TED演讲：如何发掘真实的自我——这无关年龄
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 0:04 | I am a late bloomer. | 我是一个晚开花者。 |
| 0:07 | In fact, a friend of mine you may have heard of, Chris Rock, he | 事实上,我的一个朋友 你可能听说过,克里斯・洛克,他 |
| 0:11 | once called me the most late blooming mofo he'd ever met. | 曾经称我为他见过的最晚开花的摩福 |
| 0:17 | Now some people might consider | 现在有些人可能会考虑 |
| 0:18 | that snide, but I revel in it. | 那种口香糖,但我欣赏它。 |
| 0:22 | I'm 55, and I'm hearing this curvy body as someone who | 我55岁了,我听到这个弯曲的身体 作为一个人谁 |
| 0:26 | has done the work, lived the life, walked the walk in these very high heels, and therefore | 已经做了工作, 过着生活, 步行走在这些高跟鞋, 因此 |
| 0:34 | is qualified to testify in the church and in the court of law that it does in fact get | 有资格在教会和法院作证,证明它实际上得到 |
| 0:40 | greater later. | 以后会更好 |
| 0:48 | Now coming to this realization wasn't easy. | 现在来到这个认识并不容易。 |
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| 1 | I am a late bloomer. | 我是一个晚开花者。 |
| 2 | In fact, a friend of mine you may have heard of, Chris Rock, he | 事实上,我的一个朋友 你可能听说过,克里斯・洛克,他 |
| 3 | once called me the most late blooming mofo he'd ever met. | 曾经称我为他见过的最晚开花的摩福 |
| 4 | Now some people might consider | 现在有些人可能会考虑 |
| 5 | that snide, but I revel in it. | 那种口香糖,但我欣赏它。 |
| 6 | I'm 55, and I'm hearing this curvy body as someone who | 我55岁了,我听到这个弯曲的身体 作为一个人谁 |
| 7 | has done the work, lived the life, walked the walk in these very high heels, and therefore | 已经做了工作, 过着生活, 步行走在这些高跟鞋, 因此 |
| 8 | is qualified to testify in the church and in the court of law that it does in fact get | 有资格在教会和法院作证,证明它实际上得到 |
| 9 | greater later. | 以后会更好 |
| 10 | Now coming to this realization wasn't easy. | 现在来到这个认识并不容易。 |
| 11 | At the age of 38, I was a very | 在38岁的时候,我是一个非常 |
| 12 | successful fashion advertising executive, and I was really living what most people considered | 成功的时尚广告经理, 而我真的生活 大多数人认为 |
| 13 | a dream life. | 一个梦幻生活。 |
| 14 | I was jet-setting to fashion shows. | 我在为时装秀打飞机 |
| 15 | I was receiving free designer clothes. | 我收到了免费设计师的衣服。 |
| 16 | I was double kissing my way across the globe. | 我亲吻我在全球各地的方式。 |
| 17 | I was. | 没错 |
| 18 | And you know, it was everything that | 你知道,这是一切 |
| 19 | I ever wanted it to be, and then one day I realized I was only pretending to be happy. | 我曾经想要它, 然后有一天我意识到 我只是假装快乐。 |
| 20 | But I couldn't blow up my good life in my prime earning years, right? | 但我不能毁了我的美好生活 在我的主要收入年代,对不对? |
| 21 | Wrong. | 错. |
| 22 | Which leads | 导致 |
| 23 | me to lessons my mother Lolly taught me. | 我学我妈妈Lolly教我的 |
| 24 | Lolly的第一课? | |
| 25 | Don't settle. | 别闹了 |
| 26 | Now I'm aware that my well-paying, glamorous career is not exactly the humdrum, I hate | 现在我知道,我的薪水丰厚,光荣的事业 并不完全是胡言乱语,我讨厌 |
| 27 | my job stereotype that most people equate with settling, but it was a settle for me. | 我的工作定型 大多数人都等同于定居, 但这对我来说是一个解决方案。 |
| 28 | Because when I actually did quit my job at the age of 38, it was with the intention that | 因为当我在38岁时就辞职了 本来是打算的 |
