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| 0:00 | You know how there's some people | 你知道怎么有人吗? |
| 0:01 | where when you walk into a room, | 当你走进一个房间, |
| 0:02 | you're just kind of drawn to them, | 你只是有点吸引他们, |
| 0:04 | maybe even before they say anything? | 也许在他们说话之前? |
| 0:05 | Well, that is the power of a magnetic aura. | 这就是磁气的力量 |
| 0:08 | But the thing is, is that everyone is capable | 但问题是,每个人都有能力 |
| 0:11 | of this magnetic energy. | 这种磁能。 |
| 0:12 | It's not just reserved for special people. | 不只是留给特殊的人 |
| 0:15 | So in today's video, | 所以在今天的录像里 |
| 0:16 | I'm gonna talk about how to become truly magnetic | 我要谈谈如何成为真正的磁性 |
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| 1 | You know how there's some people | 你知道怎么有人吗? |
| 2 | where when you walk into a room, | 当你走进一个房间, |
| 3 | you're just kind of drawn to them, | 你只是有点吸引他们, |
| 4 | maybe even before they say anything? | 也许在他们说话之前? |
| 5 | Well, that is the power of a magnetic aura. | 这就是磁气的力量 |
| 6 | But the thing is, is that everyone is capable | 但问题是,每个人都有能力 |
| 7 | of this magnetic energy. | 这种磁能。 |
| 8 | It's not just reserved for special people. | 不只是留给特殊的人 |
| 9 | So in today's video, | 所以在今天的录像里 |
| 10 | I'm gonna talk about how to become truly magnetic | 我要谈谈如何成为真正的磁性 |
| 11 | and have that captivating aura | 和有这种吸引人的气息 |
| 12 | so you can start attracting the attention you want. | 这样你就可以开始吸引你的注意力 |
| 13 | Hello friends and welcome back. | 你好 朋友们 欢迎回来 |
| 14 | If you're new here, my name's Jills | 如果你是新来的,我叫吉尔斯 |
| 15 | and I help women step into their power, | 我帮助女性进入他们的统治 |
| 16 | tap into their divine feminine and become their best self. | 并成为她们最好的自我 |
| 17 | So if that's something you wanna do, | 所以,如果这是你想做的事, |
| 18 | you should subscribe and stick around. | 你应该认购和留下来。 |
| 19 | In today's world, attention is a powerful currency. | 在当今世界,注意力是一种强大的货币. |
| 20 | Whether it's five seconds to capture a viewer's attention | 是否只有五秒钟才能吸引观众的注意 |
| 21 | on social media or that first time meeting a new guy | 在社交媒体上,还是第一次 与新人见面 |
| 22 | or those quick fleeting moments at a networking event, | 或者那些在网络活动上短暂的瞬间 |
| 23 | our ability to command attention matters. | 我们的指挥能力很重要 |
| 24 | Learning how to have a magnetic aura | 学会如何拥有磁气 |
| 25 | can help stack the deck in your favor and make life easier | 可以帮助堆叠甲板 有利于你 并让生活更容易 |
| 26 | and also make your energy more irresistible. | 让你的能量更加无法抗拒 |
| 27 | So what is an aura anyway? | 那么,什么是气息反正吗? |
| 28 | An aura is basically a field of energy | 气息基本上是能量的领域 |
| 29 | that exists around you and can kind of introduce you | 在你身边存在,可以给你介绍 |
| 30 | before you speak. | 在你说话之前 |
| 31 | And it can either draw people in, | 它可以吸引人进来, |
| 32 | attract people into you or repel them away. | 吸引人们进入你们,或使他们退避。 |
| 33 | I know that some people are really big into energy | 我知道有些人对能量很在行 |
| 34 | and vibration and all of that and some people aren't, | 震动和所有这一切 和一些人不是, |
| 35 | but you can't really deny that people can feel energy. | 但你不能否认人们能感受到能量 |
| 36 | People can feel a certain vibe, so to say, | 人们能感觉到某种气氛 所以说 |
| 37 | from a certain person. | 从某个人。 |
| 38 | Whether they consciously realize it or not. | 无论他们是否自觉地意识到这一点。 |
| 39 | A lot of times the way we feel an aura comes through | 很多时候,我们的感觉 气息通过 |
| 40 | in a subconscious way. | 在潜意识的方式。 |
