亏了一大笔钱后，我领悟到的10件事【TED演讲】
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:01 | I used to be successful, according to society. | 我曾经是成功的,根据社会。 |
| 0:05 | I had left a well-paid job in marketing to become an entrepreneur. | 我为了成为企业家 离开了一份高薪的营销工作 |
| 0:10 | And very soon I could buy anything I wanted. | 很快我就能买到我想要的东西 |
| 0:13 | Not anything in the world, anything I wanted, which was a lot still. | 世界上什么都没有,我想要的, 还有很多。 |
| 0:17 | My impulse purchases included a brand new car and a house. | 我的冲动购买包括一辆全新的汽车和一栋房子. |
| 0:23 | My entire life was just about fun, and I can say I created some amazing memories. | 我的整个人生都是有趣的, 我可以说,我创造了一些惊人的回忆。 |
| 0:30 | But it was just fun. | 但它只是乐趣。 |
| 0:31 | I wanted more. | 我还想吃 |
| 0:33 | I wanted joy. | 我想要快乐。 |
| 0:34 | I wanted to do something that would last, something that mattered. | 我想做一些能持久的事 很重要的事 |
展开字幕全文（278 条）
| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | I used to be successful, according to society. | 我曾经是成功的,根据社会。 |
| 2 | I had left a well-paid job in marketing to become an entrepreneur. | 我为了成为企业家 离开了一份高薪的营销工作 |
| 3 | And very soon I could buy anything I wanted. | 很快我就能买到我想要的东西 |
| 4 | Not anything in the world, anything I wanted, which was a lot still. | 世界上什么都没有,我想要的, 还有很多。 |
| 5 | My impulse purchases included a brand new car and a house. | 我的冲动购买包括一辆全新的汽车和一栋房子. |
| 6 | My entire life was just about fun, and I can say I created some amazing memories. | 我的整个人生都是有趣的, 我可以说,我创造了一些惊人的回忆。 |
| 7 | But it was just fun. | 但它只是乐趣。 |
| 8 | I wanted more. | 我还想吃 |
| 9 | I wanted joy. | 我想要快乐。 |
| 10 | I wanted to do something that would last, something that mattered. | 我想做一些能持久的事 很重要的事 |
| 11 | So I started working with students, and this was fantastic. | 所以我开始和学生一起工作,这太棒了。 |
| 12 | For the first time in my life, people would come up to me and say, | 我这辈子第一次有人来找我说 |
| 13 | thank you, you've changed my life. | 谢谢你,你改变了我的生活。 |
| 14 | And that was so valuable to me that I would do it for just a little bit of money, | 那对我很重要,我为了一点钱就这么做, |
| 15 | if they wouldn't pay me enough. | 如果他们不付我足够的钱。 |
| 16 | I would even do it for free. | 我甚至会免费做 |
| 17 | A lot. | 经常 |
| 18 | Until I reached a point where even a small financial setback | 直到我到了一个点 甚至一个小小的财政挫折 |
| 19 | could ruin me as an entrepreneur. | 可能毁了我作为一个企业家。 |
| 20 | And of course it did. | 当然了 |
| 21 | In the middle of summer of 2016, when all schools are closed | 2016年夏中,所有学校关闭 |
| 22 | and I wouldn't have any income for another two months or so, | 再过两个月我就没有收入了 |
| 23 | I received five envelopes at the same time from the tax services, | 我同时从税务部门收到五个信封 |
| 24 | demanding that I pay for my glory days immediately. | 要求我立即为我的荣耀付出代价 |
| 25 | This cost me everything I had. | 这花了我的一切。 |
| 26 | All my savings, all the money that I had, and all I had left in an instant | 我所有的积蓄,我所有的钱, 我留下的一切瞬间 |
| 27 | was just a few coins that I found between the cushions of the sofa | 只是我发现的几块硬币 在沙发的垫子之间 |
| 28 | and in my coat pockets and in my car, and three euros and 97 cents in the bank. | 在我的外套口袋里 在我的车里 还有银行里的三欧元和97美分 |
| 29 | Two days later, my daughter would come back from staying with her father. | 两天后,我女儿会回来陪她的父亲 |
| 30 | She would come back on her birthday, and I couldn't afford to bake her a cake. | 她生日时会回来 我负担不起给她烤蛋糕 |
| 31 | What I wanted to do was just to crawl into bed and cry, | 我想做的只是爬进床上哭 |
| 32 | which I don't like, and just hide under the covers until it would all just go away. | 藏在盖子底下 直到一切都消失 |
| 33 | But I couldn't. | 但我无法。 |
| 34 | I didn't have time because I only had 48 hours | 我没有时间 因为我只有48小时 |
| 35 | to prove to myself that I was better than this. | 来证明我比这强 |
| 36 | That I was a good mother. | 我是个好母亲 |
| 37 | So what I did was the most terrifying and the most embarrassing thing | 我所做的是最可怕 最尴尬的事 |
| 38 | I've ever done in my life. | 我这辈子做过很多事 |
| 39 | I decided to expose myself publicly as a failure, | 我决定公开揭露自己的失败 |
| 40 | and I thought that the best place to start would be rock bottom. | 我想,最好的起点是 摇滚底层。 |
| 41 | So I gave away my last bit of money, and then I had absolutely nothing, | 于是我把最后一点钱都给了 我一无所有 |
| 42 | and then the only way was up. | 然后唯一的办法就是起来。 |
| 43 | I called it The Money Project. | 我称之为钱计划。 |
| 44 | I published a video on Facebook stating that I had failed gloriously | 我在脸书上发表了一段视频 说我失败了 |
| 45 | as an entrepreneur, that I was totally broke, | 作为一个企业家, 我彻底破产, |
| 46 | and that I was determined to change my situation, | 我决心改变我的处境 |
| 47 | to learn anything I could about entrepreneurship and business and money | 学习我所能学到的一切 关于创业、商业和金钱 |
| 48 | and enhance my financial intelligence, | 并增强我的金融情报 |
| 49 | and that I was determined to become free of financial stress within six months, | 我决心在六个月内摆脱财政压力 |
| 50 | and to go from nothing to a fortune, | 为了从无到有, |
| 51 | or at least discover what the secret to doing that was, | 或至少发现是什么秘密 这样做, |
| 52 | and to become a successful entrepreneur. | 成为成功的企业家 |
| 53 | And I would write a book about it, | 我会写一本关于它的书, |
| 54 | and this book I would sell right away for ten euros a copy, | 这本书我会马上卖10欧元一册, |
| 55 | and that day I didn't dare look at the responses on my timeline | 那天我不敢看时间轴上的回复 |
| 56 | because this was quite scary, | 因为这是相当可怕的, |
| 57 | but that first day I sold 64 books, | 但第一天我卖了64本书 |
| 58 | and I had a fortune. | 我有一个财富。 |
| 59 | Until this day I've never felt more rich in my entire life, | 直到今天 我这辈子从未觉得更有钱过 |
| 60 | because this meant I could now bake a birthday cake, | 因为这意味着我现在可以烤一个生日蛋糕了 |
| 61 | and she could have a proper birthday, which she did. | 她可以有一个合适的生日,她做到了。 |
| 62 | And then I read, I vlogged, I blogged, I interviewed, | 我读了,我写了,我写了博客,接受采访, |
| 63 | I learned anything I could, and I succeeded. | 我学到了一切,我成功了。 |
| 64 | Within six months I was free of financial stress, | 六个月内,我没有财政压力 |
| 65 | and I could say that I was a successful entrepreneur. | 我可以说我是一个成功的企业家。 |
| 66 | And all this time I had been thinking that this Money Project, | 我一直想这个钱计划 |
| 67 | what I called it, was about money, of course, and business, | 我称之为钱 当然还有生意 |
| 68 | but deep down it was about something completely different. | 但是在内心深处 事情完全不同 |
| 69 | It was about value and about life, | 这是关于价值和生命, |
| 70 | and I will share with you what I learned about life. | 我会和你们分享我学到的生活 |
| 71 | Lesson number one, money is important. | 第一课 钱很重要 |
| 72 | Quite a cliché. | 陈词滥调. |
| 73 | But I was raised in a way to believe that money is not important, | 但我养大是为了相信钱不重要 |
| 74 | and I inherited this conviction somehow. | 我继承了这个信念 |
| 75 | I can't blame anyone in particular, | 我不能怪任何人特别, |
| 76 | but somehow it planted a conviction in my head | 但不知怎的,它使我心中充满了信念 |
| 77 | that people with money are not nice people. | 有钱的人不是好人 |
| 78 | So when I had money, I would spend it as soon as I could. | 所以当我有钱的时候 我会尽快花掉 |
| 79 | And then when I found my purpose working with students, | 然后当我发现我的目的 在学生工作, |
| 80 | I just didn't ask for it. | 我只是没有要求 |
| 81 | I didn't care, I just wanted to change the world, | 我不在乎 我只是想改变世界 |
| 82 | which I had no impact on whatsoever with three euros and 97 cents. | 3欧元和97美分 我没有任何影响 |
| 83 | And I also learned that money doesn't make you a bad person, | 我也知道钱不会让你变成坏人 |
| 84 | it just makes you more of who you are. | 它只是让你更多 你是谁。 |
| 85 | So if you're a jerk with a lot of money, | 如果你是个有钱的混蛋 |
| 86 | you're probably a jerk when you're broke as well. | 你可能是一个混蛋 当你破产了。 |
