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如何设定你真正能够完成的目标【TED演讲】

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P1如何设定你真正能够完成的目标【TED演讲】 中英双语10:42
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P1 · 如何设定你真正能够完成的目标【TED演讲】 p01 中英双语 (P1)

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0:01Have you ever set a goal for yourself that just seemed completely out of reach,你曾经为自己设定过目标吗?
0:08no matter how hard you tried?不管你有多努力吗?
0:11I had a goal run in a marathon.我有一个目标跑在马拉松。
0:15Don't ask me why.别问我为什么
0:16It was a true bucket list item, something you think you'll do one day,这是一个真正的桶列表项目, 一些你认为你会做的,
0:22but secretly you think you might kick the bucket on without making it happen.但秘密的你认为 你可能会踢桶 不让它发生。
0:28No matter how hard I trained,不管我训练得有多辛苦
0:32no matter how many times I declared my goal to my friends and family,不管我多少次向朋友和家人宣示我的目标
0:38it just seemed impossible.这似乎是不可能的。
0:40I even wrote the word marathon down on a piece of paper我甚至把马拉松写在纸上
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1Have you ever set a goal for yourself that just seemed completely out of reach,你曾经为自己设定过目标吗?
2no matter how hard you tried?不管你有多努力吗?
3I had a goal run in a marathon.我有一个目标跑在马拉松。
4Don't ask me why.别问我为什么
5It was a true bucket list item, something you think you'll do one day,这是一个真正的桶列表项目, 一些你认为你会做的,
6but secretly you think you might kick the bucket on without making it happen.但秘密的你认为 你可能会踢桶 不让它发生。
7No matter how hard I trained,不管我训练得有多辛苦
8no matter how many times I declared my goal to my friends and family,不管我多少次向朋友和家人宣示我的目标
9it just seemed impossible.这似乎是不可能的。
10I even wrote the word marathon down on a piece of paper我甚至把马拉松写在纸上
11and carried it around in my wallet like some kind of magical talisman.像神奇的护身符一样 藏在我的钱包里
12Spoiler alert, didn't make a difference.破坏者警报,没有产生什么作用。
13I could never seem to run further than eight miles.我跑不过八英里
14And I was starting to tell myself that maybe some people aren't meant to run marathons,我开始告诉自己 也许有些人不是来跑马拉松的
15and I was one of them.我是他们的一员。
16That all changed one summer when I was at a backyard barbecue这都改变了一个夏天 当我在后院烧烤
17talking to a good buddy of mine, Bill,跟我的好朋友比尔说话
18who just casually mentioned he was training for a marathon.他只是随便提到他在训练马拉松
19I almost choked on my burger.我几乎窒息在我的汉堡。
20You, I said, are training for a marathon?你,我说,是马拉松训练?
21Speaking frankly, Bill wasn't exactly the poster child for fitness.坦白地说,比尔不是 真正的海报孩子 健身。
22There was nothing wrong with him,他没什么问题
23but if you walked into that party and somebody asked you to pick out a marathon runner,但如果你走进派对 有人要你挑一个马拉松跑者
24he wouldn't have been your first choice or your second or your tenth.他不会是你的第一选择 也不是你的第二或第十选择
25But there he was telling me he was running, training for a marathon like it was no big deal.但是他告诉我他正在跑步, 训练马拉松好像没什么大不了的。
26It's true, he said.他说是真的
27I ran 11 miles this morning.我今天早上跑11英里了,我跑11英里了
28I was blown away and a bit embarrassed.我被吹走,有点尴尬。
29I told him, I said, like, I can never run further than eight miles.我告诉他,我说,就像, 我永远跑不远超过8英里。
30And he shrugged and he said, I just ran slow enough so that when I stopped,他说我跑得够慢 所以当我停下来时
31I wasn't out of breath about 12 minutes a mile.我每英里12分钟都没有喘气
32And that's when I realized what I had been doing wrong.那时我意识到自己做错了什么
33I had been killing myself trying to run eight-minute miles,我试图跑八分钟就自杀了
34and I could never get past eight miles total.我无法通过八英里的总。
35And the conversation forced me to confront a critical question.谈话迫使我面对一个关键的问题。
36Which was more important, running a marathon in a specific time or finishing a marathon at all?哪个更重要呢 在特定时间跑马拉松 或者完成马拉松?
37Have you ever had a sour taste in your mouth when it comes to goal setting你曾经有过酸味 在你的嘴 在球场设置
38because you failed to achieve your goal too many times?因为你多次未能实现你的目标?
