【🎧每日 30 分钟英语播客】如何保持每日的内驱力|How
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P1 · 【🎧每日 30 分钟英语播客】如何保持每日的内驱力|How to Stay Self-Motivated Every Day|沉浸式学习 p01 双语 (P1)

【🎧每日 30 分钟英语播客】如何保持每日的内驱力|How to Stay Self-Motivated Every Day|沉浸式学习 p01 双语 (P1)
发布于 2026-10-19 · 时长 34:42字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | Hello, everyone, and welcome to our podcast. | 大家好 欢迎收看我们的播客 |
| 0:03 | My name is Anna, and I am so happy you are | 我叫安娜,我很高兴你 |
| 0:06 | here with us today. | 今天和我们在一起 |
| 0:08 | Today, we have a very exciting and important topic. | 今天,我们有一个非常令人兴奋和重要的议题。 |
| 0:12 | We are going | 我们要走了 |
| 0:12 | to talk about self-motivation. | 谈论自我激励。 |
| 0:15 | Self-motivation means the ability to push yourself forward, | 自我激励意味着有能力推进自己, |
| 0:19 | to do things, reach your goals, and keep going, even when it is hard. | 做事情,达到你的目标, 并继续前进, 即使它很难。 |
| 0:24 | This topic is important | 这个问题很重要 |
| 0:26 | for everyone—students, workers, parents, dreamers. | 对每个人来说——学生、工人、父母、梦想家。 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 1 | Hello, everyone, and welcome to our podcast. | 大家好 欢迎收看我们的播客 |
| 2 | My name is Anna, and I am so happy you are | 我叫安娜,我很高兴你 |
| 3 | here with us today. | 今天和我们在一起 |
| 4 | Today, we have a very exciting and important topic. | 今天,我们有一个非常令人兴奋和重要的议题。 |
| 5 | We are going | 我们要走了 |
| 6 | to talk about self-motivation. | 谈论自我激励。 |
| 7 | Self-motivation means the ability to push yourself forward, | 自我激励意味着有能力推进自己, |
| 8 | to do things, reach your goals, and keep going, even when it is hard. | 做事情,达到你的目标, 并继续前进, 即使它很难。 |
| 9 | This topic is important | 这个问题很重要 |
| 10 | for everyone—students, workers, parents, dreamers. | 对每个人来说——学生、工人、父母、梦想家。 |
| 11 | Everyone needs motivation in life. | 每个人都需要生活中的动力 |
| 12 | I am joined today by my wonderful co-host, Mark. | 我今天和我的好搭档马克在一起 |
| 13 | We will talk about what motivation is, | 我们来谈谈动机是什么 |
| 14 | why we lose it, and how to find it again. | 为什么我们失去它, 以及如何再次找到它。 |
| 15 | We use simple English, so this podcast is | 我们使用简单的英语,所以这个播客是 |
| 16 | perfect for beginners. | 适合初学者 |
| 17 | Hi, Mark, how are you feeling today, and are you ready to talk about | 嗨,马克,你今天感觉如何, 你准备好谈论 |
| 18 | self-motivation? | 自我激励? |
| 19 | Hi, Anna. | 嗨,安娜,你好吗? |
| 20 | I am feeling great and very motivated today, which is perfect for our topic. | 我今天感到棒极了,非常有动力,这非常适合我们的主题。 |
| 21 | Hello | 哈罗 |
| 22 | to all our wonderful listeners. | 我们所有的听众。 |
| 23 | Self-motivation is one of my favorite subjects. | 自动机是我最喜欢的学科之一. |
| 24 | I think about | 我想着 |
| 25 | it a lot, because honestly, staying motivated is something I have personally struggled with | 有很多,因为说实话, 保持积极性是我个人奋斗过的事情 |
| 26 | over the years. | 多年来 |
| 27 | I have had periods of very high energy and ambition, and other periods | 我曾经有过非常高的精力和雄心以及其他时期 |
| 28 | of feeling completely stuck. | 感觉完全卡住了。 |
| 29 | Learning about self-motivation helped me understand why that | 学习自我激励有助于我理解为什么 |
| 30 | and what to do about it. | 怎么办呢? |
| 31 | And the good news is, self-motivation is a skill. | 好消息是,自我激励是一种技能。 |
| 32 | You can learn | 你可以学的 |
| 33 | it and get better at it over time. | 随时间变好 |
| 34 | That is very encouraging. | 这非常令人鼓舞。 |
| 35 | So let's explore this topic | 我们来探讨一下这个话题 |
| 36 | together today. | 今天我们在一起 |
| 37 | Anna, let's start from the beginning. | 安娜,让我们从头开始。 |
| 38 | What exactly is self-motivation? | 什么是自我激励? |
| 39 | Great question. | 问得好 |
| 40 | Self-motivation is the inner drive that makes you want to do something | 自动机是内在的驱动力,让你想做点什么 |
| 41 | or achieve something without needing someone else to push you. | 或者做点什么 不需要别人推你 |
| 42 | When you are self-motivated, | 当你自动机, |
| 43 | you start things by yourself. | 你一个人开始的 |
| 44 | You keep going by yourself. | 你继续自己去。 |
| 45 | You don't wait for your boss, | 你不等着你的老板, |
| 46 | your teacher, or your parents to tell you what to do. | 你的老师,或者你的父母 告诉你该怎么做。 |
| 47 | You just do it because you want | 你这样做只是因为你想 |
| 48 | to. | 改为。 |
| 49 | There are two types of motivation. | 动机有两种. |
| 50 | The first is external motivation. | 第一是外部动机。 |
| 51 | This means you | 这表示你 |
| 52 | do something because of an outside reward, like money, praise, or grades. | 做一些事,因为外面的奖励,比如金钱,赞美,或者成绩. |
| 53 | The second | 第二个 |
| 54 | is internal motivation. | 是内部动机 |
| 55 | You do something because it makes you feel happy, proud or fulfilled | 你做一些事情,因为它让你觉得快乐,骄傲或满足 |
| 56 | inside. | 进去 |
| 57 | Self-motivation is mostly about internal motivation. | 自动机主要是内部动机. |
| 58 | Mark, what do you think is the | 马克,你认为什么是 |
| 59 | difference between the two types in everyday life? | 在日常生活中这两种类型的区别? |
| 60 | The difference is very important in everyday life. | 差别在日常生活中非常重要. |
| 61 | External motivation works well for a | 外部动机对一个 |
| 62 | short time. | 时间很短 |
| 63 | For example, if your boss gives you a bonus, you feel motivated for a while. | 例如,如果你的老板给你奖金,你会觉得有一段时间的积极性. |
| 64 | But when the bonus is gone, the motivation often disappears too. | 但当奖金没了,动机也经常消失. |
| 65 | Internal motivation | 内部动机 |
| 66 | lasts longer because it comes from inside you. | 因为它来自你体内,所以会持续更长的时间。 |
| 67 | For example, when I started learning to cook, | 例如,当我开始学习烹饪时, |
| 68 | nobody asked me to do it, and nobody paid me. | 没有人让我做, 没有人付钱给我。 |
| 69 | I did it because I found it fun and creative. | 我这样做是因为我发现它很有趣和创造性。 |
| 70 | That internal joy kept me going for months. | 那种内心的欢乐让我持续了好几个月 |
| 71 | I practiced every weekend. | 我每个周末都练习 |
| 72 | Now I cook very well. | 现在我做的很好 |
| 73 | External motivation can start things, but internal motivation sustains them. | 外部动机可以启动事物,但内部动机维持它们. |
| 74 | So if you want to stay motivated over a long time, it helps to find something that you genuinely | 所以,如果你想保持 动机在很长一段时间, 它帮助找到 一些你真正的 |
| 75 | care about and enjoy. | 关心和享受。 |
| 76 | Anna, do you think some people are naturally more motivated than others? | 安娜,你认为一些人 自然比其他人更有动机吗? |
| 77 | That is a great question. | 问得好 |
| 78 | I think some people seem naturally more energetic and driven. | 我认为有些人看起来自然而然地更充满活力和动力. |
| 79 | But | 不过 |
| 80 | I believe motivation is mostly a skill and a habit, not just a fixed personality trait. | 我认为动机主要是一种技巧和习惯,而不仅仅是一种固定的个性特征. |
| 81 | Some people learned good motivation habits early in life, maybe from their parents or teachers. | 有些人很早就学会了良好的动机习惯,也许他们的父母或老师也这样做。 |
| 82 | Others had to learn later. | 其他人后来必须学习。 |
| 83 | But anyone can build stronger motivation at any age. | 但任何人都可以在任何年龄建立更强大的动力. |
| 84 | What matters more | 还有什么更重要的 |
| 85 | than natural personality is your mindset, how you think about challenges, effort, and failure. | 而不是自然的个性 是你的心态,你如何思考挑战,努力,失败。 |
| 86 | People with a growth mindset believe they can improve through effort. | 有增长心态的人相信,他们可以通过努力来改善。 |
| 87 | They see failure as a | 他们视失败为 |
| 88 | lesson, not as proof that they are not good enough. | 而不是证明他们不够好 |
| 89 | That mindset creates strong self-motivation. | 这种心态产生了强烈的自动机。 |
| 90 | People with a fixed mindset think abilities are fixed. | 有固定心态的人认为能力是固定的. |
| 91 | You either have them or you don't. | 你要么有,要么没有 |
| 92 | That thinking kills motivation. | 这种想法会扼杀动机。 |
| 93 | Mark, have you heard of the growth mindset before? | 马克,你听说过成长的心态吗? |
| 94 | Yes. | 对 |
| 95 | The growth mindset comes from the work of psychologist Carol Dweck. | 成长的心态来自心理学家卡罗尔·德韦克的作品. |
| 96 | She did many years of research and found that students who believed their abilities could | 她做了多年的研究 发现那些相信自己能力的学生 |
| 97 | grow and improve performed much better than students who believed their abilities were fixed. | 比起相信自己的能力得到固定的学生,成长和提高的成绩要好得多。 |
| 98 | It is a very powerful idea. | 这是一个非常强大的想法。 |
| 99 | I remember when I first heard about it, I realized I had been | 我记得我第一次听说的时候 我意识到我一直 |
| 100 | using a fixed mindset in some areas of my life. | 用固定的心态 在我生活的某些领域。 |
| 101 | For example, I always said, I am bad at math. | 例如,我总是说,我数学不好。 |
| 102 | That's just who I am. | 这就是我是谁。 |
| 103 | That belief stopped me from even trying to get better. | 这种信念阻止了我甚至试图好转。 |
| 104 | When I changed to a | 当我换成一个 |
| 105 | growth mindset and said, I can improve at math if I practice and get help, everything changed. | 成长思维和说,我可以在数学上改进 如果我练习和寻求帮助,一切都改变了。 |
| 106 | I started trying harder and I did improve. | 我开始更努力地努力,我确实有所改进。 |
| 107 | Your beliefs about yourself directly affect | 你对自己的看法直接影响到 |
| 108 | your motivation. | 你的动机。 |
| 109 | Anna, how did you first learn about self-motivation? | 安娜,你是怎么学会自我激励的? |
| 110 | I started learning about self-motivation after a difficult year in my mid-twenties. | 我20多岁时开始学习自我激励 |
| 111 | I had big dreams. | 我做了个大梦 |
| 112 | I wanted to start my own small business, improve my English, travel more, | 我想开始自己的小生意, 改进我的英语, 旅行更多, |
| 113 | and get healthy. | 并获得健康。 |
| 114 | But I wasn't doing any of those things. | 但我没有做那些事 |
| 115 | I had the dreams, but not the action. | 我有梦想,但没有行动。 |
| 116 | I felt frustrated and confused. | 我感到沮丧和困惑。 |
| 117 | Why could I not just do the things I wanted to do? | 为什么我不能做我想做的事? |
| 118 | I started reading books about habits and motivation. | 我开始读关于习惯和动机的书。 |
| 119 | One book that changed my life was | 有本书改变了我的生活 |
| 120 | about setting clear goals and taking small actions every day. | 每天确定明确的目标和采取小行动。 |
| 121 | I learned that motivation | 我学会了这个动机 |
| 122 | doesn't always come first. | 不总是先来. |
| 123 | Sometimes action comes first and motivation follows. | 有时行动首先,动机随之而来。 |
| 124 | That was a completely | 那是个完全的 |
| 125 | new idea for me. | 对我来说是新主意 |
| 126 | I thought you had to feel motivated before you could act, but actually, | 我想你必须觉得 动机之前,你可以采取行动,但实际上, |
| 127 | you often feel motivated after you start acting. | 在你开始演戏后,你常常觉得有动力 |
| 128 | Mark, what do you think about that idea? | 马克,你觉得怎么样? |
| 129 | I think that idea is one of the most useful things anyone can learn about motivation. | 我认为,这个想法是任何人都能学到的关于动机的最有用的东西之一。 |
| 130 | Many people wait to feel motivated before they begin. | 许多人在开始前等着感到有动力。 |
| 131 | They say, I will start exercising when I | 他们说,我会开始锻炼 当我 |
| 132 | feel more energetic, or I will study when I feel like it. | 感觉更活力,否则我会学习 当我感觉它。 |
| 133 | But that feeling often never comes, | 但那种感觉经常从不出现 |
| 134 | or it comes and goes very quickly. | 或者它来去得很快。 |
| 135 | The secret is to start even when you don't feel like it. | 秘诀是即使你不喜欢也得开始 |
| 136 | Start small. | 开始小。 |
| 137 | Do just two minutes. | 就两分钟 |
| 138 | Just open the book. | 把书打开 |
| 139 | Just put on your shoes. | 只要穿上你的鞋子。 |
| 140 | That small start | 这个小小的开始 |
| 141 | usually creates a little momentum, and momentum builds motivation. | 通常会产生一点动力,而动力则会形成动力. |
| 142 | I heard someone compare it to | 我听说有人把它比作 |
| 143 | pushing a heavy cart. | 推了辆重车 |
| 144 | It's hardest to move at the very beginning, but once it starts rolling, | 一开始很难移动 但一旦开始滚动 |
| 145 | it's much easier to keep going. | 继续走就容易多了 |
| 146 | Starting is always the hardest part. | 开始总是最难的 |
| 147 | Have you experienced this, Anna? | 你经历过吗,安娜? |
| 148 | Yes, absolutely. | 是的,当然。 |
| 149 | This is something I experience almost every week. | 我几乎每个星期都会经历这样的事 |
| 150 | For example, | 举例来说, |
| 151 | I go for morning walks. | 我早上去散步 早上去散步 早上去散步 |
| 152 | There are many mornings when I wake up and I really don't want to go. | 我醒来的时候有很多早晨 我真的不想去 |
| 153 | My bed is warm and comfortable, and going outside in the cold seems terrible. | 我的床暖和舒适, 外出在寒冷似乎可怕。 |
| 154 | But I have a rule. | 但我有一个规则。 |
| 155 | I just put on my walking shoes. | 我只是穿上我的步行鞋。 |
| 156 | That's it. | 就这样 |
| 157 | Just the shoes. | 只穿鞋子,别穿了 |
| 158 | Once I have my shoes on, | 一旦我穿上鞋子, |
| 159 | I almost always go. | 我几乎总是去。 |
| 160 | And once I am outside and walking, I feel wonderful. | 一旦我出去走走,我感觉棒极了 |
| 161 | I am always happy I | 我一直很快乐 |
| 162 | went. | 已经走了。 |
| 163 | I never come home and think, I wish I had stayed in bed. | 我从来没有回家思考, 我希望我留在床上。 |
| 164 | The motivation follows the action. | 动机跟随行动。 |
| 165 | This is called the two-minute rule by some coaches. | 这被一些教练称为两分钟规则. |
| 166 | You just commit to two minutes of anything. | 你只要承诺两分钟就够了 |
| 167 | Often, two minutes turns into twenty. | 通常,两分钟变成20分钟。 |
| 168 | What small actions help you start when you don't feel | 没有什么小动作帮助你开始 当你感觉不到 |
| 169 | motivated? | 动机? |
| 170 | Mark? | 马克? |
| 171 | For me, the biggest small action is making my bed in the morning. | 对我来说,最大的小动作是早上做我的床。 |
| 172 | It sounds so simple and almost silly, but it works for me. | 听起来很简单 几乎很傻 但对我有效 |
| 173 | When I make my bed, I have already | 当我做我的床,我已经 |
| 174 | completed one task. | 完成了一项任务。 |
| 175 | My brain feels a small win and it wants another. | 我的大脑感到一个小胜利 它想要另一个。 |
| 176 | That feeling of completion | 完成的感觉 |
| 177 | gives me energy and a sense of control over the day. | 让我对今天充满活力和掌控感 |
| 178 | Another small action I use is writing one | 我用的另一个小动作是写一个 |
| 179 | sentence in my journal first thing in the morning. | 明早第一件事就是在我的日记里说句 |
| 180 | Just one sentence about how I feel or what I want | 就一句话 关于我的感受或我想要的 |
