如何不靠简历找到梦想工作｜Ted
字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:25 | Everybody knows somebody who hates their job, and maybe that's somebody's even you. | 人人都知道有人讨厌他们的工作 也可能是有人甚至你 |
| 0:32 | In fact, half of the people in the United States who work would do something else for | 事实上,在美国工作的人中,有一半会为 |
| 0:37 | a living if given the chance. | 如果有机会 就能谋生 |
| 0:40 | That's an epidemic. | 这是流行病。 |
| 0:42 | Hey, look, I know, it's hard to change, it's easier to stick with the devil you know, walking | 你看,我知道,这是很难改变, 它更容易坚持 魔鬼你知道,走 |
| 0:46 | away from a paycheck and benefits that doesn't fit conventional wisdom and doing something | 远离与传统智慧不符的薪水和福利 做点什么 |
| 0:51 | more meaningful. | 更有意义。 |
| 0:52 | I mean, you know, who wants to make less money? | 我的意思是,你知道, 谁想赚少钱? |
| 0:56 | But when I think about this subject, I think of my grandfather, my immigrant grandfather | 但当我想到这个话题,我想到我的祖父,我的移民祖父 |
| 1:00 | who left Poland alone on a boat at 17 years old to go to New York City. | 他17岁时独自离开波兰 乘船去纽约市 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Everybody knows somebody who hates their job, and maybe that's somebody's even you. | 人人都知道有人讨厌他们的工作 也可能是有人甚至你 |
| 2 | In fact, half of the people in the United States who work would do something else for | 事实上,在美国工作的人中,有一半会为 |
| 3 | a living if given the chance. | 如果有机会 就能谋生 |
| 4 | That's an epidemic. | 这是流行病。 |
| 5 | Hey, look, I know, it's hard to change, it's easier to stick with the devil you know, walking | 你看,我知道,这是很难改变, 它更容易坚持 魔鬼你知道,走 |
| 6 | away from a paycheck and benefits that doesn't fit conventional wisdom and doing something | 远离与传统智慧不符的薪水和福利 做点什么 |
| 7 | more meaningful. | 更有意义。 |
| 8 | I mean, you know, who wants to make less money? | 我的意思是,你知道, 谁想赚少钱? |
| 9 | But when I think about this subject, I think of my grandfather, my immigrant grandfather | 但当我想到这个话题,我想到我的祖父,我的移民祖父 |
| 10 | who left Poland alone on a boat at 17 years old to go to New York City. | 他17岁时独自离开波兰 乘船去纽约市 |
| 11 | And I wonder what he would think about us talking about being happy at work. | 我想知道他会怎么看待我们谈论工作快乐的问题。 |
| 12 | Happy, he would say, happy at work. | 快乐,他会说,快乐的工作。 |
| 13 | Put food on the table, that's happy. | 把食物放在桌上,这是幸福的。 |
| 14 | What are you talking about happy? | 你在说什么快乐? |
| 15 | My dad, first generation American, he was the first to go to college, the first to have | 我爸爸,第一代美国人, 他是第一个上大学,第一个有 |
| 16 | a good corporate job. | 一个很好的公司工作。 |
| 17 | His was the 1960s version of being happy at work, but he really wasn't. | 他的作品是1960年代的"工作快乐"版本,但他真的没有. |
| 18 | And today the research shows that to be happy at work, people want to be engaged. | 而今天的研究表明,为了在工作上快乐, 人们想要参与。 |
| 19 | They want to have mastery over their subject matter. | 他们想掌握他们的主题 |
| 20 | They do want to know that what they do matters more than the paycheck they get. | 他们确实想知道,他们做什么比薪水更重要。 |
| 21 | So if we know that, why is it that 50% of us can't figure out what we want to do with | 所以,如果我们知道, 为什么我们50%的人 无法想出我们想做什么 |
| 22 | our life? | 我们的生活? |
| 23 | Well, I think it's because when we're in doubt, we look to our resume. | 我想是因为当我们有疑问的时候 我们期待我们的简历 |
| 24 | We look to our credentials, what we're qualified to do. | 我们期待我们的证书, 我们有资格做什么。 |
| 25 | And what we're qualified to do is not necessarily what we're meant to do. | 而我们有资格做的事情,未必就是我们的使命. |
| 26 | It isn't necessarily what's going to bring us satisfaction. | 不一定能让我们满意 |
| 27 | Think of an egg, if you will. | 想想一个鸡蛋,如果你愿意。 |
