你攒的那些好东西，根本等不到 “那天”【TED演讲】
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剧集目录
| 集 | 标题 | 时长 |
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| P1 | 你攒的那些好东西，根本等不到 “那天”【TED演讲】 中英双 | 15:20 |
| P2 | 你攒的那些好东西，根本等不到 “那天”【TED演讲】 英文字 | 15:20 |
P1 · 你攒的那些好东西，根本等不到 “那天”【TED演讲】 p01 中英双语 (P1)
字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | believe there are two types of people in the world. | 相信世界上有两种人 |
| 0:03 | Those that sing in the shower | 洗澡时唱歌的人 |
| 0:05 | and those that perform in the shower. | 还有那些在浴室里表演的人 |
| 0:08 | And I am a performer. | 我是一个表演者。 |
| 0:11 | I don't know what it is | 我不知道这是什么 |
| 0:12 | about that small space with the water running, my shampoo bottle is my | 关于那个小空间 随着水流, 我的洗发水瓶是我的 |
| 0:16 | microphone, and my loofah singing back up. | 麦克风,还有我的Loofah 唱回来。 |
| 0:19 | All I know is when I'm done I want to | 我只知道当我完成 我想 |
| 0:21 | start touring instead of towelling. | 开始游览而不是居住。 |
| 0:24 | Now after the shower is out of the way comes | 洗完澡就来了 |
展开字幕全文（311 条）
| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | believe there are two types of people in the world. | 相信世界上有两种人 |
| 2 | Those that sing in the shower | 洗澡时唱歌的人 |
| 3 | and those that perform in the shower. | 还有那些在浴室里表演的人 |
| 4 | And I am a performer. | 我是一个表演者。 |
| 5 | I don't know what it is | 我不知道这是什么 |
| 6 | about that small space with the water running, my shampoo bottle is my | 关于那个小空间 随着水流, 我的洗发水瓶是我的 |
| 7 | microphone, and my loofah singing back up. | 麦克风,还有我的Loofah 唱回来。 |
| 8 | All I know is when I'm done I want to | 我只知道当我完成 我想 |
| 9 | start touring instead of towelling. | 开始游览而不是居住。 |
| 10 | Now after the shower is out of the way comes | 洗完澡就来了 |
| 11 | the really important part, choosing what to wear. | 选择穿什么 |
| 12 | I stand in front of my closet | 我站在壁橱前 |
| 13 | bursting at the seams and I still have the thought I have nothing to wear. | 在缝合处爆裂 我仍然认为我没什么可穿的 |
| 14 | Now | 现在 |
| 15 | usually this decision is made a little bit easier for me because I work as a | 通常这个决定对我来说容易一些,因为我的工作 |
| 16 | registered nurse and we wear scrubs to work. | 注册护士和我们穿 清洗工作。 |
| 17 | With the big bold blocks of colors | 颜色的粗体 |
| 18 | that scrubs are, sometimes the decision feels more like what giant Crayola | 洗涤剂是,有时决定 感觉更像什么 巨型克拉约拉 |
| 19 | crayon do I want to be today. | 今天我想做蜡笔 |
| 20 | The closet is just one of the areas in which our | 衣柜只是我们 |
| 21 | stuff overwhelms us. | 东西压倒我们。 |
| 22 | We wear 20% of our clothing 80% of the time. | 我们穿20%的服装 80%的时间。 |
| 23 | We live in a | 我们生活在一个 |
| 24 | time where with the click of a button you can order something online and have | 点击按钮时, 您可以在网上订购一些东西并有 |
| 25 | it arrive at your doorstep without even leaving the couch. | 它到达你的门阶 甚至没有离开沙发。 |
| 26 | Abundance is the name | 丰盛是这个名字 |
| 27 | and spending is the game. | 而支出是游戏。 |
| 28 | We have no problem with gathering stuff but we have | 我们没有问题 收集的东西,但我们有 |
| 29 | a problem with using it and that's why I'm here today. | 使用它的问题, 这就是为什么我今天在这里。 |
| 30 | At this point you get to | 此时此刻 |
| 31 | join me. | 跟我来。 |
| 32 | I'm gonna invite everybody to raise one hand. | 我要邀请大家举起一只手 |
| 33 | I won't make you do | 我不会逼你的 |
| 34 | anything crazy like those guys. | 就像那些家伙一样疯狂 |
| 35 | I'm gonna ask a series of questions. | 我要问一系列问题。 |
| 36 | If you answer | 如果你回答的话 |
| 37 | yes to any of the questions I'm gonna invite you to lower your hand. | 是的,任何问题 我会邀请你 放下你的手。 |
| 38 | Do you | 你会吗? |
| 39 | have clothes in your closet with tags on? | 衣柜里有带标签的衣服? |
| 40 | Do you have clothes in your closet you | 你衣柜里有衣服吗? |
| 41 | haven't worn in a year? | 一年没穿了吗? |
| 42 | Do you have a candle in your house that has never been | 你家里有没有蜡烛? |
| 43 | lit? | 点? |
| 44 | Do you have special alcohol that you're saving for a special occasion? | 你有特别的酒吗? |
| 45 | Do | 执行 |
| 46 | you drive a luxury vehicle that spends more time in the garage than out on the | 你开一辆豪华的车 在车库里花的时间比在外面多 |
| 47 | open road? | 开路? |
| 48 | Finally, do you have dinnerware or china that you save for a | 最后,你有没有晚餐器皿或瓷器,你留一个 |
| 49 | special occasion or guests? | 特殊场合还是客人? |
| 50 | If you find your hands back in your lap you've | 如果你发现你的手 回到你的腿上,你有 |
| 51 | returned yourself 10 more minutes of listening to me. | 再给我10分钟就回来了 |
| 52 | I returned from a family | 我从一个家庭回来 |
| 53 | vacation in Mexico and I bought myself a beautiful blue ornate candle. | 在墨西哥度假,我给自己买了个美丽的蓝原生蜡烛 |
| 54 | I was so | 我是这么 |
| 55 | excited to light it. | 兴奋地点燃它。 |
| 56 | I returned home and I thought today's not the day I'm gonna | 我回到家,以为今天不会 |
| 57 | save it for the right occasion. | 把它保存在正确的场合。 |
| 58 | So I tucked it in my closet and I forgot | 我把它放在衣柜里,忘记了 |
| 59 | about it. | 关于它。 |
| 60 | Two years passed and I remembered my candle and I thought today | 两年过去了,我想起我的蜡烛,我想今天 |
| 61 | is the day I'm gonna light it. | 就是我要点燃它的日子 |
| 62 | So I pulled out my candle and I opened the | 所以我拔了蜡烛,打开了蜡烛 |
| 63 | box and my beautiful blue candle had turned into a big puddle of wax. | 我美丽的蓝蜡烛变成了一大堆蜡烛 |
| 64 | My candle | 我的蜡烛 |
| 65 | had melted. | 已经融化了 |
| 66 | Now what struck me as really strange about this was that my candle | 现在让我觉得很奇怪的是 我的蜡烛 |
| 67 | had done exactly what it's designed to do. | 已经做了它的设计。 |
| 68 | It's designed to melt but it had done | 是用来融化的,但已经融化了 |
