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亲爱的,你不必急着解决所有问题

亲爱的,你不必急着解决所有问题

亲爱的,你不必急着解决所有问题

发布于 2026-10-06 · 时长 16:00

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0:01Imagine a bad-tempered man in a boat, colliding with another boat on a misty river.想象一个脾气不好的人在船上,与另一艘船在雾水河上相撞.
0:08If the other boat were empty, he might be irritated but probably not very angry.如果另一艘船是空的,他可能会感到烦恼,但可能不是很生气.
0:14But if there was another man in it, he might start shouting, calling him an idiot, and但是如果里面还有另一个人,他可能会开始大喊大叫,叫他白痴,然后
0:19telling him to learn how to steer.告诉他学会如何驾驶。
0:22This comparison found in the Daoist text Zhuangzi raises an interesting question.达瓦特文本中的这种比较引起了一个有趣的问题。
0:29If the impact of the collision is the same in both cases, why does one provoke rage while如果碰撞的影响在两种情况下都是一样的,那么为什么一个人会激起愤怒,而与此同时,
0:36the other barely bothers him?其他人不打扰他吗?
0:39Aside from the man in the boat, the difference is what the mind adds to the collision.除了船上的人之外,区别在于心灵对碰撞的附加作用.
0:45A story about what happened, that someone caused it, that he shouldn't have done so,一个故事,关于发生了什么, 某人制造的, 他不应该这样做,
0:50that he is inconsiderate, and that he needs to change his ways.他无礼,他必须改变他的行为。
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1Imagine a bad-tempered man in a boat, colliding with another boat on a misty river.想象一个脾气不好的人在船上,与另一艘船在雾水河上相撞.
2If the other boat were empty, he might be irritated but probably not very angry.如果另一艘船是空的,他可能会感到烦恼,但可能不是很生气.
3But if there was another man in it, he might start shouting, calling him an idiot, and但是如果里面还有另一个人,他可能会开始大喊大叫,叫他白痴,然后
4telling him to learn how to steer.告诉他学会如何驾驶。
5This comparison found in the Daoist text Zhuangzi raises an interesting question.达瓦特文本中的这种比较引起了一个有趣的问题。
6If the impact of the collision is the same in both cases, why does one provoke rage while如果碰撞的影响在两种情况下都是一样的,那么为什么一个人会激起愤怒,而与此同时,
7the other barely bothers him?其他人不打扰他吗?
8Aside from the man in the boat, the difference is what the mind adds to the collision.除了船上的人之外,区别在于心灵对碰撞的附加作用.
9A story about what happened, that someone caused it, that he shouldn't have done so,一个故事,关于发生了什么, 某人制造的, 他不应该这样做,
10that he is inconsiderate, and that he needs to change his ways.他无礼,他必须改变他的行为。
11If you have an average human mind, you may have noticed that it loves stirring the pot.如果你有普通人的头脑, 你可能注意到它喜欢搅拌锅。
12Wherever we go, wherever our boats collide with reality to follow Zhuangzi's metaphor,无论我们走到哪里,无论我们的船与现实相撞 以遵循 Zhu子的比喻,
13our minds seem eager to point out what's wrong, insisting that we cannot, for a moment,我们的头脑似乎渴望指出什么是错的, 坚持我们不能,一瞬间,
14relax and enjoy the journey.放松,享受旅程
15Instead, they tell us to be outraged, afraid, and ready to fix whatever problem has appeared.相反,他们要求我们感到愤怒、害怕,并准备解决任何出现的问题。
16Before we know it, life begins to feel like an endless stream of problems, many of which在知道之前,生活开始感觉 像无尽的问题流, 其中许多
17disturb our peace of mind.扰乱我们的平静
18And because the mind keeps adding new concerns to the pile, we become perpetual problem solvers,因为头脑不断在堆积物中增加新的顾虑, 我们成为永久的解决问题者,
19often spending our lives feeling as though we're carrying water in a sieve.常常用我们的生活 感觉好像我们在塞水一样。
20But what if many, if not most, of our problems don't need to be solved?但是,如果许多,如果不是大多数,我们的问题不需要解决呢?
