戳中无数女生的 TED:勇敢>完美,别被期待绑架!
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| 0:13 | So a few years ago, I did something really brave. | 几年前,我做了一件非常勇敢的事。 |
| 0:17 | Or some would say, really stupid. | 或者有些人会说,真的很愚蠢。 |
| 0:21 | I ran for Congress. | 我竞选国会议员 |
| 0:23 | For years, I had existed safely behind the scenes in politics, | 多年来,我一直安全地存在于政治幕后 |
| 0:27 | as a fundraiser, as an organizer, | 作为筹款者,作为组织者, |
| 0:30 | but in my heart, I always wanted to run. | 但在我的心里,我总是想跑。 |
| 0:33 | The sitting congresswoman had been in my district since 1992, | 现任女议员自1992年以来就一直在我区工作, |
| 0:38 | she had never lost a race, | 她从未输过比赛 |
| 0:40 | and no one had really even run against her in a Democratic primary. | 而且没有人真的 跑在她民主党初级。 |
| 0:44 | But in my mind, this was my way to make a difference, | 但在我的脑海中,这是我改变的方式, |
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| 1 | So a few years ago, I did something really brave. | 几年前,我做了一件非常勇敢的事。 |
| 2 | Or some would say, really stupid. | 或者有些人会说,真的很愚蠢。 |
| 3 | I ran for Congress. | 我竞选国会议员 |
| 4 | For years, I had existed safely behind the scenes in politics, | 多年来,我一直安全地存在于政治幕后 |
| 5 | as a fundraiser, as an organizer, | 作为筹款者,作为组织者, |
| 6 | but in my heart, I always wanted to run. | 但在我的心里,我总是想跑。 |
| 7 | The sitting congresswoman had been in my district since 1992, | 现任女议员自1992年以来就一直在我区工作, |
| 8 | she had never lost a race, | 她从未输过比赛 |
| 9 | and no one had really even run against her in a Democratic primary. | 而且没有人真的 跑在她民主党初级。 |
| 10 | But in my mind, this was my way to make a difference, | 但在我的脑海中,这是我改变的方式, |
| 11 | to disrupt the status quo. | 破坏现状 |
| 12 | The polls, however, told a very different story. | 然而,这些民意测验讲述了一个截然不同的故事。 |
| 13 | My pollsters told me that I was crazy to run, | 我的民调员告诉我 我疯了跑, |
| 14 | that there was no way that I could win. | 我不可能赢 |
| 15 | But I ran anyway, | 但我还是跑了, |
| 16 | and in 2012, I became an upstart | 在2012年,我成为了一个新的开始 |
| 17 | in a New York City congressional race. | 在纽约市国会的比赛中 |
| 18 | I swore I was going to win. | 我发誓我会赢的 |
| 19 | I had the endorsement from the New York Daily News, | 我得到了纽约每日新闻的支持, |
| 20 | the Wall Street Journal snapped pictures of me on election day, | 华尔街日报在选举日拍到我的照片 |
| 21 | and CNBC called it one of the hottest races in the country. | CNBC称它是全国最热门的种族之一. |
| 22 | I raised money from everyone I knew, | 我从我认识的每个人那里筹到了钱 |
| 23 | including Indian aunties | 包括印度姨妈 |
| 24 | that were just so happy an Indian girl was running. | 很高兴有个印度女孩在跑步 |
| 25 | But on election day, the polls were right, | 但在选举日 民意调查是对的 |
| 26 | and I only got 19 percent of the vote. | 我只有19%的选票 |
| 27 | And the same papers that said I was a rising political star | 报纸上说我是政治明星 |
| 28 | now said I wasted $1.3 million | 现在说我浪费了130万 |
| 29 | on 6,321 votes. | 以6,321票的票数。 |
| 30 | Don't do the math. | 不要做数学。 |
| 31 | It was humiliating. | 这是羞辱。 |
| 32 | Now, before you get the wrong idea, | 在你误会之前 |
| 33 | this is not a talk about the importance of failure, | 这不是谈论失败的重要性, |
| 34 | nor is it about leaning in. | 也不是关于倾斜的。 |
| 35 | I tell you the story of how I ran for Congress | 我告诉你我是如何竞选国会的 |
| 36 | because I was 33 years old, | 因为我当时33岁, |
| 37 | and it was the first time in my entire life | 这是我一生中第一次 |
| 38 | that I had done something that was truly brave, | 我做了一些真正勇敢的事, |
