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一夜暴富是好事吗?

一夜暴富是好事吗?

一夜暴富是好事吗?

发布于 2026-08-25 · 时长 15:13

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0:06We can avoid talking about politics.我们可以避免谈论政治。
0:10We can steer clear of that religion conversation.我们可以避开宗教对话。
0:13But we're avoiding the topic of money because it's stressful.但我们在回避钱的话题,因为它的压力很大.
0:18Here's the difference.如下分别.
0:20Avoid talking about politics and religion.避免谈论政治和宗教。
0:22That doesn't cost you anything.这不花你任何东西。
0:24Avoid talking about money.别谈钱
0:26That can cost you a lot.这会花你很多钱。
0:282009年,"体育偶像"(Sports Illustrated)报道了78%的NFL退休人员.
0:35were getting there financially stressed and they were bankrupt within two years.财政压力很大 两年内就破产了
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1We can avoid talking about politics.我们可以避免谈论政治。
2We can steer clear of that religion conversation.我们可以避开宗教对话。
3But we're avoiding the topic of money because it's stressful.但我们在回避钱的话题,因为它的压力很大.
4Here's the difference.如下分别.
5Avoid talking about politics and religion.避免谈论政治和宗教。
6That doesn't cost you anything.这不花你任何东西。
7Avoid talking about money.别谈钱
8That can cost you a lot.这会花你很多钱。
92009年,"体育偶像"(Sports Illustrated)报道了78%的NFL退休人员.
10were getting there financially stressed and they were bankrupt within two years.财政压力很大 两年内就破产了
11That story probably sounds a lot like the one you've heard about lottery winners那个故事听起来可能很像 你听过的彩票赢家的故事
12that tend to blow through their money and go broke.这往往吹 他们的钱和破产。
13But you see, today isn't about lottery winners and it's not about professional athletes.但你看,今天不是彩票赢家 而是职业运动员
14It's what happens to all of us when money shows up and we're not ready for it.当金钱出现,我们还没准备好的时候,我们都会这样
15In fact, psychologists have even decided to coin a phrase for this called sudden wealth syndrome.事实上,心理学家甚至决定为这个叫做"突然财富综合征"的词组创作一个短语.
16I've been a financial advisor for three decades.我做财务顾问三十年了
17Sudden wealth isn't the problem.突然的财富不是问题
18The problem is when it comes quickly and we weren't ready.问题是,当它来得很快,我们还没有准备好。
19So what I want to do today is I want to take you through what I'm seeing.所以我今天想做的是 把你带过眼界
20I want to talk to you about why I think it's happening and then don't worry,我想和你谈谈为什么我想它发生 然后不用担心,
21I'm going to give you the what to do about it so you can avoid sudden wealth syndrome yourself.我会给你一些办法,这样你就可以自己避免突然的财富综合症.
22You see, money is this thing that could either free you or can trap you.你看,钱是这种东西 要么可以释放你 要么可以困住你。
23And as a university educator, my job is super simple.作为一名大学教育家 我的工作非常简单
24Students come into my class.学生们来我的班级。
25By the end of the semester, I need to do two things.学期结束时,我需要做两件事。
26First, I have to give them a foundation of personal finance.首先,我必须给他们个人资金的基础。
27Second, I need to make sure that they think money is something that can build them,第二,我需要确保 他们认为钱是能够建造他们的东西,
28that it doesn't need to break them.它不需要打破它们。
29Look, I didn't grow up with a heck of a lot of money.你看,我长大时没有 一大堆钱。
30Like you, I probably never had a personal finance class in high school or in college.跟你一样,我可能从未在高中或大学上过个人财务课.
31And you might say that I got a little lucky because I did.你可能会说,我有一点幸运 因为我做到了。
32I had a grandfather that made me follow stocks in the newspaper.我有一个祖父让我跟随报纸的股票。
33I got a four year soccer scholarship, so I didn't need to take out loans for college.我得到了四年的足球奖学金, 所以我不需要为大学贷款。
34The problem is not everyone else is getting so lucky.问题不是每个人都这么幸运
35And that's why I'm on this mission, to make sure that young adults get on a path这就是为什么我的任务, 确保年轻的成年人走上一条道路
36that has some sort of foundation of financial literacy in it.这里面有某种金融知识的基础。
37Let's use a couple of professional athletes so I can show you the dichotomy.让我们用几个职业运动员, 这样我就可以给你们看二分法。
38First, Anton Walker.先是安东·沃克
39He earned over, ready for this, $100 million in the course of his NBA career.他在NBA的职业生涯中赚了1亿美元,准备完成这个任务.