21This video explores the nature of what we consider everyday problems, why we may better这段视频探索了我们认为日常问题的性质,
22off not solving them, and what to do instead.而不是解决他们, 和做什么代替。
23Many people experience life as an endless stream of problems to solve, problems that许多人体验生活 成为无尽的问题流 解决问题,问题
24just keep coming, never giving them a break.继续走,永远不要放过他们
25For some, this becomes so overwhelming that they feel constantly overloaded, often leading对有些人来说,这变得如此不堪重负,以至于他们感到时常超载,往往导致
26to anxiety, despair, or even anger.焦虑 绝望 甚至愤怒
27Having a history of depression, I'm very prone to this.有抑郁症史,我很容易被感染
28I'm a massive over-thinker, and I remember already being so as a child.我是一个庞大的过度思考者, 我记得我已经这样作为一个孩子。
29Many times in the past, I felt my troubles piling up faster than I could possibly deal过去很多次,我感觉我的麻烦 堆积起来比我可能处理的速度快
30with them.与他们。
31It's like a dark cloud slowly spreading across the sky, until there's barely enough light这就像一片阴云 慢慢地向天空扩散 直到光线不足
32left to see where I might even begin.看看我可能从哪里开始
33The pressure was often overpowering, and I couldn't see a way out.压力常常是压倒性的,我看不到出路.
34Feeling swamped by problems isn't very pleasant, but in many cases, it's also unnecessary.被问题困扰的感觉并不令人愉快,但在许多情况下,这也是不必要的.
35Before we continue, let's define problem first.在我们继续之前,让我们先定义问题.
36Cambridge Dictionary defines problem as a situation, person, or thing that needs attention剑桥词典将问题定义为需要注意的情况、人或事物
37and needs to be dealt with or solved.需要处理或解决。
38And Merriam-Webster offers a handful of descriptions, such as a question raised for inquiry, consideration,而Merriam-Webster则给出了少数描述,例如提出一个供调查,考虑的问题.
39or solution, and a source of perplexity, distress, or vexation.或解决, 和造成困惑, 痛苦,或烦恼的根源。
40Oxford Dictionary defines it as a thing that is difficult to deal with or to understand.牛津词典将它定义为一个难以处理或难以理解的东西.
41In the ordinary sense of the word, a problem is not merely a neutral situation to be dealt从普通意义上讲,问题不仅仅是需要处理的中立情况
42with.带。
43It's also something we experience as difficult, troubling, or distressing.这也是我们所经历的艰难、烦恼或痛苦。
44Hence, talking about our problems often goes hand in hand with expressing discontent,因此,谈论我们的问题往往与表达不满同时发生,
45implying that what we're talking about isn't very good and needs addressing.意味着我们所说的不是很好 需要解决
46But this raises a question.但这引起了一个问题。
47How does a situation become a problem in the first place?情况怎么会成为问题呢?
48What happens between something simply occurring and are experiencing it as difficult, troubling,发生的事情 和正在经历 困难,烦恼,
49or needing resolution?还是需要解决?
50In Buddhism, there's a concept called Papancha in Pali or Prapancha in Sanskrit.在佛教中,有一个概念叫帕潘查(Papancha)在帕利语中或普拉潘查(Prapancha)在梵语中.
51There's no real consensus on how to translate it, as the concept is notoriously difficult因为这个概念很困难 很难翻译
52to define.以定义。
53But terms such as mental proliferation, conceptual proliferation, complication, elaboration,但精神扩散 概念扩散 复杂 精心策划
54and objectification are often used.并且经常使用对象化.
55Broadly speaking, Papancha seems to describe the mind's tendency to expand on experience,广义上说,帕潘查似乎描述了心灵扩张经验的倾向,
56generating interpretations, judgments, memories, fantasies, theories, and other mental constructions.生成解释,判断,记忆,幻想,理论,以及其他精神构造.
57Now, aren't most of our problems the result of mental proliferation?现在,我们大部分的问题不是 精神扩散的结果吗?
58Aren't they first and foremost stories created by the mind, rather than the actual events而不是真实的事件
59they refer to?他们提到?
60In other words, aren't we creating the problem by adding our own narratives and judgments换句话说,我们不是通过增加自己的叙述和判断来制造问题吗?
61to an otherwise neutral world?对一个中立的世界?