| 181 | from the day. | 从一天。 |
| 182 | Once I write that one sentence, I usually write more. | 一旦我写了这句话, 我通常会写更多。 |
| 183 | These entry point habits | 这些进入点习惯 |
| 184 | are very powerful. | 是非常强大的。 |
| 185 | They lower the barrier to starting. | 他们降低障碍开始。 |
| 186 | The hardest part of any task is | 任何任务最难的部分是 |
| 187 | beginning. | 开始。 |
| 188 | Make the beginning as small as possible and you make it easy to start. | 使开头尽量小,使开头容易. |
| 189 | Let's talk about goals now, Anna. | 让我们谈谈目标,安娜。 |
| 190 | How important are goals for self-motivation? | 自我激励的目标有多重要? |
| 191 | Goals are extremely important for self-motivation. | 目标对于自我激励极为重要。 |
| 192 | Without a clear goal, motivation has nowhere | 没有明确的目标,动机就没有了 |
| 193 | to go. | 离开。 |
| 194 | Imagine you are driving a car but you have no destination. | 想象一下你开的是车,但你没有目的地。 |
| 195 | You would just drive around | 你会开车到处转转 |
| 196 | without purpose. | 没有目的。 |
| 197 | Goals give you direction. | 目标给你方向。 |
| 198 | They tell you where to go and why. | 他们告诉你去哪里和为什么。 |
| 199 | But not all goals | 但不是所有的目标 |
| 200 | are created equal. | 被创建为平等的。 |
| 201 | I think goals need to be specific and personal. | 我认为目标必须具体和针对个人。 |
| 202 | A goal like, | 目标像, |
| 203 | I want to be healthier is too vague. | 我想健康是太模糊了。 |
| 204 | A better goal is, I will walk for 30 minutes three times | 更好的进球是,我会走30分钟三次 |
| 205 | a week for the next month. | 下个月一周 |
| 206 | That is specific, measurable, and realistic. | 这是具体、可衡量和现实的。 |
| 207 | Also, the goal needs | 此外,目标需要 |
| 208 | to be your goal, not your parent's goal, not your teacher's goal, not what society says you should | 成为你的目标 而不是你父母的目标 也不是你老师的目标 |
| 209 | want. | 想要吗? |
| 210 | Goals that come from your own values and desires create much stronger motivation. | 来自于你们自己的价值观和愿望的目标,创造了更强大的动力。 |
| 211 | Mark, | 马克 |
| 212 | how do you set your goals? | 你怎么确定目标? |
| 213 | I use a simple system that I learned a few years ago. | 我使用几年前学到的简单系统。 |
| 214 | I set goals in | 我设定了目标 |
| 215 | three timeframes. | 三个时限。 |
| 216 | First, I have a big long-term goal, something I want in the next one to three | 首先,我有一个长远的目标, 在接下来的一到三我想要的东西 |
| 217 | years. | 岁月 |
| 218 | For example, improving my professional skills or building a healthy lifestyle. | 例如,提高我的专业技能或建立健康的生活方式。 |
| 219 | Second, | 第二,我们... |
| 220 | I break that big goal into smaller monthly goals. | 我打破了这个大目标 成为较小的月度目标。 |
| 221 | What can I do this month to move toward the big | 这个月我该做什么才能走向大局 |
| 222 | goal? | 目标? |
| 223 | Third, I break the monthly goal into weekly actions. | 第三,我打破了每月的目标 成为每周的行动。 |
| 224 | What will I do this week, specifically? | 我这周要做什么? |
| 225 | This system makes big, scary goals feel manageable. | 这个系统使大而可怕的目标感觉可以管理. |
| 226 | Instead of thinking, I want to | 而不是思考,我想 |
| 227 | write a book someday, which feels impossible, I think, I will write 200 words today. | 总有一天会写一本书, 我觉得这是不可能的, 我想,我今天会写200个字。 |
| 228 | 200 words | 200个字 |
| 229 | a day becomes a book over time. | 一天就变成一本书 |
| 230 | Small steps, big results. | 小步,大结果. |
| 231 | Do you write down your goals, Anna? | 你记下你的目标了吗,安娜? |
| 232 | Yes. | 对 |
| 233 | Writing goals down is very important to me. | 写下目标对我很重要。 |
| 234 | There's a well-known idea that people who write | 有个众所周知的想法是: |
| 235 | their goals are much more likely to achieve them. | 它们的目标更有可能实现这些目标。 |
| 236 | When you write a goal, it becomes more real and | 当你写一个目标, 它变得更真实, |
| 237 | more serious. | 更严重。 |
| 238 | It moves from a vague wish in your head to a clear intention on paper. | 它从你头脑中的模糊愿望变成纸上明确的意向。 |
| 239 | I write my | 我写 |
| 240 | goals in my journal at the beginning of every month, and I review them every week. | 我每个月初都在日记里写着目标, 我每周都审查它们。 |
| 241 | Reviewing | 审查 |
| 242 | goals regularly is just as important as writing them. | 目标与写作同样重要。 |
| 243 | It keeps your attention focused. | 它让你的注意力集中。 |
| 244 | We are very | 我们是非常的 |
| 245 | easily distracted by social media, by other people's opinions, by daily problems. | 容易被社交媒体,他人观点,日常问题所分心. |
| 246 | Reviewing | 审查 |
| 247 | your goals brings you back to what matters to you. | 你的目标让你回到对你很重要的方面 |
| 248 | I also write why next to each goal. | 我还写了为什么每个目标旁边。 |
| 249 | Why do I want | 为什么我要 |
| 250 | this? | 这个? |
| 251 | The why is very powerful. | 原因非常强大。 |
| 252 | It is the fuel for motivation. | 这是动机的燃料。 |
| 253 | Mark, let's talk about the why. | 马克,我们谈谈原因吧 |
| 254 | How | 怎么样 |
| 255 | important is knowing your why? | 重要的是知道你为什么? |
| 256 | Knowing your why is perhaps the most important thing in | 知道你为什么 也许是最重要的事 |
| 257 | self-motivation. | 自我激励 |
| 258 | The why is your reason for doing something. | 为什么要做点什么? |
| 259 | And the deeper and more personal the | 越深越个人 |
| 260 | reason, the more powerful the motivation. | 理由 动机越强大 |
| 261 | For example, someone might say their goal is to | 例如,有人可能会说他们的目标是 |
| 262 | exercise. | 运动。 |
| 263 | Their why could be to lose weight, to feel more energetic, to be healthy for their | 他们为什么要减肥, 感觉更有活力, 对自己的健康 |
| 264 | children, or to feel confident. | 孩子们,或感到自信。 |
| 265 | The last two reasons, being there for children, feeling | 后两个原因, 在那里的孩子,感觉 |
| 266 | confident, are emotionally strong. | 自信 情绪坚强 |
| 267 | They connect to core human needs. | 它们与人类的核心需求相关联。 |
| 268 | When things get hard, those | 当事情变得艰难,那些 |
| 269 | deep reasons keep you going. | 深层原因让你继续前进。 |
| 270 | A shallow why breaks under pressure. | 一个浅浅的原因,在压力下破裂。 |
| 271 | A deep why holds. | 一个深层原因 |
| 272 | I think it is | 我觉得是 |
| 273 | worth spending time asking yourself honestly, why do I really want this? | 值得花时间问你自己 诚实,我为什么真的想要这个? |
| 274 | What will it mean for my | 这对我意味着什么 |
| 275 | life? | 生活吗? |
| 276 | The answer reveals a lot. | 答案揭示了很多。 |
| 277 | Anna, what is a why that has driven you strongly? | 安娜,你为什么这么强烈? |
| 278 | One of my strongest | 我最强的一个 |
| 279 | whys was learning English seriously. | 为什么他学英语很认真。 |
| 280 | My surface reason was I want a better job. | 我的表面原因就是我想要一个更好的工作。 |
| 281 | But when I dug | 但当我挖掘 |
| 282 | deeper, the real reason was I want to communicate with people from all over the world. | 更深入,真正的原因是 我想与来自世界各地的人沟通。 |
| 283 | I want to | и稱 |
| 284 | read books in their original language. | 以原文阅读书籍。 |
| 285 | I want to travel freely and not feel lost. | 我想自由旅行,不要感到迷失 |
| 286 | I want to feel | 我想感觉 |
| 287 | confident and capable. | 自信和有能力。 |
| 288 | Those deeper reasons were very emotional for me. | 这些更深层的原因对我来说非常激动 |
| 289 | They connected to my | 他们联系到我 |
| 290 | identity and my dreams. | 身份和我的梦想 |
| 291 | On days when studying English was boring or hard, I remembered those | 在学习英语很无聊或困难的日子里,我记得那些 |
| 292 | reasons and kept going. | 继续前进 |
| 293 | Now I'm here, hosting an English podcast. | 现在我在这里,主持一个英国播客。 |
| 294 | The why really works. | 真正起作用的原因 |
| 295 | I also think | 我也觉得 |
| 296 | it helps to picture yourself after you achieve the goal. | 它帮助想象自己 在你达成目标之后。 |
| 297 | How will you feel? | 你会有什么感觉? |
| 298 | What will your life look | 你的生活会是什么样子 |
| 299 | like? | 喜欢? |
| 300 | That visualization is a great motivator. | 这种视觉化是一个伟大的驱动器。 |
| 301 | Do you use visualization, Mark? | 你使用视觉,马克? |
| 302 | Yes. | 对 |
| 303 | Visualization is | 可视化是 |
| 304 | a technique used by many athletes, performers, and successful people. | 许多运动员、表演者和成功者使用的一种技术。 |
| 305 | You close your eyes and imagine | 你闭上眼睛想象 |
| 306 | yourself achieving your goal in detail. | 你自己详细实现了你的目标。 |
| 307 | What do you see? | 你看见什么了? |
| 308 | What do you hear? | 你听见什么了? |
| 309 | How do you feel? | 你感觉怎么样? |
| 310 | The more | 越来越多 |
| 311 | vivid and detailed the image, the better. | 生动细致的画面,越好. |
| 312 | Your brain responds to a strong mental image in a way | 你的大脑以某种方式回应了强烈的精神形象 |
| 313 | that is similar to actually experiencing it. | 这类似于实际经历。 |
| 314 | It builds confidence and desire. | 它建立信任和愿望。 |
| 315 | I use visualization | 我用视觉 |
| 316 | when I have a big presentation or a new challenge. | 当我有一个大 介绍或新的挑战。 |
| 317 | I close my eyes and picture myself doing it | 我闭上眼睛,想象自己这样做 |
| 318 | confidently and well. | 自信而精进. |
| 319 | It reduces my fear and increases my motivation. | 这会减少我的恐惧,增加我的动机. |
| 320 | But I also think | 但我也觉得 |
| 321 | visualization should be paired with planning and action. | 视觉应配合规划和行动。 |
| 322 | Just imagining a goal without working | 只是幻想一个目标不起作用 |
| 323 | toward it is just daydreaming. | 它只是白日梦。 |
| 324 | You need both the dream and the plan. | 你需要梦想和计划 |
| 325 | Let's talk about planning now, | 我们现在谈谈计划 |
| 326 | Anna. | 安娜,请问安娜 |
| 327 | How does a plan help motivation? | 计划如何帮助激励? |
| 328 | A plan is like a map for your motivation. | 一个计划就像一张地图来激励你 |
| 329 | Without a plan, | 没有计划 |
| 330 | you have a goal, but you don't know how to get there. | 你有一个目标, 但你不知道如何到达那里。 |
| 331 | That uncertainty is very discouraging. | 这种不确定性令人非常沮丧。 |
| 332 | You feel overwhelmed and don't know where to start. | 你感到不堪重负 不知从何说起 |
| 333 | A clear, simple plan removes that confusion. | 一个明确、简单的计划可以消除这种混乱。 |
| 334 | It says, do this today, do this tomorrow, do this next week. | 它说,今天做,明天做,下周做。 |
| 335 | You follow the steps and slowly, | 你跟着台阶慢慢走 |
| 336 | you move forward. | 前进 |
| 337 | I keep my plans very simple. | 我的计划很简单 |
| 338 | I don't write complicated systems. | 我不写复杂的系统。 |
| 339 | I just write | 我只是写 |
| 340 | three things I will do today that move me toward my goal. | 今天我将做三件事 推动我走向我的目标。 |
| 341 | Just three things. | 仅三事. |
| 342 | That is | 这是 |
| 343 | manageable and not overwhelming. | 可控的,而不是压倒性的。 |
| 344 | I also plan for obstacles. | 我也计划设置障碍 |
| 345 | I ask myself, what might stop me today? | 我问自己 今天有什么能阻止我? |
| 346 | And what will I do if that happens? | 如果发生这种事我该怎么办? |
| 347 | This kind of planning makes me feel prepared and confident. | 这种计划让我感到准备和自信. |
| 348 | Mark, what do you do when your plan doesn't work? | 马克,你做什么 当你的计划不起作用? |
| 349 | When my plan doesn't work, I try not to treat it | 当我的计划失败了,我尽量不治疗 |
| 350 | as a failure. | 作为失败。 |
| 351 | I treat it as information. | 我把它当作信息 |
| 352 | Something didn't work, okay, why? | 有些事没成功,为什么? |
| 353 | Was the plan too ambitious? | 计划是不是太雄心勃勃了? |
| 354 | Was the timing wrong? | 时机不对吗? |
| 355 | Was I missing a skill or resource? | 我缺少技能或资源吗? |
| 356 | I ask those questions and I adjust. | 我问了那些问题,我做了调整。 |
| 357 | Flexibility is very important in self-motivation. | 灵活性在自动机中非常重要. |
| 358 | Many people have an all-or-nothing mindset. | 许多人有一种全能或无能的心态。 |
| 359 | If they miss one day of exercise, they say, I failed. | 如果他们错过一天的锻炼, 他们说,我失败了。 |
| 360 | I give up. | 我放弃了 |
| 361 | But that is not realistic. | 但这不现实。 |
| 362 | Life is messy. | 生活是混乱的。 |
| 363 | Plans change. | 计划改变。 |
| 364 | The key is not to be perfect. | 关键不是完美 |
| 365 | It is to be persistent. | 这将是持久的。 |
| 366 | Persist means you | 坚持就是说你 |
| 367 | keep going even after small failures. | 继续前进,即使小失败。 |
| 368 | I sometimes think of motivation like a bouncing ball. | 我有时会把动机想成弹球 |
| 369 | You will | 你会的 |
| 370 | drop it sometimes. | 有时候放下 |
| 371 | That is normal. | 这是正常的。 |
| 372 | The important thing is to pick it back up again. | 重要的事情是把它重新捡起来。 |
| 373 | How do you | 你好吗? |
| 374 | handle failure and setbacks, Anna? | 处理失败和挫折,安娜? |
| 375 | Handling failure is one of the most important skills | 处理失败是最重要的技能之一 |
| 376 | for self-motivation. | 为自动机. |
| 377 | When something goes wrong, my first step is to allow myself to feel disappointed, | 当事情出问题时,我的第一步是让自己感到失望, |
| 378 | but only for a short time. | 但时间很短 |
| 379 | I give myself one day to feel bad. | 我总有一天会感到难过 |
| 380 | Then I move on. | 然后我继续前进 |
| 381 | I think it is important | 我觉得很重要 |
| 382 | to allow negative feelings, but not to live in them forever. | 允许负面情绪,但不能永远生活在其中。 |
| 383 | After that short feeling time, | 在这短暂的感受时间之后 |
| 384 | I look at what happened objectively. | 我看着客观上发生了什么 |
| 385 | What went wrong? | 发生什么了? |
| 386 | What can I learn? | 我能学到什么? |
| 387 | What will I do differently? | 我该怎么办? |
| 388 | I write these things down. | 我把这些写下来。 |
| 389 | This turns a failure into a lesson. | 这把失败变成了教训。 |
| 390 | It keeps my self-respect and my | 这让我的自尊和我的 |
| 391 | forward momentum. | 前进动力。 |
| 392 | I also remind myself of past successes. | 我还提醒自己过去的成功。 |
| 393 | When I doubt myself after a failure, | 当我在失败后怀疑自己 |
| 394 | I look at my journal and read about times I succeeded. | 我看着我的日记,读了我成功的时代。 |
| 395 | That reminder gives me confidence | 那提醒让我有信心 |
| 396 | to try again. | 再次尝试。 |
| 397 | Let's talk about confidence and motivation. | 让我们谈谈信心和动机。 |
| 398 | Are they connected, Mark? | 他们有联系吗,马克? |
| 399 | Yes, confidence and motivation are deeply connected. | 是的,信心和动机密切相关。 |
| 400 | When you feel confident, you believe | 当你感到自信,你相信 |
| 401 | you can do something, so you try. | 你可以做一些事情, 所以你尝试。 |
| 402 | When you try and succeed, your confidence grows, | 当你尝试和成功, 你的信心增加, |
| 403 | and growing confidence increases your motivation. | 信心的增强会增加你的动机 |
| 404 | It's a positive cycle. | 阳气循环. |
| 405 | But the opposite is also | 但与此相反的是 |
| 406 | true. | 没错 |