40By all reports we're hearing, he's lost most of it.根据我们听到的所有报道 他失去了大部分
41It was probably, if I had to guess, some combination of a lavish lifestyle,可能是,如果我不得不猜测, 一些结合一种奢华的生活方式,
42maybe some risky investments in there, giving too much money to friends and family,给朋友和家人太多钱
43to his credit though today, he's spending a lot of time teaching young athletes不过他今天的功劳是 他花了很多时间教年轻运动员
44what not to do with their money.什么不做 他们的钱。
45We then had Rob Gronkowski.然后我们有了罗布・格伦考斯基
46He took a different path.他走的是另一条路
47He decided what he was going to do is bank every dollar of his NFL salary,他决定他要做的是 将他的NFL工资的每美元银行,
48every dollar of it, and live totally on endorsement income.它的每一美元, 生活完全靠背书收入。
49Well, in the beginning, his endorsement income wasn't that much.一开始 他的认可收入并不多
50We all knew it then grew to be Dunkin' Donuts, right?我们都知道那会变成Dunkin'甜甜圈 对吧?
51So the idea here is this.所以这里的想法是这个。
52I could plug in so many different athletes in here.我可以在这里插很多不同的运动员。
53我可以说Johnny Manziel可能搞错了
54我可以说Shaquille O'Neal 他可能是对的
55But you see, the difference that we're seeing here is this,但是,你看, 我们在这里看到的区别是,
56is that they all have that same opportunity, yet they have very different results.他们都有同样的机会,但结果却大不相同。
57And the money that I'm seeing now not only in professional sports现在我看到的钱 不仅在职业体育方面
58but in collegiate sports is unbelievable.但是在联谊会运动中是不可思议的。
59Folks, I get it.伙计们,我明白了。
60Most of us are not going to earn $100 million in the course of our lifetime.我们大多数人在一生中不会赚1亿美元。
61However, the pattern seems to be the same for most of us.然而,对我们大多数人来说,这种模式似乎是一样的。
62And if you think about it, remember that first paycheck we got?想想看,记得我们第一次拿到薪水吗?
63That was probably more money than we'd ever seen at the time.那可能比我们当时见过的多
64So now I'm working with college athletic departments,所以现在我在大学体育系工作
65guiding them on how to educate their student athletes指导他们如何教育学生运动员
66who are getting paid money from what's called NIL.他们从所谓的NIL那里得到钱
67That stands for name, image, and likeness.这代表着名字、形象和相似性。
68This is money that comes in really fast, sometimes in some very big numbers.这笔钱来得真快,有时是大数字。
69And what's happening is it's creating this financial whiplash.正在发生的是 它造成了这种金融鞭策。
70Because yes, in the beginning, super exciting.因为,是的,在开始,超级刺激。
71But then the fear and the guilt and the doubt are creeping in.但后来恐惧,内疚,疑惑逐渐渗入.
72And now, believe it or not, what I'm starting to see is that this money is doing more harm than good.现在,信不信由你,我开始看到, 这笔钱的危害比好。
73Because what you see on the outside looking in is the cool apartment,因为你在外边看到的是那间很酷的公寓
74the awesome car, the trendy clothes.豪华的车, 潮流的衣服。
75What I'm seeing being on the inside is different.我所看到的内在不同
76I'm seeing young adults with a ton of concerns, this fear of who to trust,我看见年轻成年人 充满了顾虑 害怕相信谁
77and this unbelievable pressure to live the part.和这种难以置信的压力 活在角色。
78Now, you're probably sitting there thinking to yourself,现在,你可能坐在那里 想自己,
79hey, that's sudden wealth.嘿,这是突然的财富。
80That sounds like an awesome problem to have.听起来很麻烦
81Send some of that my way.送一些我的方式。
82Right.对
83And we can all chuckle about it.我们能大笑一笑
84But the reality is that sudden wealth syndrome might have already showed up in your life.但现实是,突然的财富综合征可能已经出现在你的生活中.
85Because this isn't something that just shows up in Beverly Hills.因为这不只是在比佛利山出现
86It shows up in regular zip codes, too.也出现在常规的拉链码中.
87I gave the example of your first paycheck.我举出了你第一次薪水的例子
88But how about your first bonus?但你的第一个奖金呢?
89Or how about your first tax refund?还是你第一次退税?
