油管精读318：怎样看出别人在引诱你却不喜欢你？ | 自我提
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | How do we know if people genuinely like us for who we are? | 我们怎么知道人们真的喜欢我们吗? |
| 0:04 | No one wants to feel like they've been fooled into thinking a relationship is more than | 没人想觉得自己被愚弄了 以为恋爱不止 |
| 0:08 | it actually is. | 其实是的。 |
| 0:10 | What makes it worse is when people send us mixed signals intentionally to make us fall | 更糟糕的是 当人们故意给我们发出混合信号 来让我们跌倒时 |
| 0:15 | deeper in love when in reality, they aren't ready to be with us. | 更深的爱 当现实中, 他们还没有准备好与我们在一起。 |
| 0:19 | But why would they do so? | 但他们为什么要这样做? |
| 0:21 | Well, it could be because they like it when they know someone is head over heels for them. | 这可能是因为他们喜欢 当他们知道有人在追他们 |
| 0:26 | And even though they do not feel the same way about them, they would still string them | 即使他们感觉不同,他们仍会缠着他们 |
| 0:29 | along because it strokes their ego and they don't want to lose that admiration. | 因为它触动了他们的自我 他们不想失去这种钦佩 |
| 0:34 | In this video, we hope to help you see some of the signs that you may be being led on, | 在这个视频中,我们希望帮助你看到一些 你可能被引导到, |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | How do we know if people genuinely like us for who we are? | 我们怎么知道人们真的喜欢我们吗? |
| 2 | No one wants to feel like they've been fooled into thinking a relationship is more than | 没人想觉得自己被愚弄了 以为恋爱不止 |
| 3 | it actually is. | 其实是的。 |
| 4 | What makes it worse is when people send us mixed signals intentionally to make us fall | 更糟糕的是 当人们故意给我们发出混合信号 来让我们跌倒时 |
| 5 | deeper in love when in reality, they aren't ready to be with us. | 更深的爱 当现实中, 他们还没有准备好与我们在一起。 |
| 6 | But why would they do so? | 但他们为什么要这样做? |
| 7 | Well, it could be because they like it when they know someone is head over heels for them. | 这可能是因为他们喜欢 当他们知道有人在追他们 |
| 8 | And even though they do not feel the same way about them, they would still string them | 即使他们感觉不同,他们仍会缠着他们 |
| 9 | along because it strokes their ego and they don't want to lose that admiration. | 因为它触动了他们的自我 他们不想失去这种钦佩 |
| 10 | In this video, we hope to help you see some of the signs that you may be being led on, | 在这个视频中,我们希望帮助你看到一些 你可能被引导到, |
| 11 | or perhaps you're doing the leading and want to stop that. | 或也许你正在做领先 并想阻止。 |
| 12 | 1. | 一、导 言 |
| 13 | They might say I love you too soon Everyone knows that love at first sight is | 他们可能说我爱你太快了 每个人都知道爱是一见钟情 |
| 14 | a real thing. | 一个真实的东西。 |
| 15 | If someone tells you they love you within 5 minutes of meeting you, do you think they | 如果有人告诉你,他们爱你 在五分钟内见到你, 你认为他们 |
| 16 | are telling the truth? | 说的是实话吗? |
| 17 | Think about the situation rationally. | 理性地思考情况. |
| 18 | How much do they know about us in 5 minutes? | 五分钟内他们知道我们多少? |
| 19 | What is it about us that they love? | 他们爱我们是什么? |
| 20 | 2. | 2. 国家 |
| 21 | It's always about them People who lead us on are likely to talk | 总是关于他们 带领我们的人 很可能谈论 |
| 22 | only about themselves. | 只是关于自己。 |
| 23 | This is because at the end of the day, people who engage in this behavior are pretty self-centered. | 这是因为,在最后, 从事这种行为的人 相当自我中心。 |
| 24 | They don't care about how their self-serving behavior might hurt others. | 他们不在乎他们自私的行为会如何伤害他人. |
| 25 | In fact, they're probably leading you on just so that they can feel fulfilled from | 事实上,他们可能正在引导你 只是为了让他们感觉满足 |
| 26 | your love. | 你的爱 |
| 27 | Take note of how your conversations pan out and see how often your partner includes you | 注意你的谈话进展 看看你的搭档有多频繁地包括你 |
| 28 | in the discussion. | 在讨论中。 |
| 29 | They're not sure what type of relationship they want | 他们不知道他们想要什么样的关系 |
| 30 | At a certain point in a relationship, it's usually a good idea to figure out what each | 在一段感情的某一段时间,通常会想出一个好主意 |
| 31 | partner's goals are. | 伙伴的目标是。 |