| 29 | every day be a great adventure. | 每天都是个伟大的冒险 |
| 30 | Now sometimes it was a very scary adventure, like being | 有时候,这是一个非常恐怖的冒险, 像做 |
| 31 | broke from the age of 40 to 45. | 从40岁到45岁 |
| 32 | But even still, I wouldn't trade that for the safe and settled | 但即使这样,我也不会用它来换取安全 |
| 33 | version because if I had, I would not be here with y'all today. | 因为如果我有的话 我今天就不会和你们在一起了 |
| 34 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 35 | So you know how when | 所以你知道什么时候 |
| 36 | you like buck the system and go against the status quo, it makes people really uncomfortable. | 你喜欢打击系统 并打破现状, 这让人们真的不舒服。 |
| 37 | And invariably people will ask, where do you get your confidence? | 人们总是会问 你从哪里得到信心? |
| 38 | Now some people mean | 现在有人说 |
| 39 | it as a compliment, but very often it's shady and it's a silent judgment. | 它是一种赞美, 但经常它是模糊的, 这是一个沉默的判断。 |
| 40 | And to those people, | 对这些人来说, |
| 41 | I respond with a quote from this Brooklyn poet you may have heard of, Jay-Z, she get | 我用布鲁克林诗人的话来回答你,Jay |
| 42 | it from her mama. | 她妈妈送的 |
| 43 | I am she and my mama is the epitome of a grown ass woman. | 我是她 我妈妈是大屁股女人的缩写 |
| 44 | Someone | 有人吗? |
| 45 | who has always been very comfortable in her skin. | 她的皮肤一直很舒适 |
| 46 | In 1965, my mom was 37 years old. | 1965年,母亲37岁. |
| 47 | | |
| 48 | already had one child, my big brother Jerry, and she married my dad, but she kept her maiden | 她已经有一个孩子了,我的哥哥杰里, 她嫁给了我爸爸, 但她保留了她的女儿 |
| 49 | name. | 名称。 |
| 50 | And then she had my sister Stephanie and I back to back, but she continued to work | 然后,她有我妹妹史蒂芬妮和我回来, 但她继续工作 |
| 51 | because she refused to be beholden to my dad for money. | 因为她为了钱而拒绝跟我爸在一起 |
| 52 | And I bet my mom was the only woman | 我打赌我妈妈是唯一一个女人 |
| 53 | in our neighborhood who cooked once a week. | 我们的邻居每周做一次饭 |
| 54 | She made Sunday dinner. | 她做了周日晚饭。 |
| 55 | It was an extravaganza, | 是个意外 |
| 56 | but that's all she did. | 但这就是她所做的。 |
| 57 | She cooked one day a week. | 她每周一天做饭 |
| 58 | My mom is just amazing. | 我妈妈真是太棒了 |
| 59 | And she also | 还有她 |
| 60 | had this ability of talking to her children about real life and making sure that we understood | 有这种能力 和她的孩子谈论现实生活 确保我们理解 |
| 61 | the virtues of going your own way, which is why I believe today at the age of 94 and a | 所以今天我94岁时才相信 |
| 62 | recent widow, my mom is still carving out ways to find and determine and define her | 近代遗孀,我妈还在寻找方法 找到、确定和定义她 |
| 63 | own version of happiness. | 自己的快乐版本。 |
| 64 | She cooks for herself. | 她自己煮饭 |
| 65 | She maintains her home exactly as she sees | 她像她看到的一样 守着自己的家 |
| 66 | fit. | 合适吗? |
| 67 | She enjoys champagne and R-rated films. | 她喜欢香槟和R级电影. |
| 68 | My mom has managed to maintain her glamor, | 我妈妈一直保持她的魅力, |
| 69 | her sex appeal, her independence. | 她的性吸引力, 她的独立性。 |
| 70 | And I really hope some of that rubs off on me. | 我真的很希望我身上有一些擦伤。 |
| 71 | You know, | 你知道吗, |
| 72 | recently I've been thinking about one of the best lessons that my mom ever taught me, which | 最近我一直在想 我妈妈教过我的最好的教训之一 |