39When that happens enough, you stop setting goals altogether足够的时候,你就不再设定目标
40because it feels like you're setting yourself up for failure.因为感觉你陷害自己失败了
41I invite you to stop just setting goals我邀请你停止仅仅设定目标
42and start paying attention to the behavioral changes you need to make to get there.并开始注意你需要做出的行为改变 才能到达那里。
43By understanding the key activities necessary通过了解必要的关键活动
44and committing to them as part of the goal setting process,并承诺作为目标制定进程的一部分,
45you set yourself up for success.你为自己谋取成功
46Studies have shown about 70% of us actually set goals,研究表明,大约70%的我们实际上制定了目标,
47but only 8% actually achieve them.但实际上只有8%实现了
48Think about that, only 8%.考虑一下,只有8%。
49And this discrepancy comes from a fundamental misunderstanding而这种差异来自于一个根本的误解
50around what goal achievement entails.环绕目标实现意味着什么。
51People confuse setting goals with achieving them,人们把设定目标与实现目标混为一谈,
52forgetting the critical role that behavioral change plays in the process.忘记了行为改变 在这个过程中的关键作用。
53In business, I see leaders all the time spend hours crafting the perfect mission statement,在生意上,我看到领导者们 总是花几个小时 来编写完美的任务说明,
54making sure everybody in their organization understands what their goals are.确保组织中的每个人都了解他们的目标是什么。
55But then they fail to help their team members understand但是他们没能帮助团队成员理解
56what they need to do differently to achieve that goal.为了实现这一目标,它们需要做一些不同的事情。
57The result?结果?
58Disengagement, frustration, and ultimately failure.脱离接触 沮丧 最终失败
59It's like somebody asking you to bake a cake and then not giving you the recipe.就像有人叫你烤蛋糕 然后不给你食谱
60No cake, no party.没有蛋糕,没有聚会。
61The same thing happens in our personal lives more often than we'd like to admit.我们个人生活中也经常发生同样的事情,我们不愿承认.
62You want to lose weight,你想减肥,
63but cutting calories isn't something you want to think about.但切卡路里不是你想考虑的
64You dream of writing a book,你梦想着写一本书
65but you can't seem to sit down at a computer every day.但你不能每天坐在电脑上
66Or you want to save for retirement,或者你想为退休存钱
67but you avoid looking at your daily spending habits.但你不看 日常开支习惯。
68In each case, you focus on the end goal在每种情况下,你都专注于最终目标
69without considering the behaviors and actions necessary to achieve it.而不考虑实现该目标的行为和行动。
70Now don't get me wrong, goal setting is great.别误会 球场设置很好
71It's the first step.这是第一步。
72The SMART Goal framework, specific, measurable, attainable,SMART 目标框架,具体、可计量、可实现、可实现、
73results-based, time-bound,基于成果、有时限、
74is a solid way to make sure your goals aren't just vague dreams.保证你的目标不仅仅是模糊的梦想
75But let's be real.但当实相.
76Having a SMART Goal doesn't mean you're going to be successful.获得SMART进球并不意味着你会成功.
77You can have the smartest goal in the world,你能有世界上最聪明的目标,
78but if you don't change your behavior,但是如果你不改变你的行为
79it's like having a GPS that you never turn on.这就像一个GPS 你从来没有打开。
80You're not going to get to where you want to go.汝等往向无量劫处.
81And that was the problem with my approach to marathon training.这就是我马拉松训练方法的问题。
82I was so focused on the end goal of running a marathon,我非常专注于跑马拉松的终点目标
83I didn't consider the changes in my behavior needed to accomplish that.我没有考虑我的行为变化 完成这一点。
84I was running too fast, burning out too quickly,我跑得太快,烧得太快
85and never making any progress.并且从来没有取得任何进展。
86The key to successful goal achievement成功实现目标的关键
87lies in putting your goals through what I like to call the acid test.将你的目标 放在我喜欢的酸性测试。
88Sounds tough, like it involves acid,听起来很困难,就像它涉及到酸,
89but I can assure you it's entirely safe.但我可以向你保证,这是完全安全的。
90Not only can you do it at home, you should do it at home,你不仅可以在家里做 你应该在家里做
91you can do it anywhere, and you don't need any protective gear.你可以在任何地方做, 你不需要任何保护设备。
92The goal-setting acid test is very simple and very practical,目标设定酸测试非常简单,非常实用,
93and it revolves around two critical questions.它围绕着两个关键问题。
94First, are you able to do what's needed to get what you want?首先,你能做你想要的东西吗?
95Second, are you willing to do what it takes to get what you want?第二,你愿意不惜一切代价得到你想要的吗?
96These two very simple, very basic questions serve as a reality check,这两个非常简单,非常基本的问题 作为现实的检查,
97forcing us to evaluate both our capabilities and our level of commitment迫使我们评价我们的能力和承诺程度
98before you embark on pursuing a goal.在你开始追求目标之前
99When you can confidently answer yes to both questions,当你能自信地回答两个问题时
100you identify a goal that's not just desirable,你确定一个目标 不只是可取的,
101but one that you're going to be able to achieve.但有一个你会实现的。
102And this process filters out any unrealistic aspirations这个过程过滤出任何不切实际的愿望
103and focuses your energy on goals that align with both your abilities and your dedication.集中精力实现与你的能力和献身精神一致的目标。
104Putting your goals to the acid test helps you go beyond aspirations把目标放进酸性测试 有助于你超越愿望
105and into the realm of concrete, obtainable objectives that you're willing to work towards.并进入你愿意为之奋斗的具体,可实现的目标领域.
106Now remember, you have to know what your key activities are,现在记住,你必须知道你的关键活动是什么,
107how often they must be done, and here's a critical part that most people forget.这是大多数人忘记的关键部分。
108These are activities that must be done by you, not anyone else.这些都是你必须完成的活动,而不是其他人。
109If you're not willing to commit, it's time to adjust your goal.如果你不愿意承诺,是时候调整你的目标了.
