【TED演讲】一夜情有害？
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:06 | Hi. | 顿 |
| 0:07 | So, our world today is a far more sexually permissive place than it used to be 50 years ago. | 因此,今天的世界比50年前更能允许性行为。 |
| 0:15 | These days, for most people, premarital sex is okay. | 现在,对大多数人来说,婚前性行为是好的。 |
| 0:19 | Oral sex is okay. | 口交没关系 |
| 0:22 | In this post-50 Shades of Grey era, even kinky sex is okay. | 在灰色时代的50年后 即使是古怪的性也没关系 |
| 0:27 | But we're still very conflicted, as a society and as individuals, | 但我们仍然非常矛盾 作为一个社会,作为一个个人, |
| 0:32 | over whether it's acceptable and healthy to have casual sex, | 是否可以接受和保持健康 随便做爱, |
| 0:37 | sex outside the confines of long-term romantic relationships. | 性在长期浪漫关系之外 |
| 0:42 | We're constantly surrounded by it, yet we're often told it's bad for us, we shouldn't be doing it. | 我们不断地被它包围,然而我们经常被告知这对我们不利,我们不应该这样做. |
| 0:49 | By the time we're 25, 70% of us will have hooked up at least once. | 到25岁的时候,我们70%的人至少会上过一次床。 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Hi. | 顿 |
| 2 | So, our world today is a far more sexually permissive place than it used to be 50 years ago. | 因此,今天的世界比50年前更能允许性行为。 |
| 3 | These days, for most people, premarital sex is okay. | 现在,对大多数人来说,婚前性行为是好的。 |
| 4 | Oral sex is okay. | 口交没关系 |
| 5 | In this post-50 Shades of Grey era, even kinky sex is okay. | 在灰色时代的50年后 即使是古怪的性也没关系 |
| 6 | But we're still very conflicted, as a society and as individuals, | 但我们仍然非常矛盾 作为一个社会,作为一个个人, |
| 7 | over whether it's acceptable and healthy to have casual sex, | 是否可以接受和保持健康 随便做爱, |
| 8 | sex outside the confines of long-term romantic relationships. | 性在长期浪漫关系之外 |
| 9 | We're constantly surrounded by it, yet we're often told it's bad for us, we shouldn't be doing it. | 我们不断地被它包围,然而我们经常被告知这对我们不利,我们不应该这样做. |
| 10 | By the time we're 25, 70% of us will have hooked up at least once. | 到25岁的时候,我们70%的人至少会上过一次床。 |
| 11 | And yet most of us will worry we shouldn't really be doing it. | 但我们大多数人会担心 我们不应该真的这样做。 |
| 12 | But there's something that doesn't make sense here to me about this love-hate relationship we have with casual sex. | 但有些事对我来说是没有道理的 关于这种爱恨的关系,我们与随意的性行为。 |
| 13 | We all seem to agree that sex with a romantic partner has all these amazing benefits, | 我们似乎都同意 和浪漫伴侣发生性关系 有所有这些惊人的好处, |
| 14 | from longer and healthier lives to better relationships and greater happiness. | 从更长久更健康的生活 到更好的关系和更幸福 |
| 15 | So how come that same sexual activity has the exact opposite effect if our partner is a stranger or a friend? | 那么,如果我们的伴侣是陌生人或朋友,那么同样的性活动怎么会产生完全相反的效果? |
| 16 | Is sex somehow good for us only because of the love and commitment we feel for our partners? | 性爱对我们有好感吗? |
| 17 | And without that love and commitment, it automatically turns into a destructive force? | 没有这种爱和承诺,它就会自动变成毁灭性的力量? |
| 18 | Isn't there something good in just, you know, sex? | 性爱是不是有什么好东西? |
| 19 | When I started my PhD in developmental psychology, I decided to get to the bottom of this. | 当我开始攻读发展心理学博士学位时, 我决定去了解这个。 |
| 20 | Is casual sex objectively bad for us? | 性爱在客观上对我们不利吗? |
| 21 | Or is this just another grossly over-exaggerated moral sex panic that the U.S. has had no shortage of? | 还是这是美国所不缺的又一场严重过度夸张的道德性恐慌? |
