每个成年人都该回答的15个问题
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| 0:00 | You know, every couple of years we stop and ask ourselves a few uncomfortable questions. | 你知道,每隔几年,我们停下来 问自己几个不舒服的问题。 |
| 0:04 | Think of it as a reality check. | 把它当作现实的检查 |
| 0:06 | Some of them are about money, some are about relationships, | 有些是关于钱,有些是关于关系 |
| 0:08 | some are about the future you're building without realizing it. | 有些是关于你正在建设的未来 却没有意识到它。 |
| 0:12 | None of them have perfect answers, but that's not really the point. | 没有一个答案是完美的 但这不是重点 |
| 0:15 | The point is that every adult should be able to answer them. | 重点是每个成年人都应该能够回答他们。 |
| 0:18 | So today we're passing those questions on to you! | 所以今天我们要把问题转达给你! |
| 0:21 | 欢迎来到ALUX! | |
| 0:24 | Number 15. | 15号 |
| 0:25 | What would happen if your income stopped tomorrow? | 如果你的收入明天停止会怎么样? |
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| 1 | You know, every couple of years we stop and ask ourselves a few uncomfortable questions. | 你知道,每隔几年,我们停下来 问自己几个不舒服的问题。 |
| 2 | Think of it as a reality check. | 把它当作现实的检查 |
| 3 | Some of them are about money, some are about relationships, | 有些是关于钱,有些是关于关系 |
| 4 | some are about the future you're building without realizing it. | 有些是关于你正在建设的未来 却没有意识到它。 |
| 5 | None of them have perfect answers, but that's not really the point. | 没有一个答案是完美的 但这不是重点 |
| 6 | The point is that every adult should be able to answer them. | 重点是每个成年人都应该能够回答他们。 |
| 7 | So today we're passing those questions on to you! | 所以今天我们要把问题转达给你! |
| 8 | 欢迎来到ALUX! | |
| 9 | Number 15. | 15号 |
| 10 | What would happen if your income stopped tomorrow? | 如果你的收入明天停止会怎么样? |
| 11 | Imagine waking up tomorrow and discovering that your income is gone. | 想象一下明天醒来 发现你的收入不见了 |
| 12 | Maybe the company downsized, maybe your industry changed, | 也许公司缩小了, 也许你的行业改变了, |
| 13 | maybe a health issue forced you to step away from work. | 也许一个健康问题 迫使你离开工作。 |
| 14 | The question is simple. | 问题很简单。 |
| 15 | What happens next? | 接下来会发生什么? |
| 16 | For millions of people, that answer is frightening. | 对于数百万人来说,答案是可怕的。 |
| 17 | Bills continue to arrive, rent is still due, the car payment doesn't care about the circumstances, | 账单继续到来 房租还没交完 车费也不管情况 |
| 18 | financial stress begins immediately because the entire system depends on money continuing to flow | 金融压力立即开始 因为整个系统都依赖资金继续流动 |
| 19 | This is why financial security is not measured by income, but by resilience. | 这就是为什么财政保障不是以收入来衡量,而是以复原力来衡量。 |
| 20 | Emergency funds, multiple income streams, valuable skills, | 紧急资金、多重收入流、宝贵技能 |
| 21 | investments and strong professional relationships all serve the same purpose. | 投资和强大的专业关系都具有同样的目的。 |
| 22 | Buying time. | 买时间。 |
| 23 | Because when income disappears, time becomes the most valuable asset in the world. | 因为当收入消失,时间成为世界上最宝贵的资产. |
| 24 | And speaking of assets, the next question has less to do with money | 说到资产,下一个问题 与金钱无关 |
| 25 | and more to do with something you spend every single day without even noticing. | 更需要你每天花的东西 甚至没有注意到。 |
