实战练英文｜这就是她让全场破防的原因【泰勒·斯威夫特纽约大学
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:01 | Hi, I'm Taylor. | 嗨,我是泰勒,你好吗? |
| 0:07 | Last time I was in a stadium this size, I was dancing in heels and wearing | 上次我在这么大的体育场 我穿着高跟鞋跳舞 |
| 0:12 | a glittery leotard. | 闪闪发光 |
| 0:16 | This outfit is much more comfortable. | 这件衣服更舒服 |
| 0:20 | I would like to say a huge thank | 我想说一个巨大的感谢 |
| 0:23 | you to NYU's Chairman of the Board of Trustees, Bill Berkley, and all the trustees and members | 纽约大学董事会董事长比尔·伯克利 以及所有董事和董事 |
| 0:30 | of the board, NYU's President Andrew Hamilton, Provost Catherine Fleming, and the faculty | 纽约大学校长安德鲁·汉密尔顿 普罗沃斯特·凯瑟琳·弗莱明 以及教职员工 |
| 0:39 | and alumni here today who have made this day possible. | 和今天在这里的校友 谁使今天成为可能。 |
| 0:43 | I feel so proud to share this day | 我为分享这一天感到骄傲 |
| 0:47 | with my fellow honorees, Susan Hockfield and Felix Matos Rodriguez, who humble me with | 与我的同僚苏珊·霍克菲尔德 和费利克斯·马托斯·罗德里格斯 他们谦卑我 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Hi, I'm Taylor. | 嗨,我是泰勒,你好吗? |
| 2 | Last time I was in a stadium this size, I was dancing in heels and wearing | 上次我在这么大的体育场 我穿着高跟鞋跳舞 |
| 3 | a glittery leotard. | 闪闪发光 |
| 4 | This outfit is much more comfortable. | 这件衣服更舒服 |
| 5 | I would like to say a huge thank | 我想说一个巨大的感谢 |
| 6 | you to NYU's Chairman of the Board of Trustees, Bill Berkley, and all the trustees and members | 纽约大学董事会董事长比尔·伯克利 以及所有董事和董事 |
| 7 | of the board, NYU's President Andrew Hamilton, Provost Catherine Fleming, and the faculty | 纽约大学校长安德鲁·汉密尔顿 普罗沃斯特·凯瑟琳·弗莱明 以及教职员工 |
| 8 | and alumni here today who have made this day possible. | 和今天在这里的校友 谁使今天成为可能。 |
| 9 | I feel so proud to share this day | 我为分享这一天感到骄傲 |
| 10 | with my fellow honorees, Susan Hockfield and Felix Matos Rodriguez, who humble me with | 与我的同僚苏珊·霍克菲尔德 和费利克斯·马托斯·罗德里格斯 他们谦卑我 |
| 11 | the ways they improve our world with their work. | 他们通过工作改善我们的世界的方式。 |
| 12 | As for me, I'm 90% sure the main reason | 至于我,我百分之九十确定主要原因 |
| 13 | I'm here is because I have a song called 22. | 我来这里是因为我有首歌叫22 |
| 14 | And let me just say, I am elated to be here | 让我说,我很高兴能在这里 |
| 15 | with you today as we celebrate and graduate New York University's Class of 2022. | 今天和你们一起庆祝 纽约大学2022年班毕业 |
| 16 | Not | 没有 |
| 17 | a single one of us here today has done it alone. | 今天在座的我们中有一个人独自完成这项任务。 |
| 18 | We are each a patchwork quilt of those | 我们每个人都是这些杂碎的被子 |
| 19 | who have loved us, those who have believed in our futures, those who showed us empathy | 曾经爱过我们, 曾经相信我们的未来, 那些向我们表示同情的人 |
| 20 | and kindness, or told us the truth even when it wasn't easy to hear. | 和仁慈,或告诉我们真相 即使它不是容易听到的。 |
| 21 | Those who told us | 那些告诉我们的人 |
| 22 | we could do it when there was absolutely no proof of that. | 如果绝对没有证据的话,我们可以这么做。 |
| 23 | Someone read stories to you | 有人读故事给你听 |
| 24 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}并教你做梦 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}给你一些对错的道德守则 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}让你尝试 | |
