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所有孤独的人们【TED演讲】

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P1所有孤独的人们【TED演讲】 中英双语13:45
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P1 · 所有孤独的人们【TED演讲】 p01 中英双语 (P1)

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0:01If I had died at 22, it would have taken weeks before anyone would have noticed.如果我在22岁的时候死了,那要等几周才会有人发现
0:09Because at 22, I was studying, I lived on my own, and I'd pulled myself away from everyone,因为22岁时,我在学习, 我靠自己生活, 我把自己从每个人身边拉开,
0:17without anyone really noticing.没有人真正注意到。
0:20The next minutes will not be about me.接下来的几分钟不会是我
0:24It will, however, be about the work that I'm trying to do.然而,这将会涉及我努力完成的工作。
0:28Because two years ago, I decided to put an end to loneliness.因为两年前 我决定结束孤独
0:35The loneliness that I and my co-founders had experienced in our own lives我和我的共同创始人 在自己的生活中经历的孤独
0:39was enough for us to quit our jobs and start a company called No Isolation.足够我们辞掉工作 成立一家叫"不孤立"的公司
0:47We had no idea of what we were getting into and how big the issue really was.我们不知道我们遇到什么 问题到底有多大
0:53And I don't think that you do either.我也不认为你这样做。
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1If I had died at 22, it would have taken weeks before anyone would have noticed.如果我在22岁的时候死了,那要等几周才会有人发现
2Because at 22, I was studying, I lived on my own, and I'd pulled myself away from everyone,因为22岁时,我在学习, 我靠自己生活, 我把自己从每个人身边拉开,
3without anyone really noticing.没有人真正注意到。
4The next minutes will not be about me.接下来的几分钟不会是我
5It will, however, be about the work that I'm trying to do.然而,这将会涉及我努力完成的工作。
6Because two years ago, I decided to put an end to loneliness.因为两年前 我决定结束孤独
7The loneliness that I and my co-founders had experienced in our own lives我和我的共同创始人 在自己的生活中经历的孤独
8was enough for us to quit our jobs and start a company called No Isolation.足够我们辞掉工作 成立一家叫"不孤立"的公司
9We had no idea of what we were getting into and how big the issue really was.我们不知道我们遇到什么 问题到底有多大
10And I don't think that you do either.我也不认为你这样做。
11Loneliness is not just a sad feeling that we need to get rid of孤独不仅仅是一种悲伤的感觉 我们需要摆脱
12because we want people to be slightly more happy.因为我们希望人们更快乐一点
13Loneliness is dangerous.孤独是危险的。
14People suffering from loneliness is in a constant fight-or-flight mode,孤独的人在不断的战斗或飞行中,
15a stress mode very much equal to the one I am experiencing right now.压力模式与我现在所经历的相当
16Only there's a huge difference between me experiencing this for a couple of minutes now只是现在我经历了几分钟的这种经历 有很大的不同
17and living with it for years.和它生活多年。
18These increased stress levels lead to a number of things,这些压力增加导致一些事情,
19but there are some consequences that are more severe than others.但有些后果比其他后果更严重。
20Several studies have shown that feeling lonely有几项研究表明 孤独的感觉
21results in a 29% increased risk of heart disease.导致29%的心脏病风险增加。
22Feeling lonely also increases the risk of having a stroke with 32%.孤独感也增加了中风率32%的风险。
23You might not believe it, but when it comes to heart disease,你可能不相信 但当它涉及到心脏病时
24loneliness is a bigger killer than obesity.孤独是比肥胖更大的杀手
25So if we could do our own mini-experiments, and all of you could raise your hands,所以,如果我们可以做 我们自己的小型实验, 你们可以举起你的手,
26and please keep it there until told otherwise.并且请保持它在那里,直到告诉其他。
27So think about the feeling of being all alone,想想独处的感觉
28how it is like to not have anyone you feel you can talk to or reach out to in a moment.那种感觉就像没有任何人 你可以说话 或接触。
29Now everyone who has never had that feeling can take their hands down.现在,所有从未有过这种感觉的人都能够放下双手。
30Good.不错
31So all of us have experienced loneliness,所以我们都经历了孤独
32but 16% of the Norwegian population reports that they're being haunted by loneliness every day.但16%的挪威人口报告说 他们每天都被孤独困扰
33And that's in Norway.这是在挪威。
34According to the United Nations, we're the happiest country in the world.联合国表示,我们是世界上最幸福的国家.
35And still 16% is 800,000 people in this tiny country alone16 %还是这个小国的80万人
36that feels like they have no one to talk to on a day-to-day basis.感觉他们无话可说
37And when you consider how big of a taboo loneliness actually is,当你考虑一个禁忌的孤独到底有多大时
38it gets worse because people do not willingly admit to being lonely,越来越糟糕 因为人们不愿意承认孤独
39meaning that 16 is probably too low.也就是说16岁可能太低了
40The relationship between age and loneliness is shaped like a U.年龄与孤独的关系成型为U.
41The youngest and the oldest generations are the most lonely generations.最年轻和最年长的一代是最孤独的一代.
42And while most research is focused on the seniors,虽然大部分研究都集中在老年人身上,
43the amount of lonely young people is severely underestimated.孤独青年的人数被严重低估。
44It should be no surprise to anyone here that lonely children, teenagers, and young adults对于这里的任何人 孤独的孩子,青少年, 和年轻的成年人来说,这都不奇怪
45perform worse at school, are more depressed, and experience more suicidal thoughts在学校表现更糟糕, 更沮丧, 经历更多的自杀想法
46than their socially connected peers.比他们的社交伙伴。
47And then there are children suffering from long-term illness.后有子长病.
48And with long-term illness, I mean ME and CP and cancer and heart failure,长期疾病,我是指我和CP 癌症和心脏衰竭
49all of these diagnoses, and they're particularly exposed to being socially isolated and lonely.所有这些诊断, 他们特别暴露 在社会孤立和孤独。
50And they lose their place in society with their diagnosis.并且由于他们的诊断而失去了他们在社会中的地位.