| 41 | So for example, maybe you just meet someone, | 比如,也许你只是遇到一个人 |
| 42 | but you feel really comfortable | 但你觉得很舒服 |
| 43 | and content in their presence. | 并满足于他们的存在。 |
| 44 | You feel like you could tell them anything, | 你觉得你可以告诉他们任何事情, |
| 45 | but we don't even really know why. | 但我们甚至不知道为什么 |
| 46 | Or we're repelled by someone right away | 或者我们马上被别人击退 |
| 47 | with no logical reason to think that, | 没有逻辑理由认为, |
| 48 | but you find out a month later there's clear evidence | 但你一个月后发现 有明显的证据 |
| 49 | that he is just like a really sucky person. | 他就像个烂人 |
| 50 | That is our subconscious mind or intuition | 这是我们的潜意识或直觉 |
| 51 | picking up on energy and energy is powerful. | 利用能量和能量是强大的。 |
| 52 | So to create that magnetic energy, first thing, | 所以首先要创造出磁力 |
| 53 | you need to understand that an aura | 你必须要明白 气息 |
| 54 | is a projection of our own inner states | 是我们内心状态的投影 |
| 55 | and a happy, well-lived life will always create | 快乐而幸福的生活将永远创造 |
| 56 | the most magnetic and enticing aura. | 最有磁性和诱人的气息 |
| 57 | Your energy is always an extension of what's going on | 你的能量永远是事情的延伸 |
| 58 | on the inside, physically, mentally, spiritually, all of it. | 内心,身体,精神,精神,所有这一切。 |
| 59 | So when your inner world starts having a higher vibration | 所以当你的内心世界 开始有更高的震动 |
| 60 | or even when you start just like taking care of yourself | 甚至当你开始 就像照顾自己 |
| 61 | and become healthier, more clean on the inside, | 身体更健康 内心更干净 |
| 62 | you will notice that your energy | 你会发现你的能量 |
| 63 | will start to become more magnetic. | 将开始变得更加磁性。 |
| 64 | Sometimes people, when they want to become magnetic | 有时人们,当他们想成为磁性 |
| 65 | and attract attention and get people to like them, | 吸引人们的注意 让人们喜欢他们 |
| 66 | they do this through manipulation, | 他们通过操纵来做到这一点, |
| 67 | like just manipulating people to see them in a certain way. | 像只是操纵人们 以某种方式看到他们。 |
| 68 | But the thing with life is that you attract what you are | 但生活的意义在于你吸引你 |
| 69 | and what you put out into the world. | 和你们所投入的世界。 |
| 70 | So if you try to manipulate people | 所以,如果你试图操纵人 |
| 71 | to get them to notice you or to get attention | 让他们注意你或引起注意 |
| 72 | or to get what you want, | 或得到你想要的东西, |
| 73 | all you're doing is attracting other low vibe people | 你所做的只是吸引其他低调的人 |
| 74 | or situations into your life | 或你生活中的情况 |
| 75 | because you're vibrating at the same level. | 因为你在同一级别震动。 |
| 76 | 临Τ胊 dating | |
| 77 | on like TikTok and social media and all that. | 像TikTok和社交媒体之类的 |
| 78 | If you act in a toxic way to get someone to like you | 如果你以毒药的方式让别人喜欢你 |
| 79 | or play games and play with their head | 或玩游戏,玩他们的头 |
| 80 | to be in the power position, | 在权力位置, |
| 81 | all you're doing is attracting | 你所做的一切吸引着 |
| 82 | other toxic or wounded people. | 其他有毒或受伤的人。 |
| 83 | The key is that you don't want to attract all the attention. | 关键是你不想吸引所有的注意力 |
| 84 | You want to attract the right attention. | 你想吸引正确的关注。 |
| 85 | And I'm gonna talk about that in a sec | 我马上就要谈这个了 |
| 86 | because that's a super important point. | 因为这是非常重要的一点。 |
| 87 | But this magnetic aura is not something | 但这种磁气并不是什么 |
| 88 | you can just completely slip on and off | 你可以完全 滑动和关闭 |
| 89 | like a mask every five seconds | 就像每5秒钟的面具 |
| 90 | because it kind of becomes either who you are | 因为无论你是谁 |
