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0:00I would just like to know, you know, you being a husband, a father, and a big political figure,我只是想知道,你知道, 你是一个丈夫,一个父亲, 一个大政治人物,
0:05it's like, how do you cope with, like, making all those things important in your life?就像,你如何应付, 像,使所有这些事情 在你的生活中很重要?
0:10You mentioned a lot, which is, I'm a big fan of Aristotle.你提到了很多, 也就是说,我是亚里士多德的忠实粉丝。
0:13Aristotle talked about a hierarchy of亚里士多德谈到一个等级
0:14the good.好东西
0:15When you have a lot going on, this is a good rule for young people, you got to make a当你有很多事情发生, 这是年轻人的好规则, 你必须做一个
0:18{\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}而你必须把事情放在优先位置 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}什么
0:21means, by definition, other things are going to slip aside.意思是,从定义上说,其他事情会被忽略。
0:25And realize it's not all about you.并意识到这不是所有关于你。
0:27And this is one of the great, I just, I hate the self-love movement, I hate the self-esteem这是伟大的之一,我只是, 我讨厌自我爱的运动, 我讨厌自尊
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1I would just like to know, you know, you being a husband, a father, and a big political figure,我只是想知道,你知道, 你是一个丈夫,一个父亲, 一个大政治人物,
2it's like, how do you cope with, like, making all those things important in your life?就像,你如何应付, 像,使所有这些事情 在你的生活中很重要?
3You mentioned a lot, which is, I'm a big fan of Aristotle.你提到了很多, 也就是说,我是亚里士多德的忠实粉丝。
4Aristotle talked about a hierarchy of亚里士多德谈到一个等级
5the good.好东西
6When you have a lot going on, this is a good rule for young people, you got to make a当你有很多事情发生, 这是年轻人的好规则, 你必须做一个
7{\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}而你必须把事情放在优先位置 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}什么
8means, by definition, other things are going to slip aside.意思是,从定义上说,其他事情会被忽略。
9And realize it's not all about you.并意识到这不是所有关于你。
10And this is one of the great, I just, I hate the self-love movement, I hate the self-esteem这是伟大的之一,我只是, 我讨厌自我爱的运动, 我讨厌自尊
11movement, it's done so much damage, I think it's one of the great, you know, philosophical运动,它做了这么多的破坏, 我认为这是一个伟大的,你知道,哲学
12carcinogens in our society in so many different ways.我们社会的致癌物 以很多不同的方式。
13I saw this sign the other day, they said,那天我看到这个牌子 他们说
14it's your imperfections that make you perfect.你的缺陷让你完美无缺
15And I thought to myself, I said, well then,我想,我说,然后,
16therefore, by definition, the more imperfections you have, the better you are?因此,顾名思义,你越不完美,你越好?
17Or my favorite one is,或者我最喜欢的是,
18the world is better because you're in it.这个世界更好,因为你在里面。
19Now, that might sound like a good message,现在,这听起来可能是一个好消息,
20but in reality, it should be a question.但实际上,这应该是一个问题。
21Is the world better because you're in it?因为有你,世界会更好吗?
22Right?对吧?
23And so, it should be a question.所以,应该是一个问题。
24It has the world become a better place because of you.这个世界因为你而变得更美好
25Now, so the idea of a hierarchy of what matters most is not taught a lot to our kids.现在,关于最重要的事物的等级观念 并没有教给我们的孩子很多。
26There's a有一个
27big lie out there that you could have it all, and that's not true.大谎言在那里 你可以拥有这一切, 而那不是真的。
28You can't.你不能这么做。
29You have to make你必须做
30sacrifices.牺牲
31You could still do a lot.你还可以做很多事
32You could still run a business and you could still do things,你仍然可以经营一个生意 你仍然可以做一些事情,
33but you have to make time for what matters most.但你得为最重要的事腾出时间
34One of the reasons why we have such a depressed我们这么沮丧的原因之一
35generation, suicidal generation, we have such an anxious generation, a medicated generation,一代人,自杀的一代人, 我们有如此焦急的一代人, 医疗的一代人,
36is they're thinking about themselves all the time.他们一直在想着自己
37I believe a people that is not dedicated我相信一个没有奉献的民族
38to service is a very depressed people.服务是一个非常沮丧的人。
39It's not always about you.这并不总是关于你的。
40Sometimes you have to do stuff有时候你必须做一些事情
41you don't like because it's going to benefit somebody else.你不喜欢因为它会让别人受益
42By the way, we just know that对了,我们只是知道
43scientifically you're a happier person because we know that, regardless of the spiritual implications从科学上讲,你是一个更快乐的人 因为我们知道,不管精神影响
44or the moral implications.或道德影响。
45And so, we have an entire generation that's always asking,所以,我们有整整一代人 总是问,
46how do you feel?你感觉怎么样?
