再次重温！Taylor Swift 霉霉纽约大学毕业典礼演讲
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| 0:00 | the candidate to the lecter. | 选手。 |
| 0:12 | Taylor Swift, blazing singer-songwriter, producer, director, actress, pioneering and influential | 泰勒·斯威夫特(英語:Taylor Swift),发烧的歌手-歌曲编剧,制片人,导演,女演员,开拓者和有影响力的演员. |
| 0:23 | advocate for artist rights, and philanthropist, you have brought joy and resolve to your hundreds | 倡导艺术家权利 慈善家 你为你的数百人带来了欢乐和决心 |
| 0:31 | of millions of fans throughout the world. | 全世界数以百万计的粉丝。 |
| 0:36 | One of the best-selling music artists in history, you have crossed genres, demographics, age groups, | 历史上最畅销的音乐艺术家之一, 你跨越了流派, 人口, 年龄组, |
| 0:45 | and borders of all kinds to touch lives around the globe. | 和各种边界接触地球各地的生命 |
| 0:51 | With nine original studio albums, two re-recorded studio albums, extended plays, three live | 拥有9张原声录音室专辑,2张重录录音室专辑,扩展剧情,3张现场 |
| 1:03 | and 14 compilations, you have sold well over 100 million album units, earning awards and | 和14集,你已经卖出 超过1亿张专辑单元, 赚取奖项和 |
| 1:12 | honors in every category. | 荣誉在每一个类别。 |
| 1:15 | You have used the remarkable platform you earned to galvanize support for the Equality | 你利用你赢得的杰出平台来激励对平等的支持 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 1 | the candidate to the lecter. | 选手。 |
| 2 | Taylor Swift, blazing singer-songwriter, producer, director, actress, pioneering and influential | 泰勒·斯威夫特(英語:Taylor Swift),发烧的歌手-歌曲编剧,制片人,导演,女演员,开拓者和有影响力的演员. |
| 3 | advocate for artist rights, and philanthropist, you have brought joy and resolve to your hundreds | 倡导艺术家权利 慈善家 你为你的数百人带来了欢乐和决心 |
| 4 | of millions of fans throughout the world. | 全世界数以百万计的粉丝。 |
| 5 | One of the best-selling music artists in history, you have crossed genres, demographics, age groups, | 历史上最畅销的音乐艺术家之一, 你跨越了流派, 人口, 年龄组, |
| 6 | and borders of all kinds to touch lives around the globe. | 和各种边界接触地球各地的生命 |
| 7 | With nine original studio albums, two re-recorded studio albums, extended plays, three live | 拥有9张原声录音室专辑,2张重录录音室专辑,扩展剧情,3张现场 |
| 8 | and 14 compilations, you have sold well over 100 million album units, earning awards and | 和14集,你已经卖出 超过1亿张专辑单元, 赚取奖项和 |
| 9 | honors in every category. | 荣誉在每一个类别。 |
| 10 | You have used the remarkable platform you earned to galvanize support for the Equality | 你利用你赢得的杰出平台来激励对平等的支持 |
| 11 | Act to prevent discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity. | 防止基于性取向和性别认同的歧视的法律。 |
| 12 | And you have spoken out, and you have supported initiatives to protect women and girls from | 也支持保护妇女和女童免受 |
| 13 | harassment and sexual assault. | 骚扰和性侵犯。 |
| 14 | You have donated significantly to victims of floods and tornadoes, for cancer research, | 你为洪水和龙卷风的灾民提供了大量捐款 用于癌症研究 |
| 15 | literacy programs for children, and public education. | 儿童扫盲方案和公共教育。 |
| 16 | You have fearlessly challenged the exploitation of music artists and successfully championed | 你无畏地挑战了对音乐艺术家的剥削 并成功地捍卫了 |
| 17 | their right to be compensated for their work. | 他们的工作得到补偿的权利。 |
| 18 | Taylor Swift, you are a role model across the world for your unprecedented talent and | 泰勒・斯威夫特,你是一个榜样 在世界各地,你前所未有的天赋和 |
| 19 | accomplishment, your fierce advocacy for protection of those facing discrimination, and your commitment | 成就、大力倡导保护面临歧视的人 以及你的承诺 |