110Two months after that backyard breakthrough, I did run the Chicago Marathon.在那个后院突破两个月后 我确实经营了芝加哥马拉松
111Actually, Bill and I ran it together.其实,比尔和我 运行在一起。
112We paced each other and crossed the finish line together.我们一起穿越终点线
113Thank you.谢谢
114My time was four hours and ten minutes.我的时间是4小时10分钟。
115It wasn't the sub-four hours I was hoping for.这不是我期望的4小时
116But you know what?但你知道吗?
117I finished.我结束了。
118I ran every single mile, something I didn't think was possible我跑的每一英里, 的东西我认为不可能
119when I was stuck at that eight-mile barrier.当我被困在那八英里的屏障上
120Isn't it amazing how such a small change in mindset can make all the difference?如此微小的心态改变能改变一切,难道不令人惊讶吗?
121What stays with me is the feeling I had of crossing the finish line,留在我身边的是我穿过终点线的感觉
122the realization that I had done something I didn't think was possible only a few months earlier.我意识到我做了一些我认为不可能的事 就在几个月前
123It was indescribable, and it all came down to that simple but critical insight,这是无法形容的, 所有这一切 来到一个简单但关键的见解,
124running slower and more consistently.运行较慢,更一致。
125Can you see how powerful it is to focus on the right behavior rather than just the end goal?你能看到关注正确的行为 而不是仅仅追求最终目标有多强大吗?
126Let me end by asking you to do a little exercise with me.最后,我要请你与我一起练习一下。
127I want you to think of a goal you have for yourself.我要你想想你自己的目标
128It doesn't have to be running a marathon.它不必跑马拉松。
129It doesn't have to be something you dedicate your life to.你不必把生命奉献给别人
130It doesn't have to be losing 50 pounds.不须减五十斤.
131Maybe it's losing five.或有减五.
132It could be something that just occurred to you.这可能是你刚刚想到的
133Or maybe something you've been putting off for years.或者你已经拖延多年了
134When you think about it, does it excite you or does it make you feel uneasy?当你想到它, 它让你兴奋 还是让你觉得不舒服?
135If it makes you feel uneasy, it's time to examine your key activities.如果这让你感觉不舒服,是时候检查你的关键活动了.
136Do you know what they are?你知道他们是什么吗?
137Do you know how often they need to be done?你知道需要多久做一次吗?
138If you're not willing to commit, adjust your goal in a way that means you'll see progress.如果你不愿意承诺, 调整你的目标的方式 意味着你会看到进步。
139Remember, it's about progress, not about perfection.记住,这是进步,不是完美。
140Be honest with yourself and put in the hours,说实话,把时间,
141whether it's your health, your finances, or your relationships.不管是你的健康,你的财务,还是你的关系。
142The key is focusing on the right behaviors, not just the end goal.关键在于注重正确的行为,而不仅仅是最终目标.
143And that's my call to action.这是我的行动呼吁。
144Pick one goal and understand what it takes to achieve that.选择一个目标,并理解实现这个目标需要什么。
145If you're not willing to commit, adjust your goal until you find one you can work for consistently.如果你不愿意承诺, 调整你的目标 直到你找到一个你可以工作 一致。
146Don't just be smart about your goals.别傻了
147Put them to the acid test and understand what it takes to get there.让他们接受酸性测试 了解到那里需要什么
148That's the way to go the distance and cross your finish line.这就是走远路 越过终点线的方法
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时间英文中文
0:01Have you ever set a goal for yourself that just seemed completely out of reach,你曾经为自己设定过目标吗?
0:08no matter how hard you tried?不管你有多努力吗?
0:11I had a goal run in a marathon.我有一个目标跑在马拉松。
0:15Don't ask me why.别问我为什么
0:16It was a true bucket list item, something you think you'll do one day,这是一个真正的桶列表项目, 一些你认为你会做的,
0:22but secretly you think you might kick the bucket on without making it happen.但秘密的你认为 你可能会踢桶 不让它发生。
0:28No matter how hard I trained,不管我训练得有多辛苦
0:32no matter how many times I declared my goal to my friends and family,不管我多少次向朋友和家人宣示我的目标
0:38it just seemed impossible.这似乎是不可能的。
0:40I even wrote the word marathon down on a piece of paper我甚至把马拉松写在纸上
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1Have you ever set a goal for yourself that just seemed completely out of reach,你曾经为自己设定过目标吗?
2no matter how hard you tried?不管你有多努力吗?