| 26 | Number 14. Who actually benefits from your daily habits? | 14号 谁从你的日常习惯中受益? |
| 27 | Every habit creates value. | 每个习惯都创造价值。 |
| 28 | The real question is, who receives it? | 真正的问题是 谁接受的? |
| 29 | Most people assume their habits are their personal choices. | 大多数人认为他们的习惯是他们个人的选择. |
| 30 | A morning coffee, a few minutes of social media, a late night Netflix binge, | 一杯咖啡 几分钟社交媒体 深夜Netflix binge, |
| 31 | a quick food delivery after a long day. | 长日后快速运送食物 |
| 32 | Entire industries are built around understanding human behavior and encouraging repetition. | 全行业围绕理解人类行为和鼓励重复建设. |
| 33 | Now that doesn't automatically make these habits bad, | 现在这不会自动使这些习惯变得糟糕, |
| 34 | the deeper question is whether your habits are creating value for you | 更深层的问题是 你的习惯是否为您创造价值 |
| 35 | at the same rate they're creating value for someone else. | 以同样的速度 他们为别人创造价值。 |
| 36 | Take a moment and look at your average day. | 慢慢来,看看你的平均一天。 |
| 37 | Which habits are building your health? | 什么样的习惯在培养你的健康? |
| 38 | Which habits are increasing your skills? | 是什么习惯在提高你的技能? |
| 39 | Which habits are improving your finances? | 什么习惯在改善你的财政状况? |
| 40 | Which habits are strengthening your relationships? | 什么习惯在加强你们的关系? |
| 41 | Every repeated action either compounds in your favor or compounds against you. | 每一次重复的行动 要么是有利于你 要么是不利于你 |
| 42 | The effects are invisible at first, but then obvious years later. | 其效应起初是隐形的,但之后几年却明显可见. |
| 43 | Your future is rarely shaped by one dramatic decision. | 你的未来很少被一个戏剧性的决定决定 |
| 44 | No, | 没有 |
| 45 | it's usually shaped by what happens on an ordinary Tuesday. | 它的形状通常是在普通星期二发生的事情。 |
| 46 | And that brings us to another question most people avoid, | 这给我们带来了另一个问题 大多数人避免, |
| 47 | even though it's costing them far more than they realize. | 尽管他们付出的代价远比他们意识到的多 |
| 48 | Number 13. | 13号 |
| 49 | What is the most expensive thing you pretend doesn't matter? | 你假装最贵的东西是什么? |
| 50 | Researchers have repeatedly found that chronic health issues, loneliness, | 研究人员一再发现 慢性健康问题,孤独, |
| 51 | and financial stress are among the strongest predictors of lower life satisfaction and | 经济压力是生命满意度下降和 |
| 52 | reduced longevity. | 缩短寿命。 |
| 53 | And for some reason, these are usually the things that most people skip. | 因为某种原因,这些通常是大多数人跳过的东西. |
| 54 | A skipped workout, a neglected friendship, a stressful job that slowly erodes your health, | 工作压力大 慢慢地侵蚀你的健康 |
| 55 | a skill you keep postponing, a marriage that receives leftovers instead of attention. | 一种你不断推迟的技巧, 一种得到剩下的而不是关注的婚姻。 |
| 56 | Most adults are careful with visible costs. | 大多数成年人都小心地付出了明显的代价。 |
| 57 | They'll spend 20 minutes comparing prices | 他们要花20分钟比价 |
| 58 | before buying a kitchen appliance. | 在买厨房电器之前 |
| 59 | They'll drive across town to save a few dollars on gas. | 他们会开车过城去省点油钱 |
| 60 | Then they'll casually ignore something that costs them thousands of dollars, | 然后他们会随意忽略一些 花费他们数千美元的东西, |
| 61 | years of opportunity, or even decades of quality life. | 几年的机会,甚至几十年的高质量生活。 |
| 62 | So do yourself a favor and fix at least one of those things in the next 12 months. | 帮自己一个忙 在未来的12个月里至少解决其中之一 |