| 73 | is the literal beauty in aging. | 是年老时的字面美貌。 |
| 74 | Now we all know that black don't crack, right? | 现在我们都知道黑色不会裂开 对吧? |
| 75 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 76 | Black don't crack. | 黑不开裂. |
| 77 | So at the age of 50, my mom could have easily passed for the age of | 所以在50岁的时候, 我妈妈可以轻易通过 年龄 |
| 78 | 35. | 35. 联合国 |
| 79 | And, you know, that's back during the time when people, women were really coy about | 而且,你知道,这是回来 在当时人们, 女人真的很担心 |
| 80 | the age. | 年龄。 |
| 81 | Oh, a lady never tells her age. | 哦,一个女士从来没有告诉 她的年龄。 |
| 82 | My mom never subscribed to that. | 我妈从没同意过 |
| 83 | She was always | 她总是 |
| 84 | proud of her age. | 以她的年龄为荣 |
| 85 | As a matter of fact, she believes you may not tell your age, but your | 事实上,她相信 你可能不会告诉你的年龄,而是你的 |
| 86 | hands and your neck will. | 手和脖子会。 |
| 87 | So make peace with aging or prepare for an entire wardrobe of | 所以,与老化和好 或准备整个衣橱 |
| 88 | gloves and turtlenecks. | 手套和乌龟。 |
| 89 | Yeah, my mom has always done these wonderful things like that, but | 是啊,我妈妈总是做 这些美妙的事情,但 |
| 90 | I wish she could rub off on everyone because I feel like now I'm looking at even 20 somethings | 我希望她能抹去每个人 因为我觉得现在我看到20件东西 |
| 91 | who have a fear of aging. | 他们是怕老化的。 |
| 92 | I watch them on social media, like, you know, compulsively | 我在社交媒体上看到,比如,强迫的 |
| 93 | practicing the latest 10 second dance craze. | 练习最新的10秒舞曲 |
| 94 | And it feels like they're angst and asking, | 感觉他们很生气,问, |
| 95 | is that all there is? | 就这些吗? |
| 96 | And I just want to yell, yes, that is all there is if all you're going | 我只想喊,是的,这就是所有,如果你要去 |
| 97 | to do is settle for dancing to someone else's TikTok beat. | 做是决定跳舞 别人的TikTok节拍。 |
| 98 | Settling is very insidious. | 设置非常阴险。 |
| 99 | It | 这个 |
| 100 | keeps us dancing on this string, waiting for this elusive better day to miraculously appear. | 让我们在这个弦上跳舞, 等待这个难以捉摸的更好的日子 奇迹般的出现。 |
| 101 | Now, thanks to Lali's tutelage, that's not my story. | 现在,多亏了Lali的照顾,那不是我的故事。 |
| 102 | In fact, I take each day as it comes | 其实,我每天都在想 |
| 103 | by trying to make it better than the last. | 试图让它比上一个更好。 |
| 104 | So, you know, I'm single, but I'm always | 所以,你知道,我是单身, 但我总是 |
| 105 | ready to mingle. | 准备调情 |
| 106 | I'm an entrepreneur, but I keep multiple revenue streams. | 我是一个企业家, 但我有多种收入来源。 |
| 107 | I'm a solo | 我独奏 |
| 108 | traveler, which means I've done the sepia version of eat, pray, love on six continents | 旅行者,这意味着我已经做了塞皮亚版本 吃,祈祷,爱在六大洲 |
| 109 | because I don't settle. | 因为我没有解决。 |
| 110 | What that means is that I also don't second guess my decisions. | 意思是,我也不怀疑我的决定 |
| 111 | And I'm also not worried about my future because I'm firmly rooted in the present. | 我也不担心我的未来,因为我深深扎根于现在. |
| 112 | Settling | 设置 |
| 113 | is a really sinister thing. | 真的很邪恶 |
| 114 | It will keep you up at night, tossing and turning, trying to | 它会让你在晚上不眠不休, 抛掷和转身,试图 |