51And it's not always easy to find their way back.找到回路并不总是容易的
52I didn't realize how important this issue was until I met a woman named Anna.我不知道这个问题有多重要 直到我遇到一个叫安娜的女人
53Fourteen years before I met her, one of her twin daughters was diagnosed with a form of cancer.14年前,她的一个双胞胎女儿 被诊断患有癌症
54And Cornelia lost her life after having spent two years moving in and out of various hospitals.而柯妮莉娅在往返于各家医院的两年时间里失去了生命.
55But when Cornelia passed away, Anna looked back on the previous two years with grievance但当柯妮莉娅去世后 安娜带着怨恨回首前两年
56because the worst thing had not been the diagnosis or the treatment or the pain,因为最糟糕的不是诊断 治疗或疼痛
57but the fact that her teenage daughter became isolated from her friends and her normal life.但事实上她的十几岁的女儿 变得与朋友和正常生活隔绝
58A 13-year-old girl is a 13-year-old girl,一个13岁的女孩是一个13岁的女孩,
59and no diagnosis in the world can take away her social needs.世界上任何诊断都无法夺走她的社交需求
60But an illness will definitely get in the way of her acting upon those needs.但疾病肯定会妨碍她满足这些需求
61So let's move on to something slightly less heavy.所以,让我们继续做一些 稍轻的重量。
62I guess that all of you have heard of Tinder.我想你们都听说过丁德
63It's a dating app.这是一个约会的应用程序。
64I have a theory that Tinder has actually done more for public health than we give them credit for.我有一个理论,Tinder在公共卫生方面 所做的比我们给他们的功劳还多。
65We could discuss it forever, because despite Tinder doing the very best job they can,我们可以永远讨论, 因为尽管Tinder尽了最大的努力,
66more people than ever before are single.单身的人比以往任何时候都多。
67And that is actually a huge problem,这其实是一个大问题,
68because the single strongest predictor for loneliness is not your age.因为孤独最强的预言者 不是你的年龄
69It is whether or not you're in a relationship.不论你是不是在交往
70As a single woman, I am four times more likely to be haunted by loneliness than women who are in a relationship.作为单身女性,我被孤独困扰的可能性是恋爱中女性的四倍.
71But the silver lining is that in this matter, I'm very lucky to be a girl,但幸运的是,在这个事情中, 我是一个女孩非常幸运,
72because that guy is ten times more likely being haunted by loneliness than his mates who are in relationships.因为那个家伙被孤独困扰的可能性 是他的伴侣的十倍
73And yes, it is a fact that single people are more miserable than those who are hitched.是的,一个事实, 单身的人比那些被搭便车的人更悲惨。
74You would think that by 2017 we would have figured out how to properly connect people,你会认为到2017年,我们会想出 如何正确连接人们,
75but it looks like we're getting worse at it.但看起来我们越来越糟糕了
76Loneliness has become a pandemic.孤独已成为流行病。
77It does not discriminate on age or gender or borders.它不分年龄、性别或边界。
78It happens all over the world, and it happens most frequently to those of us who are already vulnerable.它在世界各地发生,最经常发生在我们中那些已经易受伤害的人身上。
79And as I said in the beginning, I don't think I can stress this enough.正如我一开始所说,我觉得我不够强调这一点。
80The constant flight or fight mode results in a 29% increased risk of heart diseases.持续飞行或战斗模式导致心脏病风险增加29%。
81That's equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes every day.这相当于每天抽15支烟。
82It is more dangerous than being an alcoholic.比酗酒更危险
83And on top of these physical risks, there's one more thing.除了这些物理风险之外 还有一件事
84Feeling lonely doubles your likelihood of getting dementia.感到孤独会使你患痴呆症的可能性加倍
85Obviously, there's an enormous individual cost in that of feeling all alone.显然,一个人感到孤独是巨大的个人代价。
86There's also an enormous public cost.还有巨大的公共成本。
87People getting sick is expensive.人们生病很昂贵。
88It is extremely expensive.这是极其昂贵的。
89And to give you a specific example of how loneliness is expensive, we can stay on dementia.给你一个具体的例子, 孤独是多么昂贵, 我们可以留在痴呆。
90Because 66% of all the money we spend on mental health care is spent on people suffering from dementia.因为我们用于精神保健的所有资金的66%都用于患有痴呆症的人.
91And loneliness doubles your risk of developing it.孤独是发展它的风险的两倍
92We're going to add one more number.我们再加一个号码
9312%。 12%。
9412% of the Norwegian population is daily smokers.挪威12%的人口每天吸烟。
9516% of us, or maybe more, are haunted by loneliness.我们16%,也许更多, 被孤独困扰。
96We know that both of them gives you an equally increased risk of heart disease and strokes.我们知道他们俩都给你增加了心脏病和中风的风险。
97So it's both extremely dangerous, and one of them is even exceptionally painful.所以两者都非常危险,其中之一甚至特别痛苦.
98But the governments of the world is clearly focusing on only one of them.但世界各国政府显然只关注其中之一.
99But what can you really do?但你能做点什么?
100We set up taxes for cigarettes, and then we ban smoking inside.我们为香烟征税 然后禁止在里面吸烟
101It is quite obvious that we can't use the same methods for curing loneliness.很明显 我们不能用同样的方法治疗孤独
102So where do we start if we want to have an impact on a global scale?那么,如果我们想在全球范围产生影响,我们从哪里开始呢?
103Well, I started with studying almost the opposite of psychology, so I chose computer science.我开始研究心理学,所以选择了计算机科学。
104And the debate around the impact of technology on loneliness is growing.而关于技术对孤独的影响的辩论也在增加.
