【TED演讲】我被性贩卖多年，妓院就隐藏在众目睽睽之下
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:11 | notice I'm holding cue cards. | 注意我持有提示卡。 |
| 0:13 | I'm holding cue cards because they're going to help | 我拿着提示卡 因为他们要帮忙 |
| 0:15 | me to focus on my message while at the same time shielding me from painful | 我将专心于我的信息 同时保护我不受痛苦 |
| 0:21 | memories and intrusive thoughts. | 记忆和侵入性的想法。 |
| 0:25 | Because my story isn't an easy one to tell. | 因为我的故事不容易说 |
| 0:29 | In | 内 |
| 0:29 | fact, every time I tell my story I'm retraumatized. | 事实上,每当我讲我的故事时, 我都会受到重创。 |
| 0:34 | But if sharing my story | 但是,如果分享我的故事 |
| 0:36 | means that one more girl has a chance at freedom, then it's worth it for me. | 意味着一个女孩有 自由的机会, 那么它值得我。 |
| 0:44 | Growing up in my family wasn't easy. | 在我家长大不容易 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | notice I'm holding cue cards. | 注意我持有提示卡。 |
| 2 | I'm holding cue cards because they're going to help | 我拿着提示卡 因为他们要帮忙 |
| 3 | me to focus on my message while at the same time shielding me from painful | 我将专心于我的信息 同时保护我不受痛苦 |
| 4 | memories and intrusive thoughts. | 记忆和侵入性的想法。 |
| 5 | Because my story isn't an easy one to tell. | 因为我的故事不容易说 |
| 6 | In | 内 |
| 7 | fact, every time I tell my story I'm retraumatized. | 事实上,每当我讲我的故事时, 我都会受到重创。 |
| 8 | But if sharing my story | 但是,如果分享我的故事 |
| 9 | means that one more girl has a chance at freedom, then it's worth it for me. | 意味着一个女孩有 自由的机会, 那么它值得我。 |
| 10 | Growing up in my family wasn't easy. | 在我家长大不容易 |
| 11 | Mental health problems and abuse can | 心理健康问题和虐待 |
| 12 | destabilize a family. | 破坏一个家庭的稳定。 |
| 13 | But abuse doesn't just exist in a vacuum. | 但是虐待不只是存在于真空中. |
| 14 | It doesn't just | 这不只是 |
| 15 | start or stop in one individual's life. | 在一个人的生活中开始或停止。 |
| 16 | It permeates every action and activity | 它渗透到每一个行动和活动中 |
| 17 | of their being. | 他们的存在。 |
| 18 | Mental health problems and abuse led to neglect. | 精神健康问题和虐待导致忽视。 |
| 19 | And neglect left me | 和疏忽离开我 |
| 20 | on the streets of Scarborough, a very young girl. | 在斯卡伯勒的街道上 一个非常年轻的女孩 |
| 21 | I distinctly recall going | 我清楚地记得去 |
| 22 | back to school. | 回到学校。 |
| 23 | Remember each year the teacher would ask us, write down what you | 记得每年老师会问我们,写下你 |
| 24 | did that summer. | 那个夏天做的 |
| 25 | I was so ashamed. | 我很惭愧。 |
| 26 | I was paralyzed. | 我瘫痪了。 |
| 27 | I didn't go to summer camp. | 我没有去夏令营。 |
| 28 | No, | 没有 |
| 29 | I didn't go to the cottage. | 我没有去小屋。 |
| 30 | I was the kid that played outside all day long. | 我就是那个整天在外面玩的孩子 |
| 31 | There | 那边 |
| 32 | was no regular structure. | 没有正常的结构。 |
| 33 | There was no routine for most anything. | 大部分事情都没有例行公事 |
| 34 | One summer I | 一个夏天 |
| 35 | was raped by a stranger. | 被陌生人强奸了 |
| 36 | Another abused and degraded by the neighborhood boys. | 另一个被邻里男孩虐待和贬低。 |
| 37 | I | 一、导 言 |
| 38 | was always in fight or flight mode. | 总是在战斗或飞行模式。 |
| 39 | It seemed like danger was lurking around | 好像危险潜伏在周围 |
| 40 | every corner. | 每个角落。 |
| 41 | What I learned that summer was how to remain hypervigilant, how to | 我学到的夏天是如何保持 超兴奋,如何 |