47How do you feel about that?你觉得怎么样?
48It's actually quite irrelevant.这其实很无关紧要。
49It matters more about这更重要
50what you're doing.汝作么生会.
51And here's a thought-provoking thing for you.这是一件让人深思熟虑的事
52Generally, what you do should一般来说,你应该做什么
53dictate how you feel, not how you feel with what you do.来决定你的感受 而不是你的感受
54That's a good general rule to tell a young告诉一个年轻人,这是一条很好的通则
55person.个人。
56Another good rule for life, which is self-control is a lot more important than self-esteem,另一种良好的生活规则,即自我控制 比自尊更重要,
57but we do the opposite.但情况却相反
58Thank you.谢谢
59What advice would you give to a young kid that wants to do你会给一个想做的孩子什么建议
60something similar to what you've done with their career as far as starting Turning Point USA and类似你所做的事 在他们的职业生涯, 开始转折点美国和
61just impacting people?只是影响别人?
62So, I started Turning Point USA when I was 18.我18岁时开始转向美国
63I never went to college and我从没上过大学
64ended up being a great decision for me.对我来说是个伟大的决定
65I took a gap year.我花了一年的时间
66Not everyone in this country needs to不是这个国家的每个人都需要
67go to college.上大学。
68We have way too many people going to college in our country.我们国家上大学的人太多了
69Strive to be a better努力成为更好的人
70person every single day, because your character is a reflection of your soul.因为你的性格反映了你的灵魂
71Learn something new学点新东西
72every single day.每一天都这样
73It doesn't matter where you go to college.你在哪里上大学不重要
74It's just a piece of paper, honestly.这只是一张纸,说实话。
75What matters is who you are as a person.重要的是你作为一个人
76If you want to succeed, you also must be willing to keep如果你想成功,你也必须愿意保留
77pushing on and enduring when things get really, really tough.当事情变得非常,非常艰难时, 推动和持久。
78Take the relationships with people和别人交往
79that are older than you very seriously and memorialize those conversations forever.并且永远纪念那些对话
80So,这么说
81smartphones I think are destroying our country, but one thing they're good for is they're really我认为智能手机正在摧毁我们的国家 但其中一件好事是它们真的
82good at recording.擅长录音。
83They're good at recording voice memos or conversations.他们擅长录音语音备忘录或对话.
84Next time you sit down下次你坐下来
85with a grandparent or a business person, record those conversations.与祖父母或商人,记录这些谈话。
86You're going to want them.你会想要的
87When you encounter difficulty, train yourself to blame yourself.当你遇到困难时 训练自己去责备自己
88Train yourself to say,训练你自己说,
89it's my fault.这是我的错。
90What did I do wrong?我做错什么了?
91That's hard.难曰.
92Trust me.相信我,你还好吧?
93It's really easy to blame others.怪别人很容易
94It这个
95might be somebody else's fault, but find something you could have done differently.可能是别人的错 但找点别的事做
96And if you get in如果你进去
97practice of doing that, you'll be a stronger person.你会成为一个更强壮的人
98The final thing is this.最后一件事是这个。
99Immerse yourself自我伤害
100in eternal knowledge.在永恒的知识中。
101There's two types of knowledge.知识有二种.
102Practical knowledge and eternal实用知识和永恒
103knowledge.知识。
104Practical knowledge is who's the governor.实际知识是谁是州长.
105Eternal knowledge, things that never永恒的知识,从不
106change.变化。
107We also call it wisdom.我们还称之为智慧。
108The more wise you are, the more cheerful and happy you will be.你越聪明,你就越高兴和快乐
109You live in a wonderful country.你生活在一个美好的国家。
110We got problems.我们有麻烦了
111We got ridiculous leaders.我们有可笑的领导人。
112You got all that stuff.你得到了所有的东西。
113Man, what a gift we've been given.伙计,我们得到的礼物真好
114Don't get into the whole complaining that everything around me is别抱怨我身边的一切
115terrible and awful.糟糕透顶
116We talked about many of that, but believe that your actions matter.我们谈了很多,但相信你的行动很重要。
117Apply yourself accordingly.相应应用自己.