| 87 | And if I would have more money, I would simply give more. | 如果我有更多的钱,我只会给更多。 |
| 88 | But if I have to worry about money every day, all day, | 但如果我每天都要担心钱的事 |
| 89 | I can't even take care of myself, and I have nothing to give. | 我甚至不能照顾自己, 我没有什么可以给。 |
| 90 | Lesson number two, money equals time. | 第二课 钱等于时间 |
| 91 | As soon as we start working, we start exchanging time for money, | 一旦我们开始工作, 我们开始交换时间的钱, |
| 92 | which is a problem because we can always make more money, | 这是一个问题,因为我们总是可以赚更多的钱, |
| 93 | but we can never make more time. | 但我们再也没有时间了 |
| 94 | And I started to exchange my time for far too little money. | 我开始用我的时间交换太少的钱 |
| 95 | I could barely survive. | 我几乎无法生存。 |
| 96 | And at the end of the month, there was nothing ever left | 月末时 什么都没有了 |
| 97 | to invest in my future. | 投资我的未来。 |
| 98 | So I would have to spend all my time to make just a little bit of money, | 所以我得花所有时间赚点钱 |
| 99 | and I would probably have to do that for the rest of my life | 我可能不得不这样做 我的余生 |
| 100 | because there was nothing left. | 因为那里什么都没有 |
| 101 | And for the rest of my life, I would have given away the one thing | 而我的余生, 我会放弃一件事 |
| 102 | that means the very most to me, which is time, | 这对我来说意味着最重要的, 是时候了, |
| 103 | time with my loved ones and time for myself. | 时间与我的爱人 和时间我自己。 |
| 104 | So I decided that it was time that I value my time. | 所以我决定,时间是 我珍惜我的时间。 |
| 105 | I would spend it more consciously, and when it comes to work, | 我会更自觉地花掉 当它涉及到工作时 |
| 106 | I would have to exchange it for more money | 我不得不用它换更多的钱 |
| 107 | so I could spend less time working and more time actually living. | 所以我可以花更多的时间工作 更多的时间实际生活。 |
| 108 | Lesson number three, money equals value. | 第三课,钱等于值. |
| 109 | It took me two years to discover that the money project is not about money. | 我花了两年时间才发现 这笔钱不是钱的事 |
| 110 | It's about value. | 是为值. |
| 111 | And I've always seen myself as a confident person, | 我一直认为自己是个自信的人 |
| 112 | but I didn't value myself because the way you treat yourself | 但我不重视自己 因为你对待自己的方式 |
| 113 | is a reflection of the way you see yourself, | 这反映了你对自己的看法, |
| 114 | and I've been treating myself like crap, | 我一直把自己当垃圾 |
| 115 | which I found a terrible example to set for my daughter. | 我为我女儿树立了一个可怕的榜样。 |
| 116 | So changing my rates was not enough. | 所以,改变我的费率是不够的。 |
| 117 | I had to change the way I see myself. | 我必须改变自己的看法 |
| 118 | I had to start seeing myself as a person of value, | 我不得不开始将自己视为一个有价值的人, |
| 119 | and that was not easily done. | 这并不容易完成。 |
| 120 | It's a process, and I'm still working on it, | 这是一个过程, 我还在努力, |
| 121 | so I still, on a regular basis, I still have to remind myself, | 所以我还是定期提醒自己 |
| 122 | it's okay, you're worth every penny. | 没关系,你每分钱都值 |
| 123 | And even now, I find it hard to say this out loud. | 即使现在 我很难大声说出来 |
| 124 | I get a bit embarrassed, so I'm still learning. | 我有点尴尬,所以我还在学习。 |
| 125 | I have to keep practicing. | 我得继续练习 |
| 126 | Lesson number four. | 第四课. |
| 127 | What people say doesn't matter. | 人之所言无碍. |
| 128 | You're a cheap whore. | 你是个贱货 |
| 129 | You're a fraud. | 你是个骗子 |
| 130 | How can you do this to your child? | 你怎么能这样对你的孩子? |
| 131 | Just a few of the comments that I received. | 只是我收到的一些评论。 |
| 132 | The hateful ones were on my timeline on Facebook, | 讨厌的人在我的时间线上 在Facebook上, |
| 133 | but the quiet ones, they hit safely in my inbox, | 但安静的, 他们安全地击中了我的收件箱, |
| 134 | confessing only to me that they had screwed up too, | 只向我承认他们也搞砸了 |
| 135 | that they too had found their purpose | 他们也发现自己的宗旨, |
| 136 | and wanted to change the world and worked really hard, | 并想改变世界 努力工作, |
| 137 | 80 hours a week, just like me, and barely surviving, | 每周80小时,就像我一样,几乎没活下来 |
| 138 | but no one could know, so they didn't go public | 但没人知道,所以他们没有公开 |
| 139 | because they were too ashamed to be a failure. | 因为他们太羞愧了,不能成为失败者。 |
| 140 | But they were very glad that I went public | 但是他们很高兴我公开了 |
| 141 | and exposed myself as a failure | 暴露自己是个失败者 |
| 142 | because now they could learn from my mistakes. | 因为他们现在可以从我的错误中吸取教训。 |
| 143 | And I was thankful that I could help them, | 我很感激我能帮助他们, |
| 144 | and I was also thankful for the haters, | 我也感谢那些仇恨者, |
| 145 | whether it was the strangers on my timeline | 是否是我时间线上的陌生人 |
| 146 | or even some of my own friends | 甚至我的一些亲友 |
| 147 | talking badly about me behind my back | 背着我说不好 |
| 148 | because they taught me that nothing is ever personal, | 因为他们教会我 没有什么是私人的, |
| 149 | not really. | 没有 |
| 150 | What people say about you and what people think about you, | 人们对你的看法和对你的看法 |
| 151 | it comes from their view of the world. | 它来自他们的世界观。 |
| 152 | It's from their opinions and their values | 这是他们的观点和价值观 |
| 153 | and their experiences, and maybe they're having a bad day | 和他们的经验, 也许他们有一个糟糕的一天 |
| 154 | or they're very insecure or unhappy. | 或者他们非常不安全或不快乐 |
| 155 | It has nothing to do with you. | 这和你无关 |
| 156 | And the way other people treat you | 还有别人对待你的方式 |
| 157 | is not a reflection of who you are, | 不是反映你是谁, |
| 158 | it's a reflection of who they are. | 这是他们是谁的反映。 |
| 159 | So now when someone says something hurtful to me, | 所以现在有人对我说些伤人的话 |
| 160 | it still hurts, but not as much | 仍然很痛,但没这么痛 |
| 161 | because I know it probably has nothing to do with me. | 因为我知道这可能跟我无关 |
| 162 | That's number five. | 即为第五. |
| 163 | What people say matters. | 众生所说法. |
| 164 | What people say matters most when people is you | 当人是你的时候 别人说什么才是最重要的 |
| 165 | because the person with the most opinions about you, | 因为对你最有意见的人 |
| 166 | the person who talks to you the most, is you. | 最能跟你说话的人是你 |
| 167 | And you tend to believe yourself, right? | 你总是相信自己 对吧? |
| 168 | So be kind. | 所以请慈悲. |
| 169 | A few days into the project I asked my daughter, | 几天后,我问我女儿 |
| 170 | how do our money worries make you feel? | 我们的钱让你感觉如何? |
| 171 | And she said, we don't have money worries, | 她说,我们不担心钱 |
| 172 | we just have less money than most people. | 我们的钱比大多数人都少 |
| 173 | And then I realized that until that moment | 然后我意识到,直到那一刻 |
| 174 | I had been saying to myself on a regular basis, | 我经常对自己说 |
| 175 | you're such a failure. | 你真是个失败者 |
| 176 | And then I realized, because of my daughter, | 后来我意识到 因为我女儿 |
| 177 | that that kind of thinking was not going to do my circumstances any good. | 那种想法对我的情况没有任何好处。 |
| 178 | And that's what they are, circumstances. | 情况就是这样 |
| 179 | They don't define you. | 他们没有定义你。 |
| 180 | Your response to them does. | 你对他们的反应确实如此。 |
| 181 | And my response was to be kind to myself, | 我的反应是对我好 |
| 182 | to say to myself, you'll be okay. | 对我说,你会没事的。 |
| 183 | You can do this. | 你可以做到这一点。 |
| 184 | And then whatever it took, I would do it. | 之后无论付出什么代价 我都会这么做 |
| 185 | That's the number six. | 即第六义. |
| 186 | It's really simple. | 很简单 |
| 187 | I learned so much about business and entrepreneurship | 我学到了很多关于商业和创业的知识 |
| 188 | and compounding, investing, entrepreneurship, | 以及复合、投资、创业、 |
| 189 | about scalability, hour rates, sales, | 关于可伸缩性,小时率,销售, |
| 190 | low-hanging fruit, runway, value propositions. | 低挂水果 跑道 价值建议 |
| 191 | But to be honest, everything I learned | 但说实话,我学到的一切 |
| 192 | I could have learned from my grandmother. | 我本可以从祖母那里学的 |
| 193 | Because the essence is this. | 因为本质就是这个。 |
| 194 | Spend less, earn more, invest wisely, | 少花钱多赚钱 明智投资 |
| 195 | and most of all, value yourself. | 最重要的是,重视你自己。 |
| 196 | But simple is not always easy. | 但简单并不总是容易的。 |
