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0:00Hello, everyone, and welcome to our podcast.大家好 欢迎收看我们的播客
0:03My name is Anna, and I am so happy you are我叫安娜,我很高兴你
0:06here with us today.今天和我们在一起
0:08Today, we have a very exciting and important topic.今天,我们有一个非常令人兴奋和重要的议题。
0:12We are going我们要走了
0:12to talk about self-motivation.谈论自我激励。
0:15Self-motivation means the ability to push yourself forward,自我激励意味着有能力推进自己,
0:19to do things, reach your goals, and keep going, even when it is hard.做事情,达到你的目标, 并继续前进, 即使它很难。
0:24This topic is important这个问题很重要
0:26for everyone—students, workers, parents, dreamers.对每个人来说——学生、工人、父母、梦想家。
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1Hello, everyone, and welcome to our podcast.大家好 欢迎收看我们的播客
2My name is Anna, and I am so happy you are我叫安娜,我很高兴你
3here with us today.今天和我们在一起
4Today, we have a very exciting and important topic.今天,我们有一个非常令人兴奋和重要的议题。
5We are going我们要走了
6to talk about self-motivation.谈论自我激励。
7Self-motivation means the ability to push yourself forward,自我激励意味着有能力推进自己,
8to do things, reach your goals, and keep going, even when it is hard.做事情,达到你的目标, 并继续前进, 即使它很难。
9This topic is important这个问题很重要
10for everyone—students, workers, parents, dreamers.对每个人来说——学生、工人、父母、梦想家。
11Everyone needs motivation in life.每个人都需要生活中的动力
12I am joined today by my wonderful co-host, Mark.我今天和我的好搭档马克在一起
13We will talk about what motivation is,我们来谈谈动机是什么
14why we lose it, and how to find it again.为什么我们失去它, 以及如何再次找到它。
15We use simple English, so this podcast is我们使用简单的英语,所以这个播客是
16perfect for beginners.适合初学者
17Hi, Mark, how are you feeling today, and are you ready to talk about嗨,马克,你今天感觉如何, 你准备好谈论
18self-motivation?自我激励?
19Hi, Anna.嗨,安娜,你好吗?
20I am feeling great and very motivated today, which is perfect for our topic.我今天感到棒极了,非常有动力,这非常适合我们的主题。
21Hello哈罗
22to all our wonderful listeners.我们所有的听众。
23Self-motivation is one of my favorite subjects.自动机是我最喜欢的学科之一.
24I think about我想着
25it a lot, because honestly, staying motivated is something I have personally struggled with有很多,因为说实话, 保持积极性是我个人奋斗过的事情
26over the years.多年来
27I have had periods of very high energy and ambition, and other periods我曾经有过非常高的精力和雄心以及其他时期
28of feeling completely stuck.感觉完全卡住了。
29Learning about self-motivation helped me understand why that学习自我激励有助于我理解为什么
30and what to do about it.怎么办呢?
31And the good news is, self-motivation is a skill.好消息是,自我激励是一种技能。
32You can learn你可以学的
33it and get better at it over time.随时间变好
34That is very encouraging.这非常令人鼓舞。
35So let's explore this topic我们来探讨一下这个话题
36together today.今天我们在一起
37Anna, let's start from the beginning.安娜,让我们从头开始。
38What exactly is self-motivation?什么是自我激励?
39Great question.问得好
40Self-motivation is the inner drive that makes you want to do something自动机是内在的驱动力,让你想做点什么
41or achieve something without needing someone else to push you.或者做点什么 不需要别人推你
42When you are self-motivated,当你自动机,
43you start things by yourself.你一个人开始的
44You keep going by yourself.你继续自己去。
45You don't wait for your boss,你不等着你的老板,
46your teacher, or your parents to tell you what to do.你的老师,或者你的父母 告诉你该怎么做。
47You just do it because you want你这样做只是因为你想
48to.改为。
49There are two types of motivation.动机有两种.
50The first is external motivation.第一是外部动机。
51This means you这表示你
52do something because of an outside reward, like money, praise, or grades.做一些事,因为外面的奖励,比如金钱,赞美,或者成绩.
53The second第二个
54is internal motivation.是内部动机
55You do something because it makes you feel happy, proud or fulfilled你做一些事情,因为它让你觉得快乐,骄傲或满足
56inside.进去
57Self-motivation is mostly about internal motivation.自动机主要是内部动机.
58Mark, what do you think is the马克,你认为什么是
59difference between the two types in everyday life?在日常生活中这两种类型的区别?
60The difference is very important in everyday life.差别在日常生活中非常重要.
61External motivation works well for a外部动机对一个
62short time.时间很短
63For example, if your boss gives you a bonus, you feel motivated for a while.例如,如果你的老板给你奖金,你会觉得有一段时间的积极性.
64But when the bonus is gone, the motivation often disappears too.但当奖金没了,动机也经常消失.
65Internal motivation内部动机
66lasts longer because it comes from inside you.因为它来自你体内,所以会持续更长的时间。
67For example, when I started learning to cook,例如,当我开始学习烹饪时,
68nobody asked me to do it, and nobody paid me.没有人让我做, 没有人付钱给我。
69I did it because I found it fun and creative.我这样做是因为我发现它很有趣和创造性。
70That internal joy kept me going for months.那种内心的欢乐让我持续了好几个月
71I practiced every weekend.我每个周末都练习
72Now I cook very well.现在我做的很好
73External motivation can start things, but internal motivation sustains them.外部动机可以启动事物,但内部动机维持它们.
74So if you want to stay motivated over a long time, it helps to find something that you genuinely所以,如果你想保持 动机在很长一段时间, 它帮助找到 一些你真正的
75care about and enjoy.关心和享受。
76Anna, do you think some people are naturally more motivated than others?安娜,你认为一些人 自然比其他人更有动机吗?
77That is a great question.问得好
78I think some people seem naturally more energetic and driven.我认为有些人看起来自然而然地更充满活力和动力.
79But不过
80I believe motivation is mostly a skill and a habit, not just a fixed personality trait.我认为动机主要是一种技巧和习惯,而不仅仅是一种固定的个性特征.
81Some people learned good motivation habits early in life, maybe from their parents or teachers.有些人很早就学会了良好的动机习惯,也许他们的父母或老师也这样做。
82Others had to learn later.其他人后来必须学习。
83But anyone can build stronger motivation at any age.但任何人都可以在任何年龄建立更强大的动力.
84What matters more还有什么更重要的
85than natural personality is your mindset, how you think about challenges, effort, and failure.而不是自然的个性 是你的心态,你如何思考挑战,努力,失败。
86People with a growth mindset believe they can improve through effort.有增长心态的人相信,他们可以通过努力来改善。
87They see failure as a他们视失败为
88lesson, not as proof that they are not good enough.而不是证明他们不够好
89That mindset creates strong self-motivation.这种心态产生了强烈的自动机。
90People with a fixed mindset think abilities are fixed.有固定心态的人认为能力是固定的.
91You either have them or you don't.你要么有,要么没有
92That thinking kills motivation.这种想法会扼杀动机。
93Mark, have you heard of the growth mindset before?马克,你听说过成长的心态吗?
94Yes.对
95The growth mindset comes from the work of psychologist Carol Dweck.成长的心态来自心理学家卡罗尔·德韦克的作品.
96She did many years of research and found that students who believed their abilities could她做了多年的研究 发现那些相信自己能力的学生
97grow and improve performed much better than students who believed their abilities were fixed.比起相信自己的能力得到固定的学生,成长和提高的成绩要好得多。
98It is a very powerful idea.这是一个非常强大的想法。
99I remember when I first heard about it, I realized I had been我记得我第一次听说的时候 我意识到我一直
100using a fixed mindset in some areas of my life.用固定的心态 在我生活的某些领域。
101For example, I always said, I am bad at math.例如,我总是说,我数学不好。
102That's just who I am.这就是我是谁。
103That belief stopped me from even trying to get better.这种信念阻止了我甚至试图好转。
104When I changed to a当我换成一个
105growth mindset and said, I can improve at math if I practice and get help, everything changed.成长思维和说,我可以在数学上改进 如果我练习和寻求帮助,一切都改变了。
106I started trying harder and I did improve.我开始更努力地努力,我确实有所改进。
107Your beliefs about yourself directly affect你对自己的看法直接影响到
108your motivation.你的动机。
109Anna, how did you first learn about self-motivation?安娜,你是怎么学会自我激励的?
110I started learning about self-motivation after a difficult year in my mid-twenties.我20多岁时开始学习自我激励
111I had big dreams.我做了个大梦
112I wanted to start my own small business, improve my English, travel more,我想开始自己的小生意, 改进我的英语, 旅行更多,
113and get healthy.并获得健康。
114But I wasn't doing any of those things.但我没有做那些事
115I had the dreams, but not the action.我有梦想,但没有行动。
116I felt frustrated and confused.我感到沮丧和困惑。
117Why could I not just do the things I wanted to do?为什么我不能做我想做的事?
118I started reading books about habits and motivation.我开始读关于习惯和动机的书。
119One book that changed my life was有本书改变了我的生活
120about setting clear goals and taking small actions every day.每天确定明确的目标和采取小行动。
121I learned that motivation我学会了这个动机
122doesn't always come first.不总是先来.
123Sometimes action comes first and motivation follows.有时行动首先,动机随之而来。
124That was a completely那是个完全的
125new idea for me.对我来说是新主意
126I thought you had to feel motivated before you could act, but actually,我想你必须觉得 动机之前,你可以采取行动,但实际上,
127you often feel motivated after you start acting.在你开始演戏后,你常常觉得有动力
128Mark, what do you think about that idea?马克,你觉得怎么样?
129I think that idea is one of the most useful things anyone can learn about motivation.我认为,这个想法是任何人都能学到的关于动机的最有用的东西之一。
130Many people wait to feel motivated before they begin.许多人在开始前等着感到有动力。
131They say, I will start exercising when I他们说,我会开始锻炼 当我
132feel more energetic, or I will study when I feel like it.感觉更活力,否则我会学习 当我感觉它。
133But that feeling often never comes,但那种感觉经常从不出现
134or it comes and goes very quickly.或者它来去得很快。
135The secret is to start even when you don't feel like it.秘诀是即使你不喜欢也得开始
136Start small.开始小。
137Do just two minutes.就两分钟
138Just open the book.把书打开
139Just put on your shoes.只要穿上你的鞋子。
140That small start这个小小的开始
141usually creates a little momentum, and momentum builds motivation.通常会产生一点动力,而动力则会形成动力.
142I heard someone compare it to我听说有人把它比作
143pushing a heavy cart.推了辆重车
144It's hardest to move at the very beginning, but once it starts rolling,一开始很难移动 但一旦开始滚动
145it's much easier to keep going.继续走就容易多了
146Starting is always the hardest part.开始总是最难的
147Have you experienced this, Anna?你经历过吗,安娜?
148Yes, absolutely.是的,当然。
149This is something I experience almost every week.我几乎每个星期都会经历这样的事
150For example,举例来说,
151I go for morning walks.我早上去散步 早上去散步 早上去散步
152There are many mornings when I wake up and I really don't want to go.我醒来的时候有很多早晨 我真的不想去
153My bed is warm and comfortable, and going outside in the cold seems terrible.我的床暖和舒适, 外出在寒冷似乎可怕。
154But I have a rule.但我有一个规则。
155I just put on my walking shoes.我只是穿上我的步行鞋。
156That's it.就这样
157Just the shoes.只穿鞋子,别穿了
158Once I have my shoes on,一旦我穿上鞋子,
159I almost always go.我几乎总是去。
160And once I am outside and walking, I feel wonderful.一旦我出去走走,我感觉棒极了
161I am always happy I我一直很快乐
162went.已经走了。
163I never come home and think, I wish I had stayed in bed.我从来没有回家思考, 我希望我留在床上。
164The motivation follows the action.动机跟随行动。
165This is called the two-minute rule by some coaches.这被一些教练称为两分钟规则.
166You just commit to two minutes of anything.你只要承诺两分钟就够了
167Often, two minutes turns into twenty.通常,两分钟变成20分钟。
168What small actions help you start when you don't feel没有什么小动作帮助你开始 当你感觉不到
169motivated?动机?
170Mark?马克?
171For me, the biggest small action is making my bed in the morning.对我来说,最大的小动作是早上做我的床。
172It sounds so simple and almost silly, but it works for me.听起来很简单 几乎很傻 但对我有效
173When I make my bed, I have already当我做我的床,我已经
174completed one task.完成了一项任务。
175My brain feels a small win and it wants another.我的大脑感到一个小胜利 它想要另一个。
176That feeling of completion完成的感觉
177gives me energy and a sense of control over the day.让我对今天充满活力和掌控感
178Another small action I use is writing one我用的另一个小动作是写一个
179sentence in my journal first thing in the morning.明早第一件事就是在我的日记里说句
180Just one sentence about how I feel or what I want就一句话 关于我的感受或我想要的
181from the day.从一天。
182Once I write that one sentence, I usually write more.一旦我写了这句话, 我通常会写更多。
183These entry point habits这些进入点习惯
184are very powerful.是非常强大的。
185They lower the barrier to starting.他们降低障碍开始。
186The hardest part of any task is任何任务最难的部分是
187beginning.开始。
188Make the beginning as small as possible and you make it easy to start.使开头尽量小,使开头容易.