90Or maybe it's an inheritance.或有或有遗产.
91You see, for most of us, it's not this big windfall of seven figures.你看,对于我们大多数人来说,这不是7个数字的暴利。
92For most of us, it comes little by little.对我们大多数人来说,它很少出现。
93Every paycheck, every pay raise, every bonus.每一次薪水,每次加薪,每次奖金.
94So that then makes me think of the metaphor when we talk about goal planning that you've all heard of.因此,当我们谈论你们都听说过的目标规划时, 让我想到这个比喻。
95It's the ready, aim, fire, right?这是准备,瞄准,射击,对不对?
96But when it comes to money, we don't seem to be getting this right.但是,当涉及到金钱, 我们似乎没有做到这一点。
97In fact, we're not ready at all.事实上,我们还没有准备好。
98We are avoiding the aim, and we're going right to fire.我们正在避开目标,我们正要开火。
99And what that does when you think about it is it brings you from this potential place of peace of mind,当你想到它时, 它会把你从一个潜在的 平静的地方带来,
100and it brings you over here to this area of panic.它把你带到这个恐慌地区
101Let me give you a couple of examples that I've seen.让我举几个例子给你们看看。
102Nineteen-year-old high school student, he's getting money, cash, for NIL to go play a sport at the college.十九岁的高中生,他得到了钱,现金,为NIL去大学运动.
103Also getting a free car.还有免费车
104This kid, he was celebrating.这孩子,他在庆祝。
105Until he wasn't.直到他没有。
106Because he got a nice little reminder letter from the IRS telling him that he owed tax on the value of that car.因为他收到国税局的提醒信 告诉他他欠那辆车的税
107There you have it.给
108He wasn't ready.他还没准备好
109He didn't aim.他没有瞄准
110He went right to fire.他直接开枪了
111And now he's experiencing this tax shock.现在他正在经历这场税收冲击.
112A second example was a young woman who was not an athlete, went to college for four years.第二个例子是一名年轻女子,她不是运动员,上大学四年。
113She got her dream job in New York City.她在纽约市得到了她的梦想工作.
114She worked harder than she ever had.她比以前更努力工作过
115She got a bonus at the end of the year.年底她得到了奖金.
116Now, look, it wasn't millions, but it was certainly more money than she'd ever seen.现在,你看,它不是数百万, 但它肯定比她见过的更多钱。
117So what did she do?那她怎么办?
118She decided she wanted to upgrade the apartment.她决定想升级公寓
119That then led to having to furnish the apartment.结果不得不提供公寓。
120A little bit of money left over, so why save it?余钱少许,何以省之?
121Let's just go down to Miami on a vacation.我们去迈阿密度假吧
122And then she said to me four months later, this was what was going on in her head.四个月后,她对我说,这是她脑子里发生的事情。
123It was, how much of that money should I have saved?我存了多少钱?
124Should I have spent everything?我应该花光一切吗?
125Am I ever going to get any of this right?我能不能搞到这个?
126Well, she wasn't ready.她还没准备好
127She missed the aim, therefore went right to fire.她没有射中目标,因此直接开火。
128And now she brought herself from this place that she could have had confidence.现在,她从这个地方带回了自己 她可以有自信。
129And now she had a ton of concerns.现在她有太多的担心
130So the question you must ask yourself is this.所以,你必须问自己的问题是这个。
131It's why?为什么?
132Why is it that really smart people continue to fall into this trap?为什么真正的聪明人继续落入这个陷阱?
133Well, there are a lot of reasons why, probably thousands.原因很多,大概有上千个
134Let me just give you a few that I see over and over.让我给你一些 我一遍又一遍地看到。
135The first is what I call identity shock.第一个是所谓的身份冲击。
136Money doesn't just change your wallet.钱不只是换钱包
137It changes the way you see yourself.它改变了你看待自己的方式。
138And you see yourself as more valuable.而且你觉得自己更有价值
139And when you see yourself as more valuable, you want everyone else to see how valuable you are.当你觉得自己更有价值时, 你希望其他人看到你有多有价值。
140So what do you do?那你怎么办?
141You reflect it in your spending habits, right?你在你的消费习惯中反映它,对不对?
142But the paradox in life is this.但生活中的矛盾就是这个.