| 91 | or who you're not. | 或谁你不是。 |
| 92 | So if our aura is a projection of our own inner states | 所以,如果我们的气息 是我们自己的内在状态的投影 |
| 93 | and we want to become more magnetic, | 我们想变得更有磁性, |
| 94 | that means we do the work, do the inner work, | 这意味着我们做工作,做内部工作, |
| 95 | forgive people, heal past traumas and let them go, | 原谅别人 医治过去的创伤 让他们走 |
| 96 | take care of ourselves, take care of our body, | 照顾好自己 照顾好我们的身体 |
| 97 | eat well, move our body. | 吃得好,移动我们的身体。 |
| 98 | And especially doing things you're passionate about, | 尤其是做你热衷的事 |
| 99 | doing things that make you excited to wake up in the morning, | 做一些让你早上醒来兴奋的事情, |
| 100 | things that inspire you and excite you, | 激励你并激怒你的东西, |
| 101 | living a life that also involves pleasure and fun. | 过着快乐和乐趣的生活 |
| 102 | This is how you create a more high vibe inner state. | 这就是你如何创造出一个更高的内在状态。 |
| 103 | And like I said, this will project out onto the world | 正如我所说,这将会向世界展示 |
| 104 | and people will feel it. | 人们会感觉到的 |
| 105 | You know how some people will give that compliment, | 你知道有些人会怎么恭维你 |
| 106 | like, oh, she's glowing. | 她发光了 |
| 107 | And it's not like she's actually changed, | 而她并没有改变 |
| 108 | she doesn't look any different, | 她看起来没什么不同, |
| 109 | but for some reason people can feel a glow to her. | 但出于某种原因 人们能感受到她的光芒 |
| 110 | They can see a glow to her. | 他们可以看到她的光芒。 |
| 111 | That's because her inner state has changed. | 那是因为她的内在状态发生了变化. |
| 112 | Something in her life has changed somehow | 她生命中有些事情发生了改变 |
| 113 | to level up her inner state and people can feel it. | 以提升她的内在状态 人们可以感觉到它。 |
| 114 | I have this long time friend | 我有这么久的朋友 |
| 115 | and since the moment I met her, | 从我遇见她的那一刻起 |
| 116 | she has always been magnetic. | 她一直都是磁性的。 |
| 117 | And even way back in the day, I would look at her | 即使回到过去,我也会看着她 |
| 118 | and I would be like, how does she do that? | 而我会想, 她怎么做到的? |
| 119 | And knowing what I know now, | 知道我现在知道什么 |
| 120 | I know that it's because of her inner state. | 我知道是因为她内心的状态 |
| 121 | She's always taken really good care of herself | 她总是很照顾自己 |
| 122 | and truly loves doing it, it's not just a chore to her. | 并真正喜欢这样做, 它不只是一个舞步给她。 |
| 123 | She always, always follows her passions and her desires, | 她总是随心所欲 |
| 124 | even when it goes against the grain. | 既而与谷相违. |
| 125 | She was raised in a very loving, safe home, | 她在一个非常可爱,安全的家长大, |
| 126 | which makes her inner world more secure to begin with. | 这使得她的内心世界 开始更加安全。 |
| 127 | She's positive, she's trusting, | 她很积极,她很信任 |
| 128 | and all of this makes her energy so captivating. | 这一切使她的能量如此吸引。 |
| 129 | When I was younger, she was a big expander for me | 我年轻的时候,她对我来说是个大扩张者 |
| 130 | and she taught me a lot. | 她教会了我很多 |
| 131 | Now, like I said, | 现在,就像我说的, |
| 132 | you don't want to attract all the attention, | 你不想吸引所有的注意力, |
| 133 | you want to attract the right attention. | 你想吸引正确的关注。 |
| 134 | And the way that you do this is through authenticity. | 你这样做的方式是通过真实性。 |
| 135 | And that's why magnetism can look different | 这就是为什么磁性可以看起来不同 |
| 136 | from person to person. | 从人到人。 |
| 137 | I'm gonna say something very important. | 我要说点很重要的话 |
| 138 | The goal of having a magnetic aura | 拥有磁气的目标 |
| 139 | is not to get everyone to like you. | 不是让每个人都喜欢你 |
| 140 | And once you understand this | 一旦你明白这一点 |