| 39 | where I didn't worry about being perfect. | 在那里我并不担心完美 |
| 40 | And I'm not alone. | 我也不是一个人 |
| 41 | So many women I talk to tell me | 这么多女人,我说话告诉我 |
| 42 | that they gravitate towards careers and professions | 他们为自己的事业而奋斗, |
| 43 | that they know they're going to be great in, | 他们知道自己会很棒 |
| 44 | that they know they're going to be perfect in. | 他们知道自己会完美无缺 |
| 45 | And it's no wonder why. | 且道为甚么. |
| 46 | Most girls are taught to avoid risk and failure. | 大多数女孩都学会避免风险和失败。 |
| 47 | They're taught to smile pretty, play it safe, get all A's. | 他们学会了微笑漂亮 安全地演奏 得到所有A |
| 48 | Boys, on the other hand, are taught to play rough, swing high, | 而男孩们则被教导 玩粗鲁,挥舞高, |
| 49 | crawl to the top of the monkey bars, | 爬到猴子栏杆的顶端 |
| 50 | and then just jump off headfirst. | 然后先跳下来 |
| 51 | And by the time they're adults, | 到他们成年的时候 |
| 52 | whether they're negotiating a raise or even asking someone out on a date, | 他们是否在谈判加薪,甚至约人约会, |
| 53 | they're habituated to take risk after risk. | 他们习惯在冒险后冒险 |
| 54 | They're rewarded for it. | 他们为此得到奖励. |
| 55 | It's often said in Silicon Valley, | 硅谷常有说法, |
| 56 | no one even takes you seriously unless you've had two failed start-ups. | 没有人会认真对待你 除非你有两个失败的创业者 |
| 57 | In other words, we're raising our girls to be perfect, | 换句话说,我们把女儿养成完美 |
| 58 | and we're raising our boys to be brave. | 我们培养我们的孩子勇敢。 |
| 59 | Some people worry about our federal deficit, | 有些人担心我们的联邦赤字, |
| 60 | but I worry about our bravery deficit. | 但我担心我们的勇敢不足。 |
| 61 | Our economy, our society, we're just losing out | 我们的经济,我们的社会,我们只是失去 |
| 62 | because we're not raising our girls to be brave. | 因为我们不会为了勇敢而抚养女儿 |
| 63 | The bravery deficit is why women are underrepresented in SEM, | 勇敢的不足是妇女在总统妇女事务秘书处任职人数不足的原因。 |
| 64 | in C suites, in boardrooms, in Congress and pretty much everywhere you look. | 在C套房 董事会 国会 以及你所看到的几乎所有地方 |
| 65 | In the 1980s, psychologist Carol Dweck | 1980年代,心理学家卡罗尔·德韦克 |
| 66 | looked at how bright fifth graders | 看着五年级的光辉 |
| 67 | handled an assignment that was too difficult for them. | 处理对他们来说太困难的任务。 |
| 68 | She found that bright girls were quick to give up. | 她发现聪明的女孩 很快放弃。 |
| 69 | The higher the IQ, the more likely they were to give up. | 智商越高,他们就越可能放弃. |
| 70 | Bright boys, on the other hand, | 聪明的男孩, 另一方面, |
| 71 | found the difficult material to be a challenge. | 发现困难的材料是一个挑战。 |
| 72 | They found it energizing. | 他们发现它令人兴奋 |
| 73 | They were more likely to redouble their efforts. | 它们更有可能加倍努力。 |
| 74 | What's going on? | 这是怎么回事? |
| 75 | Well, at the fifth-grade level, | 嗯,在五年级, |
| 76 | girls routinely outperform boys in every subject, | 女孩在每一学科的成绩都比男孩好, |
| 77 | including math and science. | 包括数学和科学。 |
| 78 | So it's not a question of ability. | 所以这不是能力的问题。 |
| 79 | The difference is in how boys and girls approach a challenge. | 区别在于男孩和女孩如何应对挑战。 |
| 80 | And it doesn't just end in fifth grade. | 而且它不只是结束 在五年级。 |
| 81 | An HP report found that men will apply for a job | HP报告发现,男性将申请工作 |
| 82 | if they meet only 60 percent of the qualifications. | 如果他们只满足60%的资格。 |
| 83 | But women? | 但是女人吗? |
| 84 | Women will apply only if they meet 100 percent of the qualifications. | 妇女只有达到100%的资历,才能申请。 |
| 85 | A hundred percent. | 百分百都一样 |
| 86 | This study is usually invoked as evidence that, well, | 这项研究通常被援引为证据: |