| 69 | it without me. | 没有我 |
| 70 | That's the day that I learned don't let your candle melt in | 那是我学会的日子 不要让你的蜡烛融化 |
| 71 | the closet. | 壁橱。 |
| 72 | After telling one man this story he came up to me after and he said | 告诉一个人这个故事之后 他来找我说 |
| 73 | My wife and I have had candles in our house for 10 years and they've never | 我妻子和我家里有蜡烛已经十年了 他们从来没有 |
| 74 | melted. | 融为化身. |
| 75 | Perhaps it's your location not your loss that you should be focusing on | 也许这是你的位置 而不是你的损失 你应该专注于 |
| 76 | and I said I think you might have missed my point there. | 我说你可能没说清楚 |
| 77 | All of the things that we | 所有的事情,我们 |
| 78 | gather have one thing in common. | 集合有一个共同点 |
| 79 | We decide that they're special. | 我们决定它们很特别 |
| 80 | We have no | 我们没有 |
| 81 | problem with cutting the tags off the sweatpants or putting the IKEA cutlery | 或把宜家的餐具 |
| 82 | and dinnerware out. | 和晚餐器皿出来。 |
| 83 | It's the good china, the expensive scotch, the good suit that | 瓷器好,威士忌贵,西装好 |
| 84 | stay locked in the cupboard. | 锁在柜子里。 |
| 85 | I learned this on a new level one day when I was | 有一天我从一个新的层面学到了这个 |
| 86 | out shopping and I overheard a man compliment the other man on his watch | 我无意间听到有人在表里赞美别人 |
| 87 | and the man responded if you like this one you should see the ones I don't | 那个人回应说如果你喜欢这个 你应该看看那些我不看的 |
| 88 | wear. | 穿着 |
| 89 | This sounded really strange to me until the other man responded absolutely | 这听起来真的很奇怪 直到另一个男人完全回应 |
| 90 | the best ones never leave the box. | 最好的人永远不会离开盒子。 |
| 91 | Now these watches tick instead of melt but I | 现在,这些表 滴答而不是融化,但我 |
| 92 | could see their batteries running low as their owners wore their second best | 能看到他们的电池在低空运行 因为他们的主人穿他们的第二好 |
| 93 | watch saving the best watch for another occasion. | 看把最好的表留到另一个场合 |
| 94 | I want you to reflect on that | 我要你考虑一下 |
| 95 | item that made you lower your hand. | 使你下手的东西。 |
| 96 | When you think about using it or when you go | 当你想用它或当你去 |
| 97 | to use it what is the feeling it evokes in you? | 用它 它能唤起你什么感觉? |
| 98 | Is it a feeling of special, of | 这是一种特别的感觉, |
| 99 | importance, of poise? | 重要吗? |
| 100 | I learned recently when I don't wear something it's because | 我最近学会了不穿衣服是因为 |
| 101 | I've decided it's too nice. | 我决定太好。 |
| 102 | I was recently given a necklace it was a bit | 我最近得到一条项链 有点 |
| 103 | nicer than the kind of necklace I normally wear so I put it on and I showed | 比我平常戴的项链还好看 所以我穿上它 |
| 104 | it to my sister and I said is this too nice to wear every day? | 送给我妹妹,我说,这是太好 每天穿? |
| 105 | She looked at me | 她看着我 |
| 106 | and she said it is really nice but isn't your thing don't let the candle melt in | 她说这是真的很好,但你的东西是不是不 让蜡烛融化英寸 |
| 107 | the closet. | 壁橱。 |
| 108 | She was using my quote against me a yet simple yes or no would | 她用我的话来指证我 说还是说 |
| 109 | have done. | 已经做了。 |
| 110 | It struck me as soon as I had elevated this necklace to be too nice to | 我一把项链抬高就吓到我了 |
| 111 | wear every day it got moved into my jewelry box and forgotten about waiting | 每天穿它被搬进我的珠宝盒 忘记等待 |
| 112 | for that special day. | 为了那个特殊的日子 |
| 113 | This made me really curious so instead of gathering stuff I | 这让我很好奇 所以不要收集我的东西 |
| 114 | decided to gather information and I learned that our tendency as humans to | 我得知我们人类的倾向是 |
| 115 | stockpile stuff is based on two mindsets. | 库存物品基于两种心态。 |
| 116 | I am not enough and I don't have enough. | 我不够,我不够。 |
| 117 | I'm gonna begin with I don't have enough. | 我从我不够开始 |
| 118 | This is a mindset that was ushered in | 这种心态被引入 |
| 119 | by the Great Depression and sold us the lie that by gathering things around us | 被大萧条出卖了谎言 通过收集我们周围的东西 |
| 120 | we can protect ourselves against hard times. | 我们可以保护自己免受困难时期的伤害。 |
| 121 | I believe it's best summarized | 我想这是最好的总结 |
| 122 | with a quote by author Lynn Twist. | 作者林恩·特威斯特的引文 |
| 123 | She states for me and for many of us our | 她为我和我们许多人说 |
| 124 | first waking thought of the day is I didn't get enough sleep. | 第一次醒来时想到的是我睡得不够 |
| 125 | This is quickly | 快点 |
| 126 | followed by the thought I don't have enough time. | 接下来的思考 我没有足够的时间。 |
| 127 | Whether true or not these | 无论这些是否真实 |
| 128 | thoughts occur to us automatically before we even think to pause or examine | 在我们考虑暂停或检查之前 我们就会自动想到 |
| 129 | them. | 他们。 |
| 130 | End quote. | 终引文. |
| 131 | This mindset of I don't have enough means that we live in houses | 这种心态我还不够 意味着我们住在房子里 |
| 132 | three times bigger than 50 years ago and yet our garages are so filled with | 比50年前大三倍 但我们的车库充满了 |
| 133 | stuff we can't park our cars in them. | 我们不能把车停在车里 |
| 134 | The second mindset is I am not enough. | 第二种心态是,我是不够的。 |
| 135 | I | 一、导 言 |
| 136 | already said we're excellent at gathering stuff. | 已经说过我们很擅长收集东西 |
| 137 | We as a society love to | 我们作为一个社会爱 |
| 138 | shop and when we're shopping we're looking for those things that are | 商店,当我们购物 我们寻找的东西是 |
| 139 | missing in our lives. | 我们生活中失踪了 |
| 140 | You don't have enough time? | 你没有足够的时间? |
| 141 | Buy another power tool for | 购买另一个电源工具 |
| 142 | that deck project you don't have enough time for. | 那个甲板项目 你没有足够的时间。 |
| 143 | You haven't lost the weight? | 你没减肥吧? |
| 144 | Buy | 买 |
| 145 | a pair of pants that will look so much better when you've lost that last 10 | 一双裤子,当你失去最后的10个时,会看起来好得多。 |