62When we look at our own problems, we see they come in all sizes, fragrances, and intensities,当我们看着我们自己的问题,我们看到它们 大小,香气,和强度,
63and they concern the past, present, and future.它们涉及过去、现在和未来。
64When it comes to the past, we may experience a memory, perhaps triggered by our surroundings,说到过去,我们可能会经历一段记忆, 也许是由我们的周围环境引发的,
65which quickly evokes thoughts about that memory, judgments about why that particular event快速唤起对记忆的思绪 判断为何这一事件
66was wrong, who was to blame, and why we're still suffering in the present because of it.是错的,谁该责备, 为什么我们现在仍然在受苦 因为它。
67And before we know it, we have written a whole novel in our heads about something that happened在知道之前,我们已经写了一整部小说 在我们的脑海中 关于一些事情发生了
68back then that we now consider a problem to be solved.那时,我们现在认为一个问题需要解决。
69When the past doesn't give us something bitter to chew on, there's plenty of misery to be当过去不让我们吃苦的东西时, 痛苦就会很多
70found in the present.发现于当前。
71We may encounter something in the streets that we don't like, someone acting very我们可能会在街上遇到一些我们不喜欢的东西, 某个人的行为非常
72rudely or inconsiderately.粗鲁或无礼.
73Instead of simply noticing it and letting it go, we begin to create a whole narrative而不是简单地注意到它,让它消失, 我们开始建立一个完整的叙述
74around this individual.围绕这个个体。
75That society is getting worse, that we're witnessing an erosion of civility in the West,社会越来越糟糕,我们看到西方文明的侵蚀,
76that Europe is going down the drain.欧洲正在下水道。
77So, what began as a single encounter turns into an ever-growing collection of problems所以,作为一个单一的遭遇 变成了越来越多的问题集
78bouncing around in our minds.在我们的脑海中奔波
79Many everyday occurrences also have the potential to become problems in our minds, such as a许多日常事件也有可能成为我们心中的问题,例如:
80friend not responding to a text message, a co-worker who doesn't like us, someone expressing朋友不回应短信 一个不喜欢我们的同事 有人表达
81an absurd opinion, a brief feeling of loneliness, looking in a mirror and noticing we're getting一个荒谬的观点, 一个短暂的孤独感, 看着镜子,注意到我们正在得到
82older, embarrassing ourselves.年长, 尴尬自己。
83All these things can lead us to create stories that occupy our minds for hours on end, asking这一切可以让我们 创造故事 占据我们的思想 几个小时结束,问
84us to be dealt with in some way.以某种方式对待我们
85And then there's the future.然后有未来.
86Many of us are experts at navigating a future that, as we all know, doesn't even exist yet.我们很多人都是研究未来的专家, 众所周知,未来甚至不存在。
87Suppose we have an important conversation coming up next week.假设下周我们有个重要话题
88Nothing has happened yet, but we're already imagining everything that could go wrong.还没发生什么 但我们已经想象出了可能出错的一切
89What the other person might say, how we might respond, whether we'll say something stupid,其他人会说什么,我们如何回应, 我们是否会说一些蠢话,
90and what the consequences might be.以及后果是什么
91So, long before even a word is exchanged, we're already trying to solve a future that所以,在交换一个字之前,我们已经在试图解决一个未来
92exists only in our imagination.仅存在于我们的想象中。
93Whether it's rumination on the past, worry about the present, or catastrophic thinking不管是过去的事 还是现在的事 还是灾难性的想法
94about the future.关于未来
95All these stories generate not-so-pleasant emotions, from grief to anger, from anxiety所有这些故事都产生不怎么激动的情绪 从悲伤到愤怒 从焦虑
96{\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}全场恐慌
97But as you probably have concluded, many of these mental proliferations vary from superfluous但正如你可能已经得出的结论, 许多这些精神扩散 从多余的
98to downright ridiculous.完全荒谬。
99They don't benefit us in any way.他们对我们没有任何好处
100Yet the mind keeps producing them, like a problem machine that, in many cases, refuses然而,心灵不断产生它们, 像一个问题机器,在许多情况下,拒绝
101to shut down.关闭。
102It might do so to protect us, which is a nice gesture, but it isn't doing a very good job.它可能是为了保护我们,这是一个很好的姿态,但它并没有做一个非常好的工作。
103And it brings about a lot of emotional suffering as a byproduct.这带来了很多情感痛苦 作为一个副产品。
104Aside from generating problems, there's something else the mind is good at.除了制造问题之外,还有别的东西 头脑是好的。
105Solving problems.解决问题
106When we're drowning in problems, what else can we do but try to solve them?当我们在问题中溺水时,除了试图解决问题,还能做什么?
107After all, if we don't tackle everything life throws at us, how will we ever get out毕竟,如果我们不解决一切 生命向我们投射,我们怎么离开
108of this mess?这烂摊子?