| 20 | to speaking out forcefully, eloquently, and effectively on behalf of all artists. | 有力、雄辩和有效地代表所有艺术家发言。 |
| 21 | By virtue of the authority vested in me, I am pleased to confer upon you the degree | 以我的权力,我很高兴授予你这个学位 |
| 22 | of Doctor of Fine Arts, honoris causa. | 美术博士,荣誉。 |
| 23 | I am now pleased to introduce Taylor Swift, who will respond on behalf of the honorary | 我现在高兴地介绍泰勒·斯威夫特,他将代表荣誉阁下作出回应。 |
| 24 | degree recipients. | 学位获得者。 |
| 25 | Hi, I'm Taylor. | 嗨,我是泰勒,你好吗? |
| 26 | Last time I was in a stadium this size, I was dancing in heels and wearing a glittery | 上次我在这么大的体育场里 穿着高跟鞋跳舞 穿了一件闪光灯 |
| 27 | leotard. | 莱奥塔德。 |
| 28 | This outfit is much more comfortable. | 这件衣服更舒服 |
| 29 | I would like to say a huge thank you to NYU's Chairman of the Board of Trustees, Bill Berkeley, | 非常感谢纽约大学董事会主席比尔·伯克利 |
| 30 | and all the trustees and members of the board, NYU's President Andrew Hamilton, Provost | 纽约大学院长安德鲁·汉密尔顿 普罗沃斯特 |
| 31 | Catherine Fleming, and the faculty and alumni here today who have made this day possible. | 凯瑟琳·弗莱明,以及今天在这里的教职员工和校友 使今天成为可能。 |
| 32 | I feel so proud to share this day with my fellow honorees, Susan Hockfield and Felix | 我感到非常骄傲 与我的同僚 苏珊·霍克菲尔德和费利克斯分享这一天 |
| 33 | Matos Rodriguez, who humble me with the ways they improve our world with their work. | Matos Rodriguez, 他谦逊我的方式 他们用他们的工作改善我们的世界。 |
| 34 | As for me, I'm 90% sure the main reason I'm here is because I have a song called 22. | 至于我,我百分之九十确定我来这里的主要原因是 我有一首叫22的歌 |
| 35 | And let me just say, I am elated to be here with you today as we celebrate and graduate | 让我说,我很高兴今天能在这里 与你一起庆祝和毕业 |
| 36 | New York University's Class of 2022. | 纽约大学2022级. |
| 37 | Not a single one of us here today has done it alone. | 今天在座的没有人单独这样做。 |
| 38 | We are each a patchwork quilt of those who have loved us, those who have believed in | 我们每个人都是爱我们的人 相信我们 |
| 39 | our futures, those who showed us empathy and kindness, or told us the truth even when | 我们的未来, 那些向我们表示同情和仁慈的人, 或者告诉我们真相,即使当 |
| 40 | it wasn't easy to hear. | 很难听 |
| 41 | Those who told us we could do it when there was absolutely no proof of that. | 那些告诉我们我们可以这么做的人 绝对没有证据 |
| 42 | Someone read stories to you and taught you to dream and offered up some moral code of | 有人读故事给你听 教你做梦 提出道德准则 |
| 43 | right and wrong for you to try and live by. | 对错的,你尝试和生活。 |
| 44 | Someone tried their best to explain every concept in this insanely complex world to | 有人尽了最大努力来解释 在这个疯狂复杂的世界中的每一个概念 |
| 45 | the child that was you as you asked a bazillion questions like, how does the moon work and | 当你问很多问题时 就是你那个孩子 比如 月亮是怎么工作的 |
| 46 | why can we eat salad but not grass? | 为什么我们不能吃沙拉而不是草? |
| 47 | And maybe they didn't do it perfectly. | 也许他们没完美完成 |
| 48 | No one ever can. | 从来没有人可以。 |
| 49 | Maybe they aren't with us anymore. | 也许他们不再和我们在一起了 |
| 50 | In that case, I hope you'll remember them today. | 这样的话,我希望你今天能记住他们. |
| 51 | If they are in this stadium, I hope you'll find your own way to express your gratitude | 如果他们在这体育场,我希望你能想办法表达你的感激 |
| 52 | for all the steps and missteps that have led us to this common destination. | 所有导致我们来到这个共同目的地的步骤和错误。 |
| 53 | I know that words are supposed to be my thing, but I will never be able to find the words | 我知道言语是我的事 但我永远找不到 |