| 141 | and get comfortable with this in your body, | 在你身体里好好享受这个 |
| 142 | it will change the game. | 它会改变游戏 |
| 143 | There's this saying I've heard, | 有句话我听说过, |
| 144 | liked by everyone, loved by no one. | 人人都喜欢,没人喜欢 |
| 145 | Wanting everyone to like you | 希望每个人都喜欢你 |
| 146 | will make you the opposite of magnetic. | 让你与磁力相反 |
| 147 | Think about an actual magnet. | 想想真正的磁铁 |
| 148 | It's actually polarizing. | 它实际上是两极化的。 |
| 149 | A magnet can attract some things very strongly, yes, | 磁铁能吸引很多东西,是的 |
| 150 | but it will also repel other things. | 但它也会击退其他的东西。 |
| 151 | The only reason that magnet does attract some things | 磁铁能吸引一些东西的唯一原因 |
| 152 | so, so strongly is because it also repels. | 所以,这是很强烈的,因为它也击退。 |
| 153 | You command so much more presence with the right people, | 你指挥这么多 与正确的人, |
| 154 | with the right opportunities | 机会 |
| 155 | when you become the highest version of yourself. | 当你成为你的最高版本。 |
| 156 | If a magnet just tried to attract everything, | 如果磁铁想吸引一切 |
| 157 | it might attract some stuff, yes, | 它可能会吸引一些东西,是的, |
| 158 | but not as strongly as a normal magnet would | 但没有像普通磁铁那样强烈 |
| 159 | because the normal magnet is polarizing. | 因为普通的磁铁在两极化 |
| 160 | That's what causes it to have that super magnetic strength. | 所以它才会有超强的磁力 |
| 161 | Think about Taylor Swift. | 想想泰勒・斯威夫特 |
| 162 | She's obviously magnetic. | 她显然是磁性的。 |
| 163 | Girls, she wouldn't be as successful as she is. | 姑娘们 她不会像现在这样成功 |
| 164 | You know, she has this huge, swifty army. | 她有一支庞大的迅速的军队 |
| 165 | Does everyone like her? | 大家都喜欢她吗? |
| 166 | No, my husband thinks she's incredibly annoying, | 不,我丈夫觉得她很烦人 |
| 167 | but there's also a whole bunch of people | 但还有一堆人 |
| 168 | who would probably literally die for her. | 谁会为她而死? |
| 169 | And then think about Angelina Jolie. | 然后想想安吉丽娜·乔莉 |
| 170 | She's also quite magnetic, but in a very different way. | 她也有相当的磁性,但以非常不同的方式. |
| 171 | She's mysterious and sensual. | 她既神秘又性感 |
| 172 | You know, it's more in the attitude. | 你知道,它更多的在态度。 |
| 173 | Both women are magnetic, but in their own ways. | 两个女人都具有磁性,但都以自己的方式存在. |
| 174 | Think about it. | 考虑一下 |
| 175 | People tend to be magnetic for a certain reason. | 人们往往出于某种原因具有磁性. |
| 176 | So some people can be magnetic | 因此,有些人可以 磁性 |
| 177 | because they radiate warmth and love and trust and safety. | 因为它们能发热 爱 信任 安全 |
| 178 | And that was more my friend than when I was talking about. | 这比我说的还像我的朋友 |
| 179 | She's very much like that. | 她非常喜欢这样 |
| 180 | But then there are other people | 但还有别人 |
| 181 | who can have a magnetic aura | 谁能有磁气 |
| 182 | because they radiate power, authority, leadership. | 因为他们能辐射能量 权威 领导力 |
| 183 | I'm rewatching Gossip Girl right now | 我现在在看八卦天后 |
| 184 | because, I mean, it's the best. | 因为,我是说,这是最好的。 |
| 185 | But even think about Serena and Blair. | 但甚至想到瑟琳娜和布莱尔 |
| 186 | They both give off quite magnetic energy, | 他们都释放出相当的磁力 |
| 187 | main character energy, but they're also very different. | 主角能量,但它们也有很大的不同. |
| 188 | And they both really lean into who they are. | 他们俩都非常接近自己 |
| 189 | Serena is more of this like free-spirited, | 瑟琳娜更像这种自由精神的人 |
| 190 | hopeless, romantic, chill, goes with the flow kind of girl. | 无可救药 浪漫 冷静 和那种流畅的女孩在一起 |
| 191 | And then Blair has more sass, more authority. | 然后布莱尔有 更多的sass, 更多的权威。 |