| 115 | figure out why and answering, trying to answer that age old question of, is that all there | 找出原因和答案 试图回答这个老问题 |
| 116 | is? | 是吗? |
| 117 | Personally, I don't have time for that because the only time I want to be kept up | 就我个人而言,我没有时间做这个 因为我唯一想被跟踪的时间 |
| 118 | all night long, tossing and turning, is when I'm in the company of a fine ass man. | 整夜抛掷翻身 就是我跟一个混蛋在一起的时候 |
| 119 | That's | 这是 |
| 120 | it. | 这个 |
| 121 | I wish I could tell you guys that I learned all these valuable lessons from Lali and they | 我希望我能告诉你们 我从拉里那里学到了这些宝贵的教训 |
| 122 | were instilled in me and it was great. | 被注入我体内,这是伟大的。 |
| 123 | But alas, I am a late bloomer in all regards. | 但可惜,我是一个晚开花 在所有方面。 |
| 124 | So I had to learn a couple of lessons from the era of bitchy bevy. | 所以我不得不从臭婆娘的贝蒂时代学到一些教训. |
| 125 | What kind of person | 什么样的人 |
| 126 | has 10 assistants in five years? | 五年内有10个助手? |
| 127 | Bitchy bevy, that's who. | 臭Bevy,这就是谁。 |
| 128 | Now I didn't start out my career | 现在我没有开始我的事业 |
| 129 | with a toxic attitude. | 以有毒的态度。 |
| 130 | No, initially I was really happy to be in the fashion industry, | 不,起初我很高兴 成为时尚行业, |
| 131 | you know, but then I began to compare my trajectory to others and I also began to feel burned | 你知道,但后来我开始比较 我的轨迹与其他人, 我开始感到烧伤 |
| 132 | out because I was burdened by these personas that I had created that were allegedly going | 是因为我被这些我创造出来的 所谓去的人所负担 |
| 133 | to help me progress in my career. | 帮助我进步我的事业。 |
| 134 | I made a couple of mistakes. | 我犯了几个错误。 |
| 135 | One, I thought that being | 一,我想这是 |
| 136 | snarky was a good career move. | Snacky是一个很好的职业动作。 |
| 137 | It wasn't. | 事实并非如此。 |
| 138 | I also thought I looked good in the color | 我也觉得颜色不错 |
| 139 | brown. | 褐色的。 |
| 140 | I actually don't. | 我其实没有。 |
| 141 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 142 | And you know, I just, in my dream montage, I wanted to get | 你知道,我只是,在我的梦想蒙太奇, 我想得到 |
| 143 | away from bitchy bevy. | 远离肮脏的贝维。 |
| 144 | I wanted to get away from the color brown. | 我想远离棕色。 |
| 145 | And so in the movie | 在电影里 |
| 146 | version of my life, as soon as I quit my job, I'm a yoga guru. | 我的生活,一旦我辞职, 我是一个瑜伽大师。 |
| 147 | I'm extremely limber and | 我非常无助 |
| 148 | very happy. | 非常快乐。 |
| 149 | Come to think of it though, guys, I'm actually limber and happy right now, but | 来想想吧,伙计们,我其实是 软弱和快乐现在,但 |
| 150 | I would be lying and I believe it is against international law to lie during a Ted talk. | 我在撒谎 我相信在泰德谈话时撒谎是违反国际法的 |
| 151 | So I'm not going to do that. | 所以我不会这样做。 |
| 152 | And as a matter of fact, my insecurities popped back up as | 事实上,我的不安全感又恢复为 |
| 153 | late as last year. | 迟到去年。 |
| 154 | I was minding my business as one does, perusing social media. | 我一心一意地关心我的事业, |
| 155 | And I | 还有我 |
| 156 | saw people excelling in a space where I, you know, traditionally had a lot of success. | 看到人们的卓越 在一个空间里,我,你知道, 传统上,有很多成功。 |
| 157 | So I'm looking at it and I'm like, well, why the hell they ain't call me for that job? | 所以我看着它,我很喜欢, 好吧,为什么他们不打电话给我做那份工作? |