| 54 | to thank my mom and dad, my brother Austin, for the sacrifices they made every day so | 感谢我爸妈,我弟弟奥斯汀, 他们每天所做的牺牲,所以 |
| 55 | I could go from singing in coffee houses to standing up here with you all today because | 我从咖啡馆唱歌到今天跟你们站在一起 |
| 56 | no words would ever be enough. | 没有一句话是永远不够的。 |
| 57 | To all the incredible parents, family members, mentors, teachers, allies, friends and loved | 敬所有不可思议的父母、家人、导师、教师、盟友、朋友和爱人 |
| 58 | ones here today who have supported these students in their pursuit of educational enrichment, | 今天在这里支持这些学生 追求教育的丰富, |
| 59 | let me say to you now, welcome to New York. | 现在让我告诉你,欢迎来到纽约。 |
| 60 | It's been waiting for you. | 它一直在等着你。 |
| 61 | I'd like to thank NYU for making me, technically, on paper at least, a doctor. | 感谢纽约大学让我在纸上做医生 |
| 62 | Not the type of doctor you would want around in case of an emergency. | 不是在紧急情况下你想找的那种医生 |
| 63 | Unless your specific emergency was that you desperately needed to hear a song with a catchy | 除非你的紧急事件是 你迫切需要听到一首歌 与一个快感 |
| 64 | hook and an intensely cathartic bridge section, or if your emergency was that you needed a | 钩子和极密的桥段, 或者如果你的紧急需要一个 |
| 65 | person who can name over 50 breeds of cats in one minute. | 可以在一分钟内 给50多种猫命名的人 |
| 66 | I never got to have a normal college experience per se. | 我从未有过正常的大学经历 |
| 67 | I went to public high school until 10th grade and then finished my education doing homeschool | 我读了10年级的公立高中, 完成学业后做家庭学校 |
| 68 | work on the floors of airport terminals. | 机场航站楼地板的工作。 |
| 69 | Then I went out on the road for radio tour, which sounds incredibly glamorous, but in | 之后我走上了广播之旅 听起来非常迷人 |
| 70 | reality, it consisted of a rental car, motels, and my mom and I pretending to have loud mother-daughter | 现实中,它包括一辆出租汽车,汽车旅馆, 我妈妈和我假装有 大声的母女 |
| 71 | fights with each other during boarding so no one would want the empty seat between us | 登机时互相争吵 所以没人想要我们之间的空位 |
| 72 | on Southwest. | 在西南边。 |
| 73 | As a kid, I always thought I would go away to college imagining the posters I would hang | 小时候,我一直想着去大学 想象着会挂的海报 |
| 74 | on the wall of my freshman dorm. | 在我的大一宿舍的墙上 |
| 75 | I even set the ending of my music video for my song Love Story at my fantasy imaginary | 我甚至把音乐录影带的结尾 设定在我的幻想中 |
| 76 | college where I meet a male model reading a book on the grass and with one single glance | 大学里我遇到一个男模特儿 在草地上读一本书 然后一眼 |
| 77 | we realize we had been in love in our past lives. | 我们意识到我们过去曾经相爱过 |
| 78 | Which is exactly what you guys all experienced at some point in the last four years, right? | 这正是你们在过去四年中所经历的 对吧? |
| 79 | But I really can't complain about not having a normal college experience to you because | 但我真的不能抱怨 没有正常的大学经历给你,因为 |
| 80 | you went to NYU during a global pandemic. | 在一场全球大流行中你去了纽约大学 |
| 81 | Being essentially locked into your dorms and having to do classes over Zoom, everyone in | 基本上被锁在宿舍里 不得不在Zoom上课 |
| 82 | college during normal times stresses about test scores, but on top of that, you also | 大学在正常时间 压力的测试分数, 但除此之外,你也 |
| 83 | had to pass like a thousand COVID tests. | 得通过一千个COVID测试 |
| 84 | I imagine the idea of a normal college experience was all you wanted to. | 我想正常的大学体验是你想要的 |
| 85 | But in this case, you and I both learned that you don't always get all the things in the | 但在这种情况下,你和我 都了解到 你并不总是得到所有的东西在 |
