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英语播客: 与妈妈对话 | The Jon Peng Pod

英语播客: 与妈妈对话 | The Jon Peng Podcast

英语播客: 与妈妈对话 | The Jon Peng Podcast

发布于 2026-10-08 · 时长 44:06

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0:00Hello everyone and welcome to the John pang show podcast today there is no大家好 欢迎收看约翰·庞的节目 今天没有
0:06Topic but I'm very excited because today we have our first guest ever and that is my mother话题,但我很兴奋 因为今天我们有我们的第一个客人 那是我妈妈
0:15Hello, hello, hello, so哈罗,哈罗,哈罗,所以
0:18We don't have a script today我们今天没有剧本
0:20We don't have anything planned我们没有计划
0:22I really just want to talk to you about how life has been going a little bit about our history我真的很想跟你谈谈 生活是如何去 一点点关于我们的历史
0:28And also a lot of my subscribers have been dying to know you.我的许多订户都很想认识你
0:32Well, I'm here我来了
0:33Anything in particular you want to ask?有什么特别的要求吗?
0:38Well, we're gonna get into it so I'm a little nervous first of all because like好吧,我们会进入它 所以我有点紧张 首先,因为喜欢
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1Hello everyone and welcome to the John pang show podcast today there is no大家好 欢迎收看约翰·庞的节目 今天没有
2Topic but I'm very excited because today we have our first guest ever and that is my mother话题,但我很兴奋 因为今天我们有我们的第一个客人 那是我妈妈
3Hello, hello, hello, so哈罗,哈罗,哈罗,所以
4We don't have a script today我们今天没有剧本
5We don't have anything planned我们没有计划
6I really just want to talk to you about how life has been going a little bit about our history我真的很想跟你谈谈 生活是如何去 一点点关于我们的历史
7And also a lot of my subscribers have been dying to know you.我的许多订户都很想认识你
8Well, I'm here我来了
9Anything in particular you want to ask?有什么特别的要求吗?
10Well, we're gonna get into it so I'm a little nervous first of all because like好吧,我们会进入它 所以我有点紧张 首先,因为喜欢
11I've interviewed people before我采访过人
12But I've never really interviewed first of all my mother in like a podcast format但我从未像播客那样采访过我妈妈
13Are you nervous in any way?你紧张吗?
14No, that's good不,这很好
15Well, I guess I guess I'm not getting my my confidence right now from you because you taught me a lot about that我想我现在没有得到你的信任 因为你教会了我很多
16Well, one of the things I always told you as a little boy be confident我小时候一直跟你说的一件事 就是自信一点
17Yeah, if there's nothing else in this life that you can't achieve是啊,如果这生命里没有别的东西是无法实现的
18Confidence would be the first thing that I help you go after everything else.信心是第一件事 我帮你去追寻一切
19Okay wise words.好吧,聪明的话。
20Okay.摆
21Well, why don't we do this first?好吧,我们为什么不先这样做?
22So my audience knows a lot about me, but they probably know nothing about you我的观众了解我很多,但他们可能对你一无所知
23So why don't you just introduce yourself?那你为什么不自我介绍一下?
24Tell everyone a little bit about yourself.告诉大家一些关于你自己的事
25Oh geez, I'm very complicated yet very simple哦,天哪,我很复杂,但很简单
26I don't know where to begin我不知道从何说起
27I would say first of all that the我首先要说
28proudest and the biggest achievement I've already achieved in my lifetime is我一生中最骄傲的最大成就就是
29Sitting right next to me.就坐在我旁边
30Oh, so therefore anything I do is哦,所以,我所做的一切是,
31Secondary because I've already achieved the biggest accomplishment.中学因为我已经取得了最大的成就。
32I feel a mother or a我觉得自己是母亲还是母亲
33Person can attempt to tackle try to make me cry on camera, right?人可以尝试对付 试图让我哭在镜头上,对不对?
34That'd be the first这是第一次
35You always you know, the the most你总是知道,最
36Important thing ever as long as you were good then I could be good.只要你是好人,我就能成为好人
37Okay还好
38So with that being said clearly I was a very I was a young mother所以说得很清楚 我是一个非常年轻的母亲
39young single mother and年轻单身母亲和
40That was a lot of fun because we were这很有趣,因为我们是
41Able to play things like Donkey Kong together能一起玩驴金刚之类的游戏
42Well, first of all, I don't think there might be a problem cuz I don't think a lot of people I don't even首先,我不认为有问题 因为我不认为很多人 我甚至没有
43Well, if for those who don't know Donkey Kong is one of the first那么,如果对于不知道驴金刚的人来说 是第一个
44Video games playstation, right or no.电子游戏游戏站,对或否.
45No was it playstation?不是游戏台吗?
46No, bro.不,哥们。
47Sorry对不起
48Kind of said like Nintendo Nintendo's Nintendo and it was basically Mario Super Mario would be trying to有点像任天堂任天堂的任天堂 它基本上是马里奥超级马里奥会试图
49Go up this like tower.上这里像塔。
50Yes, and then donk right the the King Kong looking是的,然后把金刚右转看
51Well, Donkey Kong was a huge monkey on top and he'd be throwing these barrels.驴子金刚顶上是个大猴子 他会扔这些桶
52Yes对
53Super Mario's job was to jump over the barrels, you know break them and just get to the top超级马里奥的工作是跳过桶, 你知道打破它们,只是得到顶级
54And that in Tetris, so those are my two fun things在俄罗斯俄罗斯语里,这些是我的两个有趣的东西
55I remember we would finish dinner and all of a sudden let's let's mom and son on a Tetris thing.我记得我们会吃完晚饭 突然间 让我们让妈妈和儿子一起吃俄罗斯方块
56Anyways, I'm总之,我
57Aggressing we have to explain to the audience what exactly you see mean like life was like Donkey Kong冲动,我们得向观众解释 你究竟看到什么 像生活就像驴金刚
58No, it was just having a being a young mom不,这只是一个年轻的妈妈
59Yeah having a son who was just so full of energy and yeah是啊,有一个儿子 他只是充满了精力,是啊
60Energetic and it was fun because I could sit down and and play video games with you.能量和它很有趣 因为我可以坐下来和你玩电子游戏
61So you're saying I你是说我
62Sorry, I got I got to call you out again对不起,我再打给你
63You know cuz my audience demands clarity你知道,因为我的观众要求清晰
64I understand so you're saying that basically all the all the struggles of life and the surprises我明白,所以你的意思是 基本上所有的斗争 生活和惊喜
65Was like these barrels that Donkey Kong was throwing at you and you were the Super Mario just overcoming obstacles, right?像这些桶,驴金刚扔你 而你是超级马里奥 只是克服障碍,对不对?
66Well, I never thought of it that way, but that's a good way to put it我从来没这么想过 不过说来话长
67That would be like Tetris two-on-one, right?这就像俄罗斯方块 双对一,对不对?
68You know, like let's get let's get the the blocks all solid to go on to the next.你知道,像让我们 让我们得到所有的块 坚固到下一个。
69Okay还好
70I didn't realize this is going to be like some sort of well Tetris is not two-on-one, but that's okay我不知道这就像某种井一样 俄方不是两对一,但没关系
71Well, didn't you play to the left side of the screen?你不是在屏幕左边玩吗?
72I've laid on the right side of screen.我已经在屏幕右侧铺设了
73You're wrong.你错了
74That's pong这是乒乓
75No Tetris.没有俄罗斯方块。
76Oh, you're thinking of a different哦,你在想一个不同的
77Okay, and a newer version of Tetris didn't know how this game about video games好吧,一个更新版的俄罗斯方块 并不知道这个游戏是如何 关于电子游戏
78Okay还好
79Well, I have to say something here because sometimes a lot of my audience when I serve started my podcast好吧,我必须在这里说一些事情 因为有时很多我的观众 当我服务开始我的播客
80I was nervous because when I first began I didn't really have like a set subject, right?我紧张是因为当我第一次开始的时候 我真的没有像一个设定的主题,对不对?