3I had a goal run in a marathon.我有一个目标跑在马拉松。
4Don't ask me why.别问我为什么
5It was a true bucket list item, something you think you'll do one day,这是一个真正的桶列表项目, 一些你认为你会做的,
6but secretly you think you might kick the bucket on without making it happen.但秘密的你认为 你可能会踢桶 不让它发生。
7No matter how hard I trained,不管我训练得有多辛苦
8no matter how many times I declared my goal to my friends and family,不管我多少次向朋友和家人宣示我的目标
9it just seemed impossible.这似乎是不可能的。
10I even wrote the word marathon down on a piece of paper我甚至把马拉松写在纸上
11and carried it around in my wallet like some kind of magical talisman.像神奇的护身符一样 藏在我的钱包里
12Spoiler alert, didn't make a difference.破坏者警报,没有产生什么作用。
13I could never seem to run further than eight miles.我跑不过八英里
14And I was starting to tell myself that maybe some people aren't meant to run marathons,我开始告诉自己 也许有些人不是来跑马拉松的
15and I was one of them.我是他们的一员。
16That all changed one summer when I was at a backyard barbecue这都改变了一个夏天 当我在后院烧烤
17talking to a good buddy of mine, Bill,跟我的好朋友比尔说话
18who just casually mentioned he was training for a marathon.他只是随便提到他在训练马拉松
19I almost choked on my burger.我几乎窒息在我的汉堡。
20You, I said, are training for a marathon?你,我说,是马拉松训练?
21Speaking frankly, Bill wasn't exactly the poster child for fitness.坦白地说,比尔不是 真正的海报孩子 健身。
22There was nothing wrong with him,他没什么问题
23but if you walked into that party and somebody asked you to pick out a marathon runner,但如果你走进派对 有人要你挑一个马拉松跑者
24he wouldn't have been your first choice or your second or your tenth.他不会是你的第一选择 也不是你的第二或第十选择
25But there he was telling me he was running, training for a marathon like it was no big deal.但是他告诉我他正在跑步, 训练马拉松好像没什么大不了的。
26It's true, he said.他说是真的
27I ran 11 miles this morning.我今天早上跑11英里了,我跑11英里了
28I was blown away and a bit embarrassed.我被吹走,有点尴尬。
29I told him, I said, like, I can never run further than eight miles.我告诉他,我说,就像, 我永远跑不远超过8英里。
30And he shrugged and he said, I just ran slow enough so that when I stopped,他说我跑得够慢 所以当我停下来时
31I wasn't out of breath about 12 minutes a mile.我每英里12分钟都没有喘气
32And that's when I realized what I had been doing wrong.那时我意识到自己做错了什么
33I had been killing myself trying to run eight-minute miles,我试图跑八分钟就自杀了
34and I could never get past eight miles total.我无法通过八英里的总。
35And the conversation forced me to confront a critical question.谈话迫使我面对一个关键的问题。
36Which was more important, running a marathon in a specific time or finishing a marathon at all?哪个更重要呢 在特定时间跑马拉松 或者完成马拉松?
37Have you ever had a sour taste in your mouth when it comes to goal setting你曾经有过酸味 在你的嘴 在球场设置
38because you failed to achieve your goal too many times?因为你多次未能实现你的目标?
39When that happens enough, you stop setting goals altogether足够的时候,你就不再设定目标
40because it feels like you're setting yourself up for failure.因为感觉你陷害自己失败了
41I invite you to stop just setting goals我邀请你停止仅仅设定目标
42and start paying attention to the behavioral changes you need to make to get there.并开始注意你需要做出的行为改变 才能到达那里。
43By understanding the key activities necessary通过了解必要的关键活动
44and committing to them as part of the goal setting process,并承诺作为目标制定进程的一部分,
45you set yourself up for success.你为自己谋取成功
46Studies have shown about 70% of us actually set goals,研究表明,大约70%的我们实际上制定了目标,
47but only 8% actually achieve them.但实际上只有8%实现了
48Think about that, only 8%.考虑一下,只有8%。
49And this discrepancy comes from a fundamental misunderstanding而这种差异来自于一个根本的误解
50around what goal achievement entails.环绕目标实现意味着什么。
51People confuse setting goals with achieving them,人们把设定目标与实现目标混为一谈,
52forgetting the critical role that behavioral change plays in the process.忘记了行为改变 在这个过程中的关键作用。
53In business, I see leaders all the time spend hours crafting the perfect mission statement,在生意上,我看到领导者们 总是花几个小时 来编写完美的任务说明,
54making sure everybody in their organization understands what their goals are.确保组织中的每个人都了解他们的目标是什么。
55But then they fail to help their team members understand但是他们没能帮助团队成员理解
56what they need to do differently to achieve that goal.为了实现这一目标,它们需要做一些不同的事情。
57The result?结果?
58Disengagement, frustration, and ultimately failure.脱离接触 沮丧 最终失败
59It's like somebody asking you to bake a cake and then not giving you the recipe.就像有人叫你烤蛋糕 然后不给你食谱
60No cake, no party.没有蛋糕,没有聚会。
61The same thing happens in our personal lives more often than we'd like to admit.我们个人生活中也经常发生同样的事情,我们不愿承认.