| 86 | bag that you selected from the menu in the delivery service that is life. | 从发送服务的菜单中选择的生命包。 |
| 87 | You get what you get. | 你得到你得到的东西。 |
| 88 | And as I would like to say to you, wholeheartedly, you should be very proud of what you've done | 正如我想对你说的,全心全意, 你应该为你所做的感到骄傲 |
| 89 | with it. | 用这个 |
| 90 | Today, you leave New York University and then go out into the world searching what's next. | 今天,你离开纽约大学,然后到世界去寻找下一步。 |
| 91 | And so will I. | 我也一样。 |
| 92 | So as a rule, I try not to give anyone unsolicited advice unless they ask for it. | 因此,作为一个规则,我尽量不给任何人 主动建议,除非他们要求。 |
| 93 | I'll go into this more later. | 我以后再谈这个 |
| 94 | I guess I have been officially solicited in this situation to impart whatever wisdom I | 我被正式邀请来传授智慧 |
| 95 | might have to tell you things that have helped me so far in my life. | 可能得告诉你一些事情 帮助了我至今的生活。 |
| 96 | Please bear in mind that I in no way feel qualified to tell you what to do. | 请记住,我完全没有资格告诉你该怎么做。 |
| 97 | You've worked and struggled and sacrificed and studied and dreamed your way here today. | 你努力奋斗 牺牲 学习 梦想你今天来到这里 |
| 98 | And so you know what you're doing. | 并令知见. |
| 99 | You'll do things differently than I did them and for different reasons. | 你会做不同的事情 比我做, 出于不同的原因。 |
| 100 | So I won't tell you what to do because no one likes that. | 所以我不会告诉你怎么做 因为没人喜欢这样 |
| 101 | I will, however, give you some life hacks I wish I knew when I was starting out my dreams | 但是,我会给你一些生活黑客 我希望我知道 当我开始我的梦想 |
| 102 | of a career and navigating life, love, pressure, choices, shame, hope, and friendship. | 事业和航海生活 爱、压力、选择、羞耻、希望和友谊 |
| 103 | The first of which is life can be heavy, especially if you try to carry it all at once. | 第一个是生命可能很沉重,特别是如果你试图同时携带全部生命. |
| 104 | Part of growing up and moving into new chapters of your life is about catch and release. | 成长和进入你生活的新篇章的部分内容是捕捉和释放. |
| 105 | What I mean by that is knowing what things to keep and what things to release. | 我意思是知道要保存什么,要释放什么。 |
| 106 | You can't carry all things, all grudges, all updates on your ex, all enviable promotions | 你不能带着所有的东西,所有的怨恨, 所有更新你的前,所有令人羡慕的升迁 |
| 107 | your school bully got at the hedge fund his uncle started. | 你的学校欺负他叔叔的对冲基金 |
| 108 | Decide what is yours to hold and let the rest go. | 决定你持有什么 并让剩下的去。 |
| 109 | Oftentimes, the good things in your life are lighter anyway, so there's more room for them. | 平时,你生活中的好东西都是轻而易举的,所以还有更多的空间. |
| 110 | One toxic relationship can outweigh so many wonderful, simple joys. | 一个有毒的关系可以超过这么多美妙的,简单的快乐. |
| 111 | You get to pick what your life has time and room for. | 你可以选择你的生活有时间和空间。 |
| 112 | Be discerning. | 辨识. |
| 113 | Secondly, learn to live alongside cringe. | 第二,学会跟克林格一起生活。 |
| 114 | No matter how hard you try to avoid being cringe, you will look back on your life and | 无论你有多努力 避免被Cringe, 你会回顾你的生活, |
| 115 | cringe retrospectively. | 继续回顾 |
| 116 | Cringe is unavoidable over a lifetime. | 克林格一生难免 |
| 117 | Even the term cringe might someday be deemed cringe. | 哪怕是Cringe这个术语 总有一天也会被认为是Cringe。 |
| 118 | I promise you, you're probably doing or wearing something right now that you will look back | 我答应你,你可能正在做 或穿的东西现在,你会回头看。 |
| 119 | on later and find revolting and hilarious. | 然后发现恶心和搞笑。 |