81So sometimes I'll start like okay.所以有时我会开始像好的。
82Well today we'll talk about so in language related.今天我们用语言来讨论这个问题。
83We'll talk about something more likeи酵酵
84Self-development related.与自我发展有关。
85What are the issues had the beginning was that I would ramble a lot go on these tangents and问题在开始的时候是,我会大打出手
86Actually was interesting cuz a lot of people they said why I love your when you ramble I love these tangents basically and now sitting here其实很有趣,因为很多人说,为什么我爱你 当你拉扯,我爱这些正切的,现在坐在这里。
87I'm rambling.我在胡闹
88I'm a rambler我是一个拉客
89I can gab blah blah blah blah.我可以开玩笑的
90Yeah, I'm just gonna Gavin.是啊,我只是要去加文。
91So let's talk about something else我们来谈谈别的事
92We're gonna skip off this.我们要跳过这个。
93Okay game thing.好吧,游戏的事情。
94Sure cooking.当然做饭
95Yeah, I taught you how to cook是啊,我教你做饭
96Yeah from the minute you could put your little head over the counter and yeah是啊,从那一刻起,你可以把你的小头 在柜台上,是啊
97Okay, let's stop.好吧,让我们停下来。
98Can we I I understand now the plight of every interview every podcaster because these things are flying我能理解每一次采访的苦痛吗? 因为这些东西在飞翔
99I have to put this back on the rail.我得把这个放回轨道上
100So这么说
101basically to give everyone context again, yes, so growing up right you were a young single mom and基本上让每个人重新来过,是的,所以长大了,你是一个年轻的单身母亲,
102Most of my time as a child basically was just kind of like me and you我小时候的大部分时间 基本上就像我和你一样
103Yes, and then so life was like Donkey Kong and Tetris somehow some way and then是的,然后生活就像 驴金刚和俄罗斯方块 某种方式,然后
104Yes, so essentially对,所以基本上
105Just going back to like our past.只是回到我们过去的样子
106Yeah, so basically as a kid是啊,所以基本上作为一个孩子
107and basically to like my基本上喜欢我的
108My mid-teens basically say I we were living together as me and you basically that's correct.我十几岁的时候基本上说我俩是一起住的 你基本上是对的
109Yeah, so like是啊,所以喜欢
110What do you think was the?你觉得是什么?
111Like for me as a kid basically, what do you think was the biggest challenge for you?就像我小时候一样 你觉得你最大的挑战是什么?
112raising me as a kid the biggest challenge was trying to我小的时候最大的挑战就是
113Make sure that every six months I was in touch确保每六个月我联系一次
114Children tend to have a new personality every six months in my opinion我觉得孩子每半年就有一个新的性格
115So just when you think you you figured out this one six months later you you're staring at a whole new所以当你觉得你发现了这个 半年后,你正盯着一个全新的
116individual and personality and I think as a parent you have to really个人和个性,我想作为一个父母,你必须真的
117stay on top of that and make sure what worked before doesn't work now and and保持在上面,确保 之前的工作 现在不工作,
118Kind of steer you in that way so that you would have a good future这样你才能有美好的未来
119Would you say it's like six months?你会说这就像六个月?
120It's always about six months or is there a time where it kind of slows down or is it kind of like always evolving?它总是大约6个月, 或者有一段时间 它有点放慢 或者它是像总是在演化?
121I would say always evolving.我会说,总是在演变。
122Okay, so I mean for me even too好吧,所以我意思是,我连
123So I'm I'm I'm close to 40 now我快四十岁了
124And that's a big excuse for my audience because a lot of people think I'm like I get 20 I get 30那是我观众的一个大借口 因为很多人认为我就像我得到了20,我得到了30
125I don't know how that works exactly我不知道这到底是怎么回事
126But for me kind of getting closer, you know但对于我来说 越来越接近,你知道的
127I can definitely feel still for me that I'm still changing a lot every year as well我绝对能感觉到,我仍然 每年改变很多
128But obviously not not that much though, right?但显然没那么多,对吧?
129So when you talk about that that that big like change every six months所以当你谈论这个大 像改变每六个月
130What would you say for me as a kid was like the biggest like whoa?你小时候会怎么说?
131What's going on here like a style change or personality change?这到底是怎么回事,像一个风格的改变或者个性的变化?
132What what do you remember?你记得什么?
133Like what age and what happened?比如几岁 发生了什么事?
134purity纯度
135I一、导 言
136Pretty hit不错
137You're talking about liking girls你说的是喜欢女孩
138Well, you were always a very你总是很
139You were smart.你很聪明。
140Okay还好
141All of a sudden I became dumb you became dumb忽然我变成哑巴 你变成哑巴
142Okay, and I knew you were smart if you applied yourself.好吧,我知道你很聪明 如果你应用自己。
143Mm-hmm对
144You you know, you you kind of like most kids like to push it to the very end你知道,你有点喜欢 大多数的孩子喜欢把它推到最后
145But you'd eventually get it done, you know like anything but there is this one time that all of a sudden但你最终会完成,你知道什么, 但有一次,突然
146And it was when middle school started I believe and you just couldn't focus中学开始的时候 我相信 你却不能专心
147I was wrong.我错了
148Did you really turn that dumb overnight or something?你真的在一夜之间就变傻了吗?
149I mean girls and I realized there was a girl我的意思是女孩,我意识到 有一个女孩
150Yet you started having a little crush on and and this is when you you know in elementary school但你开始有点迷恋, 当你在小学的时候,
151You're in just one class when you start middle school你上中学时只上一个班
152You know, right like five or six seven classes all day and you change classes你知道,右像五六七班 一整天,你换班
153There was a girl like the same one and like three of your classes and all of a sudden you yeah有个女孩喜欢同样的一个 和你的三个班 突然你对了
154I was like what the heck couldn't focus.我就像地狱不能集中注意力。
155The funny thing is I know exactly who this girl is, but we're not gonna say the name有趣的是,我知道这个女孩是谁 但我们不会说出名字
156for(单位:千美元)
157privacy sakes隐私
158But yeah, I mean that but I mean that what kid girls to girls go crazy during period as well但是,是的,我的意思是,我的意思是, 孩子们对女孩的疯狂 期间,也
159You get more crazy a girl crazy, right?你更疯狂 一个女孩疯了,对不对?