| 25 | and live by. | 活在身边 |
| 26 | Someone tried their best to explain every concept in this insanely complex world | 有人尽了最大努力来解释 在这个疯狂复杂的世界中的每一个概念 |
| 27 | to the child that was you as you asked a bazillion questions like, how does the moon work and | 向那个你问了很多问题的孩子问 月亮是怎么工作的 |
| 28 | why can we eat salad but not grass? | 为什么我们不能吃沙拉而不是草? |
| 29 | And maybe they didn't do it perfectly. | 也许他们没完美完成 |
| 30 | No one ever | 没有人 |
| 31 | can. | 能够。 |
| 32 | Maybe they aren't with us anymore. | 也许他们不再和我们在一起了 |
| 33 | In that case, I hope you'll remember them today. | 这样的话,我希望你今天能记住他们. |
| 34 | If they are in this stadium, I hope you'll find your own way to express your gratitude | 如果他们在这体育场,我希望你能想办法表达你的感激 |
| 35 | for all the steps and missteps that have led us to this common destination. | 所有导致我们来到这个共同目的地的步骤和错误。 |
| 36 | I know that | и笵 |
| 37 | words are supposed to be my thing, but I will never be able to find the words to thank my | 话本是我的事 但我永远找不到话语来感谢我 |
| 38 | mom and dad, my brother Austin, for the sacrifices they made every day so I could go from singing | 妈妈和爸爸,我的哥哥奥斯汀, 他们每天所做的牺牲,让我可以去唱歌 |
| 39 | in coffee houses to standing up here with you all today because no words would ever | 今天在咖啡馆和你们站在一起 因为没有话说 |
| 40 | be enough. | 够了 |
| 41 | To all the incredible parents, family members, mentors, teachers, allies, | 敬所有不可思议的父母、家人、导师、教师、盟友 |
| 42 | friends and loved ones here today who have supported these students in their pursuit | 今天在这里的朋友和亲人 支持这些学生的追求 |
| 43 | of educational enrichment, let me say to you now, welcome to New York. | 现在我要对你们说,欢迎来到纽约。 |
| 44 | It's been waiting | 它一直在等待着 |
| 45 | for you. | 给你的 |
| 46 | I'd like to thank NYU for making me, technically, on paper at least, a doctor. | 感谢纽约大学让我在纸上做医生 |
| 47 | Not the type of doctor you would want around in case of an emergency. | 不是在紧急情况下你想找的那种医生 |
| 48 | Unless your specific | 除非你的特质 |
| 49 | emergency was that you desperately needed to hear a song with a catchy hook and an | 紧急的是,你迫切需要听到一首歌 用一个捕捉的钩子和 |
| 50 | intensely cathartic bridge section. | 极密的桥段 |
| 51 | Or if your emergency was that you needed a person | 如果你的紧急需要一个人 |
| 52 | who can name over 50 breeds of cats in one minute. | 他们可以在一分钟内命名50多个品种的猫. |
| 53 | I never got to have a normal college | 我从来没有一个正常的大学 |
| 54 | experience per se. | 经验本身。 |
| 55 | I went to public high school until 10th grade and then finished my education | 我读到10年级就念了公立高中 然后完成了学业 |
| 56 | doing homeschool work on the floors of airport terminals. | 在机场码头的楼层上做家庭学校工作。 |
| 57 | Then I went out on the road for | 然后,我出去 在路上为 |
| 58 | radio tour, which sounds incredibly glamorous, but in reality it consisted of a rental car, | 电台巡演听起来非常迷人 但实际上是由一辆租来的车组成 |
| 59 | motels and my mom and I pretending to have loud mother-daughter fights with each other | 汽车旅馆和我妈妈和我假装 母女吵架吵吵闹闹 |
| 60 | during boarding so no one would want the empty seat between us on Southwest. | 在登机时 没人会想要我们之间的西南空位 |
| 61 | As a kid, I | 作为一个孩子,我 |
| 62 | always thought I would go away to college imagining the posters I would hang on the | 总是想着我会去大学 想象那些海报我会挂在 |