189Let's talk about goals now, Anna.让我们谈谈目标,安娜。
190How important are goals for self-motivation?自我激励的目标有多重要?
191Goals are extremely important for self-motivation.目标对于自我激励极为重要。
192Without a clear goal, motivation has nowhere没有明确的目标,动机就没有了
193to go.离开。
194Imagine you are driving a car but you have no destination.想象一下你开的是车,但你没有目的地。
195You would just drive around你会开车到处转转
196without purpose.没有目的。
197Goals give you direction.目标给你方向。
198They tell you where to go and why.他们告诉你去哪里和为什么。
199But not all goals但不是所有的目标
200are created equal.被创建为平等的。
201I think goals need to be specific and personal.我认为目标必须具体和针对个人。
202A goal like,目标像,
203I want to be healthier is too vague.我想健康是太模糊了。
204A better goal is, I will walk for 30 minutes three times更好的进球是,我会走30分钟三次
205a week for the next month.下个月一周
206That is specific, measurable, and realistic.这是具体、可衡量和现实的。
207Also, the goal needs此外,目标需要
208to be your goal, not your parent's goal, not your teacher's goal, not what society says you should成为你的目标 而不是你父母的目标 也不是你老师的目标
209want.想要吗?
210Goals that come from your own values and desires create much stronger motivation.来自于你们自己的价值观和愿望的目标,创造了更强大的动力。
211Mark,马克
212how do you set your goals?你怎么确定目标?
213I use a simple system that I learned a few years ago.我使用几年前学到的简单系统。
214I set goals in我设定了目标
215three timeframes.三个时限。
216First, I have a big long-term goal, something I want in the next one to three首先,我有一个长远的目标, 在接下来的一到三我想要的东西
217years.岁月
218For example, improving my professional skills or building a healthy lifestyle.例如,提高我的专业技能或建立健康的生活方式。
219Second,第二,我们...
220I break that big goal into smaller monthly goals.我打破了这个大目标 成为较小的月度目标。
221What can I do this month to move toward the big这个月我该做什么才能走向大局
222goal?目标?
223Third, I break the monthly goal into weekly actions.第三,我打破了每月的目标 成为每周的行动。
224What will I do this week, specifically?我这周要做什么?
225This system makes big, scary goals feel manageable.这个系统使大而可怕的目标感觉可以管理.
226Instead of thinking, I want to而不是思考,我想
227write a book someday, which feels impossible, I think, I will write 200 words today.总有一天会写一本书, 我觉得这是不可能的, 我想,我今天会写200个字。
228200 words200个字
229a day becomes a book over time.一天就变成一本书
230Small steps, big results.小步,大结果.
231Do you write down your goals, Anna?你记下你的目标了吗,安娜?
232Yes.对
233Writing goals down is very important to me.写下目标对我很重要。
234There's a well-known idea that people who write有个众所周知的想法是:
235their goals are much more likely to achieve them.它们的目标更有可能实现这些目标。
236When you write a goal, it becomes more real and当你写一个目标, 它变得更真实,
237more serious.更严重。
238It moves from a vague wish in your head to a clear intention on paper.它从你头脑中的模糊愿望变成纸上明确的意向。
239I write my我写
240goals in my journal at the beginning of every month, and I review them every week.我每个月初都在日记里写着目标, 我每周都审查它们。
241Reviewing审查
242goals regularly is just as important as writing them.目标与写作同样重要。
243It keeps your attention focused.它让你的注意力集中。
244We are very我们是非常的
245easily distracted by social media, by other people's opinions, by daily problems.容易被社交媒体,他人观点,日常问题所分心.
246Reviewing审查
247your goals brings you back to what matters to you.你的目标让你回到对你很重要的方面
248I also write why next to each goal.我还写了为什么每个目标旁边。
249Why do I want为什么我要
250this?这个?
251The why is very powerful.原因非常强大。
252It is the fuel for motivation.这是动机的燃料。
253Mark, let's talk about the why.马克,我们谈谈原因吧
254How怎么样
255important is knowing your why?重要的是知道你为什么?
256Knowing your why is perhaps the most important thing in知道你为什么 也许是最重要的事
257self-motivation.自我激励
258The why is your reason for doing something.为什么要做点什么?
259And the deeper and more personal the越深越个人
260reason, the more powerful the motivation.理由 动机越强大
261For example, someone might say their goal is to例如,有人可能会说他们的目标是
262exercise.运动。
263Their why could be to lose weight, to feel more energetic, to be healthy for their他们为什么要减肥, 感觉更有活力, 对自己的健康
264children, or to feel confident.孩子们,或感到自信。
265The last two reasons, being there for children, feeling后两个原因, 在那里的孩子,感觉
266confident, are emotionally strong.自信 情绪坚强
267They connect to core human needs.它们与人类的核心需求相关联。
268When things get hard, those当事情变得艰难,那些
269deep reasons keep you going.深层原因让你继续前进。
270A shallow why breaks under pressure.一个浅浅的原因,在压力下破裂。
271A deep why holds.一个深层原因
272I think it is我觉得是
273worth spending time asking yourself honestly, why do I really want this?值得花时间问你自己 诚实,我为什么真的想要这个?
274What will it mean for my这对我意味着什么
275life?生活吗?
276The answer reveals a lot.答案揭示了很多。
277Anna, what is a why that has driven you strongly?安娜,你为什么这么强烈?
278One of my strongest我最强的一个
279whys was learning English seriously.为什么他学英语很认真。
280My surface reason was I want a better job.我的表面原因就是我想要一个更好的工作。
281But when I dug但当我挖掘
282deeper, the real reason was I want to communicate with people from all over the world.更深入,真正的原因是 我想与来自世界各地的人沟通。
283I want toи稱
284read books in their original language.以原文阅读书籍。
285I want to travel freely and not feel lost.我想自由旅行,不要感到迷失
286I want to feel我想感觉
287confident and capable.自信和有能力。
288Those deeper reasons were very emotional for me.这些更深层的原因对我来说非常激动
289They connected to my他们联系到我
290identity and my dreams.身份和我的梦想
291On days when studying English was boring or hard, I remembered those在学习英语很无聊或困难的日子里,我记得那些
292reasons and kept going.继续前进
293Now I'm here, hosting an English podcast.现在我在这里,主持一个英国播客。
294The why really works.真正起作用的原因
295I also think我也觉得
296it helps to picture yourself after you achieve the goal.它帮助想象自己 在你达成目标之后。
297How will you feel?你会有什么感觉?
298What will your life look你的生活会是什么样子
299like?喜欢?
300That visualization is a great motivator.这种视觉化是一个伟大的驱动器。
301Do you use visualization, Mark?你使用视觉,马克?
302Yes.对
303Visualization is可视化是
304a technique used by many athletes, performers, and successful people.许多运动员、表演者和成功者使用的一种技术。
305You close your eyes and imagine你闭上眼睛想象
306yourself achieving your goal in detail.你自己详细实现了你的目标。
307What do you see?你看见什么了?
308What do you hear?你听见什么了?
309How do you feel?你感觉怎么样?
310The more越来越多
311vivid and detailed the image, the better.生动细致的画面,越好.
312Your brain responds to a strong mental image in a way你的大脑以某种方式回应了强烈的精神形象
313that is similar to actually experiencing it.这类似于实际经历。
314It builds confidence and desire.它建立信任和愿望。
315I use visualization我用视觉
316when I have a big presentation or a new challenge.当我有一个大 介绍或新的挑战。
317I close my eyes and picture myself doing it我闭上眼睛,想象自己这样做
318confidently and well.自信而精进.
319It reduces my fear and increases my motivation.这会减少我的恐惧,增加我的动机.
320But I also think但我也觉得
321visualization should be paired with planning and action.视觉应配合规划和行动。
322Just imagining a goal without working只是幻想一个目标不起作用
323toward it is just daydreaming.它只是白日梦。
324You need both the dream and the plan.你需要梦想和计划
325Let's talk about planning now,我们现在谈谈计划
326Anna.安娜,请问安娜
327How does a plan help motivation?计划如何帮助激励?
328A plan is like a map for your motivation.一个计划就像一张地图来激励你
329Without a plan,没有计划
330you have a goal, but you don't know how to get there.你有一个目标, 但你不知道如何到达那里。
331That uncertainty is very discouraging.这种不确定性令人非常沮丧。
332You feel overwhelmed and don't know where to start.你感到不堪重负 不知从何说起
333A clear, simple plan removes that confusion.一个明确、简单的计划可以消除这种混乱。
334It says, do this today, do this tomorrow, do this next week.它说,今天做,明天做,下周做。
335You follow the steps and slowly,你跟着台阶慢慢走
336you move forward.前进
337I keep my plans very simple.我的计划很简单
338I don't write complicated systems.我不写复杂的系统。
339I just write我只是写
340three things I will do today that move me toward my goal.今天我将做三件事 推动我走向我的目标。
341Just three things.仅三事.
342That is这是
343manageable and not overwhelming.可控的,而不是压倒性的。
344I also plan for obstacles.我也计划设置障碍
345I ask myself, what might stop me today?我问自己 今天有什么能阻止我?
346And what will I do if that happens?如果发生这种事我该怎么办?
347This kind of planning makes me feel prepared and confident.这种计划让我感到准备和自信.
348Mark, what do you do when your plan doesn't work?马克,你做什么 当你的计划不起作用?
349When my plan doesn't work, I try not to treat it当我的计划失败了,我尽量不治疗
350as a failure.作为失败。
351I treat it as information.我把它当作信息
352Something didn't work, okay, why?有些事没成功,为什么?
353Was the plan too ambitious?计划是不是太雄心勃勃了?
354Was the timing wrong?时机不对吗?
355Was I missing a skill or resource?我缺少技能或资源吗?
356I ask those questions and I adjust.我问了那些问题,我做了调整。
357Flexibility is very important in self-motivation.灵活性在自动机中非常重要.
358Many people have an all-or-nothing mindset.许多人有一种全能或无能的心态。
359If they miss one day of exercise, they say, I failed.如果他们错过一天的锻炼, 他们说,我失败了。
360I give up.我放弃了
361But that is not realistic.但这不现实。
362Life is messy.生活是混乱的。
363Plans change.计划改变。
364The key is not to be perfect.关键不是完美
365It is to be persistent.这将是持久的。
366Persist means you坚持就是说你
367keep going even after small failures.继续前进,即使小失败。
368I sometimes think of motivation like a bouncing ball.我有时会把动机想成弹球
369You will你会的
370drop it sometimes.有时候放下
371That is normal.这是正常的。
372The important thing is to pick it back up again.重要的事情是把它重新捡起来。
373How do you你好吗?
374handle failure and setbacks, Anna?处理失败和挫折,安娜?
375Handling failure is one of the most important skills处理失败是最重要的技能之一
376for self-motivation.为自动机.
377When something goes wrong, my first step is to allow myself to feel disappointed,当事情出问题时,我的第一步是让自己感到失望,
378but only for a short time.但时间很短
379I give myself one day to feel bad.我总有一天会感到难过
380Then I move on.然后我继续前进
381I think it is important我觉得很重要
382to allow negative feelings, but not to live in them forever.允许负面情绪,但不能永远生活在其中。
383After that short feeling time,在这短暂的感受时间之后
384I look at what happened objectively.我看着客观上发生了什么
385What went wrong?发生什么了?
386What can I learn?我能学到什么?
387What will I do differently?我该怎么办?
388I write these things down.我把这些写下来。
389This turns a failure into a lesson.这把失败变成了教训。
390It keeps my self-respect and my这让我的自尊和我的
391forward momentum.前进动力。
392I also remind myself of past successes.我还提醒自己过去的成功。
393When I doubt myself after a failure,当我在失败后怀疑自己
394I look at my journal and read about times I succeeded.我看着我的日记,读了我成功的时代。
395That reminder gives me confidence那提醒让我有信心
396to try again.再次尝试。
397Let's talk about confidence and motivation.让我们谈谈信心和动机。
398Are they connected, Mark?他们有联系吗,马克?
399Yes, confidence and motivation are deeply connected.是的,信心和动机密切相关。
400When you feel confident, you believe当你感到自信,你相信
401you can do something, so you try.你可以做一些事情, 所以你尝试。
402When you try and succeed, your confidence grows,当你尝试和成功, 你的信心增加,
403and growing confidence increases your motivation.信心的增强会增加你的动机
404It's a positive cycle.阳气循环.
405But the opposite is also但与此相反的是
406true.没错
407When you feel low confidence, you doubt yourself and avoid trying.当你感到信心低落时,你会怀疑自己并避免尝试.
408When you avoid things,当你躲起来的时候
409you miss the chance to succeed, and that decreases your motivation further.你错过了成功的机会, 这进一步降低了你的动机。
410So how do you build confidence?那你是怎么建立信任的?