| 407 | When you feel low confidence, you doubt yourself and avoid trying. | 当你感到信心低落时,你会怀疑自己并避免尝试. |
| 408 | When you avoid things, | 当你躲起来的时候 |
| 409 | you miss the chance to succeed, and that decreases your motivation further. | 你错过了成功的机会, 这进一步降低了你的动机。 |
| 410 | So how do you build confidence? | 那你是怎么建立信任的? |
| 411 | Mainly through small successes. | 主要通过小的成功。 |
| 412 | You set a small achievable goal. | 你设定了一个可以实现的小目标。 |
| 413 | You achieve it. | 你实现了它。 |
| 414 | You feel proud and capable. | 你感到骄傲和有能力。 |
| 415 | You set another small goal. | 你设定了另一个小目标。 |
| 416 | Over time, these small | 随着时间的推移,这些小 |
| 417 | wins build a strong foundation of confidence. | 胜利为信心奠定坚实的基础。 |
| 418 | I always say success builds success. | 我总是说,成功可以创造成功。 |
| 419 | One small | 一个小 |
| 420 | win is the seed of the next. | 胜利是下一个的种子。 |
| 421 | Anna, what gives you confidence when you feel low? | 安娜,你感觉低落时 怎么会有自信? |
| 422 | When I feel low in confidence, a few things help me. | 当信心低落时,有几件事对我有所帮助. |
| 423 | First, I remember my past wins. | 首先,我记得我过去的胜利。 |
| 424 | I have a | 我有一个 |
| 425 | small list I keep in my journal, moments when I did something I was proud of. | 我的日记里有一份小清单, 当我做了一些我骄傲的事的时候。 |
| 426 | Reading that list | 看那张名单 |
| 427 | reminds me that I am capable. | 让我想起我的能力 |
| 428 | Second, I do something I am already good at. | 第二,我做了一些我已经擅长的事情。 |
| 429 | If I feel | 如果我觉得 |
| 430 | insecure about a new challenge, I first do a task I know I can complete well. | 面对新的挑战,我首先做一个我知道可以完成的任务。 |
| 431 | That small success | 这小小的成功 |
| 432 | warms up my confidence, like stretching before exercise. | 唤起我的信心 就像锻炼前的伸展 |
| 433 | Third, I talk to someone who believes | 第三,我跟相信的人说话 |
| 434 | in me. | 对我来说。 |
| 435 | Sometimes we need a friend to remind us of our strengths. | 有时我们需要一个朋友来提醒我们的长处。 |
| 436 | We can be very blind to | 我们可以非常盲目 |
| 437 | our own abilities. | 我们自己的能力 |
| 438 | Having one or two people who genuinely support you is incredibly valuable for | 拥有一两个真正支持你的人 是非常有价值的 |
| 439 | motivation. | 动机。 |
| 440 | Mark, how does the people around us affect our self-motivation? | 马克,我们周围的人 如何影响我们的自我动力? |
| 441 | The people around | 周围的人 |
| 442 | us have a huge effect on our motivation, probably more than we realize. | 我们对我们的动机有巨大的影响, 可能比我们意识到的还要大。 |
| 443 | Research shows that we are | 研究表明,我们 |
| 444 | strongly influenced by the habits and attitudes of the people we spend the most time with. | 强烈地受到我们最常在一起的人的习惯和态度的影响。 |
| 445 | If you are surrounded by motivated, positive, ambitious people, their energy is contagious. | 如果你被积极、积极、雄心勃勃的人包围,他们的能量就具有传染性。 |
| 446 | You naturally start to think and act like them. | 你自然地开始思考并表现得像他们一样. |
| 447 | But if you spend most of your time with people | 但是如果你把大部分时间都花在别人身上 |
| 448 | who complain, give up easily, or discourage new ideas, that energy is also contagious, | 他们抱怨,轻易放弃, 或劝阻新的想法, 能量也是传染性的, |
| 449 | in a negative direction. | 向负面方向前进。 |
| 450 | I'm not saying you should abandon friends who struggle, | 我不是说你应该抛弃那些挣扎的朋友 |
| 451 | but I do think you should be intentional about where you spend your energy and who you listen to. | 但我确实认为你应该故意 把你精力花在什么地方 以及你听谁的话 |
| 452 | Find people who inspire you. | 找到激励你的人 |
| 453 | Spend more time with them. | 花更多的时间和他们在一起。 |
| 454 | Their motivation will feed yours. | 他们的动机会满足你的 |
| 455 | Do you have people like that in your life, Anna? | 你有这样的人吗,安娜? |
| 456 | Yes, I have a few people who are very important | 对,我有几个重要人物 |
| 457 | for my motivation. | 为了我的动机。 |
| 458 | My best friend is a very hard-working and creative person. | 我最好的朋友是一个非常勤奋和富有创造力的人. |
| 459 | When I am | 当我是 |
| 460 | around her, I feel more energetic and ambitious. | 在她身边,我觉得 更充满活力和野心。 |
| 461 | She inspires me without even trying. | 她激励我,甚至没有尝试。 |
| 462 | I also follow | 我也跟着 |
| 463 | a few people online. | 几人在线. |
| 464 | Writers, coaches, creators, whose work and words inspire me. | 作家,导师,创作者,他们的作品和文字启发了我. |
| 465 | Reading their | 读他们 |
| 466 | stories or watching their videos helps me feel connected to a bigger world of motivated people. | 故事或观看他们的视频能帮助我感受到 与一个更大的充满积极性的人的世界的联系。 |
| 467 | I think community is very powerful for motivation. | 我认为社区对激励非常强大。 |
| 468 | Many people join groups or clubs, running groups, | 许多人加入团体或俱乐部, 管理团体, |
| 469 | study groups, online communities, where everyone shares the same goal. | 学习团体,网络社区,每个人都有相同的目标. |
| 470 | That shared energy is very | 共享的能量非常强 |
| 471 | motivating. | 动机 |
| 472 | You feel less alone in your efforts. | 你在努力中感到不那么孤独。 |
| 473 | And when others see your progress, it encourages | 当别人看到你的进步,它鼓励 |
| 474 | you to continue. | 你继续 |
| 475 | Have you ever joined a group to help with motivation, Mark? | 你加入过一个团体 帮助激励,马克? |
| 476 | Yes, a few years ago, | 对,几年前 |
| 477 | I joined a running group. | 我加入了一个运行组。 |
| 478 | I'm not a natural runner. | 我不是一个自然的跑者。 |
| 479 | I find it hard and I used to hate it. | 我发现它很难 我曾经讨厌它。 |
| 480 | But when I started running with a group every Saturday morning, everything changed. | 但当我开始与一个团体 每周六早上,一切都改变了。 |
| 481 | I did not | 我没有 |
| 482 | want to let the group down. | 想要让团体失望。 |
| 483 | I knew they would be there and I didn't want to be the person who didn't | 我知道他们会在那里, 我不想成为那个没有的人 |
| 484 | show up. | 出现. |
| 485 | That social commitment was very motivating. | 这种社会承诺非常激励人心。 |
| 486 | Over time, I also started to enjoy the conversations | 随着时间的推移,我也开始喜欢那些对话 |
| 487 | during the runs. | 运行期间。 |
| 488 | And the feeling of finishing a run with a group is wonderful. | 和一群人一起跑步的感觉真好 |
| 489 | You celebrate | 你庆祝一下 |
| 490 | together. | 一起来 |
| 491 | I went from hating running to looking forward to Saturdays. | 我从讨厌跑步到期待周六 |
| 492 | The group changed my | 集团改变了我 |
| 493 | motivation completely. | 动机完全。 |
| 494 | Commitment to others is a very powerful tool for motivation. | 对他人的承诺是激励他人的一个非常有力的工具。 |
| 495 | When you make | 当你做 |
| 496 | promise to yourself, it's easy to break. | 答应你,很容易破解 |
| 497 | When you make a promise to others, it's much harder. | 当你对别人许下诺言,那就难多了. |
| 498 | Anna, let's talk about habits and routines now. | 安娜,让我们谈谈习惯和常规。 |
| 499 | Yes, habits and routines are incredibly important | 是的,习惯和习惯都很重要 |
| 500 | for self-motivation. | 为自动机. |
| 501 | Here's the thing about motivation. | 动机是这样的 |
| 502 | It naturally goes up and down. | 自然上下行. |
| 503 | Some days, you feel very driven and energetic. | 某天,你感到非常驱动和精力充沛。 |
| 504 | Other days, you feel flat and unmotivated. | 其他的日子,你感觉平坦,没有动机。 |
| 505 | If your progress depends only on your feelings, you will be very inconsistent. | 如果你的进展只取决于你的感受, 你会非常不一致。 |
| 506 | But if your progress | 但如果你的进展 |
| 507 | depends on habits and routines, you keep moving forward even on low motivation days. | 取决于习惯和习惯, 你继续前进 即使低动力的日子。 |
| 508 | A habit is | 一个习惯是 |
| 509 | an automatic behavior. | 一个自动的行为。 |
| 510 | You do it without thinking too much. | 你这样做没有太多思考。 |
| 511 | You brush your teeth every morning, | 你每天早晨刷牙, |
| 512 | not because you feel motivated, but because it is a habit. | 不是因为你觉得有动机 而是因为那是习惯 |
| 513 | You can build the same kind of automatic | 你可以建造同样的自动 |
| 514 | behavior around your goals. | 行为围绕你的目标。 |
| 515 | If studying English every morning becomes a habit, you will do it | 如果每天早上学英语就成习惯了 |
| 516 | whether you feel motivated or not. | 无论你有没有动机 |
| 517 | Consistency beats motivation every single time. | 一贯性每次都能战胜动机. |
| 518 | Mark, | 马克 |
| 519 | how do you build good habits? | 如何建立良好的习惯? |
| 520 | Building good habits is a skill. | 建立良好的习惯是一种技能. |
| 521 | I follow a few simple principles. | 我遵循一些简单的原则。 |
| 522 | First, I make the habit very easy to start. | 首先,我让习惯很容易开始。 |
| 523 | If the habit is too hard at the beginning, | 如果一开始习惯太难 |
| 524 | I will avoid it. | 我会避免它。 |
| 525 | So I start with the smallest possible version. | 所以我从最小的版本开始。 |
| 526 | Want to read more? | 想读更多吗? |
| 527 | Start with | 开始 |
| 528 | one page a night. | 一页一夜。 |
| 529 | Want to exercise? | 想锻炼吗? |
| 530 | Start with five minutes. | 从五分钟开始 |
| 531 | Once the habit is established, | 一旦习惯成立 |
| 532 | I can gradually increase it. | 我可以逐渐增加它。 |
| 533 | Second, I link the new habit to an existing one, habit stacking. | 第二,我把新习惯和现有的习惯联系起来, 习惯堆叠。 |
| 534 | After I drink my morning coffee, I will do 10 minutes of English practice. | 喝完早上的咖啡,我会做十分钟的英语练习。 |
| 535 | The coffee is the | 咖啡就是那个 |
| 536 | for the new habit. | 新的习惯。 |
| 537 | Third, I track my habits. | 第三,我跟踪我的习惯。 |
| 538 | I use a simple calendar and put a mark on every | 我用一个简单的日历,在每一个 |
| 539 | day I do the habit. | 一天我做习惯。 |
| 540 | A streak of marks is very motivating. | 一连串的印记都非常刺激 |
| 541 | You don't want to break the chain. | 不欲断链. |
| 542 | These three simple steps have helped me build lasting habits. | 这三个简单的步骤帮助我建立了持久的习惯. |
| 543 | What is a habit you built that | 你所创造的习惯是什么? |
| 544 | changed your life, Anna? | 改变了你的生活,安娜? |
| 545 | The habit that changed my life most is daily reading. | 改变我一生的习惯是每日阅读 |
| 546 | I started reading | 我开始读书 |
| 547 | just 10 pages every night before bed. | 每天睡觉前只有10页 |
| 548 | It seemed like nothing at first, but 10 pages a night is | 一开始看起来没什么 但每晚有10页 |
| 549 | about 300 pages a month. | 每月约300页。 |
| 550 | That is one or two books a month. | 一个月一两本书 |
| 551 | Over one year, I read more than 15 books. | 一年多,我读了15多本书. |
| 552 | Those books changed how I think, how I communicate, and how I see the world. | 这些书改变了我的想法、沟通方式和对世界的看法。 |
| 553 | I learned so many new | 我学了很多新东西 |
| 554 | about psychology, about habits, about history, about creativity. | 心理学 习惯 历史 创造力 |
| 555 | I became a better thinker | 我成了一个更好的思想家 |
| 556 | and a better English speaker, all from 10 pages a night. | 一个更好的英语演讲者, 全部从晚上10页。 |
| 557 | I never would have believed that at the | 我绝对不会相信 |
| 558 | start. | 开始 |
| 559 | This is a great example of how a tiny, consistent habit creates enormous change over | 这是一个很好的例子 说明一个小的,持续的习惯 如何产生巨大的变化 |
| 560 | time. | 时间。 |
| 561 | The power of small and consistent actions is amazing. | 小而一贯行动的力量是惊人的。 |
| 562 | Let's talk about procrastination now, | 让我们谈谈拖延,现在, |
| 563 | Mark. | 马克 |
| 564 | Why do people procrastinate? | 为什么人们会拖延? |
| 565 | Procrastination is one of the biggest enemies | 拖延是最大的敌人之一 |
| 566 | of self-motivation. | 自动机。 |
| 567 | It means you delay doing something even when you know you should do it. | 这意味着你推迟做一些事情 即使你知道你应该这样做。 |
| 568 | You say, I'll do it later, and later never comes. | 你说,我会做以后, 以后永远不会来。 |
| 569 | Why do people procrastinate? | 为什么人们会拖延? |
| 570 | It's usually because | 这通常是因为 |
| 571 | of one of these reasons. | 这些原因之一。 |
| 572 | First, the task feels too big or overwhelming. | 首先,任务太大或过于艰巨。 |
| 573 | Second, there's a fear of | 第二,有人担心 |
| 574 | start, you can't fail. | 开始,你不能失败。 |
| 575 | Third, there's a fear of imperfection. | 三是恐有不完善. |
| 576 | You want to do it perfectly, | 你想完美地做到这一点, |
| 577 | so you wait for the perfect moment that never arrives. | 所以,你等待 完美的时刻,从来没有到来。 |
| 578 | Fourth, the task is boring or unpleasant. | 第四,任务很无聊或不愉快。 |
| 579 | Understanding why you are procrastinating is the first step to stopping it. | 理解你为什么拖延是阻止它的第一步。 |
| 580 | Each reason needs a | 每个原因都需要一个 |
| 581 | different solution. | 不同的解决方案。 |
| 582 | For the too big reason, break the task into tiny pieces. | 由于太大的原因,把任务拆成小块. |
| 583 | For the fear of failure | 怕失败 |
| 584 | remind yourself that done is better than perfect. | 提醒自己 做得比完美更好 |
| 585 | Anna, what is your best tip for fighting | 安娜,什么是你最好的 小费战斗 |
| 586 | procrastination? | 拖延吗? |
| 587 | My best tip for fighting procrastination is the five-minute commitment. | 我与拖延作斗争的最佳提示是五分钟的承诺。 |
| 588 | When I don't want to start something, I tell myself, just do it for five minutes. | 当我不想开始的时候,我告诉自己,只要做五分钟。 |
| 589 | After five | 五点之后 |
| 590 | minutes, you can stop if you want. | 几分钟,你可以停止,如果你想。 |
| 591 | Almost always after five minutes, I am already working and I | 几乎总是在五分钟后, 我已经在工作了,我 |
| 592 | keep going. | 继续 |
| 593 | The starting was the barrier, not the task itself. | 起点是障碍,而不是任务本身。 |
| 594 | Another tip I love is removing | 我最喜欢的又一个小费是去掉 |
| 595 | distractions before I start. | 在我开始之前会分心 |
| 596 | I put my phone in another room. | 我把我的手机放在另一个房间。 |
| 597 | I close unnecessary browser tabs. | 我关闭不必要的浏览器标签。 |
| 598 | I make myself a cup of tea. | 我给自己泡杯茶 |
| 599 | Then I sit down with everything ready and nothing to distract me. | 然后,我坐下来与一切准备 和没有什么让我分心。 |
| 600 | A clear environment helps a clear mind. | 清晰的环境有助于清晰的思维。 |
| 601 | I also use a timer. | 我也用计时器 |
| 602 | I work for 25 minutes with full focus, | 我全神贯注地工作了25分钟 |
| 603 | then take a five-minute break. | 然后休息五分钟 |
| 604 | This is called the Pomodoro Technique. | 这叫波莫多罗科技 |
| 605 | It makes long tasks feel very | 这让漫长的任务感觉非常 |
| 606 | manageable. | 可控。 |
| 607 | Have you tried the Pomodoro Technique, Mark? | 你试过波莫多罗技术吗,马克? |
| 608 | 是的,Pomodoro技术是很好的。 | |
| 609 | Working for 25 minutes with full focus, then resting for five minutes, then repeating, it keeps | 工作25分钟 全焦,然后休息5分钟 然后重复,它保持 |