160It's just这只是
161Just different.只是不一样
162Okay还好
163Interesting me as a young mom and yeah trying to get you to stay focused at that point有趣的是,我作为一个年轻的妈妈, 和是啊试图让你保持 集中在这一点上
164It was you you were very easily distracted.是你很容易分心的
165So这么说
166Yeah, that was that was a challenge.是啊,那是个挑战。
167Okay, I bet okay.好吧,我敢打赌,没关系。
168Let's get the hair out of your mic.让我们把头发从你的麦克风。
169Oh, sorry对不起
170Sorry, so we're doing this live right now.对不起,所以我们正在做这个现场直播。
171Usually when I do my podcast I have you know, I podcasted you set up通常当我做播客时,你知道, 我播客你设置
172You know in my house in China, you know, I get my student from home and I have a camera right now你知道在中国的房子,你知道, 我得到我的学生从家里,我有一个相机现在
173we're just doing you know a couple mics and我们只是做你知道 几个麦克风和
174现在的iPhone
175but I one thing I do love is that right now we're in a this beautiful house and但我喜欢的一件事是,现在我们 在一个美丽的房子,
176So, you know, I told I asked you earlier to introduce yourself所以,你知道,我告诉你 早些时候让你介绍自己
177But maybe you could tell the audience kind of like, you know what you're doing right now because this house is was your house但也许你可以告诉观众喜欢, 你知道你在做什么 现在,因为这个房子是你的房子
178Well soon to be someone else's house.很快会成为别人的家
179You kind of give one some details about that.你有点给一个细节。
180I一、导 言
181Am a rehabber.我是一个康复者。
182So I buy I所以我买我
183Look for old homes that have incredible personality that I can put life back into and I turned it into寻找那些有着不可思议的人格的老家 我可以让生活重现,我把它变成
184Art and I pass it off to a new owner我和阿特把它交给新主人
185And so this is one of my projects this one in particular.因此,这是我的项目之一 这个特别。
186Yeah, just finished one of my favorite kitchens actually has a是啊,刚刚完成 我最喜欢的厨房之一 实际上有一个
187white marble countertops go figure白色的大理石柜台上摆设
188But it's it's an escrow which means it is soon to be somebody else's house但它是一个代管人 这意味着它很快就是别人的房子
189I've already sold it.我已经卖掉了
190Congratulations.祝贺你
191Thank you.谢谢
192Yeah, but this is what I this has been my newfound passion是的,但这是我的 新的激情
193I've always felt that real estate in some way was art like for example, so sorry just interrupt我总是觉得房地产是艺术 比如说 抱歉打断一下
194So just to give context before so before you were in real estate mostly, you know dealing with you still are as well所以在你们房地产之前 先说个背景 你也知道和你打交道也是
195But now your main focus is但现在你的主要焦点是
196Rehabbing I mean some people would say called like flipping houses would be the the common term for but I know you hate that term我的意思是有些人会说 所谓的"翻房子"是常见的术语
197All right.好吧,我们走。
198I doи稱
199Okay, you were saying please continue好吧,你说请继续
200Well, I mean it my entire life.我这辈子都是这么说的
201I probably started off.我可能开始。
202I pretty much always been an entrepreneurial我一向都是个企业家
203entrepreneurial spirit创业精神
204I would say though that when you were little I我会说,虽然你小时候
205Did not take any chance or any risks and I 9 to 5 job.没有冒任何风险,我9比5的工作。
206I did my time in corporate America我在公司工作过
207Just for security there were risks being taken back then为了安全起见,当时有危险
208But that background was an accounting background a business management background and put myself back to school while you were little right但那个背景是一个会计背景 一个商业管理背景 把我自己放回学校 而你却不太对劲
209And just always constantly tried to learn and evolved so that总是不断尝试学习和进化
210compiled with编译为
211working in a law firm and在律师事务所工作,
212Then going into residential real estate and in the high-end world and West LA area.之后进入住宅房地产以及高档世界和西洛杉矶地区.
213Yeah对
214basically基本上是这样
215You know, it's it's changed the way I view what I do on a daily basis now the funny thing你知道,它已经改变了我的看法 我每天做的事情,现在有趣的事情
216I'm an entrepreneur when I worked for a company, right?我在公司工作时是个企业家,对吧?
217I couldn't get up at seven o'clock to save my life now我七点钟起不来救我的命
218I'm up every day at five.我每天5点起床
219Yeah对
220But all of those skills together但所有这些技巧一起
221put me in a new challenge in life where I让我在生活中面临新的挑战
222Just love I'm probably just a frustrated artist at heart.只是爱,我可能只是 一个沮丧的艺术家心脏。
223Sure.当然
224Well, I mean I mean in a lot of ways to嗯,我的意思是在许多方面
225I mean, I would never claim this right, but I mean what I do我的意思是,我永远不会 声称这个权利,但我的意思是我做什么
226Creating content content creation is an art in itself.创造内容内容本身就是一种艺术.
227It doesn't necessarily have to be like没必要像
228Music or painting or acting in the sense, you know, well, so when I view this place, it's it's it's beautiful音乐或绘画 或演艺,你知道,嗯,所以当我看到这个地方, 它是美丽的
229I mean the thing is I originally like for example these this blue if you're watching video you can see the cup我的意思是,事情是我最初喜欢 例如这些蓝色 如果你在看视频 你可以看到杯子
230You know, this is not the greatest angle right now你知道,这不是 最大的角度现在
231It's just the best angle for lighting but you could see the beautiful kitchen behind us and that that blue at first这是照明的最佳角度 但你可以看到我们身后美丽的厨房 一开始那蓝色
232I was like, I don't know it kind of me.我当时想,我不知道它有点我。
233It's kind of corporate kind of Facebook II blue, but it really is一种公司型的Facebook II蓝,但它真的
234Beautiful especially I mean I told you to I said we're gonna do the podcast特别漂亮 我是说我跟你说过我们要播客
235I'd love to do it here just looks great.我很想在这里做,只是看起来很棒。
236The lighting everything's really great灯光很好
237So, I mean, I I'm proud of you.我为你感到骄傲
238Just the whole place is is phenomenal只是整个地方是惊人的
239I mean whoever gets this place.我是说无论谁得到这个地方
240Yeah, whoever gets this place is gonna have a beautiful place to live是啊,谁得到这个地方 会有一个美丽的地方住
241Yeah, this I love this kitchen.是的,我喜欢这个厨房。
242It's a Pacific blue and it's funny because这是太平洋蓝色的,很有趣 因为
243Depending on the angle and I said to you in person it looks so much different.视角度而定,我当面对你说,看起来很不一样
244So yeah different所以是不一样的
245Things will show different shade of blue.事情会呈现不同的蓝色阴影。
246Hmm.是吗?
247So you mentioned like所以,你提到喜欢
248when you're your career, right and so当你的职业生涯,对的,所以
249When I was a kid小时候
250You've changed a lot of careers.你改变了很多事业
251Like you mentioned before before you're working in accounting.就像你之前提到的 在你从事会计工作之前。
252You did corporate America你做美国公司
253I believe you're working for you're working for American Express at one point.我相信你在为美国快报工作
254That was a division American Express, right?那是美国快递,对吧?
255So这么说
256Accounting, you know corporate, you know corporate accounting business management会计,你知道公司,你知道公司会计业务管理
257Then eventually you got into real estate and then now you still do real estate once in a while最终你进了房地产 现在还是偶尔做房地产
258But your main primary focus now is basically like rehabbing houses flipping basically但你现在的主要焦点 基本上就像 康复房屋翻转
259I basically decided when I was no longer worried about you to go out and take some chances我基本上决定了,当我不再担心你的时候 出去冒险
260okay, and I left my comfy cushy corporate America job, right and好吧,我离开了我的舒适 粗糙的公司美国的工作,右和
261Decided to become a real estate agent, even though every single person told me don't even think about it我决定做一个房地产经纪人 尽管每个人都告诉我不要考虑
262Cutthroat to the T. Yeah, so I be I was a Beverly Hills real estate agent对,我是比佛利山的房地产经纪人
263Yeah, and loved it, but that's because I've been doing business management for so long是啊,而且喜欢它, 但那是因为我做 商业管理这么久
264All the skills were kind of already in place.所有技能都已经到位了
265You were already I mean aside from the accounting back你已经是我说的 除了会计回来之外
266I'm into the numbers.我对数字感兴趣
267You're already really dealing with a lot of你已经处理了很多
268High-end people high-end people high-end money making big decisions basically, right?高端人 高端人 高端钱 基本上做出重大决定,对不对?