411Mainly through small successes.主要通过小的成功。
412You set a small achievable goal.你设定了一个可以实现的小目标。
413You achieve it.你实现了它。
414You feel proud and capable.你感到骄傲和有能力。
415You set another small goal.你设定了另一个小目标。
416Over time, these small随着时间的推移,这些小
417wins build a strong foundation of confidence.胜利为信心奠定坚实的基础。
418I always say success builds success.我总是说,成功可以创造成功。
419One small一个小
420win is the seed of the next.胜利是下一个的种子。
421Anna, what gives you confidence when you feel low?安娜,你感觉低落时 怎么会有自信?
422When I feel low in confidence, a few things help me.当信心低落时,有几件事对我有所帮助.
423First, I remember my past wins.首先,我记得我过去的胜利。
424I have a我有一个
425small list I keep in my journal, moments when I did something I was proud of.我的日记里有一份小清单, 当我做了一些我骄傲的事的时候。
426Reading that list看那张名单
427reminds me that I am capable.让我想起我的能力
428Second, I do something I am already good at.第二,我做了一些我已经擅长的事情。
429If I feel如果我觉得
430insecure about a new challenge, I first do a task I know I can complete well.面对新的挑战,我首先做一个我知道可以完成的任务。
431That small success这小小的成功
432warms up my confidence, like stretching before exercise.唤起我的信心 就像锻炼前的伸展
433Third, I talk to someone who believes第三,我跟相信的人说话
434in me.对我来说。
435Sometimes we need a friend to remind us of our strengths.有时我们需要一个朋友来提醒我们的长处。
436We can be very blind to我们可以非常盲目
437our own abilities.我们自己的能力
438Having one or two people who genuinely support you is incredibly valuable for拥有一两个真正支持你的人 是非常有价值的
439motivation.动机。
440Mark, how does the people around us affect our self-motivation?马克,我们周围的人 如何影响我们的自我动力?
441The people around周围的人
442us have a huge effect on our motivation, probably more than we realize.我们对我们的动机有巨大的影响, 可能比我们意识到的还要大。
443Research shows that we are研究表明,我们
444strongly influenced by the habits and attitudes of the people we spend the most time with.强烈地受到我们最常在一起的人的习惯和态度的影响。
445If you are surrounded by motivated, positive, ambitious people, their energy is contagious.如果你被积极、积极、雄心勃勃的人包围,他们的能量就具有传染性。
446You naturally start to think and act like them.你自然地开始思考并表现得像他们一样.
447But if you spend most of your time with people但是如果你把大部分时间都花在别人身上
448who complain, give up easily, or discourage new ideas, that energy is also contagious,他们抱怨,轻易放弃, 或劝阻新的想法, 能量也是传染性的,
449in a negative direction.向负面方向前进。
450I'm not saying you should abandon friends who struggle,我不是说你应该抛弃那些挣扎的朋友
451but I do think you should be intentional about where you spend your energy and who you listen to.但我确实认为你应该故意 把你精力花在什么地方 以及你听谁的话
452Find people who inspire you.找到激励你的人
453Spend more time with them.花更多的时间和他们在一起。
454Their motivation will feed yours.他们的动机会满足你的
455Do you have people like that in your life, Anna?你有这样的人吗,安娜?
456Yes, I have a few people who are very important对,我有几个重要人物
457for my motivation.为了我的动机。
458My best friend is a very hard-working and creative person.我最好的朋友是一个非常勤奋和富有创造力的人.
459When I am当我是
460around her, I feel more energetic and ambitious.在她身边,我觉得 更充满活力和野心。
461She inspires me without even trying.她激励我,甚至没有尝试。
462I also follow我也跟着
463a few people online.几人在线.
464Writers, coaches, creators, whose work and words inspire me.作家,导师,创作者,他们的作品和文字启发了我.
465Reading their读他们
466stories or watching their videos helps me feel connected to a bigger world of motivated people.故事或观看他们的视频能帮助我感受到 与一个更大的充满积极性的人的世界的联系。
467I think community is very powerful for motivation.我认为社区对激励非常强大。
468Many people join groups or clubs, running groups,许多人加入团体或俱乐部, 管理团体,
469study groups, online communities, where everyone shares the same goal.学习团体,网络社区,每个人都有相同的目标.
470That shared energy is very共享的能量非常强
471motivating.动机
472You feel less alone in your efforts.你在努力中感到不那么孤独。
473And when others see your progress, it encourages当别人看到你的进步,它鼓励
474you to continue.你继续
475Have you ever joined a group to help with motivation, Mark?你加入过一个团体 帮助激励,马克?
476Yes, a few years ago,对,几年前
477I joined a running group.我加入了一个运行组。
478I'm not a natural runner.我不是一个自然的跑者。
479I find it hard and I used to hate it.我发现它很难 我曾经讨厌它。
480But when I started running with a group every Saturday morning, everything changed.但当我开始与一个团体 每周六早上,一切都改变了。
481I did not我没有
482want to let the group down.想要让团体失望。
483I knew they would be there and I didn't want to be the person who didn't我知道他们会在那里, 我不想成为那个没有的人
484show up.出现.
485That social commitment was very motivating.这种社会承诺非常激励人心。
486Over time, I also started to enjoy the conversations随着时间的推移,我也开始喜欢那些对话
487during the runs.运行期间。
488And the feeling of finishing a run with a group is wonderful.和一群人一起跑步的感觉真好
489You celebrate你庆祝一下
490together.一起来
491I went from hating running to looking forward to Saturdays.我从讨厌跑步到期待周六
492The group changed my集团改变了我
493motivation completely.动机完全。
494Commitment to others is a very powerful tool for motivation.对他人的承诺是激励他人的一个非常有力的工具。
495When you make当你做
496promise to yourself, it's easy to break.答应你,很容易破解
497When you make a promise to others, it's much harder.当你对别人许下诺言,那就难多了.
498Anna, let's talk about habits and routines now.安娜,让我们谈谈习惯和常规。
499Yes, habits and routines are incredibly important是的,习惯和习惯都很重要
500for self-motivation.为自动机.
501Here's the thing about motivation.动机是这样的
502It naturally goes up and down.自然上下行.
503Some days, you feel very driven and energetic.某天,你感到非常驱动和精力充沛。
504Other days, you feel flat and unmotivated.其他的日子,你感觉平坦,没有动机。
505If your progress depends only on your feelings, you will be very inconsistent.如果你的进展只取决于你的感受, 你会非常不一致。
506But if your progress但如果你的进展
507depends on habits and routines, you keep moving forward even on low motivation days.取决于习惯和习惯, 你继续前进 即使低动力的日子。
508A habit is一个习惯是
509an automatic behavior.一个自动的行为。
510You do it without thinking too much.你这样做没有太多思考。
511You brush your teeth every morning,你每天早晨刷牙,
512not because you feel motivated, but because it is a habit.不是因为你觉得有动机 而是因为那是习惯
513You can build the same kind of automatic你可以建造同样的自动
514behavior around your goals.行为围绕你的目标。
515If studying English every morning becomes a habit, you will do it如果每天早上学英语就成习惯了
516whether you feel motivated or not.无论你有没有动机
517Consistency beats motivation every single time.一贯性每次都能战胜动机.
518Mark,马克
519how do you build good habits?如何建立良好的习惯?
520Building good habits is a skill.建立良好的习惯是一种技能.
521I follow a few simple principles.我遵循一些简单的原则。
522First, I make the habit very easy to start.首先,我让习惯很容易开始。
523If the habit is too hard at the beginning,如果一开始习惯太难
524I will avoid it.我会避免它。
525So I start with the smallest possible version.所以我从最小的版本开始。
526Want to read more?想读更多吗?
527Start with开始
528one page a night.一页一夜。
529Want to exercise?想锻炼吗?
530Start with five minutes.从五分钟开始
531Once the habit is established,一旦习惯成立
532I can gradually increase it.我可以逐渐增加它。
533Second, I link the new habit to an existing one, habit stacking.第二,我把新习惯和现有的习惯联系起来, 习惯堆叠。
534After I drink my morning coffee, I will do 10 minutes of English practice.喝完早上的咖啡,我会做十分钟的英语练习。
535The coffee is the咖啡就是那个
536for the new habit.新的习惯。
537Third, I track my habits.第三,我跟踪我的习惯。
538I use a simple calendar and put a mark on every我用一个简单的日历,在每一个
539day I do the habit.一天我做习惯。
540A streak of marks is very motivating.一连串的印记都非常刺激
541You don't want to break the chain.不欲断链.
542These three simple steps have helped me build lasting habits.这三个简单的步骤帮助我建立了持久的习惯.
543What is a habit you built that你所创造的习惯是什么?
544changed your life, Anna?改变了你的生活,安娜?
545The habit that changed my life most is daily reading.改变我一生的习惯是每日阅读
546I started reading我开始读书
547just 10 pages every night before bed.每天睡觉前只有10页
548It seemed like nothing at first, but 10 pages a night is一开始看起来没什么 但每晚有10页
549about 300 pages a month.每月约300页。
550That is one or two books a month.一个月一两本书
551Over one year, I read more than 15 books.一年多,我读了15多本书.
552Those books changed how I think, how I communicate, and how I see the world.这些书改变了我的想法、沟通方式和对世界的看法。
553I learned so many new我学了很多新东西
554about psychology, about habits, about history, about creativity.心理学 习惯 历史 创造力
555I became a better thinker我成了一个更好的思想家
556and a better English speaker, all from 10 pages a night.一个更好的英语演讲者, 全部从晚上10页。
557I never would have believed that at the我绝对不会相信
558start.开始
559This is a great example of how a tiny, consistent habit creates enormous change over这是一个很好的例子 说明一个小的,持续的习惯 如何产生巨大的变化
560time.时间。
561The power of small and consistent actions is amazing.小而一贯行动的力量是惊人的。
562Let's talk about procrastination now,让我们谈谈拖延,现在,
563Mark.马克
564Why do people procrastinate?为什么人们会拖延?
565Procrastination is one of the biggest enemies拖延是最大的敌人之一
566of self-motivation.自动机。
567It means you delay doing something even when you know you should do it.这意味着你推迟做一些事情 即使你知道你应该这样做。
568You say, I'll do it later, and later never comes.你说,我会做以后, 以后永远不会来。
569Why do people procrastinate?为什么人们会拖延?
570It's usually because这通常是因为
571of one of these reasons.这些原因之一。
572First, the task feels too big or overwhelming.首先,任务太大或过于艰巨。
573Second, there's a fear of第二,有人担心
574start, you can't fail.开始,你不能失败。
575Third, there's a fear of imperfection.三是恐有不完善.
576You want to do it perfectly,你想完美地做到这一点,
577so you wait for the perfect moment that never arrives.所以,你等待 完美的时刻,从来没有到来。
578Fourth, the task is boring or unpleasant.第四,任务很无聊或不愉快。
579Understanding why you are procrastinating is the first step to stopping it.理解你为什么拖延是阻止它的第一步。
580Each reason needs a每个原因都需要一个
581different solution.不同的解决方案。
582For the too big reason, break the task into tiny pieces.由于太大的原因,把任务拆成小块.
583For the fear of failure怕失败
584remind yourself that done is better than perfect.提醒自己 做得比完美更好
585Anna, what is your best tip for fighting安娜,什么是你最好的 小费战斗
586procrastination?拖延吗?
587My best tip for fighting procrastination is the five-minute commitment.我与拖延作斗争的最佳提示是五分钟的承诺。
588When I don't want to start something, I tell myself, just do it for five minutes.当我不想开始的时候,我告诉自己,只要做五分钟。
589After five五点之后
590minutes, you can stop if you want.几分钟,你可以停止,如果你想。
591Almost always after five minutes, I am already working and I几乎总是在五分钟后, 我已经在工作了,我
592keep going.继续
593The starting was the barrier, not the task itself.起点是障碍,而不是任务本身。
594Another tip I love is removing我最喜欢的又一个小费是去掉
595distractions before I start.在我开始之前会分心
596I put my phone in another room.我把我的手机放在另一个房间。
597I close unnecessary browser tabs.我关闭不必要的浏览器标签。
598I make myself a cup of tea.我给自己泡杯茶
599Then I sit down with everything ready and nothing to distract me.然后,我坐下来与一切准备 和没有什么让我分心。
600A clear environment helps a clear mind.清晰的环境有助于清晰的思维。
601I also use a timer.我也用计时器
602I work for 25 minutes with full focus,我全神贯注地工作了25分钟
603then take a five-minute break.然后休息五分钟
604This is called the Pomodoro Technique.这叫波莫多罗科技
605It makes long tasks feel very这让漫长的任务感觉非常
606manageable.可控。
607Have you tried the Pomodoro Technique, Mark?你试过波莫多罗技术吗,马克?