105Some argue that the use of technology is replacing human contact.有人争辩说,技术的使用正在取代人类的接触。
106Others argue that technology is all we need to establish new relations.其他人则认为,技术是我们建立新的关系所需要的一切。
107I think the debate lacks one key insight, because it is not about the technology at all.我认为辩论缺乏一个关键见解,因为它根本不涉及技术。
108We could say that it is somewhat about what the technology does,我们可以说,这有点 关于技术的作用,
109and somewhat about how we as consumers use technology.我们消费者如何使用技术。
110But most importantly, it's about the people who develop the technology that we use.但最重要的是,这是关于开发我们使用的技术的人。
111They choose how it works and what it does.他们选择它的工作方式和作用。
112And different things do different things.不同的东西做不同的事情。
113And it's people who develop the stuff we use.是人们开发我们使用的东西。
114Developments in communication technology have emerged rapidly.通信技术的发展迅速出现。
115Unfortunately, technology is almost always developed to make efficient people more efficient.不幸的是,技术几乎总是被开发出来,以提高人们的效率。
116New technologies are too often built for those who are already moving fast,新技术往往为那些已经快速发展的人所建立,
117rather than for those who might benefit from it the most.而不是那些最能受益的人。
118And for vulnerable groups, the most important developments have failed to appear.对于弱势群体来说,最重要的事态发展没有出现。
119And I can give you one of the many perfect examples of how the tech world has left the senior generations behind.我可以举出许多完美的例子之一 说明科技界是如何把高龄的一代人抛在后面的。
120Technology-based innovations such as video conferencing have been around for years.多年来,视像会议等基于技术的革新已经出现。
121We've also known for years that video conferencing has a very positive impact on social isolation and loneliness.我们还知道,电视会议对社会孤立和孤独有着非常积极的影响。
122But yet 70%, more than two-thirds of those over 80 have never even tried it.但70%以上,80岁以上的人中有三分之二以上从未尝试过。
123We know that this technology can help, but still we haven't made it available for those who could benefit from it the most.我们知道这种技术可以有所帮助, 但我们还没有为那些能够从中获益最多的人提供它。
124I imagine that many of you in the audience have parents or even grandparents that fits into the description我想你们观众中有很多人 有父母,甚至祖父母 符合描述
125seniors that cannot use existing technology.无法使用现有技术的老年人。
126And then some of you might want to jump up and say, my mom or dad, but my mom can use an iPad.然后你们有些人可能想跳起来说, 我妈妈或爸爸, 但我妈妈可以使用iPad。
127And to statements like that, it's always some questions that pops into my mind.对于这样的说法,总是有些问题出现在我的脑海里.
128Could she go and buy that iPad and download the programs that she needs and start using it without help?她能去买下iPad 下载她需要的程序 然后在没有帮助的情况下开始使用它吗?
129And why is it that that scenario is so obscene?为什么那个场景如此淫秽?
130Shouldn't she be able to do that?她不该这样吗?
131My contribution to put an end to loneliness is developing solutions that would work like that.我对结束孤独的贡献是 制定这样有效的解决方案。
132Developing technology for smaller groups that takes into consideration their actual needs and capabilities.为较小的群体开发考虑到其实际需要和能力的技术。
133Technology that can foster face-to-face contact.能促进面对面接触的技术.
134My second contribution is talking about it, because loneliness, we can tackle loneliness by simply opening up a conversation.我的第二个贡献是谈论它, 因为孤独, 我们可以解决孤独 通过简单的开放谈话。
135Making sure that everyone is aware.确保每个人都知道。
136I did not understand how lonely I was.我不明白我有多孤独
137And of course, ironically, the last thing you want is to have people around you.当然,具有讽刺意味的是,你最不想的就是有人在你身边。
138You do not want to let anyone in.你不想让任何人进来。
139And I'm so far from being the only one who has felt like this.我远非是唯一一个有这种感觉的人。
140Depression is a massive issue.抑郁症是一个巨大的问题。
141But I'm 100% sure that loneliness is often at the root and always a contributor to depression.但我百分之百确信孤独常常是造成抑郁症的根源,并且总是造成抑郁症.
142Because we as humans are fundamentally built to be a part of a group.因为我们作为人类 根本上被构建为一个群体的一部分。
143We're fundamentally built to depend on others and to have others depending on us.我们根本上是靠别人而靠别人而靠我们而靠别人.
144There's nothing cool or brave or great about going through life alone.独自过着人生 没有什么很酷或勇敢或伟大的
145So please, call the friend that I know that you all have and just be bored together and then let people in.所以,请打电话给那个朋友,我知道你们都有, 只是无聊在一起,然后让人们进来。
146Because when you lean on others, you're helping them and you're helping yourself and you're actually helping our taxes.因为当你倚靠他人的时候,你帮助他们,帮助自己,实际上帮助我们的税收.
147So that was it.就这样了
148Thank you.谢谢
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0:01If I had died at 22, it would have taken weeks before anyone would have noticed.如果我在22岁的时候死了,那要等几周才会有人发现
0:09Because at 22, I was studying, I lived on my own,因为22岁时,我在学习, 我独自生活,
0:14and I'd pulled myself away from everyone without anyone really noticing.我远离了所有人 却没人注意到
0:20The next minutes will not be about me.接下来的几分钟不会是我
0:24It will, however, be about the work that I'm trying to do.然而,这将会涉及我努力完成的工作。
0:28Because two years ago, I decided to put an end to loneliness.因为两年前 我决定结束孤独
0:35The loneliness that I and my co-founders had experienced in our own lives我和我的共同创始人 在自己的生活中经历的孤独
0:39was enough for us to quit our jobs and start a company called No Isolation.足够我们辞掉工作 成立一家叫"不孤立"的公司
0:47We had no idea of what we were getting into and how big the issue really was.我们不知道我们遇到什么 问题到底有多大
0:53And I don't think that you do either.我也不认为你这样做。
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1If I had died at 22, it would have taken weeks before anyone would have noticed.如果我在22岁的时候死了,那要等几周才会有人发现
2Because at 22, I was studying, I lived on my own,因为22岁时,我在学习, 我独自生活,
3and I'd pulled myself away from everyone without anyone really noticing.我远离了所有人 却没人注意到
