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0:00Today's my 39th birthday, like right now, today.今天是我39岁生日 就像现在,今天
0:02I thought I'd give you a list of 39 things我想给你一份39样东西的清单
0:04I wish I knew many years ago.我希望我知道很多年前。
0:07Choose your heart.选择你的心脏。
0:08Being poor is hard.穷是苦.
0:09Getting rich is hard.发财难.
0:10Being overweight is hard.超重是很难的。
0:11Getting fit is hard.适应是很难的。
0:13Being married is hard.结婚很难
0:14Being single, hard.单身,硬。
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1Today's my 39th birthday, like right now, today.今天是我39岁生日 就像现在,今天
2I thought I'd give you a list of 39 things我想给你一份39样东西的清单
3I wish I knew many years ago.我希望我知道很多年前。
4Choose your heart.选择你的心脏。
5Being poor is hard.穷是苦.
6Getting rich is hard.发财难.
7Being overweight is hard.超重是很难的。
8Getting fit is hard.适应是很难的。
9Being married is hard.结婚很难
10Being single, hard.单身,硬。
11Every choice in life is hard.生活中的每一个选择都是艰难的.
12If you don't choose hard, your hard will choose you.如果你不努力地选择,你的艰难会选择你.
13Ask more questions.问多问.
14Socrates said,苏格拉底说,
15smart people learn from everything and everyone.聪明人从一切和每个人身上学习.
16Average people learn from their experiences.普通人从经验中学习.
17Stupid people already have all of the answers.愚蠢的人已经得到了所有的答案。
18So when you ask the right question,所以当你问对问题时
19you will find out the right answer.你会找到正确的答案。
20Amateurs want to do what they love.业余爱好者想做自己喜欢的事.
21Pros learn to love what it takes.Pros学会爱它需要什么。
22It's not about what you're good at.与你擅长的无关.
23It's about doing what needs to be done.是为修行所须.
24There's a real big difference.实有大差别.
25And if you figure it out, you'll be what most people won't.如果你想出办法 你会成为大多数人不会做到的
26I have a friend who used to work for two billionaires.我有个朋友曾经为两个亿万富翁工作
27After all he's seen, he said to me,在他看到这么多之后,他对我说,
28I wish you not one penny over $299 million.我希望你不要一分钱超过2.99亿美元。
29Reality gets lost somewhere after that.之后,现实会迷失方向
30So don't chase billions.故不追亿.
31Chase purpose.蔡斯目标.
32We've weaponized distraction against ourselves.我们用武器分散了我们的注意力
33We've turned silence into the enemy.我们把沉默变成了敌人
34Every goddamn moment has to be productive now.每一刻都得有所作为
35Can't just walk, need the podcast.不能只是走,需要播客。
36Can't shit in peace, gotta scroll.不能大便在和平, 必须滚动。
37Can't eat without Netflix numbing the edges.没有Netflix麻木的边缘,不能吃.
38It's mental fast food.这是精神快餐。
39You don't need empty calories for your body身体不需要空热量
40or for your mind.或为汝智.
41One of the greatest unlocks you can have,最大的解锁之一 你可以拥有,
42be bored more often.更无聊。
43Turn off your phone and your brain turns on.关掉你的电话,你的大脑打开。
44Once you lose it, it's hard to get it back.一旦输了,就很难拿回来.
45This is good advice for finances and fitness.这是对财务和健身的好建议。
46So you get in shape, it's easier to stay in shape.所以,你得到的形状, 它更容易保持的形状。
47I rarely meet someone super fit我很少遇到一个超合身的人
48who also doesn't work incredibly hard他们也不勤奋工作
49in the other areas of their life.他们生活的其他方面。
50This is another one to remember.这是另一个值得记住的。
51If someone you just met is talking shit如果你刚遇到的人在说狗屎
52about their ex, friend, partner, boss, guess what?关于他们的前妻,朋友,伙伴,老板,你猜怎么着?
53They will be doing the same to you next.他们接下来也会这样对待你
54So surround yourself with people whose character you admire将你所崇拜的人包围
55and you'll begin to notice your character improves too.你也会开始注意到你的品格有了改善
56Behind every successful person每个成功的人背后
57is a story that gave them no choice.故事让他们别无选择。
58We often don't even realize that a pain point我们常常不意识到 疼痛点
59we're dealing with can become our turning point.我们正在处理 可以成为我们的转折点。
60You know that old saying, put your relationships first?你知道那句老话吗 把你们的关系放在首位?
61It turns out it's right.原来对了.