608是的,Pomodoro技术是很好的。
609Working for 25 minutes with full focus, then resting for five minutes, then repeating, it keeps工作25分钟 全焦,然后休息5分钟 然后重复,它保持
610your brain fresh and makes deep work very achievable.你的大脑新鲜, 使深层工作非常可以实现。
611I use it for writing, studying,我用它来写作 学习
612and complex tasks.和复杂的任务。
613But even simpler than Pomodoro is just removing your phone from the room.但比波莫多罗更简单的是 把手机从房间里移走
614I think the smartphone is the number one killer of self-motivation in the modern world.我认为智能手机是现代世界自动机第一杀手.
615Every notification is a little interruption.每次通知都有点中断
616Every scroll through social media is five or每个滚动通过社交媒体是五或
617ten minutes of your goal time gone.你10分钟的进球时间走了。
618I started leaving my phone in another room when I work or我上班时把手机放在别的房间
619study and my productivity increased enormously.学习和我的生产力大大提高。
620We are not strong as our habits.我们不像我们的习惯那么强壮。
621Our environment我们的环境
622often controls us.经常控制我们。
623So design your environment to support your goals, not to distract from them.所以设计你的环境来支持你的目标,而不是分散他们的注意力。
624Anna, let's talk about energy and self-motivation.安娜,让我们谈谈能量和自动机
625Are they connected?他们有联系吗?
626Absolutely.当然
627Energy and motivation are very closely connected.能量和动力是紧密相连的.
628When your energy is low,当你的能量很低,
629even small tasks feel impossible.甚至小任务都觉得不可能
630When your energy is high, you feel motivated to do many things.当你精力旺盛的时候,你会觉得有动机做很多事情.
631So taking care of your physical energy is a form of self-motivation.所以照顾身体能量是一种自我激励的形式.
632This means sleeping enough,意思是睡够了
633eating nutritious food, moving your body regularly, and taking real breaks.吃有营养的食物 经常移动身体 休息
634I noticed that my most我发现我最
635motivated periods always coincide with the times I sleep well and exercise regularly.有动机的时期总是与我睡觉和经常锻炼的时间相吻合。
636My lowest我最贱的
637motivation periods are always when I am tired, eating poorly, or sitting too much.动机期总是当我累了,吃得不好,或者坐得太多。
638Many people许多人
639try to push through low energy with willpower or caffeine, but that only works for a short time.尝试用意志力或咖啡因推动低能量,但这只是短期的工作.
640The sustainable solution is to manage your energy levels through good physical habits.可持续的解决方案是通过良好的物理习惯来管理你的能量水平.
641Motivation follows energy.动力跟随能量.
642Mark, when during the day are you most motivated?马克,白天你什么时候最有动机?
643I am definitely a morning person.我绝对是一个早晨的人。
644I feel most sharp, creative, and motivated in the first two我觉得最尖锐,最有创造力,最有动力的前两个
645to three hours after I wake up.3小时后我醒来。
646That's when I do my most important and creative work.那时我做了我最重要和最有创意的工作.
647I protect我保护
648those morning hours very carefully.那些早晨非常谨慎。
649I do not check social media or emails until I've finished my直到我完成我的社交媒体或电子邮件
650important task of the day.今天的重要任务
651After lunch, my energy naturally drops a little.午饭后,我的能量自然会下降一点.
652I use that lower energy我用的是更低的能量
653time for smaller, routine tasks, answering messages, organizing, reading.时间用于较小的例行任务,回答消息,组织,阅读.
654In the late afternoon,下午很晚的时候
655my energy often comes back a little, but not as strongly as the morning.我的能量常常会回来一点, 但不像早上那么强烈。
656Understanding your own了解你自己 了解你自己
657energy patterns is very useful for self-motivation.能量模式对自我激励非常有用。
658Schedule your hardest, most important tasks for安排你最艰难最重要的任务
659your highest energy time.你的最高能量时间。
660Don't waste your peak hours on easy tasks.别把高峰时间浪费在容易的任务上
661Do you know your own energy你知道自己的能量吗?
662patterns, Anna?规律,安娜?
663Yes, I am also more productive in the mornings.是的,我早上也比较有成果。
664My mind feels clearest before noon.中午前我感觉最清楚
665I use that time for writing, learning, or anything that requires real concentration.我用那个时间来写作,学习,或者任何需要真正集中精神的东西.
666In the在那个
667afternoons, I feel slower, so I use that time for lighter work, organizing, responding to messages,午后,我感觉慢了,所以我利用那时间 做更轻松的工作,组织起来,回应信息,
668doing simple tasks.执行简单的任务。
669I also discovered that short afternoon walks boost my energy significantly.我发现下午的散步能大大提升我的能量
670Even a 10-minute walk outside around 3 o'clock gives me a second wave of motivation and energy三点左右出去走10分钟 就能给我第二次动力和精力
671for the rest of the day.今余时.
672I think people underestimate the power of movement as an energy我认为人们低估了运动的力量 作为一种能量
673booster.助动器.
674When you feel unmotivated and sluggish, the best thing to do is often the thing you least当你感到无动力和迟钝时, 最好的事情是 你最不爱做的事
675want to do, get up and move.想做,起来,走。
676It almost always helps.它几乎总是帮助。
677Mark, let's talk about self-talk.马克,我们谈谈自言自语
678How does怎么样
679the way we talk to ourselves affect motivation?我们对自己说话的方式会影响动机吗?
680Self-talk has an enormous effect on motivation.自言自语对动机有巨大影响.
681The words we say to ourselves in our heads are like a constant background voice,我们脑中对自己说的话 就像一个不断的背景声音
682and that voice is either encouraging or discouraging.而这种声音要么是鼓励性的,要么是令人沮丧的。
683Many people have a very harsh很多人都很严厉
684inner critic.内部评论家.
685They say things to themselves like, you're so lazy, you always fail, or you will never他们自言自语 你这么懒 你总是失败 否则你永远不会
686be good enough.足够好。
687That kind of self-talk destroys motivation.这种自言自语会破坏动机
688If a friend talked to you like that,如果一个朋友那样跟你说话
689you would stop spending time with them, but we say these things to ourselves all day.你会停止花时间和他们在一起 但我们整天都对自己说这些
690The good news is that you can change your self-talk.好消息是你可以改变自我对话
691It takes practice, but it is possible.这需要练习,但有可能。
692Notice when the negative voice appears.注意阴性声音出现时
693Challenge it.挑战它。
694Replace it with something换成什么
695realistic.现实主义
696Instead of, I can't do this, try, this is hard, but I can try one step at a time.而不是,我不能做到这一点,尝试,这是很难的, 但我可以尝试一步一步。
697That small shift changes your whole emotional state.那小班改变了你的情绪状态
698Anna, how do you practice positive self-talk?安娜,你如何练习积极的自我对话?
699I practice positive self-talk in several ways.我从几个方面练习积极的自我对话。
700First, I pay attention to my thoughts when I首先,我关注我的想法 当我
701face a challenge.面对挑战。
702If I hear a negative thought, I name it.如果我听到一个负面的想法,我把它命名。
703I say, oh, there's the inner critic again.我说,哦,又有内在的批评家。
704Naming it gives me distance from it.命名它让我远离它。
705It reminds me that the thought is not the truth.它提醒我,思想不是事实。
706It is just a这只是一个
707habit.习惯
708Second, I have a few go-to phrases I use when I need encouragement.第二,我有一些我需要鼓励时使用的措辞。
709For example, one step例如,一步
710at a time.一次来
711Progress is more important than perfection.进步比完美更重要。
712I have done hard things before.我以前做过很辛苦的事
713These phrases are short and simple, but they shift my mindset quickly.这些短语简洁简洁,但迅速改变了我的心态.
714Third, I sometimes第三,我有时候
715speak to myself in the third person.在第三人称中跟我说话
716Instead of, I can't do this, I say, Anna, you can do this.而不是,我不能做到这一点, 我说,安娜,你可以做到这一点。
717Research shows this technique, talking to yourself by name, creates useful emotional研究显示这种技术,用自己的名字说话,创造了有用的情感
718distance and increases self-control and motivation.距离和增强自我控制和动力。
719Do you ever use encouraging phrases, Mark?你用过鼓励语吗,马克?
720Yes.对
721I have a few personal mantras.我有一些个人的漫画。
722Short phrases I repeat to myself when I need strength.当我需要力量时 我会重复短句
723One of mine is, start before you're ready.我的其中一个是,在你准备好之前开始。
724It reminds me not to wait for the perfect conditions.它提醒我不要等待 完美的条件。
725Another one is, discipline is freedom.另一个是,纪律是自由。
726At first, this sounds strange.一开始,这听起来很奇怪。
727How can discipline be纪律如何
728freedom?自由吗?
729But I have found it to be very true.但我发现这是非常真实的。
730When I am disciplined about my goals and habits,当我遵守我的目标和习惯时
731I actually feel freer.其实我觉得更自由。
732I have more energy, more time, and more confidence.我有更多的精力,更多的时间和信心。
733Discipline creates the纪律创建
734我想这么做 I want.
735Without discipline, I drift and feel lost.没有纪律,我漂泊 并感到迷失。
736Another phrase I love is, compare yourself我最喜欢的另一句话是 比较一下你自己
737to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today.昨天你是谁 而不是今天别人是谁
738Comparing yourself to others is把自己和别人比起来
739very damaging to motivation.对动机非常有害
740The only competition that matters is with your past self.唯一重要的竞争就是你的过去
741Are you better你怎么样?
742today than yesterday?今天比昨天还好吗?
743That is what counts.这是最重要的。
744Anna, what is your personal mantra?安娜,你的个人口号是什么?
745My personal mantra is, done is better than perfect.我个人的口号是 做得比完美更好
746I need to remind myself of this often, because I have perfectionist tendencies.我要经常提醒自己 因为我有完美主义倾向
747I sometimes delay finishing things because they are not quite right.我有时会推迟完成 因为它们不太对劲
748But perfectionism,但完美主义,
749as we discussed before, is a motivation killer.正如我们之前讨论过的, 是一个动机杀手。
750It keeps you stuck.它让你卡住了。
751Done is better than perfect完成比完美还好
752reminds me that completing something imperfect is a thousand times more valuable than an提醒我,完成一些不完美的事情 比一个
753masterpiece that exists in my imagination.我想象中的杰作
754I also love the phrase, every day is a new start.我也喜欢这句,每天都是一个新的开始。
755When I have a bad day or miss a habit, I remind myself that tomorrow is a fresh beginning.当我有一个糟糕的一天或错过一个习惯,我提醒自己,明天是一个新的开端。
756The past day is gone.过去日已去.
757I can choose differently tomorrow.我可以选择不同的明天。
758That idea takes the pressure off and keeps me motivated to try again.这个想法消除了压力 让我重新尝试
759Before we say goodbye today, I want to leave our listeners with a few final thoughts.在我们今天告别之前,我想给我们的听众留下一些最后的想法。
760Self-motivation is not about being perfect.自性非是圆满.
761It is not about feeling excited every single day.这不是每天感到兴奋。
762It's about building habits, knowing your why, taking small steps and being kind to yourself这是关于建立习惯, 知道你的原因, 采取小步和善待自己
763when things are hard.当事情变得艰难。
764Every person listening today has goals and dreams inside them.每个人今天聆听 都有目标和梦想
765The question is not whether those goals are possible.问题不在于这些目标是否可能实现。
766They probably are.也许吧
767The question is,问题是,
768will you take the first small step today?你今天会迈出第一步吗?
769Not tomorrow, not next Monday, today.不是明天,不是下周一,今天。
770One step,一步来
771no matter how small.无论多么小。
772That step is the beginning of everything.这个步骤是一切的开始。
773I believe in every person listening.我相信每个人都在听
774You have what it takes.你有它所需要的。
775And remember, motivation follows action.记住,动机是行动
776So go take that first step.所以,去迈出第一步。
777Thank you so much for listening.谢谢你的聆听
778And thank you, Anna, for this wonderful conversation today.谢谢你 安娜 今天的精彩谈话
779Thank you, Mark.谢谢你,马克。
780This was such an energizing and inspiring conversation.这是一个充满活力和鼓舞人心的对话。
781And a huge thank you to all of you who listened today.非常感谢你们今天的所有听众。
782I hope this episode gave you something我希望这集能给你一些东西
783useful.实用。
784A new idea, a tip, a phrase, or just the reminder that you are capable of more than you一个新想法,一个提示,一个短语, 或只是提醒你 你的能力比你更多
785think.以为.
786Self-motivation is a skill.自性为技.
787And like any skill, it grows with practice and patience.像任何技能一样,它会随着练习和耐心而增长。
788Be patient with yourself.耐心点
789Celebrate your small wins.庆祝你的小胜利
790Find your why.找出你为什么。
791Build tiny habits.建立微小的习惯.