4The next minutes will not be about me.接下来的几分钟不会是我
5It will, however, be about the work that I'm trying to do.然而,这将会涉及我努力完成的工作。
6Because two years ago, I decided to put an end to loneliness.因为两年前 我决定结束孤独
7The loneliness that I and my co-founders had experienced in our own lives我和我的共同创始人 在自己的生活中经历的孤独
8was enough for us to quit our jobs and start a company called No Isolation.足够我们辞掉工作 成立一家叫"不孤立"的公司
9We had no idea of what we were getting into and how big the issue really was.我们不知道我们遇到什么 问题到底有多大
10And I don't think that you do either.我也不认为你这样做。
11Loneliness is not just a sad feeling that we need to get rid of孤独不仅仅是一种悲伤的感觉 我们需要摆脱
12because we want people to be slightly more happy.因为我们希望人们更快乐一点
13Loneliness is dangerous.孤独是危险的。
14People suffering from loneliness is in a constant fight-or-flight mode,孤独的人在不断的战斗或飞行中,
15a stress mode very much equal to the one I am experiencing right now.压力模式与我现在所经历的相当
16Only there's a huge difference between me experiencing this for a couple of minutes now只是现在我经历了几分钟的这种经历 有很大的不同
17and living with it for years.和它生活多年。
18These increased stress levels lead to a number of things,这些压力增加导致一些事情,
19but there are some consequences that are more severe than others.但有些后果比其他后果更严重。
20Several studies have shown that feeling lonely有几项研究表明 孤独的感觉
21results in a 29% increased risk of heart disease.导致29%的心脏病风险增加。
22Feeling lonely also increases the risk of having a stroke with 32%.孤独感也增加了中风率32%的风险。
23You might not believe it, but when it comes to heart disease,你可能不相信 但当它涉及到心脏病时
24loneliness is a bigger killer than obesity.孤独是比肥胖更大的杀手
25So if we could do our own mini-experiments, and all of you could raise your hands,所以,如果我们可以做 我们自己的小型实验, 你们可以举起你的手,
26and please keep it there until told otherwise.并且请保持它在那里,直到告诉其他。
27So think about the feeling of being all alone,想想独处的感觉
28how it is like to not have anyone you feel you can talk to or reach out to in a moment.那种感觉就像没有任何人 你可以说话 或接触。
29Now everyone who has never had that feeling can take their hands down.现在,所有从未有过这种感觉的人都能够放下双手。
30Good.不错
31So all of us have experienced loneliness,所以我们都经历了孤独
32but 16% of the Norwegian population reports that they're being haunted by loneliness every day.但16%的挪威人口报告说 他们每天都被孤独困扰
33And that's in Norway.这是在挪威。
34According to the United Nations, we're the happiest country in the world.联合国表示,我们是世界上最幸福的国家.
35And still 16% is 800,000 people in this tiny country alone16 %还是这个小国的80万人
36that feels like they have no one to talk to on a day-to-day basis.感觉他们无话可说
37And when you consider how big of a taboo loneliness actually is,当你考虑一个禁忌的孤独到底有多大时
38it gets worse because people do not willingly admit to being lonely,越来越糟糕 因为人们不愿意承认孤独
39meaning that 16 is probably too low.也就是说16岁可能太低了
40The relationship between age and loneliness is shaped like a U.年龄与孤独的关系成型为U.
41The youngest and the oldest generations are the most lonely generations.最年轻和最年长的一代是最孤独的一代.
42And while most research is focused on the seniors,虽然大部分研究都集中在老年人身上,
43the amount of lonely young people is severely underestimated.孤独青年的人数被严重低估。
44It should be no surprise to anyone here that lonely children, teenagers, and young adults对于这里的任何人 孤独的孩子,青少年, 和年轻的成年人来说,这都不奇怪
45perform worse at school, are more depressed, and experience more suicidal thoughts在学校表现更糟糕, 更沮丧, 经历更多的自杀想法
46than their socially connected peers.比他们的社交伙伴。
47And then there are children suffering from long-term illness.后有子长病.
48And with long-term illness, I mean ME and CP and cancer and heart failure,长期疾病,我是指我和CP 癌症和心脏衰竭
49all of these diagnoses.所有这些诊断。
50And they're particularly exposed to being socially isolated and lonely.而且他们特别暴露在 社会孤立和孤独中。
51And they lose their place in society with their diagnosis.并且由于他们的诊断而失去了他们在社会中的地位.
52And it's not always easy to find their way back.找到回路并不总是容易的
53I didn't realize how important this issue was until I met a woman named Anna.我不知道这个问题有多重要 直到我遇到一个叫安娜的女人
54Fourteen years before I met her, one of her twin daughters was diagnosed with a form of cancer.14年前,她的一个双胞胎女儿 被诊断患有癌症
55And Cornelia lost her life after having spent two years moving in and out of various hospitals.而柯妮莉娅在往返于各家医院的两年时间里失去了生命.
56But when Cornelia passed away, Anna looked back on the previous two years with grievance但当柯妮莉娅去世后 安娜带着怨恨回首前两年
57because the worst thing had not been the diagnosis or the treatment or the pain,因为最糟糕的不是诊断 治疗或疼痛
58but the fact that her teenage daughter became isolated from her friends and her normal life.但事实上她的十几岁的女儿 变得与朋友和正常生活隔绝
59A 13-year-old girl is a 13-year-old girl.13岁少女为13岁少女.
60And no diagnosis in the world can take away her social needs.世界上任何诊断都无法夺走她的社会需要。
61But an illness will definitely get in the way of her acting upon those needs.但疾病肯定会妨碍她满足这些需求
62So let's move on to something slightly less heavy.所以,让我们继续做一些 稍轻的重量。
63I guess that all of you have heard of Tinder.我想你们都听说过丁德
64It's a dating app.这是一个约会的应用程序。
65I have a theory that Tinder has actually done more for public health than we give them credit for.我有一个理论,Tinder在公共卫生方面 所做的比我们给他们的功劳还多。
66We could discuss it forever because despite Tinder doing the very best job they can,我们可以永远讨论它 因为尽管Tinder尽了最大的努力
67more people than ever before are single.单身的人比以往任何时候都多。
68And that is actually a huge problem because the single strongest predictor for loneliness is not your age.这实际上是一个巨大的问题 因为孤独的唯一最强的预言者 不是你的年龄。
69It is whether or not you're in a relationship.不论你是不是在交往
70As a single woman, I am four times more likely to be haunted by loneliness than women who are in a relationship.作为单身女性,我被孤独困扰的可能性是恋爱中女性的四倍.