109How will we ever get the break we feel we deserve?我们该怎么休息?
110The problem-solving part of the mind seems to work like a hammer.解决问题的部分思想似乎像锤子一样有效.
111Whatever it encounters begins to look like a nail that needs to be struck.不管它遇到什么 开始看起来像一个钉子 需要打。
112A memory, an awkward interaction, an unanswered message, something a family member could say一个记忆,一个尴尬的互动, 一个未解的信息, 一个家庭成员可以说
113in the future, each can quickly become another problem to solve.在未来,每个问题都可以很快成为另一个需要解决的问题.
114We imagine that once all the nails have been hammered in, we'll finally be able to sit我们想象一旦钉子都钉住了 我们就能坐稳了
115back and relax, like carpenters, at the end of a long day.像木匠一样在漫长的一天结束时放松
116However, as you may have noticed, the mind keeps producing new nails to pound.然而,你可能已经注意到, 大脑不断生产新的指甲以磅。
117We're like Hercules chopping off Hydra's head, only for them to grow back.我们就像海克力士砍掉海德拉的头, 只让他们长回来。
118And so, our efforts never seem to bring us any closer to the finish line.因此,我们的努力似乎从未使我们更接近终点线。
119There's always something else to reconsider, anticipate, correct, understand, or resolve.总是有别的东西需要重新考虑,预期,正确,理解,或决心.
120In that sense, solving never really solves it.从这个意义上讲,解决永远不会真正解决它。
121We're basically mopping the floor with the tap still running.我们基本上正在清理地板 水龙头还在运行。
122And for many of us, this is what life feels like from dawn to dusk, trying to address对我们许多人来说,这就是从黎明到黄昏的生活感受,试图解决
123one problem after another, yet still feeling overwhelmed.一个又一个的问题, 但仍然感觉不堪重负。
124And here we see the diabolical situation a restless, discursive mind puts itself in.在这里,我们看到邪恶的局面 一个不安的,无常的头脑 自己陷入。
125It creates the very issues it is so anxious to get rid of.它制造了它急于摆脱的问题。
126It is both the arsonist and the firefighter.是纵火犯和消防员
127So while we're busy putting out fires, we're starting new ones all around us.所以,当我们忙着扑灭火的时候, 我们开始新的火。
128Sure, for some this might be a nice form of occupational therapy, but for most of us,当然,对有些人来说,这可能是一种很好的职业疗法, 但对我们大多数人来说,
129for me at least, it's not a pleasant way to live.至少对我来说,这不是一个愉快的生活方式。
130Luckily, there's another way of dealing with the problems that arise in our minds.幸运的是,还有另一种方法来处理我们脑海中产生的问题.
131Instead of buying a better mop or hiring a cleaning crew to deal with the unending stream,而不是买个更好的拖把 或雇用一个清洁工 来处理无尽的溪流,
132we could simply turn off the tap.我们可以把水龙头关掉
133Returning to the Taoist example of the boat.归依道教譬船.
134Not every collision needs to make the front page, becoming the subject of outrage, analysis,并不是每次碰撞都需要做头版, 成为愤怒,分析的主题,
135and possible solutions.和可能的解决办法。
136Likewise, not every thought or situation we encounter needs to become an issue that demands同样,我们遇到的并非每一个想法或情况都需要成为一个要求
137our attention.我们的注意力。
138It's important to distinguish between mental proliferations that pose as problems and things必须区分 心理扩散 构成问题和事物
139we actually need to do in order to prevent unwanted trouble later on.我们实际上需要做 以防止不必要的麻烦以后。
140We need to pay our electricity bills to keep the lights on, pay our rent to keep a roof我们要付电费才能保持灯光 付房租才能维持屋顶
141over our heads, and take our medication to treat an illness.吃药治疗疾病
142These are practical issues with relatively straightforward solutions.这些是实际问题,解决办法比较直截了当。
143Of course, some of these problems can become more serious and immediate, and really need当然,其中一些问题可能变得更加严重和紧迫,确实需要
144our attention, preferably from a place of calm.我们的注意力, 最好是从一个平静的地方。
145But as we have discussed earlier, many of the things we consider problems, things that但是,正如我们之前讨论过的那样, 我们所认为的很多问题,
146genuinely feel like problems, are largely stories.真正的感觉像问题,主要是故事。
147They may be rooted in real events and situations, but much of their content is made up.它们可能根植于真实的事件和情况,但其内容大多是编成的。
148Exaggerated versions of what happened, misinterpretations of reality, or even complete fantasies and夸大其词的版本 错误解释现实 甚至完全幻想
149all the judgements we attach to them.我们对他们的所有判断
150These are the narratives we construct around events in the past, present, and future.这些是我们围绕过去、现在和将来的事件而构建的叙述。
151And even though the mind can't wait to solve whatever it insists needs solving, we could尽管心灵迫不及待地想解决它坚持要解决的
152ask ourselves, do we really need to?问我们自己,我们真的需要吗?
