初次约会要说真话吗
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | We are here, ultimately, because we're fed up with being unseen. | 我们在这里,最终, 因为我们厌倦了被看不见。 |
| 0:04 | We've come here to be known, to share our inner lives, | 我们来这里是为了让大家知道 分享我们的内心生活 |
| 0:07 | for another person to witness us as we really are. | 为了另一个人来见证我们的真实身份 |
| 0:10 | But herein lies a paradox of early dating. | 但这里存在着早期约会的矛盾。 |
| 0:14 | If we say too much too soon, if we too readily declare ourselves, | 如果我们说得太早,如果我们太轻易宣布自己, |
| 0:19 | if we show now what our last three partners knew by the end, | 如果我们现在显示我们最后三个伙伴知道什么 |
| 0:23 | we will be abandoned. | 我们会被抛弃的 |
| 0:25 | Were we to tell them right now, in this pretty restaurant with candlelight and Prince of Sicily, | 如果我们告诉他们现在, 在这个漂亮的餐厅 烛光和西西里王子, |
| 0:29 | and an interesting pear and almond tart for later, | 和一朵有趣的梨和杏花, |
| 0:32 | about the crisis at work, the illness we survived, | 关于工作中的危机, 我们幸存下来的疾病, |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | We are here, ultimately, because we're fed up with being unseen. | 我们在这里,最终, 因为我们厌倦了被看不见。 |
| 2 | We've come here to be known, to share our inner lives, | 我们来这里是为了让大家知道 分享我们的内心生活 |
| 3 | for another person to witness us as we really are. | 为了另一个人来见证我们的真实身份 |
| 4 | But herein lies a paradox of early dating. | 但这里存在着早期约会的矛盾。 |
| 5 | If we say too much too soon, if we too readily declare ourselves, | 如果我们说得太早,如果我们太轻易宣布自己, |
| 6 | if we show now what our last three partners knew by the end, | 如果我们现在显示我们最后三个伙伴知道什么 |
| 7 | we will be abandoned. | 我们会被抛弃的 |
| 8 | Were we to tell them right now, in this pretty restaurant with candlelight and Prince of Sicily, | 如果我们告诉他们现在, 在这个漂亮的餐厅 烛光和西西里王子, |
| 9 | and an interesting pear and almond tart for later, | 和一朵有趣的梨和杏花, |
| 10 | about the crisis at work, the illness we survived, | 关于工作中的危机, 我们幸存下来的疾病, |
| 11 | the sort of sex we're really interested in, our susceptibility to anxiety, | 那种性 我们真正感兴趣的, 我们容易焦虑, |
| 12 | and the amount of time we have to spend on work trips and with our families of birth, | 以及我们花在工作旅行和与出生家庭在一起的时间, |
| 13 | they will run. | 他们会跑的 |
| 14 | The full facts of any life are generally perilous to bear. | 任何生命的全部事实一般都是危险的。 |
| 15 | And so, we have few options other than to hedge. | 因此,除了套期外,我们别无选择。 |
| 16 | Some may call it lying. | 有人可能叫它撒谎 |
| 17 | We prefer editing. | 我们更喜欢编辑 |
| 18 | We tell them that our first relationship was somewhat stormy. | 我们告诉他们我们第一次的关系有点暴风雨 |
| 19 | We remark that we've had a few ups and downs professionally. | 我们说,我们有一些上下 专业。 |
| 20 | Our father is described as intense. | 我们的父亲被描述为紧张。 |
| 21 | The situation with our children is not always cheerful. | 我们儿童的处境并不总是愉快的。 |
| 22 | Our mood is occasionally melancholic. | 我们的心情偶尔是忧郁的。 |
| 23 | We opt to say nothing at all about our kidneys and our brother-in-law. | 我们选择不谈我们的肾和姐夫 |
| 24 | This also won't be the moment to bring up the pending lawsuit. | 现在也不是提起未决诉讼的时候. |
| 25 | As a result of such judicious management, we succeed. | 由于这种明智的管理,我们取得了成功。 |