| 22 | In the 10 years since, we've learned a great deal about casual sex from social science research, my own and that of other scholars. | 在这之后的十年里,我们从社会科学研究,我本人和其他学者那里,学到了大量关于随意性行为的知识. |
| 23 | But virtually 90% of that knowledge is based on U.S. undergrads. | 但几乎90%的知识是基于美国低年级。 |
| 24 | And trust me, you are not the only people hooking up. | 相信我,你不是唯一一个勾搭的人 |
| 25 | So to supplement our knowledge and understanding of this phenomenon, I started this website called the Casual Sex Project. | 为了补充我们对这种现象的认识和理解, 我启动了一个名为“临时性项目”的网站。 |
| 26 | It's an online space for people of all demographic backgrounds to share their true stories of hookups. | 它是一个在线空间,供所有人口背景的人分享他们真实的勾搭故事. |
| 27 | My hope was to give people a chance to tell their stories, make sense of their experiences through this process of storytelling. | 我希望给人们一个机会来讲述他们的故事, 了解他们通过讲述故事的经验。 |
| 28 | But also, to paint a more diverse, richer picture of what casual sex really looks like. | 同时,还要描绘出一个更加多样,更加丰富多彩的图片, 描绘出随意性行为的真面目。 |
| 29 | What it means to people. | 这对人们意味着什么 |
| 30 | What it feels like. | 感觉如何? |
| 31 | What its aftermath may be. | 它的后果是什么? |
| 32 | In the 10 months since the website's been up, it's been viewed over 6 million times. | 在网站上架后的10个月里,浏览量超过600万次. |
| 33 | Over 1200 stories have been shared by people from all over the world. | 来自世界各地的人们分享了超过1200个故事。 |
| 34 | And it's been written about on six continents. | 亦有六洲所传. |
| 35 | So what have all these stories and studies taught us about casual sex and well-being? | 那么,这些故事和研究 都教给我们什么 关于随意的性行为和幸福? |
| 36 | Well, here are a few things that you may not have been aware of. | 嗯,这里有一些事情 你可能不知道。 |
| 37 | First of all, casual sex has many potential benefits. | 首先,随意性行为有许多潜在的好处。 |
| 38 | Perhaps the most obvious one is sexual pleasure. | 也许最明显的就是性快感 |
| 39 | Or. | |
| 40 | Hedonic ecstasy, if you will. | 热狂喜,如果你愿意的话。 |
| 41 | Then there are things like learning new sexual skills. | 然则有学新性技. |
| 42 | Making new friends. | 交个新朋友 |
| 43 | That's a good one. | 这是一个很好的。 |
| 44 | An increased sense of self-confidence. | 增强自信意识. |
| 45 | Accomplishment. | 成就业. |
| 46 | Desirability. | 欲乐性. |
| 47 | Empowerment. | 增强权能。 |
| 48 | Freedom. | 自由权。 |
| 49 | Then there are collecting fun stories and memories to tell your friends at the senior citizens' home many years later. | 之后还有收集有趣的故事和记忆,以告诉你多年后在老人之家的朋友. |
| 50 | Or share on the casual sex project. | 或分享临时性项目。 |
| 51 | There's even experiencing that deep emotional, spiritual, intellectual connection with another human being | 甚至经历着与另一个人的 深厚的情感,精神,智力的联系 |
| 52 | that sometimes happens even though no romantic feelings are involved. | 有时候,即使没有浪漫的感觉。 |
| 53 | But casual sex has yet another powerful pull on us. | 但随意的性爱 又有力量吸引我们 |
| 54 | As Esther Perel so eloquently puts it, | 正如埃丝特·佩雷尔雄辩地指出的, |
| 55 | Humans have this fundamental need for adventure. | 人类有这种冒险的根本需要. |
| 56 | Novelty. | 小说. |
| 57 | Mystery. | 妙义. |
| 58 | Risk. | 风险。 |
| 59 | Danger. | 危险 |
| 60 | The unknown. | 无名者. |
| 61 | The unexpected. | 出乎意料的东西 |
| 62 | Some more than others. | 有的比有的还多. |
| 63 | But it's there in our DNA. | 但我们的DNA里有 |
| 64 | And that is a need that casual sex satisfies effortlessly by its very nature. | 而这需要 随便的性行为 以它本身的本性不费力地满足。 |
| 65 | And it's a need that's much more difficult, if not impossible, to meet in the long-term part of long-term relationships. | 而这种需要如果不是不可能的话,就更难在长期关系的长期部分中实现. |