62My number one regret in life,我人生中头号遗憾,
63not prioritizing my marriage above just about everything.不要把婚姻放在一切之上
64Marrying well is the biggest life hack of all.结婚是最大的生活黑客。
65And I should know, because I've done it twice我应该知道,因为我已经做了两次
66and I didn't do it right the first time.我第一次做错了
67You become the person you want你成为你想要的人
68when no one else is watching.当没有人在看的时候。
69It's the quiet, private reps that will never be cheered是那些安静的私人代表 永远不会被欢呼
70that actually lead to greatness.这实际上导致伟大的。
71Never take advice from someone who hasn't actually achieved永远不要接受一个没有真正成就的人的建议
72the thing they're advising about.他们建议的事
73Incredibly underrated hack.令人难以置信的低评价黑客。
74If you don't want their life,如果你不想要他们的生活,
75don't listen to their life advice.别听他们的生活建议
76If you don't want their marriage,如果你不想要他们的婚姻,
77don't listen to their marriage advice.不要听他们的婚姻建议。
78If you don't want their bank account,如果你不想要他们的银行账户,
79don't take money advice from them.不要接受他们的钱建议。
80Why do we so often take advice from people为什么我们经常听别人的建议
81who haven't actually done the thing谁没有真正做的事情
82they're telling us how to do?他们告诉我们怎么做?
83Inconvenience yourself.自谓不方便.
84Don't want to go to a friend's baby shower?不想去朋友的婴儿浴室吗?
85I don't know, get up and do it anyway.我不知道,还是起来干吧
86This generation went way too hard setting boundaries.这代人太难设定界限。
87Show up for those you love even when it's not convenient.为所爱者现身即便不方便.
88By the way, my friend Kim taught me this one顺便说一句,我的朋友金教过我这个
89because I do not like picking up people from the airport.因为我不喜欢从机场接人
90In fact, I think people who ask you事实上,我觉得有人问你
91to pick them up from the airport,去机场接他们
92they hate you a little bit inside.他们有点讨厌你
93And she vehemently disagrees with me.她强烈反对我
94Thinks that we should all do airport pickups at all times.认为我们应该随时搭乘机场小车
95She's probably also one of those people她可能也是其中一个
96that says that you should ask your friends to move.也就是说你应该请你的朋友搬家
97You can tell me in the comments你可以在评论中告诉我
98if you are either one of those two people如果你是这两个人之一
99and then you can unsubscribe, no, just kidding.然后你可以不订阅, 不,只是开玩笑。
100But seriously, sometimes we should probably do things但说真的,有时候我们应该做一些事情
101even when it's not convenient.乃至不方便时.
102The greatest muscle you can build is urgency.你最强的肌肉就是急症
103Decrease the time between having an idea缩短想法之间的时间
104and getting it done.并把它完成。
105Everything changes when you do.一切都会变的
106This is a lesson learned from many, many millionaires这是从许多百万富翁那里学到的教训
107and billionaires.还有亿万富翁
108Probably the number one thing I've done to get rich,大概是我为发财而做的第一件事
109if it's not a hell yes, it's a no period exclamation point.如果这不是地狱是的, 这是一个没有时期感叹点。
110You will be richer when you understand leverage,当你明白杠杆,你会更富有,
111but you'll also be aware of when people但你也会知道 当人们
112are trying to take advantage of you.试图利用你。
113Learn it so you can spot it.学着点看
114Learn it so you can spot it in your life学着点,让你在生活中看到它
115and learn it so you can spot it in business.并学习它,这样你就可以发现它在商业。
116There's good leverage and there's bad leverage.有好杠杆和坏杠杆.
117You must learn to be disliked你一定要学会被讨厌
118or you will find yourself stuck否则你会发现自己被困住了
119in a prison of other people's beliefs.在别人信仰的监狱里
120So stop relying on the approval of others.所以不要再依赖别人的认可了
121Once you do, you'll stop caring一旦你这样做,你会停止关心
122about their disapproval too.关于他们的不赞成 也。
123You don't have time to hate someone你没时间恨别人了
124when you're a busy building.当你是一个繁忙的建筑。
125The less you build, the more you criticize.你建得越少,批评就越多.
126As you work, your own jealousy dissipates.在你工作的时候,你自己的嫉妒就消散了
127You're not gonna notice somebody else is motoring你不会发现别人在开车
128when you're too busy doing it yourself.当你忙着自己做的时候
129And it turns out getting to work结果却开始工作了
130means you're getting your mind right.意思是你脑子有问题
131Show me your fridge and I'll show you your health.把你的冰箱给我看,我会给你看你的健康。
132Show me your books and I'll show you your goals.给我看你的书,我会告诉你的目标。
133Show me your calendar, I'll show you your priorities.给我看你的日历,我会告诉你的优先考虑。
134Show me your friends, I'll show you your future.给我看看你的朋友,我会告诉你的未来。
135Your inputs will become your outputs.您的投入将成为您的产出。
136So choose super fuckin' wisely.所以,选择超级他妈的明智。
13799% of people don't move fast enough.99%的人动作不够快.