| 610 | your brain fresh and makes deep work very achievable. | 你的大脑新鲜, 使深层工作非常可以实现。 |
| 611 | I use it for writing, studying, | 我用它来写作 学习 |
| 612 | and complex tasks. | 和复杂的任务。 |
| 613 | But even simpler than Pomodoro is just removing your phone from the room. | 但比波莫多罗更简单的是 把手机从房间里移走 |
| 614 | I think the smartphone is the number one killer of self-motivation in the modern world. | 我认为智能手机是现代世界自动机第一杀手. |
| 615 | Every notification is a little interruption. | 每次通知都有点中断 |
| 616 | Every scroll through social media is five or | 每个滚动通过社交媒体是五或 |
| 617 | ten minutes of your goal time gone. | 你10分钟的进球时间走了。 |
| 618 | I started leaving my phone in another room when I work or | 我上班时把手机放在别的房间 |
| 619 | study and my productivity increased enormously. | 学习和我的生产力大大提高。 |
| 620 | We are not strong as our habits. | 我们不像我们的习惯那么强壮。 |
| 621 | Our environment | 我们的环境 |
| 622 | often controls us. | 经常控制我们。 |
| 623 | So design your environment to support your goals, not to distract from them. | 所以设计你的环境来支持你的目标,而不是分散他们的注意力。 |
| 624 | Anna, let's talk about energy and self-motivation. | 安娜,让我们谈谈能量和自动机 |
| 625 | Are they connected? | 他们有联系吗? |
| 626 | Absolutely. | 当然 |
| 627 | Energy and motivation are very closely connected. | 能量和动力是紧密相连的. |
| 628 | When your energy is low, | 当你的能量很低, |
| 629 | even small tasks feel impossible. | 甚至小任务都觉得不可能 |
| 630 | When your energy is high, you feel motivated to do many things. | 当你精力旺盛的时候,你会觉得有动机做很多事情. |
| 631 | So taking care of your physical energy is a form of self-motivation. | 所以照顾身体能量是一种自我激励的形式. |
| 632 | This means sleeping enough, | 意思是睡够了 |
| 633 | eating nutritious food, moving your body regularly, and taking real breaks. | 吃有营养的食物 经常移动身体 休息 |
| 634 | I noticed that my most | 我发现我最 |
| 635 | motivated periods always coincide with the times I sleep well and exercise regularly. | 有动机的时期总是与我睡觉和经常锻炼的时间相吻合。 |
| 636 | My lowest | 我最贱的 |
| 637 | motivation periods are always when I am tired, eating poorly, or sitting too much. | 动机期总是当我累了,吃得不好,或者坐得太多。 |
| 638 | Many people | 许多人 |
| 639 | try to push through low energy with willpower or caffeine, but that only works for a short time. | 尝试用意志力或咖啡因推动低能量,但这只是短期的工作. |
| 640 | The sustainable solution is to manage your energy levels through good physical habits. | 可持续的解决方案是通过良好的物理习惯来管理你的能量水平. |
| 641 | Motivation follows energy. | 动力跟随能量. |
| 642 | Mark, when during the day are you most motivated? | 马克,白天你什么时候最有动机? |
| 643 | I am definitely a morning person. | 我绝对是一个早晨的人。 |
| 644 | I feel most sharp, creative, and motivated in the first two | 我觉得最尖锐,最有创造力,最有动力的前两个 |
| 645 | to three hours after I wake up. | 3小时后我醒来。 |
| 646 | That's when I do my most important and creative work. | 那时我做了我最重要和最有创意的工作. |
| 647 | I protect | 我保护 |
| 648 | those morning hours very carefully. | 那些早晨非常谨慎。 |
| 649 | I do not check social media or emails until I've finished my | 直到我完成我的社交媒体或电子邮件 |
| 650 | important task of the day. | 今天的重要任务 |
| 651 | After lunch, my energy naturally drops a little. | 午饭后,我的能量自然会下降一点. |
| 652 | I use that lower energy | 我用的是更低的能量 |
| 653 | time for smaller, routine tasks, answering messages, organizing, reading. | 时间用于较小的例行任务,回答消息,组织,阅读. |
| 654 | In the late afternoon, | 下午很晚的时候 |
| 655 | my energy often comes back a little, but not as strongly as the morning. | 我的能量常常会回来一点, 但不像早上那么强烈。 |
| 656 | Understanding your own | 了解你自己 了解你自己 |
| 657 | energy patterns is very useful for self-motivation. | 能量模式对自我激励非常有用。 |
| 658 | Schedule your hardest, most important tasks for | 安排你最艰难最重要的任务 |
| 659 | your highest energy time. | 你的最高能量时间。 |
| 660 | Don't waste your peak hours on easy tasks. | 别把高峰时间浪费在容易的任务上 |
| 661 | Do you know your own energy | 你知道自己的能量吗? |
| 662 | patterns, Anna? | 规律,安娜? |
| 663 | Yes, I am also more productive in the mornings. | 是的,我早上也比较有成果。 |
| 664 | My mind feels clearest before noon. | 中午前我感觉最清楚 |
| 665 | I use that time for writing, learning, or anything that requires real concentration. | 我用那个时间来写作,学习,或者任何需要真正集中精神的东西. |
| 666 | In the | 在那个 |
| 667 | afternoons, I feel slower, so I use that time for lighter work, organizing, responding to messages, | 午后,我感觉慢了,所以我利用那时间 做更轻松的工作,组织起来,回应信息, |
| 668 | doing simple tasks. | 执行简单的任务。 |
| 669 | I also discovered that short afternoon walks boost my energy significantly. | 我发现下午的散步能大大提升我的能量 |
| 670 | Even a 10-minute walk outside around 3 o'clock gives me a second wave of motivation and energy | 三点左右出去走10分钟 就能给我第二次动力和精力 |
| 671 | for the rest of the day. | 今余时. |
| 672 | I think people underestimate the power of movement as an energy | 我认为人们低估了运动的力量 作为一种能量 |
| 673 | booster. | 助动器. |
| 674 | When you feel unmotivated and sluggish, the best thing to do is often the thing you least | 当你感到无动力和迟钝时, 最好的事情是 你最不爱做的事 |
| 675 | want to do, get up and move. | 想做,起来,走。 |
| 676 | It almost always helps. | 它几乎总是帮助。 |
| 677 | Mark, let's talk about self-talk. | 马克,我们谈谈自言自语 |
| 678 | How does | 怎么样 |
| 679 | the way we talk to ourselves affect motivation? | 我们对自己说话的方式会影响动机吗? |
| 680 | Self-talk has an enormous effect on motivation. | 自言自语对动机有巨大影响. |
| 681 | The words we say to ourselves in our heads are like a constant background voice, | 我们脑中对自己说的话 就像一个不断的背景声音 |
| 682 | and that voice is either encouraging or discouraging. | 而这种声音要么是鼓励性的,要么是令人沮丧的。 |
| 683 | Many people have a very harsh | 很多人都很严厉 |
| 684 | inner critic. | 内部评论家. |
| 685 | They say things to themselves like, you're so lazy, you always fail, or you will never | 他们自言自语 你这么懒 你总是失败 否则你永远不会 |
| 686 | be good enough. | 足够好。 |
| 687 | That kind of self-talk destroys motivation. | 这种自言自语会破坏动机 |
| 688 | If a friend talked to you like that, | 如果一个朋友那样跟你说话 |
| 689 | you would stop spending time with them, but we say these things to ourselves all day. | 你会停止花时间和他们在一起 但我们整天都对自己说这些 |
| 690 | The good news is that you can change your self-talk. | 好消息是你可以改变自我对话 |
| 691 | It takes practice, but it is possible. | 这需要练习,但有可能。 |
| 692 | Notice when the negative voice appears. | 注意阴性声音出现时 |
| 693 | Challenge it. | 挑战它。 |
| 694 | Replace it with something | 换成什么 |
| 695 | realistic. | 现实主义 |
| 696 | Instead of, I can't do this, try, this is hard, but I can try one step at a time. | 而不是,我不能做到这一点,尝试,这是很难的, 但我可以尝试一步一步。 |
| 697 | That small shift changes your whole emotional state. | 那小班改变了你的情绪状态 |
| 698 | Anna, how do you practice positive self-talk? | 安娜,你如何练习积极的自我对话? |
| 699 | I practice positive self-talk in several ways. | 我从几个方面练习积极的自我对话。 |
| 700 | First, I pay attention to my thoughts when I | 首先,我关注我的想法 当我 |
| 701 | face a challenge. | 面对挑战。 |
| 702 | If I hear a negative thought, I name it. | 如果我听到一个负面的想法,我把它命名。 |
| 703 | I say, oh, there's the inner critic again. | 我说,哦,又有内在的批评家。 |
| 704 | Naming it gives me distance from it. | 命名它让我远离它。 |
| 705 | It reminds me that the thought is not the truth. | 它提醒我,思想不是事实。 |
| 706 | It is just a | 这只是一个 |
| 707 | habit. | 习惯 |
| 708 | Second, I have a few go-to phrases I use when I need encouragement. | 第二,我有一些我需要鼓励时使用的措辞。 |
| 709 | For example, one step | 例如,一步 |
| 710 | at a time. | 一次来 |
| 711 | Progress is more important than perfection. | 进步比完美更重要。 |
| 712 | I have done hard things before. | 我以前做过很辛苦的事 |
| 713 | These phrases are short and simple, but they shift my mindset quickly. | 这些短语简洁简洁,但迅速改变了我的心态. |
| 714 | Third, I sometimes | 第三,我有时候 |
| 715 | speak to myself in the third person. | 在第三人称中跟我说话 |
| 716 | Instead of, I can't do this, I say, Anna, you can do this. | 而不是,我不能做到这一点, 我说,安娜,你可以做到这一点。 |
| 717 | Research shows this technique, talking to yourself by name, creates useful emotional | 研究显示这种技术,用自己的名字说话,创造了有用的情感 |
| 718 | distance and increases self-control and motivation. | 距离和增强自我控制和动力。 |
| 719 | Do you ever use encouraging phrases, Mark? | 你用过鼓励语吗,马克? |
| 720 | Yes. | 对 |
| 721 | I have a few personal mantras. | 我有一些个人的漫画。 |
| 722 | Short phrases I repeat to myself when I need strength. | 当我需要力量时 我会重复短句 |
| 723 | One of mine is, start before you're ready. | 我的其中一个是,在你准备好之前开始。 |
| 724 | It reminds me not to wait for the perfect conditions. | 它提醒我不要等待 完美的条件。 |
| 725 | Another one is, discipline is freedom. | 另一个是,纪律是自由。 |
| 726 | At first, this sounds strange. | 一开始,这听起来很奇怪。 |
| 727 | How can discipline be | 纪律如何 |
| 728 | freedom? | 自由吗? |
| 729 | But I have found it to be very true. | 但我发现这是非常真实的。 |
| 730 | When I am disciplined about my goals and habits, | 当我遵守我的目标和习惯时 |
| 731 | I actually feel freer. | 其实我觉得更自由。 |
| 732 | I have more energy, more time, and more confidence. | 我有更多的精力,更多的时间和信心。 |
| 733 | Discipline creates the | 纪律创建 |
| 734 | 我想这么做 I want. | |
| 735 | Without discipline, I drift and feel lost. | 没有纪律,我漂泊 并感到迷失。 |
| 736 | Another phrase I love is, compare yourself | 我最喜欢的另一句话是 比较一下你自己 |
| 737 | to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today. | 昨天你是谁 而不是今天别人是谁 |
| 738 | Comparing yourself to others is | 把自己和别人比起来 |
| 739 | very damaging to motivation. | 对动机非常有害 |
| 740 | The only competition that matters is with your past self. | 唯一重要的竞争就是你的过去 |
| 741 | Are you better | 你怎么样? |
| 742 | today than yesterday? | 今天比昨天还好吗? |
| 743 | That is what counts. | 这是最重要的。 |
| 744 | Anna, what is your personal mantra? | 安娜,你的个人口号是什么? |
| 745 | My personal mantra is, done is better than perfect. | 我个人的口号是 做得比完美更好 |
| 746 | I need to remind myself of this often, because I have perfectionist tendencies. | 我要经常提醒自己 因为我有完美主义倾向 |
| 747 | I sometimes delay finishing things because they are not quite right. | 我有时会推迟完成 因为它们不太对劲 |
| 748 | But perfectionism, | 但完美主义, |
| 749 | as we discussed before, is a motivation killer. | 正如我们之前讨论过的, 是一个动机杀手。 |
| 750 | It keeps you stuck. | 它让你卡住了。 |
| 751 | Done is better than perfect | 完成比完美还好 |
| 752 | reminds me that completing something imperfect is a thousand times more valuable than an | 提醒我,完成一些不完美的事情 比一个 |
| 753 | masterpiece that exists in my imagination. | 我想象中的杰作 |
| 754 | I also love the phrase, every day is a new start. | 我也喜欢这句,每天都是一个新的开始。 |
| 755 | When I have a bad day or miss a habit, I remind myself that tomorrow is a fresh beginning. | 当我有一个糟糕的一天或错过一个习惯,我提醒自己,明天是一个新的开端。 |
| 756 | The past day is gone. | 过去日已去. |
| 757 | I can choose differently tomorrow. | 我可以选择不同的明天。 |
| 758 | That idea takes the pressure off and keeps me motivated to try again. | 这个想法消除了压力 让我重新尝试 |
| 759 | Before we say goodbye today, I want to leave our listeners with a few final thoughts. | 在我们今天告别之前,我想给我们的听众留下一些最后的想法。 |
| 760 | Self-motivation is not about being perfect. | 自性非是圆满. |
| 761 | It is not about feeling excited every single day. | 这不是每天感到兴奋。 |
| 762 | It's about building habits, knowing your why, taking small steps and being kind to yourself | 这是关于建立习惯, 知道你的原因, 采取小步和善待自己 |
| 763 | when things are hard. | 当事情变得艰难。 |
| 764 | Every person listening today has goals and dreams inside them. | 每个人今天聆听 都有目标和梦想 |
| 765 | The question is not whether those goals are possible. | 问题不在于这些目标是否可能实现。 |
| 766 | They probably are. | 也许吧 |
| 767 | The question is, | 问题是, |
| 768 | will you take the first small step today? | 你今天会迈出第一步吗? |
| 769 | Not tomorrow, not next Monday, today. | 不是明天,不是下周一,今天。 |
| 770 | One step, | 一步来 |
| 771 | no matter how small. | 无论多么小。 |
| 772 | That step is the beginning of everything. | 这个步骤是一切的开始。 |
| 773 | I believe in every person listening. | 我相信每个人都在听 |
| 774 | You have what it takes. | 你有它所需要的。 |
| 775 | And remember, motivation follows action. | 记住,动机是行动 |
| 776 | So go take that first step. | 所以,去迈出第一步。 |
| 777 | Thank you so much for listening. | 谢谢你的聆听 |
| 778 | And thank you, Anna, for this wonderful conversation today. | 谢谢你 安娜 今天的精彩谈话 |
| 779 | Thank you, Mark. | 谢谢你,马克。 |
| 780 | This was such an energizing and inspiring conversation. | 这是一个充满活力和鼓舞人心的对话。 |
| 781 | And a huge thank you to all of you who listened today. | 非常感谢你们今天的所有听众。 |
| 782 | I hope this episode gave you something | 我希望这集能给你一些东西 |
| 783 | useful. | 实用。 |
| 784 | A new idea, a tip, a phrase, or just the reminder that you are capable of more than you | 一个新想法,一个提示,一个短语, 或只是提醒你 你的能力比你更多 |
| 785 | think. | 以为. |
| 786 | Self-motivation is a skill. | 自性为技. |
| 787 | And like any skill, it grows with practice and patience. | 像任何技能一样,它会随着练习和耐心而增长。 |
| 788 | Be patient with yourself. | 耐心点 |
| 789 | Celebrate your small wins. | 庆祝你的小胜利 |
| 790 | Find your why. | 找出你为什么。 |
| 791 | Build tiny habits. | 建立微小的习惯. |
| 792 | Surround | 周边 |
| 793 | yourself with people who inspire you. | 和那些激励你的人在一起 |
| 794 | And please, be kind to your inner voice. | 请对你的内心声音好点 |
| 795 | You are your own most | 你是你自己最厉害的 |
| 796 | important coach. | 重要的教练 |
| 797 | If this podcast helped you even a little, please share it with a friend who might | 如果播客能帮助你一点 请和朋友分享 |
| 798 | need some motivation today. | 今天需要一些动力 |
| 799 | Come back next time for more friendly English conversations. | 下次再来聊聊更友好的英语对话 |
| 800 | Until then, | 在这之前 |
| 801 | keep going. | 继续 |
| 802 | You've got this. | 你得到了这个。 |
| 803 | Goodbye from me, Anna. | 再见,安娜 |