| 28 | From a little hummingbird egg to an ostrich egg, all of them are a roundish shell. | 从一个小蜂鸟蛋到一个鸟蛋,它们都是圆形壳. |
| 29 | For people, that shell are our credentials, our track record, our accomplishments, and | 对于人们来说,这外壳是我们的证书,我们的记录,我们的成就,以及 |
| 30 | our resume. | 我们的简历。 |
| 31 | A lot of us get attached to that shell. | 我们很多人都喜欢那个壳子 |
| 32 | It becomes our identity, and that's what makes it hard to change. | 它成为了我们的身份,因此很难改变. |
| 33 | But to get to the good stuff, you have to crack the egg open, because inside is the | 但是要找到好东西 你必须把蛋打开 因为里面是 |
| 34 | yolk, the golden center. | 蛋黄,金色的中心。 |
| 35 | That's where the DNA is. | DNA就在这里 |
| 36 | That's what determines how each egg is unique. | 这决定了每个蛋是如何独特的. |
| 37 | And for people, I call that yolk their life blueprint. | 对于人们来说,我称之为蛋黄 他们的生活蓝图。 |
| 38 | So everything that can be taken away is the shell, the status, your identity, what people | 所以所有可以带走的东西都是 贝壳,地位,身份,什么人 |
| 39 | think of you, the perks, the salary. | 想想你 薪水 薪水 |
| 40 | But what can't be taken away is the yolk, and that's where the discovery of career satisfaction | 但不能被带走的是蛋黄, 那就是职业满足的发现 |
| 41 | can happen. | 可能发生。 |
| 42 | Maybe it's more important to understand that career satisfaction doesn't come from what | 也许更重要的是要明白 职业满意度不是来自什么 |
| 43 | you do. | 你这样做。 |
| 44 | It comes from who you get to be while you're doing that job, who your job allows you to | 它来自你做这个工作时 得到的是谁 你的工作允许你 |
| 45 | be. | 将。 |
| 46 | That's where the happiness comes from. | 即欢喜所生. |
| 47 | So the shell is what you do, but the yolk is who, who you get to be. | 所以,贝壳是你做什么, 但蛋黄是你是谁,你得到是谁。 |
| 48 | When I was in my 20s, I wanted nothing more than to be a Broadway star. | 我20多岁的时候 只想成为百老汇明星 |
| 49 | Well, I did it reasonably well. | 我做得相当不错 |
| 50 | I got my union card, I worked in reputable theaters, and I gave myself five years to | 我得到了我的工会卡,我在著名剧院工作, 我给自己五年 |
| 51 | make it, and at year eight, I was still waiting on tables. | 到了第八年,我还在等桌子 |
| 52 | And so I grew despondent. | 所以我变得很沮丧。 |
| 53 | I really did. | 痷 |
| 54 | I was almost suicidal over the fact that I thought that I failed at the only thing I | 我几乎是自杀的事实,我认为 我失败的唯一一件事,我 |
| 55 | ever wanted. | 永远想要。 |
| 56 | Why hadn't this dream come true for me? | 为什么我的梦想没有实现? |
| 57 | I'd worked so hard. | 我努力工作过 |
| 58 | I invested so much. | 我投了很多钱 |
| 59 | Ten years after I left show business, I had an epiphany about this. | 离开演艺圈十年后,我对此事有了悟. |
| 60 | I remembered a scholarship that I was up for, for an acting program, where they asked me, | 我记得一个奖学金,我正在准备, 一个表演方案, 他们问我, |
| 61 | what would be possible if you were successful as a performer? | 如果你作为一名表演者成功,那会有什么可能呢? |
| 62 | And the answer came to me in a flash, but I knew it was like the right answer, the Miss | 答案一闪即逝 但我知道这是正确的答案 小姐 |
| 63 | America pageant answer, the eldest child answer, the I'm going to get the scholarship answer. | 美国选美答题 长子答题 我要拿到奖学金答题 |
| 64 | So I went up to the mic, and I said, well, if I were successful as a performer, people | 所以我去麦克风, 我说,嗯, 如果我是成功的表演者,人们 |
| 65 | would see me on stage and be moved to change something in their life. | 看见我在舞台上 被感动 改变他们生活的东西。 |
| 66 | That answer got me the scholarship, but it wasn't until ten years later when I realized | 这个答案给了我奖学金 但直到十年后我才意识到 |
| 67 | what I really had said. | 我真正说过的话 |
| 68 | The performer was the shell. | 表演者是贝壳. |
| 69 | Causing change from the stage, that was the yoke. | 导致舞台上的变化 这就是枷锁 |
| 70 | That was me. | 刚才是我 |