| 32 | Do you both want something casual or something serious? | 你们想来点随便的还是认真的? |
| 33 | Maybe you two just want to be friends, but when you find someone who can never seem to | 也许你们俩只是想成为朋友 但当你找到一个 永远无法成为朋友的人 |
| 34 | want, it might be a sign they're leading you on. | 想要,这可能是一个征兆 他们引导你。 |
| 35 | If someone is interested in a casual relationship, they should come out and say it ASAP. | 如果有人对临时关系感兴趣 他们应该马上出来说 |
| 36 | Letting the other person believe otherwise is manipulative and insensitive. | 让他人相信其他情况是操纵性的和麻木不仁的。 |
| 37 | 4. | 4个 |
| 38 | They're nice, but it seems fake When someone leads you on in a relationship, | 他们很好,但看起来是假的 当有人引导你在一个关系, |
| 39 | their kindness may come and go. | 他们的好意可能来来去去。 |
| 40 | In general, when someone is nice to you, it's sometimes pretty hard to tell if they're | 一般来说,当某人对你很好, 有时很难分辨他们是不是 |
| 41 | being genuine or not. | 是真实与否。 |
| 42 | This is another big sign of someone who's leading you on. | 这是另一个大迹象 某人谁引导你。 |
| 43 | They're only nice when it's convenient for them. | 只有方便时它们才很好. |
| 44 | If you want to learn more about how to spot a fake nice person, check out our video on | 如果你想多学点如何发现一个 假的好人,看看我们的视频 |
| 45 | the subject. | 主题。 |
| 46 | 5. | 5.五. |
| 47 | They're ghosting you Ghosting is when people refuse to answer your | 鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼祟祟的 |
| 48 | texts or return your calls. | 发短信或回你电话 |
| 49 | Ghosting can be very confusing, especially in a relationship. | 鬼魂可能非常混乱,特别是在一段关系中. |
| 50 | This is a pretty big sign that someone is leading you on. | 这是一个相当大的征兆 有人引导你。 |
| 51 | Even if they're busy, if someone really cares about you, they'll take a few seconds and | 即使他们很忙 如果有人真正关心你 他们会花几秒钟 |
| 52 | reply to your texts to let you know that they are. | 回答你的短信 让你知道他们是。 |
| 53 | They play the victim Manipulative people love to play the victim. | 他们扮演受害者操纵者 喜欢扮演受害者。 |
| 54 | Before you know it, they've turned the tables on you, and they make it seem like they're | 在你知道之前,他们已经把桌子放在你身上了, 而且他们使它看起来像他们 |
| 55 | the one who's being abused in the relationship. | 在关系上被虐待的人 |
| 56 | This is classic behavior of someone who's trying to play with your mind, which is exactly | 这是典型的行为 某人谁试图玩 你的思想,这正是 |
| 57 | what leading people on is all about. | 谁是领导者 这一切。 |
| 58 | 7. | 7个 |
| 59 | They might play the victim when something doesn't go their way, or even when you accuse | 他们可能会扮演受害者 当事情不走他们的方式, 甚至当你指责 |
| 60 | them of leading you on. | 他们带领你前进。 |
| 61 | Recognize if you're the one usually compromising and making sacrifices. | 承认你是不是那个 通常妥协和牺牲的人 |
| 62 | Remember to appreciate your self-worth. | 记得欣赏你的自我价值。 |
| 63 | 7. | 7个 |
| 64 | They might just be confused At the end of the day, people might be leading | 他们可能只是困惑 最终,人们可能领先 |
| 65 | you on without fully realizing what they're doing. | 你没有完全意识到他们在做什么。 |
| 66 | Not everyone knows what they want from a relationship right from the beginning, and they might be | 不是每个人都知道他们想要什么 从关系开始,他们可能是 |
| 67 | torn between two worlds. | 两个世界之间撕裂。 |
| 68 | On one hand, they might want a serious relationship with you, but there might also be an inner | 一方面,他们可能想要 与你认真的关系, 但也可能有一个内在的 |
| 69 | voice warning them against it. | 警告他们不要这么做 |
| 70 | They might just be afraid of getting hurt. | 他们可能只是害怕受伤。 |
| 71 | This certainly doesn't excuse the behavior, but it does potentially explain it. | 这当然不能为这种行为开脱,但它确实有潜在的解释. |
| 72 | Do these signs make sense to you? | 这些标志对你有道理吗? |
| 73 | Have you ever been in a relationship like this? | 你有过这种关系吗? |
| 74 | If not, are you the one doing the leading and want to be more mindful? | 如果不是,你做领头人 并想更加小心? |
| 75 | 8. | 8. 国家 |
