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0:00It is my great pleasure to spend the next 40 minutes or so on stage with the most sought-after我很高兴能和最有追求的人 在舞台上度过40分钟左右
0:05guest that I think we've ever had in this hall.客人,我想我们在这个大厅里有过。
0:08Eileen, a warm welcome again, and thank you for choosing to spend time here at SMU.Eileen 再次热烈欢迎你 谢谢你选择在这里呆上一段时间
0:13I know you have many, many engagements and we're delighted, more than delighted, that我知道你有很多,很多订婚 我们很高兴,更高兴的是,
0:18you've chosen to spend the time with us.你选择和我们共度时光
0:19Thank you.谢谢
0:21I believe that this is not your first time in Singapore, but you were perhaps a little我相信这不是你第一次来新加坡 但你也许有点
0:26bit younger when you were first here.你刚来的时候有点年轻
0:28And I know that the audience here would love to hear from you, so perhaps I could invite我知道这里的观众很想听到你的声音,所以也许我可以邀请
0:32you to say something, say a few words to the audience before we begin.在开始前,你对观众说几句
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1It is my great pleasure to spend the next 40 minutes or so on stage with the most sought-after我很高兴能和最有追求的人 在舞台上度过40分钟左右
2guest that I think we've ever had in this hall.客人,我想我们在这个大厅里有过。
3Eileen, a warm welcome again, and thank you for choosing to spend time here at SMU.Eileen 再次热烈欢迎你 谢谢你选择在这里呆上一段时间
4I know you have many, many engagements and we're delighted, more than delighted, that我知道你有很多,很多订婚 我们很高兴,更高兴的是,
5you've chosen to spend the time with us.你选择和我们共度时光
6Thank you.谢谢
7I believe that this is not your first time in Singapore, but you were perhaps a little我相信这不是你第一次来新加坡 但你也许有点
8bit younger when you were first here.你刚来的时候有点年轻
9And I know that the audience here would love to hear from you, so perhaps I could invite我知道这里的观众很想听到你的声音,所以也许我可以邀请
10you to say something, say a few words to the audience before we begin.在开始前,你对观众说几句
11Thank you so much for the kind words, Professor Kong, and thank you so much for having me.多谢金刚教授的好言辞,也多谢你邀请我.
12It's such a joy to be always in an academic institution.常在学府中,如此欢喜.
13Like you said in your opening remarks, I think that schools are such a microcosm for human正如你在开场白中所说的 我认为学校是人类的缩影
14flourishing and it really is a place where our highest values are realized and we have繁荣,它确实是一个 实现我们最高价值的地方 我们拥有
15the opportunity and the options to become who we want to be, to explore the places that机会和选择 成为我们想要成为的人 探索那些
16we want to learn and the directions we want to expand.我们想要学习,想要扩大方向。
17So I always love speaking at schools and SMU in particular with its value on entrepreneurship所以我一直喜欢在学校和SMU演讲 尤其是讲讲讲它对于创业的价值
18and being so future-looking, I think, particularly appeals to me.并且如此的 未来,我认为, 特别吸引我。
19Singapore at large is such a future-looking place and so far in my short stay here this新加坡是个充满前途的地方 目前为止我在这里呆了很短的时间
20time it has been nothing short of incredible.时间是不可思议的。
21I look forward to exploring many more times in the future and I'm really looking forward我期待将来再探索很多次 我真的期待
22to our conversation today.今天的谈话。
23That's wonderful.这是美妙的。
24You know, there is so much ground we can cover.你知道,有很多地方我们可以覆盖。
25Before the event, we invited the audience to submit some questions and thoughts they在活动前,我们邀请观众提出一些问题和想法
26may have and I will say that we were inundated.也许有,我会说 我们被淹没。
27There were many, many interesting questions and interested members of the audience, so有很多有趣的问题 和感兴趣的观众,所以,
28I'll do what I can to capture some of it and apologies to those of you whose questions我会尽我所能 捕捉到其中的一部分 并向那些有问题的人道歉
29may not be asked today.可能今天不问。
30I thought we might structure the conversation by beginning with perhaps more macro questions我想我们可以先从更宏观的问题开始 来安排对话
31and then I know that there is a lot of interest in you as an individual, so I hope you won't之后我知道,你作为一个个人 有很多兴趣,所以我希望你不会
32mind that we will progress the conversation towards perhaps more personal dimensions.记住,我们将把对话推进到也许更多的个人层面。
33You know, the university, as I said in my opening remarks, is an institution that cares正如我在开场白中所说 大学是一个关心
34about human potential, that really spends the time trying to bring the best out of each关于人的潜力, 这真的花时间 试图带来最好的
35individual.个人。
36I think it's fair to say that as an individual you have really epitomized what the flourishing我认为公平地说,作为一个个体,你已经 真正地体现了什么是繁荣
37of human potential means and you've done that in so many different dimensions, just to mention人的潜力, 你这样做 在许多不同的维度, 仅提及
38sport, which we all know about.体育,我们都知道。
39I watched the videos of you on the ski slopes and that's just so amazing, but you've also我在滑雪坡上看过你的视频 这太神奇了 但你也看过
40excelled in so many other dimensions, including in university.在包括大学在内的许多其他方面都表现出色。
41In sport we know what it means to train oneself, to push oneself physically, but you've also在运动中,我们知道 训练自己,锻炼身体的意义, 但你也
42talked about the possibility of training the mind and you talked about neuroplasticity谈到训练心灵的可能性 你谈到神经弹性
43and how we can better ourselves.以及我们如何改善自己。
44Perhaps you could speak to this question because I know there's a lot of interest in the audience也许你可以谈谈这个问题 因为我知道观众很感兴趣
45on this.这个
46What does that training of the mind, stretching our neuroplasticity, look like in everyday心灵的训练, 伸展我们的神经弹性,
47life for any individual out here?一个人在这里的生活?
48Wow, starting easy, huh?哇,开始容易,是吧?
49Sure, I mean, I think that, look, I'm no expert.当然,我的意思是,我认为, 你看,我不是专家。
50I think, for me personally, it just comes to observation.我认为,对于我个人来说,这只是观察。
51So I try to be humble when it comes to my own mind and I don't pretend that I know all所以,我试着谦卑 当它涉及我自己的想法, 我不假装我知道所有
52the answers because I don't and because I'm 23 and because I'm learning and pretty much答案,因为我没有, 因为我23, 因为我正在学习和几乎很多
53everything that I'm doing is the first time that I'm experiencing it, right?我所做的一切都是我第一次经历,对吧?
54By definition, to progress in the sport of free skiing is to ask your body to do something根据定义,自由滑雪运动的进步 就是让你的身体做点什么
55that it's never done before, ever.从来没有做过,从来没有。
56Every new trick that I learn, I'm breaking a physical, mental, emotional boundary that我学到的每一个新技巧 都打破了生理、心理、情感的界限
57had been set for me before, or it's breaking new ground every time.或者它每次都在开拓新的领域
58And so conceptually, I think that familiarizing yourself with discomfort and also knowing所以,在概念上,我认为, 熟悉自己 不舒服和知道
59that almost every boundary is somewhat plastic, so that there always is potential to expand,几乎每个边界都有一定的塑性 这样就永远有扩张的潜力
60that there always is potential to grow and change, and so that just comes back to self-observation.总是有增长和变化的潜力, 从而回到自我观察。
61So how do I feel in a given moment?我在一个特定时刻的感觉如何?