| 63 | wall of my freshman dorm. | 我的新生宿舍的墙壁 |
| 64 | I even set the ending of my music video for my song, Love Story, | 我甚至为我的歌"爱情故事"设定了音乐录影带的结尾 |
| 65 | at my fantasy imaginary college where I meet a male model reading a book on the grass and | 在我幻想中的大学里 我遇见了一个男模特儿 在读一本草地上的书 |
| 66 | with one single glance we realized we had been in love in our past lives. | 我们一眼就意识到 我们曾经相爱过 |
| 67 | Which is exactly | 没错 |
| 68 | what you guys all experienced at some point in the last four years, right? | 你们在过去四年的某个时刻 经历了什么,对吧? |
| 69 | But I really | 不过,我真的 |
| 70 | can't complain about not having a normal college experience to you because you went to NYU | 不能抱怨你没有正常的大学经历 因为你去了纽约大学 |
| 71 | during a global pandemic. | 全球大流行期间 |
| 72 | Being essentially locked into your dorms and having to do classes | 基本上被锁在宿舍里 还要上课 |
| 73 | over Zoom, everyone in college during normal times stresses about test scores. | 在正常时间里,大学里的每个人都会强调考试成绩 |
| 74 | But on top | 但顶部 |
| 75 | of that, you also had to pass like a thousand COVID tests. | 其中,你还必须通过 像一千COVID测试。 |
| 76 | I imagine the idea of a normal | 我想象一个正常的想法 |
| 77 | college experience was all you wanted to. | 大学经验就是你想要的 |
| 78 | But in this case, you and I both learned that | 但在这种情况下,你和我都学会了 |
| 79 | you don't always get all the things in the bag that you selected from the menu in the | 你并不总是得到所有的东西 在包 你从菜单中选择 |
| 80 | surface that is life. | 表面,这就是生命。 |
| 81 | You get what you get. | 你得到你得到的东西。 |
| 82 | And as I would like to say to you wholeheartedly, | 正如我想对你说的, |
| 83 | you should be very proud of what you've done with it. | 你应该为你所做的一切感到骄傲 |
| 84 | Today, you leave New York University | 今天你离开纽约大学 |
| 85 | and then go out into the world searching what's next. | 然后到外面的世界去寻找接下来的 |
| 86 | And so will I. | 我也一样。 |
| 87 | So as a rule, I try not | 所以,作为一个规则,我尝试不 |
| 88 | to give anyone unsolicited advice unless they ask for it. | 除非他们要求,否则要向任何人提供自愿建议。 |
| 89 | I'll go into this more later. | 我以后再谈这个 |
| 90 | I guess I have been officially solicited in this situation to impart whatever wisdom I | 我被正式邀请来传授智慧 |
| 91 | might have to tell you things that have helped me so far in my life. | 可能得告诉你一些事情 帮助了我至今的生活。 |
| 92 | Please bear in mind | 请记住 |
| 93 | that I in no way feel qualified to tell you what to do. | 我绝对没有资格告诉你该怎么做 |
| 94 | You've worked and struggled and | 你努力奋斗 |
| 95 | sacrificed and studied and dreamed your way here today. | 牺牲 学习 梦想着今天的路 |
| 96 | And so you know what you're doing. | 并令知见. |
| 97 | You'll do things differently than I did them and for different reasons. | 你会做不同的事情 比我做, 出于不同的原因。 |
| 98 | So I won't tell | 所以我不会告诉 |
| 99 | you what to do because no one likes that. | 你怎么办 因为没人喜欢这样 |
| 100 | I will, however, give you some life hacks | 但我会给你一些生活黑客 |
| 101 | I wish I knew when I was starting out my dreams of a career and navigating life, love, pressure, | 我希望我知道 当我开始我的梦想 一个事业 和航海生活,爱,压力, |
| 102 | choices, shame, hope, and friendship. | 选择、羞耻、希望和友谊 |
