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0:00What if you were told the cure to all your ailments狦Τ禗 秆∕┮Τil
0:02is hot water?是热水吗?
0:04What if you were having a beer with somebody如果你和别人喝啤酒
0:06and they downed it and expected you to do the same?他们把它打下来了 还希望你也这样做?
0:09What if you were offered a cigarette as a sign of respect?如果你得到香烟来表示尊重呢?
0:13As an American, I find these things kind of weird,作为一个美国人,我发现这些事情有点奇怪,
0:16but these are common occurrences in Chinese culture.但这些都是中国文化中常见的现象。
0:20And today, I wanna share with you今天,我想跟你分享
0:22some of the top culture shocks一些顶级文化冲击
0:24I've experienced living in China.我曾经在中国生活过
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1What if you were told the cure to all your ailments狦Τ禗 秆∕┮Τil
2is hot water?是热水吗?
3What if you were having a beer with somebody如果你和别人喝啤酒
4and they downed it and expected you to do the same?他们把它打下来了 还希望你也这样做?
5What if you were offered a cigarette as a sign of respect?如果你得到香烟来表示尊重呢?
6As an American, I find these things kind of weird,作为一个美国人,我发现这些事情有点奇怪,
7but these are common occurrences in Chinese culture.但这些都是中国文化中常见的现象。
8And today, I wanna share with you今天,我想跟你分享
9some of the top culture shocks一些顶级文化冲击
10I've experienced living in China.我曾经在中国生活过
11Ready?准备好了吗?
12Let's go.我们走吧。
13Hello, everyone, and welcome to The Jon Pang Show.大家好 欢迎光临琼恩庞秀
14In today's episode, I'm gonna be sharing在今天的节目里,我要分享
15some of the top culture shocks I've experienced我经历过一些顶级文化冲击
16living in China.住在中国
17Now, first of all, you might be thinking,首先,你可能会在想
18wait, I don't understand.等一等,我还不明白
19I'm watching this video and I see a Chinese guy.我在看这段视频 看到一个中国人
20Why is a Chinese guy telling me about culture shock为什么一个中国人告诉我文化震撼
21he experienced in China?他在中国的经历?
22Wouldn't that just be his regular life?那不是他的正常生活吗?
23Well, as you can hear from my voice,嗯,正如你能听到 从我的声音,
24my perfect American English, I'm actually American.我完美的美国英语,其实我是美国人。
25American-born Chinese, to be exact.确切地说,美国出生的中国人。
26And I didn't come to China until my early 20s.我20多岁才来中国的
27And I've been here ever since,从那时起我就在这里
28living here, working here, having my life here.住在这里,工作在这里,有我的生活在这里。
29And today, I would say, well, I'm actually quite local.今天,我想说,其实我是相当本地的。
30Actually, if you'd ask me now, I'd say honestly,其实,如果你现在问我, 我会说实话,
31I'm probably like 60% Chinese and like 40% American我大概是60%的中国人和40%的美国人
32when it comes to the way I act,我的行为方式
33the way I do things in my thought process.我在思想过程中做事的方式。
34Something because I've been here for so long.是因为我在这里呆了这么久
35But even to this day, living here,但即使是今天,住在这里,
36having my life here and working here我在这里工作
37and dealing with Chinese people every single day,每天和中国人打交道
38I still experience a lot of culture shock,我仍然经历很多的文化冲击,
39things I'm just not used to.我不太习惯的东西
40And I wanna share with you some of the most interesting ones,我想和你们分享一些 最有趣的,
41some quite common and some very interesting有些很常见,有些很有趣
42that I've experienced in my last 20 years being here.我过去20年在这里的经历
43Now, let's first start off with just daily communication.现在,让我们从每天的通讯开始。
44So one thing about Chinese people is,所以中国人的一件事是,
45in a lot of ways, they're very direct在许多方面,他们是非常直接的
46in the sense that, for example,比如说,
47there are some things in the USA as an American作为美国人,美国有些事情
48we wouldn't say out loud.我们不会大声说出来。
49We'd probably keep it to ourself我们也许可以保密
50because we'd probably think it's kind of rude因为我们可能觉得很无礼
51or maybe too PC or maybe it might offend somebody.也许太个人电脑 或者可能冒犯别人
52Whereas Chinese people, and I think actually maybe而中国人,我觉得实际上也许
53a lot of Asians in general, just say things very directly.很多亚洲人,只是说得非常直接。
54And one of these experience I had还有一次我的经历
55was when I was visiting an old friend.当我去拜访一个老朋友的时候
56So I'd met this friend before, living in China,我认识一个朋友 住在中国
57and then I hadn't seen him for a few years.之后我几年没见到他了
58And I was very excited when they were coming to visit me.他们来看我的时候我很兴奋
59And I'm at the airport, I'm waiting to meet my friend,我在机场等着见我的朋友
60and I'm thinking about all the great stories我在想所有伟大的故事
61I have to tell them, all the things我要告诉他们所有的事
62we're gonna catch about them and give them the big hug.我们要抓住他们 给他们一个大拥抱
63I'm gonna say, oh man, I'm so glad to see you.我很高兴见到你
64The first thing they say to me, wow, you got fat.他们告诉我的第一件事, 哇,你胖了。
65Ow.瓳
66Bro, I hadn't seen this person for years,哥,我多年没见这个人了
67a good friend for years.一个好朋友多年。
68First thing out of their mouth, hey, you got fat.嘿,你长胖了。
69So when I heard that, I was pissed.所以当我听到这个,我很生气。
70I was like, what?我当时想,什么?
71Dude, this is the first thing you have to say to me伙计,这是你对我说的第一件事
72after not seeing you for all these years?这么多年没见你了?
73I thought you were my friend.我以为你是我的朋友
74But turns out that a lot of times in Chinese culture,但事实证明,在中国文化中,很多时候,
75whether it's a friend, maybe an acquaintance,不管是朋友还是熟人
76sometimes a coworker, most definitely your family,有时是同事 绝对是你家人
77like your aunties, your uncles, your parents,就像你的姨妈,你的叔叔,你的父母,
78they will call you out when you put on some pounds.你胖了,他们会叫你出去的
79They will say you're fat.他们会说你很胖
80As opposed to in America, we would try not to say that.在美国,我们不会这么说。
81碞钩ии狟ねΤ翴 pounds
82I wouldn't be like, bro, what the F happened, dog?我不会像,兄弟,发生了什么事,狗?
83What have you been eating, bro?你吃什么了,哥们?
84What's up, chubby?怎么样,胖子?
85或 chu
86I wouldn't say these things.我不会说这些
87I wouldn't be like, yo, what's up, fat ass?我不会是,哟,怎么了,肥屁股?
88That'd be extremely rude and probably make someone sad那会很无礼 可能会让人伤心
89and they might wanna fight me.他们可能想跟我打
90But in China, it just seems to be a common thing,但在中国,这似乎很常见
91which is also really funny because I've heard a lot也很有趣 因为我听过很多
92of stories, for example, of Chinese people going back home例如中国人回家的故事
93to visit their families and them saying, oh, you got fat.去看他们的家人,他们说, 哦,你胖了。
94But then, of course, they're making dinner,但是,当然,他们正在做晚餐,
95they're making these meals and they're feeding them,他们正在做这些饭 他们正在喂它们,
96feeding them, making them fat, right?给它们喂食,让它们肥,对吗?
97So it's kind of a catch-22, right?所以这是种捕捉22,对不对?
98So a lot of ways, Chinese are very direct in that sense.所以很多方法,中国人从这个意义上来说是非常直接的.
99But it's not only things like you got fat,但不仅仅是你胖了
100it's also other things that, as an American,还有一些事情,作为一个美国人,
101I would consider to be rude or really none of your business.我会觉得很粗鲁 或者跟你无关
102For example, I remember when I had first met比如,我记得第一次见面的时候
103a Chinese person and it was the first time一个中国人,这是第一次
104they'd come to my house.他们会来我家
105I was having a little bit of a housewarming.我有一个小 一点点的暖房。
106And I remember they were asking me a lot of questions.我记得他们问我很多问题
107They said, oh, this is a nice place.他们说,哦,这是一个好地方。
108How much is your rent?你的房租多少钱?