62What does fear feel like?恐惧是什么感觉?
63What does doubt feel like?怀疑是什么感觉?
64What do nerves feel like?神经是什么感觉?
65How are those three things different?这三件事有什么不同?
66What is pressure?什么是压力?
67What do I care about?我关心什么?
68What are the things that can affect me?能影响我的东西是什么?
69What is the direction I want to move in?我想搬进去的方向是什么?
70And I think those are all kind of, as with the scientific method, it's all just experimentation我觉得这些都是科学方法 都只是实验
71and it's figuring out who I am, what are the things I care about, and then what is the它正在找出我是谁, 什么是我关心的东西,然后是什么
72direction I want to move in.我想进入方向
73And so to be neuroplastic, I think is to be the master of your fate in so far as knowing所以,为了神经塑料,我认为是 成为掌握你的命运的主人 在知道
74that I can observe myself and that I can control the direction of my growth.我可以观察自己,我可以控制我的成长方向。
75That's amazing because very often I think for young people and not so young people,太神奇了,因为我常常为年轻人着想 而不是这么年轻
76sometimes we are carried by the trajectories, we are carried by the pathways that have been有时我们由轨迹所承载, 我们由曾经的路径所承载
77established and to be very intentional and conscious about asking ourselves who we are,并且非常有意识地问我们自己是谁,
78what we want to do, takes something of the individual.我们想做什么, 取个人的东西。
79There is no conversation today without two letters of the alphabet, and yes, I'm talking今天没有字母表的两个字母 就没有对话了
80关于AI.
81When you think about that intentionality, that cultivation of self, and you think about当你想到这种故意, 自我的培养,你思考
82what's available through AI where what we do is type a question, send a prompt, and通过人工智能可以找到的 我们做的是输入一个问题, 发送一个快速,
83the answers come back, is there a danger that that is doing something to our neuroplasticity?答案又回来了,有没有危险 那对我们的神经弹性有什么影响?
84Is there a danger that that is sort of reshaping our ability to think for ourselves and to是否有危险 那种重塑 我们的能力 为自己思考
85forge our paths?伪造我们的道路?
86I wonder what you think about that.我想知道你对此有什么看法
87I'm going to go ahead and take the opportunity that we are in a university to be my truest,我要趁着上大学的机会 成为我最真诚的人
88nerdiest self today, so I hope you guys will forgive me for that.希望你们能原谅我
89So I trust that people are probably familiar with the Descartes aphorism of cogito erogosum,所以我相信人们可能很熟悉笛卡尔的代词 cogito erogosum,
90like I think therefore I am, but the kind of phrase that comes before that is I doubt就像我想的,所以我是, 但那种短语 之前,我怀疑
91therefore I think, and I think therefore I am, and I think there's something really所以我想,所以我认为我是, 我认为有东西真的
92interesting about that.这很有趣。
93In order to, I guess to your point about prompting AI, you have to make a judgement decision为了促使人工智能,你必须做出判决
94at any point, right?在任何时间,对不对?
95And so in order to write a good prompt or to make a good decision from the information因此,为了写出一个好的即时 或者从信息做出一个好的决定
96that you gather from the prompt or to direct an agent, you have to have the ability to即时收集或指挥特工,你必须有能力
97start from doubt and to start from self-informed thinking.从怀疑开始,从自我知情的思维开始。
98And so if anything, I think learning to work or learning to produce through the form of所以,如果有什么, 我认为学习工作 或者学习生产
99asking questions is actually encouraging human agency because that is the Socratic method,问问题其实是鼓励人心 因为那是苏克拉底的方法
100that is the scientific method, that is kind of what we think about as human learning.这就是科学方法, 也就是我们对人类学习的看法。
101Is it not to ask a question, to think about how to structure a question, what is first难道它不问一个问题, 思考如何构建一个问题, 什么是第一
102principles thinking, to kind of go back and see what matters and then move from there,原则思考, 那种回去 看看什么是重要的,然后从那里移动,
103and then also to kind of make informed decisions and what you do from there.然后做一些明智的决定 以及你从那里做的工作
104So I guess I'm kind of cautious about the whole like delegating your life to AI premise,我想我有点谨慎 就像把你的生命交给AI前提
105just because to use kind of like a metaphor in skiing, I guess, we recently have a new我想我们最近有了新的
106technology called an airbag, which is like a giant bouncy castle.被称为气囊的技术, 它就像一个巨大的弹跳城堡。
107So it's like this, if you imagine it's like a ski slope, but the landing is like literally所以,这是这样的,如果你想象 它像滑雪坡, 但着陆像字面
108plastic material and they spray water on it, and you jump off of this like plastic ramp,塑料材料,他们喷水在上面, 你跳下来 像塑料坡道,
109you fly in the air, you do your trick, you land and it's plastic and you slide, okay?你飞在空中,你做你的伎俩, 你着陆 它的塑料,你滑行,好吗?
110And initially people were like, this is crazy, this is not even skiing, and then you realize一开始人们喜欢,这是疯狂的, 这甚至不是滑雪, 然后你意识到
111that because this is much safer as a technology, suddenly people are doing much bigger tricks因为这比科技安全得多 突然有人在耍更大的把戏
112and the sport is progressing so much more rapidly and people are kind of doing things运动进展如此之快 人们在做事
113that they never thought would have been possible.他们从未想过是可能的。
114And what ended up happening is not that we reached some kind of capped human potential结果不是我们达到某种极限
115and we were like taken over, instead it was that the women in sport started really, really我们就像接管了, 相反,运动中的女人 开始真的,真的
116progressing and the kind of level all over started rising and we had the freedom to explore进步和水平开始上升 我们有自由探索
117tricks that had never been possible before, new axes, we could try things and work with之前从未有过的诡计,新斧头, 我们可以尝试的东西和工作
118human physics in ways that we never thought was possible.人类物理学以我们从未想到的方式是可能的。
119So I think that it is the human condition to be curious and I think it is the human所以我觉得好奇是人类的条件 我认为是人类
120condition to progress and improve and I think that the methodology of asking questions to我认为提出问题的方法
121do that is fundamentally a positive one.这样做基本上是积极的。
122Indeed, so I have had colleagues who have rejected AI saying we've taught the Socratic我曾经有同事拒绝AI说 我们教过索克拉底人
123method for centuries and why are we dropping that, but I think your response suggests几个世纪以来,我们为什么放弃这个方法, 但我认为你的反应表明
124to us that actually with the use of AI, you can actually strengthen, hone that questioning对我们来说,通过使用人工智能, 你实际上可以加强,
125ability in today's language, it would be writing better prompts.在今天的语境中 写得更好
126I wanted to nevertheless pursue this line of conversation around neuroplasticity a little不过,我还是想继续 围绕神经塑性进行这种对话
127bit more and then I'd really like to come back to technology and sport which is a good再多一点,然后我真的想回到 科技和体育,这是一个好
128segue from your comments a moment ago.从刚才你的评论中可以看出来。
129You talked about training your own mind very deliberately and you do that through things你说过要训练你自己的头脑 故意的,你这样做的事情
130like journaling, reframing fear, visualisation and so forth, do you see a time when that像是日记、恐惧、视觉等等,
131can be delegated to a machine, for example?例如,可以委托给机器?