| 103 | The first of which is life can be heavy, especially if you | 第一个是生活会很沉重 尤其是如果你 |
| 104 | try to carry it all at once. | 试着随身携带 |
| 105 | Part of growing up and moving into new chapters of your life is about | 成长和进入你生活的新篇章 |
| 106 | catch and release. | 捕捉和释放。 |
| 107 | What I mean by that is knowing what things to keep and what things to release. | 我意思是知道要保存什么,要释放什么。 |
| 108 | You can't carry all things. | 不能随一切物. |
| 109 | All grudges, all updates on your ex, all enviable promotions | 所有怨恨,所有更新 你的前任,所有令人羡慕的升迁 |
| 110 | your school bully got at the hedge fund his uncle started. | 你的学校欺负他叔叔的对冲基金 |
| 111 | Decide what is yours to hold | 决定你持有什么 |
| 112 | and let the rest go. | 然后让剩下的人离开 |
| 113 | Oftentimes the good things in your life are lighter anyway, so there's | 平时你生活中的好东西都比较轻,所以... |
| 114 | more room for them. | 给他们更多的空间。 |
| 115 | One toxic relationship can outweigh so many wonderful, simple joys. | 一个有毒的关系可以超过这么多美妙的,简单的快乐. |
| 116 | You get to pick what your life has time and room for. | 你可以选择你的生活有时间和空间。 |
| 117 | Be discerning. | 辨识. |
| 118 | Secondly, learn to | 第二,学习 |
| 119 | 和Cringe一起生活着 | |
| 120 | No matter how hard you try to avoid being cringe, you will look | 无论你多么努力 避免被Cringe,你会看起来 |
| 121 | back on your life and cringe retrospectively. | 回到你的生活 和Cringe回顾。 |
| 122 | Cringe is unavoidable over a lifetime. | 克林格一生难免 |
| 123 | Even the | 连 |
| 124 | 有朝一日,Cringe可能会被视为Cringe。 | |
| 125 | I promise you, you're probably doing or wearing | 我向你保证,你可能 做或穿 |
| 126 | something right now that you will look back on later and find revolting and hilarious. | 现在,你会回头看 发现恶心和搞笑。 |
| 127 | You can't | 你不能这样 |
| 128 | avoid it, so don't try to. | 避免它,所以不要试图。 |
| 129 | For example, I had a phase where for the entirety of 2012, I dressed | 例如,我有一个阶段,2012年整年我都穿好衣服 |
| 130 | like a 1950s housewife. | 像一个1950年代的家庭主妇。 |
| 131 | But you know what? | 但你知道吗? |
| 132 | I was having fun. | 我很开心 |
| 133 | Trends and phases are fun. | 趋势和阶段是有趣的。 |
| 134 | Looking | 寻找 |
| 135 | back and laughing is fun. | 回来和笑是乐趣。 |
| 136 | And while we're talking about things that make us squirm but really | 当我们在谈论一些事情 使我们沉闷,但真的 |
| 137 | I'd like to say I'm a big advocate for not hiding your enthusiasm for things. | 我想说,我是一个伟大的倡导者 不隐藏你对事物的热情。 |
| 138 | It seems to me that | 在我看来 |
| 139 | there is a false stigma around eagerness in our culture of unbothered ambivalence. | 我们的矛盾文化充满着强烈的渴望。 |
| 140 | This outlook | 这一前景 |
| 141 | perpetuates the idea that it's not cool to want it. | 使想要它并不酷的想法永久化. |
| 142 | That people who don't try are fundamentally | 根本上不尝试的人 |
| 143 | more chic than people who do. | 比别人更性感 |
| 144 | And I wouldn't know because I've been a lot of things, but I've never | 我不知道,因为我一直 很多事情,但我从来没有 |
| 145 | been an expert on chic, but I'm the one who's up here, so you have to listen to me when I say this. | 曾经是研究奇才的专家,但我是那个在这里的人,所以你必须听我的,当我说这个的时候。 |
| 146 | Never be ashamed of trying. | 永远不要为尝试感到羞耻。 |
| 147 | Effortlessness is a myth. | 无功是神话. |
