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【双语音+文稿】(职场指南)如何让人们在工作中认真对待你 英

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0:00I spent years not being able to get people to take me seriously until I realized I was我花了很多年 才让人认真对待我 直到我意识到
0:05training them to treat me that way and now every week I have thousands of people tuning训练他们这样对待我,现在我每个星期都有成千上万的人在调音
0:10into what I have to say because I have stopped communicating with uncertainty and I have started我不得不说 因为我已经停止了与不确定的沟通 我已经开始了
0:15commanding the room instead.而是指挥房间。
0:17So if you are tired of people tuning out when you share an idea or所以,如果你厌倦了人们调音 当你分享一个想法或
0:21an opinion, if you're tired of them talking over you or completely ignoring your presence,如果你厌倦他们谈论你 或者完全无视你的出现
0:26there are six ways that you can change this.有六种方法你可以改变这一点。
0:29First you need to stop over explaining.首先,你需要停下来解释。
0:31Now comment现在评论
0:31below if you're guilty of this, if you're guilty of feeling the need to share everything that you如果你有罪 如果你觉得需要分享一切
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1I spent years not being able to get people to take me seriously until I realized I was我花了很多年 才让人认真对待我 直到我意识到
2training them to treat me that way and now every week I have thousands of people tuning训练他们这样对待我,现在我每个星期都有成千上万的人在调音
3into what I have to say because I have stopped communicating with uncertainty and I have started我不得不说 因为我已经停止了与不确定的沟通 我已经开始了
4commanding the room instead.而是指挥房间。
5So if you are tired of people tuning out when you share an idea or所以,如果你厌倦了人们调音 当你分享一个想法或
6an opinion, if you're tired of them talking over you or completely ignoring your presence,如果你厌倦他们谈论你 或者完全无视你的出现
7there are six ways that you can change this.有六种方法你可以改变这一点。
8First you need to stop over explaining.首先,你需要停下来解释。
9Now comment现在评论
10below if you're guilty of this, if you're guilty of feeling the need to share everything that you如果你有罪 如果你觉得需要分享一切
11are thinking and feeling with the person that you are speaking with.思考和感觉 与你说话的人。
12Now over explaining is a very现在再解释一下是个非常
13common problem and to counteract this I encourage you to pause.共同的问题 和反击这一点 我鼓励你暂停。
14Just take a moment to reflect on慢慢考虑一下
15your thoughts, reflect on your feelings, connect with those and identify the key point that you你的思想,思考你的感受, 与这些联系,并找出关键点,你
16reason you feel you need to over explain is because you lack confidence in what you want to是因为你对你想做的事缺乏信心
17say.说吧
18You feel that you need to constantly justify what you are going to say to the other person and你感到你需要不断解释你将要对另一个人说的话
19provide as much information as possible to make what you are going to say sound really important提供尽可能多的信息,使你将要说的 听起来真的很重要
20so the other person will actually listen to you.所以其他人会听你的
21But when you do this people can sense a lack of但当你这样做, 人们可以感觉到缺乏
22confidence and the more that you try to explain yourself, the more information that you share,越是自信 越是努力解释自己 分享的信息越多
23the more confident you will appear to that person and they will listen to you less and less. So to你对那个人越有信心 他们就越不会听你的 ┮
24more sincere the more unconfident you will appear to that person and they will listen to you less你越不自信,他们就越不听
25and less.少一点
26So to fix this trick the more empathetic you will be所以,为了修补这个把戏,你将会更加悲观
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