| 66 | Now, there are of course risks. | 现在,当然有风险。 |
| 67 | Unsatisfying sex. | 无厌欲性. |
| 68 | Broken hearts. | 断心. |
| 69 | Ruined friendships. | 毁了友谊。 |
| 70 | Regret. | 对不起 |
| 71 | Coercion. | 胁迫. |
| 72 | Confusion. | 迷惑众生. |
| 73 | Awkwardness. | 尴尬。 |
| 74 | SDIs and unwanted pregnancies. | 性病和意外怀孕。 |
| 75 | Social stigma. | 社会耻辱. |
| 76 | Disrespectful partners. | 不尊重的伴侣。 |
| 77 | Now, people fear that most of the time these cons outweigh the pros. | 现在,人们担心这些弊端 大部分时间都大于有利因素。 |
| 78 | But that is simply not true. | 但事实并非如此。 |
| 79 | Study after study finds this pattern for how people feel following their hookups. | 研究后发现这种模式是人们在接吻后的感受. |
| 80 | For both men and women alike, positive post-hookup reactions, happy, pleased, excited, are much stronger than negative hookup reactions. | 无论是男人还是女人, 积极的后胡克普反应, 快乐,高兴,兴奋, 比消极的钩子反应强得多。 |
| 81 | Used. | 用过 |
| 82 | Empty. | 空无一物. |
| 83 | Disappointed. | 失望无奈. |
| 84 | Other studies show that casual sex has little to no impact on longer-term psychological well-being. | 其他研究表明,随意性行为对较长期的心理健康几乎没有影响。 |
| 85 | Things like self-esteem, life satisfaction, depression, anxiety. | 诸如自尊,生活满足,抑郁,焦虑等事物. |
| 86 | Now, of course, this doesn't mean that all hookups follow this pattern. | 当然,这并不意味着所有的勾搭都遵循这个模式。 |
| 87 | Or that this pattern is typical of everybody who hooks up, and that no one's well-being is ever affected. | 或者说,这种模式是所有勾搭在一起的人的典型,没有人会受到影响。 |
| 88 | No. | 没有 |
| 89 | These are just averages. | 这些只是平均值。 |
| 90 | When you look more closely at the people and the experiences making up these averages, you find that some hookups do indeed have the potential to harm or benefit well-being. | 当你更仔细地观察人们和构成这些平均值的经验时,你会发现,一些勾搭确实有伤害或造福福祉的潜力。 |
| 91 | And some people are more susceptible to that potential. | 而有些人更容易受到这种潜力的影响。 |
| 92 | So whether casual sex is good for you or not depends on who you are and how you do it. | 所以随便做爱是否对你有好处 取决于你是谁 如何做 |
| 93 | There are many factors that this relationship can depend on, and I couldn't possibly cover all of them in one 18-minute talk. | 这种关系可以依赖许多因素,我无法在18分钟的谈话中涵盖所有这些因素. |
| 94 | But one critical one is authenticity. | 但关键是真实性 |
| 95 | Doing only the kinds of things that are fully in line with who you are, your beliefs, your values, your desires, your needs. | 只做完全符合自己身份,信仰,价值观,欲望,需要的事情. |
| 96 | You know, casual sex is not for everyone. | 你知道,随便的性不是每个人的。 |
| 97 | Nothing sexual ever is, really. | 从来没有性爱是,真的。 |
| 98 | Due to differences in nature, nurture, and life circumstances, some of us have a much stronger general need for sexual novelty. | 由于自然,培育和生活环境的不同,我们有些人对性新奇性的一般需求要强得多. |
| 99 | And much greater comfort having sex with people we don't know very well. | 和我们不太了解的人做爱更舒服 |
| 100 | So figure out where you are on this spectrum. | 想想你在这个谱系上的位置。 |
| 101 | Is hooking up with people you're not dating something that sounds enjoyable, exciting, an important experience to have, morally acceptable to you? | 和别人交往,你没有约会 听起来很愉快,令人兴奋, 重要的经验,你道德上可以接受吗? |
| 102 | Would you be hooking up with this person even if you're never going to see them afterwards? | 你会不会和这个人勾搭上关系 即使你以后再也见不到他们了? |
| 103 | If the answer to most of these is no, you shouldn't really be doing it. | 如果大多数答案是否定的, 你不应该真的这样做。 |
