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【双语音+文稿】(谈话的力量与技巧)为什么有影响力的人话更少

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0:00There's a myth that people think,有一个神话,人们认为,
0:01if I do most of the talking, I have control.如果我做大部分的谈话, 我可以控制。
0:03It's garbage.这是垃圾。
0:04You have the power.你有权力。
0:09When you're thinking about how to get someone当你想着怎么找人
0:10to do what you want, what's the kind of framework?你想做什么,什么样的框架?
0:11Where do you default to?你在哪里默认?
0:13And here I'm thinking about business.我考虑的是生意
0:14I'm thinking about sales.我在考虑销售
0:15I'm thinking about all forms of persuasion,我想着各种形式的说服,
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1There's a myth that people think,有一个神话,人们认为,
2if I do most of the talking, I have control.如果我做大部分的谈话, 我可以控制。
3It's garbage.这是垃圾。
4You have the power.你有权力。
5When you're thinking about how to get someone当你想着怎么找人
6to do what you want, what's the kind of framework?你想做什么,什么样的框架?
7Where do you default to?你在哪里默认?
8And here I'm thinking about business.我考虑的是生意
9I'm thinking about sales.我在考虑销售
10I'm thinking about all forms of persuasion,我想着各种形式的说服,
11because that's essentially what you had to do.因为你必须这么做
12You had to get this total stranger,你必须让这个陌生人,
13sounds like a stranger,听起来像个陌生人
14onto a private jet and to come with you to America.搭上私人飞机 和你一起去美国
15I'm going to shut up我要闭嘴
16because I need to understand what you want.因为我需要了解你想要什么
17The biggest mistake people make is they talk a lot.人们最大的错误是他们经常说话。
18Stephen, if I'm doing all the talking史蒂芬,如果我在说话
19and you're doing all the listening,而你正在做所有的倾听,
20you're learning everything about me.你在学习我的一切
21You're learning about what I care about,你在学习我关心的事
22my values, my belief systems.我的价值观 我的信仰体系
23You're getting a good read on me你读得我很好
24and I'm learning nothing about you.我对你一无所知
25There's a myth that people think,有一个神话,人们认为,
26if I do most of the talking, I have control.如果我做大部分的谈话, 我可以控制。
27It's garbage.这是垃圾。
28You have the power because you've got me now.你有这种力量是因为你现在有我了
29What you want to understand你想了解的是什么? 说吧
30is that person's motivational mindset.是这个人的动机思维
31What are you motivated by?你动机是什么?
32So that is your value and belief system.这就是你的价值和信仰体系。
33Everybody's motivated by something different,每个人都有不同的动机
34but I have to hear you and pay attention to you但我必须听你的 注意你
35to understand what that is.来理解那是什么。
36Everybody's purpose is different.每个人都有不同的目的。
37Example I gave you with the Russian,我给了你一个俄国人的例子
38he's motivated by money.他的动机是钱。
39How did you figure that out?你怎么发现的?
40Was there a certain question or was it just?有问题吗?
41One, his action showed it because he wants money.一,他的动作显示 因为他想要钱。
42And then in talking to him,然后在跟他说话时
43I believe he had a wife home, he had a kid home,我相信他有一个妻子回家, 他有一个孩子回家,
44he grew up a certain way.他长大了一定的方式。
45So you just listen, here, have a drink, talk to me,所以,你只是听着, 在这里,喝一杯, 和我说话,
46let me know.告诉我
47If you give people enough space,如果你给人们足够的空间,
48they will reveal themselves to you.他们会向你展示自己。
49But we're so busy talking, we're so busy making noise但我们忙着聊天,忙着制造噪音
50because we think everybody needs to hear me,因为我们觉得每个人都需要听我说
51I'm a donary, I'm a donary, I'm a donary,我是一个捐赠者, 我是一个捐赠者,
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