118Work harder every single day.一天比一天更努力工作。
119And after a decade of that, I think十年过去了,我想
120you'll be in a pretty good place.你会在一个相当好的地方。
121I wanted to clarify what I screamed earlier.我想澄清我之前的尖叫
122I screamed the我尖叫着
123word yes.词是。
124I was just really excited, but my parents immigrated here with basically no money我只是很兴奋,但是我父母移民到这里 基本上没有钱
125from Vietnam.从越南。
126Okay, because you said your parents were super rich from Vietnam.好吧,因为你说 你的父母是超级富有 从越南。
127You screwed up my你毁了我
128moment, man.稍等,伙计。
129I know.我知道,我记得
130I'm so sorry.对不起
131I was just really excited.我只是非常兴奋。
132So just to be clear, they came with所以要说清楚,他们来了
133almost no money from Vietnam.几乎没有越南的钱。
134Honestly, God bless your parents.老实说 上帝保佑你父母
135They're great patriots.他们是伟大的爱国者。
136I'm glad我很高兴
137you're here.你在这里。
138We own our own private business, and I'm a living example of why white privilege我们有自己的私人企业, 而我是一个活生生的例子 为什么白人特权
139does not exist.不存在。
140So let me get to my point.所以,让我说出我的观点。
141I'm a 17-year-old high school student.17岁高中生.
142I drove an hour我开了一个小时
143over here just to see you.来这里只是想见你。
144I'm a member of the Turning Point USA chapter at my high school,我是我高中美国分会的成员
145and we actually hope to get Isabel Brown there soon.我们实际上希望 伊莎贝尔布朗 很快。
146So my question is whenever I try to open所以我的问题就是每当我尝试打开
147up controversial topics at my school, no one ever really wants to talk about it because在我的学校里,没有人真正想谈论它,因为
148they just don't want to.他们只是不想。
149And my question was, is it because politics just aren't for everyone我的问题是,是不是因为 政治不是每个人的
150or not?还是没有?
151And should there be an age to when people should be able to talk about and have如果有一个时代 人们应该能够谈论和拥有
152these conversations about politics?这些关于政治的谈话?
153All ages should talk about it.所有年龄都应该谈论它。
154We shouldn't lower the我们不应该降低
155voting age.投票年龄。
156But I just want to applaud you, man, for your leadership at Turning Point.但我只想赞扬你,伙计, 在转折点的领导。
157I'd say,我会说,
158look, just look around, though.你看,只是看看周围,虽然。
159Look how promising this is.看看这有多有希望
160People are standing here for hours just人们在这里站了几个小时
161to hear about political philosophical debates.听说政治哲学辩论
162That's a good thing, regardless of where you不错,不管你在哪里
163approach these issues.处理这些问题。
164In high school, honestly, enjoy the fact that not everyone wants to talk高中的时候,老实说, 享受现实,不是每个人都想谈
165about politics all the time because it's actually kind of refreshing to hear that there's still关于政治 一直以来,因为它实际上是 一种令人振奋的 听到还有
166a remnant of that.剩下的一个。
167Yes and no, I would say.是的,不,我会说。
168And I just wanted to ask, this is a bit of an我只是想问,这是有点
169example, but what age should the conversation be opened up through politics?但通过政治来打开对话的年代是多少?
170Should eighth graders应否八年级生
171be talking or debating about abortion?谈论堕胎还是辩论堕胎?
172Yeah, I think that probably 12 years old, let me think,是啊,我认为可能 12岁,让我想想,
17312 would be fifth or sixth grade.12岁是五六年级
174I think fifth or sixth grade is where politics should start to我觉得五年或六年级是政治应该开始的地方
175be discussed.讨论。
176But not too deeply, like a surface level.但不要太深,像表面水平。
177And then my final question is, for people然后,我最后的问题 是,对于人
178who are still learning and growing their minds, like me, I'm 17, what would your advice to be for我17岁了 你的建议是什么?
179people who just want to debate more?那些只想多辩论的人?
180Yeah, so debate less and read more.是啊,所以辩论少一点,读更多。
181So you've got to read所以,你必须读
182at least 100 books a year, okay?每年至少100本书,好吗?
183100 books a year.每年100册.
184If you aren't reading 100 books a year,如果你一年不看一百本书
185you're not serious about your intellectual journey.你对你的智力之旅不是认真的
186You might say that's too many.你可能会说太多了
187You can listen to你可以听从
188them too, right?他们也是,对吧?