| 42 | avoid attack, something that no young girl should ever have to learn. | 避免攻击 女孩不该学的东西 |
| 43 | But it | 不过 |
| 44 | didn't stop with the neighborhood boys. | 没有停止与邻里男孩。 |
| 45 | I would later be abused at the hands of a | 以后我会被虐待 在一个 |
| 46 | multi-generational pedophile. | 多代恋童癖. |
| 47 | And it was his words that kept me trapped. | 是他的话把我困住了 |
| 48 | When he | 当他 |
| 49 | said, your parents won't love you anymore if you tell on me. | 说,你父母不会再爱你了 如果你告诉我。 |
| 50 | In my isolated | 在我的孤独中 |
| 51 | environment, I believed him. | 环境,我相信他。 |
| 52 | And my behaviors started to reflect the | 我的行为开始反映 |
| 53 | environment that I lived in. | 我生活的环境。 |
| 54 | I don't remember a time back then when my body | 我不记得有一次我的身体 |
| 55 | ever felt like my own. | 感觉就像我自己一样 |
| 56 | At 17, I started moving from club to club. | 17岁开始从俱乐部搬到俱乐部. |
| 57 | I first started | 我先开始的 |
| 58 | stripping. | 脱衣舞 |
| 59 | Then, later, I worked for a smut magazine where I would meet some of | 后来,我又在杂志上工作 在那里,我会遇到一些 |
| 60 | the most dangerous people I've ever encountered. | 我见过最危险的人 |
| 61 | Still, I was on this never | 不过,我从来没有参与过这件事 |
| 62 | ending quest to have some form of agency over my own body. | 结束对我身体的某种代理的追求 |
| 63 | A source of power I had | 我拥有的力量来源 |
| 64 | never had before. | 从来没有过。 |
| 65 | One day, my phone rang. | 有一天 我的电话响了 |
| 66 | I was looking at my gas gauge, sitting on | 我看着我的油表,坐着 |
| 67 | the floor, empty. | 地板,空的。 |
| 68 | It was my old coworker from the magazine company. | 是我杂志公司的老同事 |
| 69 | He called me | 他打电话给我 |
| 70 | to tell me he was running Toronto's largest massage parlor. | 告诉我他是在经营多伦多最大的按摩院 |
| 71 | And he wanted me | 他却想要我 |
| 72 | to come and join his stable. | 来加入他的马厩 |
| 73 | The word stable didn't even give me pause. | 稳定这个词甚至没有让我暂停。 |
| 74 | Well, on | 开始 |
| 75 | the outside, it looked like a normal business, except it wasn't. | 外面,它看起来像一个正常的生意, 除了它不是。 |
| 76 | This massage | 这个按摩 |
| 77 | parlor had 10 rooms, and they were always busy. | 客厅有10间房 他们总是很忙 |
| 78 | There were between 40 to 60 women | 有40至60名妇女 |
| 79 | and girls on rotation in this spa. | 和女孩轮流在这个温泉。 |
| 80 | A massage was between 40 and 50 dollars. | 按摩在40到50美元之间 |
| 81 | We'd get a 10 dollar commission if you didn't have a fine. | 如果你没有罚款 我们会得到10美元的佣金 |
| 82 | And you could have a | 你可以有一个 |
| 83 | fine for just about anything. | 随便什么都行 |
| 84 | Being late, talking back, or not having a perfectly | 迟到,回话,或者没有完美的 |
| 85 | primped body. | 纯体. |
| 86 | It was expected that the girls could earn considerably more money | 女孩们可以赚更多的钱 |
| 87 | by doing extras. | 通过做额外的。 |
| 88 | And by doing extras, I am talking about some of the most | 并且通过做额外, 我指的是一些最 |
| 89 | unimaginable and degrading acts. | 不可想象和有辱人格的行为。 |
| 90 | Police raids, they occurred in these places. | 警察突袭了这些地方。 |
| 91 | But | 不过 |
| 92 | no police officer, no bylaw official ever offered me help. | 没有警察,没有地方官员 曾经提供我帮助。 |
| 93 | No one ever said, | 没人说过 |
| 94 | hey, is there somewhere else you'd rather be? | 嘿,你还想去别的地方吗? |
| 95 | Or I know somebody you can call. | 或者我知道有人你可以打电话。 |