| 192 | She's very organized and on top of things. | 她很有组织,而且很出色 |
| 193 | And they command more presence by leaning into that. | 他们靠着它来指挥更多的存在。 |
| 194 | In my opinion, I think Serena is more magnetic than Blair, | 我认为瑟琳娜比布莱尔更具有磁性 |
| 195 | especially in the beginning. | 特别是一开始 |
| 196 | But I think as the show progresses | 但我认为随着演出的进展 |
| 197 | and they both kind of heal some of their inner wounds, | 他们能治愈自己的内伤, |
| 198 | they become more and more magnetic as they get older. | 越老越有磁性 |
| 199 | Especially to higher vibe people and situations. | 特别是对于更高层次的人和情况。 |
| 200 | You will become the most magnetic | 你会成为最磁性的 |
| 201 | when you embrace who you are, own it, and lean into it. | 当你拥抱你是谁,拥有它, 并靠在它。 |
| 202 | And do it, be that truest version of yourself | 做吧,做你自己最真实的版本 |
| 203 | from the highest vibration you can. | 从最高震动,你可以。 |
| 204 | Will that polarize some people? | 那会把一些人分化吗? |
| 205 | Sure. | 当然 |
| 206 | But will it also magnetize some people to you? | 但是,它也会 磁化一些人给你? |
| 207 | Yes. | 对 |
| 208 | So like if your true authentic self | 就像你真正的自我一样 |
| 209 | is more of a sensual nature, you can lean into that. | 更感性,你可以倾斜。 |
| 210 | Not just by the way you are, | 不只是因为你的方式, |
| 211 | but also by the way you even present yourself. | 顺便说一句,你甚至表现自己。 |
| 212 | Like if you wear more red or black | 就像你穿的红黑色一样 |
| 213 | or dresses that show off your curves. | 或露出曲线的衣服 |
| 214 | Think about Samantha from Sex and the City. | 想想"性与城市"的萨曼莎 |
| 215 | She's a very exaggerated version of this. | 她是一个非常夸张的版本。 |
| 216 | I mean, it's a TV show, right? | 我的意思是,这是一个电视节目,对不对? |
| 217 | But she really just owns who she is. | 但是她只是拥有她是谁。 |
| 218 | And even though some people might not agree | 虽然有些人可能不同意 |
| 219 | with her lifestyle choices, | 她的生活方式选择, |
| 220 | you can't deny that she does have quite magnetic energy. | 你不能否认她有相当的磁力 |
| 221 | She's just so herself. | 她就是这么一个人 |
| 222 | 还有Serena Vandervoort 一个八卦女郎 | |
| 223 | she's just so herself. | 她就是这么一个人 |
| 224 | Even Blair, she's just so herself. | 甚至布莱尔,她就是那么自己。 |
| 225 | So also if your natural personality is super warm | 如果你的天性超温柔 |
| 226 | and happy and bubbly and feminine, | 喜悦, 喜悦, 和女人, |
| 227 | wearing pink or even like a happy yellow color, | 穿粉红色,甚至像一个快乐的黄色颜色, |
| 228 | that will amplify that. | 这会扩大这一点。 |
| 229 | While yes, you will become slightly more polarizing | 是的,你会变得两极分化 |
| 230 | when you truly lean into your authenticity, | 当你真正倾斜到真实的时候, |
| 231 | you will attract the right people and repel the rest. | 你会吸引正确的人 并击退其余的。 |
| 232 | And you will command more presence. | 你会得到更多的支持 |
| 233 | You will be more likely to be remembered. | 你更有可能被人们记住。 |
| 234 | Think about like a true high value woman, right? | 想想一个真正的高价值的女人,对不对? |
| 235 | It's not uncommon that when a woman becomes very like | 当一个女人变得非常像 |
| 236 | high value and really raises her vibration and all of that, | 高价值,真的提高她的振动 和这一切, |
| 237 | she actually receives less interest in men overall. | 她实际上对男人的兴趣更小 |
| 238 | Not because you're now less appealing | 不是因为你现在不那么吸引人 |
| 239 | or less beautiful or anything, | 或更少的美丽或任何东西, |
| 240 | but because you're now on different energy levels. | 因为你现在的能量水平不同 |
| 241 | And it will start to repel the suitors | 它将击退求婚者, |
| 242 | who are energetically incompatible. | 他们是充满活力的不相容的。 |