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P2 · 【🎧每日 30 分钟英语播客】如何保持每日的内驱力|How to Stay Self-Motivated Every Day|沉浸式学习 p02 英文 (P2)

【🎧每日 30 分钟英语播客】如何保持每日的内驱力|How to Stay Self-Motivated Every Day|沉浸式学习 p02 英文 (P2)
发布于 2026-10-19 · 时长 34:42字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | Hello, everyone, and welcome to our podcast. | 大家好 欢迎收看我们的播客 |
| 0:03 | My name is Anna, and I am so happy you are | 我叫安娜,我很高兴你 |
| 0:06 | here with us today. | 今天和我们在一起 |
| 0:07 | Today, we have a very exciting and important topic. | 今天,我们有一个非常令人兴奋和重要的议题。 |
| 0:12 | We are going | 我们要走了 |
| 0:12 | to talk about self-motivation. | 谈论自我激励。 |
| 0:15 | Self-motivation means the ability to push yourself forward, | 自我激励意味着有能力推进自己, |
| 0:19 | to do things, reach your goals, and keep going, even when it is hard. | 做事情,达到你的目标, 并继续前进, 即使它很难。 |
| 0:24 | This topic is important | 这个问题很重要 |
| 0:26 | for everyone—students, workers, parents, dreamers. | 对每个人来说——学生、工人、父母、梦想家。 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Hello, everyone, and welcome to our podcast. | 大家好 欢迎收看我们的播客 |
| 2 | My name is Anna, and I am so happy you are | 我叫安娜,我很高兴你 |
| 3 | here with us today. | 今天和我们在一起 |
| 4 | Today, we have a very exciting and important topic. | 今天,我们有一个非常令人兴奋和重要的议题。 |
| 5 | We are going | 我们要走了 |
| 6 | to talk about self-motivation. | 谈论自我激励。 |
| 7 | Self-motivation means the ability to push yourself forward, | 自我激励意味着有能力推进自己, |
| 8 | to do things, reach your goals, and keep going, even when it is hard. | 做事情,达到你的目标, 并继续前进, 即使它很难。 |
| 9 | This topic is important | 这个问题很重要 |
| 10 | for everyone—students, workers, parents, dreamers. | 对每个人来说——学生、工人、父母、梦想家。 |
| 11 | Everyone needs motivation in life. | 每个人都需要生活中的动力 |
| 12 | I am joined today by my wonderful co-host, Mark. | 我今天和我的好搭档马克在一起 |
| 13 | We will talk about what motivation is, | 我们来谈谈动机是什么 |
| 14 | why we lose it, and how to find it again. | 为什么我们失去它, 以及如何再次找到它。 |
| 15 | We use simple English, so this podcast is | 我们使用简单的英语,所以这个播客是 |
| 16 | perfect for beginners. | 适合初学者 |
| 17 | Hi, Mark, how are you feeling today? | 嗨,马克,你今天感觉怎么样? |
| 18 | And are you ready to talk about | 你准备好谈论 |
| 19 | self-motivation? | 自我激励? |
| 20 | Hi, Anna. | 嗨,安娜,你好吗? |
| 21 | I am feeling great and very motivated today, which is perfect for our topic. | 我今天感到棒极了,非常有动力,这非常适合我们的主题。 |
| 22 | Hello | 哈罗 |
| 23 | to all our wonderful listeners. | 我们所有的听众。 |
| 24 | Self-motivation is one of my favorite subjects. | 自动机是我最喜欢的学科之一. |
| 25 | I think about | 我想着 |
| 26 | it a lot, because honestly, staying motivated is something I have personally struggled with | 有很多,因为说实话, 保持积极性是我个人奋斗过的事情 |
| 27 | over the years. | 多年来 |
| 28 | I have had periods of very high energy and ambition, and other periods | 我曾经有过非常高的精力和雄心以及其他时期 |
| 29 | of feeling completely stuck. | 感觉完全卡住了。 |
| 30 | Learning about self-motivation helped me understand why that | 学习自我激励有助于我理解为什么 |
| 31 | and what to do about it. | 怎么办呢? |
| 32 | And the good news is, self-motivation is a skill. | 好消息是,自我激励是一种技能。 |
| 33 | You can learn | 你可以学的 |
| 34 | it and get better at it over time. | 随时间变好 |
| 35 | That is very encouraging. | 这非常令人鼓舞。 |
| 36 | So let's explore this topic | 我们来探讨一下这个话题 |
| 37 | together today. | 今天我们在一起 |
| 38 | Anna, let's start from the beginning. | 安娜,让我们从头开始。 |
| 39 | What exactly is self-motivation? | 什么是自我激励? |
| 40 | Great question. | 问得好 |
| 41 | Self-motivation is the inner drive that makes you want to do something | 自动机是内在的驱动力,让你想做点什么 |
| 42 | or achieve something without needing someone else to push you. | 或者做点什么 不需要别人推你 |
| 43 | When you are self-motivated, | 当你自动机, |
| 44 | you start things by yourself. | 你一个人开始的 |
| 45 | You keep going by yourself. | 你继续自己去。 |
| 46 | You don't wait for your boss, | 你不等着你的老板, |
| 47 | your teacher, or your parents to tell you what to do. | 你的老师,或者你的父母 告诉你该怎么做。 |
| 48 | You just do it because you want | 你这样做只是因为你想 |
| 49 | to. | 改为。 |
| 50 | There are two types of motivation. | 动机有两种. |
| 51 | The first is external motivation. | 第一是外部动机。 |
| 52 | This means you | 这表示你 |
| 53 | do something because of an outside reward, like money, praise, or grades. | 做一些事,因为外面的奖励,比如金钱,赞美,或者成绩. |
| 54 | The second | 第二个 |
| 55 | is internal motivation. | 是内部动机 |
| 56 | You do something because it makes you feel happy, proud or fulfilled | 你做一些事情,因为它让你觉得快乐,骄傲或满足 |
| 57 | inside. | 进去 |
| 58 | Self-motivation is mostly about internal motivation. | 自动机主要是内部动机. |
| 59 | Mark, what do you think is the | 马克,你认为什么是 |
| 60 | difference between the two types in everyday life? | 在日常生活中这两种类型的区别? |
| 61 | The difference is very important in everyday life. | 差别在日常生活中非常重要. |
| 62 | External motivation works well for a | 外部动机对一个 |
| 63 | short time. | 时间很短 |
| 64 | For example, if your boss gives you a bonus, you feel motivated for a while. | 例如,如果你的老板给你奖金,你会觉得有一段时间的积极性. |
| 65 | But when the bonus is gone, the motivation often disappears too. | 但当奖金没了,动机也经常消失. |
| 66 | Internal motivation | 内部动机 |
| 67 | lasts longer because it comes from inside you. | 因为它来自你体内,所以会持续更长的时间。 |
| 68 | For example, when I started learning | 例如,当我开始学习 |
| 69 | to cook, nobody asked me to do it, and nobody paid me. | 没有人要我做饭 没人付钱给我 |
| 70 | I did it because I found it fun and | 我这样做是因为我发现它很有趣, |
| 71 | creative. | 创意。 |
| 72 | That internal joy kept me going for months. | 那种内心的欢乐让我持续了好几个月 |
| 73 | I practiced every weekend. | 我每个周末都练习 |
| 74 | Now | 现在 |
| 75 | I cook very well. | 我煮得很不错 |
| 76 | External motivation can start things, but internal motivation sustains | 外部动机可以启动,但内部动机维持 |
| 77 | them. | 他们。 |
| 78 | So if you want to stay motivated over a long time, it helps to find something that | 所以,如果你想保持 动机长时间, 它有助于找到的东西 |
| 79 | you genuinely care about and enjoy. | 你真正关心和享受。 |
| 80 | Anna, do you think some people are naturally more motivated than others? | 安娜,你认为一些人 自然比其他人更有动机吗? |
| 81 | That is a great question. | 问得好 |
| 82 | I think some people seem naturally more energetic and driven. | 我认为有些人看起来自然而然地更充满活力和动力. |
| 83 | But I believe motivation is mostly a skill and a habit, not just a fixed personality | 但我认为动机主要是技巧和习惯 不只是固定的个性 |
| 84 | trait. | 特质 |
| 85 | Some people learned good motivation habits early in life, maybe from their parents | 有些人早年学会了良好的动机习惯,也许从父母那里 |
| 86 | or teachers. | 或老师。 |
| 87 | Others had to learn later. | 其他人后来必须学习。 |
| 88 | But anyone can build stronger motivation at any | 但任何人都可以建立更强的动力 |
| 89 | age. | 年龄 |
| 90 | What matters more than natural personality is your mindset, how you think about challenges, | 比自然个性更重要的是 你的心态,你如何思考挑战, |
| 91 | effort and failure. | 努力和失败。 |
| 92 | People with a growth mindset believe they can improve through effort. | 有增长心态的人相信,他们可以通过努力来改善。 |
| 93 | They | 他们 |
| 94 | see failure as a lesson, not as proof that they are not good enough. | 将失败视为教训,而不是证明它们不够好。 |
| 95 | That mindset creates | 这种心态创造了 |
| 96 | strong self-motivation. | 强烈的自动机。 |
| 97 | People with a fixed mindset think abilities are fixed. | 有固定心态的人认为能力是固定的. |
| 98 | You either | 你也一样 |
| 99 | have them or you don't. | 有他们,或你没有。 |
| 100 | That thinking kills motivation. | 这种想法会扼杀动机。 |
| 101 | Mark, have you heard of the growth | 马克,你听说过成长吗? |
| 102 | mindset before? | 之前的心态? |
| 103 | Yes. | 对 |
| 104 | The growth mindset comes from the work of psychologist Carol Dweck. | 成长的心态来自心理学家卡罗尔·德韦克的作品. |
| 105 | She did many | 她做过很多 |
| 106 | years of research and found that students who believed their abilities could grow and | 多年的研究发现,那些相信自己的能力可以成长的学生 |
| 107 | improve performed much better than students who believed their abilities were fixed. | 比起那些相信自己的能力已经固定的学生,成绩要好得多。 |
| 108 | It | 这个 |
| 109 | is a very powerful idea. | 这是一个非常强大的想法。 |
| 110 | I remember when I first heard about it, I realized I had been | 我记得我第一次听说的时候 我意识到我一直 |
| 111 | using a fixed mindset in some areas of my life. | 用固定的心态 在我生活的某些领域。 |
| 112 | For example, I always said, I am bad | 比如,我总是说,我很坏 |
| 113 | at math. | 在数学。 |
| 114 | That's just who I am. | 这就是我是谁。 |
| 115 | That belief stopped me from even trying to get better. | 这种信念阻止了我甚至试图好转。 |
| 116 | When I changed to a growth mindset and said, I can improve at math if I practice and get | 当我改用成长思维时,我说, 如果我练习和得到的数学可以提高 |
| 117 | help, everything changed. | 救命,一切都变了。 |
| 118 | I started trying harder and I did improve. | 我开始更努力地努力,我确实有所改进。 |
| 119 | Your beliefs about | 你对 |
| 120 | yourself directly affect your motivation. | 直接影响到你的动机。 |
| 121 | Anna, how did you first learn about self-motivation? | 安娜,你是怎么学会自我激励的? |
| 122 | I started learning about self-motivation after a difficult year in my mid-twenties. | 我20多岁时开始学习自我激励 |
| 123 | I had | 我有过 |
| 124 | big dreams. | 大梦 |
| 125 | I wanted to start my own small business, improve my English, travel more, | 我想开始自己的小生意, 改进我的英语, 旅行更多, |
| 126 | and get healthy. | 并获得健康。 |
| 127 | But I wasn't doing any of those things. | 但我没有做那些事 |
| 128 | I had the dreams, but not the | 我有梦想,但不是 |
| 129 | action. | 行动。 |
| 130 | I felt frustrated and confused. | 我感到沮丧和困惑。 |
| 131 | Why could I not just do the things I wanted to | 我为什么不能做我想做的事 |
| 132 | I started reading books about habits and motivation. | 我开始读关于习惯和动机的书。 |
| 133 | One book that changed my life was about setting | 一本改变我人生的书 是关于设定 |
| 134 | clear goals and taking small actions every day. | 目标明确,每天都采取小规模行动。 |
| 135 | I learned that motivation doesn't always | 我学会了动机并不总是 |
| 136 | come first. | 先来 |
| 137 | Sometimes action comes first, and motivation follows. | 有时行动首先,动机随之而来。 |
| 138 | That was a completely | 那是个完全的 |
| 139 | new idea for me. | 对我来说是新主意 |
| 140 | I thought you had to feel motivated before you could act, but actually, | 我想你必须觉得 动机之前,你可以采取行动,但实际上, |
| 141 | you often feel motivated after you start acting. | 在你开始演戏后,你常常觉得有动力 |
| 142 | Mark, what do you think about that idea? | 马克,你觉得怎么样? |
| 143 | I think that idea is one of the most useful things anyone can learn about motivation. | 我认为,这个想法是任何人都能学到的关于动机的最有用的东西之一。 |
| 144 | Many people wait to feel motivated before they begin. | 许多人在开始前等着感到有动力。 |
| 145 | They say, I will start exercising | 他们说,我会开始锻炼 |
| 146 | when I feel more energetic, or I will study when I feel like it. | 当我感觉更充满活力, 或者我会学习 当我喜欢它。 |
| 147 | But that feeling often | 但那种感觉往往 |
| 148 | never comes, or it comes and goes very quickly. | 永远不会来, 或者它来和去非常快。 |
| 149 | The secret is to start even when you don't | 秘诀是即使你没有开始 |
| 150 | feel like it. | 感觉像它。 |
| 151 | Start small. | 开始小。 |
| 152 | Do just two minutes. | 就两分钟 |
| 153 | Just open the book. | 把书打开 |
| 154 | Just put on your shoes. | 只要穿上你的鞋子。 |
| 155 | That small start usually creates a little momentum, and momentum builds motivation. | 这种小的开始通常会产生一点势头,而势头则会产生积极性。 |
| 156 | I heard someone compare it to pushing a heavy cart. | 我听说有人把它比作推重车 |
| 157 | It's hardest to move at the very beginning, | 一开始很难动起来 |
| 158 | but once it starts rolling, it's much easier to keep going. | 但一旦它开始滚动, 它更容易继续。 |
| 159 | Starting is always the hardest | 开始总是最难的 |
| 160 | part. | 编。 |
| 161 | Have you experienced this, Anna? | 你经历过吗,安娜? |
| 162 | Yes, absolutely. | 是的,当然。 |
| 163 | This is something I experience | 这是我经历的 |
| 164 | almost every week. | 几乎每个星期。 |
| 165 | For example, I go for morning walks. | 比如说,我去散步 |
| 166 | There are many mornings when I wake up, | 我醒来的时候有很多早晨 |
| 167 | and I really don't want to go. | 而我真的不想去。 |
| 168 | My bed is warm and comfortable, and going outside in the cold | 我的床暖和舒适 寒冷地出去 |
| 169 | seems terrible. | 看起来很可怕 |
| 170 | But I have a rule. | 但我有一个规则。 |
| 171 | I just put on my walking shoes. | 我只是穿上我的步行鞋。 |
| 172 | That's it. | 就这样 |
| 173 | Just the shoes. | 只穿鞋子,别穿了 |
| 174 | Once I have my shoes on, I almost always go. | 一旦我穿上鞋子,我几乎总是去。 |
| 175 | And once I am outside and walking, I feel wonderful. | 一旦我出去走走,我感觉棒极了 |
| 176 | I am always happy I went. | 我总是很高兴我去了。 |
| 177 | I never come home and think, I wish I had stayed in bed. | 我从来没有回家思考, 我希望我留在床上。 |
| 178 | The motivation follows the action. | 动机跟随行动。 |
| 179 | This is called the two-minute rule by some coaches. | 这被一些教练称为两分钟规则. |
| 180 | You just commit to two minutes of anything. | 你只要承诺两分钟就够了 |
| 181 | Often, two minutes turns into 20. | 通常,两分钟变成20分钟。 |
| 182 | What small | 这么小 |
| 183 | actions help you start when you don't feel motivated, Mark? | 行动帮助你开始 当你觉得没有动机,马克? |
| 184 | For me, the biggest small | 对我来说,最大的小 |
| 185 | action is making my bed in the morning. | 明早我就要睡觉了 |
| 186 | It sounds so simple and almost silly, but it works for me. | 听起来很简单 几乎很傻 但对我有效 |
| 187 | When I make my bed, I have already completed one task. | 当我上床时,我已经完成了一项任务。 |
| 188 | My brain feels a small win and it wants | 我的大脑觉得一个小胜利 它想要 |
| 189 | another. | 另一个 |
| 190 | That feeling of completion gives me energy and a sense of control over the day. | 这种完成感给了我精力和对一天的控制感。 |
| 191 | Another small action I use is writing one sentence in my journal first thing in the morning. | 我用的另一个小动作是 早上在日记上写一句话 |
| 192 | Just one sentence about how I feel or what I want from the day. | 就一句话 关于我的感受 或我想要的一天。 |