62You want to lose weight,你想减肥,
63but cutting calories isn't something you want to think about.但切卡路里不是你想考虑的
64You dream of writing a book,你梦想着写一本书
65but you can't seem to sit down at a computer every day.但你不能每天坐在电脑上
66Or you want to save for retirement,或者你想为退休存钱
67but you avoid looking at your daily spending habits.但你不看 日常开支习惯。
68In each case, you focus on the end goal在每种情况下,你都专注于最终目标
69without considering the behaviors and actions necessary to achieve it.而不考虑实现该目标的行为和行动。
70Now don't get me wrong, goal setting is great.别误会 球场设置很好
71It's the first step.这是第一步。
72The SMART Goal framework, specific, measurable, attainable,SMART 目标框架,具体、可计量、可实现、可实现、
73results-based, time-bound,基于成果、有时限、
74is a solid way to make sure your goals aren't just vague dreams.保证你的目标不仅仅是模糊的梦想
75But let's be real.但当实相.
76Having a SMART Goal doesn't mean you're going to be successful.获得SMART进球并不意味着你会成功.
77You can have the smartest goal in the world,你能有世界上最聪明的目标,
78but if you don't change your behavior,但是如果你不改变你的行为
79it's like having a GPS that you never turn on.这就像一个GPS 你从来没有打开。
80You're not going to get to where you want to go.汝等往向无量劫处.
81And that was the problem with my approach to marathon training.这就是我马拉松训练方法的问题。
82I was so focused on the end goal of running a marathon,我非常专注于跑马拉松的终点目标
83I didn't consider the changes in my behavior needed to accomplish that.我没有考虑我的行为变化 完成这一点。
84I was running too fast, burning out too quickly,我跑得太快,烧得太快
85and never making any progress.并且从来没有取得任何进展。
86The key to successful goal achievement成功实现目标的关键
87lies in putting your goals through what I like to call the acid test.将你的目标 放在我喜欢的酸性测试。
88Sounds tough, like it involves acid,听起来很困难,就像它涉及到酸,
89but I can assure you it's entirely safe.但我可以向你保证,这是完全安全的。
90Not only can you do it at home, you should do it at home,你不仅可以在家里做 你应该在家里做
91you can do it anywhere, and you don't need any protective gear.你可以在任何地方做, 你不需要任何保护设备。
92The goal-setting acid test is very simple and very practical,目标设定酸测试非常简单,非常实用,
93and it revolves around two critical questions.它围绕着两个关键问题。
94First, are you able to do what's needed to get what you want?首先,你能做你想要的东西吗?
95Second, are you willing to do what it takes to get what you want?第二,你愿意不惜一切代价得到你想要的吗?
96These two very simple, very basic questions serve as a reality check,这两个非常简单,非常基本的问题 作为现实的检查,
97forcing us to evaluate both our capabilities and our level of commitment迫使我们评价我们的能力和承诺程度
98before you embark on pursuing a goal.在你开始追求目标之前
99When you can confidently answer yes to both questions,当你能自信地回答两个问题时
100you identify a goal that's not just desirable,你确定一个目标 不只是可取的,
101but one that you're going to be able to achieve.但有一个你会实现的。
102And this process filters out any unrealistic aspirations这个过程过滤出任何不切实际的愿望
103and focuses your energy on goals that align with both your abilities and your dedication.集中精力实现与你的能力和献身精神一致的目标。
104Putting your goals to the acid test helps you go beyond aspirations把目标放进酸性测试 有助于你超越愿望
105and into the realm of concrete, obtainable objectives that you're willing to work towards.并进入你愿意为之奋斗的具体,可实现的目标领域.
106Now remember, you have to know what your key activities are,现在记住,你必须知道你的关键活动是什么,
107how often they must be done, and here's a critical part that most people forget.这是大多数人忘记的关键部分。
108These are activities that must be done by you, not anyone else.这些都是你必须完成的活动,而不是其他人。
109If you're not willing to commit, it's time to adjust your goal.如果你不愿意承诺,是时候调整你的目标了.
110Two months after that backyard breakthrough, I did run the Chicago Marathon.在那个后院突破两个月后 我确实经营了芝加哥马拉松
111Actually, Bill and I ran it together.其实,比尔和我 运行在一起。
112We paced each other and crossed the finish line together.我们一起穿越终点线
113Thank you.谢谢
114My time was four hours and ten minutes.我的时间是4小时10分钟。
115It wasn't the sub-four hours I was hoping for.这不是我期望的4小时
116But you know what?但你知道吗?
117I finished.我结束了。
118I ran every single mile, something I didn't think was possible我跑的每一英里, 的东西我认为不可能
119when I was stuck at that eight-mile barrier.当我被困在那八英里的屏障上
120Isn't it amazing how such a small change in mindset can make all the difference?如此微小的心态改变能改变一切,难道不令人惊讶吗?
121What stays with me is the feeling I had of crossing the finish line,留在我身边的是我穿过终点线的感觉
122the realization that I had done something I didn't think was possible only a few months earlier.我意识到我做了一些我认为不可能的事 就在几个月前
123It was indescribable, and it all came down to that simple but critical insight,这是无法形容的, 所有这一切 来到一个简单但关键的见解,
124running slower and more consistently.运行较慢,更一致。
125Can you see how powerful it is to focus on the right behavior rather than just the end goal?你能看到关注正确的行为 而不是仅仅追求最终目标有多强大吗?
126Let me end by asking you to do a little exercise with me.最后,我要请你与我一起练习一下。
127I want you to think of a goal you have for yourself.我要你想想你自己的目标
128It doesn't have to be running a marathon.它不必跑马拉松。
129It doesn't have to be something you dedicate your life to.你不必把生命奉献给别人
130It doesn't have to be losing 50 pounds.不须减五十斤.