189The best, spend less money on booze, alcohol, drugs, and nightclubs and more最好的,花更少的钱 在酒,酒,毒品, 夜总会和更多的
190money on audiobooks.钱在录音簿上。
191Your life will be better.你的生活会更好
192Trust me.相信我,你还好吧?
193I try to be a living example of that.我试图成为一个活生生的例子。
194I try to read 100, 120 books a year.我试着一年看100到120本书
195I'm always listening to stuff, always reading stuff.我总是听东西,总是看东西。
196I don't我没有
197remember it all, but I remember a fair amount of it.记住一切 但我记得相当多
198And it just creates you into a happier,它只是让你更快乐,
199deeper, wiser person.更深,更聪明的人。
200And the more you dedicate yourself to reading, debating will become easier.你越是专心于阅读,辩论就越容易。
201Okay.摆
202I work as an after school teacher for four to fifth graders.我当过四至五年级的课后老师
203One of my questions is,我的一个问题是,
204is there any advice that I could give to the youth to help?我可以给年轻人什么建议吗?
205Oh, sorry.对不起
206Do you have any advice to give你有什么建议
207to the youth because of our corrupted society that we have now of this social norm of the West,向青年致敬,因为我们的腐朽社会, 我们已经有了这个西方的社会规范,
208especially?特别?
209How can I help them and give them the wise, especially as a religious man?我如何帮助他们,并赐予他们智慧,尤其是作为一个宗教人士?
210I love that.我喜欢
211Is that basic economics?这是基本经济学吗?
212Yes.对
213Can I see that?我能看看吗?
214That is a great book.这书很棒
215You are a great你是个好人
216teacher.老师
217Everyone should read this by Thomas Sowell, by the way.顺便说一句,每个人都应该读一下 托马斯·索威尔写的这个
218Good for you, man.对你有好处
219That's这是
220awesome.好厉害
221You want me to sign it?要我签吗?
222Yeah.对
223All right.好吧,我们走。
224So great question.问得好
225So let's, you hit the most所以,让我们,你打最多
226important element of education.教育的重要内容。
227So it should be about developing wisdom, not just knowledge.因此,这应该是发展智慧,而不仅仅是知识。
228So wisdom is the understanding of things that do not change.故智慧是知无常之事.
229It's the most important thing这是最重要的事情
230you could teach a young person.你可以教一个年轻人。
231We are, we're filled with knowledge based institutions and我们是,我们充满了以知识为基础的机构
232we are lacking wisdom based institutions.我们缺乏基于智慧的机构。
233Wisdom is understanding the deeper permanent topics智慧是理解更深层的永久话题
234that will be true 200 years from now.这将是真实的200年后。
235And they were true 200 years prior.这两百年前就是真的了
236For example,举例来说,
237are human beings naturally good or not so good?人类是天生的好人还是不是天生的好人?
238What is good?什么好东西?
239What is evil?什么是邪恶?
240Right?对吧?
241What is mercy?慈悲是什麽?
242What is compassion?什么是同情心?
243What is justice?什么是正义?
244What is truth?什么是事实?
245This is much more important for people这对人们更重要
246to grapple with than, well, I could tell you who the, you know, the five members of the我可以告诉你... ...
247California legislature are.加利福尼亚州立法机构是。
248That's fine.没关系
249That's knowledge, but we are lacking in wisdom in the这就是知识 但我们缺乏智慧
250West.韦斯特.
251It is a crisis of wisdom.这是一个智慧危机。
252And here's the cool thing about wisdom.这是关于智慧的酷点
253Anybody can access it任何人都可以访问它
254at any time.随时
255It does not require a college degree.它不需要大学学位。
256It doesn't require a special credential.不需要特殊证书
257Anybody谁都行
258can be wise.能发智慧.
259It just so happens the most common way people get wisdom is through what?它只是发生 最常见的方式 人们获得智慧 是什么?
260Suffering.受诸苦恼.
261That's why old people are so wise because they've suffered a lot.故老人因受大苦而有大智.
262And through suffering,通过痛苦
263you end up getting a lot of wisdom.你最终得到了很多智慧。
264Good times do not make you wise.美好的时光不会让你聪明
265Sucky times do.糟糕的时代
266But I just但我刚刚
267want to talk a little bit about life, which is, I think that one of the things that students don't我想谈一点生活, 也就是说,我认为一个事情 学生不
268hear enough on college campuses is how do you live a happy and fulfilling life?在大学校园里听到的足够多 就是你如何过上快乐和满足的生活?
269You should be你应该
270thankful for life.感谢生活。
271It's a gift.礼毕.