| 193 | Once I write that one sentence, | 一旦我写了一句 |
| 194 | I usually write more. | 我通常写得更多。 |
| 195 | These entry point habits are very powerful. | 这些进入点的习惯是非常强大的. |
| 196 | They lower the barrier to | 他们把障碍物降低到 |
| 197 | starting. | 开始 |
| 198 | The hardest part of any task is beginning. | 任何任务中最难的部分都在开始。 |
| 199 | Make the beginning as small as possible, | 让开始尽可能小, |
| 200 | and you make it easy to start. | 你让它容易开始。 |
| 201 | Let's talk about goals now, Anna. | 让我们谈谈目标,安娜。 |
| 202 | How important are goals for | 目标对于 |
| 203 | self-motivation? | 自我激励? |
| 204 | Goals are extremely important for self-motivation. | 目标对于自我激励极为重要。 |
| 205 | Without a clear goal, | 没有明确的目标 |
| 206 | motivation has nowhere to go. | 动机无处可去。 |
| 207 | Imagine you are driving a car, but you have no destination. | 想象一下你在开车,但你没有目的地。 |
| 208 | You would just drive around without purpose. | 你无心开车到处走走 |
| 209 | Goals give you direction. | 目标给你方向。 |
| 210 | They tell you where to go | 他们告诉你去哪里 |
| 211 | and why. | 还有为什么 |
| 212 | But not all goals are created equal. | 但并非所有目标都是平等的。 |
| 213 | I think goals need to be specific and personal. | 我认为目标必须具体和针对个人。 |
| 214 | A goal like, I want to be healthier, is too vague. | 我想更健康的目标太模糊了 |
| 215 | A better goal is, I will walk for 30 minutes, | 更好的进球是 我会走30分钟 |
| 216 | three times a week, for the next month. | 每周三次,下个月 |
| 217 | That is specific, measurable, and realistic. | 这是具体、可衡量和现实的。 |
| 218 | Also, the goal needs to be your goal, not your parent's goal, not your teacher's goal, | 还有 目标必须是你的目标 而不是你父母的目标 也不是你老师的目标 |
| 219 | not what society says you should want. | 而不是社会上说你应该想要的 |
| 220 | Goals that come from your own values and desires | 源自自己价值观和愿望的目标 |
| 221 | create much stronger motivation. | 创造出更强大的动力。 |
| 222 | Mark, how do you set your goals? | 马克,你怎么确定你的目标? |
| 223 | I use a simple system that I | 我使用一个简单的系统,我 |
| 224 | learned a few years ago. | 几年前学的 |
| 225 | I set goals in three time frames. | 我在三个时间框架内设定了目标。 |
| 226 | First, I have a big, long-term goal, | 首先,我有个长远的目标 |
| 227 | something I want in the next one to three years. | 接下来一到三年我想要的东西 |
| 228 | For example, improving my professional skills or | 例如,提高我的专业技能或 |
| 229 | building a healthy lifestyle. | 建立健康的生活方式。 |
| 230 | Second, I break that big goal into smaller monthly goals. | 第二,我打破了这个大目标 成为较小的月度目标。 |
| 231 | What can I | 我能怎么办? |
| 232 | do this month to move toward the big goal? | 这个月要向大目标迈进吗? |
| 233 | Third, I break the monthly goal into weekly actions. | 第三,我打破了每月的目标 成为每周的行动。 |
| 234 | What will I do this week, specifically? | 我这周要做什么? |
| 235 | This system makes big, scary goals feel manageable. | 这个系统使大而可怕的目标感觉可以管理. |
| 236 | Instead of thinking, I want to write a book someday, which feels impossible, | 而不是思考,我想写一本书 某天,这感觉不可能, |
| 237 | I think, I will write 200 words today. | 我想,今天我会写200个字。 |
| 238 | 200 words a day becomes a book over time. | 每天200个字会随着时间演变成一本书. |
| 239 | Small steps, | 小步骤, |
| 240 | big results. | 大结果。 |
| 241 | Do you write down your goals, Anna? | 你记下你的目标了吗,安娜? |
| 242 | Yes. | 对 |
| 243 | Writing goals down is very important to me. | 写下目标对我很重要。 |
| 244 | There's a well-known idea that people who write their goals are much more likely to achieve them. | 有一个众所周知的想法,即写目标的人更有可能实现. |
| 245 | When you write a goal, it becomes more real and more serious. | 当你写一个目标, 它变得更真实和严重。 |
| 246 | It moves from a vague wish | 它从一个模糊的愿望转移 |
| 247 | in your head to a clear intention on paper. | 在你的头脑中,在纸上明确的意图。 |
| 248 | I write my goals in my journal at the beginning | 我一开始在日记上写我的目标 |
| 249 | of every month, and I review them every week. | 每个月,我每星期都检讨 |
| 250 | Reviewing goals regularly is just as important | 定期审查目标同样重要 |
| 251 | as writing them. | 写他们。 |
| 252 | It keeps your attention focused. | 它让你的注意力集中。 |
| 253 | We are very easily distracted by social media, | 我们很容易被社交媒体分心, |
| 254 | by other people's opinions, by daily problems. | 别人的意见, 日常问题。 |
| 255 | Reviewing your goals brings you back to what | 检讨目标让你回到 |
| 256 | matters to you. | 对你很重要 |
| 257 | I also write why next to each goal. | 我还写了为什么每个目标旁边。 |
| 258 | Why do I want this? | 为什么我要这个? |
| 259 | The why is very powerful. | 原因非常强大。 |
| 260 | It is the fuel for motivation. | 这是动机的燃料。 |
| 261 | Mark, let's talk about the why. | 马克,我们谈谈原因吧 |
| 262 | How important is knowing | 认识有多重要 |
| 263 | your why? | 为什么? |
| 264 | Knowing your why is perhaps the most important thing in self-motivation. | 了解你的原因也许是自我激励中最重要的事 |
| 265 | The why is your reason for doing something. | 为什么要做点什么? |
| 266 | And the deeper and more personal the reason, | 更深入 更个人的原因, |
| 267 | the more powerful the motivation. | 更强大的动机。 |
| 268 | For example, someone might say their goal is to exercise. | 例如,有人可能会说他们的目标是锻炼. |
| 269 | Their why could be to lose weight, to feel more energetic, to be healthy for their children, | 他们为什么要减肥, 感觉更活跃, 为孩子健康, |
| 270 | or to feel confident. | 或觉得自信。 |
| 271 | The last two reasons, being there for children, feeling confident, | 最后两个原因, 在那里为孩子, 感到自信, |
| 272 | are emotionally strong. | 情绪很强壮 |
| 273 | They connect to core human needs. | 它们与人类的核心需求相关联。 |
| 274 | When things get hard, | 当事情变得艰难, |
| 275 | those deep reasons keep you going. | 这些深层原因让你继续前进。 |
| 276 | A shallow why breaks under pressure. | 一个浅浅的原因,在压力下破裂。 |
| 277 | A deep why holds. | 一个深层原因 |
| 278 | I think it is worth spending time asking yourself honestly, why do I really want this? | 我觉得值得花时间 问你自己诚实, 为什么我真的想要这个? |
| 279 | What will it | 怎么样? |
| 280 | mean for my life? | 对我的生活意味着什么? |
| 281 | The answer reveals a lot. | 答案揭示了很多。 |
| 282 | Anna, what is a why that has driven you strongly? | 安娜,你为什么这么强烈? |
| 283 | One of my strongest whys was learning English seriously. | 我最强的一个原因 就是认真学习英语 |
| 284 | My surface reason was, | 我的表面原因是, |
| 285 | I want a better job. | 我想要一个更好的工作。 |
| 286 | But when I dug deeper, the real reason was, I want to communicate with people | 但是当我挖得更深时 真正的原因是 我想和别人沟通 |
| 287 | from all over the world. | 从世界各地。 |
| 288 | I want to read books in their original language. | 我想用他们的原始语言读书。 |
| 289 | I want to travel | 我想出门 |
| 290 | freely and not feel lost. | 自由而不会感到迷失 |
| 291 | I want to feel confident and capable. | 我想感到自信和能力。 |
| 292 | Those deeper reasons were very | 这些更深层的原因非常 |
| 293 | emotional for me. | 对我来说是感情上的 |
| 294 | They connected to my identity and my dreams. | 他们把我的身份和梦想联系起来 |
| 295 | On days when studying English was | 学习英语的日子 |
| 296 | boring or hard, I remembered those reasons and kept going. | 无聊或辛苦,我记得这些原因,继续前进。 |
| 297 | Now I'm here, hosting an English podcast. | 现在我在这里,主持一个英国播客。 |
| 298 | The why really works. | 真正起作用的原因 |
| 299 | I also think it helps to picture yourself after you achieve the goal. | 我也认为它帮助想象自己 在你达成目标之后。 |
| 300 | How will you feel? | 你会有什么感觉? |
| 301 | What will your life look like? | 你的生活会是什么样子? |
| 302 | That visualization is a great motivator. | 这种视觉化是一个伟大的驱动器。 |
| 303 | Do you use visualization, Mark? | 你使用视觉,马克? |
| 304 | Yes. | 对 |
| 305 | Visualization is a technique used by many athletes, | 视觉是很多运动员使用的一种技术, |
| 306 | performers, and successful people. | 表演者和成功者。 |
| 307 | You close your eyes and imagine yourself achieving your goal | 你闭上眼睛,想象自己实现你的目标 |
| 308 | in detail. | 细节。 |
| 309 | What do you see? | 你看见什么了? |
| 310 | What do you hear? | 你听见什么了? |
| 311 | How do you feel? | 你感觉怎么样? |
| 312 | The more vivid and detailed the image, | 越是生动细致的画面, |
| 313 | the better. | 这样更好 |
| 314 | Your brain responds to a strong mental image in a way that is similar to actually | 你的大脑对一个强烈的 精神形象的反应 类似实际上 |
| 315 | experiencing it. | 经历它。 |
| 316 | It builds confidence and desire. | 它建立信任和愿望。 |
| 317 | I use visualization when I have a big presentation | 我用视觉,当我有一个大的演示 |
| 318 | or a new challenge. | 或者是新的挑战 |
| 319 | I close my eyes and picture myself doing it confidently and well. | 我闭上眼睛,想象自己有自信地做得很好。 |
| 320 | It reduces | 它会减少 |
| 321 | my fear and increases my motivation. | 我的恐惧和增加我的动机。 |
| 322 | But I also think visualization should be paired with planning | 但我也认为视觉应该与规划相结合 |
| 323 | and action. | 行动 |
| 324 | Just imagining a goal without working toward it is just daydreaming. | 只是幻想一个目标而不努力去追求它 只是白日梦 |
| 325 | You need both the | 你需要两个 |
| 326 | plan. | 计划。 |
| 327 | Let's talk about planning now, Anna. | 我们现在谈谈计划,安娜 |
| 328 | How does a plan help motivation? | 计划如何帮助激励? |
| 329 | A plan is like a map | 计划就像地图 |
| 330 | for your motivation. | 为了你的动机。 |
| 331 | Without a plan, you have a goal, but you don't know how to get there. | 没有计划,你有一个目标, 但你不知道如何到达那里。 |
| 332 | That uncertainty is very discouraging. | 这种不确定性令人非常沮丧。 |
| 333 | You feel overwhelmed and don't know where to start. | 你感到不堪重负 不知从何说起 |
| 334 | A clear, simple plan removes that confusion. | 一个明确、简单的计划可以消除这种混乱。 |
| 335 | It says, do this today, do this tomorrow, | 它说,今天做,明天做, |
| 336 | do this next week. | 下周再做这个 |
| 337 | You follow the steps and slowly you move forward. | 你跟着台阶慢慢向前走 |
| 338 | I keep my plans very simple. | 我的计划很简单 |
| 339 | I don't write complicated systems. | 我不写复杂的系统。 |
| 340 | I just write three things I will do today that move me toward | 我只是写了三件事,今天我会做, 使我走向 |
| 341 | my goal. | 我的目标。 |
| 342 | Just three things. | 仅三事. |
| 343 | That is manageable and not overwhelming. | 这是可以管理的,而不是压倒性的。 |
| 344 | I also plan for obstacles. | 我也计划设置障碍 |
| 345 | I ask myself, what might stop me today? | 我问自己 今天有什么能阻止我? |
| 346 | And what will I do if that happens? | 如果发生这种事我该怎么办? |
| 347 | This kind of | 这样 |
| 348 | feel prepared and confident. | 感到准备和自信。 |
| 349 | Mark, what do you do when your plan doesn't work? | 马克,你做什么 当你的计划不起作用? |
| 350 | When my plan doesn't work, I try not to treat it as a failure. | 当我的计划失败了,我尽量不把它当作失败. |
| 351 | I treat it as information. | 我把它当作信息 |
| 352 | Something | 东西 |
| 353 | didn't work. | 没用 |
| 354 | Okay, why? | 好吧,为什么? |
| 355 | Was the plan too ambitious? | 计划是不是太雄心勃勃了? |
| 356 | Was the timing wrong? | 时机不对吗? |
| 357 | Was I missing a skill or | 我错过了技能或 |
| 358 | resource? | 资源? |
| 359 | I ask those questions and I adjust. | 我问了那些问题,我做了调整。 |
| 360 | Flexibility is very important in self-motivation. | 灵活性在自动机中非常重要. |
| 361 | Many people have an all or nothing mindset. | 许多人都有或根本没有思想。 |
| 362 | If they miss one day of exercise, they say, | 如果他们错过一天锻炼, 他们说, |
| 363 | I failed. | 我失败了 |
| 364 | I give up. | 我放弃了 |
| 365 | But that is not realistic. | 但这不现实。 |
| 366 | Life is messy. | 生活是混乱的。 |
| 367 | Plans change. | 计划改变。 |
| 368 | The key is not to | 关键是不要 |
| 369 | be perfect. | 完美无缺 |
| 370 | It is to be persistent. | 这将是持久的。 |
| 371 | Persist means you keep going even after small failures. | 坚持就是说,在小失败之后你还会继续前进 |
| 372 | I sometimes think of motivation like a bouncing ball. | 我有时会把动机想成弹球 |
| 373 | You will drop it sometimes. | 有时候你会放弃的 |
| 374 | That is normal. | 这是正常的。 |
| 375 | The important thing is to pick it back up again. | 重要的事情是把它重新捡起来。 |
| 376 | How do you handle failure and setbacks, Anna? | 你怎么应付失败和挫折,安娜? |
| 377 | Handling failure is one of the most important skills for self-motivation. | 处理失败是自动机最重要的技能之一. |
| 378 | When something goes | 当事情发生 |
| 379 | wrong, my first step is to allow myself to feel disappointed, but only for a short time. | 错了,我的第一步是允许自己感到失望,但只是短暂的. |
| 380 | I give | 我给 |
| 381 | myself one day to feel bad. | 我总有一天会觉得很糟 |
| 382 | Then I move on. | 然后我继续前进 |
| 383 | I think it is important to allow negative feelings, | 我认为必须允许负面情绪 |
| 384 | but not to live in them forever. | 但不是永远生活在其中。 |
| 385 | After that short feeling time, I look at what happened objectively. | 在短暂的感受之后,我客观地审视了发生了什么。 |
| 386 | What went wrong? | 发生什么了? |
| 387 | What can I learn? | 我能学到什么? |
| 388 | What will I do differently? | 我该怎么办? |
| 389 | I write these things down. | 我把这些写下来。 |
| 390 | This | 这个 |
| 391 | turns a failure into a lesson. | 把失败变成教训 |
| 392 | It keeps my self-respect and my forward momentum. | 它保持了我的自尊和前进势头。 |
| 393 | I also | 我也一样 |
| 394 | remind myself of past successes. | 提醒我过去的成功。 |
| 395 | When I doubt myself after a failure, I look at my journal | 当我在失败后怀疑自己时,我看我的日记 |
| 396 | and read about times I succeeded. | 并阅读了我成功的时光。 |
| 397 | That reminder gives me confidence to try again. | 那提醒让我有信心再试一次 |
| 398 | Let's talk about | 让我们谈谈 |
| 399 | confidence and motivation. | 信心和动机。 |
| 400 | Are they connected, Mark? | 他们有联系吗,马克? |
| 401 | Yes, confidence and motivation are deeply | 是的,信心和动机是深厚的 |
| 402 | connected. | 连接。 |
| 403 | When you feel confident, you believe you can do something, so you try. | 当你感到自信时,你相信你能做点什么,所以你尝试一下. |
| 404 | When you try | 当你尝试 |
| 405 | and succeed, your confidence grows. | 并成功, 你的信心增强。 |
| 406 | And growing confidence increases your motivation. | 信心的增强增加了你的动力 |
| 407 | It's a | 这是一个 |
| 408 | positive cycle. | 积极循环。 |
| 409 | But the opposite is also true. | 但相反的情况也是事实。 |
| 410 | When you feel low confidence, you doubt yourself | 当你感到信心低落,你怀疑自己 |
| 411 | and avoid trying. | 并避免尝试。 |