132I think the frameworks, maybe, I think that there are ways that you can optimise and that我认为框架,也许, 我认为有方法 你可以优化和
133you can maybe get more data, that you can be better informed.你也许可以得到更多的数据, 你可以得到更好的信息。
134Fundamentally, the work of getting to know oneself will always remain your own and the从根本上说,了解自己的工作将永远是你自己的,
135choice to become the person you want to be has to be yours and I think in any other way选择成为你想成为的人 必须成为你的 我想其他方式
136it would be contrived and corrupted and so in some ways, yes, like maybe if you want它会被精心策划和腐化 所以在某些方面,是的,也许你想
137to be directed in a certain way, you can kind of find ways to structure actions that help以某种方式引导,你可以找到一些方法 来构建帮助
138lead to an outcome of your choosing but I think at a large scale, I don't think that导致你选择的结果 但我认为 大规模,我不认为
139that is something that can be replaced, no.这是可以替换的东西,没有。
140And that, I think, suggests, you know, if we can't replace certain things and I think我认为 如果我们不能替换某些东西 我认为
141I very much agree with you on that, it also means that the struggle that we go through我非常同意你的观点 这也意味着我们所经历的斗争
142in learning, where we kind of get frustrated sometimes because we're not getting it just在学习中,我们有时会感到沮丧,因为我们不能得到它
143as it is and so forth, that struggle is what helps us to learn, I think.我认为,这场斗争有助于我们学习。
144And that's true whether in sport or in the classroom and so forth.无论是在运动还是在课堂上等等,都是如此。
145Is there a danger of us losing that struggle because things become too easy with AI?我们输掉这场斗争有危险吗?
146I think not.我想没有。
147I think that as the pace picks up, I think it's more of a question of pace as opposed我认为随着速度的加快 我认为这更是一个速度问题而不是
148to kind of replacement, if that makes sense.如果有道理的话 就换人
149So it's like if we have this tool that enables us to be higher efficiency or more capable,所以,它就像如果我们有这个工具 使我们能够提高效率或更有能力,
150it means we're able to do more things.这意味着我们可以做更多的事情。
151If anything, I feel like the struggle would probably increase in that situation.如果有的话,我觉得在那种情况下斗争可能会增加。
152A lot of people ask me, so I graduated or I walked to graduation this year in June for很多人问我,所以我毕业了 或者今年六月我走到毕业
153Stanford and then after graduation everyone was like, wow, you must have so much free斯坦福大学毕业后 大家都说,哇,你一定很自由
154time now that you're out of school.时间,现在你离开学校。
155And I find myself busier than ever.我发现自己比以往更忙
156I find that my time is more consumed than ever.我发现我的时间比以往更消耗
157I am more applied than ever.我比以前更受欢迎
158And so the concept of like the hedonic treadmill where we adapt to our circumstances, be it因此,我们适应环境的 狂飙跑步机的概念, 无论是它
159through joy or be it through work or through a kind of like a temporal reckoning sense,欢乐或工作 或像时间计算感,
160through all of that, we adapt really quickly, like much quicker than I think people expect.通过所有这些,我们适应的很快, 像比我想的要快得多。
161So as far as like getting used to that pace, I think it's more of like a relative calibration所以,就如适应这个速度, 我认为它更像一个相对的校准
162and less of a like do all or nothing and then I'm replaced and I have nothing to do.少了一个像做所有或什么, 然后,我被替换,我无所事事。
163I think people will get used to it quickly and then move even faster than before.我想人们会很快习惯它,然后移动比以前更快.
164Wonderful.真不错
165I'd like to pick up on the thread of your comments earlier about sport and technology.我想听听你早些时候关于体育和技术的评论
166And we know that sport is not short of technology.我们知道,体育并非缺乏技术。
167You've given us examples.你给我们举了个例子
168That's also the use of data analytics to improve performance and so forth, right?这也是利用数据分析来提高性能,对吧?
169Where do you think we draw the line between technology and human potential?你认为我们如何划分 技术和人类潜力的界限?
170What should remain a test of the athlete rather than the technology?什么是应该仍然是对运动员而不是技术的考验?
171I think split second judgment decisions.我觉得第二次判决是分开的
172I think intuition around fear, like to push or not to push in a certain given moment.我认为直觉围绕恐惧, 喜欢推或不推 在某个特定的时刻。
173They're pretty much I think in the sport of free skiing because everything is so like我觉得他们几乎是免费滑雪运动 因为一切就像
174the margins are so narrow between absolute success and massive failure that that judgment绝对成功和大规模失败之间的距离太窄了 以至于这个判断
175decision is absolutely critical.决策是绝对关键的。
176I can be at the top of a run and be just feeling slightly off.我可以在跑步的顶端, 只是感觉有点离谱。
177And every single data analytic could be telling me, go, you slept great last night.每一个数据分析都可能告诉我 你昨晚睡得很好
178Your heart rate looks good.你的心率不错
179We think your HRV looks fantastic.我们认为你的HRV看起来很棒。
180Like you're ready to go.就像你准备好了一样
181And at the end of the day, if I don't believe if my subconscious is not bought in,最终 如果我不相信我的潜意识不被收买
182the trick is not happening.诡计不会发生
183And that's a self-reinforcing cycle.则自增循环.
184Like if I don't believe it'll happen, there is so much of skiing that I think embodies碞钩иぃ獺穦祇瞷妓 )Τ ski
185this like you will it into reality.像你这样会变成现实
186Like it only happens because you believe it.就像它只是因为你相信它。
187And if you don't believe it, it cannot happen.如果你不相信,它不会发生。
188And so that element, I think, is fundamentally irreplaceable.因此,我认为,这一要素是根本不可替代的。
189So it's like this gut feeling, it's intuition.就像这种直觉 直觉
190And more than anything, I think it's like familiarity and intimacy with the self.更重要的是,我觉得这就像熟悉和亲近自己。
191And, you know, that's a great answer because I think it extends beyond sport as well.而且,你知道,这是一个伟大的答案,因为我认为它 超越运动。
192In all that we do in life, sometimes the necessity to make that decision in a split我们生活中所做的一切 有时需要分头做决定
193second, that's going to just make that difference.第二,那只会改变这一点。
194That belief in yourself, that's just going to make it happen where the data tells you相信自己 就能让数据告诉你
195it's not.这不是。
196So these are things I believe extend beyond the ski slopes into mirrored dimensions of因此,我认为这些东西 超越滑雪坡 到镜像的维度
197our lives.我们的生活。
198And so to that extent, I think what Eileen has done is actually to answer a question因此,在这个程度上,我认为艾琳所做的其实是回答一个问题
199from one of our students, Yen Ren, who is doing her DBA in technology.我们的一个学生Yen Ren 正在做她的DBA技术。
200And she had asked the question, what do you think AI will never be able to replace about她曾经问过一个问题 你觉得AI永远无法取代
201elite human performance?精英人类的表演?