269So all I was doing at that point was becoming a salesperson我当时所做的就是成为推销员
270Yeah, I already did all the back end stuff the finance stuff是的,我已经做了所有后端的东西 金融的东西
271So the sales aspect was great did that for many many years was even on a silly, uh, you know所以,销售方面是伟大的 多年来,甚至是一个愚蠢的,呃,你知道
272I'm not gonna bring it up.我不会提起的
273But right it's keyless kidding.但是,这是没有钥匙的玩笑。
274We don't need to release all the information我们不需要发布所有信息
275A lot of people gonna watch this elicit this很多人会看这个
276Like my like my that girl fell in love with the middle school don't say her name就像我一样,我那个女孩爱上了中学校 不要说她的名字
277Let it be let it be okay让它好起来
278But yeah, I used to work with a lot of developers and I would I would go out and find homes for for developers但是,是的,我以前和很多开发商一起工作 我会出去为开发商找房子
279And when you say developers, you mean people basically developing real estate malls and buildings and当你说开发商, 你是指人们基本上 开发房地产商场和建筑
280Developers housing a real estate developer could be a house could be a condominium can be apartment could be anything.拥有房地产开发商的开发商 可以是房子 也可以是公寓
281Yeah对
282But I mainly did it for single-family homes但我主要是为了独居家庭
283I would find them and I would turn them over to them and go hey我会找到他们,然后把他们交给他们,然后去
284I found something has great potential because I could I could walk in within five minutes我发现一些东西有很大的潜力 因为我可以在五分钟内走进去
285See what it could eventually be.看看它最终会是什么。
286I've always had that that skill set in me.我一直都有那种技能
287So这么说
288All I've done now is basically我现在所做的基本上就是
289Move them out of the way.把他们挪开
290Yeah, and I wear all the hats and I I'm in the process of getting my contractors license是的,我戴着所有的帽子,我正在获得我的承包商执照
291I should hopefully have that希望我还有这个
292In the next six months, hopefully希望今后六个月
293so one of the things yeah, I mean when I when I always you know talk about you and I tell my friends about所以有一件事是,我是说,当我总是 当你知道谈论你,我告诉我的朋友
294you obviously your story is显然你的故事
295amazing obviously to be a令人惊讶的是一个
296single mother and单身母亲和
297You know, it's not like we were as when I was a kid你知道,这不是像 我们像 当我还是个孩子
298It's not like oh your single mother where we had a babysitter or or you put me no.这不是你的单身母亲 我们有一个保姆 或者你让我不。
299No, basically没有,基本上
300Well at that time it's a different time obviously那时候显然已经不同了
301But at that time is essentially like after elementary school, I just I'd ride I'd walk home但那时基本上就像小学毕业后, 我只是骑车,我走回家
302You were a latchkey kid.你以前是个小混混
303Yeah, and for people to know what a latchkey kid is that basically means I had a key around my neck是啊,为了让人们知道 钥匙的孩子是什么 基本上意味着我有一个钥匙在我的脖子上
304Yeah prime prime victim for anyone any any creeps or perverts basically, but I made it是啊,任何人的首要受害者 任何蠕动或变态基本上, 但我做了它
305Well, we had a good we had a I mean had a lot of moms and friends in the area嗯,我们有一个好的,我们有一个 我的意思是有很多的妈妈和朋友 在这一地区
306Every day you'd have to go and I would know exactly where you were gonna go if it's after school, right?每天你必须去,如果是放学,我就知道你要去哪儿,对吧?
307A lot a lot of the other moms很多其他妈妈
308There's a lot of other moms ever single too有很多其他妈妈也单身过
309And the funniest thing is that that the ones that were not single and I end up though all their kids最有趣的是 那些不是单身的人 而我最终却成了他们的孩子
310Your friends end up being with us at the time.你的朋友最后和我们在一起
311Yeah, but no it was always a where are you?是的,但是不,它总是 一个地方,你在哪里?
312What are you doing?你在干吗?
313Right?对吧?
314Are you going where you're going to be right?你要去哪里,你会是正确的吗?
315But it's crazy at that time但那时很疯狂
316There's no cell phones either so it's very much like a that's a different time as well.也没有手机,所以它非常像 一个不同的时间。
317Yeah对
318But what I was trying to get at though is that see you mentioned a lot you talk a lot about you know但我想说的是 你提到很多关于你的事
319Reinventing yourself.重新发明自己。
320Yes, and I think是的,我觉得
321That is such a hard thing真是难熬
322for(单位:千美元)
323Most people, you know 99% of people because generally I think what people fail or something terrible happens大多数人,你知道99%的人 因为我一般认为什么是失败或什么是可怕的发生
324It's very hard to get back on your feet and很难再站起来
325I always use a great example because you literally had like the world against you with like the cards were not in your favor我总是用一个伟大的例子,因为 你字面上有世界 与你像牌 不对你有利
326Basically, that is true基本上,这是真的
327Especially and I think especially for example, you know, we talked about some for me for those, you know特别是我想特别 比如,你知道, 我们为我讲了一些
328I'm I'm visiting rent in Los Angeles, California我在加州洛杉矶租房
329But I reside in in China但我住在中国
330But you know since kovat, you know但你知道,自从科瓦特,你知道
331Because we talked about just kind of looking at things and talking about like past businesses successes因为我们谈论的只是看事情 和谈论像过去的成功
332Basically and just looking for example shops here and it's occurred in China as well基本上,只是找一些店铺 在中国也发生过
333I think a lot of people since kovat happen我觉得自从科瓦特发生后 很多人
334It was it's been really hard for people to kind of get back on their feet even still to this day, right?一直以来,人们很难恢复脚步 甚至至今,对不对?
335Yeah, so对,所以
336My point I'm trying to make is that or what I'd like to know is我想说的是,我想知道的是
337You know when you talk about reinventing yourself你知道当你谈论 改造自己
338What are some things you could share about that in regards to kind of getting back on your feet trying something new or making something happen?在你重新站稳脚跟 尝试新的事情或让事情发生方面 你有什么可以分享的?
339Well, I would say first of all我首先要说
340Yes, I I would very openly say that I feel very blessed.是的,我会非常公开地说,我感到非常幸运。
341I am yeah没错
342That I don't even我甚至没有
343Falter sure of my thoughts about that法尔特肯定我的想法
344But yes my I've always felt though that the biggest learning lessons in life were the failures但我一直觉得 人生最大的教训是失败
345Mm-hmm, and I've always tried from everything that's gone wrong嗯,嗯,我总是尝试 从所有已经错了
346Tried to figure out what exactly happened.试图找出到底发生了什么。
347What could I have done differently?我还能做什么?
348You know should I have done something differently and and I think as an individual你知道我应该做一些不同的事情 而我认为作为一个个人
349I would say someone who is most definitely reinvented herself我想说,一个人 谁是最肯定的 自我重塑
350I would say people are very hard on themselves when they fail.我想说,当人们失败时,他们自己很艰难。
351Mm-hmm, and you should take accountability嗯,嗯,你应该负责
352But if you don't analyze what exactly happened if there was something you could have done better great但是,如果你不分析 到底发生了什么 如果有什么事情 你可以做更好的
353but if not learn move on yeah, but但要不是学会继续前进
354Don't give up on yourself不要放弃自己
355I think the biggest issue most people have is they just don't like themselves or love themselves我想大多数人最大的问题是 他们不喜欢自己 不喜欢自己
356And I don't mean it like in a sort of weird creepy sort of way我不是说那种怪异的恐怖
357but you you've you got to take care of yourself first and但你必须先照顾好自己
358So when when you try to do something out of the blue or reinventing yourself or a new career or something again所以当你试图做一些事情 出乎意料 或重新创造自己 或新的职业或什么的
359It goes back to the word.复说 to言.
360I've always said to you confidence我一直对你有信心
361You've got to just have that confidence to go I'm gonna try something different today it didn't work你必须要有那种自信才能走 我今天要尝试一些不同的东西 它没有工作
362But don't beat yourself up, you know但别自暴自弃,你知道的
363I always think like我总觉得
364It's kind of like when you're in a car and you see that rear view mirror就像你坐在车里 看到后视镜一样
365And it says objects if you're closer than they really are and it's like它说物体 如果你比他们更接近, 它就像
366Look at yourself.观自在身.
367You're琌
368Touch yourself.抚摸自己.
369Love yourself.爱自己。
370It's okay.没关系。
371Go try a new career.去尝试新的职业。
372I've tried so many things我试过很多次了
373Some things took some things don't you know, it's just I有些事情需要一些东西 你不知道,只是我
374There was I was getting to the point that I didn't really enjoy being a salesperson anymore.我开始觉得自己不再喜欢当推销员了
375It's a real estate, right?这是房地产 对吧?
376Okay, I just wasn't enjoying it anymore好吧,我只是不再喜欢它了
377a lot of running around到处乱跑
378Yeah, just just get into the place, you know difficult clients a lot of networking as well, right?是啊,只是刚进入的地方, 你认识困难客户 很多联网,对不对?
379Yeah, and I was over that是啊,我结束了
380I mean there was there was a time in my life that I was out nine out of seven days我的意思是,我生命中曾经有一段时间, 我出九七天
381Days are done.日子结束了。
382I don't even want to sure do one networking event我甚至不想做一个网络活动
383your your idea of a party now is你现在的派对想法是
384Three being with your three cats.三个跟你的三只猫在一起
385That's it就这样
386Okay, so好吧,这样吧
387No, it's it's that's that's the way it goes.不,这是它的方式。
388But yes, I I tried a few things didn't know if it's gonna work但是,是的,我尝试过一些事情 不知道它是否会工作
389And just you know, we just kept trying你知道 我们一直在努力
390Did I stumble upon this no, this is years upon accumulation of我碰巧碰到这个吗?