| 158 | And I have this like angst. | 而我有这样的愤怒。 |
| 159 | And then I realized they didn't call me for that job because you | 后来我意识到他们没给我打电话 是因为你 |
| 160 | always said you didn't want that job. | 总是说你不想那份工作 |
| 161 | You told the universe you weren't into working | 你告诉宇宙 你没有工作 |
| 162 | like that. | 像这样 |
| 163 | You don't want a job. | 你不想找工作吗? |
| 164 | I really don't. | 我真的没有。 |
| 165 | I'm not into it. | 我不感兴趣。 |
| 166 | So that's why it | 这就是为什么 |
| 167 | happened. | 发生了 |
| 168 | And what I realized is that intellectually I had grown and evolved, but emotionally, | 我意识到,在智力上,我成长和进化,但情感上, |
| 169 | I was Tom Petty and I was living in Petticoat Junction. | 我是汤姆·佩蒂,我住在佩蒂科特交叉口 |
| 170 | I told y'all that Brown doesn't | 我跟你们说过布朗不会 |
| 171 | look good on me. | 看起来不错我。 |
| 172 | Petty looks even worse. | 佩蒂看起来更糟糕。 |
| 173 | It's not my shade. | 这不是我的影子。 |
| 174 | And so what I wound up having | 所以我终于有了 |
| 175 | to do was really get a grip. | 做是真正得到一个控制。 |
| 176 | I had to assess a few things about myself and I decided to | 我不得不评估一些关于我自己的事情 我决定 |
| 177 | do a little self-help ritual called take a note, give a note. | 做个小小的自助仪式 叫做记下来 记下来 |
| 178 | And it's easy. | 则易. |
| 179 | When you | 当你 |
| 180 | see someone having something that you believe you deserve, you take a note. | 看到有人有你认为你应得的东西, 你做一个笔记。 |
| 181 | You ask yourself | 你问自己 |
| 182 | a few questions. | 几个问题。 |
| 183 | Is it something that you really want? | 这是你想要的吗? |
| 184 | Perhaps that person is better | 也许那个人更好 |
| 185 | suited than you are for that. | 比你更适合这样 |
| 186 | Is the universe conspiring for you to have that? | 宇宙是阴谋要你拥有它吗? |
| 187 | Really kind | 真不错 |
| 188 | of try and be honest with who you are and where you're at in life. | 尝试和诚实的你是谁, 你在哪里生活。 |
| 189 | Once you do that, | 一旦你这样做, |
| 190 | you take a deep breath and you say, their wins have nothing to do with my worthiness. | 你深呼吸,你说,他们的胜利 与我的价值无关 |
| 191 | And then you're ready to give a note. | 然则备注. |
| 192 | You go on social media and you say, congratulations. | 你上社交媒体说,恭喜 |
| 193 | On my personal favorite, you pick up the phone like it's the 20th century and you say, congratulations, | 我个人最喜欢的,你拿起电话 就像20世纪,你说,恭喜, |
| 194 | kudos, you did that. | 库多斯,你做到了。 |
| 195 | Al, you go girl. | 艾尔,你走女孩。 |
| 196 | You do all the things. | 你做所有的事情。 你做所有的事情。 |
| 197 | Instantly, you feel like | 立即,你觉得 |
| 198 | a better human being because you have actually extended grace. | 一个更好的人,因为你实际上 给予恩典。 |
| 199 | You've extended grace. | 你赐予了恩典 |
| 200 | You've | 你已经 |
| 201 | believed that when you remove malice from your heart, not only do you feel better, | 相信当你从心里消除恶意时 不仅感觉更好 |
| 202 | you look better. | 你看起来好多了。 |
| 203 | I think you lose your frown lines and your wrinkles lessen and your age | 我认为你失去了你的皱眉线 你的皱纹减轻 你的年龄 |
| 204 | spots disappear. | 斑点消失。 |
| 205 | I believe it's better than Botox, extending grace. | 我相信这比肉毒杆菌要好 宽宏大量 |
| 206 | I do. | 当然 |