| 96 | Can I | 可以吗? |
| 97 | connect you to? | 联系你? |
| 98 | And this would be my life for the next nearly nine years. | 这将会是我接下来的近九年的生活。 |
| 99 | Maybe | 也许 |
| 100 | you're listening to my story, and you're thinking, how foolish is this girl? | 你在听我的故事 你在想 这个女孩有多蠢? |
| 101 | But I | 不过 |
| 102 | wasn't foolish. | 这不是愚蠢。 |
| 103 | I was vulnerable. | 我是脆弱的。 |
| 104 | I was naive. | 我当时很天真 |
| 105 | And I was a perfect target. | 我是一个完美的目标。 |
| 106 | I | 一、导 言 |
| 107 | didn't have a sense of belonging. | 没有归属感。 |
| 108 | I didn't feel wanted or valued for anything | 我不觉得有人想要 或重视任何东西 |
| 109 | other than my body. | 除了我的身体以外,还有其他的 |
| 110 | I had started to deceive myself. | 我开始欺骗自己。 |
| 111 | This is my choice. | 这是我的选择。 |
| 112 | I'm | и琌 |
| 113 | making this money. | 赚这些钱。 |
| 114 | But in hindsight, there wasn't much choice involved at all. | 但事后看来,没有太多的选择。 |
| 115 | This wasn't work. | 这不是工作。 |
| 116 | It was trafficking. | 这是贩卖。 |
| 117 | I was told how to dress, who to have sex | 有人告诉我怎么穿衣服 谁要做爱 |
| 118 | with, where to live, everything. | 与,何处住,一切。 |
| 119 | I felt scared almost all the time. | 我几乎总是感到害怕。 |
| 120 | The man who | 那个 |
| 121 | recruited me, he manipulated me into thinking and believing that he was my | 招募我,他操纵我 思考和相信,他是我的 |
| 122 | protector, my boyfriend. | 保护者,我的男朋友。 |
| 123 | Except he wasn't. | 除了他没有。 |
| 124 | He was my trafficker, and I was little | 他是我的贩子,我还很小 |
| 125 | more than his property. | 超过他的财产。 |
| 126 | Over time, he made me a manager, made me. | 随着时间的推移,他让我做经理,让我做经理. |
| 127 | This was not | 这不是 |
| 128 | an act of saving me. | 拯救我的行为 |
| 129 | This was not a promotion. | 这不是晋升。 |
| 130 | This was him trying to build | 这是他试图建造 |
| 131 | his status and grow his power. | 他的地位和力量增长。 |
| 132 | On paper, he ran a licensed body rub parlor. | 纸上说,他经营着一家有执照的摩擦店。 |
| 133 | This | 这个 |
| 134 | allowed him to look like a legitimate businessman. | 允许他看起来像一个合法的商人。 |
| 135 | This license allows you to | 这个执照允许你 |
| 136 | or stimulate any muscle in the human body. | 或刺激人体的任何肌肉。 |
| 137 | Officially, these words don't mean | 正式来说,这些词不是 |
| 138 | that sex is on the menu. | 菜单上有性爱 |
| 139 | But in my experience, and that of thousands of | 但根据我的经验 和成千上万 |
| 140 | others suggests differently. | 其他人建议不同。 |
| 141 | Somewhere between the letter of the law, the | 在法律的文字之间 |
| 142 | predatory practices of massage parlor owners and operators, the willingness | 按摩店老板和经营者的掠夺性做法、意愿 |
| 143 | for police to look the other way. | 让警察另眼相看 |
| 144 | Our city has created the licensed brothel | 我们的城市创建了特许妓院 |
| 145 | system. | 系统。 |
| 146 | A massage parlor keeps the schedule, manages all of the advertising | 按摩院会安排时间 管理所有的广告 |
| 147 | and fields all of the calls, freeing up a trafficker to look for another victim. | 释放一个贩子 寻找另一个受害者 |
| 148 | Buyers, they don't have to go to a seedy motel. | 买家们,他们不用去烂旅馆 |
| 149 | Massage parlors and holistic | 按摩室和整体 |
| 150 | centers, the ones on the way to and from your home and work. | 中心,那些往返你家和工作的路上。 |
| 151 | They provide a | 他们提供 |
