【心理洞察】不发照片的人,心里都在想什么?读懂这种人格,秒懂
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | In a world that's obsessed with showing off, | 在一个沉迷于炫耀的世界里 |
| 0:02 | the most grounded people are the ones who do not show off. | 最被禁足的人就是不炫耀的人. |
| 0:06 | They don't post, they don't chase people around, | 他们不张贴, 他们不追人周围, |
| 0:08 | and then somehow they have more peace, more clarity, | 然后不知何故 他们有 更多的和平, 更清晰, |
| 0:12 | and more power than everybody else. | 以及比其他人更强大的力量 |
| 0:15 | If you think that silence means insecurity, | 如果你认为沉默意味着不安全 |
| 0:18 | you should think again. | 你应该再想想 |
| 0:19 | The people who stay off of the feeds, | 那些远离饲料的人们, |
| 0:21 | they're often the most self-assured, | 他们常常是最自信的, |
| 0:24 | they're not afraid to be seen, | 他们不怕被人看见, |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 1 | In a world that's obsessed with showing off, | 在一个沉迷于炫耀的世界里 |
| 2 | the most grounded people are the ones who do not show off. | 最被禁足的人就是不炫耀的人. |
| 3 | They don't post, they don't chase people around, | 他们不张贴, 他们不追人周围, |
| 4 | and then somehow they have more peace, more clarity, | 然后不知何故 他们有 更多的和平, 更清晰, |
| 5 | and more power than everybody else. | 以及比其他人更强大的力量 |
| 6 | If you think that silence means insecurity, | 如果你认为沉默意味着不安全 |
| 7 | you should think again. | 你应该再想想 |
| 8 | The people who stay off of the feeds, | 那些远离饲料的人们, |
| 9 | they're often the most self-assured, | 他们常常是最自信的, |
| 10 | they're not afraid to be seen, | 他们不怕被人看见, |
| 11 | they've just outgrown the need to be seen. | 他们已经超越了被人看见的需要 |
| 12 | And there's a couple different reasons why that is. | 有几个不同的原因 |
| 13 | Number one, they don't need validation. | 第一,他们不需要验证。 |
| 14 | These are the people who don't need to narrate | 这些人是不需要讲的 |
| 15 | what they're doing in their lives. | 他们一生都在做的事情 |
| 16 | They don't wear their lives on their feed | 他们不穿自己的生命 在他们的饲料 |
| 17 | for all of the other people to see. | 让其他人看到 |
| 18 | They don't market all of their milestones, | 他们不推销所有的里程碑, |
| 19 | not because they're ashamed, | 不是因为他们感到羞愧, |
| 20 | but because they're anchored in their own life | 因为他们都沉浸在自己的生活中 |
| 21 | and in themselves. | 和他们自己。 |
| 22 | Their growth is sacred, and it's private to them. | 他们的成长是神圣的,对他们来说是私人的. |
| 23 | It's not staged. | 未有戏演. |
| 24 | They validate themselves in private. | 他们私下验证自己 |
| 25 | They don't post for likes and for views. | 他们不张贴喜欢和观点。 |
| 26 | They're not here for the applause. | 他们不是来掌声的 |
| 27 | They're here for themselves. | 他们在这里为自己。 |
| 28 | They don't need anyone else. | 他们不需要其他人 |
| 29 | Also, they like themselves, | 而且他们喜欢自己 |
| 30 | and they don't need anyone else to like them. | 他们不需要别人喜欢他们。 |
| 31 | You have to understand that confidence | 你必须明白这种自信 |
| 32 | doesn't need external validation. | 不需要外部验证。 |
| 33 | It walks in a room quietly, and everybody notices. | 它悄悄地走在一个房间里, 每个人都注意到。 |
| 34 | The second thing, these people trade attention for peace. | 第二,这些人把注意力换成和平。 |
| 35 | In a culture that confuses exposure and views | 在一种将曝光和观点混淆的文化中 |
| 36 | with connection, these people decide to opt out, | 联系,这些人决定选择退出, |
| 37 | and they do so intentionally. | 他们故意这样做。 |
| 38 | They know that the most important parts of their life | 他们知道生命中最重要的部分 |