109I was like, what?我当时想,什么?
110Hey, that's none of your business.这不关你的事
111You don't need to know how much money I'm paying你不需要知道我付多少钱
112for this place, you don't need to know my rent?你不需要知道我的房租?
113And it's kind of weird because I feel like,这有点奇怪 因为我觉得
114as an American, we are very, we don't talk about money.作为一个美国人,我们非常, 我们不谈论钱。
115For some reason, talking about money说钱是有原因的
116is a taboo subject, right?是个禁忌话题,对吧?
117You don't talk about politics, you don't talk about news,不谈政治,不谈新闻
118you don't talk about money, you don't talk about你不谈钱,也不谈钱
119people's appearances, these kind of things.人们的外表,这种东西。
120Again, I do have to stress again, right?再说一遍,我还要再强调一次,对吧?
121This is me, and in my experience,这是我,根据我的经验,
122most of my American friends are like this as well.我大部分的美国朋友也是这样
123There are, of course, a lot of people当然有很多人
124that will discuss these things.讨论这些事情。
125But for the most part, I think money, again,但大部分情况下,我觉得钱,再次,
126is usually considered a taboo subject, right?通常被认为是禁忌话题,对不对?
127And so they're like, how much is your rent所以他们喜欢, 你的租金多少
128for your apartment?为了你的公寓?
129And I'm thinking, at the time, I'm like,我在想,当时,我就像,
130well, first of all, that's none of your business.首先,这不关你的事
131Because I think for me, at that time,因为我觉得当时,
132when somebody would ask me that question,当有人问我,
133I'm kind of thinking of it in a way like,我有点想它的方式一样,
134why does this person want to know that?为什么这个人想知道?
135Is it a way to see if they're better than me?这是看他们是否比我好的方法吗?
136Are they trying to say like, well, if their rent is low,如果他们的租金很低的话
137then they're poor, and I'm better than them.然后,他们贫穷, 而我比他们更好。
138If their rent is high, whoa, man, they're a baller.如果他们的租金很高,哇,伙计, 他们是一个球员。
139They're rich, okay, I gotta show some respect.他们很有钱,好吧,我得尊重他们
140So I think for me, that was like my initial所以,我想对我来说, 这就像我的初始
141first reaction thinking about that.第一次反应的想法。
142And then, actually, it got worse from there.然后,实际上,它变得更糟 从那里。
143As we began talking about life and work and career,当我们开始谈论生活、工作和职业
144they asked me, well, how much is your salary?他们问我,你的工资是多少?
145Whoa, whoa, how much is your salary?哇,哇,你的工资是多少?
146So this is a big no-no.所以,这是一个大的不 -不。
147You can't be asking, how much money does somebody make?你不能问,一个人赚多少钱?
148Their salary?他们的工资?
149So, again, I don't know exactly where this was coming from,所以,再说一遍,我不知道这是从哪里来的,
150but I think, again, it's just a very common question.但我想,再次, 这是一个非常常见的问题。
151I do have a lot of Chinese friends, they ask,我有很多中国朋友,他们问
152how much is this, how much that, how much that, right?多少钱,多少钱,多少钱,多少钱,对不对?
153Whereas, again, Americans are more like,而美国人更喜欢
154kind of like, don't really want to talk about那种喜欢, 不想谈
155the earnings that much, right?收入这么多,对不对?
156And, you know, these days, right,而且,你知道,这些天,正确的,
157like, if somebody asks me that question,如果有人问我这个问题
158like, how much is your rent, these things,喜欢,多少钱 你的租金,这些东西,
159I don't really, doesn't really bother me that much.我其实没有,真的没有那么多困扰我。
160But I will say, I do feel, at the time,但我会说,我确实觉得,在当时,
161I definitely was like, oh, so this guy thinks我绝对喜欢,哦,所以这家伙认为
162he's better than me, right?他比我强,对吧?
163I mean, now I've made a lot more money,我的意思是,现在我已经赚了很多钱,
164so I'll happily answer the question.我很乐意回答你的问题
165I'm kidding, I'm kidding.我开玩笑的
166I'm totally kidding, I'm totally kidding.我开玩笑的 我开玩笑的
167But I will never say, I don't care who anybody asks,但我永远不会说, 我不在乎谁问,
168I will never say how much money I make.我永远不会说我赚了多少钱。
169The only person that knows how much money I make只有一个人知道我赚了多少钱
170is my accountant, all right?我的会计,好吗?
171So, you can tell me, because, again,所以,你可以告诉我,因为,再次,
172this podcast is listened to all over the world,这个播客听遍了全世界,
173it's a global podcast, and you can tell me,这是全球播客 你可以告诉我
174for example, in your culture, if somebody were to say比如说在你的文化里 如果有人说
175you got fat, or if they were to ask you questions你胖了,或者如果他们问你问题
176about your salary, or how much money you make,关于你的薪水,或者你赚多少钱,
177how you would feel about that.你会怎么想的。
178Now, another thing is that, in the Chinese language,还有一件事,在中文里
179when you greet somebody, for example, a stranger,当你问候某人, 例如一个陌生人,
180one of the two most common things you will hear你最常听到的两件事之一
181是Mii Nü,还有shuai ge。
182So, mei nü literally means beautiful girl,所以,我字面意思是美丽的女孩,
183and shuai ge means handsome guy, handsome man.帅哥就是帅哥,帅哥
184And it's funny, because when I first heard this,这很有趣,因为当我第一次听到这个,
185I was at a restaurant, and the waiter says,我在餐厅,服务员说,
186hello, shuai ge, and I was like, me, what?你好,Shuai Ge, 而我就像,我,什么?
187I think she likes me, bro.我觉得她喜欢我,兄弟。
188I was like, okay, this girl thinks I'm handsome,我很喜欢,好吧, 这个女孩认为我帅,
189I'm gonna get her number, we're gonna go on a date,我会得到她的号码, 我们要去约会,
190she's gonna be my girlfriend, I'm gonna marry her, right?她会是我的女朋友,我要娶她,对不对?
191But this would be extremely weird in the U.S.A.但是这在美国会非常奇怪
192At least for me, and I could honestly say,至少对我来说,我可以说,
193I think for a lot of people that, for example,我认为很多人,例如,
194if I went to Los Angeles, so I'm from Los Angeles,如果我去了洛杉矶, 所以我来自洛杉矶,
195where my hometown is, right?我的家乡在哪里,对不对?
196And if I went to the restaurant, and I saw the waiter,如果我去餐厅 看到服务员
197I said, hey, handsome guy, hey, hello, handsome boy.我说,嘿,帅哥,嘿,帅哥
198Or if I said to the waitress, hello, pretty girl,或者如果我对服务员说,你好,漂亮的女孩,
199hello, beautiful, don't think that would go over very well.你好,美人,别以为那样会好起来的
200They would probably most likely think他们很可能认为
201I'm joking with them, or I'm trying to be perverted,我和他们开玩笑, 或者我试图被变态,
202or I'm hitting on them in a weird way.或者我用奇怪的方式打他们。
203Those are usually things that creepy old men通常都是些让人毛骨悚然的老男人
204will say to waitresses, hey, what's up, beautiful?会跟服务员说,嘿,怎么了,美人?
205But they're old men, so they're kind of adorable但他们都是老人 所以他们很可爱
206in a sense, but also equally as creepy, it's wrong as well.在某种意义上,但同样令人毛骨悚然的是,这也是错误的。
207But that's just one thing I think that really differentiates但是,这只是一件事 我认为真正区别
208in terms of the culture in that sense.从文化的角度来说
209But in China, this is extremely common, right?但在中国,这很常见,对吧?
210In the USA, if you were to see a stranger,在美国,如果你看到陌生人
211but you want to get their attention, for example,但你想引起他们的注意 比如
212if a guy drops something on the floor and say,如果有人在地板上掉东西说
213excuse me, sir, excuse me, hey, or hey, bro, hey, hello,对不起,先生,对不起,嘿, 或者嘿,兄弟,嘿,你好,
214right, but in China, if that were the case,是的,但是在中国,如果是这样的话,
215and you saw a guy drop something and say,你看见一个家伙掉东西说
216should I go, hey, hello, you would hear that a lot, right?我应该去,嘿,你好, 你会听到很多,对不对?