202And I think your response earlier speaks to that.我认为你早些时候的反应就说明了这一点。
203There is another question from a colleague, Christina Chi, who asks what technology or还有一个问题来自同事克里斯蒂娜·齐,他问什么技术或
204innovation has had the biggest impact on your training and performance?创新对你的培训和业绩产生了最大的影响?
205And how do you think athletes of the future will train differently?你觉得未来的运动员会怎样训练?
206Hmm.是吗?
207Besides airbags, which I mentioned earlier, honestly, video review is the biggest thing.除了我之前提到的气囊之外 视频评论是最大的
208Like being able to watch yourself in slow motion really captures a lot of this kind就像能观察自己慢动作一样 能够捕捉到很多这种东西
209of like micro neuromuscular movement that you otherwise wouldn't be able to feel.就像微神经肌肉运动 否则你无法感觉到
210And then also, a lot of the time, how you feel is different than what is true.还有,很多时候,你的感觉和真实不同。
211And so kind of bridging that gap from an objective perspective through video review通过视频评论从客观角度弥合这种差距
212is enormously helpful.很有帮助
213I would imagine that there's going to be a lot more force analytic data in the future.我想象未来会有更多的强力分析数据。
214So force generation, asymmetry, as far as technical ability goes.因此,力量的生成,不对称,就技术能力而言。
215Right now, there's not a whole lot of that.现在,还没有很多。
216But I'm also not really yearning for it.但我也没有真正渴望它。
217I feel like there's something kind of fun in just figuring it out.我觉得有 某种有趣的事情 只是找出它。
218And so I'm relishing in the puzzle of all that is.所以我喜欢所有事物的谜题。
219And also, it's kind of fun about being at the cutting edge of a sport.而且,在运动的前沿也很有趣。
220It's like every time you do something new,就像每次你做新的事情,
221sometimes it's the first time that anyone ever has done something.有时候,这是第一次 任何人曾经做过什么。
222And so there's something really exciting about that.所以有件事非常令人兴奋。
223And feeling like you're figuring it out as you go.感觉就像你正在想明白一样
224That's wonderful.这是美妙的。
225We started the conversation with human potential.我们以人类的潜力开始了对话。
226And that does rely on talent realized.这的确依赖于所实现的人才。
227Realizing one's human potential is about realizing one's talent.实现一个人的潜能就是实现一个人的才华.
228I wanted to begin a conversation thread around whether you thought talent is innate我想开始讨论你是否认为天赋是天生的
229or whether that's cultivated and developed and the relative balance of that.或者这是否得到培养和发展 以及相对的平衡
230I'm going to say that talent stands a very, very, very small portion,我要说,天赋 是一个非常,非常,非常小的部分,
231particularly the older you get.尤其是年纪越大
232Just because the number of decisions that you make compounds exponentially over time.只是因为你做出的决定数量 在一段时间里成倍增加。
233And so maybe when you're three years old, the talent,所以也许当你三岁时 才华横溢
234you can see that difference a lot more than when you're 30.你比30岁的时候能看出的差别
235I don't know, I'm not there yet, but I'll report back.我不知道,我还没有到那里, 但我会报告。
236But the kind of idea that I think between talent and hard work is that但那种想法 我认为在人才和辛勤工作
237if you tell yourself that you have a ceiling or如果你告诉自己你有天花板
238if you tell yourself that you have a floor,如果你告诉自己,你有座位,
239just be careful with the kind of premises that you believe.要小心你相信的那种前提
240And I think what's more important about the empirical reality of either of those我认为更重要的是 任何一种经验现实
241things is how it informs your decisions going forward.事情是它如何指导 你的决定前进。
242Because we are all just a collection of all the decisions we've ever made.因为我们都是我们所有的决定的集合
243And so if we make those decisions with an assumption that fundamentally limits us,所以,如果我们做出这些决定时 假设根本上限制了我们,
244then that is more detrimental than any lack of talent could ever be.那比没有人才更有害
245And so maybe this is kind of the set of cards that I've been dealt.因此,也许这是一种 套牌,我已经处理。
246But if I spend the whole time looking at my hand and I never play them,但如果我整天看着我的手 从来不玩
247then it doesn't matter what I'm holding.我拿着什么不重要
248What matters is that you take a step and one step leads to two.重要的是你迈出一步,一步导致两步。
249And as long as you keep moving and keep being better than who you were yesterday,只要你继续移动 并保持比昨天的你更好的,
250then it's not really a question of what hands you had to begin with.那么,这不是一个真正的问题 你从什么手开始。
251It's about where you end up and who you end up becoming.是关于你最终的结局 以及你最终成为谁
252And in that journey to whatever end point it is that one identifies for oneself,在那段旅程中,无论走到什么终点 都会发现自己
253it requires that we have building conditions.这要求我们有建筑条件。
254It requires that we have environment, supportive people and so forth.它要求我们有环境、有支持的人等等。
255And so I have a question here from Cheryl Lee, who's an SMU alum from 2011.谢丽尔·李给我问了个问题,他是2011年的SMU校友。
256And she was curious to know how much of your excellence has been shaped by your她好奇地知道你的优秀成就 有多少是由你的
257mother in particular and the environment she created and how that helped develop特别是母亲,以及她创造的环境和如何帮助发展
258your intrinsic drive or perhaps the intrinsic drive was there to start off.你的内在驱动器 或也许内在驱动器 在那里开始。
259Yeah, so my mom's the best, for sure.是啊,所以我妈妈是最好的,当然。
260Like, let's just get that off the table.喜欢,让我们只是 把桌子。
261That's like no question.这就像没有问题。
262So she's here, she looks great.所以她在这里,她看起来很棒。
263She婆在前.