792Surround周边
793yourself with people who inspire you.和那些激励你的人在一起
794And please, be kind to your inner voice.请对你的内心声音好点
795You are your own most你是你自己最厉害的
796important coach.重要的教练
797If this podcast helped you even a little, please share it with a friend who might如果播客能帮助你一点 请和朋友分享
798need some motivation today.今天需要一些动力
799Come back next time for more friendly English conversations.下次再来聊聊更友好的英语对话
800Until then,在这之前
801keep going.继续
802You've got this.你得到了这个。
803Goodbye from me, Anna.再见,安娜
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0:00Hello, everyone, and welcome to our podcast.大家好 欢迎收看我们的播客
0:03My name is Anna, and I am so happy you are我叫安娜,我很高兴你
0:06here with us today.今天和我们在一起
0:07Today, we have a very exciting and important topic.今天,我们有一个非常令人兴奋和重要的议题。
0:12We are going我们要走了
0:12to talk about self-motivation.谈论自我激励。
0:15Self-motivation means the ability to push yourself forward,自我激励意味着有能力推进自己,
0:19to do things, reach your goals, and keep going, even when it is hard.做事情,达到你的目标, 并继续前进, 即使它很难。
0:24This topic is important这个问题很重要
0:26for everyone—students, workers, parents, dreamers.对每个人来说——学生、工人、父母、梦想家。
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1Hello, everyone, and welcome to our podcast.大家好 欢迎收看我们的播客
2My name is Anna, and I am so happy you are我叫安娜,我很高兴你
3here with us today.今天和我们在一起
4Today, we have a very exciting and important topic.今天,我们有一个非常令人兴奋和重要的议题。
5We are going我们要走了
6to talk about self-motivation.谈论自我激励。
7Self-motivation means the ability to push yourself forward,自我激励意味着有能力推进自己,
8to do things, reach your goals, and keep going, even when it is hard.做事情,达到你的目标, 并继续前进, 即使它很难。
9This topic is important这个问题很重要
10for everyone—students, workers, parents, dreamers.对每个人来说——学生、工人、父母、梦想家。
11Everyone needs motivation in life.每个人都需要生活中的动力
12I am joined today by my wonderful co-host, Mark.我今天和我的好搭档马克在一起
13We will talk about what motivation is,我们来谈谈动机是什么
14why we lose it, and how to find it again.为什么我们失去它, 以及如何再次找到它。
15We use simple English, so this podcast is我们使用简单的英语,所以这个播客是
16perfect for beginners.适合初学者
17Hi, Mark, how are you feeling today?嗨,马克,你今天感觉怎么样?
18And are you ready to talk about你准备好谈论
19self-motivation?自我激励?
20Hi, Anna.嗨,安娜,你好吗?
21I am feeling great and very motivated today, which is perfect for our topic.我今天感到棒极了,非常有动力,这非常适合我们的主题。
22Hello哈罗
23to all our wonderful listeners.我们所有的听众。
24Self-motivation is one of my favorite subjects.自动机是我最喜欢的学科之一.
25I think about我想着
26it a lot, because honestly, staying motivated is something I have personally struggled with有很多,因为说实话, 保持积极性是我个人奋斗过的事情
27over the years.多年来
28I have had periods of very high energy and ambition, and other periods我曾经有过非常高的精力和雄心以及其他时期
29of feeling completely stuck.感觉完全卡住了。
30Learning about self-motivation helped me understand why that学习自我激励有助于我理解为什么
31and what to do about it.怎么办呢?
32And the good news is, self-motivation is a skill.好消息是,自我激励是一种技能。
33You can learn你可以学的
34it and get better at it over time.随时间变好
35That is very encouraging.这非常令人鼓舞。
36So let's explore this topic我们来探讨一下这个话题
37together today.今天我们在一起
38Anna, let's start from the beginning.安娜,让我们从头开始。
39What exactly is self-motivation?什么是自我激励?
40Great question.问得好
41Self-motivation is the inner drive that makes you want to do something自动机是内在的驱动力,让你想做点什么
42or achieve something without needing someone else to push you.或者做点什么 不需要别人推你
43When you are self-motivated,当你自动机,
44you start things by yourself.你一个人开始的
45You keep going by yourself.你继续自己去。
46You don't wait for your boss,你不等着你的老板,
47your teacher, or your parents to tell you what to do.你的老师,或者你的父母 告诉你该怎么做。
48You just do it because you want你这样做只是因为你想
49to.改为。
50There are two types of motivation.动机有两种.
51The first is external motivation.第一是外部动机。
52This means you这表示你
53do something because of an outside reward, like money, praise, or grades.做一些事,因为外面的奖励,比如金钱,赞美,或者成绩.
54The second第二个
55is internal motivation.是内部动机
56You do something because it makes you feel happy, proud or fulfilled你做一些事情,因为它让你觉得快乐,骄傲或满足
57inside.进去
58Self-motivation is mostly about internal motivation.自动机主要是内部动机.
59Mark, what do you think is the马克,你认为什么是
60difference between the two types in everyday life?在日常生活中这两种类型的区别?
61The difference is very important in everyday life.差别在日常生活中非常重要.
62External motivation works well for a外部动机对一个
63short time.时间很短
64For example, if your boss gives you a bonus, you feel motivated for a while.例如,如果你的老板给你奖金,你会觉得有一段时间的积极性.
65But when the bonus is gone, the motivation often disappears too.但当奖金没了,动机也经常消失.
66Internal motivation内部动机
67lasts longer because it comes from inside you.因为它来自你体内,所以会持续更长的时间。
68For example, when I started learning例如,当我开始学习
69to cook, nobody asked me to do it, and nobody paid me.没有人要我做饭 没人付钱给我
70I did it because I found it fun and我这样做是因为我发现它很有趣,
71creative.创意。
72That internal joy kept me going for months.那种内心的欢乐让我持续了好几个月
73I practiced every weekend.我每个周末都练习
74Now现在
75I cook very well.我煮得很不错
76External motivation can start things, but internal motivation sustains外部动机可以启动,但内部动机维持
77them.他们。
78So if you want to stay motivated over a long time, it helps to find something that所以,如果你想保持 动机长时间, 它有助于找到的东西
79you genuinely care about and enjoy.你真正关心和享受。
80Anna, do you think some people are naturally more motivated than others?安娜,你认为一些人 自然比其他人更有动机吗?
81That is a great question.问得好
82I think some people seem naturally more energetic and driven.我认为有些人看起来自然而然地更充满活力和动力.
83But I believe motivation is mostly a skill and a habit, not just a fixed personality但我认为动机主要是技巧和习惯 不只是固定的个性
84trait.特质
85Some people learned good motivation habits early in life, maybe from their parents有些人早年学会了良好的动机习惯,也许从父母那里
86or teachers.或老师。
87Others had to learn later.其他人后来必须学习。
88But anyone can build stronger motivation at any但任何人都可以建立更强的动力
89age.年龄
90What matters more than natural personality is your mindset, how you think about challenges,比自然个性更重要的是 你的心态,你如何思考挑战,
91effort and failure.努力和失败。
92People with a growth mindset believe they can improve through effort.有增长心态的人相信,他们可以通过努力来改善。
93They他们
94see failure as a lesson, not as proof that they are not good enough.将失败视为教训,而不是证明它们不够好。
95That mindset creates这种心态创造了
96strong self-motivation.强烈的自动机。
97People with a fixed mindset think abilities are fixed.有固定心态的人认为能力是固定的.
98You either你也一样
99have them or you don't.有他们,或你没有。
100That thinking kills motivation.这种想法会扼杀动机。
101Mark, have you heard of the growth马克,你听说过成长吗?
102mindset before?之前的心态?
103Yes.对
104The growth mindset comes from the work of psychologist Carol Dweck.成长的心态来自心理学家卡罗尔·德韦克的作品.
105She did many她做过很多
106years of research and found that students who believed their abilities could grow and多年的研究发现,那些相信自己的能力可以成长的学生
107improve performed much better than students who believed their abilities were fixed.比起那些相信自己的能力已经固定的学生,成绩要好得多。
108It这个
109is a very powerful idea.这是一个非常强大的想法。
110I remember when I first heard about it, I realized I had been我记得我第一次听说的时候 我意识到我一直
111using a fixed mindset in some areas of my life.用固定的心态 在我生活的某些领域。
112For example, I always said, I am bad比如,我总是说,我很坏
113at math.在数学。
114That's just who I am.这就是我是谁。
115That belief stopped me from even trying to get better.这种信念阻止了我甚至试图好转。
116When I changed to a growth mindset and said, I can improve at math if I practice and get当我改用成长思维时,我说, 如果我练习和得到的数学可以提高
117help, everything changed.救命,一切都变了。
118I started trying harder and I did improve.我开始更努力地努力,我确实有所改进。
119Your beliefs about你对
120yourself directly affect your motivation.直接影响到你的动机。
121Anna, how did you first learn about self-motivation?安娜,你是怎么学会自我激励的?
122I started learning about self-motivation after a difficult year in my mid-twenties.我20多岁时开始学习自我激励
123I had我有过
124big dreams.大梦
125I wanted to start my own small business, improve my English, travel more,我想开始自己的小生意, 改进我的英语, 旅行更多,
126and get healthy.并获得健康。
127But I wasn't doing any of those things.但我没有做那些事
128I had the dreams, but not the我有梦想,但不是
129action.行动。
130I felt frustrated and confused.我感到沮丧和困惑。
131Why could I not just do the things I wanted to我为什么不能做我想做的事
132I started reading books about habits and motivation.我开始读关于习惯和动机的书。
133One book that changed my life was about setting一本改变我人生的书 是关于设定
134clear goals and taking small actions every day.目标明确,每天都采取小规模行动。
135I learned that motivation doesn't always我学会了动机并不总是
136come first.先来
137Sometimes action comes first, and motivation follows.有时行动首先,动机随之而来。
138That was a completely那是个完全的
139new idea for me.对我来说是新主意
140I thought you had to feel motivated before you could act, but actually,我想你必须觉得 动机之前,你可以采取行动,但实际上,
141you often feel motivated after you start acting.在你开始演戏后,你常常觉得有动力
142Mark, what do you think about that idea?马克,你觉得怎么样?
143I think that idea is one of the most useful things anyone can learn about motivation.我认为,这个想法是任何人都能学到的关于动机的最有用的东西之一。
144Many people wait to feel motivated before they begin.许多人在开始前等着感到有动力。
145They say, I will start exercising他们说,我会开始锻炼
146when I feel more energetic, or I will study when I feel like it.当我感觉更充满活力, 或者我会学习 当我喜欢它。
147But that feeling often但那种感觉往往
148never comes, or it comes and goes very quickly.永远不会来, 或者它来和去非常快。
149The secret is to start even when you don't秘诀是即使你没有开始
150feel like it.感觉像它。
151Start small.开始小。
152Do just two minutes.就两分钟
153Just open the book.把书打开
154Just put on your shoes.只要穿上你的鞋子。
155That small start usually creates a little momentum, and momentum builds motivation.这种小的开始通常会产生一点势头,而势头则会产生积极性。
156I heard someone compare it to pushing a heavy cart.我听说有人把它比作推重车
157It's hardest to move at the very beginning,一开始很难动起来
158but once it starts rolling, it's much easier to keep going.但一旦它开始滚动, 它更容易继续。
159Starting is always the hardest开始总是最难的
160part.编。
161Have you experienced this, Anna?你经历过吗,安娜?
162Yes, absolutely.是的,当然。
163This is something I experience这是我经历的
164almost every week.几乎每个星期。
165For example, I go for morning walks.比如说,我去散步
166There are many mornings when I wake up,我醒来的时候有很多早晨
167and I really don't want to go.而我真的不想去。
168My bed is warm and comfortable, and going outside in the cold我的床暖和舒适 寒冷地出去
169seems terrible.看起来很可怕
170But I have a rule.但我有一个规则。
171I just put on my walking shoes.我只是穿上我的步行鞋。
172That's it.就这样
173Just the shoes.只穿鞋子,别穿了
174Once I have my shoes on, I almost always go.一旦我穿上鞋子,我几乎总是去。
175And once I am outside and walking, I feel wonderful.一旦我出去走走,我感觉棒极了
176I am always happy I went.我总是很高兴我去了。
177I never come home and think, I wish I had stayed in bed.我从来没有回家思考, 我希望我留在床上。
178The motivation follows the action.动机跟随行动。
179This is called the two-minute rule by some coaches.这被一些教练称为两分钟规则.
180You just commit to two minutes of anything.你只要承诺两分钟就够了
181Often, two minutes turns into 20.通常,两分钟变成20分钟。
182What small这么小
183actions help you start when you don't feel motivated, Mark?行动帮助你开始 当你觉得没有动机,马克?
184For me, the biggest small对我来说,最大的小
185action is making my bed in the morning.明早我就要睡觉了
186It sounds so simple and almost silly, but it works for me.听起来很简单 几乎很傻 但对我有效
187When I make my bed, I have already completed one task.当我上床时,我已经完成了一项任务。
188My brain feels a small win and it wants我的大脑觉得一个小胜利 它想要
189another.另一个
190That feeling of completion gives me energy and a sense of control over the day.这种完成感给了我精力和对一天的控制感。
191Another small action I use is writing one sentence in my journal first thing in the morning.我用的另一个小动作是 早上在日记上写一句话
192Just one sentence about how I feel or what I want from the day.就一句话 关于我的感受 或我想要的一天。
193Once I write that one sentence,一旦我写了一句
194I usually write more.我通常写得更多。
195These entry point habits are very powerful.这些进入点的习惯是非常强大的.