217It'd be just a common greeting of just kind of greeting只是普通的问候而已
218a stranger, so if you are visiting China陌生人,所以如果你访问中国
219and somebody calls you handsome or beautiful in Chinese,有人说你英俊 或美丽的中文,
220just don't assume that they really think that, okay?只是不要假设 他们真的这么想,好吗?
221It's just kind of like a common greeting,这就像一个普通的问候,
222just a way to greet a stranger in a sense,只是一种在某种意义上迎接陌生人的方式
223especially in stores and in restaurants, okay?特别是在商店和餐馆,好吗?
224So these are some of the communication things所以这是一些沟通的东西
225I've dealt with when it comes to culture shock我处理过文化冲击
226living in China.住在中国
227Now, let's talk about some of the other interesting现在,让我们谈谈一些 其他有趣的
228traditions that were quite shocking for me.传统对我来说相当令人震惊。
229So I want to preface this by saying that I've been here所以我想先说,我在这里
230for a while, I've been here for the last 20 plus years.有一阵子,我在这里已经20多年了。
231So 20 years ago, things are probably a little different now所以20年前 事情可能有点不一样了
232than they used to be, but there are many parts of China,但中国有很多地方
233people my generation, older generation,我这代人 年长的一代人
234that certainly still do these things,这确是一件好事,
235but honestly, if you encounter some of the younger但说实话,如果你遇到一些年轻的
236generations, some of the tier one cities,世代相传,一些一级城市,
237you may find that a lot of these things你会发现很多这些东西
238probably don't happen as much anymore.可能不会再发生那么多事了
239So let's talk about that.所以,让我们谈谈。
240So first of all, let's talk about smoking, bro, smoking.所以,首先,让我们谈谈吸烟,兄弟,吸烟。
241Chinese people love to smoke, man.中国人喜欢抽烟
242I heard a crazy statistic the other day,前几天我听到一个疯狂的统计数据,
243and you can fact check me if I'm wrong,如果我错了 你可以查查我
244but I believe, I believe that they say that almost half但我相信,我相信他们说,几乎一半
245of smoking deaths come from China,吸烟死亡来自中国
246which is crazy to think about.这是疯狂的思考。
247Smoking in a sense is almost like a part of Chinese culture.某种意义上吸烟几乎是中国文化的一部分.
248So today, this still happens a lot,因此,今天,这仍然发生了很多,
249where when you meet somebody, right,当你遇到一个人时,是的,
250especially the older generation,特别是长辈,
251not really much the younger generation,不怎么年轻一代
252but you will see a lot of times as a sign of respect,你将看见许多时候,以示尊重,
253if somebody meets you, they greet you,如果有人遇见你, 他们向你问好,
254you meet them for the first time,你第一次见到他们,
255they will offer you a cigarette, right?他们会给你一支烟,对吧?
256For example, that happens a lot in business as well.例如,在商业中也经常发生这种情况。
257There's a lot of like dinners or like events有很多像晚餐之类的事
258they have to go to, and usually you'll be offered a cigarette.他们必须去, 通常你会得到一个香烟。
259There are a lot of times when you will go to a wedding,有很多时候你会去参加婚礼
260right, a wedding, and you will see like expensive cigarettes好吧,婚礼,你会看到 像昂贵的香烟
261on the table as well.在桌子上也一样。
262An expensive pack of cigarettes can be considered可以考虑一包昂贵的香烟
263a very nice gift for some of the older family members送给一些年长的家庭成员的礼物
264of a Chinese family.一个中国家庭。
265Now, this is changing a lot.现在,这变化很大。
266I will say that in my observation,我会说在我的观察中,
267I notice a lot of younger Chinese people我注意到很多中国年轻人
268do not smoke as much.不要抽烟那么多。
269But people in my generation, you know, 30 plus,但我这一代的人,你知道,30加,
270there definitely are a lot of smokers out there,外面肯定有很多烟鬼
271and this definitely does exist.这确实存在。
272So, excuse me.所以,对不起。
273Before I came to China, I never smoked, I never smoked.来中国之前,从不抽烟,从不抽烟.
274And the reason actually is because my dad其实是因为我爸爸
275is a terrible smoker.一个可怕的吸烟者。
276My dad, at one point, was smoking two packs我爸爸曾经抽两包烟
277of cigarettes a day, and I hate it.一日香烟,我恨它。
278I absolutely hate it.我绝对讨厌它。
279I think smoking is awful.我觉得抽烟很糟糕
280And I urge you, if you are smoking, please quit.我敦促你,如果你吸烟, 请退出。
281It just will age you out, it'll dry you out.它只会把你老化, 它会把你干涸。
282It's just, there's nothing good from it.只是,没有好东西。
283If you can, quit.如果你可以,就辞职。
284If you enjoy it, it's up to you, to your life.如果你喜欢它,它取决于你,你的生活。
285This is my opinion, that's all.这就是我的意见,仅此而已。
286Before I came to China, I was never a smoker.来中国前,从不吸烟.
287The funny thing is that I became a smoker有趣的是,我成了烟鬼
288after I moved to China.我搬到中国后
289Not anymore, I've quit already.我已经戒烟了
290But the first two or three years, I was smoking like crazy.但头两三年,我像疯了一样抽烟
291And that's because I kind of began to like因为我开始喜欢
292adopt that tradition of like, I meet someone,接受那种传统,我遇到一个人,
293I offer them a cigarette, you know,我给他们一支烟,你知道,
294or they offer me a cigarette.或者他们给我一支烟
295Especially in bars and clubs at the time.特别是在当时的酒吧和俱乐部.
296And I remember, before I really began smoking,我记得 在我开始抽烟之前
297I had a really embarrassing moment with my landlord.我和房东有个很尴尬的时刻
298So at the time, I had two roommates当时我有两个室友
299when I was going to study Chinese in Shanghai.我本来要去上海学习中文的
300And I was living with two Canadians.我和两个加拿大人住在一起
301And I remember, I had not started smoking yet.我记得,我还没有开始吸烟。
302And we were talking with the landlord at the time.我们当时和房东谈过了
303Because we were thinking about renting this apartment.因为我们想租这间公寓
304And the landlord just wanted to get to know us a bit before,房东只是想了解一下我们
305you know, obviously three college kids moving there你知道,显然三个大学生 搬到那里
306would be a lot of crazy, right?会是很多疯狂,对不对?
307These young crazy kids in their early 20s, right?这些年轻疯狂的孩子 20多岁,对不对?
308And I remember very distinctly,我非常清楚地记得,
309the landlord offered all of us a cigarette.房东给了我们所有人一支烟。
310So my two other friends, they took it.我的另外两个朋友就拿走了
311And I said, no, no thank you, I don't smoke.我说,不,不,谢谢,我不抽烟。
312And I remember when I refused the cigarette我记得我拒绝抽烟的时候
313from the landlord, he laughed and he made a joke.从房东, 他笑了,他做了一个笑话。
314And he said, oh, he's a little boy.他说,哦,他是一个小男孩。
315And dude, when he said that, I got pissed.而伙计,当他说, 我生气了。
316I was so angry when I heard that,我听到这个时很生气
317because I was like, wait, why am I a little boy?因为我想,等等, 为什么我是一个小男孩?
318Why am I a kid?为什么我还是个孩子?
319Just because I don't want to smoke your nasty cigarette.因为我不想抽你的臭烟
320So actually, when they were having like that meeting,所以,实际上,当他们 喜欢那个会议,
321like talking with the landlord,就像跟房东说话
322I actually left, because I was so pissed off.其实我离开了 因为我太生气了
323I told my friend, dude, I'm gonna get out of here.我告诉我的朋友,伙计, 我要离开这里。
324You guys can finish talking to him, okay?你们可以跟他谈完,好吗?
325Just let me know how it goes later.晚点再告诉我
326And when I think about that now, that whole interaction,当我想到这一点, 整个互动,
327I realize in a sense that, well,我从某种意义上意识到...