71But the silver lining is that in this matter, I'm very lucky to be a girl但光明的线条是,在这件事情, 我很幸运成为一个女孩
72because that guy, he's ten times more likely being haunted by loneliness than his mates who are in relationships.因为那个家伙 他被孤独困扰的可能性 是他交情中的伙伴的十倍
73And yes, it is a fact that single people are more miserable than those who are hitched.是的,一个事实, 单身的人比那些被搭便车的人更悲惨。
74You would think that by 2017 we would have figured out how to properly connect people.你会认为,到2017年,我们会想出 如何正确连接人们。
75But it looks like we're getting worse at it.但看来我们越来越糟糕了
76Loneliness has become a pandemic.孤独已成为流行病。
77It does not discriminate on age or gender or borders.它不分年龄、性别或边界。
78It happens all over the world and it happens most frequently to those of us who are already vulnerable.它在世界各地发生,最经常发生在我们当中那些已经易受伤害的人身上。
79And as I said in the beginning, I don't think I can stress this enough.正如我一开始所说,我觉得我不够强调这一点。
80The constant flight or fight mode results in a 29% increased risk of heart diseases.持续飞行或战斗模式导致心脏病风险增加29%。
81That's equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes every day.这相当于每天抽15支烟。
82It is more dangerous than being an alcoholic.比酗酒更危险
83And on top of these physical risks, there's one more thing.除了这些物理风险之外 还有一件事
84Feeling lonely doubles your likelihood of getting dementia.感到孤独会使你患痴呆症的可能性加倍
85Obviously, there's an enormous individual cost in that of feeling all alone.显然,一个人感到孤独是巨大的个人代价。
86There's also an enormous public cost.还有巨大的公共成本。
87People getting sick is expensive.人们生病很昂贵。
88It is extremely expensive.这是极其昂贵的。
89And to give you a specific example of how loneliness is expensive, we can stay on dementia.给你一个具体的例子, 孤独是多么昂贵, 我们可以留在痴呆。
90Because 66% of all the money we spend on mental health care is spent on people suffering from dementia.因为我们用于精神保健的所有资金的66%都用于患有痴呆症的人.
91And loneliness doubles your risk of developing it.孤独是发展它的风险的两倍
92We're going to add one more number.我们再加一个号码
9312%。 12%。
9412% of the Norwegian population is daily smokers.挪威12%的人口每天吸烟。
9516% of us, or maybe more, are haunted by loneliness.我们16%,也许更多, 被孤独困扰。
96We know that both of them gives you an equally increased risk of heart disease and strokes.我们知道他们俩都给你增加了心脏病和中风的风险。
97So it's both extremely dangerous and one of them is even exceptionally painful.因此,它既是极其危险的,其中之一甚至特别痛苦.
98But the governments of the world is clearly focusing on only one of them.但世界各国政府显然只关注其中之一.
99But what can you really do?但你能做点什么?
100We set up taxes for cigarettes and then we ban smoking inside.我们征收香烟税 然后禁止吸烟
101It is quite obvious that we can't use the same methods for curing loneliness.很明显 我们不能用同样的方法治疗孤独
102So where do we start if we want to have an impact on a global scale?那么,如果我们想在全球范围产生影响,我们从哪里开始呢?
103Well, I started with studying almost the opposite of psychology.我开始研究心理学 几乎相反
104So I chose computer science.所以我选择了计算机科学。
105And the debate around the impact of technology on loneliness is growing.而关于技术对孤独的影响的辩论也在增加.
106Some argue that the use of technology is replacing human contact.有人争辩说,技术的使用正在取代人类的接触。
107Others argue that technology is all we need to establish new relations.其他人则认为,技术是我们建立新的关系所需要的一切。
108I think the debate lacks one key insight.我认为辩论缺乏一个关键的见解。
109Because it is not about the technology at all.因为这与技术无关。
110We could say that it is somewhat about what the technology does我们可以说,这是一些 关于技术做什么
111and somewhat about how we as consumers use technology.我们消费者如何使用技术。
112But most importantly, it's about the people who develops the technology that we use.但最重要的是,它涉及到开发我们使用的技术的人。
113They choose how it works and what it does.他们选择它的工作方式和作用。
114And different things does different things.不同的东西做不同的事情。
115And it's people who develop the stuff we use.是人们开发我们使用的东西。
116Developments in communication technology have emerged rapidly.通信技术的发展迅速出现。
117Unfortunately, technology is almost always developed to make efficient people more efficient.不幸的是,技术几乎总是被开发出来,以提高人们的效率。
118New technologies are too often built for those who are already moving fast新技术往往为那些已经快速发展的人所建立
119rather than for those who might benefit from it the most.而不是那些最能受益的人。
120And for vulnerable groups, the most important developments have failed to appear.对于弱势群体来说,最重要的事态发展没有出现。
121And I can give you one of the many perfect examples of how the tech world has left the senior generations behind.我可以举出许多完美的例子之一 说明科技界是如何把高龄的一代人抛在后面的。
122Technology-based innovations such as video conferencing have been around for years.多年来,视像会议等基于技术的革新已经出现。
123We've also known for years that video conferencing has a very positive impact on social isolation and loneliness.我们还知道,电视会议对社会孤立和孤独有着非常积极的影响。
124But yet 70%, more than two thirds of those over 80 have never even tried it.然而,在80岁以上的人口中,有三分之二以上从未尝试过。
125We know that this technology can help,我们知道这种技术可以帮助,
126but still we haven't made it available for those who could benefit from it the most.但是我们还没有给那些能从中得益的人提供
127I imagine that many of you in the audience have parents or even grandparents我想在座的很多人 都有父母甚至祖父母
128that fits into the description seniors that cannot use existing technology.符合不能利用现有技术的老年人的描述。
129And then some of you might want to jump up and say, my mom or dad, but my mom can use an iPad.然后你们有些人可能想跳起来说, 我妈妈或爸爸, 但我妈妈可以使用iPad。
130And to statements like that, it's always some questions that pops into my mind.对于这样的说法,总是有些问题出现在我的脑海里.
131Could she go and buy that iPad and download the programs that she needs and start using it without help?她能去买下iPad 下载她需要的程序 然后在没有帮助的情况下开始使用它吗?