| 63 | Number 12. | 12号 |
| 64 | If someone copied your life exactly, would you feel proud or concerned? | 如果有人照抄你的生活 你会感到骄傲还是担心? |
| 65 | Most people judge their lives based on intentions. | 大多数人根据意图来判断自己的生活. |
| 66 | But imagine someone decided | 但想象一下有人决定 |
| 67 | to copy your life exactly. | 完全复制你的生活。 |
| 68 | Not the version you describe to people, | 而不是你向人们描述的版本, |
| 69 | not the version you plan to become next year, the version that exists right now. | 而不是你打算明年成为的版本, 即现在存在的版本。 |
| 70 | What kind of future would they create? | 他们会创造什么样的未来? |
| 71 | Would you be friends with that person? | 你会和那个人做朋友吗? |
| 72 | It's an uncomfortable thought because it removes excuses. | 这是一个不舒服的想法,因为它消除了借口. |
| 73 | Future plans no longer matter, good intentions no longer matter, only patterns matter. | 未来的计划不再重要,善意不再重要,只有规律才重要. |
| 74 | You see, adulthood is largely the accumulation of repeated behaviors. | 成年主要是累累行为的积累。 |
| 75 | Most outcomes are, surprisingly, predictable. | 令人惊讶的是,大多数结果都是可预测的。 |
| 76 | If someone spends more than they earn for 10 years, | 如果有人花的钱超过他们十年的收入 |
| 77 | the ending is usually clear. | 结尾通常清晰。 |
| 78 | If someone invests consistently for 10 years, | 如果有人持续投资10年 |
| 79 | the ending is usually clear. | 结尾通常清晰。 |
| 80 | If someone prioritizes their health for a decade, | 如果有人在十年内把健康放在优先位置 |
| 81 | the results are rarely surprising. | 结果很少令人惊讶。 |
| 82 | The same principle applies to relationships, | 同一原则适用于关系, |
| 83 | careers, and personal growth. | 事业,以及个人成长。 |
| 84 | Because the life you're living today is constantly teaching lessons. | 因为你今天的生活 不断教课。 |
| 85 | The question is whether those lessons are worth copying. | 问题是这些教训是否值得抄袭。 |
| 86 | Number 11. | 11号 |
| 87 | What problem are you qualified to solve? | 你有资格解决什么问题? |
| 88 | Most people focus on the reward rather than the reason the reward exists in the first place. | 大多数人都专注于奖励而不是奖励存在的原因。 |
| 89 | Ask a kid what they want to become when they grow up and they'll probably say doctor, | 问一个孩子,当他们长大了, 他们可能会说医生, |
| 90 | lawyer, or astronaut. | 律师或宇航员 |
| 91 | But if you ask a kid what they actually want to do all day, | 但如果你问一个孩子 他们到底想做什么 |
| 92 | the answers get weird pretty quickly. | 答案变得怪怪的很快。 |
| 93 | Build rockets, train animals, | 制造火箭,火车动物, |
| 94 | explore the ocean, take apart machines. | 探索海洋,拆散机器。 |
| 95 | The focus shifts from status to curiosity. | 重点从地位转移到好奇心。 |
| 96 | Somewhere along the way, adulthood reverses the process. | 沿途的某个地方,成年会逆转这个过程. |
| 97 | Instead of asking what we're naturally | 而不是问我们是什么自然 |
| 98 | drawn toward, we start looking at which paths offer the highest rewards. | 我们开始研究哪条路能带来最高的回报 |
| 99 | Higher salaries, | 工资提高, |
| 100 | better titles, more prestige, more status, more security. | 更好的头衔,更高的声望,更高的地位,更高的安全性. |
| 101 | And because we live in a market-driven | 因为我们生活在市场驱动下 |
| 102 | world, that's understandable, right? | 世界,这是可以理解的,对不对? |
| 103 | The problem is that many people spend decades pursuing rewards, | 问题是很多人花了几十年的时间追求回报, |
| 104 | attached to problems they don't actually enjoy solving. | 连累着他们实际上不喜欢解决的问题 |