328maybe I was like taking that a little bit too seriously.也许我是有点太认真了
329I realize in a sense that him offering me the cigarette我从某种意义上意识到他给我香烟
330was like a sign of respect actually, you know?就像尊重的象征,你知道吗?
331Like giving me face and face, giving face就像给我面子和脸,给我脸
332and maintaining face and keeping face保持脸部和脸部
333is an extremely important part of Asian culture,是亚洲文化中极其重要的一部分,
334which we will get into in another episode, right?我们会在另一集,对不对?
335In a way, me refusing his cigarette在某种程度上,我拒绝他的香烟
336was kind of like the wrong move on my part.有点像是我走错路了
337Now, you may say, no, you don't have to smoke.现在,你可以说,不, 你不必抽烟。
338That's BS, right?这是BS,对不对?
339You don't need to like force yourself to smoke你不必喜欢强迫自己抽烟
340when you know it kills you, it's bad for you.当你知道它杀了你, 它对你不好。
341Again, there are just certain things再说一遍,有些事情
342that you kind of learn to put up with a little bit那种你学会忍受一点点
343just to show some respect and kind of give it back只是为了表示尊重 并把它还给我
344in a sense, and that's something like I've kind of learned从某种意义上说,我学过这种东西
345from being here in China for so long, right?在中国待了这么久,对吧?
346You give a little face, you keep a little face,你留点脸,留点脸
347{\fn黑体\fs20\shad2\2aH82\3aH20\4aH33\fscx95\3cH592001\be1}你总是尊重我
348So I think what I would have done所以我想我会怎么做
349if I were to revisit that situation and go back in time如果我重温当时的情况 回到过去
350is when the landlord offered the cigarette,是当房东提供香烟,
351I would say thank you and maybe just like keep it there.我会说谢谢你,也许只是喜欢保持它在那里。
352And if he would have offered to light my cigarette,如果他愿意点燃我的烟
353I probably would have took one puff我大概会吃一个泡泡
354and be like, oh, sorry, I don't smoke.和喜欢,哦,对不起,我不抽烟。
355I think that would have been the better,我觉得那样会更好
356like more respectful move to do,就像更尊重别人一样
357but I was just so young and hot-headed at the time那时候我还那么年轻又热头
358that I didn't really think about that.我其实没想过
359That's like thinking about that.这就像在思考。
360In general, just thinking about my 20s in general,一般来说,我20多岁的时候,
361because this time I was like, I think I was at the time,因为这次我就像, 我想我当时,
362I was like 21 or, in my early 20s for sure.我那时21岁,或者20多岁
363And it's just crazy to think about that sometimes有时候想想这太疯狂了
364because a lot of times, again, in China,因为很多时候,在中国,
365in Chinese culture, in Asian culture in general,在中国文化中,在亚洲文化中,
366it's really just a here, let me show you respect,它真的只是一个在这里, 让我表示尊重,
367let me give a little bit of the back让我给一点点的背部
368and we'll see where we can kind of meet a common ground.然后我们再看看哪里可以找到共同点
369Scratch my back, you scratch my back,划我的背,你划我的背,
370I'll scratch your back in a sense, right?我会从某种意义上抓你的背,对吗?
371So that was one instance.所以那是一个例子。
372Now, smoking was something I really, really, really hated,现在,吸烟是我真正, 真的,真的讨厌,
373but eventually I got over it.但最终我克服了它。
374I quit, and I'll tell you why.我退出,我会告诉你为什么。
375So first of all, I gotta say something,所以,首先,我要说点什么,
376and I'm really sorry.我真的很对不起
377Asian cigarettes are okay, but not that great.亚洲香烟没问题 但没那么好
378Let's just say it this way.这么说吧
379There was a reason why back in the day回到从前是有原因的
380when a lot of my Chinese friends and my uncles here我很多中国朋友和叔叔在这里
381were like, can you bring back some real cigarettes就像,你能带回一些真正的香烟吗?
382from the USA?从美国?
383Because unfortunately, there's definitely a lot因为不幸的是,肯定有很多
384of low quality fake cigarettes as well, unfortunately.很不幸,还有低品质的假香烟
385Maybe it's better now, I don't know,也许现在好多了,我不知道,
386because I don't smoke anymore, right?因为我不再抽烟了 对吧?
387But the biggest reason why I quit smoking但我戒烟的最大原因
388was because originally I was smoking a cigarette brand,因为最初我抽烟品牌,
389I forgot what it's called, but it was kind of actually我忘了它叫什么,但其实有点
390a lighter cigarette, not too, not like a thin cigarette轻一点的烟,不是太,不是像瘦烟
391or a minty cigarette, just kind of like a light cigarette.或者薄荷烟,就像一根轻烟
392I don't like the really heavy ones.我不喜欢重的
393I kind of felt like it burnt my throat a little bit, right?我有点像它烧了我的喉咙,对不对?
394So I was officially a smoker.所以我正式成为一名吸烟者.
395So since I was a big smoker now, I went back to the USA,所以既然我是个大烟鬼 我回美国了
396I'm driving, I gotta get gas.我在开车,我要加油
397I said, hey, well what do smokers do?我说,嘿,吸烟者是做什么的?
398Well, smokers love to smoke and smoke up the car,烟鬼喜欢抽烟和抽烟的车,
399you know, look cool, right?你知道,看起来很酷,对不对?
400So I tell the gas station attendant, I say, hey,所以我告诉加油站服务员, 我说,嘿,
401can you give me a pack of Marlboro Reds?你能给我一包万宝路红酒吗?
402Bro, Marlboro Reds are like crazy strong cigarettes.兄弟,马宝路红人就像疯狂的强香烟
403I'm driving, I'm smoking the Marlboro Reds,我开车,我抽烟 万宝路红队,
404and I go, holy crap, I'm so dizzy right now.我走了,妈的,我现在好晕
405I start smoking the Marlboro Red, I start coughing.我开始吸马伯勒红酒,开始咳嗽
406My head starts getting dizzy, and the cigarettes我的头开始晕头转向,香烟也开始
407were so strong for me that I had to pull over对我如此坚强,我不得不靠边停车
408and take a break for a bit until my head休息一会,直到我的头
409could calm down a bit.可以冷静一下
410So once I smoked those Marlboro Reds, I'm like,所以,一旦我抽那些万宝路红,我就像,
411I think I'm good, I think I'm gonna quit smoking.我觉得我很好 我想我会戒烟的
412They're not for me anymore.他们不再适合我了。
413You could tell me if I'm wrong, you know,如果我错了 你可以告诉我
414is there an equivalent to a strong cigarette in China中国的烟烟很强吗?
415that's like a Marlboro Red?这就像万宝路红?
416You can let me know, but you know, I'm not interested你可以告诉我,但你知道,我不感兴趣
417in smoking, and I highly urge everybody if you're,我强烈敦促大家 如果你是,
418especially if you're a young man, come on, man,尤其是如果你是年轻人,来吧,伙计,
419cut that stuff out, man, it's nasty, all right?把那东西切掉,伙计,这很恶心,好吗?
420No more cigarettes, all right?别再抽烟了,好吗?
421Cut it out, quit it, it's good for your health.别闹了 别闹了 对你的健康有好处
422Nobody likes a stinky cigarette man, all right?没人喜欢臭烟鬼,好吗?
423Or a stinky cigarette girl.或臭烟女.
424Well, I've dated girls that smoke cigarettes before,我约会过抽烟的女孩
425it was kinda sexy, but that's a topic有点性感,但那是个话题
426for another episode, all right?再来一集,好吗?
427Now, that's smoking culture.这就是吸烟文化
428Let's talk about drinking culture.谈饮文化.