| 71 | So I hadn't failed at my dream after all. | 所以我的梦想没有失败 |
| 72 | I just suffered from a misinterpretation of my dream. | 我刚刚被误解了 |
| 73 | I needed to allow the dream to change form. | 我要让梦想改变形式 |
| 74 | And I think that's what's wrong for a lot of us when we can't figure it out, is no one's | 我想当我们无法解开时 我们很多人就错了 |
| 75 | taught us to pull the dream apart and understand the true significance of it. | 教导我们把梦想拉开,理解它的真正意义. |
| 76 | We're told we can be anything we want to be when we grow up. | 听说长大后可以做任何事 |
| 77 | When we go to pick that college major, though, the question changes from what do you want | 但是当我们去选那个大学主修的时候 问题就会从你想要什么而改变 |
| 78 | to be when you grow up to how are you going to make a living at that? | 当你长大了,你会如何谋生? |
| 79 | We haven't been taught what our dreams and machinations really mean to our career trajectory. | 我们还没有被教导 我们的梦想和诡计 对我们的职业生涯意味着什么。 |
| 80 | John was someone who heard me speak about this concept and he was very skeptical. | 约翰是听到我讲这个概念的人 他非常怀疑 |
| 81 | He said, Laura, I've accomplished everything I've set out to do. | 他说,劳拉,我完成了我所要做的一切 |
| 82 | I've had every dream for my career come true. | 我事业的梦想都实现了 |
| 83 | So this cannot possibly hold any weight. | 因此,这不可能有任何重量。 |
| 84 | But at the time that we met, he wasn't sure what he wanted to do next. | 但在我们相遇的时候 他不知道接下来要做什么 |
| 85 | He was struggling with that. | 他在挣扎着 |
| 86 | And I want to tell you a little secret. | 我想告诉你一个小秘密 |
| 87 | I don't believe anyone who tells me they don't know what they want to do. | 我不相信任何人 谁告诉我,他们不知道 他们想做什么。 |
| 88 | I believe they do know. | 我相信他们知道 |
| 89 | They're just too afraid to speak it because then they have to do something about it. | 他们只是太害怕说,因为那样他们就得做点什么. |
| 90 | So anyway, back to John. | 所以无论如何,回到约翰。 |
| 91 | Since he challenged me, I said, OK, John, well, what were all your career dreams that | 自从他挑战我,我说,好吧,约翰,好吧,什么是你的职业生涯梦想 |
| 92 | you had come true? | 你成真了吗? |
| 93 | And he said, when I was a kid, I wanted to be a magician. | 他说,当我还是个孩子的时候,我想成为一名魔术师。 |
| 94 | As a young adult, I wanted to be an architect. | 作为一个年轻的成年人,我想成为一个建筑师。 |
| 95 | Then I wanted to change and be in advertising and marketing and be responsible for huge | 之后我想改变 做广告和营销 并负责巨大的 |
| 96 | billboards in New York City. | 纽约市的广告牌. |
| 97 | He goes, and now I want to do something with my love for the outdoors. | 他走了,现在我想做一些 我爱的户外。 |
| 98 | I don't know, maybe an adventure travel guide or something. | 我不知道 也许是个冒险旅行指南什么的 |
| 99 | But he couldn't reconcile how that fit with the rest of his life. | 但他无法调和 这如何适合他的余生。 |
| 100 | But I could see it. | 但我能看见 |
| 101 | So this is where I need your help. | 所以我需要你的帮助 |
| 102 | If you go out and you see a wonderful magic trick, one that blows your mind, | 如果你走出去看到一个神奇的魔术, 一个打击你的心智, |
| 103 | what's your reaction? | 你的反应是什么? |
| 104 | Show me on your face what your reaction is. | 给我看看你的反应是什么 |
| 105 | Wow. | 珃 |
| 106 | So if you go to a city that you've never been to and you're looking up at the | 所以,如果你去一个从未去过的城市, 你抬头看 |
| 107 | architecture, what does your face look like? | 你的脸长什么样? |
| 108 | All right. | 好吧,我们走。 |
| 109 | Now, if you've been to New York and ever seen a billboard so large that a woman's | 现在,如果你去过纽约 并曾经看到一个广告牌 这么大到一个女人的 |
| 110 | navel is the size of a cruise ship, what does your face look like? | 你的脸长什么样? |
| 111 | So you see, everything that John did evoked a universal human response. | 所以约翰所做的一切 都引起了人类的普遍反应 |