| 412 | When you avoid things, you miss the chance to succeed, and that decreases | 当你逃避事物, 你错过了成功的机会, 而减少 |
| 413 | your motivation further. | 你的动机进一步。 |
| 414 | So how do you build confidence? | 那你是怎么建立信任的? |
| 415 | Mainly through small successes. | 主要通过小的成功。 |
| 416 | You | 你们 |
| 417 | set a small achievable goal. | 设定了一个可以实现的小目标。 |
| 418 | You achieve it. | 你实现了它。 |
| 419 | You feel proud and capable. | 你感到骄傲和有能力。 |
| 420 | You set another small goal. | 你设定了另一个小目标。 |
| 421 | Over time, these small wins build a strong foundation of confidence. | 随着时间的推移,这些小赢家建立了牢固的信任基础. |
| 422 | I always say, | 我总是说, |
| 423 | success builds success. | 成功建立成功。 |
| 424 | One small win is the seed of the next. | 一个小胜是下一个的种子. |
| 425 | Anna, what gives you confidence when | 安娜,是什么让你有信心 |
| 426 | you feel low? | 你感觉低落? |
| 427 | When I feel low in confidence, a few things help me. | 当信心低落时,有几件事对我有所帮助. |
| 428 | First, I remember my past | 首先,我记得我的过去 |
| 429 | wins. | 赢了。 |
| 430 | I have a small list I keep in my journal, moments when I did something I was proud of. | 我有一个小列表 我保留在我的日记, 的时刻,当我做了 我骄傲的事情。 |
| 431 | Reading that list reminds me that I am capable. | 看那张名单让我想起我有能力 |
| 432 | Second, I do something I am already good at. | 第二,我做了一些我已经擅长的事情。 |
| 433 | If I feel insecure about a new challenge, I first do a task I know I can complete well. | 如果我对新的挑战感到不安全,我首先做一项我知道可以完成的任务。 |
| 434 | That small success warms up my confidence, like stretching before exercise. | 这一小的成功加强了我的信心,就像锻炼前的伸展。 |
| 435 | Third, I talk to | 第三,我和你说 |
| 436 | someone who believes in me. | 一个相信我的人 |
| 437 | Sometimes we need a friend to remind us of our strengths. | 有时我们需要一个朋友来提醒我们的长处。 |
| 438 | We can be | 我们可以 |
| 439 | very blind to our own abilities. | 完全无视我们的能力 |
| 440 | Having one or two people who genuinely support you is incredibly | 有一两个人真正支持你 真是不可思议 |
| 441 | valuable for motivation. | 对动机很有价值 |
| 442 | Mark, how does the people around us affect our self-motivation? | 马克,我们周围的人 如何影响我们的自我动力? |
| 443 | The people around us have a huge effect on our motivation, probably more than we realize. | 我们周围的人对我们的动机有着巨大的影响,可能比我们意识到的还要大. |
| 444 | Research shows that we are strongly influenced by the habits and attitudes of the people we spend | 研究表明,我们受到我们所花费的人的习惯和态度的强烈影响。 |
| 445 | the most time with. | 与时间最多。 |
| 446 | If you are surrounded by motivated, positive, ambitious people, their | 如果你被积极、积极、雄心勃勃的人包围 |
| 447 | energy is contagious. | 能量会传染 |
| 448 | You naturally start to think and act like them. | 你自然地开始思考并表现得像他们一样. |
| 449 | But if you spend most of your | 但如果你花了大部分时间 |
| 450 | time with people who complain, give up easily, or discourage new ideas, that energy is also contagious, | 与那些抱怨,轻易放弃, 或劝阻新思想的人在一起 认为能量也是传染性的, |
| 451 | in a negative direction. | 向负面方向前进。 |
| 452 | I'm not saying you should abandon friends who struggle, | 我不是说你应该抛弃那些挣扎的朋友 |
| 453 | but I do think you should be intentional about where you spend your energy and who you listen to. | 但我确实认为你应该故意 把你精力花在什么地方 以及你听谁的话 |
| 454 | Find people who inspire you. | 找到激励你的人 |
| 455 | Spend more time with them. | 花更多的时间和他们在一起。 |
| 456 | Their motivation will feed yours. | 他们的动机会满足你的 |
| 457 | Do you have people like that in your life, Anna? | 你有这样的人吗,安娜? |
| 458 | Yes, I have a few people who are very important | 对,我有几个重要人物 |
| 459 | for my motivation. | 为了我的动机。 |
| 460 | My best friend is a very hardworking and creative person. | 我最好的朋友是一个非常勤奋和有创造力的人. |
| 461 | When I am around | 当我在身边 |
| 462 | her, I feel more energetic and ambitious. | 她,我觉得更 充满活力和野心。 |
| 463 | She inspires me without even trying. | 她激励我,甚至没有尝试。 |
| 464 | I also follow | 我也跟着 |
| 465 | a few people online, writers, coaches, creators, whose work and words inspire me. | 少数网络人物,作家,导师,创作者,他们的作品和文字启发了我. |
| 466 | Reading their | 读他们 |
| 467 | stories or watching their videos helps me feel connected to a bigger world of motivated people. | 故事或观看他们的视频能帮助我感受到 与一个更大的充满积极性的人的世界的联系。 |
| 468 | I think community is very powerful for motivation. | 我认为社区对激励非常强大。 |
| 469 | Many people join groups or clubs, | 很多人加入团体或俱乐部, |
| 470 | running groups, study groups, online communities, where everyone shares the same goal. | 管理团体,学习团体,网络社区,每个人都有相同的目标. |
| 471 | That shared | 这分享 |
| 472 | energy is very motivating. | 能量很有动力 |
| 473 | You feel less alone in your efforts. | 你在努力中感到不那么孤独。 |
| 474 | And when others see your progress, | 当其他人看到你的进步, |
| 475 | it encourages you to continue. | 它鼓励你继续。 |
| 476 | Have you ever joined a group to help with motivation, Mark? | 你加入过一个团体 帮助激励,马克? |
| 477 | Yes. | 对 |
| 478 | A few years ago, I joined a running group. | 几年前,我加入了一个跑步团体。 |
| 479 | I'm not a natural runner. | 我不是一个自然的跑者。 |
| 480 | I find it hard, | 我觉得很难 |
| 481 | and I used to hate it. | 我曾经讨厌它。 |
| 482 | But when I started running with a group every Saturday morning, | 但我每周六早上开始和一群人一起跑步 |
| 483 | everything changed. | 一切都变了 |
| 484 | I did not want to let the group down. | 我不想让小组失望。 |
| 485 | I knew they would be there, | 我知道他们会在那里, |
| 486 | and I didn't want to be the person who didn't show up. | 我不想成为那个没出现的人 |
| 487 | That social commitment was very motivating. | 这种社会承诺非常激励人心。 |
| 488 | Over time, I also started to enjoy the conversations during the runs. | 随着时间推移,我开始享受 运行期间的对话。 |
| 489 | And the feeling of finishing a run with a group is wonderful. | 和一群人一起跑步的感觉真好 |
| 490 | You celebrate together. | 你们一起庆祝 |
| 491 | I went from hating running to looking forward to Saturdays. | 我从讨厌跑步到期待周六 |
| 492 | The group changed my motivation | 集团改变了我的动机 |
| 493 | completely. | 完全没有。 |
| 494 | Commitment to others is a very powerful tool for motivation. | 对他人的承诺是激励他人的一个非常有力的工具。 |
| 495 | When you make a promise to yourself, it's easy to break. | 当自许之,易破之. |
| 496 | When you make a promise to others, | 当你对别人许下诺言 |
| 497 | it's much harder. | 这更难。 |
| 498 | Anna, let's talk about habits and routines now. | 安娜,让我们谈谈习惯和常规。 |
| 499 | Yes. | 对 |
| 500 | Habits and routines are incredibly important for self-motivation. | 身体机能和日常活动对自我动力来说非常重要。 |
| 501 | Here's the thing about motivation. | 动机是这样的 |
| 502 | It naturally goes up and down. | 自然上下行. |
| 503 | Some days, | 有时候 |
| 504 | you feel very driven and energetic. | 你感到非常驱动和精力充沛。 |
| 505 | Other days, you feel flat and unmotivated. | 其他的日子,你感觉平坦,没有动机。 |
| 506 | If your progress | 如果你的进展 |
| 507 | depends only on your feelings, you will be very inconsistent. | 取决于你的感受, 你会非常不一致。 |
| 508 | But if your progress depends on | 但如果你的进展取决于 |
| 509 | habits and routines, you keep moving forward even on low motivation days. | 习惯和习惯, 你继续前进, 即使低动力的日子。 |
| 510 | A habit is an automatic behavior. | 习惯是自动行为 |
| 511 | You do it without thinking too much. | 你这样做没有太多思考。 |
| 512 | You brush your teeth | 你刷牙 刷牙 刷牙 刷牙 |
| 513 | every morning, not because you feel motivated, but because it is a habit. | 每天早上,不是因为你觉得有动力 而是因为那是习惯 |
| 514 | You can build the same kind | 你也可以造同样的 |
| 515 | of automatic behavior around your goals. | 在你的目标周围的自动行为 |
| 516 | If studying English every morning becomes a habit, | 如果每天早上学习英语成为习惯 |
| 517 | you will do it whether you feel motivated or not. | 无论你有没有动机,你都会这么做的 |
| 518 | Consistency beats motivation every single time. | 一贯性每次都能战胜动机. |
| 519 | Mark, how do you build good habits? | 马克,你如何建立良好的习惯? |
| 520 | Building good habits is a skill. | 建立良好的习惯是一种技能. |
| 521 | I follow a few | 我跟着几个 |
| 522 | simple principles. | 简单的原则。 |
| 523 | First, I make the habit very easy to start. | 首先,我让习惯很容易开始。 |
| 524 | If the habit is too hard | 如果习惯太难 |
| 525 | at the beginning, I will avoid it. | 首先,我会避免它。 |
| 526 | So I start with the smallest possible version. | 所以我从最小的版本开始。 |
| 527 | Want to read more? | 想读更多吗? |
| 528 | Start with one page a night. | 从每晚一页开始。 |
| 529 | Want to exercise? | 想锻炼吗? |
| 530 | Start with five minutes. | 从五分钟开始 |
| 531 | Once | 一次 |
| 532 | the habit is established, I can gradually increase it. | 习惯已经确立,我可以逐渐增加它。 |
| 533 | Second, I link the new habit to an existing one, | 第二,我把新习惯和旧习惯联系起来, |
| 534 | habit stacking. | 习惯堆叠。 |
| 535 | After I drink my morning coffee, I will do 10 minutes of English practice. | 喝完早上的咖啡,我会做十分钟的英语练习。 |
| 536 | The | 那个 |
| 537 | habits. | 习惯。 |
| 538 | I use a simple calendar and put a mark on every day I do the habit. | 我用一个简单的日历,每天在习惯上打个记号。 |
| 539 | A streak of marks is | 一连串的标记是 |
| 540 | very motivating. | 非常激励人心 |
| 541 | You don't want to break the chain. | 不欲断链. |
| 542 | These three simple steps have helped me build | 这三个简单的步骤 帮助我建设 |
| 543 | lasting habits. | 长久的习惯。 |
| 544 | What is a habit you built that changed your life, Anna? | 安娜,你造的改变人生的习惯是什么? |
| 545 | The habit that changed | 改变的习惯 |
| 546 | my life most is daily reading. | 我一生最爱的就是每日阅读 |
| 547 | I started reading just 10 pages every night before bed. | 我每晚睡觉前只读10页 |
| 548 | It seemed | 看起来 |
| 549 | like nothing at first, but 10 pages a night is about 300 pages a month. | 但每晚10页 每月约300页 |
| 550 | That is one or two books | 这是一两本书 |
| 551 | a month. | 一个月 |
| 552 | Over one year, I read more than 15 books. | 一年多,我读了15多本书. |
| 553 | Those books changed how I think, how I communicate, | 那些书改变了我的想法 改变了我的交流方式 |
| 554 | and how I see the world. | 我如何看待这个世界。 |
| 555 | I learned so many new things about psychology, about habits, | 我学到了很多关于心理学和习惯的新东西 |
| 556 | about history, about creativity. | 关于历史, 关于创造力。 |
| 557 | I became a better thinker and a better English speaker, | 我成了一个更好的思想家 一个更好的英语演讲者, |
| 558 | all from 10 pages a night. | 全从10页每晚。 |
| 559 | I never would have believed that at the start. | 一开始我绝不会相信 |
| 560 | This is a great example of how a tiny, consistent habit creates enormous change over time. | 这是一个很好的例子,说明一个小而一贯的习惯 如何在一段时间里产生巨大的变化。 |
| 561 | The power of small and consistent actions is amazing. | 小而一贯行动的力量是惊人的。 |
| 562 | Let's talk about procrastination now, | 让我们谈谈拖延,现在, |
| 563 | Mark. | 马克 |
| 564 | Why do people procrastinate? | 为什么人们会拖延? |
| 565 | Procrastination is one of the biggest | 拖延是最大的问题之一 |
| 566 | enemies of self-motivation. | 自我激励的敌人。 |
| 567 | It means you delay doing something even when you know you should do | 意思是,即使你知道你应该做,你也会拖延做一些事情 |
| 568 | it. | 这个 |
| 569 | You say, I'll do it later, and later never comes. | 你说,我会做以后, 以后永远不会来。 |
| 570 | Why do people procrastinate? | 为什么人们会拖延? |
| 571 | It's usually | 这通常 |
| 572 | because of one of these reasons. | 因为其中一个原因 |
| 573 | First, the task feels too big or overwhelming. | 首先,任务太大或过于艰巨。 |
| 574 | Second, there's a | 第二,有一个 |
| 575 | fear of imperfection. | 担心不完美。 |
| 576 | You want to do it perfectly, so you wait for the perfect moment that never | 你想完美地完成它, 所以你等待 完美的时刻,从来没有 |
| 577 | arrives. | 来了 |
| 578 | Fourth, the task is boring or unpleasant. | 第四,任务很无聊或不愉快。 |
| 579 | Understanding why you are procrastinating is the | 理解你为什么拖延是 |
| 580 | first step to stopping it. | 第一步来阻止它。 |
| 581 | Each reason needs a different solution. | 每一种原因都需要不同的解决方案。 |
| 582 | For the too big reason, | 因为这个大原因, |
| 583 | break the task into tiny pieces. | 将任务分割成小块。 |
| 584 | For the fear of failure reason, remind yourself that done is | 因为害怕失败的原因,提醒自己,做 |
| 585 | better than perfect. | 胜过完美 |
| 586 | Anna, what is your best tip for fighting procrastination? | 安娜,你有什么最好的小费 对抗拖延? |
| 587 | My best tip for fighting procrastination is the five-minute commitment. | 我与拖延作斗争的最佳提示是五分钟的承诺。 |
| 588 | When I don't want to start | 当我不想开始的时候 |
| 589 | something, I tell myself, just do it for five minutes. | 我告诉自己 做五分钟就好 |
| 590 | After five minutes, you can stop if you | 五分钟后,你可以停下来,如果你 |
| 591 | want. | 想要吗? |
| 592 | Almost always after five minutes, I am already working, and I keep going. | 几乎总是在五分钟后,我已经在工作,我继续工作。 |
| 593 | The starting | 开始 |
| 594 | was the barrier, not the task itself. | 是障碍,而不是任务本身。 |
| 595 | Another tip I love is removing distractions before I start. | 我最喜欢的另外一个小费是在我开始前 消除分心 |
| 596 | I put my phone in another room. | 我把我的手机放在另一个房间。 |
| 597 | I close unnecessary browser tabs. | 我关闭不必要的浏览器标签。 |
| 598 | I make myself a cup of tea. | 我给自己泡杯茶 |
| 599 | Then I sit down with everything ready and nothing to distract me. | 然后,我坐下来与一切准备 和没有什么让我分心。 |
| 600 | A clear environment helps a clear | 清晰的环境有助于清晰 |
| 601 | mind. | 头脑。 |
| 602 | I also use a timer. | 我也用计时器 |
| 603 | I work for 25 minutes with full focus, then take a five-minute break. | 我全神贯注地工作25分钟 然后休息5分钟 |
| 604 | This is called the Pomodoro technique. | 这叫做波摩多罗技法. |
| 605 | It makes long tasks feel very manageable. | 它使漫长的任务感到非常容易管理。 |
| 606 | Have you tried | 你试过吗? |
| 607 | the Pomodoro technique, Mark? | 马克? |
| 608 | Yes, the Pomodoro technique is excellent. | 是的,波莫多罗的技法很出色 |
| 609 | Working for 25 minutes | 工作25分钟 |
| 610 | with full focus, then resting for five minutes, then repeating, it keeps your brain fresh and | 然后休息五分钟 然后重复 让你的大脑保持新鲜 |
| 611 | makes deep work very achievable. | 使深入的工作可以实现。 |
| 612 | I use it for writing, studying, and complex tasks. | 我用它来写作、学习和复杂的任务。 |
| 613 | But even | 不过甚至 |
| 614 | simpler than Pomodoro is just removing your phone from the room. | 比波莫多罗还简单 只是把你的手机从房间里移走 |