| 120 | You can't avoid it, so don't try to. | 你无法避免,所以不要尝试。 |
| 121 | For example, I had a phase where for the entirety of 2012, I dressed like a 1950s housewife. | 例如,我有一个阶段, 整个2012年,我穿得像个1950年代的家庭主妇。 |
| 122 | But you know what, I was having fun. | 但你知道吗,我很开心 |
| 123 | Trends and phases are fun. | 趋势和阶段是有趣的。 |
| 124 | Looking back and laughing is fun. | 回首而笑是乐. |
| 125 | And while we're talking about things that make us squirm but really shouldn't, I'd like | 虽然我们谈论的东西 使我们沉闷,但真的不应该,我想 |
| 126 | to say I'm a big advocate for not hiding your enthusiasm for things. | 说我是一个伟大的倡导者 不隐藏你对事物的热情。 |
| 127 | It seems to me that there is a false stigma around eagerness in our culture of unbothered | 在我看来,我们的无忧无虑文化 有着虚假的耻辱感 |
| 128 | ambivalence. | 矛盾论. |
| 129 | This outlook perpetuates the idea that it's not cool to want it, that people who don't | 这种观点延续了一种想法,即想要它并不酷,不想要的人 |
| 130 | try are fundamentally more chic than people who do. | 试一试 根本上比别人更性感 |
| 131 | And I wouldn't know, because I've been a lot of things, but I've never been an expert | 我不知道,因为我有很多事情 但我从来没有做过专家 |
| 132 | on chic, but I'm the one who's up here, so you have to listen to me when I say this. | 但是是我在这里 所以你得听我的 |
| 133 | Never be ashamed of trying. | 永远不要为尝试感到羞耻。 |
| 134 | Effortlessness is a myth. | 无功是神话. |
| 135 | The people who wanted it the least were the ones I wanted to date and be friends with | 最不想要的人 就是我想和他们约会和成为朋友的人 |
| 136 | in high school. | 高中的时候 |
| 137 | The people who want it the most are the people I now hire to work for my company. | 最想要的人是我现在雇来为公司工作的人 |
| 138 | I started writing songs when I was 12, and since then, it's been the compass guiding | 我从12岁开始写歌 从那时起,就成了指南针 |
| 139 | my life, and in turn, my life guided my writing. | 我的生活,反过来,我的生活 指导了我的写作。 |
| 140 | Everything I do is just an extension of my writing, whether it's directing videos or | 我所做的一切只是我写作的延伸, 无论是导演视频还是 |
| 141 | short film, creating the visuals for a tour, or standing on a stage performing. | 短片,为巡回演出创造视觉,或站在舞台上表演. |
| 142 | Everything is connected by my love of the craft, the thrill of working through ideas | 所有事物都与我对工艺的热爱相联, 和通过思想工作的刺激 |
| 143 | and narrowing them down and polishing it all up in the end, editing, waking up in the middle | 把它们缩小,然后把它磨光 最后,编辑,醒来 在中间 |
| 144 | of the night, throwing out the old idea because you just thought of a new or better one, or | 晚上,抛出旧主意 因为你刚刚想到一个新的或更好的, |
| 145 | a plot device that ties the whole thing together. | 一个把整个事情联系起来的阴谋装置 |
| 146 | There's a reason they call it a hook. | 故人称其钩. |
| 147 | Sometimes a string of words just ensnares me, and I can't focus on anything until it's | 有时候一连串的言语会缠绕我 我无法专注于任何事物 直到它 |
| 148 | been recorded or written down. | 被记录或记下来。 |
| 149 | As a songwriter, I've never been able to sit still or stay in one creative place for | 作为一名作曲家,我从来没有能够 静静地坐着或留在一个创造性的地方为 |
| 150 | too long. | 太长了 |
| 151 | I've made and released 11 albums, and in the process, I've switched genre from country | 我制作和发行了11张专辑, 在这个过程中,我从乡下切换了流派 |
| 152 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}用其他方法代替民谣 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}用它来代替民谣 | |
| 153 | And this might sound like a very songwriter-centric line of discussion, but in a way, I really | 这听起来像是一首非常以歌词为中心的讨论, 但在某种程度上,我真的 |