132And why is it that that scenario is so obscene?为什么那个场景如此淫秽?
133Shouldn't she be able to do that?她不该这样吗?
134My contribution to put an end to loneliness is developing solutions that would work like that.我对结束孤独的贡献是 制定这样有效的解决方案。
135Developing technology for smaller groups that takes into consideration their actual needs and capabilities.为较小的群体开发考虑到其实际需要和能力的技术。
136Technology that can foster face-to-face contact.能促进面对面接触的技术.
137My second contribution is talking about it because loneliness,我的第二个贡献是谈论它 因为孤独,
138we can tackle loneliness by simply opening up a conversation, making sure that everyone is aware.我们可以解决孤独问题 只要开口谈话 确保每个人都知道
139I did not understand how lonely I was.我不明白我有多孤独
140And of course, ironically, the last thing you want is to have people around you.当然,具有讽刺意味的是,你最不想的就是有人在你身边。
141You do not want to let anyone in.你不想让任何人进来。
142And I'm so far from being the only one who has felt like this.我远非是唯一一个有这种感觉的人。
143Depression is a massive issue.抑郁症是一个巨大的问题。
144But I'm 100% sure that loneliness is often at the root and always a contributor to depression.但我百分之百确信孤独常常是造成抑郁症的根源,并且总是造成抑郁症.
145Because we as humans are fundamentally built to be a part of a group.因为我们作为人类 根本上被构建为一个群体的一部分。
146We're fundamentally built to depend on others and to have others depending on us.我们根本上是靠别人而靠别人而靠我们而靠别人.
147There's nothing cool or brave or great about going through life alone.独自过着人生 没有什么很酷或勇敢或伟大的
148So please call the friend that I know that you all have and just be bored together and then let people in.所以,请打电话给那个朋友,我知道你们都有, 只是无聊在一起,然后让人进来。
149Because when you lean on others, you're helping them and you're helping yourself and you're actually helping our taxes.因为当你倚靠他人的时候,你帮助他们,帮助自己,实际上帮助我们的税收.
150So that was it.就这样了
151Thank you.谢谢
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0:01If I had died at 22, it would have taken weeks before anyone would have noticed.如果我在22岁的时候死了,那要等几周才会有人发现
0:09Because at 22, I was studying, I lived on my own, and I'd pulled myself away from everyone,因为22岁时,我在学习, 我靠自己生活, 我把自己从每个人身边拉开,
0:17without anyone really noticing.没有人真正注意到。
0:20The next minutes will not be about me.接下来的几分钟不会是我
0:24It will, however, be about the work that I'm trying to do.然而,这将会涉及我努力完成的工作。
0:28Because two years ago, I decided to put an end to loneliness.因为两年前 我决定结束孤独
0:35The loneliness that I and my co-founders had experienced in our own lives我和我的共同创始人 在自己的生活中经历的孤独
0:39was enough for us to quit our jobs and start a company called No Isolation.足够我们辞掉工作 成立一家叫"不孤立"的公司
0:47We had no idea of what we were getting into and how big the issue really was.我们不知道我们遇到什么 问题到底有多大
0:53And I don't think that you do either.我也不认为你这样做。
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1If I had died at 22, it would have taken weeks before anyone would have noticed.如果我在22岁的时候死了,那要等几周才会有人发现
2Because at 22, I was studying, I lived on my own, and I'd pulled myself away from everyone,因为22岁时,我在学习, 我靠自己生活, 我把自己从每个人身边拉开,
3without anyone really noticing.没有人真正注意到。
4The next minutes will not be about me.接下来的几分钟不会是我
5It will, however, be about the work that I'm trying to do.然而,这将会涉及我努力完成的工作。
6Because two years ago, I decided to put an end to loneliness.因为两年前 我决定结束孤独
7The loneliness that I and my co-founders had experienced in our own lives我和我的共同创始人 在自己的生活中经历的孤独
8was enough for us to quit our jobs and start a company called No Isolation.足够我们辞掉工作 成立一家叫"不孤立"的公司
9We had no idea of what we were getting into and how big the issue really was.我们不知道我们遇到什么 问题到底有多大
10And I don't think that you do either.我也不认为你这样做。
11Loneliness is not just a sad feeling that we need to get rid of孤独不仅仅是一种悲伤的感觉 我们需要摆脱
12because we want people to be slightly more happy.因为我们希望人们更快乐一点
13Loneliness is dangerous.孤独是危险的。
14People suffering from loneliness is in a constant fight-or-flight mode,孤独的人在不断的战斗或飞行中,
15a stress mode very much equal to the one I am experiencing right now.压力模式与我现在所经历的相当
16Only there's a huge difference between me experiencing this for a couple of minutes now只是现在我经历了几分钟的这种经历 有很大的不同
17and living with it for years.和它生活多年。
18These increased stress levels lead to a number of things,这些压力增加导致一些事情,
19but there are some consequences that are more severe than others.但有些后果比其他后果更严重。
20Several studies have shown that feeling lonely有几项研究表明 孤独的感觉
21results in a 29% increased risk of heart disease.导致29%的心脏病风险增加。
22Feeling lonely also increases the risk of having a stroke with 32%.孤独感也增加了中风率32%的风险。
23You might not believe it, but when it comes to heart disease,你可能不相信 但当它涉及到心脏病时
24loneliness is a bigger killer than obesity.孤独是比肥胖更大的杀手
25So if we could do our own mini-experiments, and all of you could raise your hands,所以,如果我们可以做 我们自己的小型实验, 你们可以举起你的手,
26and please keep it there until told otherwise.并且请保持它在那里,直到告诉其他。
27So think about the feeling of being all alone,想想独处的感觉
28how it is like to not have anyone you feel you can talk to or reach out to in a moment.那种感觉就像没有任何人 你可以说话 或接触。
29Now everyone who has never had that feeling can take their hands down.现在,所有从未有过这种感觉的人都能够放下双手。
30Good.不错
31So all of us have experienced loneliness,所以我们都经历了孤独
32but 16% of the Norwegian population reports that they're being haunted by loneliness every day.但16%的挪威人口报告说 他们每天都被孤独困扰
33And that's in Norway.这是在挪威。
34According to the United Nations, we're the happiest country in the world.联合国表示,我们是世界上最幸福的国家.