391What to do and any advice I could ever give to anyone is when you think about something you want to do做什么和任何建议 我可以给予任何人 当你想的东西 你想做什么
392Don't think about something that you just want to do because it just sounds cool不要去想一些你想做的事 因为听起来很酷
393Figure out what you're good at.辨其精进.
394Mm-hmm and and start there.嗯,嗯,从那里开始。
395Yeah, so for me, it was like, what am I good at?是啊,所以对我来说,它是喜欢, 我擅长什么?
396Well, I'm good at details my accounting background我擅长详细介绍我的会计背景
397incredibly did detail oriented非常精细
398I'm good at sales.我擅长销售
399I don't really love it, but I can so I used to an Eskimo我真的不爱它, 但我可以,所以我习惯爱斯基摩人
400You know, I'm actually not I would not consider myself a designer not at all其实我并不认为自己是设计师
401Even though I am a designer sure it does not come natural to me.虽然我是一个设计师 肯定它不会自然而然地对我。
402I think this is beautiful我认为这是美丽的
403But you know, I can understand because for me for example, like when I'm thinking of my living space但你知道,我能理解 因为举例来说,比如说,当我想起我的生活空间时
404You're looking for a place to live or you know renting a place你在找地方住,还是租房子
405I like simple like I'm not the same.我喜欢简单的,就像我不一样。
406This is simple, but it's it is very the way you stage it is clean很简单,但是你演的很干净
407Simple, but I love that look for me where I think someone else like if they went design maybe one thing more elaborate and more很简单,但我喜欢寻找我 在那里,我想别人喜欢 如果他们去设计 也许一件事更精心和更多
408Colorful in that sense.其义中多色.
409Yeah.对
410Well, don't forget staging just means the furniture that I actually let someone else do here嗯,别忘了 装配只是表示家具 我实际上让别人在这里做
411But I'm talking about the color coordination fixtures.但我说的是颜色协调装置。
412Okay, the kitchen好,厨房
413Yeah, you redo a whole kitchen like I redesigned like all the colors in the kitchen是啊,你重修整个厨房 就像我重新设计的一样 像厨房里所有的颜色
414The tile the瓷砖
415The cabinet right now.内阁现在。
416I do have people like I help that help me with it我确实有像我这样的人来帮我
417I do have some interior designers I'll lean upon我有一些室内设计师,我会倚靠
418but不过
419More with the floor plan or with the staging but every single finish in here is my own更多与地板计划或 中程,但每一个完成在这里是我的
420I'm the floor to the door to the door handles to that light fixture我是门的地板 门的把手 光线固定
421To the cabinets to the the handles on them到柜子里去 把手放在柜子里
422It's all me and that doesn't come这一切都是我,那不会来
423Natural, but it takes me a minute and I find that each of my projects自然的,不过我需要一分钟 我发现我的每个项目
424I I just kind of like I have no idea when I start what my kitchen or my bathrooms or any of it's gonna我只是有点像我不知道 当我开始我的厨房,我的浴室 或任何它要去
425Look like so I just kind of start with one piece at a time看起来像是,所以我只是 那种开始一个片一次
426And is that one piece comes together to kind of go to the next section and and it's always like a hoof一块拼在一起 到了下一节 它总是像一只蹄子
427Okay, I did it好吧,我办到了
428Do I like it?我喜欢吗?
429Like I did the shower and the tiles are two separate tiles on two walls and the back wall is a different one就像我洗澡和瓷砖一样 两面墙上是两块独立的瓷砖 后墙是另一面
430It's like well, I hope I like it because I'm not changing that now.感觉很好,我希望我喜欢 因为我现在没有改变。
431So yes, it's it's I guess what you're getting at所以,是的,这是我猜 你得到什么
432In a sense is basically just you have to try try try to fail learn.从某种意义上来说,你只需要尝试 尝试失败学习。
433It's a it's a process.这是一个过程。
434It's a marathon in a sense, right?从某种意义上来说,这是个马拉松,对吧?
435absolutely, absolutely and绝对,绝对和
436Don't be so hard on yourself.别对自己这么苛刻
437Yeah, I'm very hard on myself是啊,我对自己很苛刻
438I say that with you, but I'm incredibly hard on myself me myself and I sit down and the three of us go to war我和你这么说,但我对我自己很苛刻 我坐下来,我们三个去打仗
439At times it's not pretty to be in the room with me有时候跟我在房间里并不漂亮
440And I also want to you know, preface is for everyone, you know watching right now because I think I'm you know我也想知道,序言是给每个人的, 你知道现在看,因为我想我你知道
441Advice is easy to give right?忠告很容易给吗?
442It's easy to say just do it right just hang in there.说做就对了 坚持住
443Basically.基本上是这样。
444Oh, yeah对
445but I hate those words, right, but但我讨厌这些话,没错,但是
446Of course living in the States, you know compared to you know, different countries and you know poverty to sense当然,在美国生活, 你知道比你知道, 不同的国家,你知道贫穷感知
447But when you're when you're reinventing yourself, it's not like you were in a good position at all.但当自己在重塑自己时,却完全不像自己处于好的地位.
448No没有
449Yeah, not at all.是啊,一点也不。
450It's it's the real estate market was tanking interest rates are going beyond they're even still not going beyond是因为房地产市场挤压利率 已经超过利率了 甚至还没有超过
451It's not the best time to be in either of those fields现在不是进入这两个领域的最佳时机
452But I I have a I'm just a frustrated artist但我有一个 我只是一个沮丧的艺术家
453If I can find something that feels like art to me where I can be如果我能找到一些 感觉像艺术的东西
454Creative, you know and again, this is where I said I had to really think about创造力,你知道,再次, 这就是我说,我必须真正思考
455What am I good at?我擅长什么?
456And that's what people forget sometimes figure out人们有时会忘记这一点
457What are you good at and you know what ask for help?你擅长什么 知道什么是求救吗?
458Yeah, don't be afraid to ask for help是啊,别怕求救
459Yeah对
460I couldn't have done this without help from my families and friends that had to support me没有家人和朋友的帮助,我无法做到
461Private investors like they just you have to ask for help.像他们这样的私人投资者 你只需要寻求帮助
462Yeah, and you'd be surprised that是啊,你会惊讶的
463People will help not everybody and it's okay人们不会帮任何人的 没事的
464Well, I think I want to preface this to you because it's not exactly you know好吧,我想给你做个序语,因为你并不知道
465there are a lot of people as example, maybe you don't have these friends or family, but you actually a lot of the比如说有很多人 也许你没有这些朋友或家人 但你实际上有很多
466Best influences in your life or people that really helped you out were also not family or friends对你的生活或真正帮助你的人影响最大 也不是家人或朋友
467they were they were people that他们就是那种人
468You maybe worked for you knew in the community that you admire that that really you know你也许为你工作 在社区里知道 你钦佩,那其实你知道
469You sold yourself and they really took a chance on you.你出卖了自己 他们真的抓住了你的机会
470That is correct.没错
471Absolutely当然
472Okay还好
473Well, let's it's a lot of a lot of a very very好吧,让我们有很多 非常非常。
474chicken soup of the soul灵魂的鸡汤
475Going on here.继续走
476Let's let's share the subject a little bit让我们分享一下话题
477No, yeah, you're might make sure your mic is good不,是的,你会确保你的麦克风好
478It should be okay, right?应该没问题吧?
479If the mic if the audio is bad, we apologize about that如果录音不好的话,我们道歉
480There's a lot of reverb and echo in this room or do we can here?这个房间里有很多回声和动词 或者我们能在这里吗?