| 154 | do think we are all writers. | 我们都是作家 |
| 155 | And most of us write in a different voice for different situations. | 我们大多数人都用不同的声音 来表达不同的情况 |
| 156 | You write differently in your Instagram stories than you do your senior thesis. | 在你的Instagram故事里你写得和高级论文不同 |
| 157 | You send a different type of email to your boss than you do your best friend from home. | 你寄给你老板的邮件 和你家里最好的朋友不一样 |
| 158 | We are all literary chameleons, and I think it's fascinating. | 我们都是文学变色龙 我觉得这很迷人 |
| 159 | It's just a continuation of the idea that we are so many things all the time. | 这仅仅是我们总是有这么多东西的想法的延续. |
| 160 | And I know it can be really overwhelming figuring out who to be and when. | 我知道它可能真的 压倒性地想出是谁和何时。 |
| 161 | Who you are now and how to act in order to get where you want to go. | 你现在是谁 怎样行动才能达到你想去的地方 |
| 162 | I have some good news. | 我有个好消息 |
| 163 | It's totally up to you. | 这完全取决于你。 |
| 164 | I have some terrifying news. | 我有一些可怕的消息。 |
| 165 | It's totally up to you. | 这完全取决于你。 |
| 166 | I said to you earlier that I don't ever offer advice unless someone asked me for it, and | 我早跟你说过 除非有人问我 否则我从不提建议 |
| 167 | now I'll tell you why. | 现在我告诉你原因 |
| 168 | As a person who started my very public career at the age of 15, it came with a price. | 作为一个在15岁开始我公共事业的人, 它有一个代价。 |
| 169 | And that price was years of unsolicited advice. | 而这种价格是多年 未经请求的建议。 |
| 170 | Being the youngest person in every room for over a decade meant that I was constantly | 十几年来每个房间最年轻的人 意味着我一直 |
| 171 | being issued warnings from older members of the music industry, media, interviewers, executives. | 由音乐行业的年长成员、媒体、采访者、高管发出警告。 |
| 172 | And this advice often presented itself as thinly veiled warnings. | 而这个建议常常表现为隐蔽的警告. |
| 173 | See, I was a teenager at a time when our society was absolutely obsessed with the idea of having | 我十几岁的时候 社会对拥有 |
| 174 | perfect young female role models. | 完美的年轻女性榜样。 |
| 175 | It felt like every interview I did included slight barbs by the interviewer about me one | 我觉得每次采访我都包括了 采访者对我微小的巴布 |
| 176 | day running off the rails. | 一天跑出铁轨。 |
| 177 | And that meant a different thing to every person who said it to me. | 这对每个对我说的人来说都不一样 |
| 178 | So I became a young adult while being fed the message that if I didn't make any mistakes, | 所以我成了一个年轻的成年人 同时被告知 如果我没有犯错 |
| 179 | all the children of America would grow up to be perfect angels. | 所有美国的孩子都会长大成为完美的天使 |
| 180 | However, if I did slip up, the entire earth would fall off its axis, and it would be entirely | 然而,如果我真的滑了下来, 整个地球会从它的轴上掉下来, 它将完全 |
| 181 | my fault, and I would go to pop star jail forever and ever. | 我的错,我会去流行 明星监狱永远。 |
| 182 | It was all centered around the idea that mistakes equal failure, and ultimately the loss of | 这都是围绕错误等于失败的想法, 最终是失去 |
| 183 | any chance at a happy or rewarding life. | 任何快乐或有回报的机会 |
| 184 | This has not been my experience. | 这不是我的经验。 |
| 185 | My experience has been that my mistakes led to the best things in my life. | 我的经验是,我的错误导致了我一生中最好的事物. |
| 186 | And being embarrassed when you mess up is part of the human experience. | 和尴尬 当你搞砸了 是人类经验的一部分。 |
| 187 | Getting back up, dusting yourself off, and seeing who still wants to hang out with you | 站起来,把自己打扫干净 看看还有谁想跟你玩 |