| 146 | pounds and you don't feel special or important? | 磅,你不觉得特别或重要吗? |
| 147 | Buy a pair of stilettos that | 买一双 s |
| 148 | make you feel so good in front of the mirror but they never leave the house. | 让你在镜子前感觉好极了 但他们从不离开房子 |
| 149 | When we're shopping we're looking to fill our lives with the things that are | 当我们在购物时,我们正寻找 充满我们生活的东西 |
| 150 | missing. | 失踪。 |
| 151 | We stand in the store and we convince ourselves I can become enough | 我们站在店里 说服自己 我足够了 |
| 152 | for these items. | 用于这些物品。 |
| 153 | Something happens between the cash register and our | 收银台和我们之间出事了 |
| 154 | closets. | 衣橱 |
| 155 | Whatever convinced us in the store that we could become enough for | 不管在商店里说服我们什么,我们可以变得足够 |
| 156 | these items disappears. | 这些东西消失了。 |
| 157 | We make room in the closet and we make room in the | 我们在衣柜里腾出空间,在... |
| 158 | garage and we forget about them. | 车库和我们忘了他们。 |
| 159 | What if I told you these items aren't just | 如果我告诉你这些东西不只是 |
| 160 | items? | 物品吗? |
| 161 | They write promises. | 他们写承诺。 |
| 162 | Promises of someday when. | 保证有一天 |
| 163 | These items dictate the | 这些项目决定 |
| 164 | milestones in our lives. | 我们生活中的里程碑。 |
| 165 | We think to ourselves I'll wear it when. | 我们自己想,我会穿它。 |
| 166 | I'll light | 我点灯 |
| 167 | the candle when. | 蜡烛何时。 |
| 168 | I'll use it when. | 我会用它的时候。 |
| 169 | You fill in the blank when you make a | 你填写空白 当你做一个 |
| 170 | partner. | 搭档 |
| 171 | When you lose the weight. | 减重时. |
| 172 | When your life finally matches your life on | 当你的生活终于与你的生活相匹配 |
| 173 | Pinterest. | 普利兹 |
| 174 | The mindset of I am not enough keeps our clothes in our closets and the | 我的想法还不够把我们的衣服放在衣柜里 |
| 175 | champagne going flat in the bottle. | 香槟在瓶子里放平了 |
| 176 | What if I told you that someday when wasn't | 如果我告诉你,有一天,不是 |
| 177 | coming? | 来吗? |
| 178 | As I told you I work as a registered nurse in the emergency | 正如我告诉你,我在急诊室做注册护士 |
| 179 | department. | 部门。 |
| 180 | 在Emergency,我们看到这一切。 | |
| 181 | Let me tell you when people know any plans | 我告诉你们,当人们知道任何计划 |
| 182 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}来Emergency {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}你不会把它放在日程上 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}想三点钟方向 | |
| 183 | coffee, four o'clock Emerge, five o'clock dinner. | 咖啡 四点钟晚宴 五点钟晚宴 |
| 184 | You'll never get out in an hour. | 你一个小时后就出不去了 |
| 185 | When people come to Emerge they don't bring their special scotch. | 当人们来到Emergency时,他们不带 特别的苏格兰威士忌。 |
| 186 | They don't | 他们不会 |
| 187 | wear their finest suit. | 穿他们最好的西装。 |
| 188 | You come as you are and everybody gets the same blue | 你来了,每个人都得到同样的蓝色 |
| 189 | cotton gown that looks terrible on everybody. | 棉质的礼服看起来很可怕 |
| 190 | I have to admit I use that | 我必须承认我用过这个 |
| 191 | gown as a bit of a test with my patients. | 穿着礼服作为我病人的测试 |
| 192 | It's usually my first interaction and I | 通常是我第一次和我互动 |
| 193 | give everybody the same instructions. | 给大家同样的指示。 |
| 194 | Put on this gown, take everything off, the | 穿上这件礼服,把衣服脱了 |
| 195 | gown opens to the back. | 礼服从后面打开 |
| 196 | I pull back the curtain after they've completed the task | 他们完成任务后我拉回窗帘 |
| 197 | and sometimes they've thrown it on like a housecoat. | 有时他们把它扔在 像一件内衣。 |
| 198 | Open to their front, open to | 打开他们的前面,打开 |
| 199 | the front with all of their clothes still on. | 前面还有他们的衣服 |
| 200 | Sometimes they throw it on the | 有时他们扔在 |
| 201 | housecoat but without the clothes underneath. | 内衣,但不穿衣服 |
| 202 | Open to the front and a bit | 打开前面一点 |
| 203 | of a surprise behind the curtain and sometimes they put it on properly. | 窗帘后面有个惊喜,有时他们会把窗帘穿上 |
| 204 | In | 内 |
| 205 | Emerge change is our currency. | 即时变化是我们的货币。 |
| 206 | We see it all the time. | 我们经常看到 |
| 207 | Sometimes it's good change. | 时有善变化. |
| 208 | Bones get put back into place. | 骨头被放回原位。 |
| 209 | Pain disappears with a powerful drug called | 痛苦随着一种强大的药物消失 |
| 210 | morphine. | 吗啡。 |
| 211 | Answers are given to questions. | 答诸问. |
| 212 | Those are the good days. | 那是美好的时光 |
| 213 | On the hard days | 在艰难的日子 |
| 214 | I'm reminded that life can change in an instant. | 人们提醒我 生命会瞬间改变 |
| 215 | Heart attack, stroke, car crash. | 心脏病 中风 车祸 |
| 216 | From the vantage point beside a hospital bed, what's important becomes very clear. | 从医院病床旁边的有利位置, 重要的事情变得非常清楚。 |
| 217 | Those excuses for why you didn't light the candle, didn't drink the scotch, | 你为何不点蜡烛,不喝威士忌 |
| 218 | become very small. | 变得很小。 |
| 219 | You didn't drive that car to the hospital and you may never | 你没有开车去医院 你可能永远不会 |
| 220 | drive it again. | 再开一次 |
| 221 | Now people ask me, so your takeaway from working with life and death | 现在人们问我,所以你从工作 与生与死 |
| 222 | is to use your stuff? | 用你的东西? |
| 223 | No. | 没有 |
| 224 | My takeaway from working with life and death is life is | 我从工作 与生死是生活 |
| 225 | what you make it. | 汝作甚么来. |
| 226 | So make it one you enjoy. | 所以,让你喜欢它。 |
| 227 | I want to be really clear on what | 我想说清楚 |
| 228 | this idea is. | 这个想法是。 |
| 229 | It's a mindset shift of viewing yourself as enough to have and | 这是一种思维的转变 认为自己足够拥有和 |
| 230 | use your things. | 用你的东西。 |
| 231 | It's also a reminder that you're in control of your life. | 亦复提醒汝等诸众生自在. |
| 232 | So why | 所以为什么 |
| 233 | not make it one that counts? | 不做一个很重要的吗? |