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字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | How do we know if people genuinely like us for who we are? | 我们怎么知道人们真的喜欢我们吗? |
| 0:04 | No one wants to feel like they've been fooled into thinking a relationship is more than | 没人想觉得自己被愚弄了 以为恋爱不止 |
| 0:08 | it actually is. | 其实是的。 |
| 0:10 | What makes it worse is when people send us mixed signals intentionally to make us fall | 更糟糕的是 当人们故意给我们发出混合信号 来让我们跌倒时 |
| 0:15 | deeper in love when in reality, they aren't ready to be with us. | 更深的爱 当现实中, 他们还没有准备好与我们在一起。 |
| 0:19 | But why would they do so? | 但他们为什么要这样做? |
| 0:21 | Well, it could be because they like it when they know someone is head over heels for them. | 这可能是因为他们喜欢 当他们知道有人在追他们 |
| 0:26 | And even though they do not feel the same way about them, they would still string them | 即使他们感觉不同,他们仍会缠着他们 |
| 0:29 | along because it strokes their ego and they don't want to lose that admiration. | 因为它触动了他们的自我 他们不想失去这种钦佩 |
| 0:34 | In this video, we hope to help you see some of the signs that you may be being led on, | 在这个视频中,我们希望帮助你看到一些 你可能被引导到, |
展开字幕全文（75 条）
| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | How do we know if people genuinely like us for who we are? | 我们怎么知道人们真的喜欢我们吗? |
| 2 | No one wants to feel like they've been fooled into thinking a relationship is more than | 没人想觉得自己被愚弄了 以为恋爱不止 |
| 3 | it actually is. | 其实是的。 |
| 4 | What makes it worse is when people send us mixed signals intentionally to make us fall | 更糟糕的是 当人们故意给我们发出混合信号 来让我们跌倒时 |
| 5 | deeper in love when in reality, they aren't ready to be with us. | 更深的爱 当现实中, 他们还没有准备好与我们在一起。 |
| 6 | But why would they do so? | 但他们为什么要这样做? |
| 7 | Well, it could be because they like it when they know someone is head over heels for them. | 这可能是因为他们喜欢 当他们知道有人在追他们 |
| 8 | And even though they do not feel the same way about them, they would still string them | 即使他们感觉不同,他们仍会缠着他们 |
| 9 | along because it strokes their ego and they don't want to lose that admiration. | 因为它触动了他们的自我 他们不想失去这种钦佩 |
| 10 | In this video, we hope to help you see some of the signs that you may be being led on, | 在这个视频中,我们希望帮助你看到一些 你可能被引导到, |
| 11 | or perhaps you're doing the leading and want to stop that. | 或也许你正在做领先 并想阻止。 |
| 12 | 1. | 一、导 言 |
| 13 | They might say I love you too soon Everyone knows that love at first sight is | 他们可能说我爱你太快了 每个人都知道爱是一见钟情 |
| 14 | a real thing. | 一个真实的东西。 |
| 15 | If someone tells you they love you within 5 minutes of meeting you, do you think they | 如果有人告诉你,他们爱你 在五分钟内见到你, 你认为他们 |
| 16 | are telling the truth? | 说的是实话吗? |
| 17 | Think about the situation rationally. | 理性地思考情况. |
| 18 | How much do they know about us in 5 minutes? | 五分钟内他们知道我们多少? |
| 19 | What is it about us that they love? | 他们爱我们是什么? |
| 20 | 2. | 2. 国家 |
| 21 | It's always about them People who lead us on are likely to talk | 总是关于他们 带领我们的人 很可能谈论 |
| 22 | only about themselves. | 只是关于自己。 |
| 23 | This is because at the end of the day, people who engage in this behavior are pretty self-centered. | 这是因为,在最后, 从事这种行为的人 相当自我中心。 |
| 24 | They don't care about how their self-serving behavior might hurt others. | 他们不在乎他们自私的行为会如何伤害他人. |
| 25 | In fact, they're probably leading you on just so that they can feel fulfilled from | 事实上,他们可能正在引导你 只是为了让他们感觉满足 |
| 26 | your love. | 你的爱 |
| 27 | Take note of how your conversations pan out and see how often your partner includes you | 注意你的谈话进展 看看你的搭档有多频繁地包括你 |
| 28 | in the discussion. | 在讨论中。 |
| 29 | They're not sure what type of relationship they want | 他们不知道他们想要什么样的关系 |
| 30 | At a certain point in a relationship, it's usually a good idea to figure out what each | 在一段感情的某一段时间,通常会想出一个好主意 |
| 31 | partner's goals are. | 伙伴的目标是。 |