429So Chinese drinking culture is very interesting,所以中国的饮酒文化很有趣
430and for the most part, it's interesting基本上,这是有趣的
431because when I first got to China,因为当我第一次到中国,
432there were a lot of rules when it came to drinking,喝酒时有很多规则
433and I think especially because a lot of the people我特别想 因为很多人
434I was hanging out with at the time, you know,当时我和他在一起
435or were friends of my father, older guys, you know,或者是我父亲的朋友 年长的人
436uncles basically, big brothers and uncles,叔叔们,兄弟们,叔叔们
437and during that time, and still today,在那段时间里 还有今天
438there were a lot of rules you had to do when you drink.你喝酒的时候有很多规矩
439As an example, I would never drink alone,举个例子 我绝不会一个人喝酒
440I would always have to like, cheers with an uncle我总是喜欢和叔叔一起欢呼
441and drink with them, basically, as a sign of respect.和他们一起饮酒,以示尊重。
442So let me paint this picture, and if you're Chinese,所以让我画这幅画 如果你是中国人
443you know, hang in there with me,坚持住
444I gotta explain this to all our foreign friends, right?我得向我们所有的外国朋友解释一下,对吗?
445So as an example, so what my dad taught me was that,比如说,我爸教我的就是,
446okay, if you're the youngest guy,好吧,如果你是最年轻的家伙,
447and there's an elder there, right?那边有个长老,对吧?
448The oldest guy, they're like the oldest最年长的家伙,他们就像最年长的人
449family member, basically, it's your job家人,基本上,这是你的工作
450to have a drink with them, cheers with them, you know?和他们喝一杯,和他们一起欢呼,你知道吗?
451For example, hi uncle, I just wanna比如说,叔叔,我只是想...
452cheers with you, thank you, right?与你欢呼,谢谢,对不对?
453As a sign of respect.为示尊重.
454The problem is, though, is that I would go to问题是,我要去...
455a lot of these dinners, because sometimes很多这样的晚餐,因为有时
456my dad would take me along for business stuff,我爸会带我一起去做生意
457and there'd be like a table of eight uncles, you know,就会有八个叔叔的桌子
458and aunts as well, and girlfriends, whatever, right?还有阿姨 还有女朋友 随便吧
459So my dad would be like, okay, so,所以我爸会喜欢,好吧,所以,
460here's your drinking order, drink with this guy,这是你的酒单 跟这家伙喝酒
461then that guy, then that guy, then that guy, right?然后那个人,然后那个人,然后那个人,对不对?
462So I would be like, cheers uncle,所以我会像,欢呼叔叔,
463cheers uncle, cheers uncle, right?欢呼叔叔,欢呼叔叔,对不对?
464And I would be super drunk within like 10 minutes,我10分钟内就会醉成这样
465because like, my dad would like,因为我爸想
466here, pour me some shots, okay, some whiskey, you know?在这里,给我倒一些镜头, 好吧,一些威士忌,你知道吗?
467Some whiskey, and drink with everybody, basically.喝点威士忌,和大家一起喝,基本上。
468And I'd be slammed, right?我会被揍的,对不对?
469And I'd tell my dad, dad, I'm like, dad, I'm drunk,我会告诉我爸爸,爸爸,我就像,爸爸,我喝醉了,
470if I could just go to the bathroom, throw up,如果我能去厕所,吐出来,
471and come back, okay, dad.回来,好吗,爸爸。
472I would eventually work in a job, too,我最终也会在一份工作上工作
473where my job was really to just entertain clients,我的工作就是招待客户
474basically, so we'd do a lot of that drinking.基本上,所以我们会做很多 喝酒。
475Now, besides like the drinking with like your elders,现在,除了像喝酒 像你的长辈,
476cheersing them, there's also the element欢呼他们,还有元素
477of something called ganbei,一种叫甘北的东西
478and in Chinese, that means dry cup,用中文来说 就是干杯子
479and the English translation, that is bottoms up.和英文译本,这是最底层的。
480So that means to completely finish the drink所以,这意味着 完全完成饮料
481as a sign of respect, right?以示尊重 对吧?
482So this could happen in a number of ways, right?所以,这可以 在若干方面发生,对不对?
483So for example, if I have like a glass of beer, right?比如说,如果我喝杯啤酒,对吧?
484And I have to drink with the elder,我得和长者喝酒
485the elder at the table, right?餐桌上的长者 对吧?
486And I say, hello, hey, hello, uncle,我说,你好,你好,叔叔
487hey, I just wanna cheers with you,嘿 我只是想跟你一起欢呼
488I'm gonna bottoms up, and you know,我会下沉,你知道,
489you just take it easy, right?别紧张,对吧?
490So I bottoms up, I slam the drink,所以,我下沉,我关了饮料,
491I show him, and I say thank you.我告诉他,我说谢谢你。
492So here, the uncle, they could choose to bottoms up as well,因此,在这里,叔叔, 他们可以选择下底也,
493or they could just take it easy.或者他们可以放松。
494And the reason you do this is, you know, for two reasons.你这样做的原因有两个
495One is because, well, it's a sign of respect, you know?这是因为,嗯,这是一个尊重的迹象,你知道吗?
496And two, because they're probably older than you,第二,因为他们可能比你大,
497you know, they might need to take it easy你知道,他们也许需要放松
498because of health reasons,由于健康原因,
499or maybe they're not as good as a drinker as you, right?或者他们可能不如你喝酒的好 对吧?
500But it depends, listen, again, I'm drinking with old men但要看情况,听着,我又和老人喝酒了
501that have completely destroyed me, right?彻底毁了我 对吧?
502But it's more of like a health thing,但更像是健康的东西,
503like you take it easy, let me do the hard work for you.就像你放松一样 让我为你努力工作
504I'm the young guy, let me hurt myself for you, right?我是年轻人,让我为你伤害自己,对不对?
505And see, the problem is, right, is that, okay,你看,问题是,对,是,好吧,
506well, gambe with beer, right?好吧,赌博与啤酒,对不对?
507You may think that's okay.你可能会认为这没关系。
508The problem is that if you're not drinking hard whiskey问题是如果你不喝硬威士忌
509that night, but you're drinking cases of beer,那天晚上,但你喝啤酒时,
510you're drinking cases of beer,你在喝啤酒吗?
511and you may not get that drunk,你可能不会喝醉,
512but you get so full, that's the thing.但你吃饱了,这就是问题所在
513Downing glasses of beer all night,整晚都喝着啤酒
514oh, your belly just feels like it's gonna explode.你的肚子好像要爆炸一样
515And so, you know, bottomsing, how do I even say that所以,你知道,下沉, 我什至说
516in English, downing, yeah, downing,用英语, 降, 是的, 降,
517so I'm gonna say downing,所以我要说降级,
518I'm not gonna say bottoms upping drinks, okay?我不会说下垂饮料,好吗?
519Downing beer is like a skill in itself, right?倒啤酒本身就像一种技能,对吧?
520Where it's not necessarily about your alcohol tolerance,如果它不一定 关于你的酒精耐受性,
521it's about how much your belly can have liquid in it这是关于你肚子里有多少液体
522without feeling disgusted,不觉得恶心,
523feeling like you're not gonna explode.感觉你不会爆炸
524Now, that's one thing.现在,这是一件事。
525It's another thing when then you have to do bottoms up,这是另一种事情 当你必须做底部,
526you have to down shots of whiskey, right?你得喝下威士忌 对吧?
527So for me, back in the day, and still today,因此,对我来说,回到过去,今天,
528today, my favorite drink,今天,我最喜欢的饮料,
529if you ever see me and you wanna buy me a drink,如果你见过我 想请我喝一杯
530my favorite drink is a highball, or just a whiskey soda.我最喜欢的饮料是高球, 或者只是威士忌汽水。
531I just think a highball's like a fancy whiskey soda.我只是觉得一个高球 就像一个花哨的威士忌汽水。
532That's my favorite drink.这是我最喜欢的饮料。
533Whiskey soda, highball,威士忌苏打水 高球
534or a good draft beer, light draft beer.或一份好啤酒, 淡啤酒。
535I like a light draft beer.我喜欢淡啤酒
536I love a Corona, and I also, if we're gonna do shots,我爱一个科罗纳, 我也,如果我们要拍摄,
537no shots, I like a margarita as well.没有枪,我喜欢玛格丽塔。
538I love Mexican food, margaritas, okay.我喜欢墨西哥菜,玛格丽塔
539Another story, you see me in a bar,另一个故事,你在酒吧看到我,
540hit me up with that, okay?用那个打我 好吗?