| 105 | And the thing is, the people who earn the most are often the ones who developed an | 问题是,挣得最多的人 往往是那些开发 |
| 106 | unusual tolerance for solving a specific type of problem over and over again. | 对一次又一次地解决特定类型的问题的异常宽容. |
| 107 | Number 10. | 10号 |
| 108 | What are you optimizing for right now? | 你现在在优化什么? |
| 109 | A surprising number of people are working incredibly hard toward goals they never | 令人惊讶的是,很多人在为从未实现的目标而努力奋斗 |
| 110 | consciously chose. | 有意识地选择。 |
| 111 | They wake up early, answer emails, attend meetings, pay bills, make plans, | 他们早起,回信,参加会议,支付账单,计划 |
| 112 | stay busy from morning until night. | 从早上到晚上都很忙 |
| 113 | But if you ask them a simple question, | 但如果你问他们一个简单的问题 |
| 114 | many wouldn't know how to answer it. | 很多人不知道如何回答这个问题。 |
| 115 | What are you optimizing for? | 你在优化什么? |
| 116 | Because every decision is an optimization problem, every yes is also a no. | 因为每个决定都是一个优化问题,所以每个"是"也是"不". |
| 117 | Every | 每个 |
| 118 | gain comes with a trade-off. | 得利与取舍. |
| 119 | The entrepreneur working 80 hours a week is probably optimizing | 创业者每周工作80小时 可能是最优化的 |
| 120 | for growth. | 为了成长。 |
| 121 | A parent who turns down a promotion to spend more time with family can be optimizing | 父母拒绝升迁 花更多的时间和家人在一起是最佳的 |
| 122 | for relationships. | 关系。 |
| 123 | None of these are wrong. | 这些都不是错的。 |
| 124 | The danger comes when your actions are optimizing | 危险降临到你的行动最优化的时候 |
| 125 | while your heart wants something else. | 而你的心脏想要别的东西。 |
| 126 | Because life has a way of delivering | 因为生命有实现的方法 |
| 127 | exactly what you're optimizing for. | 这正是你所追求的 |
| 128 | If you're optimizing for comfort, you'll probably get comfort. | 如果你为舒适而优化,你可能会得到舒适. |
| 129 | If you're optimizing for growth, | 如果你在优化增长, |
| 130 | you'll probably get growth. | 你可能会得到成长。 |
| 131 | If you're optimizing for freedom, you'll have to sacrifice | 如果你是为了自由而优化 就必须牺牲 |
| 132 | something else to get it. | 来点别的 |
| 133 | The question isn't whether you're optimizing, you already are. | 问题不在于你是否在优化 你已经在优化了 |
| 134 | The question is whether you're doing it intentionally. | 问题是你是否有意这样做 |
| 135 | And if not, a tool like the ALUX app can really change the game for you entirely. | 如果不是的话,像ALUX应用程序这样的工具可以真正地完全改变你的游戏. |
| 136 | The app is essentially an ecosystem for high performers. | 该应用基本上是高性能者的生态系统. |
| 137 | There's expert mentorships from | 有专家导师来自 |
| 138 | industry insiders, daily coaching lessons from us here at ALUX, as well as an exclusive private | 行业内幕,每天从我们这里 ALUX的辅导课, 以及独家的私人 |
| 139 | network where you can chat with your peers about goals, sacrifices, strategies, problems you're | 在网络中,你可以与同伴讨论目标、牺牲、策略、问题 |
| 140 | facing, celebrating milestones, heck you might even find a new partnership in there. | 面对,庆祝里程碑,地狱 你甚至可能在那里找到一个新的伙伴关系。 |
| 141 | You can download the app and start a 7-day free trial at alux.com slash app, | 你可以下载该应用程序,并开始一个7天免费的试验 在alux.com slash app, |
| 142 | but if you're ready to commit, scan this QR code for 25% off your yearly membership. | 但是如果你愿意承诺的话 扫描这个QR代码 从你每年的会员人数中抽取25% |
