悲观才是爱情的真谛
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | We think, of course, that pessimism must be the enemy of love. | 当然,我们认为悲观主义必须是爱的敌人。 |
| 0:04 | Yet, what a properly thoughtful gift, well aimed, generously held pessimism can be to any incoming partner. | 然而,对于任何即将到来的合作伙伴来说,多么周到的礼物、目标明确、慷慨的悲观情绪。 |
| 0:12 | What kindness it is to tell a partner, in effect, or even directly, | 告诉一个伴侣,实际上,甚至直接, |
| 0:16 | you will sometimes hate me and I will sometimes hate you, | 有时你会恨我 有时我会恨你 |
| 0:20 | and we will think we made the worst error of our lives, but still, I want, on balance, to be with you. | 我们会认为我们犯了我们生活中最糟糕的错误, 但是,我想,在平衡, 和你在一起。 |
| 0:26 | I don't expect to be happy here very often. | 我不指望在这里经常快乐 |
| 0:28 | I know I will frequently cry and yearn, and you will, in privacy, do likewise. | 我知道我会经常哭泣和渴望, 你也会在隐私中这样做。 |
| 0:34 | How cheerful, if we could, on our first dates, around about the main course, ask each other, | 多么高兴,如果我们可以, 在我们第一次约会, 围绕主要课程, |
| 0:39 | what variety of madness do you bring with you? | 你带来什么样的疯狂? |
| 0:42 | What kind of calamity do you like to unleash? | 你们喜欢什么样的灾难? |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 1 | We think, of course, that pessimism must be the enemy of love. | 当然,我们认为悲观主义必须是爱的敌人。 |
| 2 | Yet, what a properly thoughtful gift, well aimed, generously held pessimism can be to any incoming partner. | 然而,对于任何即将到来的合作伙伴来说,多么周到的礼物、目标明确、慷慨的悲观情绪。 |
| 3 | What kindness it is to tell a partner, in effect, or even directly, | 告诉一个伴侣,实际上,甚至直接, |
| 4 | you will sometimes hate me and I will sometimes hate you, | 有时你会恨我 有时我会恨你 |
| 5 | and we will think we made the worst error of our lives, but still, I want, on balance, to be with you. | 我们会认为我们犯了我们生活中最糟糕的错误, 但是,我想,在平衡, 和你在一起。 |
| 6 | I don't expect to be happy here very often. | 我不指望在这里经常快乐 |
| 7 | I know I will frequently cry and yearn, and you will, in privacy, do likewise. | 我知道我会经常哭泣和渴望, 你也会在隐私中这样做。 |
| 8 | How cheerful, if we could, on our first dates, around about the main course, ask each other, | 多么高兴,如果我们可以, 在我们第一次约会, 围绕主要课程, |
| 9 | what variety of madness do you bring with you? | 你带来什么样的疯狂? |
| 10 | What kind of calamity do you like to unleash? | 你们喜欢什么样的灾难? |
| 11 | It would be the ones who couldn't answer that we'd need to worry about, | 是那些不能回答我们需要担心的人 |
| 12 | those cruel enough to still think of themselves as people who didn't bring trouble in their wake. | 那些残忍到仍然认为自己是 那些没有带来麻烦的人 |
| 13 | It's inculcated in us that optimism is the thing we need in love. | 它向我们灌输了乐观是我们在爱情中需要的东西. |
| 14 | But what if darkness actually held us more securely? | 但是如果黑暗真的让我们更加安全呢? |
| 15 | What if we could rehearse some of the following in relationships? | 如果我们可以排练一些 在恋爱中? |
| 16 | Sex is, at some point, going to fail. | 性爱在某个时候会失败 |
| 17 | If you're too present, I will feel suffocated. | 如果你太在场,我会感到窒息。 |
| 18 | If you're too distant, I will feel abandoned. | 如果你太远,我会觉得被抛弃。 |
| 19 | You will mistake me from some figure from your past. | 你会把我从你的过去中弄错了 |
| 20 | I will land on your head some of the anger and frustration that belongs to another person. | 我会把属于别人的愤怒和挫折 落在你的头上 |
| 21 | What if, on our wedding day, we threw away the usual bromides and went for something stiffer? | 如果,在我们结婚的日子, 我们扔掉了 通常的溴化物,去 更僵硬的东西? |
