怎样才算是真爱？听听这个“吃鱼”的故事
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | young man, why are you eating that fish? | 年轻人 你为什么要吃那条鱼? |
| 0:02 | He said, don't tell me you love the fish, | 他说别告诉我你爱鱼 |
| 0:04 | you love yourself. | 你爱自己。 |
| 0:09 | Love is a word that, in our culture, | 爱情是一个词 在我们的文化中 |
| 0:13 | has almost lost its meaning. | 几乎失去了它的意义。 |
| 0:17 | There's a very interesting story about the Rebbe of Kotsk, | 关于科茨克的雷比有个非常有趣的故事, |
| 0:20 | who came across a young man who was clearly enjoying | 他遇到一个年轻人 他明显享受 |
| 0:24 | a dish of fish that he was eating. | 一盘他吃的鱼。 |
| 0:27 | And he said, young man, why are you eating that fish? | 他说,年轻人,你为什么要吃那条鱼? |
| 0:31 | And the young man says, because I love fish. | 那个年轻人说 因为我喜欢鱼 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | young man, why are you eating that fish? | 年轻人 你为什么要吃那条鱼? |
| 2 | He said, don't tell me you love the fish, | 他说别告诉我你爱鱼 |
| 3 | you love yourself. | 你爱自己。 |
| 4 | Love is a word that, in our culture, | 爱情是一个词 在我们的文化中 |
| 5 | has almost lost its meaning. | 几乎失去了它的意义。 |
| 6 | There's a very interesting story about the Rebbe of Kotsk, | 关于科茨克的雷比有个非常有趣的故事, |
| 7 | who came across a young man who was clearly enjoying | 他遇到一个年轻人 他明显享受 |
| 8 | a dish of fish that he was eating. | 一盘他吃的鱼。 |
| 9 | And he said, young man, why are you eating that fish? | 他说,年轻人,你为什么要吃那条鱼? |
| 10 | And the young man says, because I love fish. | 那个年轻人说 因为我喜欢鱼 |
| 11 | He says, oh, you love the fish. | 他说,哦,你爱鱼。 |
| 12 | That's why you took it out of the water and killed it and | 所以你把它从水里取出来 杀了它 |
| 13 | boiled it. | 煮过 |
| 14 | He said, don't tell me you love the fish, you love yourself. | 他说,别告诉我你爱鱼,你爱自己 |
| 15 | And because the fish tastes good to you, therefore, | 因为鱼对你很好吃 所以 |
| 16 | you took it out of the water and killed it and boiled it. | 你把它从水里取出来,杀了它,煮了它。 |
| 17 | So much of what is love, right, is fish love, right? | 爱就是鱼之爱,对吧? |
| 18 | And so, young couple falls in love. | 所以,年轻的夫妇坠入爱河。 |
| 19 | Young man and young woman fall in love. | 年轻男女相恋. |
| 20 | What does that mean? | 这是什么意思? |
| 21 | That means that he saw in this woman someone who he felt | 也就是说他从这个女人身上看到了一个他觉得 |
| 22 | could provide him with all of his physical and emotional needs. | 能满足他所有的身心需要 |
| 23 | And she felt in this man, somebody she feels that she can | 她觉得这个人 她觉得她可以 |
| 24 | write, that was love, right? | 写,那是爱,对不对? |
| 25 | But each one is looking out for their own needs. | 但每个人都在关心自己的需要。 |
| 26 | It's not love for the other. | 这不是爱对方。 |
| 27 | The other person becomes a vehicle for my gratification. | 另一个人成为我满足的载体 |
| 28 | Too much of what is called love is fish love, right? | 爱是鱼的爱,对吧? |
| 29 | And external love is not on what I'm gonna get, but | 外在的爱不是我要得到的 |
| 30 | what I'm gonna give. | 我会给你的 |
| 31 | We had an ethicist, Rabbi Destler, who said, | 我们有一个伦理学家,拉比德斯特勒说, |
| 32 | the people make a serious mistake in thinking that you | 人们在思考你时犯了严重的错误 |
| 33 | give to those whom you love. | 赐予你所爱的人。 |
| 34 | And the answer is, the real answer is, | 答案是,真正的答案是, |
| 35 | you love those to whom you give. | 你爱那些你给的人。 |
| 36 | And his point is, if I give something to you, | 他的意思是 如果我给你一些东西 |
| 37 | I've invested myself in you, right? | 我投身于你,对吧? |
| 38 | And since self-love is a given, everybody loves themselves. | 由于自我爱是一种特质 每个人都爱自己 |
| 39 | Now that part of me has become in you, right, | 现在,我的一部分 已经变成了你,正确的, |
| 40 | there's part of me in you that I love, right? | 有我的一部分 在你,我爱,对不对? |
| 41 | So true love is a love of giving, not a love of receiving. | 所以真爱是一种奉献的爱,而不是接受的爱. |
| 42 | Right? | 对吧? |
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