138Believe it or not, you have an actual cost to inaction.信不信由你,你确实要付出不作为的代价
139Every time you say one day, you cost yourself future dollars.每次你说有一天, 你花费自己未来美元。
140I waited a year to take my Goldman Sachs job.我等了一年才接高盛的工作
141That delay cost me six figures.我花了六个数字
142When it's go time, go.当它走的时间,去。
143This one's important.这个很重要
144Complexity makes you seem smart.复杂让你看起来很聪明
145Simplicity makes you money.简言之,你就能赚钱
146It's not just a business philosophy.这不仅仅是一种商业哲学.
147Learning to boil complex problems学会煮沸复杂的问题
148down to their essential truths至他们的基本真理
149will improve your thinking, communication, and discernment.将改善你的思维、沟通和判断。
150The longer something has been successful,成功的时间越长
151the more likely it is to continue to be successful.越有可能继续取得成功。
152This is called a feedback loop of life.这被称为生命的反馈循环.
153And it turns out this is true for business原来这是生意上的事
154and it's also true for you.对你也是
155Once you get the momentum going, it's really hard to stop.一旦你得到动力, 它真的很难停止。
156The most underrated secret to success,被贬低的成功秘诀
157you say you'll do a thing,你说你会做一件事,
158then you actually do the thing.然后,你实际上做的事情。
15990% do not do this.90%的人不这样做。
160So say only what you mean and then actually follow through.所以,只要说出你的意思, 然后实际上贯彻。
161That means you keep the most important promises那表示你信守最重要的诺言
162that you make, the ones that you make to yourself.你创造的,你创造的。
163The fastest way to build a memorable brand一个值得纪念的品牌的最快建设方式
164is to pick a fight.是去挑战
165The fastest way to make a real connection最快的连接方式
166is to make a real impression.就是给人真正的印象
167So don't fit in, stand out.所以别插进去,突出点
168And if you stand up for something, fight for it.如果你为某事而奋起反抗
169A lesson I repeat often,我经常重复的教训
170never let your worry be bigger than your faith.永远不要让你的担心 比你的信仰更大。
171I think you should have some faith我想你应该有信心
172that God doesn't give you a seed上帝不给你种子
173without provision for it to grow.而不供给其增长。
174So instead of you saying why it won't work,所以你不说为什么不行
175maybe have a little faith in that也许对这个有点信心
176he wouldn't give you a dream他不会给你一个梦
177if he didn't think that it was possible如果他认为不可能的话
178for you to achieve it.让你实现它。
179Nobody cares about your life.没人在乎你的生活
180They think about you for one second他们想着你一秒钟
181and then they think about themselves again.然后他们又想起自己
182So you might as well do what you want,所以,你最好 做你想做的,
183embarrass yourself, do the stupid thing.难堪,做蠢事
184Nobody's watching anyway.反正没人看
185You were falling behind people dumber than you.你比别人更蠢
186So start, learn, do it again, a bit better.所以,开始,学习,再做一次,更好一点。
187That's it.就这样
188It's okay to fail, but it's not okay失败没关系,但不行
189to be afraid of failure because right now,害怕失败 因为现在
190somebody who is not as good as you,一个人谁没有你那么好,
191who has a worse product, who's not as smart as you,谁有更糟糕的产品, 谁没有你那么聪明,
192is making more money than you do.赚的钱比你还多
193Why?为什么?
194Because they're not afraid to sell and start.因为他们不怕出售和开始。
195Play the long game.玩长局.
196You will wish you started earlier你希望早点开始
197and worked harder when you are young.年轻时更努力工作
198I promise you.我保证
199The earlier you plant the seeds,你播种的时间越早
200the sooner you'll eat the fruit.早点吃水果
201My husband always loves to tell me我丈夫总是喜欢告诉我
202when I don't want to do something,当我不想做什么的时候
203he says, when's the best time to plant a tree?他说,什么时候是种树的最好时机?
204And I say 10 years ago.而我说10年前。
205Then he goes, when's the second best time?然后他走了,什么时候是第二好时机?
206Now.现在
207So if you are going to start所以,如果你要开始
208and you know it's something that you need to do,你知道这是你需要做的事情,
209do the rarest of all things.做最难得的事
210Do it now.现在就做
211Waking up at 5.45 a.m. solves 99.9% of daily issues.凌晨5时45分起床解决99.9%的日常问题.