541So to down whiskey was really rough,所以,降威士忌真的很粗糙,
542and back in the day, when like, for example,回到过去,比如说,
543we'd be entertaining clients,我们会招待客户
544we'd love to drink Johnny Walker Black,我们想喝强尼·沃克·布莱克
545mix a little bit of green tea,混合一点绿茶,
546and if you're hearing this,如果你听到这个,
547you're saying whiskey and green tea, what the hell?你是说威士忌和绿茶?
548Listen up, if you're drinking like that, trust me,听着,如果你这样喝酒,相信我
549mixing whiskey with some green tea,威士忌和绿茶混合
550not like green tea like of a hot kettle,不喜欢绿茶 像热水壶,
551like a bottled ice green tea, basically,像瓶装冰绿色茶,基本上,
552is a surprisingly nice drink, very delicious.是个令人惊讶的好酒 非常美味
553Trust me on this, okay?相信我,好吗?
554If you wanna party, go for it.你想开派对就去
555And so downing whiskey green tea is one thing.所以,降低威士忌 绿色茶是一回事。
556Sometimes we just do whiskey straight.有时我们只是做威士忌直。
557I remember very distinctly,我非常清楚地记得,
558the time I went on a business dinner with my dad,我和我爸一起吃晚饭的时候
559he has a whole shot, Johnny Walker,他有一整个机会,约翰尼沃克,
560it was Johnny Walker Gold that time, not black,当时是约翰尼·沃克·戈德 不是黑人
561okay, a little bit better, right?好一点了,对吧?
562He pours a whole tray of shots.他倒了一大盘镜头。
563He tells me, okay, go drink with that uncle,他告诉我,好吧,去和叔叔喝酒,
564okay, that uncle, okay, that brother over there, okay,好吧,那个叔叔,好吧,那个兄弟在那里,好吧,
565his wife, there, there, there, about eight people.他的妻子,那里,那里,那里,大约八个人。
566I go, thank you, brother, thank you, uncle.我走了,谢谢你,兄弟,谢谢你,叔叔。
567Boom, boom也.
568By shot three, I'm like, it's getting warm in here.第三枪,我感觉这里越来越热了
569Boom, boom, shot five, little bit throw up in my mouth,砰,砰, 中了五枪, 一点点吐在我的嘴里,
570shot eight, mine, right?射中8,我的,对不对?
571But I think drinking culture has changed a lot since then.但我觉得从那时起 酗酒的文化就发生了很大变化
572I realized there's not that many crazy rules我意识到没有那么多疯狂的规则
573that there used to be, right?曾经有,对不对?
574There are other rules, for example, like,还有其他规则,例如,
575for example, if I'm drinking with somebody,比如,如果我和别人喝酒,
576okay, well, my glass, right?好吧 我的杯子 对吧?
577If we're drinking together, right?如果我们一起喝酒,对吧?
578So we both have a drink, as a sign of respect,所以,我们两个都有一个饮料, 作为尊重的标志,
579my glass a little lower than their glass我的杯子比他们的杯子低一点
580to kind of signify, well, you are the big brother,意思是 你是那个大哥
581you are the most important, you're the big auntie,你是最重要的 你是大姨妈
582the big sister, you are the head of the table, basically.那个大姐,你基本上就是桌子的头
583So lots of little things, lots of these little interesting,所以很多小东西, 很多这些小有趣的,
584like, cultural drinking traditions.像文化饮酒的传统。
585There's whiskey, and then there's bai jo.还有威士忌 还有Bai Jo
586And bai jo is, I like to translate it as Chinese fire water.而Bai Jo是,我喜欢把它译为中国火水。
587It's a crazy drink, it's the main alcohol of China.狂饮,是中国主要的酒类.
588It is rough, it is nasty, but a lot of people love it.这很粗糙,很讨厌 但很多人都很喜欢
589But we'll talk about bai jo in another episode, right?但是我们会在另一集里讨论Bai Jo 对吧?
590Now, here's what I was getting at.现在,我得到了什么。
591One night, so now you know the importance, right,一天晚上,所以现在你知道 重要性,对不对,
592of all these, like, these customs, right,所有这些,像,这些习俗,正确的,
593these drinking culture and everything, right?这些喝酒的文化 和一切,对不对?
594And one night, I went to a party.有一天晚上,我去参加一个派对
595It was like at a KTV karaoke.就像KTV卡拉OK一样
596So KTV is a karaoke, and so if you don't know anything所以KTV是卡拉OK 所以如果你什么都不知道的话
597about China or Asia in general, so generally,关于中国或整个亚洲,所以,
598like, karaoke in China is your own private room.卡拉OK在中国是你的私人房间
599But in the USA, karaoke is mostly in front of everybody,但在美国,卡拉OK 大多在大家面前,
600like, at a bar or anything like that.就像在酒吧之类的
601You do have, like, private rooms, like, in Koreatown,在韩国城,你确实有私人房间
602like, I'm talking about, like, in Los Angeles我说的是在洛杉矶
603and parts of LA as well, but again,以及洛杉矶的部分地区 但还是
604I think for most people, like, most Americans我想对大多数人来说,像,大多数美国人
605don't think of karaoke as a private thing.别把卡拉OK当成私事
606It's mostly, like, a public thing大多是公事公办
607in front of a bunch of people at a bar, right?在酒吧的一群人面前,对不对?
608And so, in China, you know, karaoke is, again,所以,在中国,你知道,卡拉OK是,再次,
609you pay for a private room, you get a bunch of friends你付一个私人房间, 你得到一堆朋友
610together, you drink a lot, you sing,一起,你喝了很多,你唱歌,
611it's a great time, right, very fun.这是一个伟大的时间,正确的,非常有趣。
612I was meeting some friends, and I got to this karaoke room我约了几个朋友 我到了卡拉OK房间
613at about, like, 3 a.m., very late, right?大概凌晨3点,很晚,对吧?
614And of course, everybody's already drunk,当然,每个人都已经喝醉了,
615everyone's super drunk, right?大家都喝醉了,对吧?
616And I get there, I meet a guy for the first time,我第一次遇到一个人
617and I'm, like, super drunk already, like, I'm done, right?我,喜欢,超级醉 已经,喜欢,我结束了,对不对?
618I'm kind of like, I'm just saying hi to someone,我有点喜欢, 我只是向某人问好,
619I'm ready to go home, right?我准备好回家了,对吧?
620A guy wants to drink with me.一个人想和我一起喝酒
621So, he pours us both, I think it was a drink, right?所以,他倒了我们俩, 我认为这是一个饮料,对不对?
622I don't know if it was beer, if it was whiskey我不知道是啤酒还是威士忌
623or something like that, he pours us both a drink,他给我们倒了一杯酒
624and he says, gumbay, okay, bottoms up.他说, 口香糖, 好吧, 向上。
625He downs the whole thing.他打倒了整个事情。
626And I just, like, took, like, a sip of mine, a good sip.我只是,喜欢,喜欢, 一口,一个好喝的。
627I didn't finish it, though.我还没完成呢
628And I was like, thank you, man, but sorry,我当时想,谢谢你,伙计,但对不起,
629I'm too drunk, sorry about that.我喝醉了,对不起。
630And so, after that, I started talking to someone else.所以,在那之后,我开始和别人交谈。
631This guy got really, really angry with me.这家伙真的,真的很生我的气。
632He got so angry, he took his glass,他生气得要命 拿走了他的杯子
633and he threw it across the room,他把它扔在房间里,
634and he broke the beer bottle on the table,他打破了桌上的啤酒瓶,
635and he was ready to fight, like, probably ready to stab me.而且他准备战斗, 像,也许准备刺我。
636And I was like, whoa, whoa, bro, calm down,我当时想,哇,哇,哇,兄弟,冷静下来,
637chill out, right?冷静下来,对不对?
638Now, granted, this guy was super drunk.现在,当然,这家伙是超级醉。
639I was super drunk, as well.我也醉得厉害
640But, honestly, I can tell you,但是,说实话,我可以告诉你,
641I'm not the best drinker in the world,我不是世界上最好的饮酒者,
642but because I've kind of done, like, drinking as a job,但因为我已经做,喜欢,喝酒的工作,
643like, I used to work as a bartender,我曾经当过酒保
644I used to work in clubs, and I also used to, again,我以前在俱乐部工作, 我也曾经,再次,
645just take a lot of clients out for drinking, as well,只要带很多客户出去喝酒, 也,
646just for jobs and business, we're in China, basically, right?我们来中国了,对吧?