| 39 | do not have to be shared with other people, | 不必与众人分享, |
| 40 | and they don't want to turn their joy | 他们不想改变他们的喜悦 |
| 41 | into a post for recognition. | 成为表彰职位。 |
| 42 | They protect their peace in the way | 他们保护着自己的和平 |
| 43 | that some people protect their image. | 有些人会保护他们的形象 |
| 44 | They know the cost of constant visibility. | 他们知道不断可见的代价。 |
| 45 | They know that being unseen is actually power, | 他们知道看不见其实是力量 |
| 46 | and they don't want to be accessible to everyone, | 他们不希望每个人都能进入, |
| 47 | only those who matter to them. | 只有那些对他们很重要的人。 |
| 48 | The third thing is they're not missing, they're mastering. | 第三件事是他们没有失踪,他们在掌握。 |
| 49 | Silence is often mistaken for absence. | 沉默往往被误认为缺席。 |
| 50 | But for these people, | 但对于这些人来说, |
| 51 | silence is where the work is actually happening. | 沉默是工作实际发生的地方。 |
| 52 | They're creating their art. | 他们正在创造他们的艺术。 |
| 53 | They're building their life. | 他们正在建设他们的生活。 |
| 54 | They're building their businesses. | 他们在兴建自己的企业. |
| 55 | They're re-centering themselves. | 二者复现身. |
| 56 | They're focusing on who they are becoming | 他们正专注于他们正在变成谁 |
| 57 | versus who they are showing themselves to be. | 和他们表现的自己 |
| 58 | They're not off of the grid. | 他们没有脱离网络。 |
| 59 | They're just on their own path. | 他们只是走自己的路 |
| 60 | They're not checking in with strangers. | 他们不会跟陌生人联系的 |
| 61 | They're checking in with themselves. | 他们正在自己检查。 |
| 62 | They're not falling behind. | 他们不会落后的 |
| 63 | They're so much further ahead than everyone else | 他们比别人都领先 |
| 64 | because they're doing while other people are posting. | 因为他们正在做 而其他人在张贴。 |
| 65 | They don't need to update the entire world. | 他们不需要更新整个世界。 |
| 66 | They're not posting about it because they're in it. | 他们不张贴 因为它在其中。 |
| 67 | And mastery in anything requires undivided attention. | 掌握一切需要全神贯注 |
| 68 | And the fourth thing, they are lone wolves by choice. | 第四,他们是孤独的狼 选择。 |
| 69 | They're not antisocial, | 他们不是反社会 |
| 70 | they're just energetically discerning. | 他们只是精力充沛的辨别。 |
| 71 | They're not withdrawn, they're wise. | 二者不撤而智. |
| 72 | They know what happens when you hand too many people | 他们知道你交出太多人后会怎样 |
| 73 | access to your nervous system and give them attention. | 进入你的神经系统,并给他们关注。 |
| 74 | So they decide to lead themselves. | 所以他们决定自己领导自己. |
| 75 | They move in silence. | 他们静静地行动。 |
| 76 | They share selectively. | 他们有选择地分享。 |
| 77 | They speak when it adds value, not when it adds noise. | 当它增加价值,而不是当它增加噪音时,它们说话。 |
| 78 | And their privacy is incredibly important to them. | 他们的隐私对他们来说非常重要 |
| 79 | It's a boundary that they have. | 这是他们的边界 |
| 80 | It's what makes their presence so potent | 他们的存在是如此强大 |
| 81 | when they do decide that they want to be seen. | 当他们决定要被人看见的时候 |
| 82 | Lone wolves don't chase the pack. | 孤狼不追杀群. |
| 83 | They build their own path. | 他们建立自己的道路。 |
| 84 | And so you don't need to be loud to be powerful. | 所以你不需要大声才有力量 |
| 85 | You don't need to be public to be growing in your life. | 生平成长不需要公开. |
| 86 | You don't need to be seen | 你不需要被人看见 |
| 87 | to be someone who's significant in this world. | 成为这个世界上重要的人物 |
| 88 | So disappear and become somebody great. | 所以,消失 并成为一个伟大的人。 |
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