212So wake up early, like actually early.所以早点醒来,像实际上早。
213See what happens.看看会发生什么事
214Working smarter, not harder is a beautiful lie.工作更聪明,而不是更努力 是一个美丽的谎言。
215You will not know how to work smart你将不知道如何工作聪明
216until you've worked very hard for an irrationally long time.直到你花了很长的时间努力工作
217If you actually want to work smarter, work harder,如果你真的想更聪明 更努力地工作
218and only then can you recognize只有这样你才能认出来
219the difference between the two.两者的区别。
220Eyes of the problems you solve你所解决问题的目光
221equal the size of your bank account.等于您的银行账户大小。
222So solve bigger problems.所以解决更大的问题。
223And similarly, as you make effort同样,当你努力的时候
224to solve the biggest problems in your life,为了解决你生活中最大的问题
225you'll notice that your capacity to solve problems你会注意到你解决问题的能力
226in all realms of your life grows.在你生命的所有领域成长
227So just solve bigger problems.所以只要解决更大的问题。
228The smartest people I know obsess on their reputations.最聪明的人 我认识的迷恋他们的名声。
229Do not play short-term games with your name.不要用你的名字玩短期游戏 。
230My favorite story from Warren Buffett is,我最喜欢沃伦·巴菲特的故事是
231he said, if you lose me a dollar, I'll forget.他说,如果你失去我一美元,我会忘记。
232If you lose me one cent of reputation, you will be fired.如果你失去我一分的名声 你会被解雇的
233And that's something I try to remember for myself.我试着为自己记住这一点。
234The dumbest people I know, they never stop talking.我认识的最蠢的人 他们总是不停地说话
235The smartest people I know, never stop asking questions.最聪明的人,我认识, 从来没有停止提问。
236The best business school, be in a business.最好的商学院,在企业。
237Don't be intimidated by labels or qualifications.不要被标签或资格所吓倒.
238Just get your hands dirty and the rest will follow.只要把你的手弄脏 其他的就跟着
239Don't always trust your self-talk.不要总是相信你的自言自语。
240Your anxiety is lying to you.你的焦虑在骗你
241You will be fine.你会没事的。
242You've already survived this far.你已经活了这么久
243The odds are actually already in your favor.机会已经对你有利了
244If you're gonna do something, go big.如果你想做点什么,就大点
245Everyone admires courage.人人赞叹勇猛.
246No one admires the timid.无人赞叹胆怯.
247Failing big is way better than failing small.失败是比失败是更好的。
248Do it for the story.为说法作么生.
249There was a quote that stuck with me,有一句引言 坚持与我,
250which is, I'm going to pray like it's up to God也就是说,我要祈祷,就像上帝
251and I'm going to work like it's up to me.我会像自己决定一样工作
252So I kinda think that if you're gonna ask the big man所以我觉得如果你要问那个大个子
253for prayers, you better back it up with some work ethic.为了祈祷,你最好用一些职业道德来证明
254Otherwise, it's a little bit half-baked.否则,则略半bak.
255You're not too old.你没有太老。
256You're just too comfortable.你只是太舒适了。
257The most addictive drug is comfort.最上瘾的药物是安慰.
258It's also just never too late to start.开始也永远不会太晚
259I didn't get married until I was 33.我33岁才结婚
260I didn't make content until I was 35.我35岁才满足的
261I didn't start my podcast until I was 37.我37岁才开始播客
262At 30, I thought I'd peaked.30岁时,我以为会达到顶峰.
263At 39, I know it's just getting started.39岁,我知道这才刚开始
26439 lessons that I wish I knew then.我当时希望自己能学到39个教训。
265I hope it makes you guys more money.我希望这能让你们多赚点钱
266Tell me your best lessons.告诉我你们最好的课
267Only 13% of you are subscribed to the YouTube channel只有13%的人订阅YouTube频道
268and on native podcast apps.和本地播客应用软件。
269If you're not already subscribed, do me a huge favor.如果你还没有签,帮我个大忙
270Subscribe now.现在订户.
271That helps the show grow.这帮助了节目的发展。
272So as my friend, Andy Frisella says,正如我的朋友安迪·弗里塞拉所说:
273don't be a ho, share the show.不要做妓女,分享节目。
274Hey, if you're a business owner right now嘿,如果你现在是个老板的话
275and you like the things you were hearing on this podcast,你喜欢你听到的这个播客,
276I have something that I haven't talked about publicly before我有些事我以前没公开说过
277that's just for you.这只是给你的。
278It's called our SMB boardroom.它叫我们的SMB理事室
279This is for small business owners who want to grow.是为欲增长的小企业主.
280It is for business owners who are on their way给在路上的业主
281to making at least seven figures a year.每年至少创造7个数字。
282If this is you, hit the link down below.如果这是你, 点击链接下方。
283Talk to our team.跟我们的团队谈谈
284This is the place that can be your late night这里可以是你的深夜
285emergency call for the things that go bump紧急呼唤那些会撞到的东西
286in the night in your business.在晚上 在你的生意。
287If right now you feel like you're plateauing如果你现在觉得自己在高原上
288or you feel like you don't know how to handle your growth,或者你觉得你不知道如何处理你的成长,
289we got you.我们得到了你。
290So click the link below SMB boardroom.点击SMB会议室下面的链接。
291We just built it for you builders.我们刚为你们建造的
292Kind of obsessed with it.有点迷恋它。
293And I think if you are a builder,我认为如果你是一个建筑师,
294there's no place you're going to want to be except here.除了这里 你没有地方想待
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0:00Today's my 39th birthday, like right now, today.今天是我39岁生日 就像现在,今天
0:02I thought I'd give you a list of 39 things我想给你一份39样东西的清单
0:04I wish I knew many years ago.我希望我知道很多年前。
0:07Choose your heart.选择你的心脏。
0:08Being poor is hard.穷是苦.
