为克服"社恐"，我搭讪了100个女生来进行脱敏训练
字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | Hi, I'm Igor and I'm introvert. | 嗨,我是伊戈尔,我是内向者 |
| 0:02 | If you are an introvert like me, you probably prefer spending the night playing video games rather than partying with friends all night. | 如果你像我一样是内向者 你可能更喜欢晚上玩电子游戏 而不是整晚和朋友玩派对 |
| 0:10 | Indicators of being an introvert include being too shy to talk to girls, being 6 feet tall and spending all day waiting for GTA 6 to come out. | 作为内向者的指标包括:对女孩说话太害羞,身高6英尺,整天等待GTA 6出来. |
| 0:18 | All jokes aside, I really wasn't introverted growing up. | 别开玩笑了,我真的不是内向成长 |
| 0:21 | I never saw that I was attractive and all people on Instagram, like models, influencers and tiktokers, looked super attractive. | 我从未见过我很有吸引力, Instagram上的人, 像模特, 影响者和tiktokers,看起来超级有吸引力。 |
| 0:28 | They looked nothing like me. | 他们看起来一点都不像我 |
| 0:30 | I basically grew up never talking to girls. | 我基本上从小就没跟女孩说话过 |
| 0:33 | Now, that was normal in school, that it was tolerated in college, but now I'm 24 years old guy and I've never been on a date in my life. | 这在学校是正常的, 在大学里是被容忍的, 但现在我24岁,我从来没有约会过。 |
| 0:41 | If only there was a way to change that. | 但愿有办法改变这一点。 |
| 0:46 | So in order to ask out 100 girls, I need to find 100 girls. | 所以,为了问出100个女孩, 我需要找到100个女孩。 |
展开字幕全文（343 条）
| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Hi, I'm Igor and I'm introvert. | 嗨,我是伊戈尔,我是内向者 |
| 2 | If you are an introvert like me, you probably prefer spending the night playing video games rather than partying with friends all night. | 如果你像我一样是内向者 你可能更喜欢晚上玩电子游戏 而不是整晚和朋友玩派对 |
| 3 | Indicators of being an introvert include being too shy to talk to girls, being 6 feet tall and spending all day waiting for GTA 6 to come out. | 作为内向者的指标包括:对女孩说话太害羞,身高6英尺,整天等待GTA 6出来. |
| 4 | All jokes aside, I really wasn't introverted growing up. | 别开玩笑了,我真的不是内向成长 |
| 5 | I never saw that I was attractive and all people on Instagram, like models, influencers and tiktokers, looked super attractive. | 我从未见过我很有吸引力, Instagram上的人, 像模特, 影响者和tiktokers,看起来超级有吸引力。 |
| 6 | They looked nothing like me. | 他们看起来一点都不像我 |
| 7 | I basically grew up never talking to girls. | 我基本上从小就没跟女孩说话过 |
| 8 | Now, that was normal in school, that it was tolerated in college, but now I'm 24 years old guy and I've never been on a date in my life. | 这在学校是正常的, 在大学里是被容忍的, 但现在我24岁,我从来没有约会过。 |
| 9 | If only there was a way to change that. | 但愿有办法改变这一点。 |
| 10 | So in order to ask out 100 girls, I need to find 100 girls. | 所以,为了问出100个女孩, 我需要找到100个女孩。 |
| 11 | I don't care what they are like, they need to be 18 and up and we need to go to the center of the city. | 我不在乎他们是什么样子,他们需要18岁和18岁,我们需要去市中心。 |
| 12 | Would you go on a date with me? | 你会和我约会吗? |
| 13 | I'm sorry but you are not my type. | 对不起,但你不是我的类型。 |
| 14 | What is your type? | 你喜欢哪种类型? |
| 15 | Like brunettes. | 如黑发. |
| 16 | Let's try that again. | 再试一次 |
| 17 | I won't because you are not like my type. | 我不会,因为你不喜欢我的型。 |
| 18 | But I kinda like your style. | 但我有点喜欢你的风格。 |
| 19 | Certain charm, right? | 有魅力,对吧? |
| 20 | Right now, no. | 现在不行 |
| 21 | Not right now, maybe next week. | 现在不行,也许下周 |
| 22 | No, I'm not here next week. | 不,我不在这里下周。 |
| 23 | Would you go on a date with me? | 你会和我约会吗? |
| 24 | I'm here with my girls for a trip, so probably not. | 我和我的姑娘们在这里旅行,所以也许不是。 |
| 25 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 26 | I guess I want to be with them. | 我想和他们在一起 |
| 27 | Maybe. | 也许 |
| 28 | What does it mean maybe? | 这是什么意思? |
| 29 | No. | 没有 |
| 30 | We only came here first. | 我们只是先来这里的 |
| 31 | I will sing about it. | 我会唱的 |