| 143 | I'll see you on the inside, but in the meantime, let's get back to it. | 内部见,但在此期间,我们继续吧. |
| 144 | Number 9. | 9号 |
| 145 | Which decision from the last 5 years changed your life the most? | 过去5年的哪个决定 改变了你的生活? |
| 146 | Now from our experience, the life you live is shaped in two ways. | 从我们的经验来看,你的生活有两种形态。 |
| 147 | First, from repetition, | 首先,从重复, |
| 148 | or in other words, the things you do every day. | 或者换句话说,你每天做的事。 |
| 149 | Because how you live your days is how you live | 因为你的人生就是如此 |
| 150 | ネ | |
| 151 | But secondly, life is also shaped by direction. | 但第二,生命也是由方向决定的。 |
| 152 | There are moments in life where | 生命中有些时刻 |
| 153 | itself changes. | 本身会改变。 |
| 154 | A new city, a new relationship, a decision to stay or a decision to leave. | 新城,新关系,决定留下或决定离开. |
| 155 | These are all direction shifts, you can't really tell where they'll take you in 5 years. | 这些都是方向转变,你无法真正知道 5年后它们会带你去哪里。 |
| 156 | What makes this fascinating is the major decisions rarely announce themselves as | 令人着迷的是,主要的决定很少宣布自己 |
| 157 | major decisions. | 重大决定。 |
| 158 | At the time, they often feel ordinary. | 当时,他们常常感到普通. |
| 159 | Only later do you realize they quietly | 只是后来,你意识到他们悄悄地 |
| 160 | altered the trajectory of everything that followed. | 改变了一切的轨迹 |
| 161 | You're most likely in the place you are now | 你最有可能在现在的地方 |
| 162 | because you said yes or no to something 5 years ago. | 因为你5年前对某件事说好还是不好 |
| 163 | Number 8. | 8号 |
| 164 | What part of your life depends on luck? | 你生命的哪一部分取决于运气? |
| 165 | Most people don't like talking about luck. | 大多数人不喜欢谈论运气. |
| 166 | Some pretend it doesn't matter. | 有人假装这不重要 |
| 167 | Others blame everything on it. | 其他人则把一切都归咎于它。 |
| 168 | But reality sits somewhere in the middle. | 但现实却坐落在中间的某个地方. |
| 169 | Being born in the right country is luck. | 出生在正确的国家是幸运的。 |
| 170 | Meeting the right person at the right moment is luck. | 在正确的时刻遇见合适的人就是运气. |
| 171 | Growing up with supportive parents is luck. | 与支持父母成长是运气。 |
| 172 | Avoiding a serious accident is often luck. | 避免严重事故往往是运气。 |
| 173 | Being in the right place when a major opportunity appears can absolutely be luck. | 当一个重大机会出现的时候,在合适的地方绝对是幸运的。 |
| 174 | But the question is, which parts of your life depend on luck today? | 但问题是,你生命的哪些部分依赖于今天的运气? |
| 175 | Because good genetics are luck, but exercise and nutrition are choices. | 因为良好的遗传学是幸运的,但运动和营养是选择. |
| 176 | You see, both good luck and bad luck are always going to be a part of your life. | 你看,好运气和坏运气 都是你生命的一部分。 |
| 177 | You can't really eliminate it all together. | 你无法完全消除这一切。 |
| 178 | But what you can do is reduce how much power luck | 但你能做的是 减少多少电力运气 |
| 179 | has over your future. | 在你的未来。 |
| 180 | Number 7. Who can you call when things go wrong? | 7号 出事了还能打给谁? |
| 181 | Most relationships are easy to maintain when life is going well. | 当生活顺利时,大多数关系很容易维持。 |
| 182 | The real test comes when it isn't. | 真正的考验是当它不是。 |
| 183 | When you're celebrating a promotion, buying a house, or sharing good news, | 当你庆祝升迁 买房子 或者分享好消息时 |