264Everyone tell her she looks pretty.大家都告诉她她很漂亮
265So yeah, absolutely.所以,是的,绝对。
266I think that so she would always say that up until I was 13, I was her job.我想她会一直这么说 直到我13岁,我是她的工作
267And then after I turned 13, I was the job of the world.13岁之后,我成为了世界的工作。
268And that just means that like beyond a certain point, you are more created by your peer那只是意味着,像超越某一点, 你更多的由你的同伴创造
269group, by your environment, by the people who you look up to, by the media you consume,团体,以你的环境, 由你所仰望的人, 通过媒体,你消耗,
270by the beliefs that you hold versus your home and family life directly.根据你对家庭和家庭生活的信念
271But I've been really lucky insofar that I've had this very unique partnership through但我真的很幸运,因为 我有一个非常独特的伙伴关系 通过
272the course of my life that has constantly evolved.我一生中不断进化的过程
273And we always have had kind of different roles.我们一直扮演着不同的角色。
274So like, obviously, when I was three, she was my mom.所以,很明显,当我三岁时, 她是我妈妈。
275So she was taking me to the playground.所以她带我去游乐场
276And I think she really optimized for play and she optimized for optionality.我认为她真的优化了游戏, 她优化了选择。
277So she put me into everything.所以她把我带入一切
278Like, I'm literally talking about everything like ballet, piano, archery, because I had喜欢,我字面上谈论的一切 像芭蕾,钢琴,箭术, 因为我有
279an archery phase because I was really into dystopian novels.射箭的阶段,因为我真的 喜欢堤岸小说。
280And I thought that this was going to be like a skill that I was really going to need.我认为这将会成为我真正需要的技能。
281So archery, basketball, soccer, cross-country skiing.射箭 篮球 足球 越野滑雪
282I did math camp.我做了数学营。
283I did science camp.我做了科学营。
284I did singing lessons against my will.我违反我的意愿唱歌
285There were lots of things.有很多东西
286Right.对
287And so the point being that when I was younger, she really gave me the full spread so that重点是我年轻的时候 她真的给了我全部的传播
288when I was older and when I knew myself better and when I was responsible to make those decisions,当我年长的时候 当我更了解自己 当我有责任做出这些决定的时候
289I could make an informed one having tried all the options.我可以让一个知情的人 尝试所有的选择。
290So when I was young, she gave me the choices.所以当我年轻时,她给了我选择。
291And then when I was a little bit older, she gave me the freedom to make the choice.后来我年纪稍大,她给了我做选择的自由.
292And I think that responsibility that she really entrusted me with from a somewhat young age,我觉得她从小就真正委托给我的责任
293I think that was critical and really fundamental.我认为这是关键和真正根本性的。
294A lot of people make the incorrect assumption that she's a tiger mom.很多人都认为她是虎妈妈
295And I think the tiger mom definition is that it's like a helicopter parent that pilots我觉得老虎妈妈的定义是 就像一个直升机家长的飞行员
296you and forces you to do various things.强迫你做各种事情
297She was in many ways the opposite of that, where she just vigorously provided me with在很多方面,她正好相反, 她只是大力提供我
298freedom and agency and enforced my freedom really intensely.自由与代理, 并非常强烈地执行我的自由。
299And that was like the effect of her tiger mom.这就像她老虎妈妈的效果
300So that was kind of like the parenting thesis.所以,这有点像 育儿论文。
301And then as I got older, I keep calling us co-founders because I really think that's后来我长大了,我一直叫我们联合创始人 因为我真的觉得
302like the best way to encapsulate our partnership.就像我们合作的最好方式
303We travel together every day.我们每天都一起旅行
304We live together.我们住在一起。
305We work together.我们一起工作
306We develop together.我们一起发展。
307We change together.我们一起改变
308We evolve.我们进化。
309And she is a science background.她是一个科学背景。
310So neither of us really knows how to, you know, it's my first time living.所以,我们都没有真正知道如何, 你知道,这是我第一次生活。
311She hasn't worked in these industries before.她以前从未在这些行业工作过.
312And so we're both just figuring it out day by day.所以我们每天都在想
313We come in with unique perspectives and, most importantly, a respect for one another.我们带着独特的观点,最重要的是相互尊重。
314We have dialogue that is respectful, that is critical, that is conducive, that is productive.我们有尊重、关键、有利、富有成效的对话。
315And oftentimes we will start from kind of two different points where we disagree.我们常常会从两个不同的点开始, 我们不同意。
316And then we will debate, debate, debate, debate, converge, debate, debate, debate, and then然后,我们将辩论、辩论、辩论、辩论、辩论、辩论、辩论、辩论,然后,
317end up on opposite ends.终归是相反的结局。
318So like I will have the opinion that she started with and then she'll have the opinion that所以我会觉得她从头开始 然后她就会认为
319I started with.我从头开始的
320And then we will have to repeat the process where we debate, debate, debate, and go back然后,我们将不得不重复我们辩论、辩论、辩论和返回的过程。
321to our original premises.我们的原址。
322So I think, if anything, that just illustrates that she really gave me the freedom to find所以我想,如果有的话,那只是说明 她真的给了我寻找的自由
323out who I am and to really support me and to guide me in ways that make sense.并真正地支持我 并引导我以合理的方式。
324And at the same time, to grow beside me.同时,在我身边成长
325She's also living for the first time.她也是第一次活着
326She is a unique person who is more than just the role of mom.她是个独一无二的人 她不只是妈妈的角色
327And so to kind of grow with her as we both come into adulthood, or I guess as I am in这样我们长大成人的时候 就会和她一起长大 或者我猜
328adulthood and she continues in adulthood, but kind of like growing together.成年后,她继续成长, 但有点像一起成长。
329And there's something really exciting and really fun about that.有一些非常刺激和有趣的东西。
330And to do it with my mom, who's someone who I trust entirely, who's known me my whole和我妈妈做这件事,谁是我完全信任的人, 谁知道我的全部
331life, who wants nothing but the best for me, I think that's a unique privilege that I'm生活,谁什么都不想要,但最好的对我来说, 我认为这是一个独特的特权,我是
332really grateful to have.真的很感谢有。
333I want to say, yes, please, I just want to say how amazing a mother you have.我想说,是的,请, 我只想说,你有一个多么惊人的母亲。
334And Madam Lu, I want to say how amazing a daughter you have.还有夫人 鲁,我想说,你的女儿多么神奇
335You know, not everybody finds themselves in such circumstances where there is a supportive你知道,不是每个人都发现自己 在这种情况下 有支持
336parent who is able, willing to give the time, the care, or a coach of access to facilities,能够、愿意给予时间、照顾或获得设施指导的家长,
337which means that if somebody has the potential but doesn't have the building conditions,这意味着,如果有人有潜力,但没有建筑条件,
338it can be very difficult for the individual to find himself or herself.个人很难找到自己
339What advice or what insights might you share with individuals who find themselves in these你可与那些发现自己身处此地的人分享哪些建议或见解
340situations and how might you encourage them?情况如何?
341Sure.当然
342I'm not good at skiing because I'm good at doing double quirks.我不擅长滑雪,因为我擅长做双曲棍球.
343I'm good at skiing because I know how to learn and because I'm resilient in the face of failure我擅长滑雪,因为我知道如何学习 也因为面对失败,我有弹性
344and because in moments of doubt, I know which threads to pull on and how to manipulate my因为在疑惑的时刻 我知道要靠哪条线 如何操纵我
345own intuition to guide me in the direction that I want to go.自己的直觉引导我走向我想走的方向。
346My point is that skills are transferable, so many of us will often find ourselves in我想说的是技能是可以转移的 所以很多人会发现自己在
347situations where it's our first time doing something.我们第一次有所作为
348And it is not the hard skill that is necessarily the one that defines us, it's the ability并不是硬技能是决定我们的能力
349and our intrinsic qualities and values and skill set that we bring into the situation我们的内在品质、价值观和技能
350that allows us to adapt and shape a situation to our will.这使我们能够适应和塑造一个符合我们意愿的局势。
351And so I think what's important to remember is like going into it, you know, I've never所以,我认为重要的是要记住 就像进入它,你知道,我从来没有
352done this sport before or I've never raised my hand in class before or I've never sat之前做这个运动 或者我从来没有在课堂上举手 或者我从来没有坐过
353next to this person at lunch before.旁边的这个人在午餐之前。
354Yeah, but have you talked to a person?是的,但你有没有和一个人谈过?