| 32 | What does it mean? | 这是什么意思? |
| 33 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 34 | Maybe no. | 也许没有。 |
| 35 | Would you like to go out with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 36 | I'm sorry but no. | 对不起,但是没有。 |
| 37 | Do you want a better one? | 你想要一个更好的? |
| 38 | Yes. | 对 |
| 39 | I have a very jealous ex-boyfriend. | 我有一个非常嫉妒的前男友。 |
| 40 | Ex-boyfriend? | 前男友吗? |
| 41 | Yes, I think you wouldn't like it. | 是的 我想你不会喜欢的 |
| 42 | No, if you give me a million dollars maybe. | 不,如果你给我一百万也许。 |
| 43 | Really bro, I don't know how to pay the rent next month. | 真的,兄弟,我不知道如何支付租金 下个月。 |
| 44 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 45 | At this point I started to lose what little confidence I had coming in. | 这时候,我开始失去信心了 |
| 46 | You would think that rejection gets easier the more it happens. | 你会认为拒绝越容易发生 |
| 47 | But I just started to feel worse. | 但我开始觉得更糟。 |
| 48 | I was ready to give up and admit that this was a failed video and just go home. | 我准备放弃 承认这是个失败的视频 然后回家 |
| 49 | But then I remembered something I would always heard growing up. | 但后来我想起一些我总是会听到的 |
| 50 | The tenth time the lucky one. | 第十时幸运者. |
| 51 | So I decided to give it one more try. | 所以我决定再试一次 |
| 52 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 53 | At this moment I was not prepared for this answer. | 此时此刻,我还没有准备好回答这个问题。 |
| 54 | When she actually said yes, I didn't know what to respond. | 当她答应的时候 我不知道该怎么回答 |
| 55 | I just said yes and ran away because I got too embarrassed. | 我只是答应了,跑掉了 因为我太尴尬了。 |
| 56 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 57 | Let me just check you. | 让我检查一下你。 |
| 58 | Yes, I can go on a date with you. | 是的 我可以跟你约会 |
| 59 | Here is your chance Igor. | 这是你的机会 伊戈尔 |
| 60 | You have learned from your mistakes with a girl number ten. | 你从10号女孩身上学到了教训 |
| 61 | Now is your chance to schedule a real date. | 现在是你安排真正约会的机会了 |
| 62 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 63 | You have a boyfriend? | 你有男朋友吗? |
| 64 | Yes. | 对 |
| 65 | Therefore I can't. | 因此,我不能这样做。 |
| 66 | Maybe none of them like me. | 也许他们都不像我 |
| 67 | Sorry, no. | 对不起,没有。 |
| 68 | I am taken. | 我被带走了 |
| 69 | Sorry, I got a boyfriend as well. | 对不起 我也有个男朋友 |
| 70 | No. | 没有 |
| 71 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 72 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 73 | Wait, wait. | 单单 |
| 74 | She is laughing. | 她笑着呢 |
| 75 | It's not a no. | 这不是一个不。 |
| 76 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 77 | Yes. | 对 |
| 78 | Right now? | 现在? |
| 79 | Yes, right now. | 是的,现在。 |
| 80 | Actually I am not engaged. | 其实我没订婚 |
| 81 | No, thank you. | 不 谢谢 |
| 82 | Because I have a boyfriend. | 因为我有一个男朋友。 |
| 83 | Don't worry. | 别担心 |
| 84 | No. | 没有 |
| 85 | Not today. | 今不见. |
| 86 | No, maybe. | 不,也许。 |
| 87 | Maybe. | 也许 |
| 88 | In two years when I am back. | 我回来两年后 |
| 89 | Me? | 我吗? |
| 90 | No. | 没有 |
| 91 | I am already someone? | 我已经有人了? |
| 92 | No. | 没有 |
| 93 | Because of a boyfriend. | 因为有个男朋友 |
| 94 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 95 | No. | 没有 |
| 96 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 97 | No. | 没有 |
| 98 | Why? | 为什么? |
| 99 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 100 | Is there anything I can do to convince you otherwise? | 有什么我可以帮你说服的吗? |
| 101 | No. | 没有 |
| 102 | I will pay you one thousand dollars. | 我会付你一千元 |
| 103 | No. | 没有 |
| 104 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 105 | No. | 没有 |
| 106 | Not now. | 现在不行。 |
| 107 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 108 | Next week. | 下礼拜. |