| 112 | Across culture, language, or age, ooh, ah, wow. | 跨越文化,语言,或年龄,哦,啊,哇。 |
| 113 | All those jobs were what he did. | 这些工作都是他做的 |
| 114 | But who he was was someone who inspired awe. | 但是,他是谁 谁激发了敬畏。 |
| 115 | And if you go out in nature, you will be in awe. | 如果你去大自然, 你会感到敬畏。 |
| 116 | So it was completely in his blueprint for him to go and become someone who worked in | 所以在他的蓝图中,他完全去 并成为一个工作的人 |
| 117 | nature and took others into nature to inspire awe. | 自然,并带别人进入自然 激励敬畏。 |
| 118 | So today, he owns a company where he designs and manufactures gear for outdoor | 因此,今天,他拥有一家公司,在那里,他设计和制造室外设备 |
| 119 | enthusiasts. | 随缘者. |
| 120 | He found his way. | 他找到了他的办法。 |
| 121 | So the formula seems to be something from the past, whether you had it come true or | 所以,这个公式似乎是从过去的东西, 无论你有没有实现,还是 |
| 122 | not, re-examined for its true significance, married with your skill set of today, | 没有,重新审视它的真正意义, 结婚与你的技能 组合今天, |
| 123 | equals a satisfying new chapter. | 等于一个令人满意的新章节。 |
| 124 | Now, there are people who have said to me over the years that they've never had a | 现在,有人告诉我 多年来,他们从来没有过 |
| 125 | dream, that they never had anything that ever called to them. | 梦想,他们从来没有 任何呼吁他们。 |
| 126 | They don't have any memory of anything they ever wanted to be when they grew up. | 他们从小就没有什么记忆 |
| 127 | And over the years, what I've seen as a common thread among these people is that | 这些年来,我一直认为 这些人的共同点是 |
| 128 | they all had a rougher childhood than most. | 他们的童年比大多数人都艰难 |
| 129 | They either grew up in a dysfunctional home. | 他们要么在一个功能失调的家庭长大。 |
| 130 | Maybe there was raging. | 也许有暴风雨。 |
| 131 | Maybe there was alcoholism. | 也许有酗酒。 |
| 132 | Perhaps they were worried that a relative who was sick or a sibling who was sick, | 也许他们担心一个生病的亲戚或一个生病的兄弟姐妹, |
| 133 | they didn't know if they were coming or going. | 他们不知道他们是来还是去。 |
| 134 | Any child who has to keep their guard up all the time and | 任何孩子,谁必须保持 他们的戒备所有的时间和 |
| 135 | doesn't feel safe can't dream. | 不觉得安全 无法做梦。 |
| 136 | And if that's any of you, don't worry, there is a solution for another time. | 如果这是你们中的任何一个,别担心,还有另一个时间的解决方案. |
| 137 | I've also met people who have had a round of success with their career, but | 我也见过一些在事业上成功过的人 但是... |
| 138 | it was based on something that was a reaction from their past. | 这是基于一些 他们过去的反应。 |
| 139 | So they succeeded, but now they don't know what to do because they have no criteria. | 所以他们成功了,但现在他们不知道该怎么办,因为他们没有标准. |
| 140 | So that thing from the past, if any of you have ever made a vow, | 所以,从过去的事情, 如果你们谁曾经发誓, |
| 141 | anyone ever said, I won't be like my mother, or I won't be like my father, | 没有人说过,我不会像我的母亲, 或我不会像我的父亲, |
| 142 | or I'll never be poor, or I'll show them, that's a vow. | 否则我永远不会穷,或者我会给他们看,那是誓言。 |
| 143 | And if you did that, it was a reaction to circumstances of your life, and | 如果你这样做,这是对你生活环境的反应, |
| 144 | it probably served you well. | 这可能是很好的服务你。 |
| 145 | Look, a lot of people have a lot of ambition based on things they don't want | 你看,很多人有很多的野心 基于他们不希望的东西 |
| 146 | in their life. | 在他们的生活中。 |
| 147 | But there may come a point where that motivation is no longer useful to you | 但也许有一点,那就是这种动机对你不再有用了 |
| 148 | because you've outgrown it, and then what do you do? | 因为你已经成长了,然后你做什么? |
| 149 | So Karen was someone that I met in this situation. | 凯伦是我在此情况下遇到的人 |
| 150 | She was a top salesperson. | 她是一个顶尖的推销员。 |
| 151 | She won all the cars, all the trips, but she started talking about how she was | 她赢得了所有的车,所有的旅行, 但她开始谈论她是如何 |