| 197 | Let me ask you a question. | 让我问你一个问题。 |
| 198 | Who makes more money today than you did at your very first job? | 今天谁比你第一次工作赚的钱还多? |
| 199 | That's quite a lot of people. | 相当多人 |
| 200 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 201 | Be ready. | 准备好 |
| 202 | There's another question. | 还有个问题 |
| 203 | Be honest. | 诚实点 |
| 204 | I promise I won't tell anyone, but be honest. | 我保证不会告诉任何人,但说实话。 |
| 205 | Who still, at the end of the month, sometimes is out of money? | 还有谁,在月底,有时是没钱? |
| 206 | Or a lot of times, maybe. | 也可能是很多时候 |
| 207 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 208 | That's quite a lot, huh? | 够多的吧? |
| 209 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 210 | You're not alone. | 你不是一个人。 |
| 211 | And this is why. | 这就是为什么。 |
| 212 | It's called Parkinson's Law. | 名为帕金森定律. |
| 213 | Your expenses will always rise to match your income. | 您的开销将永远与收入相匹配。 |
| 214 | This is why most people retire poor | 这就是为什么大多数人 退休穷人 |
| 215 | and why lottery winners tend to end up with less money | 和为什么彩票赢家往往以更少的钱结束 |
| 216 | a few years after they won than they had before. | 在他们获胜之后的几年里 |
| 217 | And about a year after I started the money project, | 在我开始钱项目一年后 |
| 218 | I was earning a lot of money. | 我赚了很多钱。 |
| 219 | I was doing well, but still I didn't really have anything left | 我做得很好,但我还是没有 真正留下任何东西 |
| 220 | at the end of the month. | 月终时。 |
| 221 | And I realized that when it comes to spending, | 我意识到,当涉及到支出, |
| 222 | I'm a 12-year-old. | 我十二岁了 |
| 223 | So I should treat myself accordingly. | 所以我应该这样对待自己 |
| 224 | So now I hardly have any access to my money. | 所以现在我几乎拿不到钱了 |
| 225 | As soon as money comes in, | 钱一进来 |
| 226 | most of it goes straight to accounts that I cannot touch, | 大部分都直接转到我无法触及的账户上 |
| 227 | and I will probably have to do this for the rest of my life, | 我可能不得不这样做 我的余生, |
| 228 | and I don't care. | 我无所谓 |
| 229 | Because if there's one thing that I learned from this project, | 因为如果我从这个项目学到一件事 |
| 230 | it's I can't afford to be poor. | 我无法承受贫穷 |
| 231 | Lesson number eight. | 第八课. |
| 232 | Being broke sucks. | 破产很糟 |
| 233 | It does. | 没错 |
| 234 | Two years ago, my entire life was urgent. | 两年前,我整个人生都很紧迫 |
| 235 | Everything was urgent. | 一切都很紧急 |
| 236 | I had to be a full-time problem solver, | 我不得不是一个全职的问题解决者, |
| 237 | which is both exhausting and impossible. | 这既累人又不可能 |
| 238 | It捉22. | |
| 239 | Because scarcity captures the mind. | 因为缺乏能捕捉到心灵 |
| 240 | Research shows that when all you can think about, | 研究表明,当你能想到的一切, |
| 241 | and that was the case for me, | 对我来说就是这样 |
| 242 | when all you can think about is how do I get food on the table tonight? | 你唯一能想到的就是 我今晚怎么把食物放在桌上? |
| 243 | How do I get money today? | 我今如何得钱. |
| 244 | That takes up all of your thinking space. | 这占用了你所有的思考空间。 |
| 245 | There's no room left to solve anything for tomorrow or next week | 明天和下周都无处可查 |
| 246 | or to make a change next year. | 或者明年做点改变 |
| 247 | You're stuck in the situation. | 你被困在这种情况下 |
| 248 | And my situation was that my brain felt like a ticking time bomb. | 我的情况是,我的大脑 感觉就像一颗定时炸弹。 |
| 249 | I can still today hear the sound of the bills dropping on my doormat, | 今天我仍然能听到 帐单掉在我的门垫上的声音, |
| 250 | and it still freaks me out. | 还让我害怕 |
| 251 | And day and night, I felt this blind panic. | 日复一日,我感到盲目的恐慌 |
| 252 | I couldn't breathe. | 我无法呼吸。 |
| 253 | There was no way out. | 没有出路。 |
| 254 | I was suffocating. | 我闷死了 |
| 255 | So the first thing and the only thing that I could do was breathe. | 所以第一件事,我唯一能做的就是呼吸。 |
| 256 | I freed my mind, and I made a decision | 我解放了头脑,我做了一个决定 |
| 257 | that I was going to be successful in the direction of my purpose. | 我会成功实现我的目标 |
| 258 | I found my focus. | 我发现我的焦点。 |
| 259 | I stopped sabotaging myself. | 我不再破坏自己。 |
| 260 | And I became successful. | 我获得了成功。 |
| 261 | Lesson nine, stay broke. | 第九课,继续破产。 |
| 262 | Epictetus said a very long time ago, | 埃皮卡特斯很久以前说过 |
| 263 | wealth consists not in having great possessions, | 财富不在于有大的财产, |
| 264 | but in having few wants. | 但因为没有太多的希望 |
| 265 | The paradox is that the more money you have, | 矛盾的是 你的钱越多 |
| 266 | the more silence and no Wi-Fi become a luxury. | 沉默和无线网络成为奢侈品 |
| 267 | It's ridiculous how much money rich people, money-wise rich people, | 有钱人,有钱人, |
| 268 | spend on going somewhere quiet. | 花去一个安静的地方。 |
| 269 | When I had nothing, all I could afford was to go somewhere quiet, | 当我一无所有时 我只能去一个安静的地方 |
| 270 | to just sit still or read a book or go outside or go for a run, | 静静地坐着或看书 或出去或跑步, |
| 271 | play with my child. | 和我的孩子玩游戏 |
| 272 | And in those moments, I found my most profound moments of happiness. | 在那些时刻,我找到了我最深的幸福时刻。 |
| 273 | I learned that my daughter doesn't need any money | 我得知我女儿不需要钱 |
| 274 | or expensive gifts or fancy trips. | 或昂贵的礼物或豪华旅行。 |
| 275 | All she wants, really, is a few moments a day of my undivided attention. | 她想要的,真的,是 几天的时间,我无所不在的关注。 |
| 276 | And all I really want is to be present in my own life. | 我真正想要的就是在自己的生活中出现 |
| 277 | So now that I have money, I choose to live as if I'm broke. | 所以现在我有钱了,我选择活得像没钱一样 |
| 278 | And without the worries, I can finally say money is not important. | 而且不用担心,我终于可以说钱不重要。 |
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 0:01 | I used to be successful, according to society. | 我曾经是成功的,根据社会。 |
| 0:05 | I had left a well-paid job in marketing to become an entrepreneur, | 我离开一份高薪的营销工作 成为一名企业家, |
| 0:10 | and very soon I could buy anything I wanted. | 很快我就能买到我想要的东西 |
| 0:13 | Not anything in the world, anything I wanted, which was a lot still. | 世界上什么都没有,我想要的, 还有很多。 |
| 0:17 | My impulse purchases included a brand new car and a house. | 我的冲动购买包括一辆全新的汽车和一栋房子. |
| 0:23 | My entire life was just about fun, and I can say I created some amazing memories, | 我整个人生都很好玩 我可以说我创造了一些惊人的回忆 |
| 0:30 | but it was just fun. | 但它只是乐趣。 |
| 0:31 | I wanted more. | 我还想吃 |
| 0:33 | I wanted joy. | 我想要快乐。 |
| 0:34 | I wanted to do something that would last, something that mattered. | 我想做一些能持久的事 很重要的事 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 1 | I used to be successful, according to society. | 我曾经是成功的,根据社会。 |
| 2 | I had left a well-paid job in marketing to become an entrepreneur, | 我离开一份高薪的营销工作 成为一名企业家, |
| 3 | and very soon I could buy anything I wanted. | 很快我就能买到我想要的东西 |
| 4 | Not anything in the world, anything I wanted, which was a lot still. | 世界上什么都没有,我想要的, 还有很多。 |
| 5 | My impulse purchases included a brand new car and a house. | 我的冲动购买包括一辆全新的汽车和一栋房子. |
| 6 | My entire life was just about fun, and I can say I created some amazing memories, | 我整个人生都很好玩 我可以说我创造了一些惊人的回忆 |
| 7 | but it was just fun. | 但它只是乐趣。 |
| 8 | I wanted more. | 我还想吃 |
| 9 | I wanted joy. | 我想要快乐。 |
| 10 | I wanted to do something that would last, something that mattered. | 我想做一些能持久的事 很重要的事 |
| 11 | So I started working with students, and this was fantastic. | 所以我开始和学生一起工作,这太棒了。 |
| 12 | For the first time in my life, people would come up to me and say, | 我这辈子第一次有人来找我说 |
| 13 | thank you, you've changed my life. | 谢谢你,你改变了我的生活。 |
| 14 | And that was so valuable to me that I would do it for just a little bit of money, | 那对我很重要,我为了一点钱就这么做, |
| 15 | if they wouldn't pay me enough. | 如果他们不付我足够的钱。 |
| 16 | I would even do it for free, a lot. | 我甚至会免费做,很多。 |
| 17 | Until I reached a point where even a small financial setback could ruin me as an entrepreneur. | 直到我到了一个点 即使是小的金融挫折 也可能毁了我作为一个企业家。 |