| 32 | Do you both want something casual or something serious? | 你们想来点随便的还是认真的? |
| 33 | Maybe you two just want to be friends, but when you find someone who can never seem to | 也许你们俩只是想成为朋友 但当你找到一个 永远无法成为朋友的人 |
| 34 | want, it might be a sign they're leading you on. | 想要,这可能是一个征兆 他们引导你。 |
| 35 | If someone is interested in a casual relationship, they should come out and say it ASAP. | 如果有人对临时关系感兴趣 他们应该马上出来说 |
| 36 | Letting the other person believe otherwise is manipulative and insensitive. | 让他人相信其他情况是操纵性的和麻木不仁的。 |
| 37 | 4. | 4个 |
| 38 | They're nice, but it seems fake When someone leads you on in a relationship, | 他们很好,但看起来是假的 当有人引导你在一个关系, |
| 39 | their kindness may come and go. | 他们的好意可能来来去去。 |
| 40 | In general, when someone is nice to you, it's sometimes pretty hard to tell if they're | 一般来说,当某人对你很好, 有时很难分辨他们是不是 |
| 41 | being genuine or not. | 是真实与否。 |
| 42 | This is another big sign of someone who's leading you on. | 这是另一个大迹象 某人谁引导你。 |
| 43 | They're only nice when it's convenient for them. | 只有方便时它们才很好. |
| 44 | If you want to learn more about how to spot a fake nice person, check out our video on | 如果你想多学点如何发现一个 假的好人,看看我们的视频 |
| 45 | the subject. | 主题。 |
| 46 | 5. | 5.五. |
| 47 | They're ghosting you Ghosting is when people refuse to answer your | 鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼鬼祟祟的 |
| 48 | texts or return your calls. | 发短信或回你电话 |
| 49 | Ghosting can be very confusing, especially in a relationship. | 鬼魂可能非常混乱,特别是在一段关系中. |
| 50 | This is a pretty big sign that someone is leading you on. | 这是一个相当大的征兆 有人引导你。 |
| 51 | Even if they're busy, if someone really cares about you, they'll take a few seconds and | 即使他们很忙 如果有人真正关心你 他们会花几秒钟 |
| 52 | reply to your texts to let you know that they are. | 回答你的短信 让你知道他们是。 |
| 53 | They play the victim Manipulative people love to play the victim. | 他们扮演受害者操纵者 喜欢扮演受害者。 |
| 54 | Before you know it, they've turned the tables on you, and they make it seem like they're | 在你知道之前,他们已经把桌子放在你身上了, 而且他们使它看起来像他们 |
| 55 | the one who's being abused in the relationship. | 在关系上被虐待的人 |
| 56 | This is classic behavior of someone who's trying to play with your mind, which is exactly | 这是典型的行为 某人谁试图玩 你的思想,这正是 |
| 57 | what leading people on is all about. | 谁是领导者 这一切。 |
| 58 | 7. | 7个 |
| 59 | They might play the victim when something doesn't go their way, or even when you accuse | 他们可能会扮演受害者 当事情不走他们的方式, 甚至当你指责 |
| 60 | them of leading you on. | 他们带领你前进。 |
| 61 | Recognize if you're the one usually compromising and making sacrifices. | 承认你是不是那个 通常妥协和牺牲的人 |
| 62 | Remember to appreciate your self-worth. | 记得欣赏你的自我价值。 |
| 63 | 7. | 7个 |
| 64 | They might just be confused At the end of the day, people might be leading | 他们可能只是困惑 最终,人们可能领先 |
| 65 | you on without fully realizing what they're doing. | 你没有完全意识到他们在做什么。 |
| 66 | Not everyone knows what they want from a relationship right from the beginning, and they might be | 不是每个人都知道他们想要什么 从关系开始,他们可能是 |
| 67 | torn between two worlds. | 两个世界之间撕裂。 |
| 68 | On one hand, they might want a serious relationship with you, but there might also be an inner | 一方面,他们可能想要 与你认真的关系, 但也可能有一个内在的 |
| 69 | voice warning them against it. | 警告他们不要这么做 |
| 70 | They might just be afraid of getting hurt. | 他们可能只是害怕受伤。 |
| 71 | This certainly doesn't excuse the behavior, but it does potentially explain it. | 这当然不能为这种行为开脱,但它确实有潜在的解释. |
| 72 | Do these signs make sense to you? | 这些标志对你有道理吗? |
| 73 | Have you ever been in a relationship like this? | 你有过这种关系吗? |
| 74 | If not, are you the one doing the leading and want to be more mindful? | 如果不是,你做领头人 并想更加小心? |
| 75 | 8. | 8. 国家 |
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