272It's a beautiful thing.这是件很美妙的事
273A true appreciation of the deeper and真正赞赏更深层次和
274eternal thing starts with wonder.永恒的事物从奇迹开始
275When I was landing here today, I saw incredible natural今天我在这里降落时,我看到了不可思议的自然
276beauty.美丽
277I saw mountains that looked like they were literally on fire.我看见山看起来像是火上浇油
278You guys hear that all the你们都听见了
279time.时间。
280It makes you wonder what else out there is beautiful and worth preserving.这让你不禁想 外面还有什么是美丽的 值得保护的
281What else out there还有什么
282is eternal and elevated?是永恒的,是崇高的吗?
283What else out there is something that we should try to go above and外面还有什么东西 我们应该试着去上面和
284make sure it doesn't get corrupted and make sure that it doesn't get destroyed?确保它不被腐蚀,并确保它不被摧毁?
285And that starts开始
286with gratitude.感激不尽
287It starts with being thankful.首先是感谢
288And the first thing is being thankful for life,第一件事是感谢生命
289thankful for consciousness, thankful for existence, thankful for things that are deeply,感谢意识 感谢存在 感谢深处的东西
290objectively good.客观上不错。
291And we want, we as conservatives then, I kind of just say this in general, that我们希望,我们作为保守派 那么,我只是说 总的来说,
292we want to design a society that gives preference on your choices and your actions and your behavior,我们想要设计一个社会 优先考虑你的选择,你的行动和行为,
293not on your complaints or your grievances or the mobilization thereof.而不是你的抱怨,你的不满 或动员。
294Now, don't get me wrong.别误会我
295I'mи琌
296perfectly, you know, kind of on board with breaking up certain companies and using political power to完美,你知道, 那种在船上 打破某些公司 并利用政治权力
297try and make that easier.试着让那更容易。
298But generally, I think that it's very important for people to try and但总的来说,我觉得人们尝试
299prioritize that the greatest battle you'll experience in life is the struggle within that优先,你将经历最大的战斗 在生活中是斗争 在那
300we must tell young people, that we must understand that it's self-control, that the improvement of我们必须告诉年轻人,我们必须明白,这是自我控制,
301your own character is the thing that you must prioritize above anything else.您的性格是您必须优先考虑的
302And it's a这是一个
303disservice to tell young people, you know what, the greatest struggle in life is you against racism.告诉年轻人 生活里最大的斗争就是反对种族主义
304The greatest struggle in life is you against, no, the greatest struggle in life is you going to be生命中最大的斗争是 你反对,不, 生命中最大的斗争是 你会是
305able to control your own impulses, to work up early to go to work, to say that I want to become能够控制自己的冲动 提前工作 说我想成为
306a better and more developed human being.一个更好和更发达的人。
307And put very simply, we as human beings, thank you,简而言之,我们人类,谢谢
308we as conservatives believe that happiness is a choice.我们保守派认为幸福是选择
309We're happy regardless of how bad things不管事情有多糟糕,我们都很开心
310are falling apart in our country.我们的国家正在瓦解。
311We're happy to be alive.我们很高兴活着。
312We're thankful for our existence.我们感激我们的存在
313Happiness is a choice.幸福是一种选择。
314If you go around trying to find happiness, all of a sudden you'll seek如果你四处寻找幸福 你会突然寻找
315pleasure over virtue.快乐胜于美德
316If you try to go find happiness as a state, it's nonsense.如果你试图去寻找幸福 作为一个州,这是胡说八道。
317Happiness快乐
318is a choice.是一个选择。
319It's a state of mind.谓心境.
320It's something that you must commit yourself.这是你必须做的
321You must work at你必须工作在
322too.也一样。
323You must say, man, what am I thankful for today?你必须说,伙计,我今天感谢什么?
324And I'm not trying to diminish suffering.我没有试图减少痛苦。
325Let me be very clear.让我说清楚
326Everybody here has something you're going through and it's a serious thing.这里每个人都有你经历的事情,这是一件很严重的事情.