196They lower the barrier to他们把障碍物降低到
197starting.开始
198The hardest part of any task is beginning.任何任务中最难的部分都在开始。
199Make the beginning as small as possible,让开始尽可能小,
200and you make it easy to start.你让它容易开始。
201Let's talk about goals now, Anna.让我们谈谈目标,安娜。
202How important are goals for目标对于
203self-motivation?自我激励?
204Goals are extremely important for self-motivation.目标对于自我激励极为重要。
205Without a clear goal,没有明确的目标
206motivation has nowhere to go.动机无处可去。
207Imagine you are driving a car, but you have no destination.想象一下你在开车,但你没有目的地。
208You would just drive around without purpose.你无心开车到处走走
209Goals give you direction.目标给你方向。
210They tell you where to go他们告诉你去哪里
211and why.还有为什么
212But not all goals are created equal.但并非所有目标都是平等的。
213I think goals need to be specific and personal.我认为目标必须具体和针对个人。
214A goal like, I want to be healthier, is too vague.我想更健康的目标太模糊了
215A better goal is, I will walk for 30 minutes,更好的进球是 我会走30分钟
216three times a week, for the next month.每周三次,下个月
217That is specific, measurable, and realistic.这是具体、可衡量和现实的。
218Also, the goal needs to be your goal, not your parent's goal, not your teacher's goal,还有 目标必须是你的目标 而不是你父母的目标 也不是你老师的目标
219not what society says you should want.而不是社会上说你应该想要的
220Goals that come from your own values and desires源自自己价值观和愿望的目标
221create much stronger motivation.创造出更强大的动力。
222Mark, how do you set your goals?马克,你怎么确定你的目标?
223I use a simple system that I我使用一个简单的系统,我
224learned a few years ago.几年前学的
225I set goals in three time frames.我在三个时间框架内设定了目标。
226First, I have a big, long-term goal,首先,我有个长远的目标
227something I want in the next one to three years.接下来一到三年我想要的东西
228For example, improving my professional skills or例如,提高我的专业技能或
229building a healthy lifestyle.建立健康的生活方式。
230Second, I break that big goal into smaller monthly goals.第二,我打破了这个大目标 成为较小的月度目标。
231What can I我能怎么办?
232do this month to move toward the big goal?这个月要向大目标迈进吗?
233Third, I break the monthly goal into weekly actions.第三,我打破了每月的目标 成为每周的行动。
234What will I do this week, specifically?我这周要做什么?
235This system makes big, scary goals feel manageable.这个系统使大而可怕的目标感觉可以管理.
236Instead of thinking, I want to write a book someday, which feels impossible,而不是思考,我想写一本书 某天,这感觉不可能,
237I think, I will write 200 words today.我想,今天我会写200个字。
238200 words a day becomes a book over time.每天200个字会随着时间演变成一本书.
239Small steps,小步骤,
240big results.大结果。
241Do you write down your goals, Anna?你记下你的目标了吗,安娜?
242Yes.对
243Writing goals down is very important to me.写下目标对我很重要。
244There's a well-known idea that people who write their goals are much more likely to achieve them.有一个众所周知的想法,即写目标的人更有可能实现.
245When you write a goal, it becomes more real and more serious.当你写一个目标, 它变得更真实和严重。
246It moves from a vague wish它从一个模糊的愿望转移
247in your head to a clear intention on paper.在你的头脑中,在纸上明确的意图。
248I write my goals in my journal at the beginning我一开始在日记上写我的目标
249of every month, and I review them every week.每个月,我每星期都检讨
250Reviewing goals regularly is just as important定期审查目标同样重要
251as writing them.写他们。
252It keeps your attention focused.它让你的注意力集中。
253We are very easily distracted by social media,我们很容易被社交媒体分心,
254by other people's opinions, by daily problems.别人的意见, 日常问题。
255Reviewing your goals brings you back to what检讨目标让你回到
256matters to you.对你很重要
257I also write why next to each goal.我还写了为什么每个目标旁边。
258Why do I want this?为什么我要这个?
259The why is very powerful.原因非常强大。
260It is the fuel for motivation.这是动机的燃料。
261Mark, let's talk about the why.马克,我们谈谈原因吧
262How important is knowing认识有多重要
263your why?为什么?
264Knowing your why is perhaps the most important thing in self-motivation.了解你的原因也许是自我激励中最重要的事
265The why is your reason for doing something.为什么要做点什么?
266And the deeper and more personal the reason,更深入 更个人的原因,
267the more powerful the motivation.更强大的动机。
268For example, someone might say their goal is to exercise.例如,有人可能会说他们的目标是锻炼.
269Their why could be to lose weight, to feel more energetic, to be healthy for their children,他们为什么要减肥, 感觉更活跃, 为孩子健康,
270or to feel confident.或觉得自信。
271The last two reasons, being there for children, feeling confident,最后两个原因, 在那里为孩子, 感到自信,
272are emotionally strong.情绪很强壮
273They connect to core human needs.它们与人类的核心需求相关联。
274When things get hard,当事情变得艰难,
275those deep reasons keep you going.这些深层原因让你继续前进。
276A shallow why breaks under pressure.一个浅浅的原因,在压力下破裂。
277A deep why holds.一个深层原因
278I think it is worth spending time asking yourself honestly, why do I really want this?我觉得值得花时间 问你自己诚实, 为什么我真的想要这个?
279What will it怎么样?
280mean for my life?对我的生活意味着什么?
281The answer reveals a lot.答案揭示了很多。
282Anna, what is a why that has driven you strongly?安娜,你为什么这么强烈?
283One of my strongest whys was learning English seriously.我最强的一个原因 就是认真学习英语
284My surface reason was,我的表面原因是,
285I want a better job.我想要一个更好的工作。
286But when I dug deeper, the real reason was, I want to communicate with people但是当我挖得更深时 真正的原因是 我想和别人沟通
287from all over the world.从世界各地。
288I want to read books in their original language.我想用他们的原始语言读书。
289I want to travel我想出门
290freely and not feel lost.自由而不会感到迷失
291I want to feel confident and capable.我想感到自信和能力。
292Those deeper reasons were very这些更深层的原因非常
293emotional for me.对我来说是感情上的
294They connected to my identity and my dreams.他们把我的身份和梦想联系起来
295On days when studying English was学习英语的日子
296boring or hard, I remembered those reasons and kept going.无聊或辛苦,我记得这些原因,继续前进。
297Now I'm here, hosting an English podcast.现在我在这里,主持一个英国播客。
298The why really works.真正起作用的原因
299I also think it helps to picture yourself after you achieve the goal.我也认为它帮助想象自己 在你达成目标之后。
300How will you feel?你会有什么感觉?
301What will your life look like?你的生活会是什么样子?
302That visualization is a great motivator.这种视觉化是一个伟大的驱动器。
303Do you use visualization, Mark?你使用视觉,马克?
304Yes.对
305Visualization is a technique used by many athletes,视觉是很多运动员使用的一种技术,
306performers, and successful people.表演者和成功者。
307You close your eyes and imagine yourself achieving your goal你闭上眼睛,想象自己实现你的目标
308in detail.细节。
309What do you see?你看见什么了?
310What do you hear?你听见什么了?
311How do you feel?你感觉怎么样?
312The more vivid and detailed the image,越是生动细致的画面,
313the better.这样更好
314Your brain responds to a strong mental image in a way that is similar to actually你的大脑对一个强烈的 精神形象的反应 类似实际上
315experiencing it.经历它。
316It builds confidence and desire.它建立信任和愿望。
317I use visualization when I have a big presentation我用视觉,当我有一个大的演示
318or a new challenge.或者是新的挑战
319I close my eyes and picture myself doing it confidently and well.我闭上眼睛,想象自己有自信地做得很好。
320It reduces它会减少
321my fear and increases my motivation.我的恐惧和增加我的动机。
322But I also think visualization should be paired with planning但我也认为视觉应该与规划相结合
323and action.行动
324Just imagining a goal without working toward it is just daydreaming.只是幻想一个目标而不努力去追求它 只是白日梦
325You need both the你需要两个
326plan.计划。
327Let's talk about planning now, Anna.我们现在谈谈计划,安娜
328How does a plan help motivation?计划如何帮助激励?
329A plan is like a map计划就像地图
330for your motivation.为了你的动机。
331Without a plan, you have a goal, but you don't know how to get there.没有计划,你有一个目标, 但你不知道如何到达那里。
332That uncertainty is very discouraging.这种不确定性令人非常沮丧。
333You feel overwhelmed and don't know where to start.你感到不堪重负 不知从何说起
334A clear, simple plan removes that confusion.一个明确、简单的计划可以消除这种混乱。
335It says, do this today, do this tomorrow,它说,今天做,明天做,
336do this next week.下周再做这个
337You follow the steps and slowly you move forward.你跟着台阶慢慢向前走
338I keep my plans very simple.我的计划很简单
339I don't write complicated systems.我不写复杂的系统。
340I just write three things I will do today that move me toward我只是写了三件事,今天我会做, 使我走向
341my goal.我的目标。
342Just three things.仅三事.
343That is manageable and not overwhelming.这是可以管理的,而不是压倒性的。
344I also plan for obstacles.我也计划设置障碍
345I ask myself, what might stop me today?我问自己 今天有什么能阻止我?
346And what will I do if that happens?如果发生这种事我该怎么办?
347This kind of这样
348feel prepared and confident.感到准备和自信。
349Mark, what do you do when your plan doesn't work?马克,你做什么 当你的计划不起作用?
350When my plan doesn't work, I try not to treat it as a failure.当我的计划失败了,我尽量不把它当作失败.
351I treat it as information.我把它当作信息
352Something东西
353didn't work.没用
354Okay, why?好吧,为什么?
355Was the plan too ambitious?计划是不是太雄心勃勃了?
356Was the timing wrong?时机不对吗?
357Was I missing a skill or我错过了技能或
358resource?资源?
359I ask those questions and I adjust.我问了那些问题,我做了调整。
360Flexibility is very important in self-motivation.灵活性在自动机中非常重要.
361Many people have an all or nothing mindset.许多人都有或根本没有思想。
362If they miss one day of exercise, they say,如果他们错过一天锻炼, 他们说,
363I failed.我失败了
364I give up.我放弃了
365But that is not realistic.但这不现实。
366Life is messy.生活是混乱的。
367Plans change.计划改变。
368The key is not to关键是不要
369be perfect.完美无缺
370It is to be persistent.这将是持久的。
371Persist means you keep going even after small failures.坚持就是说,在小失败之后你还会继续前进
372I sometimes think of motivation like a bouncing ball.我有时会把动机想成弹球
373You will drop it sometimes.有时候你会放弃的
374That is normal.这是正常的。
375The important thing is to pick it back up again.重要的事情是把它重新捡起来。
376How do you handle failure and setbacks, Anna?你怎么应付失败和挫折,安娜?
377Handling failure is one of the most important skills for self-motivation.处理失败是自动机最重要的技能之一.
378When something goes当事情发生
379wrong, my first step is to allow myself to feel disappointed, but only for a short time.错了,我的第一步是允许自己感到失望,但只是短暂的.
380I give我给
381myself one day to feel bad.我总有一天会觉得很糟
382Then I move on.然后我继续前进
383I think it is important to allow negative feelings,我认为必须允许负面情绪
384but not to live in them forever.但不是永远生活在其中。
385After that short feeling time, I look at what happened objectively.在短暂的感受之后,我客观地审视了发生了什么。
386What went wrong?发生什么了?
387What can I learn?我能学到什么?
388What will I do differently?我该怎么办?
389I write these things down.我把这些写下来。
390This这个
391turns a failure into a lesson.把失败变成教训
392It keeps my self-respect and my forward momentum.它保持了我的自尊和前进势头。
393I also我也一样
394remind myself of past successes.提醒我过去的成功。
395When I doubt myself after a failure, I look at my journal当我在失败后怀疑自己时,我看我的日记
396and read about times I succeeded.并阅读了我成功的时光。
397That reminder gives me confidence to try again.那提醒让我有信心再试一次
398Let's talk about让我们谈谈
399confidence and motivation.信心和动机。
400Are they connected, Mark?他们有联系吗,马克?
401Yes, confidence and motivation are deeply是的,信心和动机是深厚的
402connected.连接。
403When you feel confident, you believe you can do something, so you try.当你感到自信时,你相信你能做点什么,所以你尝试一下.
404When you try当你尝试
405and succeed, your confidence grows.并成功, 你的信心增强。
406And growing confidence increases your motivation.信心的增强增加了你的动力
407It's a这是一个
408positive cycle.积极循环。
409But the opposite is also true.但相反的情况也是事实。
410When you feel low confidence, you doubt yourself当你感到信心低落,你怀疑自己
411and avoid trying.并避免尝试。
412When you avoid things, you miss the chance to succeed, and that decreases当你逃避事物, 你错过了成功的机会, 而减少
413your motivation further.你的动机进一步。
414So how do you build confidence?那你是怎么建立信任的?