355Have you ever done something that made you nervous?你做过让你紧张的事吗?
356Yes.对
357So these are all skills that you can apply to new situations and so that's why I always所以,这些都是技能 你可以应用到新的情况 所以我总是
358come back to this point of it's so important to know who you are because that's your toolkit.回到这个点上 知道你是谁非常重要 因为那是你的工具包
359Your toolkit is not the set of hard skills that you acquire over the course of your life,你的工具包不是你一生中获得的硬技能
360although those are obviously very helpful and can, you know, continue to inform the尽管这些显然很有帮助,并且可以继续通报
361conditions that make you who you are.条件让你成为自己
362But to know what you come into a situation with because our strengths are the differences但想知道你遇到什么 因为我们的长处是不同的
363that we have and that's what makes any situation unique and interesting.我们拥有,这就是 任何情况的独特和有趣的。
364Because everybody has a different perspective, everybody has a different toolkit, so the因为每个人都有不同的视角, 每个人都有一个不同的工具包,所以
365better you know what you have, the more you can actually provide value for any situation你越知道自己有什么 就越能为任何情况提供价值
366that you're in.你加入我们了
367Because you want to provide, you want to make something better and only you can do it because因为你想要提供,你想 做更好的东西,只有你能做到这一点,因为
368only you have those skills.只有你才有这些技能
369So yeah, I think that everybody has inherent value irrespective of kind of this, you know,所以,是的,我想每个人都有内在的价值 不管这种,你知道,
370bedrock or the foundations from which they rose.基础或他们崛起的基础。
371It's a good segue.善修习.
372You know, we've been talking about systems of support, but also discovering one's self,你知道,我们一直在谈论 支持系统, 但也发现一个人的自我,
373one's skills, developing one's own toolkit and so forth.开发自己的工具箱等等
374But if we can help design an ecosystem that is to support the next generation, what might但是如果我们能帮助设计一个生态系统 支持下一代,什么可能
375that ecosystem look like?生态系统看起来像?
376What are the elements of an ecosystem can be designed to help other people succeed?生态系统有哪些要素可以用来帮助其他人取得成功?
377A few things.略举几事.
378I think one is mutual respect.我认为一个是相互尊重。
379That's really, really important for anything to succeed to and that extends beyond just这真的,真的很重要 对于任何成功 和延伸 超越只是
380like the right for someone to exist, but it's also like genuinely giving space for someone's就像一个人存在的权利, 但它也像真正给某人的空间
381input and perspective and not holding a value system for whose voice is louder than someone输入和视角,不持有一个声音比某人大的价值系统
382else, whose opinions are more important than someone else.他们的意见比别人更重要
383Everybody has something unique to say and to provide.每个人都有独特的话要说 和提供。
384And so I think bringing that student mentality into every interaction you have and really所以我想把学生的心态 带进你的一切互动中
385trying to say, okay, what can I learn from this encounter?我想说,好吧,我能从这次会面中学到什么?
386I think that's really important.我觉得这很重要
387Secondly, I think curiosity is really important.第二,我觉得好奇心真的很重要。
388So just always holding a microscope to all the things in life and coming back to the所以只要一直拿着显微镜 观察生活中的一切 然后回到
389point in AI, that's a great tool to have to enable curiosity and to really just superpower在AI中,这是一个伟大的工具 需要激发好奇心 和真正的超级力量
390it and so I think that's super important.我觉得这很重要
391The third is probably resilience and no skill is objectively difficult because on two different第三种可能是适应能力,没有技能在客观上是困难的,因为有两个不同的
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393done before.之前做过
394And it depends on probably how much sleep I got, how resilient I feel.这取决于我睡了多少觉,我有多有弹性。
395It's more about how well prepared I feel I can deal with any adversity.更多的是,我觉得我做好了准备 能应付任何逆境
396And so the higher our tolerance, our threshold, our resilience generally is, I think it's因此,我们的容忍度越高, 我们的门槛, 我们的韧性一般是, 我认为它是
397like having a higher tolerance for life I think is generally a good skill to have.就像对生命有更高的容忍度一样 我认为一般来说是一种很好的技能
398And then of course community and community is more than just people who you like and who当然,社区和社群 不只是你喜欢的人和谁
399care about you and who you care about, but it's also what helps you craft legacy because关心你和关心谁, 但这也是帮助你 塑造遗产,因为
400more than anything your impact on the world is probably most profound on the people who你对世界的影响 可能对那些
401are closest to you and so that I think is really important and I think about legacy与你最亲近,这样我觉得真的很重要,我想着遗产
402as like an inflection point.就像一个触角点。
403So like you can map, okay, this is where this person happened and after that everything所以,就像你可以映射, 好吧,这就是 这个人发生的地方, 之后的一切
404became easier or everything started moving faster or after that the people who followed事情变得更容易了,或者一切都开始 移动得更快,或者在那之后 跟踪的人
405or the people around them were positively affected in some way and everybody else was或周围的人受到某种正面影响 而其他人则
406then able to become a better version of themselves.然后就成为了更好的自我
407That is kind of like the general philosophy that I subscribe to.这有点像我赞同的一般哲学。
408So yeah, I think those would be kind of like my founding principles.所以是的,我认为那些会有点像我的创始原则。
409Great.不错
410You know, this is the Karim Family Foundation Inspiring Women Leadership series and in many你知道,这是卡里姆家庭基金会 激励女性领导力系列 在许多
411conversations that I've had pertaining to women leadership, one of the questions that's我曾经讨论过女性领导的问题之一
412often asked is this and I will ask the question of you as well and that is very often we have我也会问你的问题 我们经常问
413someone in our lives who advocate for us, who open the doors for us, who help us with我们生活中有人 为我们辩护 为我们打开大门 帮助我们
414our path.我们的道路。
415Sometimes we are fortunate enough to have more than that one person.有时候我们很幸运 拥有不止一个人
416We know your mother has been fantastic and done so much for you.我们知道你母亲很棒 为你做了很多事
417Is there anyone else who's advocated for you that you think has made a difference for you还有谁主张你,你认为 已经为你带来了改变
418and now that you're in a position perhaps to advocate for others,既然你有能力为别人辩护
419what do you think you might do with that?你觉得你会用它做什么?
420Okay, definitely my mom.好吧,绝对是我妈妈。
421I'm just going to have to reiterate that.我只是要重申这一点。
422Can never reiterate that enough.这一点再强调也不为过。
423I think I'll tell a little story and I think it's a small anecdote but it really captures我想我会讲一个小故事 我认为这是一个小的传闻,但它真的捕捉到
424the spirit of something that I believe strongly in.我坚信的东西的精神
425When I was seven or eight, I started in a ski team.七八岁时开始参加滑雪队.