327But that's not to say what does it mean to live a fulfilling life, to walk around always looking但这并不是说 过着充满满足的生活 到处走走
328at something worthy of protesting, tearing down, deconstructing, disassembling, or saying, man,在值得抗议、拆卸、拆解、拆散或说的东西上,
329if I made these 10 choices, if I stopped drinking, if I stopped doing drugs, if I stopped complaining,如果我做了这10个选择, 如果我停止喝酒, 如果我停止吸毒, 如果我停止抱怨,
330maybe my life will improve a little bit.也许我的生活会改善一点。
331Maybe if I all of a sudden start taking responsibility for也许如果我突然开始承担责任
332my actions, I'll start to see the fruits of those choices.我将开始看到这些选择的成果。
333That's a fundamental difference这是根本的区别
334because at the core, and I am not saying there are not public policy changes that need to be made.我并不是说没有公共政策需要改变。
335Trust me, there's plenty.相信我,这里有很多
336But the real struggle that we must all understand is that it's you但真正的斗争,我们必须 所有人都明白,这是你
337against you.对你不利。
338That if you devote yourself to saying, you know what, I'll be happy as soon as we get如果你专心于说,你知道的, 我会很高兴,只要我们得到
339universal health care.普及卫生保健。
340I'll be happy as soon as we get this person.只要我们抓到这个人,我就很开心
341That's never going to happen.这永远不会发生。
342The reason we have so many people searching for purpose in our country is because we have said to我们有这么多人在我国寻找目的 是因为我们说过
343so many students, don't go find responsibility, go find immediate pleasure and gratification.这么多学生,不要去寻找责任, 去寻找即时的快乐和满足。
344That we must instead prioritize things that make you have to all of a sudden challenge yourself.相反,我们必须优先考虑那些让你突然挑战自己的事情。
345Character is developed in the challenge.角色在挑战中发展.
346Strength rejoices in the challenge.力量在挑战中欢欣鼓舞.
347And we sometimes need我们有时需要
348to say, you know what, it's a good thing that you got to live a little bit tougher of a circumstance要说,你知道的, 这是好事,你必须 生活得更加艰难 在一个环境
349right now.现在
350As a 17, 18 or 19 year old, it'll make you a tougher person in the long run.作为17岁,18岁或19岁的人,从长远来看,这会让你成为一个更强硬的人.
351All right.好吧,我们走。
352What's going on, man?这是怎么回事,伙计?
353First of all, just two points.首先,只有两点。
354Coming from someone in a situation从某个情况中
355like you, that you never went to college, but you became very successful.像你一样,你从来没有上过大学, 但你变得非常成功。
356Coming from someone从某人那里
357in a situation like you, that you've never gone to college, but you're successful doing Tuning Point在像你这样的情况下,你从来没有上过大学, 但你成功做了图宁点
358USA.美国。
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360in my life, but unfortunately I'm at school spending a bunch of money because I'm stupid.但不幸的是我在学校花了很多钱 因为我很蠢
361So I want to be clear.所以我想说清楚
362Can I interrupt?我能打断一下吗?
363You guys can make college into a success.你们可以让大学成功
364When we say college当我们说大学
365is a scam, that's us saying that they're charging you too much money and the value proposition is这是个骗局,那就是我们说 他们收了你太多钱,价值是
366inverted.颠倒.
367But don't use that as a victim and say, oh, I can't get any value at it.但不要用它作为受害者 说,哦,我不能得到任何价值。
368Find the value,寻找值,
369hold onto the value, but please continue.保持该值, 但请继续 。
370How do you become successful without college?没有大学你怎么能成功?
371Okay.摆
372Yeah.对
373So first of all, I don't want to put you on the spot, but I'm sure you're good所以,首先,我不想让你 在现场,但我相信,你很好
374at something.在某样东西。
375What is your skill?你的技术是什么?
376If you had to say the thing I'm the best at.如果你不得不说,我是最好的。
377I do love talking.我喜欢说话。
378I love dialogue.我喜欢对话。
379I do love, I wouldn't say arguing, but I do like exchanging我确实爱,我不会说吵架, 但我确实喜欢交换
380differences.差别。
381Great.不错
382So now you're in the one, you're already in the 1% of the country.所以,现在你在一个, 你已经在1%的国家。
38399%
384of people hate talking.人们讨厌说话。
385In fact, the greatest fear in America is public speaking more than death.事实上,美国最大的恐惧是 公开的演讲多于死亡。
386True.没错
387So now all of a sudden you're in like a whole different category, right?所以,现在突然你 在一个完全不同的类别,对不对?
388Believe it or not,相信与否,
389every single job on every single company on the planet needs somebody that's good at communicating地球上每个公司的每一份工作都需要一个能沟通的人
390everyone, right?每个人,对不对?
391So whatever it is that you do, try to gravitate towards the thing that you like所以无论你做什么, 尝试引力到你喜欢的东西
392and that you're good at, which is to explain, right?你擅长解释,对吧?