| 104 | Now, there's a bit of an elephant in the room when we talk about pleasure in heterosexual casual sex. | 现在,房间里有一头大象 当我们谈论快乐 在异性恋的随意性行为。 |
| 105 | The orgasm gap between men and women. | 男女之间的高潮差距。 |
| 106 | In a study of over 20,000 undergrads, 80% of men had an orgasm during their most recent hookup. | 在对两万多所初中的研究中,80%的男性在最近一次结对时有高潮. |
| 107 | This was true of only 40% of women. | 只有40%的妇女属于这种情况。 |
| 108 | Now, there's an orgasm gap in romantic encounters too, but it's twice as large in hookups. | 现在,浪漫相遇中也存在高潮差距,但钩子上的高潮差距是两倍. |
| 109 | This doesn't mean that women aren't enjoying it necessarily. | 这并不意味着女人不享受它 |
| 110 | In this same study, 90% of the women said they enjoyed their hookup very much. | 在同一份研究报告中,90%的妇女说,她们非常享受订婚。 |
| 111 | Or at least somewhat. | 或至少有点。 |
| 112 | Most of them enjoyed it very much, about 70 plus percent. | 大部分人非常享受, 大约70%以上。 |
| 113 | But we can all do better. | 但我们都可以做得更好。 |
| 114 | I mean, this gap needs closing. | 我的意思是,这个差距需要缩小。 |
| 115 | Women need to learn to be more selfish, demand their sexual pleasure. | 女人需要学会更自私,要求自己的性快感. |
| 116 | And men need to learn to be more giving. | 男人需要学会多施舍 |
| 117 | Try harder to please their partners, even in the briefest of one-night stands. | 更努力地取悦他们的伴侣, 即使在最短的一夜情。 |
| 118 | You know, casual sex doesn't have to be devoid of all the intimacy and passion. | 你知道,随便的性爱 不必没有所有的亲密和激情。 |
| 119 | It's not like you're doing your laundry or picking up your mail. | 你又不是在洗衣服或是拿邮件 |
| 120 | Try to give and get as much sexual pleasure out of every hookup. | 尝试给与和获得同样多的性快乐 从每次钩。 |
| 121 | That's the whole point. | 这才是重点 |
| 122 | Now, one major factor that keeps people from engaging in casual sex to begin with is the social stigma attached to it. | 现在,一个主要因素 阻止人们从事 偶然的性行为开始, 社会耻辱附在它。 |
| 123 | This dreaded reputation is unfortunately much more constraining of women's behavior than it is of men's. | 不幸的是,这种令人恐惧的名声 对妇女行为的限制 远大于对男人的束缚 |
| 124 | But here's an interesting thing. | 但有一个有趣的事情。 |
| 125 | People do indeed say they don't want to be friends or spouses with promiscuous others. | 人们确实说他们不想跟乱搞的人成为朋友或配偶. |
| 126 | But more promiscuous college students of both sexes actually report having more friends | 但更多的男女乱交的大学生 都说交了更多的朋友 |
| 127 | and feeling less lonely than their less promiscuous peers. | 感觉不像他们那不交际的同伴那么孤独 |
| 128 | So if casual sex is going to be a part of your life, yes, there will be people who will judge you. | 所以如果随便做爱会成为你生活的一部分, 是的,会有人来评判你。 |
| 129 | But you can surround yourself with people who won't. | 但你可以围着自己的人 谁不会。 |
| 130 | Now, an unfortunate reality of hookups, especially college hookups, is how often they're driven by alcohol. | 现在,一个不幸的现实 钩子,特别是大学钩子, 是多久他们被酒精驱使。 |
| 131 | When researchers asked freshman women to track all their sexual encounters over one academic year, this is what they found. | 当研究者要求新生女性在一个学年里 跟踪她们所有的性遭遇时, 这就是她们发现的。 |
| 132 | The less known the partner was, the more likely alcohol was involved. | 合伙人所知越少,参与酗酒的可能性就越大。 |
| 133 | You can't see it unfortunately at the end over there, but when it was a stranger, 90% of all hookups involved drinking. | 可惜最后你看不到 但当它是陌生人时 90%的钩子都涉及喝酒 |
| 134 | 63% involved heavy drinking, four or more drinks. | 63%涉及重饮,四杯或更多饮料. |
| 135 | Now, you may look at this and be like, yeah, so what? | 现在,你可能看着这个 和喜欢,是的,那又怎样? |