647And I, you know, do it sometimes, as well, now.我,你知道,有时候,现在也这样做。
648And so, I was drunk, too,我当时也喝醉了
649but I knew this is a bad situation,但我知道情况很糟
650so I wasn't like, let me get angry, too.所以我没有喜欢, 让我生气,太。
651So, luckily, I was like, whoa, bro, bro, bro, calm down,所以,幸运的是,我像, 哇,兄弟,兄弟,兄弟,冷静下来,
652I'm sorry, man, I apologize to him.对不起,伙计,我向他道歉。
653What I did there is I took a bottle of beer, a big one,我当时做的是喝了一瓶啤酒 一大瓶
654and I downed the entire bottle of beer,我倒下了整瓶啤酒,
655like, this big, right, for him.像,这个大,正确的,为他。
656I downed it, I bottoms up a can of beer, right?我倒了,我倒了一罐啤酒,对不对?
657I showed him, and I said to him, I'm very sorry,我给他看了,我对他说,我很抱歉,
658I'm very sorry I disrespected you,我非常抱歉我对你不敬
659I shouldn't have done that, I'm really sorry about that,我不应该这样做, 我真的很抱歉,
660I don't know any better.我不知道还有什么更好的。
661And then, things were okay, and he's like,然后,一切都好,他喜欢,
662oh, my bad, sorry, bro, I was drunk, right?哦,对不起,兄弟,我喝醉了,对不对?
663And then, we drank more, we sang, we had a good time,然后,我们喝多了,我们唱歌,我们玩得很开心,
664it was a great night.这是一个伟大的夜晚。
665Again, this is kind of like going back to the story再说一遍 这就像回到故事里
666I told you earlier, right, about when my landlord我早告诉过你,对,我房东的事
667offered me a cigarette, and I said, nah, I'm good,给我一支烟 我说,不,我很好,
668I don't wanna smoke, right?我不想抽烟,对不对?
669This is, again, was like a sign of respect,这又像是一种尊重
670and I disrespected this guy.而我不尊重这个人。
671This guy, right, it was like his,这家伙,没错,就像他的,
672I don't know if it was his karaoke room,我不知道是不是他的卡拉OK房间
673but probably friends of the guy was,但也许他的朋友是,
674he chose to drink with me, right,他选择和我喝酒,对吗?
675he chose to bottoms up with me,他选择和我上床
676and he bottoms up, and I didn't return the favor.而他倒下了, 而我没有回报的帮助。
677I kind of like disrespected him in a sense, right?我有点喜欢不尊重他,对不对?
678So, I think about it now, and I'm like,所以,我现在想它,我很喜欢,
679yeah, this is a little crazy, right,是啊,这是有点疯狂,正确的,
680like I should probably call the cops or something like that,也许我应该报警什么的,
681right, but it was a crazy time,是的,但这是一个疯狂的时代,
682it was a crazy young man time, and of course,这是一个疯狂的年轻人时间, 当然,
683as my mother always taught me,正如我妈妈一直教我的
684nothing good ever happens after two o'clock两点钟后没什么好事
685in the morning, right?早上,对不对?
686So, remember, again, I think as I'm recording所以,记住,再次,我想 当我录制
687this podcast now in 2026, I think in general,这个播客现在在2026年, 我认为总的来说,
688young people, young Chinese people don't drink年轻人,中国年轻人不喝酒
689like that so much anymore.喜欢这么多了。
690I've actually find that globally, a lot of young people,事实上,我发现在全球, 很多年轻人,
691doesn't matter what country, just don't like to drink不管哪个国家,只是不喜欢喝酒
692as much as they used to, and kind of a good thing和他们以前一样 也是一件好事
693and a bad thing, you know, it's good because,和坏事,你知道, 这是好的,因为,
694it's great, good for their health,这是伟大的,有利于他们的健康,
695bad thing because it's kind of boring, kind of lame,坏事是因为它有点无聊, 那种跛脚,
696have a drink with your Uncle John, okay?跟你约翰叔叔喝一杯,好吗?
697But these are just my stories, okay?但这只是我的故事,好吗?
698And I don't want you guys think like I'm saying,我不想你们像我说的那样想
699like, you know, it just, it happens, right?就像,你知道,它只是, 它发生,对不对?
700I'm not saying that this guy was a bad guy or anything,我不是说这家伙是坏人什么的,
701honestly, I was a bad guy in both these situations,说实话,在这两种情况下我都是坏人
702but it is what it is, right?但这是它是什么,对不对?
703And again, if you're drinking with people,再说一次 如果你和别人喝酒
704just stay safe, you know, I'll admit to you,保持安全,你知道, 我会承认,
705listen, I'm trying to start a fight听着,我想打一场仗
706into you being drunk as well,让你也醉了
707it happens to the best of us, all right?它发生在我们最好的,好吗?
708Anyways, that's a story for another day, all right?总之,这是另一天的故事,好吗?
709Now, the last culture shock I wanna talk to you about现在,最后一个文化震撼 我想和你谈谈
710is hot water.是热水
711You may say, what do you mean hot water?你说热水是什么意思?
712Hot water.热水.
713In fact, it's funny, I think this year,事实上,这很有趣,我认为今年,
714there were a lot of memes, a lot of like,有很多的迷因, 很多像,
715oh, it's a very Chinese time in my life,哦,这是我一生中一个非常中国的时代,
716I drink hot water now.我现在喝热水。
717Yeah, Americans don't drink hot water.是啊,美国人不喝热水。
718Hot water is weird.热水怪异.
719We drink ice water.我们喝冰水。
720Hot water is hot and nasty, right?热水是热和下流的,对不对?
721In fact, I remember one of the first times I got to China,事实上,我记得我第一次到中国
722when I first arrived in China, I was so thirsty,当我第一次到达中国, 我渴死了,
723I get to a restaurant, I get a glass of water, thank you.我去餐厅,喝杯水,谢谢
724I down it, that water was piping hot.我下来,水是热的。
725I burnt my throat, my tongue, I was like, oh,我烧了我的喉咙,我的舌头,我就像,哦,
726I had no idea why they pour me hot water.我不知道为什么他们给我倒热水
727It's crazy.太疯狂了
728But you will find that Chinese will love their hot water,但你会发现中国人喜欢他们的热水
729right?对吧?
730A lot of restaurants will also serve you hot water as well.很多餐馆也会为你提供热水
731Now, what I wanna talk about is that,现在,我想说的是,
732I remember I told my friend, I feel sick.我记得我告诉我的朋友,我感到恶心。
733I don't feel so good.我感觉不太好
734I feel under the weather.我感觉在天气之下。
735She goes, oh, just drink some hot water.她去,哦,只是喝一些热水。
736What?你说什么?
737What do you mean, drink hot water?喝热水是什么意思?
738Yeah, drink hot water, you'll feel better.是啊,喝热水,你会感觉更好。
739Should I take like medicine, you know, go to the doctor,如果我像吃药一样,你知道的, 去医生,
740get some antibiotics, nothing?来点抗生素吗?
741No, drink hot water.不,喝热水。
742And I just always thought that was kind of funny我总是觉得这很有趣
743that hot water always seems to be like the cure,热水似乎总是像治愈,
744the solution to all of your ailments.解决你所有疾病的方法
745All your illnesses can be solved with hot water.你所有的病都可以用热水解决
746And it's funny because now I do drink a lot more hot water这很有趣,因为现在我喝多了热水
747than I used to, but I just always thought it was so comical比我以前好,不过我一直觉得很可笑
748when it's like, oh, you're sick,当它像,哦,你生病了,
749just drink some hot water basically.只是喝点热水
750But now I do it, I do drink more hot water.但现在我这样做,我确实喝更多的热水。
751But you guys can tell me what is the significance,但你们可以告诉我什么是意义,
752the medical science behind hot water热水背后的医学
753curing my illnesses, okay?治疗我的疾病,好吗?