35And still 16% is 800,000 people in this tiny country alone16 %还是这个小国的80万人
36that feels like they have no one to talk to on a day-to-day basis.感觉他们无话可说
37And when you consider how big of a taboo loneliness actually is,当你考虑一个禁忌的孤独到底有多大时
38it gets worse because people do not willingly admit to being lonely,越来越糟糕 因为人们不愿意承认孤独
39meaning that 16 is probably too low.也就是说16岁可能太低了
40The relationship between age and loneliness is shaped like a U.年龄与孤独的关系成型为U.
41The youngest and the oldest generations are the most lonely generations.最年轻和最年长的一代是最孤独的一代.
42And while most research is focused on the seniors,虽然大部分研究都集中在老年人身上,
43the amount of lonely young people is severely underestimated.孤独青年的人数被严重低估。
44It should be no surprise to anyone here that lonely children, teenagers, and young adults对于这里的任何人 孤独的孩子,青少年, 和年轻的成年人来说,这都不奇怪
45perform worse at school, are more depressed, and experience more suicidal thoughts在学校表现更糟糕, 更沮丧, 经历更多的自杀想法
46than their socially connected peers.比他们的社交伙伴。
47And then there are children suffering from long-term illness.后有子长病.
48And with long-term illness, I mean ME and CP and cancer and heart failure,长期疾病,我是指我和CP 癌症和心脏衰竭
49all of these diagnoses, and they're particularly exposed to being socially isolated and lonely.所有这些诊断, 他们特别暴露 在社会孤立和孤独。
50And they lose their place in society with their diagnosis.并且由于他们的诊断而失去了他们在社会中的地位.
51And it's not always easy to find their way back.找到回路并不总是容易的
52I didn't realize how important this issue was until I met a woman named Anna.我不知道这个问题有多重要 直到我遇到一个叫安娜的女人
53Fourteen years before I met her, one of her twin daughters was diagnosed with a form of cancer.14年前,她的一个双胞胎女儿 被诊断患有癌症
54And Cornelia lost her life after having spent two years moving in and out of various hospitals.而柯妮莉娅在往返于各家医院的两年时间里失去了生命.
55But when Cornelia passed away, Anna looked back on the previous two years with grievance但当柯妮莉娅去世后 安娜带着怨恨回首前两年
56because the worst thing had not been the diagnosis or the treatment or the pain,因为最糟糕的不是诊断 治疗或疼痛
57but the fact that her teenage daughter became isolated from her friends and her normal life.但事实上她的十几岁的女儿 变得与朋友和正常生活隔绝
58A 13-year-old girl is a 13-year-old girl,一个13岁的女孩是一个13岁的女孩,
59and no diagnosis in the world can take away her social needs.世界上任何诊断都无法夺走她的社交需求
60But an illness will definitely get in the way of her acting upon those needs.但疾病肯定会妨碍她满足这些需求
61So let's move on to something slightly less heavy.所以,让我们继续做一些 稍轻的重量。
62I guess that all of you have heard of Tinder.我想你们都听说过丁德
63It's a dating app.这是一个约会的应用程序。
64I have a theory that Tinder has actually done more for public health than we give them credit for.我有一个理论,Tinder在公共卫生方面 所做的比我们给他们的功劳还多。
65We could discuss it forever, because despite Tinder doing the very best job they can,我们可以永远讨论, 因为尽管Tinder尽了最大的努力,
66more people than ever before are single.单身的人比以往任何时候都多。
67And that is actually a huge problem,这其实是一个大问题,
68because the single strongest predictor for loneliness is not your age.因为孤独最强的预言者 不是你的年龄
69It is whether or not you're in a relationship.不论你是不是在交往
70As a single woman, I am four times more likely to be haunted by loneliness than women who are in a relationship.作为单身女性,我被孤独困扰的可能性是恋爱中女性的四倍.
71But the silver lining is that in this matter, I'm very lucky to be a girl,但幸运的是,在这个事情中, 我是一个女孩非常幸运,
72because that guy is ten times more likely being haunted by loneliness than his mates who are in relationships.因为那个家伙被孤独困扰的可能性 是他的伴侣的十倍
73And yes, it is a fact that single people are more miserable than those who are hitched.是的,一个事实, 单身的人比那些被搭便车的人更悲惨。
74You would think that by 2017 we would have figured out how to properly connect people,你会认为到2017年,我们会想出 如何正确连接人们,
75but it looks like we're getting worse at it.但看起来我们越来越糟糕了
76Loneliness has become a pandemic.孤独已成为流行病。
77It does not discriminate on age or gender or borders.它不分年龄、性别或边界。
78It happens all over the world, and it happens most frequently to those of us who are already vulnerable.它在世界各地发生,最经常发生在我们中那些已经易受伤害的人身上。
79And as I said in the beginning, I don't think I can stress this enough.正如我一开始所说,我觉得我不够强调这一点。
80The constant flight or fight mode results in a 29% increased risk of heart diseases.持续飞行或战斗模式导致心脏病风险增加29%。
81That's equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes every day.这相当于每天抽15支烟。
82It is more dangerous than being an alcoholic.比酗酒更危险
83And on top of these physical risks, there's one more thing.除了这些物理风险之外 还有一件事
84Feeling lonely doubles your likelihood of getting dementia.感到孤独会使你患痴呆症的可能性加倍
85Obviously, there's an enormous individual cost in that of feeling all alone.显然,一个人感到孤独是巨大的个人代价。
86There's also an enormous public cost.还有巨大的公共成本。
87People getting sick is expensive.人们生病很昂贵。
88It is extremely expensive.这是极其昂贵的。
89And to give you a specific example of how loneliness is expensive, we can stay on dementia.给你一个具体的例子, 孤独是多么昂贵, 我们可以留在痴呆。
90Because 66% of all the money we spend on mental health care is spent on people suffering from dementia.因为我们用于精神保健的所有资金的66%都用于患有痴呆症的人.