481All right, so let's change the subject a little bit too much chicken soup for the soul好,我们换个话题 给灵魂换点鸡汤
482Um垛
483So I don't live in the States anymore.所以我不再住在美国了
484I live basically full-time in China right now我现在基本上在中国全天工作
485What when exactly when is when did I come to to China do you remember it was shortly after you graduated, okay我什么时候来中国 你还记得你毕业后不久吗?
486So I think所以我觉得
487For a lot of families are used to this right a lot of American families, you know很多美国家庭都习惯这样
488when a kid will go to当一个孩子会去
489College it's very common that they'll go to another state to a different college basically大学里很常见的是 他们会去另一个州 然后去另一个大学
490You know, but for me, you know after I kind of graduated I decided to really make the move to你知道,但对我来说,你知道, 在我毕业后,我决定 真的搬到
491move to China and移居中国
492I'm curious我有点好奇
493How did this make you feel?这让你感觉如何?
494Why awful为什么可怕
495Okay, why?好吧,为什么?
496Hated it hate I don't use it word hate at all.我恨它,我根本不用它来形容恨
497Yeah.对
498Well cuz you're a far因为你很遥远
499yeah far I mean also to to give and it's okay to talk about this as well, you know, because是啊,很远,我还意味着给予, 它的好谈论这一点,你知道的,因为
500Obviously people are watching this right now.很明显,人们正在看这个。
501They're like他们就像
502Why are you podcasting with your sister, right?你为什么和姐姐一起播客?
503But uh, of course, right my young beautiful mother但是,呃,当然,正确的 我的年轻美丽的母亲
504But the biggest thing is right things we don't believe we do look alike但最大的事情是 正确的事情,我们不 相信我们看起来相似
505But you know, obviously I look a lot more Asian than you do, right?但显然我看起来比你更像亚洲人 对吧?
506Depends what day I what I you'd be surprised.取决于我哪天你会惊讶
507Yes, I look more Asian didn't I why don't I don't know?是的,我看起来更亚裔 我为什么不 我不知道?
508You always look like you to me, but but you know because essentially so because my father's Chinese, right?你总是看起来像你,但你知道 因为基本上,因为我父亲的中国人,对不对?
509You're not together anymore, right and you and you're mixed you are你们已经不在一起了,对吗,你们混在一起了
510What's your mix?你的组合是什么?
511Okay, but you can basically half Caucasian Caucasian and Vietnamese.好吧,但你基本上可以一半的高加索人和越南人。
512Yeah grandfather apparently is Chinese是啊,爷爷显然是中国人
513so right but growing up basically I所以是正确的,但长大了基本上我
514Really didn't have any big connection to China真的跟中国没什么关系
515Because the areas I we grew up in and I played my friends basically none of them really agent因为那些我成长的地方 我扮演我的朋友 基本上没有一个真正的经纪人
516I'd really make my first Asian friend till high school, right?我真的会让我的第一个亚洲朋友 直到高中,对不对?
517And then also for you to you there's nothing, you know, nothing Chinese about your life or you know还有,对于你来说,你的生活和中国都没什么
518But any any real connection to it?但有什么真正联系吗?
519So even though my best friend is Vietnamese.虽然我最好的朋友是越南人
520Yeah, but I said Chinese.是的,但我说中国。
521Yeah, so对,所以
522so这样
523When I went it was really to give当我去的时候,它真的是给
524Mandarin Chinese a chance basically, so I can understand where you're like what why well, what's what's the point of it?普通话 基本上,中国人的机会,这样我就能理解你在哪里,为什么好,有什么意义?
525Basically, so基本上是这样的
526That was a long time ago这是很久以前的事了
527that was这是
52820 years ago20年前,我们...
52915年前20年了 15 years ago.
530Don't be dating me别跟我约会
531Stating me too, right?也告发我,对吧?
532So we don't talk age around here.所以我们不会在这里谈论年龄。
533Sure, but what so当然,但为什么
534I can't be 35 if you're如果你是35岁,我不可能
535How do you feel like感觉怎么样?
536then to now basically like what do you what's changed about the way you think and然后现在基本上喜欢 你怎么看待你的想法
537You know how you feel about me kind of you know, in a sense moving abroad essentially and being there full-time你知道你对我的感觉 那种你知道, 从某种意义上来说, 移居国外 基本上和在那里全职
538Well, I I'm happy for you.我为你高兴
539So whatever makes you happy ultimately is所以,无论是什么让你快乐 最终是
540Just because it's not what I want that doesn't只是因为我不想这样
541Doesn't really没有
542Matter, you know, no, I will never say that.物质,你知道,不,我永远不会说。
543I'm okay with it.我无所谓
544I want you here.我要你在这里。
545Of course当然
546I want you here every weekend.我要你每个周末都来
547I want to have dinner.我想吃晚饭。
548I want to I want to smooch you in person not these like, you know我想亲手打你 而不是这样
549Xoxo weed chats a little emoji with the kissXoxo杂草用吻来聊天
550You know, it's it's hard it's hard, but I I have to accept it你知道,这是很难 它很难,但我必须接受
551Yeah, and I'm happy that you're happy and that's what's important so as long as you're happy I accept it and是啊,我很高兴 你快乐,这是最重要的 只要你高兴,我接受它
552Look now you got me on a podcast talking a bunch of strangers你看,现在你让我在播客 说一堆陌生人
553Talking about things.谈论事情。
554I don't even talk about anybody.我甚至不谈任何人。
555Whatever fine.不管怎么样
556Okay.摆
557All right supports you好吧,支持你们
558Okay, I'm sorry, I'm sorry I'm laughing okay, all right, okay好吧,对不起,对不起,我笑了 好吧,好吧,好吧
559Well as our podcast is rolling as is winding down here and I I think people are gonna love it随着播客的滚动 风起云涌 我想人们会喜欢的
560Well, they love it or hate it他们喜欢还是讨厌?
561But it I think it'll be interesting for people to again但是我觉得人们又会觉得有趣
562They love people that love to hear me ramble what will love this one because the first I'm actually talking to someone and of course a very他们喜欢那些喜欢听到我说话的人... ... ......
563important guest then那重要客人来了
564You know with the rest of this podcast in mind, you know, they're 10 or 15 minutes你知道,其余的播客, 你知道,他们 10或15分钟
565It's really you'd like to ask me any questions you have for me你真的想问我任何问题
566You know anything you like as long as we keep it in the parameters of not getting myself in trouble and not你知道你喜欢什么 只要我们把它留在 参数,不让我自己陷入麻烦,而不是
567Talking about too much personal stuff说太多私事
568So my question for you would be所以我要问你的是
569What is it that you miss or do you miss about the states?你错过了什么 或者你错过了各州?
570You're abroad你在国外
571Is there anything?有什么发现吗?
572But when you leave you go, I'm really gonna miss that or on your way back但是当你离开你,我会 真的很想念,或者你回来的路上
573I can really look forward to that or just being between two countries, you know我真的很期待这 或者只是介于两个国家之间
574Yeah, it's是的,这是
575It's an interesting question because这是一个有趣的问题,因为
576I've now我现在有了
577Lived my in terms of my adult life.活在我的成年生活里。
578I've lived in China longer than I've lived my in the USA for my adult life now and我在中国生活的时间 比我在美国生活的时间长
579These days too, I almost feel like I'm more like这些天我几乎感觉我更喜欢
58060%
581Chinese and 40% American and I mean that basically like my thought process my my my habits and things I do and中文和40%的美国人和我是说 基本上就像我的思想 处理我的习惯和事情 我做
582You know, I'd say first of all number one你知道,我会说第一
583obviously很明显
584You know coming home visiting family你知道回家探亲
585Is very important, you know, there's just a like you said很重要的,你知道,有 就像你说的
586There's only so much you can do like video calls and then chatting online that it doesn't really feel the same as you know你只能做很多事情 喜欢视频通话 然后在网上聊天 感觉和你知道的不一样
587Giving your mom a big hug and a kiss, right?给你妈妈一个大的拥抱和一个吻,对不对?