| 207 | No, but let | 不,但让 |
| 208 | me get back to the note thing. | 我回到笔记的事。 |
| 209 | So one of my favorite notes is from Willie Shakespeare, | 我最喜欢的笔记是威利·莎士比亚写的 |
| 210 | to thine own self be true. | 对你自己来说是真实的 |
| 211 | Now we've all read self-help books and the first line of defense | 现在我们都读过自助书和第一线防御 |
| 212 | is always, be your most authentic self. | 永远,做你最真实的自己。 |
| 213 | And I believe in that. | 我相信这一点。 |
| 214 | I believe that nobody can | 我相信没有人能 |
| 215 | be you but you. | 成为你,但你。 |
| 216 | So you might as well show up and show out. | 所以,你也许应该 出现和显示。 |
| 217 | But here's the quandary | 但这里的奇观 |
| 218 | {\fn黑体\fs20\shad2\2aH82\3aH20\4aH33\fscx95\3cH592001\be1}酒吧从不开口 | |
| 219 | What if you don't really know who you are because you | 狦ぃ笵琌街 |
| 220 | have suppressed your inner self? | 压制了内心的自我? |
| 221 | You've suppressed the core of you. | 你压抑了你的核心 |
| 222 | You've suppressed the best | 你压抑了最好的 |
| 223 | parts of you because you took on these other identities and these personas in an effort | 你的一部分是因为你把其他的身份 和这些人的努力 |
| 224 | to make your life better. | 让你的生活更好。 |
| 225 | Because you know, we all buy into some things about what we're | 因为你知道,我们都买一些东西 关于我们是什么 |
| 226 | supposed to be doing and who we're supposed to be. | 应该是在做我们该做的事 |
| 227 | So why have you squelched that? | 那你为什么要捏它? |
| 228 | Because | 因为 |
| 229 | I know I had to excavate to dig up Little Brown Bevy, but the way I found it was through | 我知道我不得不挖掘 挖出小布朗贝维, 但我发现了它的方式 |
| 230 | three questions. | 三问. |
| 231 | Who am I at my core? | 我是谁? |
| 232 | How am I being perceived? | 我被怎样看待? |
| 233 | How would I like to | 我该如何 |
| 234 | be perceived? | 被感知吗? |
| 235 | Who am I at my core? | 我是谁? |
| 236 | At my core, I'm looking to authentically connect with | 以我为核心,我期待与 |
| 237 | people. | 人们 |
| 238 | I don't like a cursory, you know, interaction. | 我不喜欢粗略的,你知道的,互动。 |
| 239 | And I do not believe in networking. | 我不相信网络。 |
| 240 | I like an authentic connection. | 我喜欢真正的联系 |
| 241 | I'm also curious and I'm adventurous and I'm kind. | 我也好奇,我很冒险,我很善良。 |
| 242 | And I've | 而我已经 |
| 243 | got big dreams. | 做了个大梦 |
| 244 | How am I being perceived? | 我被怎样看待? |
| 245 | 你们都知道这个绰号,Bitchy Bevy | |
| 246 | So duh. | 所以这样 |
| 247 | But here's the problem. | 但问题是... |
| 248 | There's a lot of power in that persona. | 那个人身上有很多力量 |
| 249 | And I actually | 其实 |
| 250 | really enjoyed it for a time, you know, because you can make a lot of money being a bitch, | 真的很享受一段时间,你知道, 因为你可以赚很多钱 作为一个婊子, |
| 251 | especially in fashion. | 尤其是时尚界 |
| 252 | But it's also incredibly lonely and isolating. | 但它也是令人难以置信的孤独和孤立。 |
| 253 | And I didn't want to | 我也不想这样 |
| 254 | live that life anymore. | 过着那种生活 |
| 255 | And so I decided to change my life. | 所以我决定改变我的生活 |
| 256 | And I left all of that alone. | 我却把一切都丢下了 |
| 257 | I really did like just change my spirit. | 我真的很喜欢改变我的精神 |
| 258 | And leaving fashion obviously helped. | 离开时尚显然有帮助。 |
| 259 | And when | 什么时候 |