426I was the only girl on my team and it's important to note that I was我是我队中唯一的女孩 重要的是要指出我是
427also attending an all girls school at this time.目前还在一所女子学校上学。
428So from age four to 13, I was at an all girls institution.所以从4岁到13岁, 我在一个所有的女孩机构。
429So Monday to Friday, I was only with girls and then on the weekends, I was only with boys.周一至周五,我只和女孩在一起, 然后周末,我只和男孩在一起。
430So it was like this alien environment.所以,它就像这种外星环境。
431I had no idea what was going on.我不知道发生了什么
432It was like I wanted to fit in was the most important thing.这就像我想适应是最重要的事情。
433I wanted to have friends and I wanted to build community.我想有朋友 我想建立社区
434That was like intuitively what I wanted to do but I didn't know how to do it.这就像直觉上我想做什么 但我不知道怎么做。
435It's like this alien species.如此异类.
436What's going on?这是怎么回事?
437And so my coach at the time, he would set up these games in skiing.因此,我的教练在当时, 他会设置这些比赛 在滑雪。
438And it would be little things, you know, who can slide this rail?这会是小事,你知道, 谁能滑过这条铁路?
439And if you slide the rail, you get a pack of gummy bears or a sticker or a dollar.如果你滑过栏杆,你会得到一包软熊 或贴纸或一美元。
440And through the power of sport, you start, you know,通过运动的力量,你开始,你知道,
441punching each other on the shoulder and you're like, oh, okay, well, I did it last week.互相打在肩膀上 你就像,哦,好吧,嗯, 我上周做了。
442So you have to go first this time or no, watch me.所以,你必须先走 这次或不,看着我。
443I got it.我来
444Like this is, you know, my time.像这样,你知道,我的时间。
445And then everyone would line up next to the rail.然后大家都排到铁路旁边
446And I remember so specifically the very first time that anybody on our ski team slid a rail.我特别记得 我们滑雪队的任何人第一次滑雪
447We were, we were all like lined up next to the rail and they were like, okay.我们就像排在铁路旁边 他们就像,好吧。
448The coach said, okay, who wants to go first?教练说,谁想先走?
449You got a sticker.你有贴纸
450And I remember in that moment, I was like, I will go first.我记得那一刻,我当时想,我会先走。
451It will be me.这将是我。
452And everyone's like, you know, oh my gosh.每个人都喜欢,你知道, 哦,我的上帝。
453And so I hike up to the top of the rail.所以我爬到铁路的顶部。
454Everyone's holding their breath.众皆屏息.
455And I literally remember it like it was yesterday.我确实记得 就像昨天一样
456I go and I slide the rail.我去滑下火车
457It was good.这是很好的。
458Everyone's just ecstatic.每个人都只是兴奋。
459Okay.摆
460Everyone's clapping.每个人都在鼓掌
461They're cheering.他们在欢呼
462We're like a massive little huddle of just, you know, eight-year-old bodies wearing hoodies我们就像一个巨大的小胡同 只是,你知道,八岁 身穿头罩的尸体
463that are way too big for us, you know, past our knees.这对我们来说太大了,你知道的, 通过我们的膝盖。
464And in that moment, I was like, wow, this is what it feels like to be included, to belong.在那一刻,我就像,哇, 这是它的感觉 被包含,归属。
465Because I am being uplifted by people who I care about and respect, but who are also my peer group.因为我被我关心和尊重的人提升了, 但他们也是我的同伴。
466And we are improving together.我们一起进步。
467Because by the end of the day, everyone, of course, had slid the rail.因为到最后, 每个人,当然,都滑倒了铁路。
468But what's important, I think, from that is that competition is about pushing each other to be但重要的是,我认为,从这一点来看, 竞争是 推动对方成为
469better.好多了,你还好吧?
470And it's about feeling empowered to try.和它的感觉 赋予尝试。
471And so much of it is about not being afraid to be the first, not being afraid to fail,如此之多的是 不要害怕成为第一, 不要害怕失败,
472and being willing to celebrate when other people also achieve success.并愿意庆祝 当其他人也取得了成功。
473So it's uplifting other people alongside you and using competition through, you know,因此它提升别人 与你并肩并肩 并利用竞争 通过,你知道,
474through my example, it's sport, but it could be any avenue in life,通过我的例子,这是运动, 但它可以是生命的任何途径,
475to uplift yourself and to bring other people with you and to celebrate when people surpass you.升起你 带别人来 庆祝人们超越你
476Because it means that there's more opportunity and more excitement and more engagement and more因为它意味着有更多的机会 更多的刺激 更多的接触和更多的
477opportunity for you to rise up even more.机会让你更能站起来
478So it's really important, I think, to take this idea of like sportsmanship with you.所以,我认为,这是非常重要的, 采取这个想法 像运动技巧与你。
479You know, as you were speaking, it struck me that it takes a particular kind of confidence,你知道,当你在说话, 它让我印象深刻,它需要一种 特殊的自信,
480if you will, to want to be in a competition and to be better than someone else or to be better如果你愿意, 想要在竞争 和更好 比别人或更好
481than yourself.比你还强
482And on this question of building confidence, you've talked about how creating your own pond关于建立信任的问题,你已经谈到 如何创建自己的池塘
483rather than competing in crowded ones is that there is a wisdom to that.而不是在拥挤的人群中竞争,就是有这种智慧。
484I wonder if you'd elaborate on that and share your thoughts with the audience.我想知道你能不能详细解释一下 和观众分享你的想法
485Sure, yeah, I think to my point on like the anecdote, you sometimes need someone to give当然,是的,我想我的观点 像传闻,你有时需要有人给
486you the platform or the confidence to try to say, hey, how about you?嘿,你怎么样?
487Or, you know, I'm giving you the opportunity to rise up.或者,你知道,我给你 机会起来。
488So that's one.所以这是一个。
489But I think as far as creating your own pond, what I meant by that is I'm going to take但我想,就创造你自己的池塘, 我的意思是,我要采取
490kind of like a woman's angle here, because given it's also where that's kind of one of有点像女人的角度 因为它也是其中之一
491our themes for the discussion today, I think that now is a really interesting time to我们今天讨论的主题 我认为现在是一个很有趣的时刻
492be a young woman because we have more career opportunities, more educational opportunities,作为一个年轻女性,因为我们有 更多的职业机会,更多的教育机会,
493more family opportunities, more support than any time in history.更多的家庭机会, 比历史上任何时候,更多的支持。
494And what that means is that there is more space for us in places that have historically felt这意味着,我们有更多的空间 在历史上感受到的地方
495maybe a little competitive.也许有点竞争。
496And what I think that's interesting because you hear this phenomenon a lot of like there's我认为这很有趣 因为你听到这个现象 有很多类似
497one woman in the boardroom meeting or there's, you know, one woman on the ski team.一个女人在会议室会议 或者,你知道,有一个女人 在滑雪队。
498And what that breeds is this sense of like, OK, there's only space for one of us.繁殖出来的是这种感觉, 好吧,只有我们一个的空间。
499And so by default, my competition is all women ever.因此,默认,我的竞争是所有的女人。
500But I want to reverse that and think about there's actually more seats in the room than但我想扭转这种情况 想想这房间里的座位比
501one.一个
502And so the competition is very rarely other people.所以比赛很少是其他人。
503The competition is just yourself to be good enough to earn and to provide value and to竞争只是你自己 足以赚钱 提供价值
504earn that seat, to be good enough to be there.赢得那个座位, 足够好在那里。
505But it's not about beating other people.但这不是要打人
506It's about uplifting the entire community so that every single person ends up being是为了提升整个社区 让每个人最终都
507better in the way that a rising tide raises all ships.更好的方式是,涨潮 提高所有船只。
508And so I want to think about kind of healthy competition and in many ways, no competition所以我想考虑一种健康的竞争 在许多方面,没有竞争
509at all, because there's only one of you and only one person has the perspective and history因为只有一个人 只有一个人有视角和历史
510and skill set that I mentioned earlier.以及我刚才提到的技巧
511And that's you.这就是你。
512And every single person has unique value.而每个人都有独特的价值.