0:09Getting rich is hard.发财难.
0:10Being overweight is hard.超重是很难的。
0:11Getting fit is hard.适应是很难的。
0:13Being married is hard.结婚很难
0:14Being single, hard.单身,硬。
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1Today's my 39th birthday, like right now, today.今天是我39岁生日 就像现在,今天
2I thought I'd give you a list of 39 things我想给你一份39样东西的清单
3I wish I knew many years ago.我希望我知道很多年前。
4Choose your heart.选择你的心脏。
5Being poor is hard.穷是苦.
6Getting rich is hard.发财难.
7Being overweight is hard.超重是很难的。
8Getting fit is hard.适应是很难的。
9Being married is hard.结婚很难
10Being single, hard.单身,硬。
11Every choice in life is hard.生活中的每一个选择都是艰难的.
12If you don't choose hard, your hard will choose you.如果你不努力地选择,你的艰难会选择你.
13Ask more questions.问多问.
14Socrates said,苏格拉底说,
15smart people learn from everything and everyone.聪明人从一切和每个人身上学习.
16Average people learn from their experiences.普通人从经验中学习.
17Stupid people already have all of the answers.愚蠢的人已经得到了所有的答案。
18So when you ask the right question,所以当你问对问题时
19you will find out the right answer.你会找到正确的答案。
20Amateurs want to do what they love.业余爱好者想做自己喜欢的事.
21Pros learn to love what it takes.Pros学会爱它需要什么。
22It's not about what you're good at.与你擅长的无关.
23It's about doing what needs to be done.是为修行所须.
24There's a real big difference.实有大差别.
25And if you figure it out,如果你想明白的话
26you'll be what most people won't.你会是大多数人不会的。
27I have a friend who used to work for two billionaires.我有个朋友曾经为两个亿万富翁工作
28After all he's seen, he said to me,在他看到这么多之后,他对我说,
29I wish you not one penny over $299 million.我希望你不要一分钱超过2.99亿美元。
30Reality gets lost somewhere after that.之后,现实会迷失方向
31So don't chase billions.故不追亿.
32Chase purpose.蔡斯目标.
33We've weaponized distraction against ourselves.我们用武器分散了我们的注意力
34We've turned silence into the enemy.我们把沉默变成了敌人
35Every goddamn moment has to be productive now.每一刻都得有所作为
36Can't just walk, need the podcast.不能只是走,需要播客。
37Can't shit in peace, gotta scroll.不能大便在和平, 必须滚动。
38Can't eat without Netflix numbing the edges.没有Netflix麻木的边缘,不能吃.
39It's mental fast food.这是精神快餐。
40You don't need empty calories for your body身体不需要空热量
41or for your mind.或为汝智.
42One of the greatest unlocks you can have你最伟大的解锁之一
43be bored more often.更无聊。
44Turn off your phone and your brain turns on.关掉你的电话,你的大脑打开。
45Once you lose it, it's hard to get it back.一旦输了,就很难拿回来.
46This is good advice for finances and fitness.这是对财务和健身的好建议。
47So you get in shape, it's easier to stay in shape.所以,你得到的形状, 它更容易保持的形状。
48I rarely meet someone super fit我很少遇到一个超合身的人
49who also doesn't work incredibly hard他们也不勤奋工作
50in the other areas of their life.他们生活的其他方面。
51This is another one to remember.这是另一个值得记住的。
52If someone you just met is talking shit如果你刚遇到的人在说狗屎
53about their ex, friend, partner, boss,关于他们的前任,朋友,伙伴,老板
54guess what?你猜怎么着?
55They will be doing the same to you next.他们接下来也会这样对待你
56So surround yourself with people whose character you admire将你所崇拜的人包围
57and you'll begin to notice your character improves too.你也会开始注意到你的品格有了改善
58Behind every successful person每个成功的人背后
59is a story that gave them no choice.故事让他们别无选择。
60We often don't even realize that a pain point我们常常不意识到 疼痛点
61we're dealing with can become our turning point.我们正在处理 可以成为我们的转折点。
62You know that old saying, put your relationships first?你知道那句老话吗 把你们的关系放在首位?
63It turns out it's right.原来对了.