| 109 | Why not? | 为什么不呢? |
| 110 | No. | 没有 |
| 111 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 112 | And you would like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 113 | No. | 没有 |
| 114 | It depends. | 这取决于。 |
| 115 | Depends on what? | 取决于什么? |
| 116 | If I pay for food? | 如果我支付食物? |
| 117 | For food, yes. | 为了食物,是的。 |
| 118 | Yes. | 对 |
| 119 | I have a girlfriend. | 我有一个女朋友。 |
| 120 | Girlfriend. | 女朋友,我认识她 |
| 121 | I have a girlfriend. | 我有一个女朋友。 |
| 122 | Sorry. | 对不起 |
| 123 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 124 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 125 | Maybe. | 也许 |
| 126 | How can I turn this to yes? | 我该怎么把它变成是的? |
| 127 | If you jump in the fountain. | 如果你跳进喷泉里。 |
| 128 | No. | 没有 |
| 129 | Probably not. | 也许不是。 |
| 130 | Why? | 为什么? |
| 131 | Because I have a boyfriend. | 因为我有一个男朋友。 |
| 132 | You have a boyfriend. | 你有一个男朋友。 |
| 133 | Do you want a better one? | 你想要一个更好的? |
| 134 | No. | 没有 |
| 135 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 136 | Do you want a better one? | 你想要一个更好的? |
| 137 | What? | 你说什么? |
| 138 | Sorry. | 对不起 |
| 139 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 140 | Date with me? | 跟我约会? |
| 141 | No. | 没有 |
| 142 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
| 143 | No. | 没有 |
| 144 | I don't want. | 我不想这样 |
| 145 | Sorry. | 对不起 |
| 146 | Date with me? | 跟我约会? |
| 147 | No. | 没有 |
| 148 | I'm having a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 149 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 150 | No. | 没有 |
| 151 | Well, would you look at that? | 好吧,你会看吗? |
| 152 | We reached the halfway point and now it's time to stop and reflect on what we have learned | 我们到了中间点 现在是时候停下来思考一下我们学到了什么 |
| 153 | so far. | 目前为止 |
| 154 | The biggest lesson from the first part is that the more you approach, the less afraid you | 第一部分最大的教训是,你越接近,就越不怕你 |
| 155 | become of approaching someone. | 成为接近某人。 |
| 156 | Rejection still sucks, but you start to care less. | 拒绝还是很糟 但你开始不在乎了 |
| 157 | But the dopamine I feel when someone says, yes, keep me going, and yes, let's find other | 但是当有人说,是的,让我继续,是的,我们去找别的 |
| 158 | of 50 girls. | 50个女孩。 |
| 159 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 160 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 161 | I don't know you. | 我不认识你 |
| 162 | We don't get to know each other. | 我们没有互相了解。 |
| 163 | I'm kind of at a talking stage, so that's kind of hard to answer for me. | 我有点在说话,所以这很难为我回答。 |
| 164 | Maybe. | 也许 |
| 165 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 166 | Why maybe? | 为什么? |
| 167 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 168 | It's just based on looking, I guess. | 它只是基于看,我想。 |
| 169 | No, thank you. | 不 谢谢 |
| 170 | No. | 没有 |
| 171 | I can pay you $1,000. | 我可以给你1000美元。 |
| 172 | Yeah? | 是吗? |
| 173 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 174 | Is there anything I can do to change your mind? | 我能帮你改变主意吗? |
| 175 | No. | 没有 |
| 176 | I've got a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 177 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 178 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 179 | It's me? | 是我吗? |
| 180 | No, sorry. | 不,对不起。 |
| 181 | Maybe. | 也许 |
| 182 | Why maybe? | 为什么? |
| 183 | Are you fun? | 好玩吗? |
| 184 | Yeah, I'm very fun. | 是啊,我很好玩,我很高兴。 |
| 185 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 186 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 187 | Where are you going? | 你们要去哪? |
| 188 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 189 | Maybe to get some food. | 也许是为了得到一些食物。 |