| 152 | feeling really anxious because she felt like she was losing her mojo. | 感觉很焦虑 因为她觉得自己失去了自己的魔力 |
| 153 | She didn't know if she could keep up this pace, and | 她不知道她能不能跟上这个速度,而且 |
| 154 | she didn't know how to discipline herself to be as ambitious as she was before. | 她不知道如何约束自己 要像以前一样雄心勃勃。 |
| 155 | Now I suspected that there would be something in her story that would tell us | 现在我怀疑她的故事里 会有什么东西告诉我们 |
| 156 | what was going on, so there it was. | 发生了什么事,所以就在那里。 |
| 157 | At 17, she was ready to accept a scholarship to play basketball for | 17岁,她准备接受奖学金 去打篮球 |
| 158 | college, and she found out she was pregnant. | 她发现自己怀孕了 |
| 159 | She gave up the scholarship, she had the baby, and she made a vow. | 她放弃了奖学金,生了孩子,并发了誓. |
| 160 | I will not be a teenage statistic. | 我不会是一个青少年统计。 |
| 161 | So she had that baby, she had another baby with the same guy, | 所以她生了那个孩子 和同一个男人又生了一个孩子 |
| 162 | then she married him, went to school, got this great job, succeeded wildly, | 然后她嫁给了他,去上学, 得到了这个伟大的工作, 成功地, |
| 163 | and now she couldn't figure out why she couldn't make it work. | 现在她想不通为什么她不能成功 |
| 164 | Well, she wasn't a teenager anymore, and | 她已经不是青少年了 |
| 165 | she had well proven that she wasn't a teenage statistic. | 她已经很好地证明 她不是一个青少年统计。 |
| 166 | So once she had the awareness that she needed to just change why she worked, | 所以一旦她意识到 她需要改变为什么工作 |
| 167 | the motivation for why she worked, she was on to new paths. | 她的工作动机 她走上了新的道路 |
| 168 | So you see, your resume is only part of the equation. | 你看 你的简历只是方程式的一部分 |
| 169 | All the things that happened to you that made that resume, | 所有发生在你身上的事情 使那个恢复, |
| 170 | that made your life story, that's what reveals your blueprint. | 这让你的生活故事, 这就是揭示你的蓝图。 |
| 171 | That's what reveals the themes and the imprint that is your yoke. | 这就是揭示主题 和印记是你的枷锁。 |
| 172 | I want to live in a world where people stop competing at work, | 我想生活在一个 人们停止竞争工作的世界, |
| 173 | because they realize that they are so unique that there's nobody to compete with. | 因为他们意识到自己如此独特,没有人可以与之竞争. |
| 174 | Everyone's unique, we don't cross over, we don't have to compete. | 每个人都是独一无二的,我们不交叉,我们不必竞争. |
| 175 | I want a world where we don't torture our teenagers to figure out what they want to | 我想要一个我们不折磨青少年的世界 找出他们想要的 |
| 176 | do with the rest of their life at 17 years old, because we've taught them that | 他们17岁时的余生 因为我们教过他们 |
| 177 | their dreams have many ways that they can come to be. | 他们的梦想有很多方法可以实现 |
| 178 | And I'd like to see a world where nobody suffers to make a living, | 我希望看到一个没有人苦苦谋生的世界, |
| 179 | because they understand that they are not wedded to the shell, but | 因为他们知道,他们不是靠着壳的,而是靠着壳的。 |
| 180 | they can evolve from the yoke. | 它们能从枷锁中进化出来 |
| 181 | So before I told you that half of the people in the US would do something | 所以在我告诉你美国一半的人 会有所作为之前 |
| 182 | different if given the chance, half. | 机会不同,一半 |
| 183 | That is an epidemic, but it's an epidemic that has a cure. | 这是一种流行病,但它是一种能够治愈的流行病。 |
| 184 | And the cure is understanding that career satisfaction doesn't come from | 治疗方法就是理解 职业满足不是来自 |
| 185 | what you do. | 你做什麽? |
| 186 | It comes from who you get to be while you're doing it. | 它来自你得到谁 当你做它。 |
| 187 | And the beauty is, who you get to be is the real you. | 而美丽的是,你得到谁是真正的你。 |
| 188 | You, it comes from who you get to be while you're doing it. | 你,它来自你得到是谁 当你做它。 |
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