588For me when I come to visit it's mainly to just really对我来说,当我来拜访, 这主要是真的
589Like fill the soul up and fill the heart up in the sense, you know, that's that's number one就像填满灵魂 填满心灵一样
590The second thing is there's there's definitely a lot of things I miss.第二件事是,我肯定想念很多东西。
591I mean like我的意思是喜欢
592People are not joking when they come to the States they say well everything's so much bigger当人们来到美国的时候,他们不是开玩笑的 他们说,一切都好得多了
593right, so especially like food portions特别是食物
594You know quality of food is still hard to beat in a lot of ways你知道食物的质量在很多方面还是很难被打败的
595But at the same time, you know with the quality of food and with that comes, you know pricing as well但与此同时,你知道 食物的质量 和随之而来,你也知道价格
596So, you know as you know for me like one of the the main reasons I choose to stay in in China所以,你知道,就像你知道的 我的主要原因之一 我选择留在中国
597Is because for me the cost-living, you know versus cost-living here is way lower basically因为对我来说,生活成本, 你知道相对于生活成本 基本上要低得多
598So there are definitely like things like for example meat, right?所以肯定有类似的东西 比如肉,对不对?
599You know, we had an amazing dinner yesterday, right huge slab of salmon, right?你知道,我们昨天吃了一顿很棒的晚餐, 右大块的鲑鱼,对不对?
600Like these ribs right these like a great steak basically now you can get that in China as well喜欢这些肋骨右 这就像一个伟大的牛排 现在基本上 你可以得到,在中国
601But you know the the price would probably be a lot more expensive但价格可能要贵得多
602It's more readily available and I'd go to say as well更方便买,我也会说
603Even though you have, you know American meats available in China虽然你有,你知道中国有美国肉
604The quality would be to me at least a lot fresher and a more readily available in that sense对我来说,质量至少是更新鲜的 更方便的,在这个意义上
605The lifestyle and this is do you remember when I when I would first come to visit you I would kind of always be like你还记得我第一次来看你时的生活方式吗?
606Restless, do you remember that?不安,你还记得吗?
607So there would be times when I visit I think I gotta find something to do所以有时我会去拜访 我觉得我得找点事做
608I got I got a I'm gonna do this I do this I could do this basically and我得到了一个我要去做到这一点 我这样做,我可以做到这一点,基本上
609I think there was there was a few things one is obviously that the pace and the lifestyle in China is just so much我想有几件事是很明显的 中国的节奏和生活方式
610Faster, right?快点,对吧?
611You know, you visited right?你知道,你拜访对不对?
612There's so there's a lot going on and then the interesting thing though有很多事情发生 有趣的是
613And I think this is common for everybody is the the older I'm getting now.我觉得这对每个人来说都是常见的 年纪越大了
614I prefer quieter, right?我喜欢安静点,对吧?
615I think you know, obviously that's just a company that comes to age, right?我想你知道,很明显,这只是一个 公司到老,对不对?
616You know when I go I don't go to clubs anymore because now I'm like I can't hear you我一去就不再去俱乐部了 因为现在我好像听不到你的声音
617Right now I like to sit talk and drink and eat whereas before I want to be in a club dancing and jumping up and down现在,我喜欢坐着说话,喝酒,吃饭 之前我想在俱乐部跳舞,跳上跳下
618Right.对
619So I think one thing I do miss as well is just when I'm in LA所以我也想念一件事 就是当我在洛杉矶的时候
620There are just these great spots where it's quiet.只有这些大片地方很安静
621It's nice and there's not不错,没有
622Hundreds of people everywhere, you know the the area you live in you don't say what it is到处都是几百人,你知道你住的地方... ...你不说是什么
623We took a walk by the beach the other day.前几天我们在海滩散步
624Yeah, and we had a really great是啊,我们有一个非常好的
625Conversation by the beach and you couldn't really easily do that in China在沙滩上交谈,你在中国可不容易做到
626I mean you could but it's not easily available for everyone and there's a lot of water you wouldn't going in China我的意思是,你可以,但它不是 容易为每个人, 有很多水你不会去中国
627That's not the cleanest water unfortunately, right?可惜这不是最干净的水吧?
628so这样
629Those are things I missed you.这些都是我想你的东西。
630I mean I think我觉得
631Well because of my my my work and what I do因为我的工作和工作
632you know as a content creator just你知道作为一个内容创造者
633price wise价钱明智
634You know money wise and the setup I have and also our business while our team is very small, but it's a very你知道钱明智 和我的设置 还有我们的生意 当我们的团队非常小,
635efficient business basically基本上,高效业务
636Works for where it is right now.工作的地方它现在。
637It could work here, too这里也行
638But I don't I don't know if it would be as efficient.但我不知道这是否同样有效
639I could definitely make it work我绝对可以做到的
640That's one thing but there are things as well because for example, I do a lot of content like outside有一件事,但也有一样 因为,比如,我做很多内容 像外部
641Like I'll feel like things in restaurants or in stores and in places like that就像我在餐馆或者商店里 和那种地方一样
642You can't necessarily do that so easily here in the States like I remember one time在美国,你不一定能这么容易做 就像我记得一样
643Yeah, I was filming something in a Starbucks right and all of a sudden as old guys like don't record me是啊,我在星巴克拍一些东西 右和所有突然 像老人喜欢不记录我
644Are you filming me?你在拍我吗?
645What are you doing?你在干吗?
646You know?你知道吗?
647So there are things like that where you can you can you know you can do more that in in China or Asia in a sense, right?因此,有些事情 你可以在那里 你可以知道 你可以做更多的,在中国或亚洲 从某种意义上说,对不对?
648For the work wise it doesn't work it but I think I have to say and I hate to always bring it up明智的工作是行不通的 但我想我必须说,我讨厌总是提起
649It is always that总是这样
650LA is not it is a driving place.洛杉矶不是开车的地方
651Yes, and and I think unfortunately like是的,我觉得很不幸
652so the other day I was here because I had like a businessman had to go to and那天我在这里,因为我像一个商人 不得不去
653Even though like the event was at like 12 or something like that.即便像这个事件 像12或什么的。
654No, no, it was it was at 9不,不,是9点
655I was like, oh you want nine.我当时想,哦,你想9。
656You're like, what time should I leave you like two hours?你就像,我该什么时候离开你 像两个小时?
657You're always in LA, you're always planning around traffic basically你总是在洛杉矶, 你总是在规划交通
658Yeah, and I don't know if I I've heard you know, they always look at LA traffic is the worst, right?是啊,我不知道,如果我听说你知道, 他们总是看 洛杉矶交通是最糟糕的,对不对?
659But不过
660It is just a shame to me because I know LA is working on it这对我来说太可惜了 因为我知道洛杉矶在努力
661It is a shame to me that public transportation here has never really gone to where it should be真可惜,这里的公共交通 从来没有真正去到它应该去的地方
662Yeah, it's a struggle.是啊,这是一个斗争。
663Yeah, and it's a struggle是啊,这是一场斗争
664And I think between struggle there's a lot of like factors that that that are going behind those decisions我认为在斗争之间 有许多相似的因素 背后的那些决定
665But unfortunately, it is no politics on a podcast.但不幸的是,这不是播客的政治。
666No politics没有政治
667But it but it's a thing too.但这也是件事情
668For example, like, you know比如说,你知道
669You know, we drove the other day to a friend's house, right?我们前几天开车去朋友家,对吧?
670and obviously because one of our family members is driving they can't drink right but显然,因为我们的一位家庭成员开车 他们不能喝对了,但是...
671Like you said that distance well, you could get an uber but that'd be crazy expensive就像你说的 距离好,你可以得到一个uber 但是那会是疯狂的昂贵
672Well, he would have been on our way home, yeah stuck in traffic it was they decided to do嗯,他本来是在我们回家的路上, 是啊堵在交通上... ...
673mmm毫米口径
674Remodeling on the freeway.高速公路改造.