| 190 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 191 | Maybe. | 也许 |
| 192 | Do you like sushi? | 你喜欢寿司吗? |
| 193 | Yes. | 对 |
| 194 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 195 | No, because I have a boyfriend. | 不,因为我有男朋友。 |
| 196 | Boyfriend? | 男朋友吗? |
| 197 | No. | 没有 |
| 198 | Why? | 为什么? |
| 199 | I'm so beautiful. | 我是如此美丽。 |
| 200 | Because I don't think about it. | 因甚不思议. |
| 201 | You're not interested in dating? | 你对约会不感兴趣? |
| 202 | No, you're not handsome guy, but... | 不,你不是帅哥,但是... |
| 203 | To go on a date with me? | 跟我约会? |
| 204 | No. | 没有 |
| 205 | You? | 你吗? |
| 206 | What is your name? | 你叫什么来着? |
| 207 | Valeria. | 瓦莱丽娅. |
| 208 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 209 | No. | 没有 |
| 210 | No? | 是吗? |
| 211 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 212 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 213 | No, yeah. | 没有,是的。 |
| 214 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 215 | And you? | 你呢? |
| 216 | Last one? | 最后一个? |
| 217 | Yeah, me too. | 是啊,我也一样。 |
| 218 | Would you like to go on a date with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 219 | Yes. | 对 |
| 220 | I can go. | 我可以离开。 |
| 221 | Yes, cool. | 是的,凉爽。 |
| 222 | I'm not in the situation where I'm dating, but I would if I were. | 我不是在约会,但如果我是,我会的。 |
| 223 | Would you like to go out with me? | 你想和我约会吗? |
| 224 | Yes. | 对 |
| 225 | Yes, nice. | 是的,不错。 |
| 226 | Perfect. | 不错 |
| 227 | I'd prefer to be single. | 我宁愿单身 |
| 228 | No. | 没有 |
| 229 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 230 | I'm allergic to relationships. | 我对感情过敏 |
| 231 | It depends on the dates. | 这取决于日期。 |
| 232 | We will drink some spritz. | 我们会喝一些松饼。 |
| 233 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 234 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
| 235 | Maybe. | 也许 |
| 236 | Why maybe? | 为什么? |
| 237 | I don't know you. | 我不认识你 |
| 238 | So if you're nice, maybe, yes? | 所以,如果你是好人,也许,是的? |
| 239 | Yes. | 对 |
| 240 | You're cute. | 你很可爱。 |
| 241 | Cute. | 可爱 |
| 242 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
| 243 | I think you're cute too. | 我也觉得你很可爱 |
| 244 | Sorry, but you're not my type and I'm not interested in dating. | 对不起,但你不是我喜欢的类型 我对约会不感兴趣。 |
| 245 | But I have a relationship with my dog. | 但我和我的狗有关系 |
| 246 | We're running out of time, so I'm in a hurry. | 我们没时间了,所以我赶时间 |
| 247 | So let's back in the center. | 故复入中门. |
| 248 | There were a couple more notes. | 还有几张纸条 |
| 249 | No, I have a boyfriend. | 不,我有一个男朋友。 |
| 250 | No. | 没有 |
| 251 | Why? | 为什么? |
| 252 | I'm so beautiful. | 我是如此美丽。 |
| 253 | Rich and cool guy. | 有钱帅哥 |
| 254 | If you got rejected, that doesn't mean you're ugly or something. | 如果你被拒绝了 那并不意味着你很丑陋 |
| 255 | Okay, right. | 好吧,没错。 |
| 256 | You're just nice and you're not my type and I'm not interested in dating. | 你很好,你不是我喜欢的类型 我对约会没有兴趣 |
| 257 | Two girls who were too nice to me. | 两个对我太好的女孩 |
| 258 | Ash. | 灰尘。 |
| 259 | Yes. | 对 |
| 260 | Perfect. | 不错 |
| 261 | A lot more notes. | 更多笔记。 |
| 262 | Sorry, but right now I'm in a situation. | 对不起,但现在我的处境。 |
| 263 | It's with me. | 与我为伴. |
| 264 | No. | 没有 |
| 265 | Is there anything I can do to change your mind? | 我能帮你改变主意吗? |
| 266 | No. | 没有 |
| 267 | I tried to convince some girls to leave their boyfriends for me. | 我试图说服一些女孩 离开他们的男朋友给我。 |
| 268 | Do you want to leave him for me? | 你想把他留给我吗? |
| 269 | No, I'm sorry. | 不,对不起。 |
| 270 | Why? | 为什么? |
| 271 | I just got out of a relationship. | 我刚刚脱离关系了 |
| 272 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 273 | Boyfriend. | 男朋友 爱人 |