| 184 | people tend to show up. | 人们总是出现。 |
| 185 | Success attracts attention like that. | 成功吸引了这样的关注。 |
| 186 | But failure reveals reality. | 但失败揭示了现实。 |
| 187 | As people get older, they often discover something very surprising. | 随着人们老化,他们常常发现一些非常令人惊讶的事情. |
| 188 | Building meaningful relationships can be really hard because they require actual investment. | 建立有意义的关系可能很难,因为它们需要实际投资。 |
| 189 | Time, attention, trust, consistency, some of the most valuable assets in life | 时间 注意力 信任 一致性 生命中最宝贵的资产 |
| 190 | don't appear on a balance sheet. | 别出现在资产负债表上 |
| 191 | A friend who answers when you call. | 一个朋友 当你打来电话时会接电话 |
| 192 | A mentor who gives honest advice. | 一个诚实的建议的导师。 |
| 193 | A partner who remains steady during difficult seasons. | 在困难的季节保持稳定的搭档. |
| 194 | A small circle of people who genuinely want to see you succeed. | 一个小圈子的人 谁真正希望看到你成功。 |
| 195 | Those things become increasingly valuable as life becomes more complex. | 随着生活变得更加复杂,这些东西变得越来越宝贵。 |
| 196 | Number 6. | 6号 |
| 197 | What would your future self be angry about if you ignored it? | 如果你无视它,你的未来会有什么生气呢? |
| 198 | You see, future you is probably not asking for perfection. | 你看,未来 你可能不会要求完美。 |
| 199 | But they will probably ask you why you waited so long. | 但他们会问你为什么等了这么久 |
| 200 | And that's a really tough question to answer. | 这是一个很难回答的问题。 |
| 201 | Most people imagine regret incorrectly. | 大多数人认为后悔是错误的。 |
| 202 | They think regret comes from bad decisions, | 他们认为后悔来自错误的决定 |
| 203 | in reality regret often comes from delayed decisions. | 在现实中,后悔往往来自延误的决定。 |
| 204 | Something you didn't do or at least didn't do at the right time. | 有些事你没有做 或者至少没有在正确的时候做。 |
| 205 | The strange part is that very few people wake up one morning and decide to sabotage their future. | 奇怪的是 很少有人早上醒来 决定破坏他们的未来 |
| 206 | What they do instead is convince themselves they have more time. | 相反,他们所做的是说服自己有更多的时间。 |
| 207 | It's extremely hard to picture yourself in the future because it feels so far ahead. | 未来很难想象自己,因为感觉远在眼前。 |
| 208 | But one day you wake up, you're 45 and wondering where two decades have gone. | 但是有一天你醒来,你已经45岁了, 并想知道20年过去了。 |
| 209 | Number 5. | 5号 |
| 210 | What can you do that AI cannot easily replace? | 你能做什么 AI不易替换? |
| 211 | Every new generation has to deal with a major technology that completely changes how life works. | 每一个新生代都要处理一种彻底改变生活运作方式的重大技术. |
| 212 | For your parents it was the internet, for us it's probably AI. | 对你父母来说,那是互联网,对我们来说,可能是AI。 |
| 213 | But this time it might be the most significant shift yet | 但这次可能是最重要的转变 |
| 214 | because it appears to be affecting almost every industry. | 因为它似乎正在影响 几乎所有行业。 |
| 215 | So the question of what can you do that AI cannot easily replace becomes dangerously viable. | 因此,你能够做些什么的问题,即AI不能轻易替换,变得危险可行. |
| 216 | We honestly are not sure how this whole thing will play out in a couple of years | 老实说,我们不知道这整件事几年后会怎么样 |
| 217 | because what we do know for sure is that what we have right now is the worst version yet. | 因为我们确实知道,我们现在拥有的是最糟糕的版本。 |
| 218 | It'll only get better. | 它只会变得更好。 |