| 18 | And of course it did. | 当然了 |
| 19 | In the middle of summer of 2016, when all schools are closed | 2016年夏中,所有学校关闭 |
| 20 | and I wouldn't have any income for another two months or so, | 再过两个月我就没有收入了 |
| 21 | I received five envelopes at the same time from the tax services, | 我同时从税务部门收到五个信封 |
| 22 | demanding that I pay for my glory days immediately. | 要求我立即为我的荣耀付出代价 |
| 23 | This cost me everything I had, all my savings, all the money that I had, | 这花了我所有的一切, 我所有的储蓄, 我所有的金钱, |
| 24 | and all I had left in an instant was just a few coins that I found between the cushions of the sofa | 我在沙发上找到的只是几块硬币 |
| 25 | and in my coat pockets and in my car, and three euros and 97 cents in the bank. | 在我的外套口袋里 在我的车里 还有银行里的三欧元和97美分 |
| 26 | Two days later, my daughter would come back from staying with her father. | 两天后,我女儿会回来陪她的父亲 |
| 27 | She would come back on her birthday, and I couldn't afford to bake her a cake. | 她生日时会回来 我负担不起给她烤蛋糕 |
| 28 | What I wanted to do was just to crawl into bed and cry, which I don't like, | 我想做的只是爬到床上哭, 我不喜欢, |
| 29 | and just hide under the covers until it would all just go away. | 躲在盖子下 直到一切都消失 |
| 30 | But I couldn't. | 但我无法。 |
| 31 | I didn't have time because I only had 48 hours to prove to myself | 我没时间,因为我只有48小时来证明自己 |
| 32 | that I was better than this, that I was a good mother. | 我比这还好 我是个好母亲 |
| 33 | So what I did was the most terrifying and the most embarrassing thing I've ever done in my life. | 所以,我所做的是我这辈子做过的最可怕和最尴尬的事情。 |
| 34 | I decided to expose myself publicly as a failure, | 我决定公开揭露自己的失败 |
| 35 | and I thought that the best place to start would be rock bottom. | 我想,最好的起点是 摇滚底层。 |
| 36 | So I gave away my last bit of money, and then I had absolutely nothing, | 于是我把最后一点钱都给了 我一无所有 |
| 37 | and then the only way was up. | 然后唯一的办法就是起来。 |
| 38 | I called it The Money Project. | 我称之为钱计划。 |
| 39 | I published a video on Facebook stating that I had failed gloriously as an entrepreneur, | 我在脸书上发表了一段视频 说我作为企业家失败了 |
| 40 | that I was totally broke, and that I was determined to change my situation, | 我完全破产了, 我决心改变我的处境, |
| 41 | to learn anything I could about entrepreneurship and business and money | 学习我所能学到的一切 关于创业、商业和金钱 |
| 42 | and enhance my financial intelligence, | 并增强我的金融情报 |
| 43 | and that I was determined to become free of financial stress within six months | 我决心在六个月内摆脱财政压力 |
| 44 | and to go from nothing to a fortune or at least discover what the secret to doing that was | 和去从无到有财富 或者至少发现 秘密是什么做 |
| 45 | and to become a successful entrepreneur. | 成为成功的企业家 |
| 46 | And I would write a book about it, and this book I would sell right away for 10 euros a copy. | 我会写一本关于这本书的书, 这本书我会马上卖10欧元一本。 |
| 47 | And that day I didn't dare look at the responses on my timeline because this was quite scary. | 那天我不敢看时间表上的反应 因为这很可怕 |
| 48 | But that first day I sold 64 books, and I had a fortune. | 但第一天我卖了64本书,我有一笔财富。 |
| 49 | Until this day I've never felt more rich in my entire life | 直到今天 我这辈子从未觉得更有钱过 |
| 50 | because this meant I could now bake a birthday cake, | 因为这意味着我现在可以烤一个生日蛋糕了 |
| 51 | and she could have a proper birthday, which she did. | 她可以有一个合适的生日,她做到了。 |
| 52 | And then I read, I vlogged, I vlogged, I interviewed, I learned anything I could, and I succeeded. | 然后我读了,我写了,我写了,我采访了, 我学到了什么,我成功了。 |
| 53 | Within six months I was free of financial stress, and I could say that I was a successful entrepreneur. | 六个月内,我没有财政压力,我可以说我是一个成功的企业家。 |
| 54 | And all this time I had been thinking that this money project, what I called it, | 我一直在想这个钱项目,我称之为它, |
| 55 | was about money, of course, and business. | 当然是钱和生意 |
| 56 | But deep down it was about something completely different. | 但是在内心深处, 事情完全不同。 |
| 57 | It was about value and about life. | 这是关于价值和生命。 |
| 58 | And I will share with you what I learned about life. | 我会跟你分享我学到的生活 |
| 59 | Lesson number one. | 第一课 |
| 60 | Money is important. | 钱很重要 |
| 61 | Quite a cliché. | 陈词滥调. |
| 62 | But I was raised in a way to believe that money is not important. | 但我的成长方式是相信钱不重要 |
| 63 | And I inherited this conviction somehow, I can't blame anyone in particular, | 我继承了这个信念 我不能怪任何人 |
| 64 | but somehow it planted a conviction in my head that people with money are not nice people. | 但不知何故,它使我深信 有钱的人不是好人 |
| 65 | So when I had money, I would spend it as soon as I could. | 所以当我有钱的时候 我会尽快花掉 |
| 66 | And then when I found my purpose, working with students, I just didn't ask for it. | 后来我找到了我的目的, 和学生一起工作, 我只是没有要求它。 |
| 67 | I didn't care. | 我不关心。 |
| 68 | I just wanted to change the world, | 我只是想改变世界 |
| 69 | which I had no impact on whatsoever with three euros and 97 cents. | 3欧元和97美分 我没有任何影响 |
| 70 | And I also learned that money doesn't make you a bad person. | 我还知道钱不会让你变成坏人 |
| 71 | It just makes you more of who you are. | 它只是让你更多 你是谁。 |
| 72 | So if you're a jerk with a lot of money, you're probably a jerk when you're broke as well. | 如果你是个有钱的混蛋 你可能也是个破产的混蛋 |
| 73 | And if I would have more money, I would simply give more. | 如果我有更多的钱,我只会给更多。 |
| 74 | But if I have to worry about money every day, all day, I can't even take care of myself. | 但是,如果我每天要担心钱,一整天,我甚至不能照顾自己. |
| 75 | And I have nothing to give. | 我没什么好给的 |
| 76 | Lesson number two. | 第二课. |
| 77 | Money equals time. | 钱等于时间。 |
| 78 | As soon as we start working, we start exchanging time for money, | 一旦我们开始工作, 我们开始交换时间的钱, |
| 79 | which is a problem because we can always make more money, but we can never make more time. | 这是一个问题,因为我们总是可以赚更多的钱, 但我们永远不能得到更多的时间。 |
| 80 | And I started to exchange my time for far too little money. | 我开始用我的时间交换太少的钱 |
| 81 | I could barely survive. | 我几乎无法生存。 |
| 82 | And at the end of the month, there was nothing ever left to invest in my future. | 而到了月底,我的未来再也没有投资了. |
| 83 | So I would have to spend all my time to make just a little bit of money. | 所以我得花所有时间赚点钱 |
| 84 | And I would probably have to do that for the rest of my life because there was nothing left. | 我可能不得不做我的余生 因为那里什么都没有了。 |
| 85 | And for the rest of my life, I would have given away the one thing that means the very most to me, | 而在我的余生, 我本会放弃一件事 对我意义最大的, |
| 86 | which is time, time with my loved ones and time for myself. | 时间,时间 与我的爱人 和时间我自己。 |
| 87 | So I decided that it was time that I value my time. | 所以我决定,时间是 我珍惜我的时间。 |
| 88 | I would spend it more consciously. | 我会更自觉地花掉 |
| 89 | And when it comes to work, I would have to exchange it for more money | 说到工作,我就得换钱 |
| 90 | so I could spend less time working and more time actually living. | 所以我可以花更多的时间工作 更多的时间实际生活。 |
| 91 | Lesson number three, money equals value. | 第三课,钱等于值. |
| 92 | It took me two years to discover that the money project is not about money. | 我花了两年时间才发现 这笔钱不是钱的事 |
| 93 | It's about value. | 是为值. |
| 94 | And I've always seen myself as a confident person, but I didn't value myself | 我总是将自己视为自信的人 但我并不重视自己 |
| 95 | because the way you treat yourself is a reflection of the way you see yourself. | 因为你对待自己的方式 反映了你对自己的看法 |
| 96 | And I've been treating myself like crap, which I found a terrible example to set for my daughter. | 我把自己当垃圾一样对待 我为我女儿树立了一个可怕的榜样 |
| 97 | So changing my rates was not enough. | 所以,改变我的费率是不够的。 |
| 98 | I had to change the way I see myself. | 我必须改变自己的看法 |
| 99 | I had to start seeing myself as a person of value. | 我不得不开始将自己视为一个有价值的人。 |