131Maybe it's losing five.或有减五.
132It could be something that just occurred to you.这可能是你刚刚想到的
133Or maybe something you've been putting off for years.或者你已经拖延多年了
134When you think about it, does it excite you or does it make you feel uneasy?当你想到它, 它让你兴奋 还是让你觉得不舒服?
135If it makes you feel uneasy, it's time to examine your key activities.如果这让你感觉不舒服,是时候检查你的关键活动了.
136Do you know what they are?你知道他们是什么吗?
137Do you know how often they need to be done?你知道需要多久做一次吗?
138If you're not willing to commit, adjust your goal in a way that means you'll see progress.如果你不愿意承诺, 调整你的目标的方式 意味着你会看到进步。
139Remember, it's about progress, not about perfection.记住,这是进步,不是完美。
140Be honest with yourself and put in the hours,说实话,把时间,
141whether it's your health, your finances, or your relationships.不管是你的健康,你的财务,还是你的关系。
142The key is focusing on the right behaviors, not just the end goal.关键在于注重正确的行为,而不仅仅是最终目标.
143And that's my call to action.这是我的行动呼吁。
144Pick one goal and understand what it takes to achieve that.选择一个目标,并理解实现这个目标需要什么。
145If you're not willing to commit, adjust your goal until you find one you can work for consistently.如果你不愿意承诺, 调整你的目标 直到你找到一个你可以工作 一致。
146Don't just be smart about your goals.别傻了
147Put them to the acid test and understand what it takes to get there.让他们接受酸性测试 了解到那里需要什么
148That's the way to go the distance and cross your finish line.这就是走远路 越过终点线的方法
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0:01Have you ever set a goal for yourself that just seemed completely out of reach,你曾经为自己设定过目标吗?
0:08no matter how hard you tried?不管你有多努力吗?
0:11I had a goal run in a marathon.我有一个目标跑在马拉松。
0:15Don't ask me why.别问我为什么
0:16It was a true bucket list item, something you think you'll do one day,这是一个真正的桶列表项目, 一些你认为你会做的,
0:22but secretly you think you might kick the bucket on without making it happen.但秘密的你认为 你可能会踢桶 不让它发生。
0:28No matter how hard I trained,不管我训练得有多辛苦
0:32no matter how many times I declared my goal to my friends and family,不管我多少次向朋友和家人宣示我的目标
0:38it just seemed impossible.这似乎是不可能的。
0:40I even wrote the word marathon down on a piece of paper我甚至把马拉松写在纸上
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1Have you ever set a goal for yourself that just seemed completely out of reach,你曾经为自己设定过目标吗?
2no matter how hard you tried?不管你有多努力吗?
3I had a goal run in a marathon.我有一个目标跑在马拉松。
4Don't ask me why.别问我为什么
5It was a true bucket list item, something you think you'll do one day,这是一个真正的桶列表项目, 一些你认为你会做的,
6but secretly you think you might kick the bucket on without making it happen.但秘密的你认为 你可能会踢桶 不让它发生。
7No matter how hard I trained,不管我训练得有多辛苦
8no matter how many times I declared my goal to my friends and family,不管我多少次向朋友和家人宣示我的目标
9it just seemed impossible.这似乎是不可能的。
10I even wrote the word marathon down on a piece of paper我甚至把马拉松写在纸上
11and carried it around in my wallet like some kind of magical talisman.像神奇的护身符一样 藏在我的钱包里
12Spoiler alert, didn't make a difference.破坏者警报,没有产生什么作用。
13I could never seem to run further than eight miles.我跑不过八英里
14And I was starting to tell myself that maybe some people aren't meant to run marathons,我开始告诉自己 也许有些人不是来跑马拉松的
15and I was one of them.我是他们的一员。
16That all changed one summer when I was at a backyard barbecue这都改变了一个夏天 当我在后院烧烤
17talking to a good buddy of mine, Bill,跟我的好朋友比尔说话
18who just casually mentioned he was training for a marathon.他只是随便提到他在训练马拉松
19I almost choked on my burger.我几乎窒息在我的汉堡。
20You, I said, are training for a marathon?你,我说,是马拉松训练?
21Speaking frankly, Bill wasn't exactly the poster child for fitness.坦白地说,比尔不是 真正的海报孩子 健身。
22There was nothing wrong with him,他没什么问题
23but if you walked into that party and somebody asked you to pick out a marathon runner,但如果你走进派对 有人要你挑一个马拉松跑者
24he wouldn't have been your first choice or your second or your tenth.他不会是你的第一选择 也不是你的第二或第十选择
25But there he was telling me he was running, training for a marathon like it was no big deal.但是他告诉我他正在跑步, 训练马拉松好像没什么大不了的。
26It's true, he said.他说是真的
27I ran 11 miles this morning.我今天早上跑11英里了,我跑11英里了
28I was blown away and a bit embarrassed.我被吹走,有点尴尬。
29I told him, I said, like, I can never run further than eight miles.我告诉他,我说,就像, 我永远跑不远超过8英里。
30And he shrugged and he said, I just ran slow enough他说我跑得够慢
31so that when I stopped, I wasn't out of breath about 12 minutes a mile.所以当我停下来时 我每英里12分钟都没有喘气
32And that's when I realized what I had been doing wrong.那时我意识到自己做错了什么
33I had been killing myself trying to run eight-minute miles,我试图跑八分钟就自杀了
34and I could never get past eight miles total.我无法通过八英里的总。
35And the conversation forced me to confront a critical question.谈话迫使我面对一个关键的问题。
36Which was more important, running a marathon in a specific time这更重要,在具体时间跑马拉松
37or finishing a marathon at all?还是完成了马拉松?