| 136 | But it's not so what? | 但这不是什么? |
| 137 | This is really unfortunate because judgment impaired due to alcohol or drugs is the number one reason for unwanted hookups, | 这是非常不幸的 因为酗酒或吸毒导致判断力受损 是导致意外性关系的首要原因 |
| 138 | hookups you regret the next day. | 第二天你就会后悔的 |
| 139 | Now, a couple of drinks to set the mood or for liquid courage is one thing. | 现在,几杯酒来决定情绪或液态勇气是一回事。 |
| 140 | But getting smashed, that makes you do things you didn't want to do with people you didn't want to do them with. | 但被砸了,这让你做一些你不想做的事 与你不想做的人。 |
| 141 | It diminishes your physiological ability to enjoy sex or perform sexually. | 它削弱了你享受性生活或性生活的能力。 |
| 142 | It inhibits your psychological ability to set boundaries and express desires. | 它抑制你设定界限和表达欲望的心理能力. |
| 143 | It weakens your determination to use condoms. | 这削弱了你使用避孕套的决心。 |
| 144 | It makes you more sexually aggressive or more vulnerable to sexual aggression. | 这让你更性侵或更容易遭受性侵。 |
| 145 | And it also just blurs your memories. | 它也只是模糊了你的记忆。 |
| 146 | And I mean, don't you want to remember it? | 我的意思是,你不想记住吗? |
| 147 | If you need to be drunk to be hooking up, you should not be hooking up at all. | 如果你需要喝醉才能勾搭,你不应该勾搭。 |
| 148 | Now, sexual desire and romantic love are two distinct psychological and physiological systems | 现在,性欲和浪漫的爱 是两种不同的心理和生理系统 |
| 149 | that evolved for two different evolutionary purposes, | 进化为两个不同的进化目的, |
| 150 | making babies versus staying together long enough for those babies to survive. | 使婴儿 和在一起足够长的时间 这些婴儿生存。 |
| 151 | But the two systems are not independent. | 但这两个系统并不独立. |
| 152 | Sex can set in motion a cascade of neurochemical processes in the brain that lead to love. | 性可以在大脑中启动一系列神经化学过程,从而导致爱情. |
| 153 | Neurotransmitters released during sex, oxytocin, vasopressin, dopamine, | 性过程中释放的神经递质,催产素,瓦梭素,多巴胺, |
| 154 | they make you bond to your partner, even if you didn't want that to happen. | 他们让你与你的搭档结为好友 即使你不希望发生这种事 |
| 155 | And the more you have sex with that person, the stronger that bond grows. | 你和那个人发生性关系越多 关系就越紧密 |
| 156 | Then, when those bonds get broken, as they often do in casual relationships, it hurts. | 然后,当这些债券被打破, 就像他们经常在偶然的关系, 它伤害。 |
| 157 | Now, some people are luckier. | 有些人比较幸运 |
| 158 | Their brains are wired in a way that they don't get attached very easily. | 他们的大脑被连接的方式 他们不易被附着。 |
| 159 | But you can also fight this involuntary infatuation with reason. | 但你也可以用理智来对抗这种非自愿的迷恋. |
| 160 | Not every person who gives you great orgasms and treats you well afterwards would make a great long-term partner. | 并不是每个人都会给你 伟大的高潮 和善待你 之后会成为一个伟大的长期伴侣。 |
| 161 | Go down your relationship checklist and find all those red flags of incompatibility. | 下你的恋爱核对表 找出所有不相容的红旗 |
| 162 | Then, resist the urge to text them 20 times a day, | 然后,抵抗每天20次发短信的冲动, |
| 163 | or start naming your kids and planning your life together as soon as they leave your house. | 或开始命名你的孩子 并规划你的生活 一旦他们离开你的房子。 |
| 164 | Keep yourself busy. | 让你自己忙。 |
| 165 | Have a rotation of partners, perhaps. | 换个搭档吧 |
| 166 | Works really well. | 效果不错 |
| 167 | Finally, casual sex is not just for single people. | 最后,临时性爱不仅仅是单身。 |
| 168 | Remember that novelty and adventure thing I talked about in the beginning? | 还记得我一开始说的 新鲜和冒险的事吗? |