415Mainly through small successes.主要通过小的成功。
416You你们
417set a small achievable goal.设定了一个可以实现的小目标。
418You achieve it.你实现了它。
419You feel proud and capable.你感到骄傲和有能力。
420You set another small goal.你设定了另一个小目标。
421Over time, these small wins build a strong foundation of confidence.随着时间的推移,这些小赢家建立了牢固的信任基础.
422I always say,我总是说,
423success builds success.成功建立成功。
424One small win is the seed of the next.一个小胜是下一个的种子.
425Anna, what gives you confidence when安娜,是什么让你有信心
426you feel low?你感觉低落?
427When I feel low in confidence, a few things help me.当信心低落时,有几件事对我有所帮助.
428First, I remember my past首先,我记得我的过去
429wins.赢了。
430I have a small list I keep in my journal, moments when I did something I was proud of.我有一个小列表 我保留在我的日记, 的时刻,当我做了 我骄傲的事情。
431Reading that list reminds me that I am capable.看那张名单让我想起我有能力
432Second, I do something I am already good at.第二,我做了一些我已经擅长的事情。
433If I feel insecure about a new challenge, I first do a task I know I can complete well.如果我对新的挑战感到不安全,我首先做一项我知道可以完成的任务。
434That small success warms up my confidence, like stretching before exercise.这一小的成功加强了我的信心,就像锻炼前的伸展。
435Third, I talk to第三,我和你说
436someone who believes in me.一个相信我的人
437Sometimes we need a friend to remind us of our strengths.有时我们需要一个朋友来提醒我们的长处。
438We can be我们可以
439very blind to our own abilities.完全无视我们的能力
440Having one or two people who genuinely support you is incredibly有一两个人真正支持你 真是不可思议
441valuable for motivation.对动机很有价值
442Mark, how does the people around us affect our self-motivation?马克,我们周围的人 如何影响我们的自我动力?
443The people around us have a huge effect on our motivation, probably more than we realize.我们周围的人对我们的动机有着巨大的影响,可能比我们意识到的还要大.
444Research shows that we are strongly influenced by the habits and attitudes of the people we spend研究表明,我们受到我们所花费的人的习惯和态度的强烈影响。
445the most time with.与时间最多。
446If you are surrounded by motivated, positive, ambitious people, their如果你被积极、积极、雄心勃勃的人包围
447energy is contagious.能量会传染
448You naturally start to think and act like them.你自然地开始思考并表现得像他们一样.
449But if you spend most of your但如果你花了大部分时间
450time with people who complain, give up easily, or discourage new ideas, that energy is also contagious,与那些抱怨,轻易放弃, 或劝阻新思想的人在一起 认为能量也是传染性的,
451in a negative direction.向负面方向前进。
452I'm not saying you should abandon friends who struggle,我不是说你应该抛弃那些挣扎的朋友
453but I do think you should be intentional about where you spend your energy and who you listen to.但我确实认为你应该故意 把你精力花在什么地方 以及你听谁的话
454Find people who inspire you.找到激励你的人
455Spend more time with them.花更多的时间和他们在一起。
456Their motivation will feed yours.他们的动机会满足你的
457Do you have people like that in your life, Anna?你有这样的人吗,安娜?
458Yes, I have a few people who are very important对,我有几个重要人物
459for my motivation.为了我的动机。
460My best friend is a very hardworking and creative person.我最好的朋友是一个非常勤奋和有创造力的人.
461When I am around当我在身边
462her, I feel more energetic and ambitious.她,我觉得更 充满活力和野心。
463She inspires me without even trying.她激励我,甚至没有尝试。
464I also follow我也跟着
465a few people online, writers, coaches, creators, whose work and words inspire me.少数网络人物,作家,导师,创作者,他们的作品和文字启发了我.
466Reading their读他们
467stories or watching their videos helps me feel connected to a bigger world of motivated people.故事或观看他们的视频能帮助我感受到 与一个更大的充满积极性的人的世界的联系。
468I think community is very powerful for motivation.我认为社区对激励非常强大。
469Many people join groups or clubs,很多人加入团体或俱乐部,
470running groups, study groups, online communities, where everyone shares the same goal.管理团体,学习团体,网络社区,每个人都有相同的目标.
471That shared这分享
472energy is very motivating.能量很有动力
473You feel less alone in your efforts.你在努力中感到不那么孤独。
474And when others see your progress,当其他人看到你的进步,
475it encourages you to continue.它鼓励你继续。
476Have you ever joined a group to help with motivation, Mark?你加入过一个团体 帮助激励,马克?
477Yes.对
478A few years ago, I joined a running group.几年前,我加入了一个跑步团体。
479I'm not a natural runner.我不是一个自然的跑者。
480I find it hard,我觉得很难
481and I used to hate it.我曾经讨厌它。
482But when I started running with a group every Saturday morning,但我每周六早上开始和一群人一起跑步
483everything changed.一切都变了
484I did not want to let the group down.我不想让小组失望。
485I knew they would be there,我知道他们会在那里,
486and I didn't want to be the person who didn't show up.我不想成为那个没出现的人
487That social commitment was very motivating.这种社会承诺非常激励人心。
488Over time, I also started to enjoy the conversations during the runs.随着时间推移,我开始享受 运行期间的对话。
489And the feeling of finishing a run with a group is wonderful.和一群人一起跑步的感觉真好
490You celebrate together.你们一起庆祝
491I went from hating running to looking forward to Saturdays.我从讨厌跑步到期待周六
492The group changed my motivation集团改变了我的动机
493completely.完全没有。
494Commitment to others is a very powerful tool for motivation.对他人的承诺是激励他人的一个非常有力的工具。
495When you make a promise to yourself, it's easy to break.当自许之,易破之.
496When you make a promise to others,当你对别人许下诺言
497it's much harder.这更难。
498Anna, let's talk about habits and routines now.安娜,让我们谈谈习惯和常规。
499Yes.对
500Habits and routines are incredibly important for self-motivation.身体机能和日常活动对自我动力来说非常重要。
501Here's the thing about motivation.动机是这样的
502It naturally goes up and down.自然上下行.
503Some days,有时候
504you feel very driven and energetic.你感到非常驱动和精力充沛。
505Other days, you feel flat and unmotivated.其他的日子,你感觉平坦,没有动机。
506If your progress如果你的进展
507depends only on your feelings, you will be very inconsistent.取决于你的感受, 你会非常不一致。
508But if your progress depends on但如果你的进展取决于
509habits and routines, you keep moving forward even on low motivation days.习惯和习惯, 你继续前进, 即使低动力的日子。
510A habit is an automatic behavior.习惯是自动行为
511You do it without thinking too much.你这样做没有太多思考。
512You brush your teeth你刷牙 刷牙 刷牙 刷牙
513every morning, not because you feel motivated, but because it is a habit.每天早上,不是因为你觉得有动力 而是因为那是习惯
514You can build the same kind你也可以造同样的
515of automatic behavior around your goals.在你的目标周围的自动行为
516If studying English every morning becomes a habit,如果每天早上学习英语成为习惯
517you will do it whether you feel motivated or not.无论你有没有动机,你都会这么做的
518Consistency beats motivation every single time.一贯性每次都能战胜动机.
519Mark, how do you build good habits?马克,你如何建立良好的习惯?
520Building good habits is a skill.建立良好的习惯是一种技能.
521I follow a few我跟着几个
522simple principles.简单的原则。
523First, I make the habit very easy to start.首先,我让习惯很容易开始。
524If the habit is too hard如果习惯太难
525at the beginning, I will avoid it.首先,我会避免它。
526So I start with the smallest possible version.所以我从最小的版本开始。
527Want to read more?想读更多吗?
528Start with one page a night.从每晚一页开始。
529Want to exercise?想锻炼吗?
530Start with five minutes.从五分钟开始
531Once一次
532the habit is established, I can gradually increase it.习惯已经确立,我可以逐渐增加它。
533Second, I link the new habit to an existing one,第二,我把新习惯和旧习惯联系起来,
534habit stacking.习惯堆叠。
535After I drink my morning coffee, I will do 10 minutes of English practice.喝完早上的咖啡,我会做十分钟的英语练习。
536The那个
537habits.习惯。
538I use a simple calendar and put a mark on every day I do the habit.我用一个简单的日历,每天在习惯上打个记号。
539A streak of marks is一连串的标记是
540very motivating.非常激励人心
541You don't want to break the chain.不欲断链.
542These three simple steps have helped me build这三个简单的步骤 帮助我建设
543lasting habits.长久的习惯。
544What is a habit you built that changed your life, Anna?安娜,你造的改变人生的习惯是什么?
545The habit that changed改变的习惯
546my life most is daily reading.我一生最爱的就是每日阅读
547I started reading just 10 pages every night before bed.我每晚睡觉前只读10页
548It seemed看起来
549like nothing at first, but 10 pages a night is about 300 pages a month.但每晚10页 每月约300页
550That is one or two books这是一两本书
551a month.一个月
552Over one year, I read more than 15 books.一年多,我读了15多本书.
553Those books changed how I think, how I communicate,那些书改变了我的想法 改变了我的交流方式
554and how I see the world.我如何看待这个世界。
555I learned so many new things about psychology, about habits,我学到了很多关于心理学和习惯的新东西
556about history, about creativity.关于历史, 关于创造力。
557I became a better thinker and a better English speaker,我成了一个更好的思想家 一个更好的英语演讲者,
558all from 10 pages a night.全从10页每晚。
559I never would have believed that at the start.一开始我绝不会相信
560This is a great example of how a tiny, consistent habit creates enormous change over time.这是一个很好的例子,说明一个小而一贯的习惯 如何在一段时间里产生巨大的变化。
561The power of small and consistent actions is amazing.小而一贯行动的力量是惊人的。
562Let's talk about procrastination now,让我们谈谈拖延,现在,
563Mark.马克
564Why do people procrastinate?为什么人们会拖延?
565Procrastination is one of the biggest拖延是最大的问题之一
566enemies of self-motivation.自我激励的敌人。
567It means you delay doing something even when you know you should do意思是,即使你知道你应该做,你也会拖延做一些事情
568it.这个
569You say, I'll do it later, and later never comes.你说,我会做以后, 以后永远不会来。
570Why do people procrastinate?为什么人们会拖延?
571It's usually这通常
572because of one of these reasons.因为其中一个原因
573First, the task feels too big or overwhelming.首先,任务太大或过于艰巨。
574Second, there's a第二,有一个
575fear of imperfection.担心不完美。
576You want to do it perfectly, so you wait for the perfect moment that never你想完美地完成它, 所以你等待 完美的时刻,从来没有
577arrives.来了
578Fourth, the task is boring or unpleasant.第四,任务很无聊或不愉快。
579Understanding why you are procrastinating is the理解你为什么拖延是
580first step to stopping it.第一步来阻止它。
581Each reason needs a different solution.每一种原因都需要不同的解决方案。
582For the too big reason,因为这个大原因,
583break the task into tiny pieces.将任务分割成小块。
584For the fear of failure reason, remind yourself that done is因为害怕失败的原因,提醒自己,做
585better than perfect.胜过完美
586Anna, what is your best tip for fighting procrastination?安娜,你有什么最好的小费 对抗拖延?
587My best tip for fighting procrastination is the five-minute commitment.我与拖延作斗争的最佳提示是五分钟的承诺。
588When I don't want to start当我不想开始的时候
589something, I tell myself, just do it for five minutes.我告诉自己 做五分钟就好
590After five minutes, you can stop if you五分钟后,你可以停下来,如果你
591want.想要吗?
592Almost always after five minutes, I am already working, and I keep going.几乎总是在五分钟后,我已经在工作,我继续工作。
593The starting开始
594was the barrier, not the task itself.是障碍,而不是任务本身。
595Another tip I love is removing distractions before I start.我最喜欢的另外一个小费是在我开始前 消除分心
596I put my phone in another room.我把我的手机放在另一个房间。
597I close unnecessary browser tabs.我关闭不必要的浏览器标签。
598I make myself a cup of tea.我给自己泡杯茶
599Then I sit down with everything ready and nothing to distract me.然后,我坐下来与一切准备 和没有什么让我分心。
600A clear environment helps a clear清晰的环境有助于清晰
601mind.头脑。
602I also use a timer.我也用计时器
603I work for 25 minutes with full focus, then take a five-minute break.我全神贯注地工作25分钟 然后休息5分钟
604This is called the Pomodoro technique.这叫做波摩多罗技法.
605It makes long tasks feel very manageable.它使漫长的任务感到非常容易管理。
606Have you tried你试过吗?
607the Pomodoro technique, Mark?马克?