| 234 | I want to be really clear on what this idea is not. | 我想说清楚这个想法是什么 |
| 235 | The four most annoying letters of my generation. | 我这代最讨厌的四封信 |
| 236 | YOLO. | 哟。 |
| 237 | You only live once. | 你只活过一次 |
| 238 | This | 这个 |
| 239 | is not an excuse to blow the bank account, go to Europe on credit or buy that | 不是吹开银行账户、借钱去欧洲或买东西的借口 |
| 240 | convertible you've been eyeing. | 你一直在看的敞篷车 |
| 241 | You should be able to go home today without | 今天你应该可以回家,没有 |
| 242 | stopping by the store and look around your house and use your things. | 到店里看看周围,用你的东西 |
| 243 | That | 那个 |
| 244 | candle that melted triggered something in me. | 被熔化的蜡烛触发了我内心的东西 |
| 245 | I thought this might be a candle, | 我想这可能是蜡烛, |
| 246 | but it represents so much more. | 但它代表了更多。 |
| 247 | I started to tell that story of my candle to my | 我开始把蜡烛的故事告诉我 |
| 248 | friends and my family, and I didn't realize that it could make an impact in | 朋友和我的家人, 我并没意识到 它可以对 |
| 249 | other people's lives as well. | 还有别人的生活 |
| 250 | I told the story to one friend and the next time I | 我告诉了一个朋友,下一次我 |
| 251 | was over at her house, she took me on a candle tour. | 在她家 她带我去看烛光 |
| 252 | Lit! | 丽特! |
| 253 | Jillian, I had | 吉莉安,我有过 |
| 254 | waited a year to light that candle. | 等了一年再点蜡烛 |
| 255 | You told me the story and I lit them all the | 你告诉我的故事 我点燃了所有的 |
| 256 | next day. | 第二天,我会去的 |
| 257 | Another friend pointed up at a beautiful pair of stilettos on her | 另一位朋友指着她身上的一双漂亮的丝绸 |
| 258 | shelf and she said, those beautiful buggers are for when I book my first | 架子上说,这些漂亮的家伙是给我订的 |
| 259 | speaking event. | 演讲活动。 |
| 260 | She texted me later that week and she said, I'm wearing the shoes. | 那星期晚些时候她给我发了短信 她说我穿着鞋子 |
| 261 | No more melting. | 别再融化了 |
| 262 | I started to see candles in my friend's closet, but they weren't in | 我开始在我朋友的衣柜里看到蜡烛,但是它们不在 |
| 263 | the shape of a candle, they were in the shape of dresses that never seemed to | 蜡烛的形状, 他们的外形 裙子似乎从来没有 |
| 264 | make it out of the closet. | 从衣柜里出来 |
| 265 | And so I decided to throw a party, and the rule | 所以我决定开个派对 和规则 |
| 266 | for this party was, you have to wear the dress you have nowhere else to wear. | 这个派对,你必须穿你无处可去的衣服 |
| 267 | The | 那个 |
| 268 | women are nodding. | 女人在点头 |
| 269 | We all have a dress like this. | 我们都有一个这样的裙子。 |
| 270 | It's a dress that whenever | 它的裙子,无论何时 |
| 271 | you go to get dressed up, it never makes the cut. | 你去穿好衣服,它从来没有做切割。 |
| 272 | It's too tight, it's too bright, | 太紧 太亮 |
| 273 | it's too long, it's too short. | 太长了 太短了 |
| 274 | Whatever the excuse, the excuses are up and you | 不管什么借口,都是借口,还有你 |
| 275 | have to wear this dress to this event. | 要穿这件裙子参加这次活动 |
| 276 | I think my favorite part of this event, we | 我认为我最喜欢的部分 在这个活动中,我们 |
| 277 | went to a restaurant and you could tell that the patrons, once we were all | 去了一家餐馆,你可以告诉 赞助人,一旦我们都是 |
| 278 | gathered, were trying to figure out what the theme of this party was. | 正在寻找这个政党的主题 |
| 279 | Is this a | 这是一 |
| 280 | terribly coordinated wedding party? | 非常协调的婚礼派对? |
| 281 | Is this Halloween come early? | 万圣节来得早吗? |
| 282 | What is | 这是什么 |
| 283 | up with this group of girls? | 和这群女孩在一起? |
| 284 | I think the thing that stood out the most was how | 我觉得最突出的是 |
| 285 | much fun we were having. | 我们玩得很开心 |
| 286 | You see, when you put excuses on hold, the other side | 你看,当你把借口搁置, 另一边 |
| 287 | of that is joy, confidence, freedom. | 快乐、自信、自由 |
| 288 | All of these characteristics that we had kept | 我们所保持的所有这些特征 |
| 289 | hidden in our closet came out when you said, no more excuses, today's the day. | 藏在我们衣柜里 当你说,没有更多的借口, 今天是一天。 |
| 290 | Recently a man was talking to me about, when you're given a present that's | 最近有个男人在跟我说话 当你收到礼物的时候 |
| 291 | beautifully wrapped, you know the kind that they clearly went that extra mile | 漂亮的包裹,你知道那种 那种他们显然去了多英里 |
| 292 | to wrap it beautifully? | 把它包得漂亮一点? |
| 293 | Do you put it on your shelf without unwrapping it and | 你把它放在你的架子上 不拆开它 |
| 294 | saying, look how beautiful it is, how could I possibly unwrap it? | 说,看看它有多美, 我怎么能解开它? |
| 295 | No, because you | 不,因为你 |
| 296 | know the present on the inside is even better than the wrapping. | 知道里面的礼物比包装要好 |
| 297 | I think life | 我觉得生活 |
| 298 | gives us a present and it's called today and we hold back from unwrapping it and | 给我们一个礼物,它叫今天, 我们阻止拆开它, |
| 299 | we give ourselves excuses and make it feel okay, but really what's on the | 我们给自己找借口,让自己感觉好点, 但实际上什么是上面 |
| 300 | inside is what matters. | 内心才是最重要的 |
| 301 | You might be sitting there thinking, I think it takes | 你可能坐在那里想,我觉得它需要 |
| 302 | more than wearing the clothes in my closet or popping the champagne or | 不只是穿着我衣柜里的衣服 或是喝香槟 |
| 303 | pulling out the good china, but I would say those small actions send a big | 抽出好的瓷器, 但我会说这些小动作 送了一个很大的 |
| 304 | message that you're no longer letting life slip or rather melt by. | 信息,你不再让 生命滑或更融化。 |
| 305 | My challenge | 我的挑战 |
| 306 | to you is, whatever made you lower your hand earlier in my talk, I ask that you | 对你来说,无论你在我的演讲中 使你低下手,我都要求你 |
| 307 | use it within the next week. | 在下周内使用。 |
| 308 | Pull out that china for a random Tuesday night, | 周二晚上把瓷器抽出来 |
| 309 | open that scotch, take the car out, cut the tags off your clothes and don't let | 打开苏格兰威士忌,把车开出去, 切掉衣服上的标签,不要让 |