393Whatever that is in a company, because公司里的东西 因为
394there's a lot of people that might be really good.有很多人 可能是真正的好人。
395Like I don't want to give the presentation,就像我不想发表演讲一样
396you know, and that, so you just kind of answer your own question.你知道,那, 所以你只是 一种回答你自己的问题。
397Here's the biggest thing.这是最重要的事情。
398Be a lifelong learner.毕生修习.
399Don't stop learning just because you might not be in college.不要因为你可能没上大学就停止学习。
400Are you freshmen, sophomore?你是新生吗,大二?
401I'm actually a senior.我其实是一个高年级。
402Okay.摆
403Get your degree.获得学位。
404That's my,这是我的,
405finish it.结束它。
406It's like, you know, you've already invested this much, get your degree and whatever就像,你知道, 你已经投资这么多, 获得你的学位和什么的
407it is.没错
408It'd be stupid not to.不这样做是愚蠢的。
409If you were freshmen, we might have a different discussion.如果你是新生 我们可能会有不同的讨论
410Okay.摆
411So这么说
412finish that out.完成这个。
413And then whether, if it's useful to you, great.如果对你有用,那就太好了
414If it's not, then so be it.如果不是,那就这样吧。
415And then try to find things that is the intersection of your skill and your passion.然后试着寻找你技巧和激情的交汇点。
416That's where就是这里
417you're going to succeed the best in life.你会成功 最好的生活。
418Dating is a struggle.约会是一种挣扎。
419What's your advice to young你对年轻人有什么建议?
420conservatives?保守派吗?
421And also how do you feel about dating apps?你对约会应用有什么感觉?
422Yeah.对
423So I'm not a huge fan of所以我不怎么喜欢
424dating apps, but so I will have an opinion here that will really get people.约会的应用程序, 但我会有一个意见 在这里,会真正得到人们。
425You should not date你不该约会的
426people that have different politics than you.那些有不同的政治 比你。
427You should not.你不应该。
428And I'm not, and the reason,而我没有, 和原因,
429I believe you should, you should date with the intent to marry.我想你应该,你应该约会 打算结婚。
430I don't think date is a hobby.我不认为约会是一种爱好。
431I think dating is an interview process.我认为约会是一个面试的过程。
432And I know that is a minority opinion on most college我知道这对大多数大学来说是少数派的意见
433campuses where date is a mechanism for, I don't know, companionship amongst other things.校区,约会是一种机制, 我不知道, 伴侣关系等等。
434It's这是
435gonna be tough.要去是艰难的。
436You're going to have to hopefully only date people in alignment with your values.但愿你只和那些符合你价值观的人约会
437Right?对吧?
438That doesn't mean you can't have friends with people that disagree with you,这不代表你不能和不同意你的人有朋友
439but dating is a very serious thing.但约会是一件非常严重的事情
440So how do you go about doing that?那么,你怎么做到做到这一点?
441Try to associate or尝试联系或
442marry or date somebody that does share your deeply held values.结婚或约会的人 与你一样深厚的价值观。
443I think that's very, very important.我觉得这很重要
444And secondly, I will say this, which is men in general who have difficulty finding women其次,我要说,是一般男人 很难找到女人
445generally have a couple problems.通常都有几个问题
446And this is not directed towards you.这不是针对你的
447I just met you.我刚认识你
448Okay.摆
449So这么说
450please, we're good if I say this?请,我们是好,如果我说这个?
451Okay.摆
452Most men are beta males.多数男性为β雄性.
453Okay.摆
454With very little to any,几乎没有人
455very little to any detectable testosterone, like the radar is trying their best.对任何可检测到的睾丸酮来说都很少, 就像雷达正在尽力。
456Men, I believe, especially in this time of moral and societal chaos, need to get back into what男人们,我认为,特别是在这个道德和社会混乱的时刻, 需要回到什么
457means to be a physically and mentally strong man, which I believe includes stopping watching意思是成为一个身体和精神强壮的人, 我相信包括停止观看
458pornography, which I believe means working out on a regular basis.色情,我相信这意味着经常工作。
459And I believe also understanding我同样相信
460that the most desirable quality that young ladies look for in men, according to my big survey of根据我的调查 年轻女士们在男人身上寻找的最理想的品质
461all of our listeners, is self-control.我们所有的听众都是自控的
462Is that young ladies say that they cannot find a young man是那些年轻女士说 他们找不到一个年轻男人
463who can control himself?谁能控制自己?
464That's a big deal.谓大乘.