| 274 | Do you want to leave your boyfriend for me? | 你想离开你的男朋友给我? |
| 275 | No. | 没有 |
| 276 | Do you want to leave your boyfriend for me? | 你想离开你的男朋友给我? |
| 277 | No. | 没有 |
| 278 | Please. | 请 |
| 279 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 280 | One girl doesn't want to go on a date because of religion. | 一个女孩不想约会 因为宗教。 |
| 281 | You can't. | 你不能这么做。 |
| 282 | Why? | 为什么? |
| 283 | It's not in my religion. | 不在我的教内. |
| 284 | And we got on a hot streak. | 而我们得到了一个热的赛跑。 |
| 285 | Sure. | 当然 |
| 286 | Yeah, perfect. | 是啊,完美无缺。 |
| 287 | Yes. | 对 |
| 288 | Yes, perfect. | 对,完美 |
| 289 | How old are you? | 你几岁了? |
| 290 | Guess. | 你猜怎么着? |
| 291 | Twenty-five. | 二十五载. |
| 292 | Twenty-five? | 25岁? |
| 293 | Yes. | 对 |
| 294 | Okay, I'm twenty. | 好吧,我20岁。 |
| 295 | Yes. | 对 |
| 296 | And my last couple of rejections. | 还有我最后的几次拒绝 |
| 297 | No, I'm sorry. | 不,对不起。 |
| 298 | Is there anything I can do to change your mind? | 我能帮你改变主意吗? |
| 299 | What's your option? | 你有什么选择? |
| 300 | I will pay you one thousand dollars. | 我会付你一千元 |
| 301 | No, I'm sorry. | 不,对不起。 |
| 302 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 303 | Also. | 临Τ |
| 304 | I have a boyfriend. | 我有一个男朋友。 |
| 305 | Boyfriend. | 男朋友 爱人 |
| 306 | We can take him too. | 我们也可以带走他 |
| 307 | No. | 没有 |
| 308 | Why? | 为什么? |
| 309 | Because I'm leaving tomorrow. | 因为我明天就走 |
| 310 | No. | 没有 |
| 311 | Why? | 为什么? |
| 312 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 313 | I'm not your type. | 我不是你喜欢的类型。 |
| 314 | Sorry? | 你说什么? |
| 315 | I'm wearing supernets. | 我穿着超级网。 |
| 316 | That's it. | 就这样 |
| 317 | This leaves us with sixteen percent acceptance rate. | 这让我们有16%的接受率。 |
| 318 | Yeah, sixteen percent. | 对,16%。 |
| 319 | Are you serious? | 你是认真的吗? |
| 320 | Oh my God. | 天呐 |
| 321 | I knew I shouldn't have made this video. | 我知道我不该拍这个视频 |
| 322 | I knew that girls are too good for me. | 我知道女孩对我太好 |
| 323 | But you know what? | 但你知道吗? |
| 324 | I learned something important through this process. | 我从这个过程中学到了很重要的东西。 |
| 325 | It's not about the numbers or the acceptance rate. | 这与数字或接受率无关. |
| 326 | The main goal of this video was to overcome my fear of rejection. | 这段视频的主要目的是克服我对拒绝的恐惧. |
| 327 | And in that sense I've succeeded. | 从这个意义上讲,我成功了。 |
| 328 | Rejection doesn't define my worth and neither does acceptance. | 拒绝不能确定我的价值 也不能接受 |
| 329 | At the end of the day the journey is not just about finding someone to go on a date with. | 归根结底 旅程不仅仅是要找人约会 |
| 330 | It's about learning to value myself regardless of what others think. | 而是要学会珍惜自己 不管别人怎么想 |
| 331 | So whether it's sixteen percent or one hundred percent. | 所以是16%还是100%。 |
| 332 | What really matters is that I've faced my fear and put myself out there. | 真正要紧的是,我面对我的恐惧,把自己放在那里. |
| 333 | And that's something to be proud of. | 这是值得骄傲的。 |
| 334 | Which reminds me. | 这让我想起了 |
| 335 | Which one are you actually going to take out on a date? | 你到底要和谁约会? |
| 336 | So what's up guys? | 伙计们怎么样? |
| 337 | I hope you enjoyed this video. | 我希望你喜欢这个视频。 |
| 338 | This is one of the real videos. | 这是真视频之一。 |
| 339 | It would mean a lot for me if you let some like, subscribe. | 如果你允许别人喜欢的话,那对我很重要。 |
| 340 | I will attach some links for donations maybe. | 我可能会附上一些捐款链接。 |
| 341 | And more importantly if you are a scared shy guy to talk to girls. | 更重要的是,如果你是一个害怕害羞的家伙 与女孩说话。 |
| 342 | I want you to know you never know how girls will react. | 我要你知道,你永远不知道 女孩会如何反应。 |
| 343 | So go out there, take your chance and see what happens. | 所以,去那里, 抓住你的机会 看看会发生什么。 |
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