| 310 | your candle melt in the closet. | 你的蜡烛融化在衣柜里 |
| 311 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | believe there are two types of people in the world. | 相信世界上有两种人 |
| 0:03 | Those that sing in the shower | 洗澡时唱歌的人 |
| 0:05 | and those that perform in the shower. | 还有那些在浴室里表演的人 |
| 0:08 | And I am a performer. | 我是一个表演者。 |
| 0:11 | I don't know what it is | 我不知道这是什么 |
| 0:12 | about that small space with the water running, my shampoo bottle is my | 关于那个小空间 随着水流, 我的洗发水瓶是我的 |
| 0:16 | microphone, and my loofah singing back up. | 麦克风,还有我的Loofah 唱回来。 |
| 0:19 | All I know is when I'm done I want to | 我只知道当我完成 我想 |
| 0:21 | start touring instead of towelling. | 开始游览而不是居住。 |
| 0:24 | Now after the shower is out of the way comes | 洗完澡就来了 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | believe there are two types of people in the world. | 相信世界上有两种人 |
| 2 | Those that sing in the shower | 洗澡时唱歌的人 |
| 3 | and those that perform in the shower. | 还有那些在浴室里表演的人 |
| 4 | And I am a performer. | 我是一个表演者。 |
| 5 | I don't know what it is | 我不知道这是什么 |
| 6 | about that small space with the water running, my shampoo bottle is my | 关于那个小空间 随着水流, 我的洗发水瓶是我的 |
| 7 | microphone, and my loofah singing back up. | 麦克风,还有我的Loofah 唱回来。 |
| 8 | All I know is when I'm done I want to | 我只知道当我完成 我想 |
| 9 | start touring instead of towelling. | 开始游览而不是居住。 |
| 10 | Now after the shower is out of the way comes | 洗完澡就来了 |
| 11 | the really important part, choosing what to wear. | 选择穿什么 |
| 12 | I stand in front of my closet | 我站在壁橱前 |
| 13 | bursting at the seams and I still have the thought I have nothing to wear. | 在缝合处爆裂 我仍然认为我没什么可穿的 |
| 14 | Now | 现在 |
| 15 | usually this decision is made a little bit easier for me because I work as a | 通常这个决定对我来说容易一些,因为我的工作 |
| 16 | registered nurse and we wear scrubs to work. | 注册护士和我们穿 清洗工作。 |
| 17 | With the big bold blocks of colors | 颜色的粗体 |
| 18 | that scrubs are, sometimes the decision feels more like what giant Crayola | 洗涤剂是,有时决定 感觉更像什么 巨型克拉约拉 |
| 19 | crayon do I want to be today. | 今天我想做蜡笔 |
| 20 | The closet is just one of the areas in which our | 衣柜只是我们 |
| 21 | stuff overwhelms us. | 东西压倒我们。 |
| 22 | We wear 20% of our clothing 80% of the time. | 我们穿20%的服装 80%的时间。 |
| 23 | We live in a | 我们生活在一个 |
| 24 | time where with the click of a button you can order something online and have | 点击按钮时, 您可以在网上订购一些东西并有 |
| 25 | it arrive at your doorstep without even leaving the couch. | 它到达你的门阶 甚至没有离开沙发。 |
| 26 | Abundance is the name | 丰盛是这个名字 |
| 27 | and spending is the game. | 而支出是游戏。 |
| 28 | We have no problem with gathering stuff but we have | 我们没有问题 收集的东西,但我们有 |
| 29 | a problem with using it and that's why I'm here today. | 使用它的问题, 这就是为什么我今天在这里。 |
| 30 | At this point you get to | 此时此刻 |
| 31 | join me. | 跟我来。 |
| 32 | I'm gonna invite everybody to raise one hand. | 我要邀请大家举起一只手 |
| 33 | I won't make you do | 我不会逼你的 |
| 34 | anything crazy like those guys. | 就像那些家伙一样疯狂 |
| 35 | I'm gonna ask a series of questions. | 我要问一系列问题。 |
| 36 | If you answer | 如果你回答的话 |
| 37 | yes to any of the questions I'm gonna invite you to lower your hand. | 是的,任何问题 我会邀请你 放下你的手。 |
| 38 | Do you | 你会吗? |
| 39 | have clothes in your closet with tags on? | 衣柜里有带标签的衣服? |
| 40 | Do you have clothes in your closet you | 你衣柜里有衣服吗? |
| 41 | haven't worn in a year? | 一年没穿了吗? |
| 42 | Do you have a candle in your house that has never been | 你家里有没有蜡烛? |
| 43 | lit? | 点? |
| 44 | Do you have special alcohol that you're saving for a special occasion? | 你有特别的酒吗? |
| 45 | Do | 执行 |
| 46 | you drive a luxury vehicle that spends more time in the garage than out on the | 你开一辆豪华的车 在车库里花的时间比在外面多 |
| 47 | open road? | 开路? |
| 48 | Finally, do you have dinnerware or china that you save for a | 最后,你有没有晚餐器皿或瓷器,你留一个 |
| 49 | special occasion or guests? | 特殊场合还是客人? |
| 50 | If you find your hands back in your lap you've | 如果你发现你的手 回到你的腿上,你有 |
| 51 | returned yourself 10 more minutes of listening to me. | 再给我10分钟就回来了 |
| 52 | I returned from a family | 我从一个家庭回来 |
| 53 | vacation in Mexico and I bought myself a beautiful blue ornate candle. | 在墨西哥度假,我给自己买了个美丽的蓝原生蜡烛 |
| 54 | I was so | 我是这么 |
| 55 | excited to light it. | 兴奋地点燃它。 |
| 56 | I returned home and I thought today's not the day I'm gonna | 我回到家,以为今天不会 |
| 57 | save it for the right occasion. | 把它保存在正确的场合。 |
| 58 | So I tucked it in my closet and I forgot | 我把它放在衣柜里,忘记了 |
| 59 | about it. | 关于它。 |
| 60 | Two years passed and I remembered my candle and I thought today | 两年过去了,我想起我的蜡烛,我想今天 |
| 61 | is the day I'm gonna light it. | 就是我要点燃它的日子 |
| 62 | So I pulled out my candle and I opened the | 所以我拔了蜡烛,打开了蜡烛 |
| 63 | box and my beautiful blue candle had turned into a big puddle of wax. | 我美丽的蓝蜡烛变成了一大堆蜡烛 |
| 64 | My candle | 我的蜡烛 |
| 65 | had melted. | 已经融化了 |
| 66 | Now what struck me as really strange about this was that my candle | 现在让我觉得很奇怪的是 我的蜡烛 |
| 67 | had done exactly what it's designed to do. | 已经做了它的设计。 |
| 68 | It's designed to melt but it had done | 是用来融化的,但已经融化了 |
| 69 | it without me. | 没有我 |
| 70 | That's the day that I learned don't let your candle melt in | 那是我学会的日子 不要让你的蜡烛融化 |
| 71 | the closet. | 壁橱。 |