608Yes, the Pomodoro technique is excellent.是的,波莫多罗的技法很出色
609Working for 25 minutes工作25分钟
610with full focus, then resting for five minutes, then repeating, it keeps your brain fresh and然后休息五分钟 然后重复 让你的大脑保持新鲜
611makes deep work very achievable.使深入的工作可以实现。
612I use it for writing, studying, and complex tasks.我用它来写作、学习和复杂的任务。
613But even不过甚至
614simpler than Pomodoro is just removing your phone from the room.比波莫多罗还简单 只是把你的手机从房间里移走
615I think the smartphone is the number我觉得智能手机是号码
616one killer of self-motivation in the modern world.现代世界的自动机杀手
617Every notification is a little interruption.每次通知都有点中断
618Every每个
619scroll through social media is five or 10 minutes of your goal time gone.通过社交媒体的滚动 是你的5或10分钟 球门时间走了。
620I started leaving my phone我开始离开我的手机
621in another room when I work or study, and my productivity increased enormously.当我工作或学习的时候,在另一个房间里, 我的生产力大大提高。
622We are not我们不是
623strong as our habits.和我们的习惯一样强壮
624Our environment often controls us.我们的环境常常控制着我们。
625So, design your environment to support所以,设计你的环境来支持
626your goals, not to distract from them.你的目标,不要分散他们的注意力。
627Anna, let's talk about energy and self-motivation.安娜,让我们谈谈能量和自动机
628Are they难道他们
629Absolutely.当然
630Energy and motivation are very closely connected.能量和动力是紧密相连的.
631When your energy is low,当你的能量很低,
632even small tasks feel impossible.甚至小任务都觉得不可能
633When your energy is high, you feel motivated to do many things.当你精力旺盛的时候,你会觉得有动机做很多事情.
634So, taking care of your physical energy is a form of self-motivation.所以,照顾身体能量是一种自动机.
635This means sleeping enough,意思是睡够了
636eating nutritious food, moving your body regularly, and taking real breaks.吃有营养的食物 经常移动身体 休息
637I noticed that my most我发现我最
638motivated periods always coincide with the times I sleep well and exercise regularly.有动机的时期总是与我睡觉和经常锻炼的时间相吻合。
639My lowest我最贱的
640motivation periods are always when I am tired, eating poorly, or sitting too much.动机期总是当我累了,吃得不好,或者坐得太多。
641Many people许多人
642try to push through low energy with willpower or caffeine, but that only works for a short time.尝试用意志力或咖啡因推动低能量,但这只是短期的工作.
643The sustainable solution is to manage your energy levels through good physical habits.可持续的解决方案是通过良好的物理习惯来管理你的能量水平.
644Motivation follows energy.动力跟随能量.
645Mark, when during the day are you most motivated?马克,白天你什么时候最有动机?
646I am definitely a morning person.我绝对是一个早晨的人。
647I feel most sharp, creative, and motivated in the first two我觉得最尖锐,最有创造力,最有动力的前两个
648to three hours after I wake up.3小时后我醒来。
649That's when I do my most important and creative work.那时我做了我最重要和最有创意的工作.
650I protect我保护
651those morning hours very carefully.那些早晨非常谨慎。
652I do not check social media or emails until I've finished my most直到我完成我最爱的社交媒体或邮件
653task of the day.任务日。
654After lunch, my energy naturally drops a little.午饭后,我的能量自然会下降一点.
655I use that lower energy time for我用较低的能量时间
656smaller, routine tasks, answering messages, organizing, reading.较小,例行的任务,回答消息,组织,阅读.
657In the late afternoon,下午很晚的时候
658my energy often comes back a little, but not as strongly as the morning.我的能量常常会回来一点, 但不像早上那么强烈。
659Understanding your own了解你自己 了解你自己
660energy patterns is very useful for self-motivation.能量模式对自我激励非常有用。
661Schedule your hardest, most important tasks for安排你最艰难最重要的任务
662your highest energy time.你的最高能量时间。
663Don't waste your peak hours on easy tasks.别把高峰时间浪费在容易的任务上
664Do you know your own energy你知道自己的能量吗?
665patterns, Anna?规律,安娜?
666Yes, I am also more productive in the mornings.是的,我早上也比较有成果。
667My mind feels clearest before noon.中午前我感觉最清楚
668I use that time for writing, learning, or anything that requires real concentration.我用那个时间来写作,学习,或者任何需要真正集中精神的东西.
669In the在那个
670afternoons, I feel slower, so I use that time for lighter work, organizing, responding to messages,午后,我感觉慢了,所以我利用那时间 做更轻松的工作,组织起来,回应信息,
671doing simple tasks.执行简单的任务。
672I also discovered that short afternoon walks boost my energy significantly.我发现下午的散步能大大提升我的能量
673Even a 10-minute walk outside around 3 o'clock gives me a second wave of motivation and energy三点左右出去走10分钟 就能给我第二次动力和精力
674for the rest of the day.今余时.
675I think people underestimate the power of movement as an energy我认为人们低估了运动的力量 作为一种能量
676booster.助动器.
677When you feel unmotivated and sluggish, the best thing to do is often the thing you least当你感到无动力和迟钝时, 最好的事情是 你最不爱做的事
678want to do, get up and move.想做,起来,走。
679It almost always helps.它几乎总是帮助。
680Mark, let's talk about self-talk.马克,我们谈谈自言自语
681How does怎么样
682the way we talk to ourselves affect motivation?我们对自己说话的方式会影响动机吗?
683Self-talk has an enormous effect on motivation.自言自语对动机有巨大影响.
684The words we say to ourselves in our heads are like a constant background voice,我们脑中对自己说的话 就像一个不断的背景声音
685and that voice is either encouraging or discouraging.而这种声音要么是鼓励性的,要么是令人沮丧的。
686Many people have a very harsh inner critic.许多人的内心批评非常严厉.
687They say things to themselves like, you're so lazy, you always fail, or you will never be good他们自言自语,你这么懒,你总是失败, 否则你永远不会好
688enough.够了。
689That kind of self-talk destroys motivation.这种自言自语会破坏动机
690If a friend talked to you like that, you would stop如果有个朋友这样跟你说话,你就会停下来
691spending time with them, but we say these things to ourselves all day.和他们呆在一起 但我们整天都对自己说这些
692The good news is that you好消息是你们
693can change your self-talk.可以改变你的自我对话。
694It takes practice, but it is possible.这需要练习,但有可能。
695Notice when the negative voice阴性声音时通知
696appears.出现。
697Challenge it.挑战它。
698Replace it with something kinder and more realistic.换成更亲切更现实的东西
699Instead of, I can't do而不是,我不能这样做
700this.这个
701Try, this is hard, but I can try one step at a time.试试看,这很难 但我可以一步一步尝试
702That small shift changes your whole那个小班改变了你的全部
703emotional state.情绪状态
704Anna, how do you practice positive self-talk?安娜,你如何练习积极的自我对话?
705I practice positive self-talk in我练习积极的自我对话
706several ways.有几个方法。
707First, I pay attention to my thoughts when I face a challenge.首先,当我面临挑战时,我注意我的想法。
708If I hear a negative如果我听到一个负数
709thought, I name it.我想,我把它命名为。
710I say, oh, there's the inner critic again.我说,哦,又有内在的批评家。
711Naming it gives me distance from it.命名它让我远离它。
712It reminds me that the thought is not the truth.它提醒我,思想不是事实。
713It is just a habit.这只是一个习惯。
714Second, I have a few go-to phrases I use when I need encouragement.第二,我有一些我需要鼓励时使用的措辞。
715For example, one step at a例如,一步一步
716time.时间。
717Progress is more important than perfection.进步比完美更重要。
718I have done hard things before.我以前做过很辛苦的事
719These phrases are这些短语是:
720short and simple, but they shift my mindset quickly.短而简单, 但他们迅速改变我的心态。
721Third, I sometimes speak to myself in第三,我有时会自言自语
722third person.第三个人。
723Instead of, I can't do this, I say, Anna, you can do this.而不是,我不能做到这一点, 我说,安娜,你可以做到这一点。
724Research shows this研究显示
725technique, talking to yourself by name, creates useful emotional distance and increases self-control创造有用的情感距离,增强自我控制
726and motivation.和动机。
727Do you ever use encouraging phrases, Mark?你用过鼓励语吗,马克?
728Yes, I have a few personal是的,我有几个私人问题
729mantras.曼茶罗.
730Short phrases I repeat to myself when I need strength.当我需要力量时 我会重复短句
731One of mine is, start before我的其中一个是,开始之前
732you're ready.你准备好了。
733It reminds me not to wait for the perfect conditions.它提醒我不要等待 完美的条件。
734Another one is, discipline另一个是纪律
735is freedom.这是自由。
736At first, this sounds strange.一开始,这听起来很奇怪。
737How can discipline be freedom?纪律如何是自由?
738But I have found it但我已经找到了
739to be very true.非常真实
740When I am disciplined about my goals and habits, I actually feel freer.当我在目标和习惯上受到纪律约束时,我实际上感到更加自由.
741I have我见过
742more energy, more time, and more confidence.更多的能量,更多的时间和信心。
743Discipline creates the life I want.纪律创造了我想要的生活。
744Without无
745discipline, I drift and feel lost.纪律,我漂泊,感觉迷失。
746Another phrase I love is, compare yourself to who you were我最喜欢的另一种说法是 把你自己和以前一样
747yesterday, not to who someone else is today.昨天,不是今天别人是谁。
748Comparing yourself to others is very damaging把自己和别人比起来会很伤人
749to motivation.动机
750The only competition that matters is with your past self.唯一重要的竞争就是你的过去
751Are you better today than你比今天强吗?
752yesterday?昨天吗?
753That is what counts.这是最重要的。
754Anna, what is your personal mantra?安娜,你的个人口号是什么?
755My personal mantra is, done is我个人的口音是, 完成
756better than perfect.胜过完美
757I need to remind myself of this often because I have perfectionist我要经常提醒自己 因为我有完美主义者
758tendencies.倾向。
759I sometimes delay finishing things because they are not quite right.我有时会推迟完成 因为它们不太对劲
760But perfectionism,但完美主义,
761as we discussed before, is a motivation killer.正如我们之前讨论过的, 是一个动机杀手。
762It keeps you stuck.它让你卡住了。
763Done is better than perfect完成比完美还好
764reminds me that completing something imperfect is a thousand times more valuable than an unfinished提醒我,完成不完美的东西 比未完成的要值一千倍
765masterpiece that exists in my imagination.我想象中的杰作
766I also love the phrase, every day is a new start.我也喜欢这句,每天都是一个新的开始。
767When I have a bad day or miss a habit, I remind myself that tomorrow is a fresh beginning.当我有一个糟糕的一天或错过一个习惯,我提醒自己,明天是一个新的开端。
768The past day is gone.过去日已去.
769I can choose differently tomorrow.我可以选择不同的明天。
770That idea takes the pressure off and这个想法可以消除压力
771keeps me motivated to try again.保持我再次尝试的积极性。
772Before we say goodbye today, I want to leave our listeners with在我们今天说再见之前 我想让我们的听众
773a few final thoughts.几个最后的想法。
774Self-motivation is not about being perfect.自性非是圆满.
775It is not about feeling excited这与兴奋无关
776every single day.每一天都这样
777It's about building habits, knowing your why, taking small steps, and being它的建设习惯, 知道你的原因, 采取小步骤,
778kind to yourself when things are hard.当事情变得艰难时,你对你自己好些。
779Every person listening today has goals and dreams inside them.每个人今天聆听 都有目标和梦想
780The question is not whether those goals are possible.问题不在于这些目标是否可能实现。
781They probably are.也许吧
782The question is,问题是,
783will you take the first small step today?你今天会迈出第一步吗?
784Not tomorrow, not next Monday, today.不是明天,不是下周一,今天。
785One step,一步来
786no matter how small.无论多么小。
787That step is the beginning of everything.这个步骤是一切的开始。
788I believe in every person listening.我相信每个人都在听
789You have what it takes.你有它所需要的。
790And remember, motivation follows action.记住,动机是行动
791So go take that first step.所以,去迈出第一步。
792Thank you so much for listening.谢谢你的聆听
793And thank you, Anna, for this wonderful conversation today.谢谢你 安娜 今天的精彩谈话
794Thank you, Mark.谢谢你,马克。
795This was such an energizing and inspiring conversation.这是一个充满活力和鼓舞人心的对话。
796And a huge thank you to all of you who listened today.非常感谢你们今天的所有听众。
797I hope this episode gave you something我希望这集能给你一些东西
798useful.实用。
799A new idea, a tip, a phrase, or just the reminder that you are capable of more than you一个新想法,一个提示,一个短语, 或只是提醒你 你的能力比你更多
800think.以为.
801Self-motivation is a skill.自性为技.
802And like any skill, it grows with practice and patience.像任何技能一样,它会随着练习和耐心而增长。
803Be patient with yourself.耐心点
804Celebrate your small wins.庆祝你的小胜利
805Find your why.找出你为什么。
806Build tiny habits.建立微小的习惯.
807Surround周边
808yourself with people who inspire you.和那些激励你的人在一起
809And please, be kind to your inner voice.请对你的内心声音好点
810You are your own most你是你自己最厉害的
811important coach.重要的教练
812If this podcast helped you even a little, please share it with a friend who might如果播客能帮助你一点 请和朋友分享
813need some motivation today.今天需要一些动力
814Come back next time for more friendly English conversations.下次再来聊聊更友好的英语对话
815Until then,在这之前
816keep going.继续
817You've got this.你得到了这个。
818Goodbye from me, Anna.再见,安娜
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