| 152 | facade of acceptability, safety and option on a woman's part. | 妇女可以接受、安全和选择的表面。 |
| 153 | But even worse, | 但更惨的是, |
| 154 | the fact that all of this happens inside of a licensed system means that we're | 这一切发生在许可系统之内 意味着我们 |
| 155 | a man's right to buy a living, breathing human being. | 人有权买活,呼吸的人。 |
| 156 | That's what we're talking about. | 师便打曰. |
| 157 | This is what sex trafficking looks like in Canada. | 这就是性交易在加拿大的样子。 |
| 158 | It is the brothel hidden in | 这是妓院藏在 |
| 159 | plain sight, where women are trapped and many enslaved. | 明目张胆,妇女被困在那里,许多被奴役。 |
| 160 | And here all of us, all of | 在这里,我们所有人,所有人 |
| 161 | us are deceived into believing that what's happening is a woman's choice. | 我们被欺骗相信 正在发生的是女人的选择 |
| 162 | You | 你们 |
| 163 | see, our cities license these parlors and holistic centers and in their point of | 看,我们的城市 许可这些客厅 和整体中心 在他们的角度 |
| 164 | view, they're not officially granting a license for a brothel, but they're well | 看,他们没有正式 颁发妓院执照,但他们很好 |
| 165 | aware of what's happening behind closed doors. | 知一切如来秘密现前. |
| 166 | Not all massage centers are like | 不是所有的按摩中心都喜欢 |
| 167 | this. | 这个 |
| 168 | No. | 没有 |
| 169 | Legitimate owners, they're not open until 4 a.m. | 合法业主,到凌晨4点才开放. |
| 170 | They don't advertise | 他们不做广告 |
| 171 | their staff in scantily clad clothing on escort websites. | 他们的员工在护航网站上的衣物很少。 |
| 172 | So how are these types | 这些类型怎么样? |
| 173 | of massage parlors, how are they able to thrive? | 按摩院,他们怎么才能兴旺? |
| 174 | Here in Canada, each | 在加拿大,每个 |
| 175 | municipality has the power and control to grant the licenses for their area. | 市政当局有权并有权为所在地区发放许可证。 |
| 176 | The | 那个 |
| 177 | higher levels of government, they know that these problems exist, yet they take | 他们知道,这些问题是存在的,但是他们需要 |
| 178 | no responsibility by saying that they don't make the decisions the | 没有责任说他们不做决定 |
| 179 | municipalities do. | 市政府确实如此。 |
| 180 | Even one of our more celebrated and successful politicians | 即使是我们最受赞誉和成功的政治家之一 |
| 181 | was found inside a massage parlor with no negative impacts to his career. | 在按摩室里被发现 对他的事业没有负面影响 |
| 182 | It's | 这是 |
| 183 | as if we're saying that we're okay with this, but I refuse to believe that. | 好像我们在说我们同意 但我不相信 |
| 184 | I | 一、导 言 |
| 185 | simply don't. | 只不过不要。 |
| 186 | I was in a meeting with the most high senior officials from | 我和来自纽约的高级官员会面 |
| 187 | municipal licensing. | 市政许可. |
| 188 | I specifically asked, I said, you guys know that this isn't | 我特别问, 我说, 你们知道这不是 |
| 189 | just massage, right? | 只是按摩,对不对? |
| 190 | Their response? | 他们的反应? |
| 191 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 192 | We know that these are just fronts for | 我们知道这些只是... |
| 193 | brothels. | 妓院 |
| 194 | Everyone knows about this problem, yet no one is taking the lead | 人人都知道这个问题,但没人带头 |
| 195 | to solve it. | 解决它。 |
| 196 | I eventually escaped my circumstances. | 我最终逃过一劫 |
| 197 | I literally slept for | 我真的睡着了 |
| 198 | three days straight. | 3天直线。 |
| 199 | It was my soul that hurt for where there was no hospital. | 我的灵魂为没有医院而痛苦 |