| 72 | After telling one man this story he came up to me after and he said | 告诉一个人这个故事之后 他来找我说 |
| 73 | My wife and I have had candles in our house for 10 years and they've never | 我妻子和我家里有蜡烛已经十年了 他们从来没有 |
| 74 | melted. | 融为化身. |
| 75 | Perhaps it's your location not your loss that you should be focusing on | 也许这是你的位置 而不是你的损失 你应该专注于 |
| 76 | and I said I think you might have missed my point there. | 我说你可能没说清楚 |
| 77 | All of the things that we | 所有的事情,我们 |
| 78 | gather have one thing in common. | 集合有一个共同点 |
| 79 | We decide that they're special. | 我们决定它们很特别 |
| 80 | We have no | 我们没有 |
| 81 | problem with cutting the tags off the sweatpants or putting the IKEA cutlery | 或把宜家的餐具 |
| 82 | and dinnerware out. | 和晚餐器皿出来。 |
| 83 | It's the good china, the expensive scotch, the good suit that | 瓷器好,威士忌贵,西装好 |
| 84 | stay locked in the cupboard. | 锁在柜子里。 |
| 85 | I learned this on a new level one day when I was | 有一天我从一个新的层面学到了这个 |
| 86 | out shopping and I overheard a man compliment the other man on his watch | 我无意间听到有人在表里赞美别人 |
| 87 | and the man responded if you like this one you should see the ones I don't | 那个人回应说如果你喜欢这个 你应该看看那些我不看的 |
| 88 | wear. | 穿着 |
| 89 | This sounded really strange to me until the other man responded absolutely | 这听起来真的很奇怪 直到另一个男人完全回应 |
| 90 | the best ones never leave the box. | 最好的人永远不会离开盒子。 |
| 91 | Now these watches tick instead of melt but I | 现在,这些表 滴答而不是融化,但我 |
| 92 | could see their batteries running low as their owners wore their second best | 能看到他们的电池在低空运行 因为他们的主人穿他们的第二好 |
| 93 | watch saving the best watch for another occasion. | 看把最好的表留到另一个场合 |
| 94 | I want you to reflect on that | 我要你考虑一下 |
| 95 | item that made you lower your hand. | 使你下手的东西。 |
| 96 | When you think about using it or when you go | 当你想用它或当你去 |
| 97 | to use it what is the feeling it evokes in you? | 用它 它能唤起你什么感觉? |
| 98 | Is it a feeling of special, of | 这是一种特别的感觉, |
| 99 | importance, of poise? | 重要吗? |
| 100 | I learned recently when I don't wear something it's because | 我最近学会了不穿衣服是因为 |
| 101 | I've decided it's too nice. | 我决定太好。 |
| 102 | I was recently given a necklace it was a bit | 我最近得到一条项链 有点 |
| 103 | nicer than the kind of necklace I normally wear so I put it on and I showed | 比我平常戴的项链还好看 所以我穿上它 |
| 104 | it to my sister and I said is this too nice to wear every day? | 送给我妹妹,我说,这是太好 每天穿? |
| 105 | She looked at me | 她看着我 |
| 106 | and she said it is really nice but isn't your thing don't let the candle melt in | 她说这是真的很好,但你的东西是不是不 让蜡烛融化英寸 |
| 107 | the closet. | 壁橱。 |
| 108 | She was using my quote against me a yet simple yes or no would | 她用我的话来指证我 说还是说 |
| 109 | have done. | 已经做了。 |
| 110 | It struck me as soon as I had elevated this necklace to be too nice to | 我一把项链抬高就吓到我了 |
| 111 | wear every day it got moved into my jewelry box and forgotten about waiting | 每天穿它被搬进我的珠宝盒 忘记等待 |
| 112 | for that special day. | 为了那个特殊的日子 |
| 113 | This made me really curious so instead of gathering stuff I | 这让我很好奇 所以不要收集我的东西 |
| 114 | decided to gather information and I learned that our tendency as humans to | 我得知我们人类的倾向是 |
| 115 | stockpile stuff is based on two mindsets. | 库存物品基于两种心态。 |
| 116 | I am not enough and I don't have enough. | 我不够,我不够。 |
| 117 | I'm gonna begin with I don't have enough. | 我从我不够开始 |
| 118 | This is a mindset that was ushered in | 这种心态被引入 |
| 119 | by the Great Depression and sold us the lie that by gathering things around us | 被大萧条出卖了谎言 通过收集我们周围的东西 |
| 120 | we can protect ourselves against hard times. | 我们可以保护自己免受困难时期的伤害。 |
| 121 | I believe it's best summarized | 我想这是最好的总结 |
| 122 | with a quote by author Lynn Twist. | 作者林恩·特威斯特的引文 |
| 123 | She states for me and for many of us our | 她为我和我们许多人说 |
| 124 | first waking thought of the day is I didn't get enough sleep. | 第一次醒来时想到的是我睡得不够 |
| 125 | This is quickly | 快点 |
| 126 | followed by the thought I don't have enough time. | 接下来的思考 我没有足够的时间。 |
| 127 | Whether true or not these | 无论这些是否真实 |
| 128 | thoughts occur to us automatically before we even think to pause or examine | 在我们考虑暂停或检查之前 我们就会自动想到 |
| 129 | them. | 他们。 |
| 130 | End quote. | 终引文. |
| 131 | This mindset of I don't have enough means that we live in houses | 这种心态我还不够 意味着我们住在房子里 |
| 132 | three times bigger than 50 years ago and yet our garages are so filled with | 比50年前大三倍 但我们的车库充满了 |
| 133 | stuff we can't park our cars in them. | 我们不能把车停在车里 |
| 134 | The second mindset is I am not enough. | 第二种心态是,我是不够的。 |
| 135 | I | 一、导 言 |
| 136 | already said we're excellent at gathering stuff. | 已经说过我们很擅长收集东西 |
| 137 | We as a society love to | 我们作为一个社会爱 |
| 138 | shop and when we're shopping we're looking for those things that are | 商店,当我们购物 我们寻找的东西是 |
| 139 | missing in our lives. | 我们生活中失踪了 |
| 140 | You don't have enough time? | 你没有足够的时间? |
| 141 | Buy another power tool for | 购买另一个电源工具 |
| 142 | that deck project you don't have enough time for. | 那个甲板项目 你没有足够的时间。 |
| 143 | You haven't lost the weight? | 你没减肥吧? |
| 144 | Buy | 买 |
| 145 | a pair of pants that will look so much better when you've lost that last 10 | 一双裤子,当你失去最后的10个时,会看起来好得多。 |
| 146 | pounds and you don't feel special or important? | 磅,你不觉得特别或重要吗? |
| 147 | Buy a pair of stilettos that | 买一双 s |
| 148 | make you feel so good in front of the mirror but they never leave the house. | 让你在镜子前感觉好极了 但他们从不离开房子 |