38Have you ever had a sour taste in your mouth when it comes to goal setting你曾经有过酸味 在你的嘴 在球场设置
39because you failed to achieve your goal too many times?因为你多次未能实现你的目标?
40When that happens enough, you stop setting goals altogether足够的时候,你就不再设定目标
41because it feels like you're setting yourself up for failure.因为感觉你陷害自己失败了
42I invite you to stop just setting goals我邀请你停止仅仅设定目标
43and start paying attention to the behavioral changes并开始关注行为变化
44you need to make to get there.你需要让到那里。
45By understanding the key activities necessary通过了解必要的关键活动
46and committing to them as part of the goal setting process,并承诺作为目标制定进程的一部分,
47you set yourself up for success.你为自己谋取成功
48Studies have shown about 70% of us actually set goals,研究表明,大约70%的我们实际上制定了目标,
49but only 8% actually achieve them.但实际上只有8%实现了
50Think about that, only 8%.考虑一下,只有8%。
51And this discrepancy comes from a fundamental misunderstanding而这种差异来自于一个根本的误解
52around what goal achievement entails.环绕目标实现意味着什么。
53People confuse setting goals with achieving them,人们把设定目标与实现目标混为一谈,
54forgetting the critical role that behavioral change plays in the process.忘记了行为改变 在这个过程中的关键作用。
55In business, I see leaders all the time spend hours在生意上,我经常看到领袖们
56crafting the perfect mission statement,编写完美的任务说明,
57making sure everybody in their organization understands what their goals are.确保组织中的每个人都了解他们的目标是什么。
58But then they fail to help their team members understand但是他们没能帮助团队成员理解
59what they need to do differently to achieve that goal.为了实现这一目标,它们需要做一些不同的事情。
60The result?结果?
61Disengagement, frustration, and ultimately failure.脱离接触 沮丧 最终失败
62It's like somebody asking you to bake a cake就像有人叫你烤蛋糕一样
63and then not giving you the recipe.然后不给你食谱。
64No cake, no party.没有蛋糕,没有聚会。
65The same thing happens in our personal lives同样的事情发生在我们的个人生活中
66more often than we'd like to admit.比我们想承认的更频繁
67You want to lose weight,你想减肥,
68but cutting calories isn't something you want to think about.但切卡路里不是你想考虑的
69You dream of writing a book,你梦想着写一本书
70but you can't seem to sit down at a computer every day.但你不能每天坐在电脑上
71Or you want to save for retirement,或者你想为退休存钱
72but you avoid looking at your daily spending habits.但你不看 日常开支习惯。
73In each case, you focus on the end goal在每种情况下,你都专注于最终目标
74without considering the behaviors and actions necessary to achieve it.而不考虑实现该目标的行为和行动。
75Now don't get me wrong, goal setting is great.别误会 球场设置很好
76It's the first step.这是第一步。
77The SMART Goal framework, specific, measurable, attainable,SMART 目标框架,具体、可计量、可实现、可实现、
78results-based, time-bound,基于成果、有时限、
79is a solid way to make sure your goals aren't just vague dreams.保证你的目标不仅仅是模糊的梦想
80But let's be real.但当实相.
81Having a SMART Goal doesn't mean you're going to be successful.获得SMART进球并不意味着你会成功.
82You can have the smartest goal in the world,你能有世界上最聪明的目标,
83but if you don't change your behavior,但是如果你不改变你的行为
84it's like having a GPS that you never turn on.这就像一个GPS 你从来没有打开。
85You're not going to get to where you want to go.汝等往向无量劫处.
86And that was the problem with my approach to marathon training.这就是我马拉松训练方法的问题。
87I was so focused on the end goal of running a marathon,我非常专注于跑马拉松的终点目标
88I didn't consider the changes in my behavior needed to accomplish that.我没有考虑我的行为变化 完成这一点。
89I was running too fast, burning out too quickly,我跑得太快,烧得太快
90and never making any progress.并且从来没有取得任何进展。
91The key to successful goal achievement成功实现目标的关键
92lies in putting your goals through what I like to call the acid test.将你的目标 放在我喜欢的酸性测试。
93Sounds tough, like it involves acid,听起来很困难,就像它涉及到酸,
94but I can assure you it's entirely safe.但我可以向你保证,这是完全安全的。
95Not only can you do it at home, you should do it at home,你不仅可以在家里做 你应该在家里做
96you can do it anywhere, and you don't need any protective gear.你可以在任何地方做, 你不需要任何保护设备。
97The goal-setting acid test is very simple and very practical,目标设定酸测试非常简单,非常实用,
98and it revolves around two critical questions.它围绕着两个关键问题。
99First, are you able to do what's needed to get what you want?首先,你能做你想要的东西吗?