| 243 | They're not thinking like, | 他们不是在想 |
| 244 | oh, her aura is so different than mine. | 她的气息和我不一样 |
| 245 | I'm not gonna approach her. | 我不会接近她的 |
| 246 | No, but there's just this feeling that he gets | 没有,不过他有一种感觉 |
| 247 | of it not being a match. | 因为它不是一个匹配。 |
| 248 | And so he won't waste his time. | 所以他不会浪费时间 |
| 249 | One time I was scrolling through YouTube shorts | 有一次我在YouTube的短裤上滚动 |
| 250 | and I got this video that was like this ASMR video | 我得到了一个视频 喜欢这个ASMR视频 |
| 251 | of somebody eating. | 有人在吃东西 |
| 252 | Like the ASMR was the eating noises and stuff | 像ASMR是 饮食噪音和东西 |
| 253 | and not my thing. | 而不是我的东西。 |
| 254 | But then I looked and that channel had 2 million subscribers. | 但后来我看了,那个频道有200万用户。 |
| 255 | So clearly some people like it. | 很明显有些人喜欢 |
| 256 | For some reason that I don't understand that content | 不知为什么我不明白这些内容 |
| 257 | and that channel is magnetizing to some people | 而这个通道正在磁化 一些人 |
| 258 | and repelling to others. | 并击退他人。 |
| 259 | If you wanna become magnetic, | 如果你想成为磁性, |
| 260 | your goal is not to become a social chameleon | 你的目标不是成为社交变色龙 |
| 261 | who changes who she is in different situations | 改变自己处境的人 |
| 262 | so that she can be liked by everyone. | 这样她才能被大家喜欢 |
| 263 | And guess what? | 你猜怎么着? |
| 264 | People can often sense when you have inauthentic energy | 人们常常能感觉到 当你有非正能量 |
| 265 | because it kind of makes people feel slightly uneasy | 因为这让人有点不安 |
| 266 | to be around you. | 在你身边。 |
| 267 | There's like this air of anxiety | 有一种焦虑的空气 |
| 268 | and you become less magnetic. | 你变弱了 |
| 269 | It's ironic, but the more you try to be magnetic, | 这很讽刺,但你越想磁性 |
| 270 | usually the less magnetic you become | 通常你变成的磁性越小 |
| 271 | because it kind of turns into this sort of desperate energy. | 因为它会变成这种绝望的能量 |
| 272 | I wanna be liked by everyone energy. | 我想被大家喜欢的能量。 |
| 273 | The trick is not to focus on the end results | 诀窍是不要专注于最终结果 |
| 274 | of becoming magnetic, | 成为磁性, |
| 275 | but instead to focus on the little things | 却把注意力放在小事上 |
| 276 | that get you there. | 这让你在那里。 |
| 277 | Think about creating the best energy for yourself | 考虑为自己创造最好的能量 |
| 278 | and becoming more confident in who you are | 更自信的你是谁 |
| 279 | and living life from a place of authenticity and love | 和生活 从一个真实和爱的地方 |
| 280 | because why wouldn't we wanna do that anyways, right? | 因为我们为什么不想这样做呢? |
| 281 | And a more captivating aura will start to fall into place. | 一个更吸引人的气息会开始出现 |
| 282 | Now side note, like I said, this magnetic energy | 副音符,就像我说的,磁力 |
| 283 | will help you to attract the right people | 帮助你吸引合适的人 |
| 284 | and repel the wrong ones, usually. | 并击退错误的,通常。 |
| 285 | You still have to use discernment sometimes | 你有时还是要用分辨法 |
| 286 | and have boundaries. | 和有边界。 |
| 287 | For example, with my videos, | 比如,用我的视频 |
| 288 | some people might click on them and be like, | 有些人可能会点击他们 并喜欢, |
| 289 | ooh, yeah, I love this girl. | 哦,是的,我爱这个女孩。 |
| 290 | And other people might click on it and be like, | 其他人可能会点击它 并喜欢, |
| 291 | and then she's not for me next, which is totally fine. | 然后她就不是我的下一个, 这完全很好。 |
| 292 | But then there's also the rare occurrence | 但也少见 |
| 293 | of someone being like, oh, she's not for me, | 某人喜欢, 哦,她不适合我, |
| 294 | but let's see what kind of super rude comment | 但让我们看看 什么样的超粗鲁的评论 |