| 200 | Discovering my faith in a supportive community guided me to seek counseling | 发现我对支援社区的信心 引导我寻求咨询 |
| 201 | where my journey to recovery began. | 我恢复的旅程开始了 |
| 202 | Because you see, getting out is one | 因为你看到, 走出是一个 |
| 203 | thing, but staying out, that's just as hard. | 但别出去,那也很难 |
| 204 | With this understanding, I started | 有了这种理解 我开始 |
| 205 | Bridge North. | 桥北. |
| 206 | I want to be a part of the solution. | 我想成为解决方案的一部分。 |
| 207 | I want to help end sex | 我想帮助结束性爱 |
| 208 | trafficking in Canada. | 加拿大境内的贩卖人口问题。 |
| 209 | We offer services to women. | 我们向妇女提供服务。 |
| 210 | They'll contact us for peer | 他们会联系我们找同伴 |
| 211 | mentorship and support, medical care, food assistances, many other services as | 辅导和支助、医疗、粮食援助、许多其他服务 |
| 212 | well. | 不错 |
| 213 | We also provide public education and we advocate to change our laws | 我们还提供公共教育,并倡导改变法律 |
| 214 | because this problem is still so hidden in plain sight. | 因为这个问题仍然隐藏在眼前 |
| 215 | There really are more | 还有很多 |
| 216 | victims out there than you think there are. | 受害者比你想象的还要多 |
| 217 | Some enter this dangerous world | 有人进入这个危险的世界 |
| 218 | like I had. | 就像我有一样。 |
| 219 | Others, children and youth, they're lured out of foster care, group | 其他的, 儿童和青年, 他们被诱出寄养, 团体 |
| 220 | homes, shelters, or from their own families. | 家庭、庇护所或来自自己家庭的住房。 |
| 221 | The common thread is that | 通常的线索是 |
| 222 | traffickers look to exploit the vulnerabilities of their victim. | 贩运者想利用受害者的脆弱性。 |
| 223 | Common | 常见 |
| 224 | thread all the time. | 线程所有的时间。 |
| 225 | Where I was trafficked, there were up to 60 women | 我被贩卖的地方 有多达60名妇女 |
| 226 | working. | 工作时 |
| 227 | The massage parlor I was at made under just two mil a year. | 我所在的按摩院每年只有两百万 |
| 228 | That | 那个 |
| 229 | doesn't include any of the money made in the rooms by the girls. | 不包括女孩们在房间里挣的钱 |
| 230 | That's what we | 这就是我们 |
| 231 | know is the traffickers cut. | 知道贩运者被砍了 |
| 232 | It doesn't include any money made by going to | 不包括任何钱 通过去 |
| 233 | after hours parties or by other things like selling drugs or weapons. | 数小时后,或者通过其他方式,如出售毒品或武器。 |
| 234 | Imagine | 想象一下 |
| 235 | for a second, that's just one. | 一秒钟,这只是一个。 |
| 236 | Imagine thousands of these places across | 想象一下这些地方有几千个 |
| 237 | Canada. | 加拿大。 |
| 238 | Well, as a survivor, I believe we have to tackle the systemic problems | 作为幸存者,我认为我们必须解决系统性问题 |
| 239 | that foster trafficking in the first place. | 一开始就是助长贩卖人口 |
| 240 | That's why in 2014, I spoke out | 这就是为什么在2014年,我说话 |
| 241 | against sexual exploitation before the Justice and Human Rights Committee. | 由司法和人权事务委员会审议。 |
| 242 | I | 一、导 言 |
| 243 | helped to lobby for the passing of a bill called Protection of Communities | 帮助游说通过一项名为 " 保护社区 " 的法案 |
| 244 | and Exploited Persons Act. | 《被剥削者法》。 |
| 245 | We advocated for Canada to adopt the leading | 我们主张加拿大采取领先的 |
| 246 | practices from Sweden. | 瑞典的做法。 |
| 247 | This Nordic model, it penalizes the buyers while helping | 这个北欧模式 惩罚买家的同时帮助 |
| 248 | women to exit. | 女人离开。 |
| 249 | This bill was passed and is now law, yet still we're not seeing | 这个法案已经通过,现在已经是法律了, 但我们仍然没有看到 |