| 188 | afterward and laugh about it, that's a gift. | 后而笑之,谓之礼. |
| 189 | The times I was told no or wasn't included, wasn't chosen, didn't win, didn't make the | 我被告知没有或没有包括, 没有选择,没有赢,没有做 |
| 190 | cut, looking back, it really feels like those moments were as important, if not more crucial, | 切,回头看,真的感觉 这些时刻 同样重要,如果不是更重要, |
| 191 | than the moments I was told yes. | 而不是我被告知是的那一刻 |
| 192 | Not being invited to the parties and sleepovers in my hometown made me feel hopelessly lonely. | 没有被邀请参加派对,在家乡过夜,让我感到无望的孤独. |
| 193 | But because I felt alone, I would sit in my room and write the songs that would get me | 但因为我感到孤独,我会坐在我的房间 写那些能让我 |
| 194 | a ticket somewhere else. | 一张别处的票 |
| 195 | Having label executives in Nashville tell me that only 35-year-old housewives listen | 在纳什维尔有高管告诉我 只有35岁的家庭主妇听 |
| 196 | to country music, and there was no place for a 13-year-old on their roster, made me cry | 和乡村音乐, 没有地方 13岁 在他们的名册上,让我哭 |
| 197 | in the car on the way home. | 回家的路上在车里 |
| 198 | But then I'd post my songs on my MySpace, and yes, MySpace, and I would message with | 但我会把我的歌 张贴在我的MySpace上, 是的,MySpace, 我会传达给 |
| 199 | other teenagers like me who loved country music, but just didn't have anyone singing | 像我这样喜欢乡村音乐的青少年 却没人唱歌 |
| 200 | from their perspective. | 从他们的视角。 |
| 201 | Having journalists write in-depth, often times critical pieces about who they perceived | 有记者写深入的、常常是批评的作品, |
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| 203 | look inward to learn about who I actually am. | 向内看 了解我的真实身份。 |
| 204 | Having the world treat my love life like a spectator sport in which I lose every single | 这个世界对待我的爱情生活 像一个观众运动,我失去了每一个 |
| 205 | game was not a great way to date in my teens and twenties, but it taught me to protect | 在我十几岁和二十几岁的时候, 游戏并不是一个伟大的方式, 但它教会了我保护 |
| 206 | my private life fiercely. | 我的个人生活很激烈 |
| 207 | Being publicly humiliated over and over again at a young age was excruciatingly painful, | 年轻时被公开羞辱 令人痛苦 |
| 208 | but it forced me to devalue the ridiculous notion of minute-by-minute, ever-fluctuating | 但它迫使我轻描淡写 可笑的概念 逐分钟, 永远的流畅 |
| 209 | social relevance and likability. | 社会相关性和可亲性。 |
| 210 | Getting cancelled on the internet and nearly losing my career gave me an excellent knowledge | 在互联网上被取消 和几乎失去我的职业生涯 给了我一个绝佳的知识 |
| 211 | of all the types of wine. | 所有类型的酒。 |
| 212 | I know I sound like a consummate optimist, but I'm really not. | 我知道我听起来像个乐观主义者 但我真的不是 |
| 213 | I lose perspective all the time. | 我总是失去理智 |
| 214 | Sometimes everything just feels completely pointless. | 有时候一切都觉得毫无意义 |
| 215 | I know the pressure of living your life through the lens of perfectionism. | 我知道通过完美主义的镜片 让你生活的压力 |
| 216 | And I know that I'm talking to a group of perfectionists because you are here today | 我知道我和一群完美主义者说话 因为你今天在这里 |
| 217 | graduating from NYU. | 毕业于纽约大学. |
| 218 | So this might be hard for you to hear. | 所以这对你来说可能很难听 |
| 219 | In your life, you will inevitably misspeak, trust the wrong person, under-react, over-react, | 在你的生命中,你不可避免地会说错话,相信错人,反应不足,反应过度, |
| 220 | hurt the people who didn't deserve it, overthink, not think at all, self-sabotage, create a | 伤害那些不值得伤害的人, 过度思考, 根本不思考,自我破坏, 创造一个 |
| 221 | reality where only your experience exists, ruin perfectly good moments for yourself and | 在只有你的经验存在的地方 毁掉你美好的时光 |