| 100 | And that was not easily done. | 这不容易完成。 |
| 101 | It's a process, and I'm still working on it. | 这是一个过程,我仍在努力。 |
| 102 | So I still, on a regular basis, I still have to remind myself, | 所以我还是经常提醒自己 |
| 103 | it's okay, you're worth every penny. | 没关系,你每分钱都值 |
| 104 | And even now, I find it hard to say this out loud. | 即使现在 我很难大声说出来 |
| 105 | I get a bit embarrassed, so I'm still learning. | 我有点尴尬,所以我还在学习。 |
| 106 | I have to keep practicing. | 我得继续练习 |
| 107 | Lesson number four, what people say doesn't matter. | 第四课,人们说的不重要 |
| 108 | You're a cheap whore. | 你是个贱货 |
| 109 | You're a fraud. | 你是个骗子 |
| 110 | How can you do this to your child? | 你怎么能这样对你的孩子? |
| 111 | Just a few of the comments that I received. | 只是我收到的一些评论。 |
| 112 | The hateful ones were on my timeline on Facebook, but the quiet ones, they hit safely in my inbox, | 讨厌的人在我的时间线上 在Facebook上, 但安静的, 他们安全地击中了我的收件箱, |
| 113 | confessing only to me that they had screwed up too, that they too had found their purpose | 只向我承认他们也搞砸了 他们也找到了他们的目的 |
| 114 | and wanted to change the world and worked really hard, 80 hours a week, just like me, and barely surviving. | 并想改变世界 努力工作, 每周80小时,就像我一样, 勉强生存。 |
| 115 | But no one could know, so they didn't go public, because they were too ashamed to be a failure. | 但无人能知,所以没有公开,因为他们太惭愧,不能成为失败者. |
| 116 | But they were very glad that I went public and exposed myself as a failure, | 但是他们很高兴我公开了自己是个失败者 |
| 117 | because now they could learn from my mistakes. | 因为他们现在可以从我的错误中吸取教训。 |
| 118 | And I was thankful that I could help them. | 我很感激我能帮助他们 |
| 119 | And I was also thankful for the haters, whether it was the strangers on my timeline, | 我也感谢那些仇恨者 不管是我时间线上的陌生人 |
| 120 | or even some of my own friends talking badly about me behind my back, | 甚至我的一些朋友 背着我说起我 |
| 121 | because they taught me that nothing is ever personal, not really. | 因为他们教我,没有什么 永远不是个人,不是真的。 |
| 122 | What people say about you and what people think about you, it comes from their view of the world. | 人们对你所说的话,以及人们对你的看法,都来自他们对世界的看法. |
| 123 | It's from their opinions and their values and their experiences, | 这是来自他们的观点,他们的价值观 和他们的体验, |
| 124 | and maybe they're having a bad day or they're very insecure or unhappy. | 也许他们今天过得很糟 或者很不安全或者很不高兴 |
| 125 | It has nothing to do with you. | 这和你无关 |
| 126 | And the way other people treat you is not a reflection of who you are, it's a reflection of who they are. | 而其他人对待你的方式并不是反映你是谁,而是反映他们是谁. |
| 127 | So now when someone says something hurtful to me, it still hurts, but not as much, | 所以现在有人对我说伤害的话 仍然很痛 但没那么痛 |
| 128 | because I know it probably has nothing to do with me. | 因为我知道这可能跟我无关 |
| 129 | Lesson number five. | 第五课. |
| 130 | What people say matters. | 众生所说法. |
| 131 | What people say matters most when people is you. | 当人是你时人们说的才是最重要的 |
| 132 | Because the person with the most opinions about you, the person who talks to you the most, is you. | 因为对于你最有意见的人 最能跟你说话的人就是你 |
| 133 | And you tend to believe yourself, right? | 你总是相信自己 对吧? |
| 134 | So be kind. | 所以请慈悲. |
| 135 | A few days into the project I asked my daughter, how do our money worries make you feel? | 几天后,我问我女儿 我们的钱让你觉得怎么样? |
| 136 | And she said, we don't have money worries, we just have less money than most people. | 她说,我们没有钱的担心, 我们的钱比大多数人少。 |
| 137 | And then I realized that until that moment I had been saying to myself on a regular basis, you're such a failure. | 然后我意识到,直到那一刻, 我一直经常对自己说, 你是如此失败。 |
| 138 | And then I realized, because of my daughter, that that kind of thinking was not going to do my circumstances any good. | 然后我意识到,因为我的女儿, 这种想法是不会 对我的情况有任何好处。 |
| 139 | And that's what they are, circumstances. | 情况就是这样 |
| 140 | They don't define you, your response to them does. | 他们没有定义你, 你的反应他们。 |
| 141 | And my response was to be kind to myself, to say to myself, you'll be okay, you can do this. | 我的反应是对我好,对自己说, 你会没事的,你可以做到这一点。 |
| 142 | And then whatever it took, I would do it. | 之后无论付出什么代价 我都会这么做 |
| 143 | Lesson number six. | 第六课. |
| 144 | It's really simple. | 很简单 |
| 145 | I learned so much about business and entrepreneurship and compounding, investing, entrepreneurship, about scalability, hour rates, sales, low-hanging fruit, runway, value propositions. | 我学到了很多关于商业和创业以及复合,投资,创业,可伸缩性,小时率,销售,低挂水果,跑道,价值命题的知识. |
| 146 | But to be honest, everything I learned, I could have learned from my grandmother. | 但老实说,我学到的一切 我都能从祖母那里学到 |
| 147 | Because the essence is this, spend less, earn more, invest wisely, and most of all, value yourself. | 因为本质上是这样的,少花钱,多赚钱,明智投资,最重要的是重视自己. |
| 148 | But simple is not always easy. | 但简单并不总是容易的。 |
| 149 | Let me ask you a question. | 让我问你一个问题。 |
| 150 | Who makes more money today than you did at your very first job? | 今天谁比你第一次工作赚的钱还多? |
| 151 | That's quite a lot of people. | 相当多人 |
| 152 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 153 | Be ready. | 准备好 |
| 154 | There's another question. | 还有个问题 |
| 155 | Be honest. | 诚实点 |
| 156 | I promise I won't tell anyone, but be honest. | 我保证不会告诉任何人,但说实话。 |
| 157 | Who still, at the end of the month, sometimes is out of money? | 还有谁,在月底,有时是没钱? |
| 158 | Or a lot of times, maybe. | 也可能是很多时候 |
| 159 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 160 | That's quite a lot. | 这是相当多。 |
| 161 | Huh? | 是吗? |
| 162 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 163 | You're not alone. | 你不是一个人。 |
| 164 | And this is why. | 这就是为什么。 |
| 165 | It's called Parkinson's Law. | 名为帕金森定律. |
| 166 | Your expenses will always rise to match your income. | 您的开销将永远与收入相匹配。 |
| 167 | This is why most people retire poor and why lottery winners tend to end up with less money a few years after they won than they had before. | 这就是为什么大多数人退休穷人的原因,以及为什么彩票赢家在获胜几年后往往会比以前少花钱。 |
| 168 | And about a year after I started the money project, I was earning a lot of money. | 在我开始钱项目一年后, 我赚了很多钱。 |
| 169 | I was doing well, but still I didn't really have anything left at the end of the month. | 我做得很好,但仍然没有 真正留下任何在月底。 |
| 170 | And I realized that when it comes to spending, I'm a 12-year-old, so I should treat myself accordingly. | 我意识到,在支出方面,我是一个12岁的孩子, 所以我应该对自己做出相应的对待。 |
| 171 | So now I hardly have any access to my money. | 所以现在我几乎拿不到钱了 |
| 172 | As soon as money comes in, most of it goes straight to accounts that I cannot touch. | 钱一来 大部分就直接转到我无法触及的账户上 |
| 173 | And I will probably have to do this for the rest of my life, and I don't care. | 我一生都得这么做 我不在乎 |
| 174 | Because if there's one thing that I learned from this project, it's I can't afford to be poor. | 因为如果我从这个项目中学到了一件事,那就是我不能贫穷。 |
| 175 | Lesson number eight. | 第八课. |
| 176 | Being broke sucks. | 破产很糟 |
| 177 | It does. | 没错 |
| 178 | Two years ago, my entire life was urgent. | 两年前,我整个人生都很紧迫 |
| 179 | Everything was urgent. | 一切都很紧急 |
| 180 | I had to be a full-time problem solver, which is both exhausting and impossible. | 我不得不是一个全职的问题解决者, 这既累人又不可能。 |
| 181 | It捉22. | |
| 182 | Because scarcity captures the mind. | 因为缺乏能捕捉到心灵 |
| 183 | Research shows that when all you can think about, and that was the case for me, | 研究表明,当你能想到的一切, 而对我来说, |
| 184 | when all you can think about is how do I get food on the table tonight, how do I get money today, | 当你能想到的只是 我如何得到食物今晚的桌上, 我如何得到今天的钱, |
| 185 | that takes up all of your thinking space. | 这占用了你所有的思考空间 |
| 186 | There's no room left to solve anything for tomorrow or next week or to make a change next year. | 明日或下周,或明年改,皆无解决之余地. |