| 250 | very much action at all. | 非常行动起来 |
| 251 | We're not seeing arrests of buyers. | 我们没有看到 逮捕买家。 |
| 252 | We're not | 我们不是 |
| 253 | seeing adequate funding for services that women need to heal and recover. | 为妇女治疗和康复所需的服务提供充足资金。 |
| 254 | So here now we have this legal framework, but we don't have it in use. | 因此,现在我们有了这个法律框架, 但我们没有使用它。 |
| 255 | From Canada, who is normally such a leader on so many fronts, a country | 来自加拿大,他通常 如此多条战线上的领袖,一个国家 |
| 256 | that's known for women's empowerment and for gender equality, yet still we | 以赋予妇女权力和两性平等著称,但我们仍然 |
| 257 | need action to match our intention. | 需要采取行动来配合我们的意图。 |
| 258 | So where do we start? | 我们从哪里开始? |
| 259 | Well, first, we need | 首先,我们需要 |
| 260 | to abolish sex trafficking. | 废除性交易。 |
| 261 | Its harms are inherent and simply cannot be | 它的伤害是内在的 根本不能是 |
| 262 | licensed or legislated in a better way. | 以更好的方式获得许可或立法。 |
| 263 | Second, women trapped should be given | 第二,应该给被困的女人 |
| 264 | support to help them exit. | 帮助他们离开。 |
| 265 | These women, they need to be safe from the | 这些女人,她们需要 安全远离 |
| 266 | repercussions of bad actors. | 坏角色的影响。 |
| 267 | And finally, we need more support from people like | 最后,我们需要更多的支持 人喜欢 |
| 268 | you, just like you. | 你和你一样 |
| 269 | I have spoken to numerous federal and municipal | 我和许多联邦和市 |
| 270 | government officials and they all say the same thing to me. | 政府官员和他们都对我说了同样的话 |
| 271 | I can only address | 我只能说 |
| 272 | what my constituents bring to my attention. | 我的选民让我注意到的 |
| 273 | Write them, call them, tell them | 写下来,打给他们,告诉他们 |
| 274 | that women being exploited and trafficked inside of massage parlours is not | 在按摩院里被剥削和贩卖的妇女不是 |
| 275 | acceptable. | 可接受的。 |
| 276 | In conclusion, it takes just one person. | 最后,只需要一个人。 |
| 277 | It really does. | 确实 |
| 278 | I share my | 我分享我的爱 |
| 279 | story today because I'm free and that freedom I cannot take for granted. | 今天的故事,因为我自由了 我不能认为自由是理所当然的。 |
| 280 | I | 一、导 言 |
| 281 | believe everybody in our country should have that same right. | 相信我们国家每个人都有同样的权利 |
| 282 | I'm sharing my | 我分享我的爱 |
| 283 | story today because I am hopeful. | 今天的故事 因为我充满希望 |
| 284 | I have seen, I have witnessed the strength | 我看到了,我见证了力量 |
| 285 | inside of the women we're talking about. | 里面的女人,我们谈论。 |
| 286 | These women are future leaders, | 这些妇女是未来的领袖 |
| 287 | entrepreneurs, moms. | 企业家,妈妈。 |
| 288 | They're game changers. | 他们是游戏的改变者。 |
| 289 | All they need is a chance, just | 他们只需要一个机会 |
| 290 | like the one I had. | 就像我拥有的一样 |
| 291 | It took one person. | 花了一个人。 |
| 292 | Her name was Kathy. | 她叫凯西 |
| 293 | Her husband, Jim. | 她的丈夫,吉姆。 |
| 294 | They | 他们 |
| 295 | each extended a hand of love to me. | 每个人向我伸出爱之手 |
| 296 | They both had shown me again what humanity | 他们都让我再次看到什么是人性 |
| 297 | was all about. | 一直这样 |
| 298 | And they assisted to bring back my self worth. | 他们协助我恢复自我价值 |
| 299 | And that is | 这就是 |
| 300 | something that you can do for someone else too. | 你也可以为别人做点什么 |
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