64My number one regret in life,我人生中头号遗憾,
65not prioritizing my marriage above just about everything.不要把婚姻放在一切之上
66Marrying well is the biggest life hack of all.结婚是最大的生活黑客。
67And I should know, because I've done it twice我应该知道,因为我已经做了两次
68and I didn't do it right the first time.我第一次做错了
69You become the person you want你成为你想要的人
70when no one else is watching.当没有人在看的时候。
71It's the quiet, private reps that will never be cheered是那些安静的私人代表 永远不会被欢呼
72that actually lead to greatness.这实际上导致伟大的。
73Never take advice from someone who hasn't actually achieved永远不要接受一个没有真正成就的人的建议
74the thing they're advising about.他们建议的事
75Incredibly underrated hack.令人难以置信的低评价黑客。
76If you don't want their life,如果你不想要他们的生活,
77don't listen to their life advice.别听他们的生活建议
78If you don't want their marriage,如果你不想要他们的婚姻,
79don't listen to their marriage advice.不要听他们的婚姻建议。
80If you don't want their bank account,如果你不想要他们的银行账户,
81don't take money advice from them.不要接受他们的钱建议。
82Why do we so often take advice from people为什么我们经常听别人的建议
83who haven't actually done the thing谁没有真正做的事情
84they're telling us how to do?他们告诉我们怎么做?
85Inconvenience yourself.自谓不方便.
86Don't want to go to a friend's baby shower?不想去朋友的婴儿浴室吗?
87I don't know, get up and do it anyway.我不知道,还是起来干吧
88This generation went way too hard setting boundaries.这代人太难设定界限。
89Show up for those you love, even when it's not convenient.为所爱者现身即便不方便.
90By the way, my friend Kim taught me this one顺便说一句,我的朋友金教过我这个
91because I do not like picking up people from the airport.因为我不喜欢从机场接人
92In fact, I think people who ask you事实上,我觉得有人问你
93to pick them up from the airport,去机场接他们
94they hate you a little bit inside.他们有点讨厌你
95And she vehemently disagrees with me她强烈反对我
96and thinks that we should all do airport pickups认为我们应该都做机场小货车
97at all times.随时随地
98She's probably also one of those people她可能也是其中一个
99that says that you should ask your friends to move.也就是说你应该请你的朋友搬家
100You can tell me in the comments你可以在评论中告诉我
101if you are either one of those two people如果你是这两个人之一
102and then you can unsubscribe.然后可以取消订阅。
103No, just kidding.不,只是开玩笑。
104But seriously, sometimes we should probably do things但说真的,有时候我们应该做一些事情
105even when it's not convenient.乃至不方便时.
106The greatest muscle you can build is urgency.你最强的肌肉就是急症
107Decrease the time between having an idea缩短想法之间的时间
108and getting it done.并把它完成。
109Everything changes when you do.一切都会变的
110This is a lesson learned from many, many millionaires这是从许多百万富翁那里学到的教训
111and billionaires.还有亿万富翁
112Probably the number one thing I've done to get rich,大概是我为发财而做的第一件事
113if it's not a hell yes, it's a no period exclamation point.如果这不是地狱是的, 这是一个没有时期感叹点。
114You will be richer when you understand leverage,当你明白杠杆,你会更富有,
115but you'll also be aware of when people但你也会知道 当人们
116are trying to take advantage of you.试图利用你。
117Learn it so you can spot it.学着点看
118Learn it so you can spot it in your life学着点,让你在生活中看到它
119and learn it so you can spot it in business.并学习它,这样你就可以发现它在商业。
120There's good leverage and there's bad leverage.有好杠杆和坏杠杆.
121You must learn to be disliked你一定要学会被讨厌
122or you will find yourself stuck否则你会发现自己被困住了
123in a prison of other people's beliefs.在别人信仰的监狱里
124So stop relying on the approval of others.所以不要再依赖别人的认可了
125Once you do, you'll stop caring about their disapproval too.一旦你这样做,你会停止 关心他们的不赞成。
126You don't have time to hate someone你没时间恨别人了
127when you're a busy building.当你是一个繁忙的建筑。
128The less you build, the more you criticize.你建得越少,批评就越多.
129As you work, your own jealousy dissipates.在你工作的时候,你自己的嫉妒就消散了
130You're not gonna notice somebody else is motoring你不会发现别人在开车
131when you're too busy doing it yourself.当你忙着自己做的时候
132And it turns out getting to work结果却开始工作了
133means you're getting your mind right.意思是你脑子有问题
134Show me your fridge and I'll show you your health.把你的冰箱给我看,我会给你看你的健康。
135Show me your books and I'll show you your goals.给我看你的书,我会告诉你的目标。
136Show me your calendar, I'll show you your priorities.给我看你的日历,我会告诉你的优先考虑。
137Show me your friends, I'll show you your future.给我看看你的朋友,我会告诉你的未来。
138Your inputs will become your outputs.您的投入将成为您的产出。
139So choose super fucking wisely.所以,选择超级他妈的明智。
14099% of people don't move fast enough.99%的人动作不够快.