| 148 | The people who wanted it the least were the | 最不想要的人就是那个 |
| 149 | ones I wanted to date and be friends with in high school. | 那些我想和高中同学约会的 |
| 150 | The people who want it the most are the | 最想要的就是他们 |
| 151 | people I now hire to work for my company. | 现在雇我为公司工作的人 |
| 152 | I started writing songs when I was 12 and since then it's | 我12岁开始写歌 从那时起 |
| 153 | been the compass guiding my life and in turn my life guided my writing. | 是指引我一生的指南针 反过来我的生命指导了我的写作 |
| 154 | Everything I do is just an | 我所做的一切都是一个 |
| 155 | extension of my writing, whether it's directing videos or a short film, creating the visuals for | 我写作的扩展, 无论是导演视频还是短片, 创造视觉 |
| 156 | a tour or standing on a stage performing. | 巡回演出或站在舞台上表演。 |
| 157 | Everything is connected by my love of the craft, the thrill | 所有事情都与我对工艺的热爱和刺激联系在一起 |
| 158 | of working through ideas and narrowing them down and polishing it all up in the end, editing, | 研究想法,缩小范围 并磨光所有的东西 最终,编辑, |
| 159 | waking up in the middle of the night, throwing out the old idea because you just thought of a | 半夜醒来 抛出旧主意 因为你刚刚想到 |
| 160 | new or better one or a plot device that ties the whole thing together. | 新的或更好的 或一个阴谋装置 连接整个事情在一起。 |
| 161 | There's a reason they call | 他们打电话是有原因的 |
| 162 | it a hook. | 这是一个钩子。 |
| 163 | Sometimes a string of words just ensnares me and I can't focus on anything until | 有时候,一串词只是 缠绕我,我不能专注于任何事情 直到 |
| 164 | it's been recorded or written down. | 被记录或记下来了 |
| 165 | As a songwriter I've never been able to sit still or stay in one | 作为一名作曲家,我一直无法静静地坐着或留在其中 |
| 166 | creative place for too long. | 创作的地方太久了 |
| 167 | I've made and released 11 albums and in the process I've switched genre | 我制作并发行了11张专辑,在这个过程中,我改变了流派 |
| 168 | from country to pop to alternative to folk and this might sound like a very songwriter centric | 从乡村到流行 替代民俗 这听起来可能像 一个非常的作曲家的核心 |
| 169 | line of discussion but in a way I really do think we are all writers and most of us write in a | 我确实认为我们都是作家, |
| 170 | different voice for different situations. | 不同情况的声音不同 |
| 171 | You write differently in your Instagram stories than | 你在你的Instagram故事中写得不同 |
| 172 | you do your senior thesis. | 你做你的高级论文。 |
| 173 | You send a different type of email to your boss than you do your best | 你给老板发的邮件 比你尽力的还要多 |
| 174 | friend from home. | 朋友从家里。 |
| 175 | We are all literary chameleons and I think it's fascinating. | 我们都是文学变色龙 我觉得很迷人 |
| 176 | It's just a | 这只是一个 |
| 177 | continuation of the idea that we are so many things all the time and I know it can be really | 继续认为我们是 这么多的事情所有的时间 我知道这可以是真的 |
| 178 | overwhelming figuring out who to be and when. | 不知何时何地 |
| 179 | Who you are now and how to act in order to get where | 你现在是谁 怎样行动才能到哪里去 |
| 180 | you want to go. | 你想走吗? |
| 181 | I have some good news. | 我有个好消息 |
| 182 | It's totally up to you. | 这完全取决于你。 |
| 183 | I have some terrifying news. | 我有一些可怕的消息。 |
| 184 | It's | 这是 |
| 185 | totally up to you. | 完全取决于你。 |
| 186 | I said to you earlier that I don't ever offer advice unless someone asked me | 我早说过 除非有人问我 否则我从不给你建议 |
