【双语音+文稿】（人生智慧）每个人都应该了解的尊重心理学！
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| P2 | 【双语音+文稿】（人生智慧）每个人都应该了解的尊重心理学！ | 2:00 |
P2 · 【双语音+文稿】（人生智慧）每个人都应该了解的尊重心理学！ p02 英文版 (P2)
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | One who makes himself a worm cannot complain afterwards if people step on him. | 一个让自己变成虫子的人,如果有人踩到他,之后不能抱怨. |
| 0:06 | Respect is taught. | 受尊重为教. |
| 0:08 | Every day, without saying a word, you are teaching the people around you how to treat you. | 你每天都在教周围的人怎么对待你 |
| 0:14 | They learn it from what you tolerate, from how you speak about yourself, from whether your word holds, | 他们从你所容忍的, 从你如何谈论自己, 从你的言语是否有效, |
| 0:20 | from how you behave when nobody is forcing you to behave well. | 从你的行为 当没有人强迫你的行为良好。 |
| 0:24 | And then they simply treat you the way you taught them. | 然后他们就用你教的方法对待你 |
| 0:27 | That's why so many men feel invisible. | 故有如此众生觉无形. |
| 0:30 | They're polite, they work hard, they help everyone. | 他们有礼貌,努力工作,帮助所有人. |
| 0:34 | And still they get talked over, taken for granted, and passed by. | 但他们还是被讨论过, 认为是理所当然的, 并经过。 |
| 0:38 | They assume the world is unfair, but often the world is just following the lesson they gave it. | 他们假定世界是不公平的,但世界往往只是遵循他们给它提供的教训。 |
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| 1 | One who makes himself a worm cannot complain afterwards if people step on him. | 一个让自己变成虫子的人,如果有人踩到他,之后不能抱怨. |
| 2 | Respect is taught. | 受尊重为教. |
| 3 | Every day, without saying a word, you are teaching the people around you how to treat you. | 你每天都在教周围的人怎么对待你 |
| 4 | They learn it from what you tolerate, from how you speak about yourself, from whether your word holds, | 他们从你所容忍的, 从你如何谈论自己, 从你的言语是否有效, |
| 5 | from how you behave when nobody is forcing you to behave well. | 从你的行为 当没有人强迫你的行为良好。 |
| 6 | And then they simply treat you the way you taught them. | 然后他们就用你教的方法对待你 |
| 7 | That's why so many men feel invisible. | 故有如此众生觉无形. |
| 8 | They're polite, they work hard, they help everyone. | 他们有礼貌,努力工作,帮助所有人. |
| 9 | And still they get talked over, taken for granted, and passed by. | 但他们还是被讨论过, 认为是理所当然的, 并经过。 |
| 10 | They assume the world is unfair, but often the world is just following the lesson they gave it. | 他们假定世界是不公平的,但世界往往只是遵循他们给它提供的教训。 |
| 11 | So let's be clear about what respect actually is. | 因此,让我们来明确 真正的尊重是什么。 |
| 12 | Respect is not being liked. | 尊重是不被喜欢的。 |
| 13 | You can like someone and not take him seriously at all. | 你可以喜欢一个人 而不把他当回事 |
| 14 | And you can respect someone you don't even like. | 你可以尊重你不喜欢的人 |
| 15 | Respect is the quiet judgment that a man is worth taking seriously, | 尊重是一个安静的判断 一个男人值得认真对待, |
| 16 | that his word means something, that his opinion carries weight, that his presence changes the room. | 他的言语意味着什么, 他的意见很重要, 他的存在改变了房间。 |
| 17 | Researchers who study human status have found that there are two very different roads to the top of any group. | 研究人类地位的研究人员发现,有两条非常不同的道路可以到达任何一个群体的顶端. |
| 18 | The first is dominance, fear, intimidation, the loud voice, the threat, the man who makes everyone nervous. | 首先是统治,恐惧,恐吓,声音响亮,威胁,让每个人都紧张的人. |
| 19 | Dominance works, in a way. | 统治是可行的,在某种程度上。 |
| 20 | People comply, they move out of his way. | 人们服从命令,他们离开他 |
| 21 | But watch what they do when he leaves the room. | 但当他离开房间时要小心他们做了什么 |
| 22 | They talk about him, they wait for the day he falls. | 他们谈论他, 他们等待他跌倒的那一天。 |
| 23 | Dominance can force obedience, it can never earn loyalty. | 统治者可以强迫服从,永远不能赢得忠诚. |
| 24 | The second road is prestige. | 第二路是威望. |
| 25 | Prestige is status that is freely given. | 特权是自由赋予的地位。 |
| 26 | It belongs to the man who has something others value, skill, knowledge, judgment, steadiness. | 属于拥有其他价值,技能,知识,判断,戒备的人. |
| 27 | People don't avoid him, they come closer. | 人不避他,更近来. |
| 28 | They ask his opinion, they copy the way he works. | 他们问他的意见, 他们复制他的工作方式。 |
| 29 | They defer to him, not because they have to, but because they want to. | 他们服从他,不是因为他们必须服从,而是因为他们想要服从。 |
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