| 295 | I can think of to try to bring her down | 我可以想办法把她弄下来 |
| 296 | and make her feel terrible about herself. | 让她对自己感到恐怖 |
| 297 | Like it's rare, but there will be people like that in life | 像它很少, 但会有这样的人 在生活中 |
| 298 | and I call them leeches. | 我称他们为水獭 |
| 299 | Don't let them drag down your energy | 不要让他们拖下你的精力 |
| 300 | or convince you to be less of who you are. | 或说服你 少你是谁。 |
| 301 | Now moving on, people will be much more likely | 现在继续前进 人们更有可能 |
| 302 | to be magnetized to you | 被磁化给你 |
| 303 | when you make them feel good about themselves | 当你让他们感觉自己很好 |
| 304 | and when they feel good in your presence. | 当他们在你面前感觉很好的时候 |
| 305 | This is just psychological fact. | 这只是心理事实。 |
| 306 | People like to talk about themselves. | 人们喜欢谈论自己。 |
| 307 | People like to feel special | 人们喜欢感觉特殊 |
| 308 | and people love to feel seen and heard and also valued. | 人们喜欢被看到和听到 也喜欢被重视 |
| 309 | Very charismatic magnetic people | 非常有魅力的磁人 |
| 310 | can make someone feel like they are the only person | 能让人觉得自己是唯一的人 |
| 311 | in the room. | 在房间里。 |
| 312 | So how do you do this? | 那么,你怎么做到这一点? |
| 313 | Things like asking them real, thoughtful, | 像问他们真正,深思熟虑, |
| 314 | genuine questions about themselves | 真正的问题 |
| 315 | and actually listening, | 而实际上听, |
| 316 | not just waiting for your turn to talk | 不只是等待轮到你说话 |
| 317 | or you trying to come up with your response | 或者你试图提出你的答复 |
| 318 | while they're talking, | 他们说话的时候 |
| 319 | but just actually listening and being present with them | 但其实只是听 和他们在场 |
| 320 | or things like eye contact, | 或象眼睛接触一样的东西, |
| 321 | being excited about their interests, | 为他们的兴趣而兴奋, |
| 322 | being interested in their life, | 对他们的生活感兴趣 |
| 323 | talking to them about their passions, | 和他们谈论他们的热情, |
| 324 | remembering little things about them, | 记念关于他们的小事, |
| 325 | even little things like using their name | 甚至小事如用他们的名字 |
| 326 | when you speak to them. | 当你和他们说话。 |
| 327 | Dale Carnegie who wrote How to Win Friends | 写"如何赢得朋友"的戴尔·卡内基 |
| 328 | and Influence People, | 并影响众人, |
| 329 | which is a good book I recommend, | 这是我推荐的一本好书, |
| 330 | he says that something along the lines of | 他说一些事情 大致上 |
| 331 | a person's name is to that person | 一个人的名字是那个人 |
| 332 | the sweetest, most important sound of any language. | 最甜,最重要的声音 任何语言。 |
| 333 | A person's name is special to them. | 一个人的名字对他们来说是特殊的。 |
| 334 | It grabs their attention | 吸引了他们的注意力 |
| 335 | because we're programmed that way from childhood | 因为我们从小就这样编程 |
| 336 | that our name is supposed to grab our attention. | 我们的名字应该引起我们的注意 |
| 337 | You don't need to overuse their name | 你不必多用他们的名字 |
| 338 | because that's kind of weird. | 因为这有点奇怪 |
| 339 | But like for example, when you first meet someone, | 但是比如说,当你第一次遇到一个人时, |
| 340 | using their name in a conversation once, | 在一次谈话中用他们的名字, |
| 341 | maybe twice can help the person know | 也许两次可以帮助他知道 |
| 342 | that you are listening, | 你们在听吗? |
| 343 | that you care, that you're present with them. | 你关心, 你与他们在一起。 |
| 344 | If you have the power to make someone feel good | 如果你有能力让人感觉好点 |
| 345 | about themselves when they're with you, | 当他们和你在一起的时候, |
| 346 | to make them feel more seen, | 让他们感觉更清晰, |
| 347 | then they will likely be quite magnetized to you. | 然后它们可能会被磁化成你。 |