153Do we really need to solve a co-worker who doesn't like us?我们真的需要解决一个不喜欢我们的同事吗?
154Do we really need to solve every disagreement?我们真的需要解决所有分歧吗?
155Do we really need to solve the fact that others are doing better than us in their careers?我们是否真的需要解决这样一个事实,即其他人的职业生涯比我们做得更好?
156Or that people we don't even know might judge us for not living up to the societal ideal?或者我们不认识的人 可能会认为我们没有达到社会的理想?
157Do we need to do something about every piece of bad news, every opinion, every comment,我们需要做一些事情 对于每一个坏消息, 每一个意见,每一个评论,
158every potential threat we encounter in the media?我们在媒体上遇到的每一个潜在威胁?
159Do we need to find closure for every old regret, or set right every past mistake?我们是否需要为每一个旧的遗憾找到终结,还是纠正过去的每一次错误?
160Are all these things truly the problem?这些都是真的问题吗?
161Or is the real problem the mind's endless proliferation around them?还是真正的问题 心灵的无穷无尽的蔓延围绕着他们?
162The narratives about why all these things or people are horrible, how things could and关于为什么所有这些事情或人们 可怕,事情如何可能和
163should have been different, and how everything only gets worse.应该有不同的, 和怎么一切都变得更糟。
164Is the problem the problem?有问题吗?
165And if so, instead of trying to solve all these apparent issues one by one, wouldn't如果是这样,而不是试图 解决所有这些明显的问题 一个一个,不会
166we be better off addressing the root of it all?我们最好解决这一切的根源?
167The mind that keeps manufacturing story after story?不停的制造故事的思想?
168Wouldn't we be better off turning off the tap?关掉水龙头不是更好吗?
169How do we turn off the tap?我们怎么关掉水龙头?
170How do we put an end to this endless generation of thoughts and stories about the past, present我们如何结束这无休止的一代 关于过去,现在的思潮和故事
171and future?未来呢?
172Maybe the Buddha's surprisingly simple reminder is exactly what we need.也许菩萨惊人的简单提醒 正是我们需要的
173You shouldn't chase after the past or place expectations on the future.你不应该追寻过去 或者对未来寄予期望
174What is past is left behind.过去的已经过去了
175The future is as yet unreached.未来至今未达.
176Whatever quality is present, you clearly see right there, right there.无论质量有多高,你都看得出来
177The right there, right there speaks to me.那边,那边跟我说话
178What truly matters is what's right there, as it is, in the present.真正要紧的就是现在的状态
179Not what we have constructed in our minds.不是我们在脑海中构建的
180Simply put, the Buddha teaches us not to keep feeding these mental proliferations, not to简言之,佛祖教导我们不要继续喂食这些精神扩散,不要...
181welcome them, cling to them, or relish them.欢迎他们,或依恋他们,或喜悦他们。
182What remains is simply what is, right there.所剩无几的就是这里
183The man in the boat is a man in a boat.舟中人谓舟中人曰.
184There is no need to make him into anything more.没必要再把他弄成这样
185The burden of a haunting past that should've been different, a present that seems too full被困扰的过去 本来应该不一样的 似乎太饱满的礼物
186of trouble to endure, and a future that looks too intimidating and bleak to face, is simply未来看起来太可怕又暗淡,
187too much to bear.太过分了
188At least for me, trying to carry it all has often made me miserable.至少对我来说, 试图携带这一切 经常使我痛苦。
189We don't need an inner agitator constantly pulling us down into the flames of suffering我们不需要一个内在的煽动者 不停地把我们拉到痛苦的火焰中
190and depriving us of the lightness that comes with an unencumbered mind.并使我们失去无动于衷的光明
191What we need is equanimity in a world already challenging enough on its own.我们需要的是在一个已经足够具有挑战性的世界中保持平衡。
192Thank you for watching.谢谢你的观看。
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