| 87 | women need a little more confidence. | 女人需要一点信心。 |
| 88 | But I think it's evidence that women have been socialized | 但我认为有证据表明 女人已经社交 |
| 89 | to aspire to perfection, | 渴望完美, |
| 90 | and they're overly cautious. | 他们太谨慎了 |
| 91 | And even when we're ambitious, | 即使我们野心勃勃 |
| 92 | even when we're leaning in, | 即使我们靠在一起 |
| 93 | that socialization of perfection has caused us to take less risks | 完美社会化导致我们承担的风险减少 |
| 94 | than our careers. | 比我们的事业。 |
| 95 | And so those 600,000 jobs that are open right now | 所以现在开放的60万份工作 |
| 96 | in computing and tech, | 在计算和技术, |
| 97 | women are being left behind. | 妇女被抛在后面。 |
| 98 | And it means our economy is being left behind | 意味着我们的经济被抛在后面 |
| 99 | on all the innovation and problems women would solve | 所有创新和问题 |
| 100 | if they were socialized to be brave | 如果他们是社会化的勇敢 |
| 101 | instead of socialized to be perfect. | 而不是社会化的完美。 |
| 102 | So in 2012, I started a company to teach girls to code. | 因此在2012年,我创办了一家公司, 教女孩如何编码。 |
| 103 | And what I found is that by teaching them to code, | 我发现的是 通过教他们 密码, |
| 104 | I had socialized them to be brave. | 我让他们学会勇敢 |
| 105 | Coding, it's an endless process of trial and error, | 编码,这是一个无休止的试验和错误过程, |
| 106 | of trying to get the right command in the right place, | 试图在正确的地方获得正确的指挥, |
| 107 | with sometimes just a semicolon | 有时只是分号 |
| 108 | making the difference between success and failure. | 将成功和失败区别开来。 |
| 109 | Code breaks, and then it falls apart, | 代码破解,然后它分解, |
| 110 | and it often takes many, many tries | 经常需要很多,很多尝试 |
| 111 | till that magical moment | 直到那个神奇的时刻 |
| 112 | when what you're trying to build comes to life. | 当你试图建造的东西 来到生命。 |
| 113 | It requires perseverance. | 这需要坚持不懈。 |
| 114 | It requires imperfection. | 这需要完善。 |
| 115 | We immediately see in our program our girls' fear of not getting it right, | 我们马上在节目里看到 我们的姑娘们害怕不正确 |
| 116 | of not being perfect. | 没有完美。 |
| 117 | Every girls who code teacher tells me the same story. | 每个密码老师的女孩都跟我讲同样的故事 |
| 118 | During the first week when the girls are learning how to code, | 在女孩们学习密码的第一周, |
| 119 | a student will call her over, | 一个学生会打电话给她, |
| 120 | and she'll say, | 她会说, |
| 121 | I don't know what code to write. | 我不知道该写什么代码 |
| 122 | The teacher will look at her screen, | 老师会看着她的屏幕 |
| 123 | and she'll see a blank text editor. | 她会看到一个空白的文本编辑器。 |
| 124 | If she didn't know any better, | 如果她没有更清楚, |
| 125 | she'll think that her student spent the past 20 minutes | 她会认为她的学生 过去20分钟 |
| 126 | just staring at the screen. | 只是盯着屏幕看 |
| 127 | But if she presses undo a few times, | 但是,如果她压了几次, |
| 128 | she'll see that her student wrote code | 她会看到她的学生写了密码 |
| 129 | and then deleted it. | 然后删除。 |
| 130 | She tried, she came close, | 她试过了,她走近了, |
| 131 | but she didn't get it exactly right. | 但她没有完全正确 |
| 132 | Instead of showing the progress that she made, | 而不是展示她取得的进步, |
| 133 | she'd rather show nothing at all. | 她宁愿一无所获 |
| 134 | Perfection or bust. | 完美或失败。 |
| 135 | It turns out that our girls are really good at coding. | 原来我们的姑娘们很擅长编码 |
| 136 | But it's not enough just to teach them to code. | 但是仅仅教他们密码是不够的. |
| 137 | My friend Lev Brie, who's a professor at the University of Columbia | 我的朋友Lev Brie 他是哥伦比亚大学的教授 |
| 138 | and teaches intro to Java, | 并教爪哇的介绍, |
| 139 | tells me about his office hours with computer science students. | 告诉我他和计算机科学学生的办公时间 |