| 187 | for it and now I'll tell you why. | 现在我要告诉你原因 |
| 188 | As a person who started my very public career at the age of 15 it | 作为15岁开始我公共事业的人 |
| 189 | came with a price and that price was years of unsolicited advice. | 价格是有价的 价格是多年的无价建议 |
| 190 | Being the youngest person in | 作为最年轻的 |
| 191 | every room for over a decade meant that I was constantly being issued warnings from older members | 十多年来每个房间 都意味着我不断收到老会员的警告 |
| 192 | of the music industry, media, interviewers, executives, and this advice often presented | 音乐行业、媒体、采访者、高管, 以及这种建议 |
| 193 | itself as thinly veiled warnings. | 以隐微的警告盟誓, |
| 194 | See I was a teenager at a time when our society was absolutely | 你看,我是一个少年的时候 我们的社会是绝对的 |
| 195 | obsessed with the idea of having perfect young female role models. | 沉迷于拥有完美年轻女性榜样的想法. |
| 196 | It felt like every interview | 感觉就像每次采访 |
| 197 | I did included slight barbs by the interviewer about me one day running off the rails and that | 我确实包括了 采访者微弱的巴布 关于我一天跑出栏杆 |
| 198 | meant a different thing to every person who said it to me. | 对每一个对我说的人来说 都意味着不同的事情 |
| 199 | So I became a young adult while being fed the | 所以我成了一个年轻的成年人 一边被喂养 |
| 200 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}如果我没犯错 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}所有美国孩子都会成长成完美的 | |
| 201 | angels. | 天使们 |
| 202 | However if I did slip up the entire earth would fall off its axis and it would be entirely my | 但是,如果我真的滑了整个地球 会从它的轴上掉下来 它会完全是我的 |
| 203 | and I would go to pop star jail forever and ever. | 我会永远地进明星监狱 |
| 204 | It was all centered around the idea that mistakes | 这都是围绕错误的想法 |
| 205 | equal failure and ultimately the loss of any chance at a happy or rewarding life. | 同样的失败,并最终在幸福或有报酬的生活中失去任何机会。 |
| 206 | This has | 这已经 |
| 207 | not been my experience. | 这不是我的经验。 |
| 208 | My experience has been that my mistakes led to the best things in my | 我的经验是,我的错误 导致了我最好的事物 |
| 209 | life and being embarrassed when you mess up it's part of the human experience. | 生活和尴尬 当你搞砸了 这是人类经验的一部分。 |
| 210 | Getting back up, | 站起来 |
| 211 | dusting yourself off, and seeing who still wants to hang out with you afterward and laugh about it | 擦身而过,看看还有谁想和你玩 之后,并嘲笑它 |
| 212 | that's a gift. | 这是一个礼物。 |
| 213 | The times I was told no or wasn't included, wasn't chosen, didn't win, didn't make | 我被告知没有,或者没有包括, 没有选择,没有赢得,没有创造 |
| 214 | the cut. | 伤口。 |
| 215 | Looking back it really feels like those moments were as important if not more crucial than | 回头看,真的感觉这些时刻 和以前一样重要 |
| 216 | the moments I was told yes. | 那一刻我被告知是的。 |
| 217 | Not being invited to the parties and sleepovers in my hometown made me | 没有被邀请参加派对 和在家乡过夜让我 |
| 218 | feel hopelessly lonely but because I felt alone I would sit in my room and write the songs that would | 觉得孤独无比 但我觉得孤独 我会坐在我的房间写歌 |
| 219 | get me a ticket somewhere else. | 去别的地方给我买张票 |
| 220 | Having label executives in Nashville tell me that only 35-year-old | 纳什维尔有高管告诉我 只有35岁 |