| 187 | You're stuck in the situation. | 你被困在这种情况下 |
| 188 | And my situation was that my brain felt like a ticking time bomb. | 我的情况是,我的大脑 感觉就像一颗定时炸弹。 |
| 189 | I can still today hear the sound of the bills dropping on my doormat, and it still freaks me out. | 今天我仍然能听到 帐单掉在我的门垫上的声音, 它仍然吓到我了。 |
| 190 | And day and night, I felt this blind panic. | 日复一日,我感到盲目的恐慌 |
| 191 | I couldn't breathe. | 我无法呼吸。 |
| 192 | There was no way out. | 没有出路。 |
| 193 | I was suffocating. | 我闷死了 |
| 194 | So the first thing and the only thing that I could do was breathe. | 所以第一件事,我唯一能做的就是呼吸。 |
| 195 | I freed my mind, and I made a decision that I was going to be successful in the direction of my purpose. | 我解放了头脑,我做了一个决定,我将在我的目的方向上取得成功. |
| 196 | I found my focus. | 我发现我的焦点。 |
| 197 | I stopped sabotaging myself, and I became successful. | 我不再破坏自己, 我得到了成功。 |
| 198 | Lesson 9. | 第九课 |
| 199 | Stay broke. | 保持破产。 |
| 200 | Epictetus said a very long time ago, wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants. | Epictetus很早就说过,财富不在于拥有巨大的财产,而在于没有多少欲望. |
| 201 | The paradox is that the more money you have, the more silence and no Wi-Fi become a luxury. | 矛盾的是,你的钱越多,沉默和没有Wi-Fi就会成为奢侈品. |
| 202 | It's ridiculous how much money rich people, money-wise rich people, spend on going somewhere quiet. | 有钱人,有钱人,花多少钱去安静的地方是荒谬的. |
| 203 | When I had nothing, all I could afford was to go somewhere quiet, to just sit still or read a book or go outside or go for a run, play with my child. | 当我一无所有时 我只能去一个安静的地方 静静地坐着或者看书 或者出去玩 和我的孩子玩 |
| 204 | And in those moments, I found my most profound moments of happiness. | 在那些时刻,我找到了我最深的幸福时刻。 |
| 205 | I learned that my daughter doesn't need any money or expensive gifts or fancy trips. | 我得知我女儿不需要任何金钱 昂贵的礼物 或花样旅行 |
| 206 | All she wants, really, is a few moments a day of my undivided attention. | 她想要的,真的,是 几天的时间,我无所不在的关注。 |
| 207 | And all I really want is to be present in my own life. | 我真正想要的就是在自己的生活中出现 |
| 208 | So now that I have money, I choose to live as if I'm broke. | 所以现在我有钱了,我选择活得像没钱一样 |
| 209 | And without the worries, I can finally say money is not important. | 而且不用担心,我终于可以说钱不重要。 |
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:01 | I used to be successful, according to society. | 我曾经是成功的,根据社会。 |
| 0:05 | I had left a well-paid job in marketing to become an entrepreneur. | 我为了成为企业家 离开了一份高薪的营销工作 |
| 0:10 | And very soon I could buy anything I wanted. | 很快我就能买到我想要的东西 |
| 0:13 | Not anything in the world, anything I wanted, which was a lot still. | 世界上什么都没有,我想要的, 还有很多。 |
| 0:17 | My impulse purchases included a brand new car and a house. | 我的冲动购买包括一辆全新的汽车和一栋房子. |
| 0:23 | My entire life was just about fun, and I can say I created some amazing memories. | 我的整个人生都是有趣的, 我可以说,我创造了一些惊人的回忆。 |
| 0:30 | But it was just fun. | 但它只是乐趣。 |
| 0:31 | I wanted more. | 我还想吃 |
| 0:33 | I wanted joy. | 我想要快乐。 |
| 0:34 | I wanted to do something that would last, something that mattered. | 我想做一些能持久的事 很重要的事 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | I used to be successful, according to society. | 我曾经是成功的,根据社会。 |
| 2 | I had left a well-paid job in marketing to become an entrepreneur. | 我为了成为企业家 离开了一份高薪的营销工作 |
| 3 | And very soon I could buy anything I wanted. | 很快我就能买到我想要的东西 |
| 4 | Not anything in the world, anything I wanted, which was a lot still. | 世界上什么都没有,我想要的, 还有很多。 |
| 5 | My impulse purchases included a brand new car and a house. | 我的冲动购买包括一辆全新的汽车和一栋房子. |
| 6 | My entire life was just about fun, and I can say I created some amazing memories. | 我的整个人生都是有趣的, 我可以说,我创造了一些惊人的回忆。 |
| 7 | But it was just fun. | 但它只是乐趣。 |
| 8 | I wanted more. | 我还想吃 |
| 9 | I wanted joy. | 我想要快乐。 |
| 10 | I wanted to do something that would last, something that mattered. | 我想做一些能持久的事 很重要的事 |
| 11 | So I started working with students, and this was fantastic. | 所以我开始和学生一起工作,这太棒了。 |
| 12 | For the first time in my life, people would come up to me and say, | 我这辈子第一次有人来找我说 |
| 13 | thank you, you've changed my life. | 谢谢你,你改变了我的生活。 |
| 14 | And that was so valuable to me that I would do it for just a little bit of money, | 那对我很重要,我为了一点钱就这么做, |
| 15 | if they wouldn't pay me enough. | 如果他们不付我足够的钱。 |
| 16 | I would even do it for free. | 我甚至会免费做 |
| 17 | A lot. | 经常 |
| 18 | Until I reached a point where even a small financial setback | 直到我到了一个点 甚至一个小小的财政挫折 |
| 19 | could ruin me as an entrepreneur. | 可能毁了我作为一个企业家。 |
| 20 | And of course it did. | 当然了 |
| 21 | In the middle of summer of 2016, when all schools are closed | 2016年夏中,所有学校关闭 |
| 22 | and I wouldn't have any income for another two months or so, | 再过两个月我就没有收入了 |
| 23 | I received five envelopes at the same time from the tax services, | 我同时从税务部门收到五个信封 |
| 24 | demanding that I pay for my glory days immediately. | 要求我立即为我的荣耀付出代价 |
| 25 | This cost me everything I had. | 这花了我的一切。 |
| 26 | All my savings, all the money that I had, and all I had left in an instant | 我所有的积蓄,我所有的钱, 我留下的一切瞬间 |
| 27 | was just a few coins that I found between the cushions of the sofa | 只是我发现的几块硬币 在沙发的垫子之间 |
| 28 | and in my coat pockets and in my car, and three euros and 97 cents in the bank. | 在我的外套口袋里 在我的车里 还有银行里的三欧元和97美分 |
| 29 | Two days later, my daughter would come back from staying with her father. | 两天后,我女儿会回来陪她的父亲 |
| 30 | She would come back on her birthday, and I couldn't afford to bake her a cake. | 她生日时会回来 我负担不起给她烤蛋糕 |
| 31 | What I wanted to do was just to crawl into bed and cry, | 我想做的只是爬进床上哭 |
| 32 | which I don't like, and just hide under the covers until it would all just go away. | 藏在盖子底下 直到一切都消失 |
| 33 | But I couldn't. | 但我无法。 |
| 34 | I didn't have time because I only had 48 hours | 我没有时间 因为我只有48小时 |
| 35 | to prove to myself that I was better than this. | 来证明我比这强 |
| 36 | That I was a good mother. | 我是个好母亲 |
| 37 | So what I did was the most terrifying and the most embarrassing thing | 我所做的是最可怕 最尴尬的事 |
| 38 | I've ever done in my life. | 我这辈子做过很多事 |
| 39 | I decided to expose myself publicly as a failure, | 我决定公开揭露自己的失败 |
| 40 | and I thought that the best place to start would be rock bottom. | 我想,最好的起点是 摇滚底层。 |
| 41 | So I gave away my last bit of money, and then I had absolutely nothing, | 于是我把最后一点钱都给了 我一无所有 |
| 42 | and then the only way was up. | 然后唯一的办法就是起来。 |
| 43 | I called it The Money Project. | 我称之为钱计划。 |
| 44 | I published a video on Facebook stating that I had failed gloriously | 我在脸书上发表了一段视频 说我失败了 |
| 45 | as an entrepreneur, that I was totally broke, | 作为一个企业家, 我彻底破产, |
| 46 | and that I was determined to change my situation, | 我决心改变我的处境 |
| 47 | to learn anything I could about entrepreneurship and business and money | 学习我所能学到的一切 关于创业、商业和金钱 |
| 48 | and enhance my financial intelligence, | 并增强我的金融情报 |
| 49 | and that I was determined to become free of financial stress within six months, | 我决心在六个月内摆脱财政压力 |
| 50 | and to go from nothing to a fortune, | 为了从无到有, |
| 51 | or at least discover what the secret to doing that was, | 或至少发现是什么秘密 这样做, |
| 52 | and to become a successful entrepreneur. | 成为成功的企业家 |
| 53 | And I would write a book about it, | 我会写一本关于它的书, |
| 54 | and this book I would sell right away for ten euros a copy, | 这本书我会马上卖10欧元一册, |
| 55 | and that day I didn't dare look at the responses on my timeline | 那天我不敢看时间轴上的回复 |
| 56 | because this was quite scary, | 因为这是相当可怕的, |
| 57 | but that first day I sold 64 books, | 但第一天我卖了64本书 |