465So put that all together.所以把这些都放在一起。
466What are you supposed to do?你该怎么办?
467Try to be the best version of yourself.试着成为你最好的版本
468And then be very clear with women and respectfully然后对女人说清楚 恭敬地
469about what you want and your intent.关于你想要什么,你的意图。
470A lot of men are intimidated by women.很多男人被女人吓到了
471And I get it.и笵
472It's这是
473because our entire culture has basically turned men to be intimidated by women.因为我们的整个文化 基本上使男人 被女人恐吓。
474They might accuse他们可能会指控
475you of something or whatever.你的东西或什么的。
476I would encourage you to be very direct.我鼓励你非常直接。
477Don't try this all like,不要这样尝试
478we're going to try the friend thing for a while.我们要尝试一下朋友的事
479Just be a man and say, I like you.做个男人说,我喜欢你
480I want to take我想带
481on a date.在约会。
482Does that happen anymore?这种事还会发生吗?
483Maybe it does.也许吧
484Probably not a lot.可能没什么
485My name is Grace.我叫格蕾丝
486I'm 13,我13岁了
487and I've been homeschooled since kindergarten.我从幼儿园开始就在家里上学了
488I really appreciate your podcast.非常感谢你的播客。
489Politics can be政治可以这样
490difficult for me to fully understand, but the way in which you present ideas makes it easier to我很难完全理解,但你提出想法的方式使
491grasp.抓着
492My younger sister and I recently started watching the online Hillsdale college course我妹妹和我最近开始看 在线希尔斯代尔大学课程
493regarding the constitution, which we've been enjoying.关于宪法,我们一直享受。
494So this is my question to you.这就是我要问你的问题
495What什麽?
496advice do you have for me as I move into adulthood in order to become a more informed and involved我长大成人时你有什么建议吗? 为了成为一个更知情和更参与的人
497citizen?公民吗?
498Well, first of all, thank you for being here.嗯,首先,谢谢你来到这里。
499And I have hope thanks to people like you.感谢你们这样的人,我也有希望
500How old are you again?你又几岁了?
50113.13个
502So here's a couple of things I want to encourage you to do.我想鼓励你做一些事情。
503Learn学习
504something new every single day and focus on what it means to be a good person and a person of strong每一天都有新的东西 专注于做一个好人和强人的意义
505character.字符键。
506And especially when you get into the world of trying to be around social approval and特别是当你进入世界 试图围绕社会认可,
507kind of everything around you.你身边的一切
508Courage is what's missing in our country.勇气是我国所缺少的.
509We have a courage crisis我们有勇气危机
510right now.现在
511Moral courage is the most necessary yet absent characteristic in men.道德勇气是男人中最必要但却没有的特征。
512乔治·S·巴顿(George S.
513Aristotle, who you will learn about if you continue on the wonderful Hillsdale courses,亚里士多德,如果你继续学习 精彩的希尔斯代尔课程,你会学到什么,
514and I'm glad you're already taking us.我很高兴你已经带我们走了
515You're already well on your way.你已经在路上了
516Aristotle said that亚里士多德说
517courage is the ultimate virtue.勇气是终极美德.
518Without it, there are no other virtues.没有它,就没有其他的美德。
519Think about that.考虑一下
520If people如果人们
521aren't courageous, you don't have honesty.不勇敢,你没有诚实。
522You don't have justice.你没有正义
523You don't have anything else你没有别的了
524that we don't beauty.我们不美
525You don't have wonder if people don't have courage to act.你没有怀疑 人们没有勇气去行动。
526And so at age因此,在年龄
52713, I want you to commit yourself to a life of courage.13,我希望你致力于 自己的勇气生活。
528Courage is doing the right thing when you勇气是做正确的事情 当你
529don't know how it's going to work out.不知如何是法门.
530Courage is committing yourself to the correct course of勇气正致力于正确的
531action, regardless of the cost associated to it.行动,无论相关费用如何。
532And I'm given hope by the amount of young年轻的我充满希望
533homeschooling children that are rising up in our country.在我国成长的儿童的家庭教育。
534Now, let me tell you this.让我告诉你
535People say, Charlie, what does success look like?人们说,查理,成功是什么样子?
536New York Times headline in 2050.2050年纽约时报頭條要聞.
537America's sudden,美国突然
538sudden, shocking and inexplicable right turn can be traced back to homeschooling explosion突然的,令人震惊的,无法解释的右转可以追溯到家教爆炸
539在COVID-19期间。
540That's what success looks like everybody.这才是大家的成功
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