754So, ladies and gentlemen, I have so many other stories女士们,先生们,我有很多其他的故事
755about culture shock and things I've experienced关于文化冲击和 我经历过的事情
756living in China, good and bad.生活于中国,善恶兼备.
757And I wanna say to everybody, I think this is very important.我想告诉大家,我觉得这很重要。
758So first of all, to all my Chinese friends,所以首先,对我所有的中国朋友,
759because I do have a large audience is Chinese,因为我有大批观众是中国人
760to all my friends all over the world as well,给全世界所有的朋友,
761I wanna let you know that China is my home.我想告诉你中国是我的家
762It's a place I've chosen to live as an adult,这是我选择作为一个成年人生活的地方
763to start my family in.开始我的家人。
764I've been here for a long time.常住无量.
765I've been here longer than I have the USA as an adult,我在这里的时间比我有美国 作为一个成年人,
766which is crazy to think about.这是疯狂的思考。
767And I love being here, I love the culture,我喜欢在这里 我喜欢文化
768I love discovering my roots again.我喜欢再次发现我的根。
769I have nothing but great things to say about China.我对中国没什么好说的
770But of course, there's a lot of good and bad as well, right?但是,当然,有很多好的和坏的,对不对?
771And so I'm just gonna be honest with you,所以我要跟你说实话
772there's a lot of people who say,很多人说,
773well, go back to America.好吧,回到美国去。
774Well, don't stay here then, just chill out guys, okay?好吧,不要呆在这里, 只是冷静的家伙,好吗?
775Every country has good and bad.每个国家都有善恶.
776And if you're too childish to admit that,如果你太幼稚 承认这一点,
777then dude, this isn't the podcast for you, all right?那么,伙计,这不是播客 为你,好吗?
778But I will say that again, these aren't my stories.但我要再说一遍 这些不是我的故事
779These are things that I've encountered.这些是我遇到的
780A lot of times, my fault, a lot of times,很多时候,我的错,很多时候,
781their fault, a lot of times, everybody's fault, all right?他们的错,很多时候, 每个人都的错,好吗?
782But again, it's just all for the sake再说一遍,这都是为了
783of sharing my experiences with you, all righty?和你分享我的经验,好吗?
784So with that said, how are you all doing?这么说 你们都好吗?
785Let me update you again on how things have been for me.让我再给你介绍一下我最近的情况
786As I'm recording this, I am getting ready我在录音的时候,我准备好了
787to go back to the USA in about two days.两天后回美国
788I'm very excited.我非常兴奋
789It's been a while since I've seen my family.久而见家.
790There's been a lot of work stuff.有很多工作的东西。
791There's been a lot of personal stuff有很多个人的东西
792that has occurred in the last year.这是去年发生的。
793I always try to go back twice a year.我每年都想回去两次
794This time, unfortunately, I can only go back once a year.不幸的是,这次我一年只能回去一次
795But I'm very excited.但我很兴奋
796The reason I didn't go back this time of the year我之所以没有回过头来
797is work stuff-wise, there's a lot of stuff工作上的东西,有很多的东西
798we had to get done project-wise.我们不得不完成项目。
799If you're new to my podcast, first of all,如果你是我的播客新来的,首先,
800I don't only have a podcast.我不仅有播客
801I have about 10 million followers,我大约有一千万追随者
802subscribers worldwide, everywhere,世界各地的订户
803on all of social media, everywhere, basically.基本上所有社交媒体 到处都是
804I have an English account, I have a podcast account,我有一个英国账户, 我有一个播客账户,
805I have a video account, I have everything account,我有一个视频账户, 我有所有账户,
806so follow me everywhere.跟着我到处走
807Of course, follow me like this podcast.当然,像播客一样跟着我
808But it's really been about organizing my time,但是这真的是关于安排我的时间,
809expanding my team a little bit,扩大我的团队一点点,
810getting better protocols and working closer with them获得更好的协议,并与它们密切合作
811and really figuring out a system and a structure并且真正地构思一个体系和结构
812to just produce as much quality content as possible.尽可能制作高质量的内容
813And so far, so good.目前还不错
814I'm actually planning to start another account其实我打算再开一个账户
815in the next few months.接下来的几个月里
816I can't tell you what that account will be,我不能告诉你那账户会是什么
817but I can tell you that it will involve但我可以告诉你, 这将涉及
818not only me, but other people.不仅是我,还有其他人
819And you can kinda guess what that account will be about.你可以猜猜那个账户会是什么
820But everything is good here.但这里一切都很好
821As we are speaking right now,我们现在说话的时候
822the podcast is growing at a good rate.播客以良好的速度增长。
823Not extremely fast, but better than normal不快,但比平常好
824for a new podcast especially.特别是一个新的播客。
825You know, there are a lot of podcasts out there你知道,那里有很多播客
826that they have 100 episodes,他们有100集,
827but only like a few subscribers and that's it.但就像几个订户,就这样
828Nobody listens basically.基本上没人听
829I'm very happy to say that I'm almost at 100K plays,我很高兴地说,我几乎在100K剧,
830downloads, and more actually.下载, 更多实际上。
831That's only the Chinese side.那只是中国方面。
832The other side, global side as well,另一边,全球方面,
833could be moving faster, but we're slowly getting there.可能移动得更快, 但我们慢慢到达那里。
834And I owe all of that the support and thanks to you all我欠你们这么多支持和感谢你们
835because again, I can't do any of this without you all.再说一遍,没有你们我办不到
836So I appreciate you and I love you for that.所以我感谢你,我爱你
837All right everybody?大家好吗?
838So with that said, we are at the end of another episode.所以说,我们正处于另一集的结尾。
839Please everyone, if you've come to this point,请大家,如果你已经到了这一点,
840please do me a favor.请帮我一个忙。
841This is really important, okay?这很重要,好吗?
842Wherever you are watching or listening to the podcast,不管你在看还是听播客
843please take the time, leave me a comment.请慢慢来,留我一个评论。
844Like, just like the podcast.就像播客一样
845If you, like is the easiest thing you can do.如果你,就像你能够做的最简单。
846If you can leave me a comment如果你能给我留个意见
847or you can leave a review about the podcast,或者你可以留下关于播客的评论
848that would be so helpful.那会很有帮助的
849Again, when you do that, my podcast rating grows再说一遍,当你这样做, 我的播客评级上升
850and more people listen and then for me,更多的人听 然后为我,
851I can be more successful.我可以更成功一点
852I can make more money doing this我可以赚更多的钱做这个
853and I can create more content for you.我可以为你创造更多的内容。
854That's the most important thing, guys and girls, okay?这是最重要的事情,男人和女孩,好吗?
855My team is very small.我的队伍很小
856My team is only three people, me and two other people.我的队伍只有三个人 我和另外两个人
857And we work very hard every week我们每星期都努力工作
858to give you free amazing content,为了给你免费的惊人内容,
859but I need your support, okay everyone?但我需要你们的支持,好吗?
860I really appreciate it.我真的很感谢你
861And of course, if you can,当然,如果你可以,
862if you want me to answer any questions,如果你要我回答任何问题
863if you want me to, again,如果你想让我再试一次
864talk about something specifically,具体谈谈
865please send me a message, okay?请给我留言 好吗?
866You can leave a comment, send me a message as well.你可以留下一个评论, 给我一个信息。
867Both are best.两者都是最好的。
868The messages, I usually will see over the comments留言,我通常会看评论
869because I just get too many comments.因为我只是得到太多的评论。
870There's no way I can check all of them.我不可能检查他们全部
871Message is usually best, okay?信息通常是最好的,好吗?
872If there's no way to mess with me, leave a comment.如果没有办法惹我,请留言.
873I will try my best.我会尽力的
874And in the future, what we'll do is,未来我们要做的是
875like I'll have a main subject for the podcast就像我有个主播
876and the end, I'll answer your comments, okay?最后,我会回答你的评论,好吗?
877With that said, everybody, hope you enjoyed the podcast.说到这里,各位,希望你们喜欢播客
878Love you, take care, and I'll see you next time.爱你 保重 下次见
879Bye!再见!
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