513And so the question is, how can you be the best version of yourself so that you can provide所以问题是,你怎么能成为 最好的自我版本 这样你就可以提供
514the most value and help the most people and tell the most interesting and relevant stories最有价值、最有帮助的人 说出最有趣的相关故事
515to inflect that legacy point?来反映这个遗产点?
516And so in a lot of ways, the whole pond metaphor of like, am I a big fish in a small pond or a所以,在许多方面,整个池塘的比喻, 像,我是一条大鱼在一个小池塘或一个
517small fish in a big pond?大池塘的小鱼?
518Stop looking at the other fish.别看别的鱼了
519It doesn't matter.没关系
520Are there other fish or not?还有别的鱼吗?
521Do fish even exist, right?鱼存在吗?
522We don't care.我们不在乎。
523Be your own fish.做你自己的鱼。
524And you can be a pretty fish.你可以成为一个漂亮的鱼。
525You can be a shiny fish.你可以成为一条闪亮的鱼。
526You can be a little fish.你可以变成一条小鱼。
527You can be a vegetarian fish.你可以当素食鱼
528You can be whatever kind of fish you want to be, right?你想成为什么样的鱼都可以 对吧?
529So I think that's a much more interesting and productive conversation than looking around所以,我认为这是一个 更有趣和富有成效的谈话 比看看周围
530and seeing what other fish are in the pond with you.看着池塘里还有什么鱼
531You know, there are just so many questions that I could ask, but I am mindful of the time.你知道,有这么多的问题,我可以问, 但我注意到时间。
532So I'm going to give this last question to one of our students.所以,我要给最后一个问题 我们的学生之一。
533这是Huisin Sito,他是2027 BBM的班级。
534And she says, if you could ask yourself, sorry, if you could ask one question to your future self,她说,如果你可以问自己,对不起, 如果你可以问一个问题给你的未来自己,
535what question would it be?会是什么问题?
536Only one.只有一个
537What inputs or what things did you observe that you felt were the most productive你发现什么投入或者什么东西 你感觉最有成果
538in finding the path that you cared about most?在寻找你最关心的道路?
539So I think a lot of the time, it's easy to follow direction or momentum.所以我认为很多时候,很容易遵循方向或势头.
540Actually, working hard is hard.实际上,努力工作是很辛苦的.
541But working hard is not as hard as finding the right direction.但努力工作并不像找到正确方向那样难。
542So you can work really hard and bang on a wall, and that does very little.这样你就可以努力工作,在墙上敲击, 效果很小。
543Whereas learning what the route is so you can walk around the wall is much more productive.学习道路是什么 让你可以走在墙上 更有成效。
544So I want to learn the direction and then work hard in that direction.所以我想学习这个方向,然后努力朝这个方向努力.
545So I already trust in my ability to work intensely and rigorously.所以,我已经相信我的能力 紧张和严格的工作。
546And so I think what's probably more productive for me所以我认为什么可能更 生产给我
547is knowing what to observe and what inputs to give value to了解观察的内容和给予价值的投入
548so that I can move in the right direction.以便我能够朝着正确的方向前进。
549That's wonderful.这是美妙的。
550Ladies and gentlemen, we have covered so much ground in a short time.女士们,先生们,我们已经 覆盖这么多地面在短时间内。
551You know, testimony to Eileen's intellect as well as her experience in life,证明艾琳的智慧 以及她一生的经历
552despite being 23 years old.尽管23岁。
553We've covered, you know, everything from how we can train oneself,我们从如何训练自己 都包过了
554both physically as well as intellectually, training the mind and the body.无论是身体上还是智力上, 训练身心。
555We've talked about how AI actually can be a positive rather than something to fear.我们讨论过AI实际上如何成为一个积极的而不是值得害怕的东西.
556We've talked about the importance of mutual respect,我们讨论过相互尊重的重要性
557of curiosity, of resilience, of community,好奇心、复原力、社区、
558and the sense of inclusion and belonging in our journeys in life.以及我们人生旅程中的包容和归属感。
559And we've talked about how competition is not necessarily that ugly thing我们讨论过 竞争不一定是那么丑
560where we're out at each other's throats,我们在对方的喉咙,
561but that it is about feeling empowered to try.但是,这是关于 感觉有权利尝试。
562It is about pushing each other to be better so that as a community we are better.而是推动彼此变得更好,以便我们作为一个社区变得更好。
563And it is perhaps uplifting for the entire community这或许会提高整个社区的地位
564where a rising tide, as to use Eileen's words, can raise all boats.在那里,一个上升的潮汐, 使用艾琳的言语, 可以提高所有的船只。
565And the one thing I've learned, there is such a thing as a vegetarian fish.我学到的一件事 就是吃素鱼
566Algae, right?藻类 对吧?
567Yes, you're right.没错
568Actually, maybe all fish are vegetarians.其实,也许所有的鱼都是素食主义者.
569I don't know.师曰.
570Okay, they're not all vegetarians.好吧,他们不是所有的素食主义者。
571Wonderful.真不错
572I would like to invite the audience in this hall我想请大家在座
573that has been a tremendously attentive audience观众非常关注
574to join me in thanking Eileen in this wonderful conversation.与我一起感谢艾琳 在这美妙的谈话。
575You've got a little fan there.你有一个小扇子在那里。
576The little girl stand up again and wave.小女孩又站起来挥手
577Eileen's going to wave at you.艾琳会向你挥手的
578Hi, cutie pie.嗨,可爱派。
579Wonderful.真不错
580Thank you once again for spending the time with us.再次感谢你和我们在一起
581We're very grateful for the time that you've given to us我们非常感谢你给我们的时间
582and the many thoughts that you've shared very candidly with us.和许多想法 你非常坦率地与我们分享。
583I'm going to hand back to Jasmine,我将交回茉莉
584who will lead us through the next segment.他将带领我们通过下一部分。
585Thank you so much, Eileen and Professor Kangkui.谢谢你 艾琳和姜九教授
586Please give them another round of applause.请再给他们掌声
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