| 58 | and I had a fortune. | 我有一个财富。 |
| 59 | Until this day I've never felt more rich in my entire life, | 直到今天 我这辈子从未觉得更有钱过 |
| 60 | because this meant I could now bake a birthday cake, | 因为这意味着我现在可以烤一个生日蛋糕了 |
| 61 | and she could have a proper birthday, which she did. | 她可以有一个合适的生日,她做到了。 |
| 62 | And then I read, I vlogged, I blogged, I interviewed, | 我读了,我写了,我写了博客,接受采访, |
| 63 | I learned anything I could, and I succeeded. | 我学到了一切,我成功了。 |
| 64 | Within six months I was free of financial stress, | 六个月内,我没有财政压力 |
| 65 | and I could say that I was a successful entrepreneur. | 我可以说我是一个成功的企业家。 |
| 66 | And all this time I had been thinking that this Money Project, | 我一直想这个钱计划 |
| 67 | what I called it, was about money, of course, and business, | 我称之为钱 当然还有生意 |
| 68 | but deep down it was about something completely different. | 但是在内心深处 事情完全不同 |
| 69 | It was about value and about life, | 这是关于价值和生命, |
| 70 | and I will share with you what I learned about life. | 我会和你们分享我学到的生活 |
| 71 | Lesson number one, money is important. | 第一课 钱很重要 |
| 72 | Quite a cliché. | 陈词滥调. |
| 73 | But I was raised in a way to believe that money is not important, | 但我养大是为了相信钱不重要 |
| 74 | and I inherited this conviction somehow. | 我继承了这个信念 |
| 75 | I can't blame anyone in particular, | 我不能怪任何人特别, |
| 76 | but somehow it planted a conviction in my head | 但不知怎的,它使我心中充满了信念 |
| 77 | that people with money are not nice people. | 有钱的人不是好人 |
| 78 | So when I had money, I would spend it as soon as I could. | 所以当我有钱的时候 我会尽快花掉 |
| 79 | And then when I found my purpose working with students, | 然后当我发现我的目的 在学生工作, |
| 80 | I just didn't ask for it. | 我只是没有要求 |
| 81 | I didn't care, I just wanted to change the world, | 我不在乎 我只是想改变世界 |
| 82 | which I had no impact on whatsoever with three euros and 97 cents. | 3欧元和97美分 我没有任何影响 |
| 83 | And I also learned that money doesn't make you a bad person, | 我也知道钱不会让你变成坏人 |
| 84 | it just makes you more of who you are. | 它只是让你更多 你是谁。 |
| 85 | So if you're a jerk with a lot of money, | 如果你是个有钱的混蛋 |
| 86 | you're probably a jerk when you're broke as well. | 你可能是一个混蛋 当你破产了。 |
| 87 | And if I would have more money, I would simply give more. | 如果我有更多的钱,我只会给更多。 |
| 88 | But if I have to worry about money every day, all day, | 但如果我每天都要担心钱的事 |
| 89 | I can't even take care of myself, and I have nothing to give. | 我甚至不能照顾自己, 我没有什么可以给。 |
| 90 | Lesson number two, money equals time. | 第二课 钱等于时间 |
| 91 | As soon as we start working, we start exchanging time for money, | 一旦我们开始工作, 我们开始交换时间的钱, |
| 92 | which is a problem because we can always make more money, | 这是一个问题,因为我们总是可以赚更多的钱, |
| 93 | but we can never make more time. | 但我们再也没有时间了 |
| 94 | And I started to exchange my time for far too little money. | 我开始用我的时间交换太少的钱 |
| 95 | I could barely survive. | 我几乎无法生存。 |
| 96 | And at the end of the month, there was nothing ever left | 月末时 什么都没有了 |
| 97 | to invest in my future. | 投资我的未来。 |
| 98 | So I would have to spend all my time to make just a little bit of money, | 所以我得花所有时间赚点钱 |
| 99 | and I would probably have to do that for the rest of my life | 我可能不得不这样做 我的余生 |
| 100 | because there was nothing left. | 因为那里什么都没有 |
| 101 | And for the rest of my life, I would have given away the one thing | 而我的余生, 我会放弃一件事 |
| 102 | that means the very most to me, which is time, | 这对我来说意味着最重要的, 是时候了, |
| 103 | time with my loved ones and time for myself. | 时间与我的爱人 和时间我自己。 |
| 104 | So I decided that it was time that I value my time. | 所以我决定,时间是 我珍惜我的时间。 |
| 105 | I would spend it more consciously, and when it comes to work, | 我会更自觉地花掉 当它涉及到工作时 |
| 106 | I would have to exchange it for more money | 我不得不用它换更多的钱 |
| 107 | so I could spend less time working and more time actually living. | 所以我可以花更多的时间工作 更多的时间实际生活。 |
| 108 | Lesson number three, money equals value. | 第三课,钱等于值. |
| 109 | It took me two years to discover that the money project is not about money. | 我花了两年时间才发现 这笔钱不是钱的事 |
| 110 | It's about value. | 是为值. |
| 111 | And I've always seen myself as a confident person, | 我一直认为自己是个自信的人 |
| 112 | but I didn't value myself because the way you treat yourself | 但我不重视自己 因为你对待自己的方式 |
| 113 | is a reflection of the way you see yourself, | 这反映了你对自己的看法, |
| 114 | and I've been treating myself like crap, | 我一直把自己当垃圾 |
| 115 | which I found a terrible example to set for my daughter. | 我为我女儿树立了一个可怕的榜样。 |
| 116 | So changing my rates was not enough. | 所以,改变我的费率是不够的。 |
| 117 | I had to change the way I see myself. | 我必须改变自己的看法 |
| 118 | I had to start seeing myself as a person of value, | 我不得不开始将自己视为一个有价值的人, |
| 119 | and that was not easily done. | 这并不容易完成。 |
| 120 | It's a process, and I'm still working on it, | 这是一个过程, 我还在努力, |
| 121 | so I still, on a regular basis, I still have to remind myself, | 所以我还是定期提醒自己 |
| 122 | it's okay, you're worth every penny. | 没关系,你每分钱都值 |
| 123 | And even now, I find it hard to say this out loud. | 即使现在 我很难大声说出来 |
| 124 | I get a bit embarrassed, so I'm still learning. | 我有点尴尬,所以我还在学习。 |
| 125 | I have to keep practicing. | 我得继续练习 |
| 126 | Lesson number four. | 第四课. |
| 127 | What people say doesn't matter. | 人之所言无碍. |
| 128 | You're a cheap whore. | 你是个贱货 |
| 129 | You're a fraud. | 你是个骗子 |
| 130 | How can you do this to your child? | 你怎么能这样对你的孩子? |
| 131 | Just a few of the comments that I received. | 只是我收到的一些评论。 |
| 132 | The hateful ones were on my timeline on Facebook, | 讨厌的人在我的时间线上 在Facebook上, |
| 133 | but the quiet ones, they hit safely in my inbox, | 但安静的, 他们安全地击中了我的收件箱, |
| 134 | confessing only to me that they had screwed up too, | 只向我承认他们也搞砸了 |
| 135 | that they too had found their purpose | 他们也发现自己的宗旨, |
| 136 | and wanted to change the world and worked really hard, | 并想改变世界 努力工作, |
| 137 | 80 hours a week, just like me, and barely surviving, | 每周80小时,就像我一样,几乎没活下来 |
| 138 | but no one could know, so they didn't go public | 但没人知道,所以他们没有公开 |
| 139 | because they were too ashamed to be a failure. | 因为他们太羞愧了,不能成为失败者。 |
| 140 | But they were very glad that I went public | 但是他们很高兴我公开了 |
| 141 | and exposed myself as a failure | 暴露自己是个失败者 |
| 142 | because now they could learn from my mistakes. | 因为他们现在可以从我的错误中吸取教训。 |
| 143 | And I was thankful that I could help them, | 我很感激我能帮助他们, |
| 144 | and I was also thankful for the haters, | 我也感谢那些仇恨者, |
| 145 | whether it was the strangers on my timeline | 是否是我时间线上的陌生人 |
| 146 | or even some of my own friends | 甚至我的一些亲友 |
| 147 | talking badly about me behind my back | 背着我说不好 |
| 148 | because they taught me that nothing is ever personal, | 因为他们教会我 没有什么是私人的, |
| 149 | not really. | 没有 |
| 150 | What people say about you and what people think about you, | 人们对你的看法和对你的看法 |
| 151 | it comes from their view of the world. | 它来自他们的世界观。 |
| 152 | It's from their opinions and their values | 这是他们的观点和价值观 |
| 153 | and their experiences, and maybe they're having a bad day | 和他们的经验, 也许他们有一个糟糕的一天 |
| 154 | or they're very insecure or unhappy. | 或者他们非常不安全或不快乐 |
| 155 | It has nothing to do with you. | 这和你无关 |
| 156 | And the way other people treat you | 还有别人对待你的方式 |
| 157 | is not a reflection of who you are, | 不是反映你是谁, |
| 158 | it's a reflection of who they are. | 这是他们是谁的反映。 |
| 159 | So now when someone says something hurtful to me, | 所以现在有人对我说些伤人的话 |
| 160 | it still hurts, but not as much | 仍然很痛,但没这么痛 |
| 161 | because I know it probably has nothing to do with me. | 因为我知道这可能跟我无关 |