| 140 | When the guys are struggling with an assignment, | 当他们忙着任务时 |
| 141 | they'll come in and they'll say, | 他们会进来说 |
| 142 | Professor, there's something wrong with my code. | 教授,我的密码有问题 |
| 143 | The girls will come in and say, | 女孩们会进来说 |
| 144 | Professor, there's something wrong with me. | 教授,我有问题 |
| 145 | We have to begin to undo the socialization of perfection, | 我们必须开始取消完美社会化 |
| 146 | but we've got to combine it with building a sisterhood | 但是我们必须把它和建立姐妹关系结合起来 |
| 147 | that lets girls know that they are not alone. | 让女孩知道她们不是孤独的 |
| 148 | Because trying harder is not going to fix a broken system. | 因为更加努力是无法修复一个破碎的系统。 |
| 149 | I can't tell you how many women tell me I'm afraid to raise my hand. | 我不能告诉你有多少女人说我不敢举手 |
| 150 | I'm afraid to ask a question, | 我不敢问一个问题 |
| 151 | because I don't want to be the only one who doesn't understand, | 因为我不想成为唯一不明白的人 |
| 152 | the only one who's struggling. | 只有一个人在挣扎 |
| 153 | When we teach girls to be brave | 当我们教女孩勇敢 |
| 154 | and we have a supportive network cheering them on, | 我们有一个支持的网络 给他们欢呼, |
| 155 | they will build incredible things. | 他们会造出不可思议的东西 |
| 156 | And I see this every day. | 我每天都看到这个 |
| 157 | Take, for instance, two of our high school students | 举个例子,我们两个高中生 |
| 158 | who built a game called Tampon Run. | 他创造了一个叫Tampon Run的游戏。 |
| 159 | Yes, Tampon Run. | 是的,谭邦跑。 |
| 160 | To fight against the menstruation taboo and sexism in gaming. | 在游戏中与月经禁忌和性别歧视作斗争. |
| 161 | Or the Syrian refugee who dares show her love for her new country | 或叙利亚难民 敢于对新国家表示爱意 |
| 162 | by building an app to help Americans get to the polls. | 帮助美国人进入民调 |
| 163 | Or a 16-year-old girl who built an algorithm | 或者一个16岁的女孩 造了一个算法 |
| 164 | to help detect whether a cancer is benign or malignant | 帮助检测癌症是良性还是恶性 |
| 165 | in the off chance that she can save her daddy's life | 在她能救她爸爸的性命的绝缘机会中 |
| 166 | because he has cancer. | 因为他有癌症。 |
| 167 | These are just three examples of thousands, | 这些只是几千个例子 |
| 168 | thousands of girls who've been socialized to be imperfect, | 成千上万个女孩被社会化 认为不完美, |
| 169 | who've learned to keep trying, who've learned perseverance. | 谁学会了继续尝试, 谁学会了坚持不懈。 |
| 170 | And whether they become coders | 以及他们是否成为编码者 |
| 171 | or the next Hillary Clinton or Beyonce, | 或者下一个希拉里・克林顿 或者碧昂斯 |
| 172 | they will not defer their dreams. | 他们不会推迟他们的梦想。 |
| 173 | And those dreams have never been more important for our country, | 这些梦想对我们国家来说 从未如此重要过 |
| 174 | for the American economy, | 对于美国经济, |
| 175 | for any economy to grow, to truly innovate. | 任何经济都能增长 真正创新 |
| 176 | We cannot leave behind half our population. | 我们不能丢下我们一半的人口。 |
| 177 | We have to socialize our girls to be comfortable with imperfection, | 我们必须让女孩们适应不完美 |
| 178 | and we've got to do it now. | 我们必须现在就做。 |
| 179 | We cannot wait for them to learn how to be brave like I did | 我们不能等待他们学会如何像我一样勇敢 |
| 180 | when I was 33 years old. | 我33岁的时候 |
| 181 | We have to teach them to be brave in schools | 我们必须教他们在学校勇敢 |
| 182 | and early in their careers | 在职业生涯的初期 |
| 183 | when it has the most potential to impact their lives | 当它最有可能 影响他们的生活 |
| 184 | and the lives of others. | 和别人的生活。 |
| 185 | And we have to show them that they will be loved and accepted, | 我们必须向他们表明,他们将受到爱戴和接受, |
| 186 | not for being perfect, | 不是因为完美 |
