, |
| 181 | and complaints about how expensive my wedding registry is. | 抱怨我的结婚登记费有多高 |
| 182 | I hope you guys are enjoying this | 我希望你们喜欢这个 |
| 183 | shadowing lesson. | 影子课。 |
| 184 | One tip I would like to give you guys is if you're watching this on your laptop | 我想给你们的一个提示是 如果你在笔记本上看到这个 |
| 185 | or the TV or another phone, I would recommend recording yourself reading one of these paragraphs. | 或电视或另一个电话, 我建议录制你自己 阅读其中一段。 |
| 186 | Read it out loud so that you can hear your pronunciation and accent as you watch the video | 大声读出来 这样你就能在看视频时听到你的发音和口音 |
| 187 | back. | 回来 |
| 188 | Then in a few months, once you've practiced your accent and your pronunciation more, | 几个月后 一旦你练习了你的口音和发音 |
| 189 | you can go back and watch these videos to see how much you have improved. | 你可以回去看这些视频 看看你有多么进步 |
| 190 | So make sure to keep track | 所以,确保保持跟踪 |
| 191 | of your progress by recording yourself talking out loud in English. | 通过用英语大声说话来记录自己的进步 |
| 192 | Next story. | 下一个故事。 |
| 193 | I39female was dating Mark, 38 male, for almost five months when his dad sadly passed away | I39女的和Mark约会,男的38岁 差不多五个月 他爸爸不幸去世 |
| 194 | from cancer. | 从癌症。 |
| 195 | It was awful, obviously. | 这很可怕,很明显。 |
| 196 | His dad was awesome, and Mark and he were very close. | 他爸爸很棒,马克和他很亲近 |
| 197 | I try to be supportive, respectful, and give him space, all of it. | 我试着支持他,尊重他, 给他空间,所有这一切。 |
| 198 | But here's the thing, his mom. | 但问题是 他妈妈 |
| 199 | Before his dad passed, she was already a lot. | 在他爸爸去世之前 她已经很多了 |
| 200 | She FaceTimed my boyfriend two to three times | 她给我男朋友打了两三次脸 |
| 201 | a day, every single day. | 一天,每一个一天。 |
| 202 | She showed up unannounced three to four times a week. | 她每周三到四次突然出现 |
| 203 | She lives 45 minutes away. | 她住45分钟外。 |
| 204 | She did his laundry. | 她帮他洗衣服 |
| 205 | She cleaned his house. | 她打扫了他的房子。 |
| 206 | She cooked for him. | 她为他做饭 |
| 207 | She rearranged his furniture. | 她重新安排了他的家具。 |
| 208 | She decorated his entire house. | 她装饰了他的整个房子。 |
| 209 | This man is 38. | 此人三十八岁. |
| 210 | If you're serious | 如果你是认真的 |
| 211 | about becoming fluent in English, I've built a full speaking and pronunciation course that shows | 我做了一个完整的演讲和发音课程 |
| 212 | you exactly what to do step by step. | 你该一步一步地做什么 |
| 213 | You get instant access to 80 plus video lessons right away. | 你可以立刻进入80加视频课程 |
| 214 | And I add three to five brand new lessons every week so you can keep improving consistently. | 我每周增加三到五个全新的课程, 这样你就可以不断改进。 |
| 215 | And this is not just a course full of random videos. | 这不仅仅是一个充满随机视频的课程。 |
| 216 | You'll get an exclusive chat GPT prompt | 你会得到独家聊天的GPT提示 |
| 217 | that allows you to master the pronunciation of any word plus a clear practice structure | 使您能够掌握任意单词的发音以及清晰的练习结构 |
| 218 | so you always know exactly how to study, what to focus on, and how to make real progress. | 所以,你总是知道 确切如何学习, 关注什么, 如何取得真正的进展。 |
| 219 | Inside we work on pronunciation, accent, rhythm, and natural speaking so you can stop hesitating, | 里面我们研究发音、口音、节奏和自然说话 这样你就可以停止犹豫 |
| 220 | sound more natural, and speak English with real confidence. | 听起来更自然, 并说英语以真正的自信。 |
| 221 | Join today in the description. | 加入今天的描述。 |
| 222 | Every weekend she would just appear at his house where I also was | 每个周末,她都会出现在他家 我当时也是 |
| 223 | and sit there badmouthing his ex for hours in front of me, which felt less like bonding | 坐在我面前说他的前夫的坏话数小时 这感觉不像是亲情 |
| 224 | and more like an audition. | 更像是试镜 |
| 225 | Look how much I hated the last one. | 看看我有多讨厌上一个 |
| 226 | Meanwhile, she was syrupy sweet to | 与此同时,她甜美的糖浆 |
| 227 | my face in a way that made my skin itch. | 我的脸,使我的皮肤痒。 |
| 228 | Fast forward, his dad passes away. | 快速前进,他的爸爸去世了。 |
| 229 | I'm walking on | 我继续走 |
| 230 | eggshells because grief is brutal and I'm not a monster. | 蛋壳因为悲伤是残酷的 而我不是一个怪物。 |
| 231 | Then one day while I'm not there, | 然后有一天,当我不在那里, |