| 221 | housewives listen to country music and there was no place for a 13-year-old on their roster made me | 家庭主妇听乡下音乐 连13岁的孩子都找不到 |
| 222 | cry in the car on the way home but then I'd post my songs on my MySpace and yes MySpace and I would | 回家的路上在车里哭 但我会把我的歌贴在我的空间上 是的,我的空间,我会 |
| 223 | message with other teenagers like me who loved country music but just didn't have anyone singing | 和喜欢乡村音乐但没人唱的我这样的青少年说话 |
| 224 | from their perspective. | 从他们的视角。 |
| 225 | Having journalists write in-depth oftentimes critical pieces about who they | 记者们经常会深入地写关于他们是谁的批评文章 |
| 226 | perceived me to be made me feel like I was living in some weird simulation but it also made me look | 感觉我就像生活在一个奇怪的模拟中 但也让我看起来 |
| 227 | inward to learn about who I actually am. | 了解我的真实身份 |
| 228 | Having the world treat my love life like a spectator sport | 这个世界把我爱的生活当成一个观众运动 |
| 229 | in which I lose every single game was not a great way to date in my teens and 20s but it taught me to | 我十几岁和二十多岁的时候 输掉每场比赛 并不是个好方法 但是它教会了我 |
| 230 | protect my private life fiercely. | 大力保护我的私生活 |
| 231 | Being publicly humiliated over and over again at a young age was | 年轻时经常被公开羞辱 |
| 232 | excruciatingly painful but it forced me to devalue the ridiculous notion of minute by minute ever | 令人痛心的,但它迫使我 贬低可笑的概念 一分钟一个分钟的 |
| 233 | fluctuating social relevance and likeability. | 社会相关性和可喜性波动。 |
| 234 | Getting cancelled on the internet and nearly losing | 在互联网上被取消 几乎输了 |
| 235 | my career gave me an excellent knowledge of all the types of wine. | 我的职业让我对各种类型的葡萄酒 都非常了解 |
| 236 | I know I sound like a consummate | 我知道我听起来像一个完美的人 |
| 237 | optimist but I'm really not. | 乐观,但我真的不是。 |
| 238 | I lose perspective all the time. | 我总是失去理智 |
| 239 | Sometimes everything just feels | 有时候一切只是感觉 |
| 240 | completely pointless. | 完全毫无意义。 |
| 241 | I know the pressure of living your life through the lens of perfectionism | 我知道生活的压力 通过完美主义的镜头 |
| 242 | and I know that I'm talking to a group of perfectionists because you are here today | 我知道我跟一群完美主义者说话 因为你今天在这里 |
| 243 | graduating from NYU so this might be hard for you to hear. | 纽约大学毕业后,你可能很难听 |
| 244 | In your life you will inevitably | 在你的生活中,你将不可避免地 |
| 245 | mis-speak, trust the wrong person, underreact, overreact, hurt the people who didn't deserve it, | 错误的言语, 信任错人, 反应不足,反应过度, 伤害不值得的人, |
| 246 | overthink, not think at all, self-sabotage, create a reality where only your experience exists, ruin | 过度思考 完全不思考 自我破坏 创造现实 只有你的经验存在 毁灭 |
| 247 | perfectly good moments for yourself and others, deny any wrongdoing, not take the steps to make | 对自己和其他人来说是美好的时刻 否认任何错误 而不是采取步骤 |
| 248 | right, feel very guilty, let the guilt eat at you, hit rock bottom, finally address the pain you | 对,感到很内疚 让内疚吞噬你, 击落岩石底, 最后解决你的痛苦 |
| 249 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}下次再洗一次 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}再洗一次 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}再洗一次 | |
| 250 | And I'm not gonna lie these mistakes will cause | 我不会撒谎 这些错误会导致 |