141Believe it or not, you have an actual cost to inaction.信不信由你,你确实要付出不作为的代价
142Every time you say one day, you cost yourself future dollars.每次你说有一天, 你花费自己未来美元。
143I waited a year to take my Goldman Sachs job.我等了一年才接高盛的工作
144That delay cost me six figures.我花了六个数字
145When it's go time, go.当它走的时间,去。
146This one's important.这个很重要
147Complexity makes you seem smart.复杂让你看起来很聪明
148Simplicity makes you money.简言之,你就能赚钱
149It's not just a business philosophy.这不仅仅是一种商业哲学.
150Learning to boil complex problems学会煮沸复杂的问题
151down to their essential truths至他们的基本真理
152will improve your thinking, communication, and discernment.将改善你的思维、沟通和判断。
153The longer something has been successful,成功的时间越长
154the more likely it is to continue to be successful.越有可能继续取得成功。
155This is called a feedback loop of life.这被称为生命的反馈循环.
156And it turns out this is true for business原来这是生意上的事
157and it's also true for you.对你也是
158Once you get the momentum going, it's really hard to stop.一旦你得到动力, 它真的很难停止。
159The most underrated secret to success,被贬低的成功秘诀
160you say you'll do a thing, then you actually do the thing.你说你会做一件事 然后你真的会做
16190% do not do this.90%的人不这样做。
162So say only what you mean and then actually follow through.所以,只要说出你的意思, 然后实际上贯彻。
163That means you keep the most important promises那表示你信守最重要的诺言
164that you make, the ones that you make to yourself.你创造的,你创造的。
165The fastest way to build a memorable brand一个值得纪念的品牌的最快建设方式
166is to pick a fight.是去挑战
167The fastest way to make a real connection最快的连接方式
168is to make a real impression.就是给人真正的印象
169So don't fit in, stand out.所以别插进去,突出点
170And if you stand up for something, fight for it.如果你为某事而奋起反抗
171A lesson I repeat often,我经常重复的教训
172never let your worry be bigger than your faith.永远不要让你的担心 比你的信仰更大。
173I think you should have some faith我想你应该有信心
174that God doesn't give you a seed上帝不给你种子
175without provision for it to grow.而不供给其增长。
176So instead of you saying why it won't work,所以你不说为什么不行
177maybe have a little faith in that也许对这个有点信心
178he wouldn't give you a dream他不会给你一个梦
179if he didn't think that it was possible for you to achieve it.如果他认为你不可能实现
180Nobody cares about your life.没人在乎你的生活
181They think about you for one second他们想着你一秒钟
182and then they think about themselves again.然后他们又想起自己
183So you might as well do what you want,所以,你最好 做你想做的,
184embarrass yourself, do the stupid thing.难堪,做蠢事
185Nobody's watching anyway.反正没人看
186You were falling behind people dumber than you?你比别人更蠢吗?
187So start, learn, do it again, a bit better, that's it.因此,开始,学习,再做一次,更好一点,就这样。
188It's okay to fail, but it's not okay失败没关系,但不行
189to be afraid of failure because right now,害怕失败 因为现在
190somebody who is not as good as you,一个人谁没有你那么好,
191who has a worse product, who's not as smart as you,谁有更糟糕的产品, 谁没有你那么聪明,
192is making more money than you do.赚的钱比你还多
193Why?为什么?
194Because they're not afraid to sell and start.因为他们不怕出售和开始。
195Play the long game.玩长局.
196You will wish you started earlier你希望早点开始
197and worked harder when you are young, I promise you.并努力工作,当你年轻, 我向你保证。
198The earlier you plant the seeds,你播种的时间越早
199the sooner you'll eat the fruit.早点吃水果
200My husband always loves to tell me我丈夫总是喜欢告诉我
201when I don't want to do something,当我不想做什么的时候
202he says, when's the best time to plant a tree?他说,什么时候是种树的最好时机?
203And I say, 10 years ago.我说,10年前。
204Then he goes, when's the second best time?然后他走了,什么时候是第二好时机?
205Now.现在
206So if you are going to start所以,如果你要开始
207and you know it's something that you need to do,你知道这是你需要做的事情,
208do the rarest of all things, do it now.做最罕见的事情,现在做。
209Waking up at 5.45 a.m. solves 99.9% of daily issues.凌晨5时45分起床解决99.9%的日常问题.