| 219 | So it's worth considering how this will affect your own life. | 所以,值得考虑 这将如何影响你自己的生活。 |
| 220 | It might be nothing to worry about but realistically speaking it probably will. | 也许没什么好担心的,但现实地说它可能会。 |
| 221 | The way we see it, there are two scenarios. | 我们认为,有两种情况。 |
| 222 | Either AI takes control over the world and we all have to figure out how to deal with it. | 无论是AI控制世界,我们都得想办法应对它。 |
| 223 | Or AI fails miserably and the whole market crashes with it | 或者AI失败了 整个市场也随之崩溃 |
| 224 | because pretty much everyone has invested and will have to deal with that. | 因为几乎每个人都投入了资金 并且将不得不去应付 |
| 225 | Either way it might be smart to keep this one on your mind. | 不论哪种方式,你都想着这个。 |
| 226 | Number 4. | 4号 |
| 227 | What are you unwilling to sacrifice for success? | 你不愿意为成功牺牲什么? |
| 228 | Every couple of years your own definition of success changes a little bit. | 每隔几年 你对成功的定义就会有所改变 |
| 229 | It usually starts out pretty dramatic but as you get older you realize you don't really care | 它通常开始 相当戏剧化 但随着你变老 你意识到你不是真的关心 |
| 230 | that much about a bunch of things you used to consider important. | 你以前认为很重要的事 |
| 231 | What doesn't change though is the fact that any kind of success requires either extreme dumb luck | 但是没有改变的事实是,任何一种成功都需要非常愚蠢的运气 |
| 232 | which is exceptionally rare or a fair amount of sacrifice. | 这是非常罕见的 或相当数量的牺牲。 |
| 233 | Now the most common thing that usually gets sacrificed by anyone is a head start to a more | 现在最常被别人牺牲的是... 头到脚 |
| 234 | traditional path. | 传统路径。 |
| 235 | If you spend your 20s and 30s trying to make something happen and | 如果你花你的20和30 试图使事情发生, |
| 236 | that thing doesn't actually work out, well you're now a bit behind if you want to switch lanes and | 如果换车道的话 你现在有点落后了 |
| 237 | get a normal job. | 找个正常的工作。 |
| 238 | That's pretty much a given to anyone who walks a different path than the norm. | 这几乎是给任何走不同道路的人的。 |
| 239 | We all kinda quietly agree to this but we don't really talk about it. | 我们都悄悄地同意 但其实我们不谈这个 |
| 240 | But the deeper you go the more it's required from you. | 但越深越需要你帮忙 |
| 241 | It starts with | 开始是 |
| 242 | uncertainty and that's quickly followed by constant stress. | 不确定,这之后会很快 不断的压力。 |
| 243 | Your tolerance to those things | 你对这些事的容忍 |
| 244 | dictates the rest and you'll get to a point where the sacrifices start to be a bit tricky. | 剩下的就交给你 牺牲变得有点棘手 |
| 245 | Time away from your family, unexplored hobbies, forgotten friendships, the list goes on. | 时间离家远去,不曾探索爱好,忘却友情,名单继续. |
| 246 | At some point you have to ask yourself where do you draw the line? | 你总得问自己,你在哪里划线? |
| 247 | Now to-do lists are pretty great but have you ever heard of a not-do list? | 现在的待办事宜列表是相当不错的,但你听说过一个不做的事项列表吗? |
| 248 | You see, not every year has a clear end goal. | 你看,不是每年都有一个明确的目标。 |
| 249 | Some years are for maintenance or for buying | 有些年头是维修或购买 |
| 250 | for something else to happen. | 为了别的事发生 |
| 251 | And those years don't have a big clear win. | 而那些年并没有明显的胜利. |
| 252 | And when there isn't a clear to-do list, the next best thing is the reverse. | 而当没有明确的待办事宜列表时,接下来最好的事情就是倒置. |