| 251 | you to lose things. | 你会失去一切 |
| 252 | I'm trying to tell you that losing things doesn't just mean losing. | 我试图告诉你,失去的东西 不只是意味着失去。 |
| 253 | A lot of | 许多 |
| 254 | time when we lose things we gain things too. | 当我们失去东西的时候 我们也会得到东西 |
| 255 | Now you leave the structure and framework of school | 现在你离开学校的结构和框架 |
| 256 | and chart your own path. | 并规划自己的道路。 |
| 257 | Every choice you make leads to the next choice which leads to the next | 你所做的每一个选择都会导致下一个选择 导致下一个选择 |
| 258 | and I know it's hard to know which path to take. | 我知道很难知道该走哪条路 |
| 259 | There will be times in life where you need to stand | 生命中会有你需要站立的时刻 |
| 260 | up for yourself, times when the right thing is actually to back down and apologize, times when | 为自己着想,有时正确的事情是 退后道歉,有时 |
| 261 | the right thing is to fight, times when the right thing is to turn and run, times to hold on with | 正确的事情是战斗, 当正确的事情是 转身和运行, |
| 262 | all you have, and times to let go with grace, sometimes the right thing to do is to throw out | 所有你拥有的,和时间 松开与恩典, 有时正确的事情是扔出 |
| 263 | the old schools of thought in the name of progress and reform, sometimes the right thing to do is to | 以进步和改革为名的古老思想流派,有时正确的做法是 |
| 264 | sit and listen to the wisdom of those who have come before us. | sit坐听前人智慧. |
| 265 | How will you know what the right | 你怎么会知道呢? |
| 266 | choice is in these crucial moments? | 选择就在这关键时刻? |
| 267 | You won't. | 你不会的。 |
| 268 | How do I give advice to this many people about | 我怎么给这么多人建议? |
| 269 | their life choices? | 他们的人生选择? |
| 270 | I won't. | 我不会的 |
| 271 | The scary news is you're on your own now. | 可怕的消息是你现在只能靠自己了 |
| 272 | But the cool news is | 但最酷的消息是,我们... |
| 273 | you're on your own now. | 你现在靠自己了 |
| 274 | I leave you with this. | 我把这个留给你 |
| 275 | We are led by our gut instincts, our intuition, | 我们的直觉 直觉 |
| 276 | our desires and fears, our scars and our dreams. | 我们的欲望和恐惧 我们的伤疤和梦想 |
| 277 | And you will screw it up sometimes. | 你有时候会搞砸了 |
| 278 | So will I. | 我也一样。 |
| 279 | And when I do, you will most likely read about it on the internet. | 当我这样做,你很可能 在互联网上看到它。 |
| 280 | Anyway, hard things | 无论如何,艰难的事情 |
| 281 | will happen to us. | 将发生在我们身上。 |
| 282 | We will recover. | 我们会恢复的 |
| 283 | We will learn from it. | 我们将从中吸取教训。 |
| 284 | We will grow more resilient | 我们会变得更有韧性 |
| 285 | because of it. | 因为它。 |
| 286 | And as long as we are fortunate enough to be breathing, | 只要我们有幸呼吸 |
| 287 | we will breathe in, breathe through, breathe deep, breathe out. | 我们会呼吸,呼吸 通过,呼吸深,呼吸出来。 |
| 288 | And I am a doctor now, | 我现在是医生了 |
| 289 | so I know how breathing works. | 所以我知道呼吸如何运作。 |
| 290 | I hope you know how proud I am to share this day with you. | 我希望你知道我有多骄傲 与你分享这一天。 |
| 291 | We're doing this together. | 我们一起来 |
| 292 | So let's just keep dancing like we're the class of 22. | 所以,让我们继续跳舞 像我们是22级。 |
| 293 | We're doing this together. So let's just keep dancing like we're the class of 22. We're doing | 我们一起来 所以,让我们继续跳舞 像我们是22级。 我们做 |
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