| 222 | others, deny any wrongdoing, not take the steps to make it right, feel very guilty, | 其他人,否认任何错失行为, 不采取纠正措施, 感到非常内疚, |
| 223 | let the guilt eat at you, hit rock bottom, finally address the pain you caused, try to | 让内疚吞噬你, 击落摇滚底层, 最后解决你造成的痛苦, 尝试 |
| 224 | make it better next time, rinse, repeat. | 下次要好点 洗洗 重复一遍 |
| 225 | And I'm not going to lie. | 我不会说谎的 |
| 226 | These mistakes will cause you to lose things. | 这些错误会让你失去一切 |
| 227 | I'm trying to tell you that losing things doesn't just mean losing. | 我试图告诉你,失去的东西 不只是意味着失去。 |
| 228 | A lot of the time when we lose things, we gain things too. | 很多时候,我们失去的东西,我们得到的东西。 |
| 229 | Now you leave the structure and framework of school and chart your own path. | 现在,你离开了学校的结构和框架,并规划了自己的道路。 |
| 230 | Every choice you make leads to the next choice, which leads to the next. | 你所做的每一个选择都会导致下一个选择,从而导致下一个选择。 |
| 231 | And I know it's hard to know which path to take. | 我知道很难知道该走哪条路 |
| 232 | There will be times in life where you need to stand up for yourself, times when the right | 生命中有时你需要为自己而奋斗,有时你是对的 |
| 233 | thing is actually to back down and apologize, times when the right thing is to fight, times | 事情其实是 退后和道歉, 当正确的事情是战斗, |
| 234 | when the right thing is to turn and run, times to hold on with all you have, and times to | 当正确的事情是 转身和运行, 时间与你的一切, |
| 235 | let go with grace. | 饶了我吧 |
| 236 | Sometimes the right thing to do is to throw out the old schools of thought in the name | 有时候,正确的事情是 扔出旧的 思想流派的名字 |
| 237 | of progress and reform. | 进展和改革。 |
| 238 | Sometimes the right thing to do is to sit and listen to the wisdom of those who have | 有时正确的事情是坐着听那些拥有 |
| 239 | come before us. | 来到我们面前。 |
| 240 | How will you know what the right choice is in these crucial moments? | 你怎么知道在这关键时刻 正确的选择是什么? |
| 241 | You won't. | 你不会的。 |
| 242 | How do I give advice to this many people about their life choices? | 我怎么给这么多人 提供生活选择的建议? |
| 243 | I won't. | 我不会的 |
| 244 | The scary news is, you're on your own now. | 可怕的消息是 你现在要靠自己了 |
| 245 | But the cool news is, you're on your own now. | 但最酷的消息是 你现在只能靠自己了 |
| 246 | I leave you with this. | 我把这个留给你 |
| 247 | We are led by our gut instincts, our intuition, our desires and fears, our scars and our dreams. | 我们由我们的直觉、直觉、欲望和恐惧、伤疤和梦想领导。 |
| 248 | And you will screw it up sometimes. | 你有时候会搞砸了 |
| 249 | So will I. | 我也一样。 |
| 250 | And when I do, you will most likely read about it on the internet. | 当我这样做,你很可能 在互联网上看到它。 |
| 251 | Anyway, hard things will happen to us. | 无论如何,困难的事情会发生在我们身上。 |
| 252 | We will recover. | 我们会恢复的 |
| 253 | We will learn from it. | 我们将从中吸取教训。 |
| 254 | We will grow more resilient because of it. | 我们将因此而增强复原力。 |
| 255 | And as long as we are fortunate enough to be breathing, we will breathe in, breathe through, | 只要我们有幸呼吸 我们会呼吸 呼吸 |
| 256 | breathe deep, breathe out. | 深呼吸,呼吸出来。 |
| 257 | And I am a doctor now, so I know how breathing works. | 我现在是个医生 所以我知道呼吸的原理 |
| 258 | I hope you know how proud I am to share this day with you. | 我希望你知道我有多骄傲 与你分享这一天。 |
| 259 | We're doing this together, so let's just keep dancing like we're the class of 22. | 我们一起做,所以让我们继续跳舞 像我们是22级。 |
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