675Yeah at 730 at night whole detour晚上7点30分整程
676Yeah, that would be crazy our detour just to go five miles.是啊,那会是疯狂 我们的绕道 只要走五英里。
677Yeah, holy cow对,圣母牛
678But but again, it's it's just the and I'm not saying those and there's there's good and bad both countries basically但再说一遍,只是我并没有说那些 基本上两国都有好坏
679But it is great that for example in China that distance if it weren't right但是,在中国,如果那样的距离不对,那就太好了
680We could have taken the subway in a sense.我们可以在某种意义上坐地铁
681It's good to have that option有这个选择真好
682and I just think any city could could use public transportation, but我只是觉得任何城市都可以使用公共交通,但
683It's just a small thing.只是个小事
684But yeah, it is it does contribute to I think just a daily life, but aside from that但是,是的,它确实有助于 我认为只是日常生活,但除此之外
685Yeah, I mean I because we've talked about this as well.是啊,我的意思是,因为我们已经谈过了这一点。
686I mean, I do feel myself coming back one day我的意思是,我确实感觉自己有一天会回来
687It's just it's hard to say now只是现在很难说
688you know what I mean, because I it's你知道我的意思,因为我是
689It's interesting, you know as we're you know, wrapping up this podcast这很有趣,你知道,我们知道, 结束播客
690It's like I told you before and I tell I tell all the family that I visit就像我之前告诉你,我告诉所有我拜访的家人
691You know, you know your side the other sides.你知道,你知道你的另一边。
692Basically, I'm telling everyone that right now.基本上,我现在告诉大家这一点。
693We're in such a great我们非常棒
694Transition to the the the next向下一个阶段过渡
695Best amazing part and we've written you know, you're very much in transition as well your your career what you're doing right now最精彩的部分,我们已经写了,你知道, 你非常在过渡 和你的职业,你正在做的现在
696What I'm doing right now too and with my family and things happen right now我现在做的事 和我的家人在一起 事情就发生了
697But I think that for right now where we're all where we all are and what we're doing right now is the right thing to do但我认为,现在,我们在哪里 我们都在哪里, 我们在做什么,现在
698now in the next three or five years as things, you know, either mature or在接下来的三年或五年里 无论是成熟还是成熟
699settle or they're not as要么就解决,要么就不是
700like喜欢
701Frantic, you know because right now we're what you're doing what I'm doing.弗兰蒂克,你知道的,因为现在我们正在做你正在做的。
702We're very much like I'm我们很像我
703Trying to make something work right now试图让一些东西 现在工作
704Yes, so it can be as successful as possible and then we can start to relax a little bit是的,所以它可以尽可能的成功 然后我们可以开始放松一点
705So I'm also in a way for me所以我也为我着想
706reinventing myself a lot as well because I重塑我自己很多,因为我
707Have my main source of content that I'm doing right now, which is like, you know language related, but I also see from拥有我的主要内容来源,我正在做, 这就像,你知道的语言相关,
708industry to工业到
709competitors to竞争对手
710Just the way the education industry is changing and evolving and also the way people learn and you know also as well with AI教育产业的改变和演变 以及人们的学习方式
711Happening as well.也发生了
712Yeah, this is something for me as a content creator will definitely affect me, especially with that niche是啊,这对我来说,作为一个内容的创造者, 肯定会影响我, 特别是有这种优势
713for education教育教育
714so for me, I'm also所以对我来说,我也
715Reinventing myself in creating new pathways, you know for careers and income in a sense, too在创造新途径方面自我创新 从某种意义上讲,你也知道职业和收入
716so I just think what we're all doing right now and the timing is perfect and所以我觉得我们现在都在做 时机很完美
717Like I said, it's gonna be the next part is gonna be amazing就像我说过的 下半场会很棒
718But you know as well as I know that we just have to work但你也知道,我也知道 我们只需要工作
719So hard right now.这么难现在。
720Oh, I瓳и
721I do is easy.我当然容易
722I have no times.我没有时间。
723I'm I'm I'm out of bed at 5 a.m我早上5点起床
724Yes, I'm mentally sometimes up by 3 3 30.是的,我的精神有时会上升3 3 30。
725I do go to bed by 9 though我九点就上床睡觉了
726Yeah, which by the way, I would love to do that's those are my hours.是啊,顺便说一句,我很乐意做那些是我的时间。
727Yeah.对
728Yeah对
729I just I have certain family members that makes it hard to do.我只是有一些家人 很难做到这一点。
730Yeah对
731My cats of course当然是我的猫
732For me that the morning hours because all day long I feel like I'm I'm like a slave to my cell phone对我来说,早晨的时间,因为我整天感觉 我就像一个奴隶 我的手机
733Yeah, people call people text people emails in those early mornings from 5 to 7.早上5点到7点 人们都会给人发短信
734I don't need to call you我不需要给你打电话
735I don't need to do anything that involves anybody else.我不需要做任何涉及别人的事
736So those early mornings for me are my所以那些清晨对我来说是我的
737precious time of宝贵的时间
738The other room can be not charging all throughout the day though, especially when I was in real estate sales另一间房不能整天收费 尤其是我卖房地产的时候
739Yeah, you know, especially I'd represent someone and they're having a question and they all know my phone's attached to my hips是啊,你知道,特别是我会代表一个人 他们有一个问题 他们都知道我的手机连接在我的臀部
740If I don't answer to like she saw my message and she's not calling.如果我不回答 喜欢她看到我的消息 她不打电话。
741Yeah, you know, it's like there's no relaxation是啊,你知道,这就像没有放松
742But no, I I have 12 hour days.但我还有12个小时
743Yeah times.是啊,时间。
744There's nothing easy没有什么容易的
745I'm like what I do right now is like building a thousand layer cake就像我现在做的是造出一千层的蛋糕
746Yeah, and hope that every single layer is gonna stay in place and not collapse to get to the end.希望每一层都保持原地 不至于倒塌
747So, okay所以,还好
748No, I applaud hard work不,我为辛苦工作鼓掌
749Well, we've been talking for an hour already我们已经聊了一个小时了
750I think the gift of gab but you know that for me我想是GAB的天赋,但你知道的
751It's it's so easy for me to talk to you.与汝说此法甚为方便.
752I could we talk all day and all night我可以说一整天和一夜
753But I want to say it here on camera that I'm so proud of you.但我想在镜头上说 我很为你骄傲
754I love you我爱你
755I'm just supposed to be proud of you because you know, like you were talking about reinventing yourself all the things you've done我本该为你感到骄傲的,因为你知道, 就像你在谈论重塑你自己 你做过的一切
756it's not it's not been easy and这不是不容易的
757thank you for being such an amazing mother and being supportive of谢谢你这么出色的妈妈 支持我
758My dreams which I think is not easy to do and accept and you know我的梦想,我认为 不容易做和接受,你知道
759Even for me as I'm approaching the next chapter of my life即使在我接近人生的下一章时
760I'm seeing things and realizing things about when I was a kid that will我看见一些东西 并意识到一些事情 当我还是个孩子,会
761Ultimately affect my decisions and the things I do and I'll be here the next 20 years最终会影响我的决定 影响我的工作 未来20年我会在这里
762You'll be like I remember what you did for me你会像我记得你为我做了什么
763So I love you and thank you so much for everything.所以我爱你 非常感谢你所做的一切
764I appreciate it谢谢
765Okay.摆
766All right.好吧,我们走。
767So that's it for today's podcast that do you do you want to say anything else to the audience?这就是今天播客的节目 你想跟观众说点别的吗?
768You say whatever you want你想说什么都行
769You want oh in podcasts you always plug your business do you want to know你想要哦,播客 你总是插上你的生意 你想知道
770Okay.摆
771Well if you're in the Los Angeles area, do you want to flip something you want to make some money?好吧,如果你在洛杉矶地区, 你想翻 的东西,你想赚一些钱?
772Don't find her she'll find you.别找到她 她会找到你的
773Okay.摆
774Now if you have a house for sale that needs to be rehabbed现在,如果你有房子出售, 需要康复床
775I am looking to buy there we go.我打算去买东西
776So thank you everyone.谢谢大家
777We appreciate it.我们对此表示赞赏。
778I apologize if there are any如果有的话,我道歉
779Sound or video issues, but I hear on my microphone声音或视频问题, 但我听到我的麦克风
780Well, we'll find out after I I press stop so thank you everyone and we'll see you next time.好吧,我会发现后,我按停止 所以感谢大家,我们会看到你下次。
781Bye再见
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