100Second, are you willing to do what it takes to get what you want?第二,你愿意不惜一切代价得到你想要的吗?
101These two very simple, very basic questions serve as a reality check,这两个非常简单,非常基本的问题 作为现实的检查,
102forcing us to evaluate both our capabilities and our level of commitment迫使我们评价我们的能力和承诺程度
103before you embark on pursuing a goal.在你开始追求目标之前
104When you can confidently answer yes to both questions,当你能自信地回答两个问题时
105you identify a goal that's not just desirable,你确定一个目标 不只是可取的,
106but one that you're going to be able to achieve.但有一个你会实现的。
107And this process filters out any unrealistic aspirations这个过程过滤出任何不切实际的愿望
108and focuses your energy on goals that align with both your abilities and your dedication.集中精力实现与你的能力和献身精神一致的目标。
109Putting your goals to the acid test helps you go beyond aspirations把目标放进酸性测试 有助于你超越愿望
110and into the realm of concrete, obtainable objectives that you're willing to work towards.并进入你愿意为之奋斗的具体,可实现的目标领域.
111Now remember, you have to know what your key activities are,现在记住,你必须知道你的关键活动是什么,
112how often they must be done, and here's a critical part that most people forget.这是大多数人忘记的关键部分。
113These are activities that must be done by you, not anyone else.这些都是你必须完成的活动,而不是其他人。
114If you're not willing to commit, it's time to adjust your goal.如果你不愿意承诺,是时候调整你的目标了.
115Two months after that backyard breakthrough, I did run the Chicago Marathon.在那个后院突破两个月后 我确实经营了芝加哥马拉松
116Actually, Bill and I ran it together.其实,比尔和我 运行在一起。
117We paced each other and crossed the finish line together.我们一起穿越终点线
118Thank you.谢谢
119My time was four hours and ten minutes.我的时间是4小时10分钟。
120It wasn't the sub-four hours I was hoping for.这不是我期望的4小时
121But you know what?但你知道吗?
122I finished.我结束了。
123I ran every single mile, something I didn't think was possible我跑的每一英里, 的东西我认为不可能
124when I was stuck at that eight-mile barrier.当我被困在那八英里的屏障上
125Isn't it amazing how such a small change in mindset can make all the difference?如此微小的心态改变能改变一切,难道不令人惊讶吗?
126What stays with me is the feeling I had of crossing the finish line.留在我身边的是我对穿越终点线的感觉
127The realization that I had done something I didn't think was possible only a few months earlier.我意识到我做了一些我认为不可能的事 仅仅几个月前才可能
128It was indescribable, and it all came down to that simple but critical insight,这是无法形容的, 所有这一切 来到一个简单但关键的见解,
129running slower and more consistently.运行较慢,更一致。
130Can you see how powerful it is to focus on the right behavior rather than just the end goal?你能看到关注正确的行为 而不是仅仅追求最终目标有多强大吗?
131Let me end by asking you to do a little exercise with me.最后,我要请你与我一起练习一下。
132I want you to think of a goal you have for yourself.我要你想想你自己的目标
133It doesn't have to be running a marathon.它不必跑马拉松。
134It doesn't have to be something you dedicate your life to.你不必把生命奉献给别人
135It doesn't have to be losing 50 pounds.不须减五十斤.
136Maybe it's losing five.或有减五.
137It could be something that just occurred to you.这可能是你刚刚想到的
138Or maybe something you've been putting off for years.或者你已经拖延多年了
139When you think about it, does it excite you or does it make you feel uneasy?当你想到它, 它让你兴奋 还是让你觉得不舒服?
140If it makes you feel uneasy, it's time to examine your key activities.如果这让你感觉不舒服,是时候检查你的关键活动了.
141Do you know what they are?你知道他们是什么吗?
142Do you know how often they need to be done?你知道需要多久做一次吗?
143If you're not willing to commit, adjust your goal in a way that means you'll see progress.如果你不愿意承诺, 调整你的目标的方式 意味着你会看到进步。
144Remember, it's about progress, not about perfection.记住,这是进步,不是完美。
145Be honest with yourself and put in the hours,说实话,把时间,
146whether it's your health, your finances, or your relationships.不管是你的健康,你的财务,还是你的关系。
147The key is focusing on the right behaviors, not just the end goal.关键在于注重正确的行为,而不仅仅是最终目标.
148And that's my call to action.这是我的行动呼吁。
149Pick one goal and understand what it takes to achieve that.选择一个目标,并理解实现这个目标需要什么。
150If you're not willing to commit, adjust your goal until you find one you can work for consistently.如果你不愿意承诺, 调整你的目标 直到你找到一个你可以工作 一致。
151Don't just be smart about your goals.别傻了
152Put them to the acid test and understand what it takes to get there.让他们接受酸性测试 了解到那里需要什么
153That's the way to go the distance and cross your finish line.这就是走远路 越过终点线的方法
154Thank you.谢谢
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