| 253 | What shouldn't you do this year? | 你今年应该做什么? |
| 254 | We promise you, spend 5 minutes with this question and you'll | 我们答应你,用5分钟 这个问题,你会 |
| 255 | find a surprising number of things that will fill out the list. | 找到一些能填满清单的东西 |
| 256 | As a matter of fact, | 事实上 |
| 257 | take those 5 minutes right now, make the list and see which one scares you the most. | 现在就拿那5分钟 列个清单 看看哪个最吓你 |
| 258 | Number 2. | 二号 |
| 259 | If you got everything you currently want, what happens next? | 如果你得到了你现在想要的一切,接下来会发生什么? |
| 260 | Now this question helps you to understand where exactly you are in your journey. | 现在,这个问题帮助你 了解你在哪里 你的旅程。 |
| 261 | If your answer is the grind never stops, the sky's the limit, then you're probably at the | 如果你的答案是 磨磨不停止, 天空的极限, 那么你可能正在 |
| 262 | very beginning. | 非常开始 |
| 263 | If your answer is then I can finally take a break and rest, | 如果你的答案是 那我终于可以休息了 |
| 264 | then you probably still have a long way to go. | 那你可能还有很长的路要走 |
| 265 | You see, this one's a bit counterintuitive but | 你看,这个有点反感 但是... |
| 266 | the closer you get to what you want, the more you realize that nothing really is going to change | 你越接近你想要的 你就越意识到 没有什么会真正改变 |
| 267 | you already live the life you want, and the focus changes from getting more to protecting | 重点从增加到保护 |
| 268 | and securing what you've already gotten. | 并保障你已经得到的东西。 |
| 269 | But you cannot force this realization into existence, | 但你不能强迫这种意识存在 |
| 270 | it just comes naturally at some point. | 它只是自然地出现在某个时候。 |
| 271 | And number 1. | 和1号。 |
| 272 | How do you want to be remembered? | 你想怎样被记住? |
| 273 | When you're old and you look back at your life, what do you want to see? | 年老而复观其生,欲见何物? |
| 274 | This sounds like a question about the future, but in reality it's a question about the present. | 这听起来是一个关于未来的问题,但实际上这是一个关于现在的问题. |
| 275 | Because the answer is already being written by the way you spend your days. | 因为答案已经用你的日子来写 |
| 276 | So here's some knowledge for you. | 所以这里有一些知识给你。 |
| 277 | Asking old people what they regret the most at the end of | 问老人最后最后悔的是什么 |
| 278 | their life is a bit irrelevant because their relationship with risk is completely flipped. | 他们的生活有点无关紧要 因为他们与风险的关系 完全翻转。 |
| 279 | It's easy to say you should've taken more chances when there are no longer any chances to take. | 很容易说,当没有机会时,你应该抓住更多的机会。 |
| 280 | It's easy to say you should've worried less when the things you worried about | 当你担心的事情发生的时候 你该少担心点 |
| 281 | are already way behind you. | 已经落后了 |
| 282 | But what stays consistent and relevant is how the story | 但始终如一 相关的是故事 |
| 283 | looks from beginning to end. | 从头到尾看 |
| 284 | Some chapters matter more than others, | 有些章节比其他章节更重要 |
| 285 | so when you look back at your own story one day, what do you hope stands out? | 所以,当你回顾 自己的故事有一天, 你希望是什么突出? |
| 286 | Alright that's a wrap for today Alexa, thanks for watching, | 好吧,这是今天的包装 Alexa,谢谢你的观看, |
| 287 | we'll see you back here next time. | 下次在这里再见 |
| 288 | Until then, take care! | 在那之前,小心点! |
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