| 162 | That's number five. | 即为第五. |
| 163 | What people say matters. | 众生所说法. |
| 164 | What people say matters most when people is you | 当人是你的时候 别人说什么才是最重要的 |
| 165 | because the person with the most opinions about you, | 因为对你最有意见的人 |
| 166 | the person who talks to you the most, is you. | 最能跟你说话的人是你 |
| 167 | And you tend to believe yourself, right? | 你总是相信自己 对吧? |
| 168 | So be kind. | 所以请慈悲. |
| 169 | A few days into the project I asked my daughter, | 几天后,我问我女儿 |
| 170 | how do our money worries make you feel? | 我们的钱让你感觉如何? |
| 171 | And she said, we don't have money worries, | 她说,我们不担心钱 |
| 172 | we just have less money than most people. | 我们的钱比大多数人都少 |
| 173 | And then I realized that until that moment | 然后我意识到,直到那一刻 |
| 174 | I had been saying to myself on a regular basis, | 我经常对自己说 |
| 175 | you're such a failure. | 你真是个失败者 |
| 176 | And then I realized, because of my daughter, | 后来我意识到 因为我女儿 |
| 177 | that that kind of thinking was not going to do my circumstances any good. | 那种想法对我的情况没有任何好处。 |
| 178 | And that's what they are, circumstances. | 情况就是这样 |
| 179 | They don't define you. | 他们没有定义你。 |
| 180 | Your response to them does. | 你对他们的反应确实如此。 |
| 181 | And my response was to be kind to myself, | 我的反应是对我好 |
| 182 | to say to myself, you'll be okay. | 对我说,你会没事的。 |
| 183 | You can do this. | 你可以做到这一点。 |
| 184 | And then whatever it took, I would do it. | 之后无论付出什么代价 我都会这么做 |
| 185 | That's the number six. | 即第六义. |
| 186 | It's really simple. | 很简单 |
| 187 | I learned so much about business and entrepreneurship | 我学到了很多关于商业和创业的知识 |
| 188 | and compounding, investing, entrepreneurship, | 以及复合、投资、创业、 |
| 189 | about scalability, hour rates, sales, | 关于可伸缩性,小时率,销售, |
| 190 | low-hanging fruit, runway, value propositions. | 低挂水果 跑道 价值建议 |
| 191 | But to be honest, everything I learned | 但说实话,我学到的一切 |
| 192 | I could have learned from my grandmother. | 我本可以从祖母那里学的 |
| 193 | Because the essence is this. | 因为本质就是这个。 |
| 194 | Spend less, earn more, invest wisely, | 少花钱多赚钱 明智投资 |
| 195 | and most of all, value yourself. | 最重要的是,重视你自己。 |
| 196 | But simple is not always easy. | 但简单并不总是容易的。 |
| 197 | Let me ask you a question. | 让我问你一个问题。 |
| 198 | Who makes more money today than you did at your very first job? | 今天谁比你第一次工作赚的钱还多? |
| 199 | That's quite a lot of people. | 相当多人 |
| 200 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 201 | Be ready. | 准备好 |
| 202 | There's another question. | 还有个问题 |
| 203 | Be honest. | 诚实点 |
| 204 | I promise I won't tell anyone, but be honest. | 我保证不会告诉任何人,但说实话。 |
| 205 | Who still, at the end of the month, sometimes is out of money? | 还有谁,在月底,有时是没钱? |
| 206 | Or a lot of times, maybe. | 也可能是很多时候 |
| 207 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 208 | That's quite a lot, huh? | 够多的吧? |
| 209 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 210 | You're not alone. | 你不是一个人。 |
| 211 | And this is why. | 这就是为什么。 |
| 212 | It's called Parkinson's Law. | 名为帕金森定律. |
| 213 | Your expenses will always rise to match your income. | 您的开销将永远与收入相匹配。 |
| 214 | This is why most people retire poor | 这就是为什么大多数人 退休穷人 |
| 215 | and why lottery winners tend to end up with less money | 和为什么彩票赢家往往以更少的钱结束 |
| 216 | a few years after they won than they had before. | 在他们获胜之后的几年里 |
| 217 | And about a year after I started the money project, | 在我开始钱项目一年后 |
| 218 | I was earning a lot of money. | 我赚了很多钱。 |
| 219 | I was doing well, but still I didn't really have anything left | 我做得很好,但我还是没有 真正留下任何东西 |
| 220 | at the end of the month. | 月终时。 |
| 221 | And I realized that when it comes to spending, | 我意识到,当涉及到支出, |
| 222 | I'm a 12-year-old. | 我十二岁了 |
| 223 | So I should treat myself accordingly. | 所以我应该这样对待自己 |
| 224 | So now I hardly have any access to my money. | 所以现在我几乎拿不到钱了 |
| 225 | As soon as money comes in, | 钱一进来 |
| 226 | most of it goes straight to accounts that I cannot touch, | 大部分都直接转到我无法触及的账户上 |
| 227 | and I will probably have to do this for the rest of my life, | 我可能不得不这样做 我的余生, |
| 228 | and I don't care. | 我无所谓 |
| 229 | Because if there's one thing that I learned from this project, | 因为如果我从这个项目学到一件事 |
| 230 | it's I can't afford to be poor. | 我无法承受贫穷 |
| 231 | Lesson number eight. | 第八课. |
| 232 | Being broke sucks. | 破产很糟 |
| 233 | It does. | 没错 |
| 234 | Two years ago, my entire life was urgent. | 两年前,我整个人生都很紧迫 |
| 235 | Everything was urgent. | 一切都很紧急 |
| 236 | I had to be a full-time problem solver, | 我不得不是一个全职的问题解决者, |
| 237 | which is both exhausting and impossible. | 这既累人又不可能 |
| 238 | It捉22. | |
| 239 | Because scarcity captures the mind. | 因为缺乏能捕捉到心灵 |
| 240 | Research shows that when all you can think about, | 研究表明,当你能想到的一切, |
| 241 | and that was the case for me, | 对我来说就是这样 |
| 242 | when all you can think about is how do I get food on the table tonight? | 你唯一能想到的就是 我今晚怎么把食物放在桌上? |
| 243 | How do I get money today? | 我今如何得钱. |
| 244 | That takes up all of your thinking space. | 这占用了你所有的思考空间。 |
| 245 | There's no room left to solve anything for tomorrow or next week | 明天和下周都无处可查 |
| 246 | or to make a change next year. | 或者明年做点改变 |
| 247 | You're stuck in the situation. | 你被困在这种情况下 |
| 248 | And my situation was that my brain felt like a ticking time bomb. | 我的情况是,我的大脑 感觉就像一颗定时炸弹。 |
| 249 | I can still today hear the sound of the bills dropping on my doormat, | 今天我仍然能听到 帐单掉在我的门垫上的声音, |
| 250 | and it still freaks me out. | 还让我害怕 |
| 251 | And day and night, I felt this blind panic. | 日复一日,我感到盲目的恐慌 |
| 252 | I couldn't breathe. | 我无法呼吸。 |
| 253 | There was no way out. | 没有出路。 |
| 254 | I was suffocating. | 我闷死了 |
| 255 | So the first thing and the only thing that I could do was breathe. | 所以第一件事,我唯一能做的就是呼吸。 |
| 256 | I freed my mind, and I made a decision | 我解放了头脑,我做了一个决定 |
| 257 | that I was going to be successful in the direction of my purpose. | 我会成功实现我的目标 |
| 258 | I found my focus. | 我发现我的焦点。 |
| 259 | I stopped sabotaging myself. | 我不再破坏自己。 |
| 260 | And I became successful. | 我获得了成功。 |
| 261 | Lesson nine, stay broke. | 第九课,继续破产。 |
| 262 | Epictetus said a very long time ago, | 埃皮卡特斯很久以前说过 |
| 263 | wealth consists not in having great possessions, | 财富不在于有大的财产, |
| 264 | but in having few wants. | 但因为没有太多的希望 |
| 265 | The paradox is that the more money you have, | 矛盾的是 你的钱越多 |
| 266 | the more silence and no Wi-Fi become a luxury. | 沉默和无线网络成为奢侈品 |
| 267 | It's ridiculous how much money rich people, money-wise rich people, | 有钱人,有钱人, |
| 268 | spend on going somewhere quiet. | 花去一个安静的地方。 |
| 269 | When I had nothing, all I could afford was to go somewhere quiet, | 当我一无所有时 我只能去一个安静的地方 |
| 270 | to just sit still or read a book or go outside or go for a run, | 静静地坐着或看书 或出去或跑步, |
| 271 | play with my child. | 和我的孩子玩游戏 |
| 272 | And in those moments, I found my most profound moments of happiness. | 在那些时刻,我找到了我最深的幸福时刻。 |
| 273 | I learned that my daughter doesn't need any money | 我得知我女儿不需要钱 |
| 274 | or expensive gifts or fancy trips. | 或昂贵的礼物或豪华旅行。 |
| 275 | All she wants, really, is a few moments a day of my undivided attention. | 她想要的,真的,是 几天的时间,我无所不在的关注。 |
| 276 | And all I really want is to be present in my own life. | 我真正想要的就是在自己的生活中出现 |
| 277 | So now that I have money, I choose to live as if I'm broke. | 所以现在我有钱了,我选择活得像没钱一样 |
| 278 | And without the worries, I can finally say money is not important. | 而且不用担心,我终于可以说钱不重要。 |
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