143Is that real confidence in life, I'm talking real confidence,我说的是真正的自信
144doesn't come from buying an expensive car to impress people you don't even know.不是买辆昂贵的车来打动你不认识的人
145Real confidence in life comes when you know you can buy the car,当你知道可以买到车时, 对生命的真正信心就来了
146but you know you don't have to to impress the people that are already in your circle.但你知道你不必给那些 已经进入你圈子的人留下深刻印象
147The second thing I'm seeing is what I call a lack of financial literacy.我所看到的第二件事就是我所说的缺乏金融知识。
148You might have heard the phrase, we can prepare the kids the money for the kids,你可能听过这句话 我们可以给孩子们准备钱
149but not the kids for the money.但不是孩子的钱。
150Well, that's pretty true.没错
151And so what's happening is you think of the 19 year old with the free car.所以现在发生的情况是,你想到了19岁的免费车。
152Come on, we couldn't have taught him about tax ahead of time or the young woman who blew through that bonus.拜托 我们不能提前教他税法 也不能教那个吹过奖金的年轻女人
153Seriously, we could have taught her about budgeting in this concept of paying yourself first in terms of savings.说真的,我们本可以教她如何在这种先自付储蓄的概念下编制预算。
154Think about this.考虑一下
155We are sending kids to college for four years.我们要送孩子上大学四年
156We're paying for that or taking out loans so that they could go out into the world and earn money.我们正在支付 或取出贷款 这样,他们可以出去 进入世界和赚取钱。
157But we're not going to take one class in those four years to make sure that they know what to do when the money shows up.但我们不会在这四年里上一个班,以确保当钱出现时他们知道该怎么做.
158The last thing is what I call emotional unpreparedness.最后一件事就是我所说的情感不准备。
159It's not just the money that shows up.不单是钱才出现.
160No, it's the pressure because you remember that fear and the guilt and the doubt that I told you about.不,这是压力 因为你记得恐惧, 内疚和怀疑 我告诉过你。
161You wrap those together and I'm going to show you someone who's overwhelmed.你把这些包起来,我会让你看到一个不知所措的人。
162You show me someone who is overwhelmed.你给我看一个不知所措的人
163I'm going to show you someone who probably doesn't always make the best money decisions.我要告诉你一个人 谁可能不总是 做出最好的金钱决定。
164OK, enough with the depression.好了,别郁闷了
165I have good news.我有一个好消息。
166When I'm sitting with my students in the class and we talk about sudden wealth syndrome, we have a solution.当我和班上的学生坐在一起 我们谈论突然的财富综合症时 我们有一个解决方案
167And that solution is what we call the four P's.这个解决方案就是我们所说的四个P。
168And if you see the money coming and you get to these four P's quickly, you have a much better chance of success.如果你看到钱的到来 并很快到达这四个P, 你有一个更好的成功机会。
169So let's go through what they are.所以,让我们看看他们是什么。
170The first is to pause.第一是暂停。
171Think about it like this.考虑一下吧
172Have you ever gotten an email or text that's, let's just say, a little less than kind?你有收到过电子邮件或短信吗? 说说看,比友善少一点?
173I don't know about you, but sometimes it gets me on a bad day.我不知道关于你, 但有时它让我在一个糟糕的一天。
174And I want to fire one back at him.我想朝他开枪
175But then I start to type that out and I get to the end and I realize, OK, I need to exercise what's called the 24 hour rule.但是,然后我开始打字,然后我得到 结尾,我意识到, 好了,我需要锻炼 所谓的24小时规则。
176So you take that and you put it in your draft folder.所以,你拿着它,你把它放在你的草稿文件夹。
177And I could tell you me, I hardly ever, pretty much never send the email in that format that I had drafted.我可以告诉你,我几乎从来没有, 几乎从来没有发送电子邮件 我起草的格式。
178So when you think about not sending that email and exercising the 24 hour rule,所以,当你考虑 不发送电子邮件和行使 24小时规则,
179I want you to think about mastering the pause in life and with money.我要你考虑 掌握生命的暂停和金钱。
180That ability to master the pause can be the difference between success and failure.掌握暂停的能力可能是成功与失败的区别。
181The second P is what I call purpose.第二个P就是我所说的目的。
182Money without meaning has no destination.没有意义的钱没有目的地。
183Think about it like this.考虑一下吧
184Imagine you're driving your car in an area that you don't know.想象一下你在你不知道的地方开车
185You're kind of lost.你有点迷路了
186What do you do?你们是做什么的?