91And loneliness doubles your risk of developing it.孤独是发展它的风险的两倍
92We're going to add one more number.我们再加一个号码
9312%。 12%。
9412% of the Norwegian population is daily smokers.挪威12%的人口每天吸烟。
9516% of us, or maybe more, are haunted by loneliness.我们16%,也许更多, 被孤独困扰。
96We know that both of them gives you an equally increased risk of heart disease and strokes.我们知道他们俩都给你增加了心脏病和中风的风险。
97So it's both extremely dangerous, and one of them is even exceptionally painful.所以两者都非常危险,其中之一甚至特别痛苦.
98But the governments of the world is clearly focusing on only one of them.但世界各国政府显然只关注其中之一.
99But what can you really do?但你能做点什么?
100We set up taxes for cigarettes, and then we ban smoking inside.我们为香烟征税 然后禁止在里面吸烟
101It is quite obvious that we can't use the same methods for curing loneliness.很明显 我们不能用同样的方法治疗孤独
102So where do we start if we want to have an impact on a global scale?那么,如果我们想在全球范围产生影响,我们从哪里开始呢?
103Well, I started with studying almost the opposite of psychology, so I chose computer science.我开始研究心理学,所以选择了计算机科学。
104And the debate around the impact of technology on loneliness is growing.而关于技术对孤独的影响的辩论也在增加.
105Some argue that the use of technology is replacing human contact.有人争辩说,技术的使用正在取代人类的接触。
106Others argue that technology is all we need to establish new relations.其他人则认为,技术是我们建立新的关系所需要的一切。
107I think the debate lacks one key insight, because it is not about the technology at all.我认为辩论缺乏一个关键见解,因为它根本不涉及技术。
108We could say that it is somewhat about what the technology does,我们可以说,这有点 关于技术的作用,
109and somewhat about how we as consumers use technology.我们消费者如何使用技术。
110But most importantly, it's about the people who develop the technology that we use.但最重要的是,这是关于开发我们使用的技术的人。
111They choose how it works and what it does.他们选择它的工作方式和作用。
112And different things do different things.不同的东西做不同的事情。
113And it's people who develop the stuff we use.是人们开发我们使用的东西。
114Developments in communication technology have emerged rapidly.通信技术的发展迅速出现。
115Unfortunately, technology is almost always developed to make efficient people more efficient.不幸的是,技术几乎总是被开发出来,以提高人们的效率。
116New technologies are too often built for those who are already moving fast,新技术往往为那些已经快速发展的人所建立,
117rather than for those who might benefit from it the most.而不是那些最能受益的人。
118And for vulnerable groups, the most important developments have failed to appear.对于弱势群体来说,最重要的事态发展没有出现。
119And I can give you one of the many perfect examples of how the tech world has left the senior generations behind.我可以举出许多完美的例子之一 说明科技界是如何把高龄的一代人抛在后面的。
120Technology-based innovations such as video conferencing have been around for years.多年来,视像会议等基于技术的革新已经出现。
121We've also known for years that video conferencing has a very positive impact on social isolation and loneliness.我们还知道,电视会议对社会孤立和孤独有着非常积极的影响。
122But yet 70%, more than two-thirds of those over 80 have never even tried it.但70%以上,80岁以上的人中有三分之二以上从未尝试过。
123We know that this technology can help, but still we haven't made it available for those who could benefit from it the most.我们知道这种技术可以有所帮助, 但我们还没有为那些能够从中获益最多的人提供它。
124I imagine that many of you in the audience have parents or even grandparents that fits into the description我想你们观众中有很多人 有父母,甚至祖父母 符合描述
125seniors that cannot use existing technology.无法使用现有技术的老年人。
126And then some of you might want to jump up and say, my mom or dad, but my mom can use an iPad.然后你们有些人可能想跳起来说, 我妈妈或爸爸, 但我妈妈可以使用iPad。
127And to statements like that, it's always some questions that pops into my mind.对于这样的说法,总是有些问题出现在我的脑海里.
128Could she go and buy that iPad and download the programs that she needs and start using it without help?她能去买下iPad 下载她需要的程序 然后在没有帮助的情况下开始使用它吗?
129And why is it that that scenario is so obscene?为什么那个场景如此淫秽?
130Shouldn't she be able to do that?她不该这样吗?
131My contribution to put an end to loneliness is developing solutions that would work like that.我对结束孤独的贡献是 制定这样有效的解决方案。
132Developing technology for smaller groups that takes into consideration their actual needs and capabilities.为较小的群体开发考虑到其实际需要和能力的技术。
133Technology that can foster face-to-face contact.能促进面对面接触的技术.
134My second contribution is talking about it, because loneliness, we can tackle loneliness by simply opening up a conversation.我的第二个贡献是谈论它, 因为孤独, 我们可以解决孤独 通过简单的开放谈话。
135Making sure that everyone is aware.确保每个人都知道。
136I did not understand how lonely I was.我不明白我有多孤独
137And of course, ironically, the last thing you want is to have people around you.当然,具有讽刺意味的是,你最不想的就是有人在你身边。
138You do not want to let anyone in.你不想让任何人进来。
139And I'm so far from being the only one who has felt like this.我远非是唯一一个有这种感觉的人。
140Depression is a massive issue.抑郁症是一个巨大的问题。
141But I'm 100% sure that loneliness is often at the root and always a contributor to depression.但我百分之百确信孤独常常是造成抑郁症的根源,并且总是造成抑郁症.
142Because we as humans are fundamentally built to be a part of a group.因为我们作为人类 根本上被构建为一个群体的一部分。
143We're fundamentally built to depend on others and to have others depending on us.我们根本上是靠别人而靠别人而靠我们而靠别人.
144There's nothing cool or brave or great about going through life alone.独自过着人生 没有什么很酷或勇敢或伟大的
145So please, call the friend that I know that you all have and just be bored together and then let people in.所以,请打电话给那个朋友,我知道你们都有, 只是无聊在一起,然后让人们进来。
146Because when you lean on others, you're helping them and you're helping yourself and you're actually helping our taxes.因为当你倚靠他人的时候,你帮助他们,帮助自己,实际上帮助我们的税收.
147So that was it.就这样了
148Thank you.谢谢
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