| 169 | Well, many people in long-term relationships also crave novelty. | 许多人在长期关系中 也渴望新颖。 |
| 170 | Sometimes much more so than single people. | 有时比单身要多得多 |
| 171 | Some try to suppress those needs and hope they go away. | 有些人试图压制这些需要,希望它们消失。 |
| 172 | Others cheat and hope their partners don't find out. | 其他人作弊,希望他们的搭档不会发现. |
| 173 | But an increasing number of people, about four to five percent at our current best estimate, | 但越来越多的人,按照我们目前最好的估计, 大约4%到5%, |
| 174 | are starting to incorporate casual sex into their long-term, loving, committed relationships | 开始把随意的性行为 融入他们长期 爱的 坚定的关系 |
| 175 | in an open and honest way, in a consensually non-monogamous way. | 以开放和诚实的方式,以协商一致的、非单一的方式。 |
| 176 | If this is something that might interest you, | 如果这是你感兴趣的事 |
| 177 | there is a growing movement of ethical or responsible non-monogamy out there that you might want to explore, | 有越来越多的道德运动 或负责任的非一夫一妻制 在那里,你可能想要探索, |
| 178 | starting with this awesome book called The Ethical Slut. | 从这本《道德婊子》开始 |
| 179 | All said and done, there's nothing inherently wrong or inherently unhealthy | 说到做到,没有内在的错或内在的不健康 |
| 180 | about wanting casual sex or having it often. | 想要随便做爱或经常做爱 |
| 181 | Now, casual sex can be a source of mental and physical suffering, | 现在,随意的性爱可以是 身心痛苦的根源, |
| 182 | but it can also be an amazing experience that enriches your life and brings great happiness. | 但它也可以是一个惊人的经验 丰富你的生活 带来巨大的幸福。 |
| 183 | Now, unlike with romantic encounters, with hookups you are taking a risk. | 现在,不像浪漫的遭遇, 钩你正在冒险。 |
| 184 | And sometimes you get rewarded, and sometimes you don't. | 有时得到奖励,有时却得不到奖励. |
| 185 | There's no way you can control all the factors, | 你无法控制所有因素 |
| 186 | but there is a lot you can do to maximize your chances of getting rewarded. | 但你可以做很多事情 来尽量增加得到奖励的机会 |
| 187 | Take responsibility for your experience. | 负责你的经验。 |
| 188 | Communicate clearly your likes, dislikes, limitations, expectations. | 明确表达你的喜欢,不喜欢,限制,期望。 |
| 189 | Give an enthusiastic yes to the things you want, and affirm no to the things you don't want. | 热情地答应你想要的东西, 并肯定不想要的东西。 |
| 190 | This kind of sexual assertiveness is important no matter the partner type, | 这种性自信无论伴侣类型如何都很重要 |
| 191 | but it's absolutely paramount with casual partners because they're definitely not psychic. | 但对于临时合伙人来说 这绝对是至高无上的 因为他们绝对不是灵媒 |
| 192 | They probably don't know you well, or at all, | 他们可能不太了解你,或者说, |
| 193 | and sometimes they don't care much about your safety or pleasure. | 有时候他们不在乎你的安全或快乐 |
| 194 | So you need to help your partners treat you the way you want to be treated. | 所以,你需要帮助你的伴侣 对待你的方式你想得到的待遇。 |
| 195 | And whatever you do, please use condoms and do not get wasted. | 无论你做什么 请使用安全套 不要浪费 |
| 196 | Of course, mistakes happen. | 当然,错误会发生。 |
| 197 | Learn from them and move on. | 从他们学习,然后继续前进。 |
| 198 | Remember the old saying, practice makes perfect. | 记住一句老话 练习是完美的 |
| 199 | Studies actually show that the older you get and the more you do it, | 研究表明,你越老,你做的越多, |
| 200 | the better skilled you become at navigating all these challenges of casual sex. | 越是熟练,你越能 驾驭这些随意性行为的挑战 |
| 201 | So it gets better, and not just for the gay kids. | 所以它变得更好, 不只是同性恋的孩子。 |
| 202 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
| 203 | 详情请访问www.fema.gov。 |
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