| 149 | When we're shopping we're looking to fill our lives with the things that are | 当我们在购物时,我们正寻找 充满我们生活的东西 |
| 150 | missing. | 失踪。 |
| 151 | We stand in the store and we convince ourselves I can become enough | 我们站在店里 说服自己 我足够了 |
| 152 | for these items. | 用于这些物品。 |
| 153 | Something happens between the cash register and our | 收银台和我们之间出事了 |
| 154 | closets. | 衣橱 |
| 155 | Whatever convinced us in the store that we could become enough for | 不管在商店里说服我们什么,我们可以变得足够 |
| 156 | these items disappears. | 这些东西消失了。 |
| 157 | We make room in the closet and we make room in the | 我们在衣柜里腾出空间,在... |
| 158 | garage and we forget about them. | 车库和我们忘了他们。 |
| 159 | What if I told you these items aren't just | 如果我告诉你这些东西不只是 |
| 160 | items? | 物品吗? |
| 161 | They write promises. | 他们写承诺。 |
| 162 | Promises of someday when. | 保证有一天 |
| 163 | These items dictate the | 这些项目决定 |
| 164 | milestones in our lives. | 我们生活中的里程碑。 |
| 165 | We think to ourselves I'll wear it when. | 我们自己想,我会穿它。 |
| 166 | I'll light | 我点灯 |
| 167 | the candle when. | 蜡烛何时。 |
| 168 | I'll use it when. | 我会用它的时候。 |
| 169 | You fill in the blank when you make a | 你填写空白 当你做一个 |
| 170 | partner. | 搭档 |
| 171 | When you lose the weight. | 减重时. |
| 172 | When your life finally matches your life on | 当你的生活终于与你的生活相匹配 |
| 173 | Pinterest. | 普利兹 |
| 174 | The mindset of I am not enough keeps our clothes in our closets and the | 我的想法还不够把我们的衣服放在衣柜里 |
| 175 | champagne going flat in the bottle. | 香槟在瓶子里放平了 |
| 176 | What if I told you that someday when wasn't | 如果我告诉你,有一天,不是 |
| 177 | coming? | 来吗? |
| 178 | As I told you I work as a registered nurse in the emergency | 正如我告诉你,我在急诊室做注册护士 |
| 179 | department. | 部门。 |
| 180 | 在Emergency,我们看到这一切。 | |
| 181 | Let me tell you when people know any plans | 我告诉你们,当人们知道任何计划 |
| 182 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}来Emergency {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}你不会把它放在日程上 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}想三点钟方向 | |
| 183 | coffee, four o'clock Emerge, five o'clock dinner. | 咖啡 四点钟晚宴 五点钟晚宴 |
| 184 | You'll never get out in an hour. | 你一个小时后就出不去了 |
| 185 | When people come to Emerge they don't bring their special scotch. | 当人们来到Emergency时,他们不带 特别的苏格兰威士忌。 |
| 186 | They don't | 他们不会 |
| 187 | wear their finest suit. | 穿他们最好的西装。 |
| 188 | You come as you are and everybody gets the same blue | 你来了,每个人都得到同样的蓝色 |
| 189 | cotton gown that looks terrible on everybody. | 棉质的礼服看起来很可怕 |
| 190 | I have to admit I use that | 我必须承认我用过这个 |
| 191 | gown as a bit of a test with my patients. | 穿着礼服作为我病人的测试 |
| 192 | It's usually my first interaction and I | 通常是我第一次和我互动 |
| 193 | give everybody the same instructions. | 给大家同样的指示。 |
| 194 | Put on this gown, take everything off, the | 穿上这件礼服,把衣服脱了 |
| 195 | gown opens to the back. | 礼服从后面打开 |
| 196 | I pull back the curtain after they've completed the task | 他们完成任务后我拉回窗帘 |
| 197 | and sometimes they've thrown it on like a housecoat. | 有时他们把它扔在 像一件内衣。 |
| 198 | Open to their front, open to | 打开他们的前面,打开 |
| 199 | the front with all of their clothes still on. | 前面还有他们的衣服 |
| 200 | Sometimes they throw it on the | 有时他们扔在 |
| 201 | housecoat but without the clothes underneath. | 内衣,但不穿衣服 |
| 202 | Open to the front and a bit | 打开前面一点 |
| 203 | of a surprise behind the curtain and sometimes they put it on properly. | 窗帘后面有个惊喜,有时他们会把窗帘穿上 |
| 204 | In | 内 |
| 205 | Emerge change is our currency. | 即时变化是我们的货币。 |
| 206 | We see it all the time. | 我们经常看到 |
| 207 | Sometimes it's good change. | 时有善变化. |
| 208 | Bones get put back into place. | 骨头被放回原位。 |
| 209 | Pain disappears with a powerful drug called | 痛苦随着一种强大的药物消失 |
| 210 | morphine. | 吗啡。 |
| 211 | Answers are given to questions. | 答诸问. |
| 212 | Those are the good days. | 那是美好的时光 |
| 213 | On the hard days | 在艰难的日子 |
| 214 | I'm reminded that life can change in an instant. | 人们提醒我 生命会瞬间改变 |
| 215 | Heart attack, stroke, car crash. | 心脏病 中风 车祸 |
| 216 | From the vantage point beside a hospital bed, what's important becomes very clear. | 从医院病床旁边的有利位置, 重要的事情变得非常清楚。 |
| 217 | Those excuses for why you didn't light the candle, didn't drink the scotch, | 你为何不点蜡烛,不喝威士忌 |
| 218 | become very small. | 变得很小。 |
| 219 | You didn't drive that car to the hospital and you may never | 你没有开车去医院 你可能永远不会 |
| 220 | drive it again. | 再开一次 |
| 221 | Now people ask me, so your takeaway from working with life and death | 现在人们问我,所以你从工作 与生与死 |
| 222 | is to use your stuff? | 用你的东西? |
| 223 | No. | 没有 |
| 224 | My takeaway from working with life and death is life is | 我从工作 与生死是生活 |
| 225 | what you make it. | 汝作甚么来. |
| 226 | So make it one you enjoy. | 所以,让你喜欢它。 |
| 227 | I want to be really clear on what | 我想说清楚 |
| 228 | this idea is. | 这个想法是。 |
| 229 | It's a mindset shift of viewing yourself as enough to have and | 这是一种思维的转变 认为自己足够拥有和 |
| 230 | use your things. | 用你的东西。 |
| 231 | It's also a reminder that you're in control of your life. | 亦复提醒汝等诸众生自在. |
| 232 | So why | 所以为什么 |
| 233 | not make it one that counts? | 不做一个很重要的吗? |
| 234 | I want to be really clear on what this idea is not. | 我想说清楚这个想法是什么 |
| 235 | The four most annoying letters of my generation. | 我这代最讨厌的四封信 |
| 236 | YOLO. | 哟。 |
| 237 | You only live once. | 你只活过一次 |