210So wake up early, like actually early, see what happens.所以早点起来,像实际上早点一样,看看会发生什么。
211Working smarter, not harder is a beautiful lie.工作更聪明,而不是更努力 是一个美丽的谎言。
212You will not know how to work smart你将不知道如何工作聪明
213until you've worked very hard for an irrationally long time.直到你花了很长的时间努力工作
214If you actually want to work smarter, work harder,如果你真的想更聪明 更努力地工作
215and only then can you recognize只有这样你才能认出来
216the difference between the two.两者的区别。
217Eyes of the problems you solve你所解决问题的目光
218equal the size of your bank account.等于您的银行账户大小。
219So solve bigger problems.所以解决更大的问题。
220And similarly, as you make effort同样,当你努力的时候
221to solve the biggest problems in your life,为了解决你生活中最大的问题
222you'll notice that your capacity to solve problems你会注意到你解决问题的能力
223in all realms of your life grows.在你生命的所有领域成长
224So just solve bigger problems.所以只要解决更大的问题。
225The smartest people I know obsess on their reputations.最聪明的人 我认识的迷恋他们的名声。
226Do not play short-term games with your name.不要用你的名字玩短期游戏 。
227My favorite story from Warren Buffett is, he said,我最喜欢沃伦·巴菲特的故事 他说
228if you lose me a dollar, I'll forget.如果你失去我一块钱,我会忘记。
229If you lose me one cent of reputation, you will be fired.如果你失去我一分的名声 你会被解雇的
230And that's something I try to remember for myself.我试着为自己记住这一点。
231The dumbest people I know, they never stop talking.我认识的最蠢的人 他们总是不停地说话
232The smartest people I know, never stop asking questions.最聪明的人,我认识, 从来没有停止提问。
233The best business school, be in a business.最好的商学院,在企业。
234Don't be intimidated by labels or qualifications.不要被标签或资格所吓倒.
235Just get your hands dirty and the rest will follow.只要把你的手弄脏 其他的就跟着
236Don't always trust your self-talk.不要总是相信你的自言自语。
237Your anxiety is lying to you.你的焦虑在骗你
238You will be fine.你会没事的。
239You've already survived this far.你已经活了这么久
240The odds are actually already in your favor.机会已经对你有利了
241If you're going to do something, go big.如果你想做点什么,就大点
242Everyone admires courage.人人赞叹勇猛.
243No one admires the timid.无人赞叹胆怯.
244Failing big is way better than failing small.失败是比失败是更好的。
245Do it for the story.为说法作么生.
246There was a quote that stuck with me,有一句引言 坚持与我,
247which is, I'm going to pray like it's up to God,也就是说,我要祈祷 就像它由上帝决定,
248and I'm going to work like it's up to me.我会像自己决定一样工作
249So I kind of think that if you're going to ask所以我觉得如果你要问
250the big man for prayers,大男人祈祷,
251you better back it up with some work ethic.你最好用职业道德来证明
252Otherwise, it's a little bit half-baked.否则,则略半bak.
253You're not too old.你没有太老。
254You're just too comfortable.你只是太舒适了。
255The most addictive drug is comfort.最上瘾的药物是安慰.
256It's also just never too late to start.开始也永远不会太晚
257I didn't get married until I was 33.我33岁才结婚
258I didn't make content until I was 35.我35岁才满足的
259I didn't start my podcast until I was 37.我37岁才开始播客
260At 30, I thought I'd peaked.30岁时,我以为会达到顶峰.
261At 39, I know it's just getting started.39岁,我知道这才刚开始
26239 lessons that I wish I knew then.我当时希望自己能学到39个教训。
263I hope it makes you guys more money.我希望这能让你们多赚点钱
264Tell me your best lessons.告诉我你们最好的课
265Only 13% of you are subscribed to the YouTube channel只有13%的人订阅YouTube频道
266and on native podcast apps.和本地播客应用软件。
267If you're not already subscribed, do me a huge favor.如果你还没有签,帮我个大忙
268Subscribe now.现在订户.
269That helps the show grow.这帮助了节目的发展。
270So as my friend, Andy Frisella says,正如我的朋友安迪·弗里塞拉所说:
271don't be a ho, share the show.不要做妓女,分享节目。
272Hey, if you're a business owner right now嘿,如果你现在是个老板的话
273and you like the things you were hearing on this podcast,你喜欢你听到的这个播客,
274I have something that I haven't talked about publicly before我有些事我以前没公开说过
275that's just for you.这只是给你的。
276It's called our SMB Boardroom.这叫SMB董事会房间
277This is for small business owners who want to grow.是为欲增长的小企业主.
278It is for business owners who are on their way给在路上的业主
279to making at least seven figures a year.每年至少创造7个数字。
280If this is you, hit the link down below.如果这是你, 点击链接下方。
281Talk to our team.跟我们的团队谈谈
282This is the place that can be your late night这里可以是你的深夜
283emergency call for the things that go bump紧急呼唤那些会撞到的东西
284in the night in your business.在晚上 在你的生意。
285If right now you feel like you're plateauing如果你现在觉得自己在高原上
286or you feel like you don't know how to handle your growth,或者你觉得你不知道如何处理你的成长,
287we got you.我们得到了你。
288点击下面的链接,SMB Boardroom。
289We just built it for you builders.我们刚为你们建造的
290Kind of obsessed with it.有点迷恋它。
291And I think if you are a builder,我认为如果你是一个建筑师,
292there's no place you're going to want to be except here.除了这里 你没有地方想待
293And I think if you are a builder,我认为如果你是一个建筑师,
294there's no place you're going to want to be except here.除了这里 你没有地方想待
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