| 615 | I think the smartphone is the number | 我觉得智能手机是号码 |
| 616 | one killer of self-motivation in the modern world. | 现代世界的自动机杀手 |
| 617 | Every notification is a little interruption. | 每次通知都有点中断 |
| 618 | Every | 每个 |
| 619 | scroll through social media is five or 10 minutes of your goal time gone. | 通过社交媒体的滚动 是你的5或10分钟 球门时间走了。 |
| 620 | I started leaving my phone | 我开始离开我的手机 |
| 621 | in another room when I work or study, and my productivity increased enormously. | 当我工作或学习的时候,在另一个房间里, 我的生产力大大提高。 |
| 622 | We are not | 我们不是 |
| 623 | strong as our habits. | 和我们的习惯一样强壮 |
| 624 | Our environment often controls us. | 我们的环境常常控制着我们。 |
| 625 | So, design your environment to support | 所以,设计你的环境来支持 |
| 626 | your goals, not to distract from them. | 你的目标,不要分散他们的注意力。 |
| 627 | Anna, let's talk about energy and self-motivation. | 安娜,让我们谈谈能量和自动机 |
| 628 | Are they | 难道他们 |
| 629 | Absolutely. | 当然 |
| 630 | Energy and motivation are very closely connected. | 能量和动力是紧密相连的. |
| 631 | When your energy is low, | 当你的能量很低, |
| 632 | even small tasks feel impossible. | 甚至小任务都觉得不可能 |
| 633 | When your energy is high, you feel motivated to do many things. | 当你精力旺盛的时候,你会觉得有动机做很多事情. |
| 634 | So, taking care of your physical energy is a form of self-motivation. | 所以,照顾身体能量是一种自动机. |
| 635 | This means sleeping enough, | 意思是睡够了 |
| 636 | eating nutritious food, moving your body regularly, and taking real breaks. | 吃有营养的食物 经常移动身体 休息 |
| 637 | I noticed that my most | 我发现我最 |
| 638 | motivated periods always coincide with the times I sleep well and exercise regularly. | 有动机的时期总是与我睡觉和经常锻炼的时间相吻合。 |
| 639 | My lowest | 我最贱的 |
| 640 | motivation periods are always when I am tired, eating poorly, or sitting too much. | 动机期总是当我累了,吃得不好,或者坐得太多。 |
| 641 | Many people | 许多人 |
| 642 | try to push through low energy with willpower or caffeine, but that only works for a short time. | 尝试用意志力或咖啡因推动低能量,但这只是短期的工作. |
| 643 | The sustainable solution is to manage your energy levels through good physical habits. | 可持续的解决方案是通过良好的物理习惯来管理你的能量水平. |
| 644 | Motivation follows energy. | 动力跟随能量. |
| 645 | Mark, when during the day are you most motivated? | 马克,白天你什么时候最有动机? |
| 646 | I am definitely a morning person. | 我绝对是一个早晨的人。 |
| 647 | I feel most sharp, creative, and motivated in the first two | 我觉得最尖锐,最有创造力,最有动力的前两个 |
| 648 | to three hours after I wake up. | 3小时后我醒来。 |
| 649 | That's when I do my most important and creative work. | 那时我做了我最重要和最有创意的工作. |
| 650 | I protect | 我保护 |
| 651 | those morning hours very carefully. | 那些早晨非常谨慎。 |
| 652 | I do not check social media or emails until I've finished my most | 直到我完成我最爱的社交媒体或邮件 |
| 653 | task of the day. | 任务日。 |
| 654 | After lunch, my energy naturally drops a little. | 午饭后,我的能量自然会下降一点. |
| 655 | I use that lower energy time for | 我用较低的能量时间 |
| 656 | smaller, routine tasks, answering messages, organizing, reading. | 较小,例行的任务,回答消息,组织,阅读. |
| 657 | In the late afternoon, | 下午很晚的时候 |
| 658 | my energy often comes back a little, but not as strongly as the morning. | 我的能量常常会回来一点, 但不像早上那么强烈。 |
| 659 | Understanding your own | 了解你自己 了解你自己 |
| 660 | energy patterns is very useful for self-motivation. | 能量模式对自我激励非常有用。 |
| 661 | Schedule your hardest, most important tasks for | 安排你最艰难最重要的任务 |
| 662 | your highest energy time. | 你的最高能量时间。 |
| 663 | Don't waste your peak hours on easy tasks. | 别把高峰时间浪费在容易的任务上 |
| 664 | Do you know your own energy | 你知道自己的能量吗? |
| 665 | patterns, Anna? | 规律,安娜? |
| 666 | Yes, I am also more productive in the mornings. | 是的,我早上也比较有成果。 |
| 667 | My mind feels clearest before noon. | 中午前我感觉最清楚 |
| 668 | I use that time for writing, learning, or anything that requires real concentration. | 我用那个时间来写作,学习,或者任何需要真正集中精神的东西. |
| 669 | In the | 在那个 |
| 670 | afternoons, I feel slower, so I use that time for lighter work, organizing, responding to messages, | 午后,我感觉慢了,所以我利用那时间 做更轻松的工作,组织起来,回应信息, |
| 671 | doing simple tasks. | 执行简单的任务。 |
| 672 | I also discovered that short afternoon walks boost my energy significantly. | 我发现下午的散步能大大提升我的能量 |
| 673 | Even a 10-minute walk outside around 3 o'clock gives me a second wave of motivation and energy | 三点左右出去走10分钟 就能给我第二次动力和精力 |
| 674 | for the rest of the day. | 今余时. |
| 675 | I think people underestimate the power of movement as an energy | 我认为人们低估了运动的力量 作为一种能量 |
| 676 | booster. | 助动器. |
| 677 | When you feel unmotivated and sluggish, the best thing to do is often the thing you least | 当你感到无动力和迟钝时, 最好的事情是 你最不爱做的事 |
| 678 | want to do, get up and move. | 想做,起来,走。 |
| 679 | It almost always helps. | 它几乎总是帮助。 |
| 680 | Mark, let's talk about self-talk. | 马克,我们谈谈自言自语 |
| 681 | How does | 怎么样 |
| 682 | the way we talk to ourselves affect motivation? | 我们对自己说话的方式会影响动机吗? |
| 683 | Self-talk has an enormous effect on motivation. | 自言自语对动机有巨大影响. |
| 684 | The words we say to ourselves in our heads are like a constant background voice, | 我们脑中对自己说的话 就像一个不断的背景声音 |
| 685 | and that voice is either encouraging or discouraging. | 而这种声音要么是鼓励性的,要么是令人沮丧的。 |
| 686 | Many people have a very harsh inner critic. | 许多人的内心批评非常严厉. |
| 687 | They say things to themselves like, you're so lazy, you always fail, or you will never be good | 他们自言自语,你这么懒,你总是失败, 否则你永远不会好 |
| 688 | enough. | 够了。 |
| 689 | That kind of self-talk destroys motivation. | 这种自言自语会破坏动机 |
| 690 | If a friend talked to you like that, you would stop | 如果有个朋友这样跟你说话,你就会停下来 |
| 691 | spending time with them, but we say these things to ourselves all day. | 和他们呆在一起 但我们整天都对自己说这些 |
| 692 | The good news is that you | 好消息是你们 |
| 693 | can change your self-talk. | 可以改变你的自我对话。 |
| 694 | It takes practice, but it is possible. | 这需要练习,但有可能。 |
| 695 | Notice when the negative voice | 阴性声音时通知 |
| 696 | appears. | 出现。 |
| 697 | Challenge it. | 挑战它。 |
| 698 | Replace it with something kinder and more realistic. | 换成更亲切更现实的东西 |
| 699 | Instead of, I can't do | 而不是,我不能这样做 |
| 700 | this. | 这个 |
| 701 | Try, this is hard, but I can try one step at a time. | 试试看,这很难 但我可以一步一步尝试 |
| 702 | That small shift changes your whole | 那个小班改变了你的全部 |
| 703 | emotional state. | 情绪状态 |
| 704 | Anna, how do you practice positive self-talk? | 安娜,你如何练习积极的自我对话? |
| 705 | I practice positive self-talk in | 我练习积极的自我对话 |
| 706 | several ways. | 有几个方法。 |
| 707 | First, I pay attention to my thoughts when I face a challenge. | 首先,当我面临挑战时,我注意我的想法。 |
| 708 | If I hear a negative | 如果我听到一个负数 |
| 709 | thought, I name it. | 我想,我把它命名为。 |
| 710 | I say, oh, there's the inner critic again. | 我说,哦,又有内在的批评家。 |
| 711 | Naming it gives me distance from it. | 命名它让我远离它。 |
| 712 | It reminds me that the thought is not the truth. | 它提醒我,思想不是事实。 |
| 713 | It is just a habit. | 这只是一个习惯。 |
| 714 | Second, I have a few go-to phrases I use when I need encouragement. | 第二,我有一些我需要鼓励时使用的措辞。 |
| 715 | For example, one step at a | 例如,一步一步 |
| 716 | time. | 时间。 |
| 717 | Progress is more important than perfection. | 进步比完美更重要。 |
| 718 | I have done hard things before. | 我以前做过很辛苦的事 |
| 719 | These phrases are | 这些短语是: |
| 720 | short and simple, but they shift my mindset quickly. | 短而简单, 但他们迅速改变我的心态。 |
| 721 | Third, I sometimes speak to myself in | 第三,我有时会自言自语 |
| 722 | third person. | 第三个人。 |
| 723 | Instead of, I can't do this, I say, Anna, you can do this. | 而不是,我不能做到这一点, 我说,安娜,你可以做到这一点。 |
| 724 | Research shows this | 研究显示 |
| 725 | technique, talking to yourself by name, creates useful emotional distance and increases self-control | 创造有用的情感距离,增强自我控制 |
| 726 | and motivation. | 和动机。 |
| 727 | Do you ever use encouraging phrases, Mark? | 你用过鼓励语吗,马克? |
| 728 | Yes, I have a few personal | 是的,我有几个私人问题 |
| 729 | mantras. | 曼茶罗. |
| 730 | Short phrases I repeat to myself when I need strength. | 当我需要力量时 我会重复短句 |
| 731 | One of mine is, start before | 我的其中一个是,开始之前 |
| 732 | you're ready. | 你准备好了。 |
| 733 | It reminds me not to wait for the perfect conditions. | 它提醒我不要等待 完美的条件。 |
| 734 | Another one is, discipline | 另一个是纪律 |
| 735 | is freedom. | 这是自由。 |
| 736 | At first, this sounds strange. | 一开始,这听起来很奇怪。 |
| 737 | How can discipline be freedom? | 纪律如何是自由? |
| 738 | But I have found it | 但我已经找到了 |
| 739 | to be very true. | 非常真实 |
| 740 | When I am disciplined about my goals and habits, I actually feel freer. | 当我在目标和习惯上受到纪律约束时,我实际上感到更加自由. |
| 741 | I have | 我见过 |
| 742 | more energy, more time, and more confidence. | 更多的能量,更多的时间和信心。 |
| 743 | Discipline creates the life I want. | 纪律创造了我想要的生活。 |
| 744 | Without | 无 |
| 745 | discipline, I drift and feel lost. | 纪律,我漂泊,感觉迷失。 |
| 746 | Another phrase I love is, compare yourself to who you were | 我最喜欢的另一种说法是 把你自己和以前一样 |
| 747 | yesterday, not to who someone else is today. | 昨天,不是今天别人是谁。 |
| 748 | Comparing yourself to others is very damaging | 把自己和别人比起来会很伤人 |
| 749 | to motivation. | 动机 |
| 750 | The only competition that matters is with your past self. | 唯一重要的竞争就是你的过去 |
| 751 | Are you better today than | 你比今天强吗? |
| 752 | yesterday? | 昨天吗? |
| 753 | That is what counts. | 这是最重要的。 |
| 754 | Anna, what is your personal mantra? | 安娜,你的个人口号是什么? |
| 755 | My personal mantra is, done is | 我个人的口音是, 完成 |
| 756 | better than perfect. | 胜过完美 |
| 757 | I need to remind myself of this often because I have perfectionist | 我要经常提醒自己 因为我有完美主义者 |
| 758 | tendencies. | 倾向。 |
| 759 | I sometimes delay finishing things because they are not quite right. | 我有时会推迟完成 因为它们不太对劲 |
| 760 | But perfectionism, | 但完美主义, |
| 761 | as we discussed before, is a motivation killer. | 正如我们之前讨论过的, 是一个动机杀手。 |
| 762 | It keeps you stuck. | 它让你卡住了。 |
| 763 | Done is better than perfect | 完成比完美还好 |
| 764 | reminds me that completing something imperfect is a thousand times more valuable than an unfinished | 提醒我,完成不完美的东西 比未完成的要值一千倍 |
| 765 | masterpiece that exists in my imagination. | 我想象中的杰作 |
| 766 | I also love the phrase, every day is a new start. | 我也喜欢这句,每天都是一个新的开始。 |
| 767 | When I have a bad day or miss a habit, I remind myself that tomorrow is a fresh beginning. | 当我有一个糟糕的一天或错过一个习惯,我提醒自己,明天是一个新的开端。 |
| 768 | The past day is gone. | 过去日已去. |
| 769 | I can choose differently tomorrow. | 我可以选择不同的明天。 |
| 770 | That idea takes the pressure off and | 这个想法可以消除压力 |
| 771 | keeps me motivated to try again. | 保持我再次尝试的积极性。 |
| 772 | Before we say goodbye today, I want to leave our listeners with | 在我们今天说再见之前 我想让我们的听众 |
| 773 | a few final thoughts. | 几个最后的想法。 |
| 774 | Self-motivation is not about being perfect. | 自性非是圆满. |
| 775 | It is not about feeling excited | 这与兴奋无关 |
| 776 | every single day. | 每一天都这样 |
| 777 | It's about building habits, knowing your why, taking small steps, and being | 它的建设习惯, 知道你的原因, 采取小步骤, |
| 778 | kind to yourself when things are hard. | 当事情变得艰难时,你对你自己好些。 |
| 779 | Every person listening today has goals and dreams inside them. | 每个人今天聆听 都有目标和梦想 |
| 780 | The question is not whether those goals are possible. | 问题不在于这些目标是否可能实现。 |
| 781 | They probably are. | 也许吧 |
| 782 | The question is, | 问题是, |
| 783 | will you take the first small step today? | 你今天会迈出第一步吗? |
| 784 | Not tomorrow, not next Monday, today. | 不是明天,不是下周一,今天。 |
| 785 | One step, | 一步来 |
| 786 | no matter how small. | 无论多么小。 |
| 787 | That step is the beginning of everything. | 这个步骤是一切的开始。 |
| 788 | I believe in every person listening. | 我相信每个人都在听 |
| 789 | You have what it takes. | 你有它所需要的。 |
| 790 | And remember, motivation follows action. | 记住,动机是行动 |
| 791 | So go take that first step. | 所以,去迈出第一步。 |
| 792 | Thank you so much for listening. | 谢谢你的聆听 |
| 793 | And thank you, Anna, for this wonderful conversation today. | 谢谢你 安娜 今天的精彩谈话 |
| 794 | Thank you, Mark. | 谢谢你,马克。 |
| 795 | This was such an energizing and inspiring conversation. | 这是一个充满活力和鼓舞人心的对话。 |
| 796 | And a huge thank you to all of you who listened today. | 非常感谢你们今天的所有听众。 |
| 797 | I hope this episode gave you something | 我希望这集能给你一些东西 |
| 798 | useful. | 实用。 |
| 799 | A new idea, a tip, a phrase, or just the reminder that you are capable of more than you | 一个新想法,一个提示,一个短语, 或只是提醒你 你的能力比你更多 |
| 800 | think. | 以为. |
| 801 | Self-motivation is a skill. | 自性为技. |
| 802 | And like any skill, it grows with practice and patience. | 像任何技能一样,它会随着练习和耐心而增长。 |
| 803 | Be patient with yourself. | 耐心点 |
| 804 | Celebrate your small wins. | 庆祝你的小胜利 |
| 805 | Find your why. | 找出你为什么。 |
| 806 | Build tiny habits. | 建立微小的习惯. |
| 807 | Surround | 周边 |
| 808 | yourself with people who inspire you. | 和那些激励你的人在一起 |
| 809 | And please, be kind to your inner voice. | 请对你的内心声音好点 |
| 810 | You are your own most | 你是你自己最厉害的 |
| 811 | important coach. | 重要的教练 |
| 812 | If this podcast helped you even a little, please share it with a friend who might | 如果播客能帮助你一点 请和朋友分享 |
| 813 | need some motivation today. | 今天需要一些动力 |
| 814 | Come back next time for more friendly English conversations. | 下次再来聊聊更友好的英语对话 |
| 815 | Until then, | 在这之前 |
| 816 | keep going. | 继续 |
| 817 | You've got this. | 你得到了这个。 |
| 818 | Goodbye from me, Anna. | 再见,安娜 |
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