| 260 | I did that, all of a sudden I let Little Brown Bevy out to play. | 突然我让小布朗·贝维出去玩了 |
| 261 | Little Brown Bevy, I love | 小布朗岛 贝维,我喜欢 |
| 262 | her so much. | 她太喜欢了 |
| 263 | Little Brown Bevy is a nerdy girl. | 小布朗岛 Bevy是个书呆子 |
| 264 | And so I let my nerdy pursuits come | 所以我让我的书呆子追逐 |
| 265 | out to play. | 出来玩。 |
| 266 | I must have joined every museum or museum mile in New York City. | 我一定加入了纽约市的博物馆或博物馆 |
| 267 | I began to | 我开始 |
| 268 | travel the world just to look at architecture I'd always dreamed of. | 环游世界,看看我一直梦想的建筑 |
| 269 | I learned how to be | 我学会了怎么做 |
| 270 | alone without being lonely. | 独自一人而不孤独 |
| 271 | My spirit shifted. | 我的灵魂变了 |
| 272 | I became a better person. | 我成为一个更好的人。 |
| 273 | You can ask people. | 能问众生. |
| 274 | I became a better person. | 我成为一个更好的人。 |
| 275 | And now I get to stand here in front of you guys with no bravado, | 现在,我站在这里,在你们面前 没有坏事, |
| 276 | with nothing to prove. | 没有证据 |
| 277 | I tell you, with nothing to prove. | 我告诉你,没有证据 |
| 278 | I'm not trying to prove nothing | 我不是想证明什么 |
| 279 | to y'all. | 敬你们 |
| 280 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
| 281 | I have an open heart. | 我有一个开放的心脏。 |
| 282 | And I can't even believe that Little Brown | 我简直不敢相信小布朗 |
| 283 | Bevy, from 150th Street and 8th Avenue, from the Hamlet of Harlem, is now an award-winning | 贝维,来自150街和8大道, 来自哈莱姆的哈姆雷特, 现在是一个获奖者 |
| 284 | radio and TV host, an author, an actress, a creative consultant. | 广播电视主持人,作家,女演员,创作顾问. |
| 285 | I would do all those | 我会做所有这些 |
| 286 | things for free. | 免费的 |
| 287 | But here's the thing. | 但问题是 |
| 288 | I ain't cheap and I'm definitely not free, so don't | 我不便宜,我绝对不自由,所以不要 |
| 289 | get any ideas. | 得到任何想法。 |
| 290 | But I am here in this mama-I-made-it moment as someone who can show up as her | 但我在这里,妈妈,我做了这个时刻 一个人谁可以出现作为她 |
| 291 | most bevvious self, because I've done the work. | 最明显的自我, 因为我完成了工作。 |
| 292 | Yeah, my most bevvious self. | 是啊,我最可爱的自己。 |
| 293 | So, you | 所以说,你 |
| 294 | know, I'm going to show up. | 我要现身了 |
| 295 | You guys, some of you have met me. | 你们有些人见过我 |
| 296 | You know I'm vibrant and | 你知道我很活跃 |
| 297 | 雄伟的 A. k. a. | |
| 298 | loud. | 大声点 |
| 299 | Okay? | 好吗? |
| 300 | You know that I'm going to show up and I've got a pep in | 你知道,我会出现 我有一个pep |
| 301 | my high heel, red bottom step. | 我的脚跟 红色的底部 |
| 302 | I do have heaving cleavage. | 我确实有肝分裂。 |
| 303 | And I've got to tell it | 我必须说 |
| 304 | like it is approach to life that's always dosed with a ladle of love. | 就像对生活的态度 总是用一束爱来表示 |
| 305 | It took me 55 | 我花了55年时间 |
| 306 | years to get here. | 多年的到来。 |
| 307 | So, Chris Rock, you're right. | 克里斯・洛克 你说的对 |
| 308 | I'm a late bloomer. | 我是一个晚开花。 |
| 309 | And that's okay. | 这没关系。 |
| 310 | Because I'm right on time. | 因为我很准时 |
| 311 | Because it gets greater later. | 因为以后会变大 |
| 312 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
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