| 238 | This | 这个 |
| 239 | is not an excuse to blow the bank account, go to Europe on credit or buy that | 不是吹开银行账户、借钱去欧洲或买东西的借口 |
| 240 | convertible you've been eyeing. | 你一直在看的敞篷车 |
| 241 | You should be able to go home today without | 今天你应该可以回家,没有 |
| 242 | stopping by the store and look around your house and use your things. | 到店里看看周围,用你的东西 |
| 243 | That | 那个 |
| 244 | candle that melted triggered something in me. | 被熔化的蜡烛触发了我内心的东西 |
| 245 | I thought this might be a candle, | 我想这可能是蜡烛, |
| 246 | but it represents so much more. | 但它代表了更多。 |
| 247 | I started to tell that story of my candle to my | 我开始把蜡烛的故事告诉我 |
| 248 | friends and my family, and I didn't realize that it could make an impact in | 朋友和我的家人, 我并没意识到 它可以对 |
| 249 | other people's lives as well. | 还有别人的生活 |
| 250 | I told the story to one friend and the next time I | 我告诉了一个朋友,下一次我 |
| 251 | was over at her house, she took me on a candle tour. | 在她家 她带我去看烛光 |
| 252 | Lit! | 丽特! |
| 253 | Jillian, I had | 吉莉安,我有过 |
| 254 | waited a year to light that candle. | 等了一年再点蜡烛 |
| 255 | You told me the story and I lit them all the | 你告诉我的故事 我点燃了所有的 |
| 256 | next day. | 第二天,我会去的 |
| 257 | Another friend pointed up at a beautiful pair of stilettos on her | 另一位朋友指着她身上的一双漂亮的丝绸 |
| 258 | shelf and she said, those beautiful buggers are for when I book my first | 架子上说,这些漂亮的家伙是给我订的 |
| 259 | speaking event. | 演讲活动。 |
| 260 | She texted me later that week and she said, I'm wearing the shoes. | 那星期晚些时候她给我发了短信 她说我穿着鞋子 |
| 261 | No more melting. | 别再融化了 |
| 262 | I started to see candles in my friend's closet, but they weren't in | 我开始在我朋友的衣柜里看到蜡烛,但是它们不在 |
| 263 | the shape of a candle, they were in the shape of dresses that never seemed to | 蜡烛的形状, 他们的外形 裙子似乎从来没有 |
| 264 | make it out of the closet. | 从衣柜里出来 |
| 265 | And so I decided to throw a party, and the rule | 所以我决定开个派对 和规则 |
| 266 | for this party was, you have to wear the dress you have nowhere else to wear. | 这个派对,你必须穿你无处可去的衣服 |
| 267 | The | 那个 |
| 268 | women are nodding. | 女人在点头 |
| 269 | We all have a dress like this. | 我们都有一个这样的裙子。 |
| 270 | It's a dress that whenever | 它的裙子,无论何时 |
| 271 | you go to get dressed up, it never makes the cut. | 你去穿好衣服,它从来没有做切割。 |
| 272 | It's too tight, it's too bright, | 太紧 太亮 |
| 273 | it's too long, it's too short. | 太长了 太短了 |
| 274 | Whatever the excuse, the excuses are up and you | 不管什么借口,都是借口,还有你 |
| 275 | have to wear this dress to this event. | 要穿这件裙子参加这次活动 |
| 276 | I think my favorite part of this event, we | 我认为我最喜欢的部分 在这个活动中,我们 |
| 277 | went to a restaurant and you could tell that the patrons, once we were all | 去了一家餐馆,你可以告诉 赞助人,一旦我们都是 |
| 278 | gathered, were trying to figure out what the theme of this party was. | 正在寻找这个政党的主题 |
| 279 | Is this a | 这是一 |
| 280 | terribly coordinated wedding party? | 非常协调的婚礼派对? |
| 281 | Is this Halloween come early? | 万圣节来得早吗? |
| 282 | What is | 这是什么 |
| 283 | up with this group of girls? | 和这群女孩在一起? |
| 284 | I think the thing that stood out the most was how | 我觉得最突出的是 |
| 285 | much fun we were having. | 我们玩得很开心 |
| 286 | You see, when you put excuses on hold, the other side | 你看,当你把借口搁置, 另一边 |
| 287 | of that is joy, confidence, freedom. | 快乐、自信、自由 |
| 288 | All of these characteristics that we had kept | 我们所保持的所有这些特征 |
| 289 | hidden in our closet came out when you said, no more excuses, today's the day. | 藏在我们衣柜里 当你说,没有更多的借口, 今天是一天。 |
| 290 | Recently a man was talking to me about, when you're given a present that's | 最近有个男人在跟我说话 当你收到礼物的时候 |
| 291 | beautifully wrapped, you know the kind that they clearly went that extra mile | 漂亮的包裹,你知道那种 那种他们显然去了多英里 |
| 292 | to wrap it beautifully? | 把它包得漂亮一点? |
| 293 | Do you put it on your shelf without unwrapping it and | 你把它放在你的架子上 不拆开它 |
| 294 | saying, look how beautiful it is, how could I possibly unwrap it? | 说,看看它有多美, 我怎么能解开它? |
| 295 | No, because you | 不,因为你 |
| 296 | know the present on the inside is even better than the wrapping. | 知道里面的礼物比包装要好 |
| 297 | I think life | 我觉得生活 |
| 298 | gives us a present and it's called today and we hold back from unwrapping it and | 给我们一个礼物,它叫今天, 我们阻止拆开它, |
| 299 | we give ourselves excuses and make it feel okay, but really what's on the | 我们给自己找借口,让自己感觉好点, 但实际上什么是上面 |
| 300 | inside is what matters. | 内心才是最重要的 |
| 301 | You might be sitting there thinking, I think it takes | 你可能坐在那里想,我觉得它需要 |
| 302 | more than wearing the clothes in my closet or popping the champagne or | 不只是穿着我衣柜里的衣服 或是喝香槟 |
| 303 | pulling out the good china, but I would say those small actions send a big | 抽出好的瓷器, 但我会说这些小动作 送了一个很大的 |
| 304 | message that you're no longer letting life slip or rather melt by. | 信息,你不再让 生命滑或更融化。 |
| 305 | My challenge | 我的挑战 |
| 306 | to you is, whatever made you lower your hand earlier in my talk, I ask that you | 对你来说,无论你在我的演讲中 使你低下手,我都要求你 |
| 307 | use it within the next week. | 在下周内使用。 |
| 308 | Pull out that china for a random Tuesday night, | 周二晚上把瓷器抽出来 |
| 309 | open that scotch, take the car out, cut the tags off your clothes and don't let | 打开苏格兰威士忌,把车开出去, 切掉衣服上的标签,不要让 |
| 310 | your candle melt in the closet. | 你的蜡烛融化在衣柜里 |
| 311 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
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