187Right.对
188You plug in the destination into the navigation and it helps get you out of there.你插进目的地的导航系统 它能帮你离开那里
189If you don't know, have that destination, you might be there forever trying to get out of there.如果你不知道,有那个目的地, 你可能永远在那里 试图离开那里。
190For each of us, our purpose is a little bit different.对我们每个人来说,我们的目的有些不同。
191For you, it might be providing security for your family or for yourself.对你来说,它可能为你的家人或你自己提供安全保障。
192For you, it might be giving money to others.对你来说,它可能是给别人钱。
193For you, it might just be getting some of your time back.对你来说,它可能只是得到 一些你的时间回来。
194For all of us, it's different, but you have to identify what's the point of this money.对于我们所有人来说,这是不同的,但你必须辨别这笔钱的意义.
195The third P is what I call people.第三P是我所说的人。
196Imagine you're a race car driver.想象一下你是赛车司机
197That's right.没错
198You're sitting in the chair.你坐在椅子上。 你坐在椅子上。
199You have your hands on the wheel.你的手放在车轮上
200You're going around that track.你要绕着赛道走
201What do you need to do at some point?你什么时候该做什么?
202Right.对
203You need to pull into your pit crew, your people, because they're the ones that have the expertise on the car你需要拉进你的坑里,你的人, 因为他们有 在汽车上的专门知识
204to get it back out there on the track so you can finish the race.让它回到赛道上去 这样你就能完成比赛了
205And then finally, last but not least, is what I call the plan.最后,最后但并非最不重要的是,我所说的计划。
206Think about it like this.考虑一下吧
207Imagine you bought a piece of property that you're going to build your dream house on.想象一下,你买了一块地产 你要建造你的梦想的房子。
208Would you wake up one morning, get some boards, a nail, and a hammer,有一天早上你醒来,拿些板子、钉子和锤子
209and then just go over to that property and start knocking things together?然后去那个地方 开始把事情搞砸?
210No.没有
211You would never do that.你永远不会这样做。
212You would create a blueprint.你会创造一个蓝图。
213And that blueprint would guide everything that you were going to do from the foundation all the way up to the roof.这个蓝图将指导你将要做的事情 从基金会一直到屋顶。
214So here's the thing that I want you to think about.所以我希望你考虑一下
215This is not a story for athletes.这不是运动员的故事。
216This story belongs to all of us, all of us who could have money show up.这个故事属于我们所有人,所有可以有钱出现的人.
217And at the same time, sudden wealth syndrome could show up at the same time.同时,突然的财富综合征可能同时出现.
218So how do we avoid being part of that 78% statistic?那么我们如何避免成为78%统计的一部分?
219Well, first, you got to keep your head on a swivel.首先,你得保持你的头在摇摆。
220The money is coming.钱来了
221It's probably coming little by little, but it's coming.可能会慢慢来,但是会来的
222And we've got to be ready for it.亦得备足.
223And when you see it coming, you have to reach in your pocket quickly, grab those four P's.当你看到它来的时候,你必须迅速伸手,抓住那四个P's。
224You have to pause.你必须暂停。
225Just don't do anything with the money for a couple of days or a couple of weeks.只要不做任何事情 用钱几天或几个星期。
226Figure out what your purpose is.想想你的目的是什么 说吧
227Speak to your significant other, your family.跟另一个重要人物谈谈 你的家人
228Do some journaling.做一些日记。
229Find who your people need to be.找出你的人需要成为什么样的人
230Ask a friend who's your financial advisor.问一个朋友谁是你的财务顾问。
231Go to your local bank.去你的当地银行
232Do a little research online.在网上做点研究.
233And last but not least, put together that plan because it's going to be the North Star for you最后,但并非最不重要的, 制定这个计划,因为它会成为你的北极星
234that's going to guide every dollar that comes in.它将引导每一个美元 进来。
235Here's what I want you individually to imagine.这就是我要你单独想象的
236Imagine the money comes into your life.想象一下钱会进入你的生活
237I want you now to imagine that instead of feeling petrified, you're feeling prepared.我要你现在想象一下 与其感到害怕,还不如觉得有准备
238Instead of feeling embarrassed that you don't understand money, I want you to feel empowered.而不是因为你不懂钱而感到尴尬 我希望你能感觉到力量
239And instead of feeling concern, I want you to feel confidence.而不是担心,我要你有信心
240Sudden wealth doesn't need to be the thing that makes your life worse.突然的财富 不需要成为 让你的生活更糟的东西。
241It can make your life absolutely better, but you've got to be ready for it.它可以让你的生活绝对更美好, 但你必须准备好。
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