| 232 | she goes to his house and wears my bathing suit in the spa. | 她去他家 穿我的泳衣去温泉 |
| 233 | Not a random spare, my bathing suit. | 不是随机备用的 我的泳衣 |
| 234 | I only found out because she took it home with her to wash it. | 我只是因为她带回家洗而已 |
| 235 | Let me repeat that. | 让我重复一遍。 |
| 236 | She drove | 她开车 |
| 237 | 45 minutes home with my used bathing suit to wash it even though she usually does her son's laundry | 回家45分钟 穿着我用过的泳衣去洗 尽管她通常都帮儿子洗衣服 |
| 238 | at her place. | 在她的住处。 |
| 239 | After the bathing suit incident, I stayed quiet because she had just lost her husband. | 泳衣事件后,我一直保持沉默,因为她刚刚失去了丈夫. |
| 240 | I didn't want to be the villain over swimwear. | 我不想做穿泳衣的恶棍 |
| 241 | The next day, my boyfriend casually told me | 第二天,我男朋友随便告诉我 |
| 242 | he was turning his basement into an apartment for his mom so she could move in. | 他把地下室变成他妈妈的公寓 这样她就可以搬进来了 |
| 243 | Not a discussion, | 不是讨论 |
| 244 | a decision. | 一个决定。 |
| 245 | I took a few days to process everything, then asked to talk calmly. | 我花了几天时间处理一切,然后要求冷静地交谈。 |
| 246 | I said I | 我说了 |
| 247 | understood she was grieving, but before she moved in, he needed to set boundaries. | 但是在她搬进来之前 他需要划定界限 |
| 248 | I mentioned how | 我提到过 |
| 249 | intense things already were and that her wearing my bathing suit without asking made me uncomfortable. | 她穿着我的泳衣却没问就让我不舒服 |
| 250 | He got defensive immediately, took her side, and told me to leave. | 他立刻防守 站在她这边 叫我离开 |
| 251 | Then he gave me the silent | 然后他给我沉默 |
| 252 | treatment for two days. | 治疗两天。 |
| 253 | After that, he dumped me by text. | 之后,他用短信抛弃了我 |
| 254 | Hold on, hold on, hold on. | 坚持住,坚持住,坚持住。 |
| 255 | He dumped you | 他抛弃了你 |
| 256 | by text because you didn't want his crazy mom to move in with you guys. | 发短信是因为你不想让他的疯妈妈 和你们一起住 |
| 257 | I feel like he did you a | 我觉得他做了你 |
| 258 | favor. | 帮个忙 |
| 259 | I'm not going to lie. | 我不会撒谎的 |
| 260 | Let's continue. | 让我们继续。 |
| 261 | It hurts, but honestly, if asking for basic | 这很痛,但老实说,如果问基本 |
| 262 | boundaries ends a relationship, it probably wasn't much of one to begin with. | 边界结束的关系, 它可能不是很多 一个开始。 |
| 263 | Facts. | 事实 |
| 264 | So that's the | 所以这是 |
| 265 | end of that story. | 故事结束 |
| 266 | Overall, that is kind of insane. | 总的来说,这有点疯狂。 |
| 267 | I definitely don't think you're in the wrong. | 我绝对不认为你错了 |
| 268 | You are your own person and you're allowed to set boundaries with other people. | 你是你自己的人,你被允许 与其他人划定界限。 |
| 269 | If they don't | 如果他们不 |
| 270 | respect those boundaries or they cross them, then you can step away or they can break up with you | 尊重边界,或者跨越边界, 然后你可以离开,或者他们可以和你分手 |
| 271 | if they don't like that boundary. | 如果他们不喜欢这个界限的话 |
| 272 | Clearly, your boyfriend did not like that boundary you were | 显然,你的男朋友不喜欢你的边界 |
| 273 | setting with him and his mom and he broke up with you. | 和他和他妈妈在一起 他和你分手了 |
| 274 | I don't think he did anything wrong either. | 我觉得他也没做错什么 |
| 275 | So obviously, he's going to prioritize her naturally, but you felt like she was really | 所以很明显 他会自然地优先考虑她 但你觉得她真的 |
| 276 | controlling and she crossed the boundary by wearing your bathing suit, but you didn't want | 她穿着你的泳衣越过边界 但你不想 |
| 277 | to bring it up because she just lost her husband. | 因为她刚失去丈夫 |
| 278 | And honestly, if the relationship is that fragile | 说实话 如果关系这么脆弱 |
| 279 | that after setting this boundary, he wants to break up with you, then I think that's for the | 确定这个界限后 他想和你分手 我想那是为了 |
| 280 | better in all honesty. | 说实话更好 |
| 281 | What do you guys think? | 你们觉得怎么样? |
| 282 | Let me know in the comments. | 在评论中告诉我。 |
| 283 | And remember, | 记住, |
| 284 | if you want to get the 3000 most common English words PDF to understand up to 95% of spoken English, | 如果你想得到3000个最常见的英语单词PDF 来理解高达95%的英语, |
| 285 | it's in the description. | 这是描述。 |
| 286 | I'll see you guys next video. | 下段录像见 |
| 287 | Bye. | 再见。 |
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