| 187 | but for being courageous. | 但因为勇敢。 |
| 188 | And so I need each of you to tell every young woman you know, | 所以我需要你们每一个人 告诉每一个你认识的年轻女人 |
| 189 | your sister, your niece, your employee, your colleague, | 你的妹妹,你的侄女,你的员工,你的同事, |
| 190 | to be comfortable with imperfection. | 对不完美感到舒服 |
| 191 | Because when we teach girls to be imperfect | 因为当我们教女孩不完美 |
| 192 | and we help them leverage it, | 我们帮助他们利用它, |
| 193 | we will build a movement of young women who are brave | 我们将建立一个运动 年轻女性谁是勇敢的 |
| 194 | and who will build a better world for themselves | 将为自己建立一个更美好的世界, |
| 195 | and for each and every one of us. | 并为我们每个人 |
| 196 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
| 197 | Richard, thank you. | 理查德,谢谢你。 |
| 198 | It's such a powerful vision you have. | 这是你如此强大的视觉。 |
| 199 | You have a vision. | 你有远见 |
| 200 | Um ... | 那个... |
| 201 | Tell me how it's going. | 说甚么. |
| 202 | How many girls are involved now in your program? | 现在有多少女孩参与你的节目? |
| 203 | So in 2012, we taught 20 girls. | 因此在2012年,我们教了20个女孩。 |
| 204 | This year, we'll teach 40,000 in all 50 states. | 本年,授全五十州四万户. |
| 205 | And that number is really powerful, | 而那个数字真的很强大, |
| 206 | because last year, we only graduated 7,500 women in computer science. | 因为去年我们只毕业了7500名女性 在计算机科学。 |
| 207 | Like, the problem is so bad | 像,问题是如此糟糕 |
| 208 | that we can make that type of change quickly. | 我们能迅速做出这种改变。 |
| 209 | And you're working with some of the companies in this room, even, right, | 你和这房间里的一些公司一起工作,甚至,对的, |
| 210 | who are welcoming graduates from your program? | 谁会欢迎你的毕业生? |
| 211 | Yeah, we have about 80 partners, | 是的,我们有大约80个合作伙伴, |
| 212 | 从Twitter到Facebook到Adobe到IBM到微软到皮克斯到迪士尼. | |
| 213 | I mean, every single company out there. | 我的意思是,每一个公司 在那里。 |
| 214 | And if you're not signed up, I'm going to find you. | 如果你不报名 我会找到你的 |
| 215 | Because we need every single tech company | 因为我们需要每一个技术公司 |
| 216 | to embed a girls-who-code classroom in their office. | 在办公室里安插一个女孩 谁的密码教室 |
| 217 | And you have some stories back from some of those companies | 你有一些故事 从一些公司回来 |
| 218 | that when you mix in more gender balance in their engineering teams, | 当你在他们的工程团队中 混合了更多的性别平衡, |
| 219 | that good things happen? | 好事发生? |
| 220 | Great things happen. | 伟大的事情发生了。 |
| 221 | I mean, I think that it's crazy to me to think about the fact | 我的意思是,我认为这是疯狂的 对我来说,想想事实 |
| 222 | that right now, 85 percent of all consumer purchases are made by women. | 而现在,85%的消费者 是由女性购买的。 |
| 223 | I mean, women use social media at a rate of 600 percent more than men. | 女性使用社交媒体的比例比男性高600%。 |
| 224 | We own the internet. | 我们拥有互联网。 |
| 225 | And we should be building the companies of tomorrow. | 我们明天应该建公司 |
| 226 | And I think when companies have diverse teams, | 我想当公司有不同的团队, |
| 227 | and they have incredible women that are part of their engineering teams, | 他们有不可思议的妇女,属于他们的工程队。 |
| 228 | they build awesome things, and we see it every day. | 他们制造了很棒的东西, 我们每天都看到它。 |
| 229 | Rashmi, you saw the reaction there. | 拉什米,你看见那里的反应了 |
| 230 | You're doing incredibly important work. | 你做着非常重要的工作 |
| 231 | This whole community is cheering you on. | 整个社区都在为你欢呼 |
| 232 | I'll polish you. | 我帮你擦擦 |
| 233 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
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