| 26 | There is a second date and a tenth. | 有第二次约会和第十次约会 |
| 27 | We travel to the north Norfolk coast. | 我们前往诺福克北部海岸 |
| 28 | We go and see the Vermeers in Amsterdam. | 我们去看阿姆斯特丹的维米尔一家 |
| 29 | They meet our friends Dee and Pee. | 他们遇见了我们的朋友迪伊和皮 |
| 30 | But this isn't what we're here for. | 但这不是我们来这里的目的 |
| 31 | We've come to escape loneliness, not to replicate it in a socialized form. | 我们是来逃避孤独的 不是来以社交形式复制的 |
| 32 | The goal of love isn't to be admired. | 爱的目标不值得钦佩. |
| 33 | It's to be known. | 得名无边. |
| 34 | It isn't for someone to believe that we're marvelous. | 不该有人相信我们很了不起 |
| 35 | It's for them to understand us as pitiful and not take fright. | 让他们明白我们是可怜人 而不是害怕 |
| 36 | We want them to fathom our oddities, our prevarications, | 我们想让他们了解我们的怪异之处 以及我们的偏执 |
| 37 | the appalling compromises we've made, the shameful things we've done, | 我们做出的令人震惊的妥协, 我们所做的可耻的事, |
| 38 | and for them to forgive us. | 让他们原谅我们 |
| 39 | Anyone can be thought a hero. | 谁都可以被认为是英雄. |
| 40 | We want to be known as the wretch we are and still be kept in mind. | 我们想要被称为我们现在和现在仍然被铭记的苦恼。 |
| 41 | It must, in the end, be a matter of judicious sequencing. | 归根结底,这必须是一个明智的顺序问题。 |
| 42 | People can take a lot, so long as they first surveyed a basic capacity for decency and good sense. | 人们可以花费很多时间,只要他们首先调查了一种基本的体面和良好的感性能力. |
| 43 | By the 220th evening, they will have sufficient proof that we are also kind, | 到第220天傍晚,他们将有充足的证据,证明我们是善良的, |
| 44 | also thoughtful, also approximately sane, | 也是深思熟虑的,也是理智的, |
| 45 | and so will better be able to withstand the discovery of the sexual kink, | 以至更能忍受性欲的发现, |
| 46 | our mental fragility, and our tormented family bonds. | 我们的心灵脆弱, 我们受苦的家庭纽带。 |
| 47 | They won't flee when we finally describe the full details of the divorce | 我们终于把离婚的细节描述清楚 他们不会逃走的 |
| 48 | and the legal challenges in our business, | 以及我们生意中的法律挑战, |
| 49 | because they will have the balancing evidence of our long ministration | 因为他们有我们长期迷信的平衡证据 |
| 50 | through their stomach ailment and behaviour around the crisis with their friend in early June. | 他们的胃病和行为 围绕危机 在他们的朋友在6月初。 |
| 51 | The months will have taught them that we are not merely foolish and thoughtless, | 这几个月会教他们,我们不仅仅是愚蠢和无心的, |
| 52 | not just impatient and very, very odd. | 不只是不耐烦 和非常,非常奇怪。 |
| 53 | Parents know this lesson well enough. | 父母深知此经. |
| 54 | There will come a time to mention what really happened with Granny | 以后会有时间说说奶奶到底怎么了 |
| 55 | and where the money actually went. | 钱到底去了哪里 |
| 56 | But they'll need to be on the far side of 12 years old, | 但他们需要站在12岁那边 |
| 57 | after many quiet readings of The Owl Who Loved Its Babies. | 经过许多安静的阅读 猫头鹰谁爱它的婴儿。 |
| 58 | We need to cut the truth up so it can be metabolised by those we care for. | 我们需要把真相切开 以便它能被我们所关心的人代谢 |
| 59 | This isn't deceit. | 这不是欺骗 |
| 60 | It belongs to the paradoxical, eternally complicated work of love. | 它属于矛盾的,永远复杂的爱情作品. |
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