| 22 | What if we told an assembled gathering, | 如果我们告诉一个集会, |
| 23 | I've chosen this person over any other to be miserable around, and they've done the same to me? | 我选择了这个人 而不是其他任何人 来折磨我 他们也这样对我? |
| 24 | They are all told, the very best person to be sad about, the finest individual to lament, | 他们都被告知,最好的人 悲伤,最好的个人 感叹, |
| 25 | the least worst person to feel disappointed by. | 最不让人失望的人 |
| 26 | At the height of the wedding ceremony, we might say, | 在婚礼的高潮时 我们可以说 |
| 27 | I've chosen you above all others, on whom to rest my foiled hopes, | 我选择了你 超越了其他人 使我被挫败的希望得以安息 |
| 28 | my dashed expectations, my madness and my formless yearnings. | 我破灭的期望,我的疯狂和无形的渴望。 |
| 29 | You will be the one I've chosen to hurt, to be hurt by and to suffer alongside. | 你将是我选择伤害的人 被伤害和同时受苦 |
| 30 | We might whisper to our beloved on the honeymoon, | 我们可能会在蜜月时 向爱人低语 |
| 31 | I will be irritated by your habits, you will be maddened by mine, | 我会因为你的习惯而烦恼, 你会为我的疯狂, |
| 32 | you will wish that I had different parents and I will regret the lessons that life has taught you. | 你会希望我父母不同 我会后悔生活给你的教训 |
| 33 | Often, we will think we'd stumbled on a monumental error. | 我们常常会认为我们遇到了一个巨大的错误 |
| 34 | Then, the mood will pass. | 然后,情绪会过去。 |
| 35 | Let's be frank, it's not in our capacity to enjoy unblemished happiness. | 坦率地说,享受无瑕的幸福不是我们的能力. |
| 36 | We haven't until now, and why would we break the habit at this stage? | 我们一直到现在, 为什么我们打破这个阶段的习惯? |
| 37 | There are people who can do serenity, we hear rumours about how they live, | 有的人可以保持安静, 我们听到谣言 他们如何生活, |
| 38 | but this isn't us. | 但这不是我们 |
| 39 | We come from a different tribe, | 我们来自不同的部落, |
| 40 | the anxious, techy, glass half full ones who wake up every morning and scan the horizon for horror. | 焦急的,技术的,玻璃半满 他们每天早上醒来 扫描地平线的恐怖。 |
| 41 | Bless us in our misery. | 在痛苦中保佑我们 |
| 42 | We've got it all wrong. | 我们搞错了 |
| 43 | We've allowed ourselves to be tormented by our hopes and expectations, | 我们让自己被我们的希望和期望所折磨 |
| 44 | to think that we'd cut through the mess and rest on an altar of sanity and good sense in the company of another untouched human? | 以为我们会把乱七八糟的乱七八糟的乱七八糟的乱七八糟的乱七八糟的乱七八糟的乱七八糟的 |
| 45 | No. | 没有 |
| 46 | To expect almost nothing, to consider ourselves lucky if nothing terrible's happened today or in the last hour, | 如果今天或最后一小时没有发生什么可怕的事 就会认为我们很幸运 |
| 47 | that's proper generosity, that's true forgiveness, that is exceptional maturity. | 这是恰当的慷慨, 这是真正的宽恕, 这是非凡的成熟。 |
| 48 | If we've spent a few happy moments with someone, that's already a feat. | 如果我们和某人度过了几段快乐的时光,那已经是一个壮举了. |
| 49 | Let's not assume, as our birthright, something that can only ever be a lucky accident. | 让我们不要假设,作为我们的天生权利, 这只能是一个幸运的意外。 |
| 50 | Let's do our next partner the greatest honour, | 让我们的下一个伙伴 获得最大的荣誉, |
| 51 | to bathe them in the delightful romantic robes of pessimism. | 让他们穿着悲观的浪漫袍子洗澡 |
| 52 | Let's hope for very little from them. | 希望他们能少一点 |
| 53 | Let's expect, often, to be a bit sad around them. | 让我们期待,经常, 在他们周围有点悲伤。 |
| 54 | That will be the true beginning of contented love, properly understood. | 这将是满足的爱的真正开始, 正确理解。 |
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