| 348 | And you might think like, | 你可能会认为, |
| 349 | oh, well, isn't that manipulative? | 哦,好吧,这不是操纵性? |
| 350 | Well, it depends. | 嗯,这取决于。 |
| 351 | Do you actually care what the other person has to say? | 你真的在乎别人说什么吗? |
| 352 | Or are you just trying to get them to like you? | 还是你想让他们喜欢你? |
| 353 | Do you actually wanna ask them genuine, thoughtful questions | 你真的想问他们 真正的,深思熟虑的问题 |
| 354 | because you really wanna hear their answer? | 因为你真的想听他们的回答? |
| 355 | Or are you just getting them to like you? | 还是你让他们喜欢你? |
| 356 | Don't just pretend to be interested in people | 别假装对人感兴趣 |
| 357 | to become more magnetic. | 变得更磁性。 |
| 358 | That's not the answer. | 这不是答案。 |
| 359 | Instead, you have to start operating from an open heart | 相反,你必须从开放的心脏开始操作 |
| 360 | and embodying the energy of love. | 体现爱的能量 |
| 361 | Genuinely care about other people, | 真正关心别人, |
| 362 | genuinely be present with other people. | 与众人同在, |
| 363 | The more authentic your energy is, | 你的能量越真实 |
| 364 | the more magnetic you'll be. | 磁力会越大 |
| 365 | And again, like when you're trying to be magnetic, | 再说一遍,就像你尝试磁性时, |
| 366 | oftentimes you're just totally focused on yourself | 经常你只是完全专注于自己 |
| 367 | and thinking like, oh, did I do that right? | 我想,哦,我做对了吗? |
| 368 | Oh, does this person like me? | 这个人喜欢我吗? |
| 369 | But when you do that, you lose presence with other people | 但当你这样做,你失去了 与其他人 |
| 370 | and people can feel that. | 人们能感觉到 |
| 371 | And it does not feel good to be on the other side of that. | 站在另一边感觉不太好 |
| 372 | Now, another big key to having a magnetic aura | 现在,另一个大键 有磁气 |
| 373 | is being able to validate yourself. | 能够验证自己。 |
| 374 | You become more magnetic by being secure in yourself, | 你变得更磁性 通过安全自己, |
| 375 | not needing other people's approval | 不需要别人同意 |
| 376 | and praises all the time to feel good about who you are. | 并称赞所有的时间 感觉良好的你是谁。 |
| 377 | When you are secure in yourself and no longer needy, | 当你们平安无事的时候, |
| 378 | you become a magnet to who | 你成为谁的磁铁 |
| 379 | and what you're supposed to attract. | 以及你应该吸引的 |
| 380 | Think about like manifestation and the law of attraction. | 考虑一下表现和吸引法则 |
| 381 | They say that to manifest what you want, | 他们说为了表达你的愿望 |
| 382 | you have to stop needing it. | 你必须停止需要它。 |
| 383 | And the minute that you stop needing it to happen right now, | 当你不再需要它的时候 |
| 384 | that's when those manifestations | 那时那些表现 |
| 385 | start to come into your life. | 开始进入你的生活。 |
| 386 | It's like the girl who's been desperately | 这就像一个女孩 谁一直绝望 |
| 387 | trying to find her husband, | 试图找到她的丈夫, |
| 388 | but once she decides to take a break from dating | 但一旦她决定离开约会 |
| 389 | and she decides that she's okay being single, | 她决定她可以单身 |
| 390 | she meets her soulmate. | 她遇见了灵魂伴侣 |
| 391 | Needy energy, desperate energy repels. | 贫乏的能量,绝望的能量击退。 |
| 392 | And we become needy when we rely on other people | 当我们依赖别人的时候,我们变得贫困 |
| 393 | to make us feel good. | 以让我们感觉好。 |
| 394 | When we start listening to other people's opinions | 当我们开始听别人的意见 |
| 395 | instead of our own. | 而不是我们自己的 |
| 396 | Again, like I said earlier, | 再说一遍,就像我刚才说的, |
| 397 | when you focus on just trying to be magnetic, | 当你专注于尝试 磁性, |
| 398 | you're usually doing it for a certain result. | 你通常是为了某种结果 |
| 399 | You're usually doing it to be validated | 你通常这么做是为了被验证 |
| 400 | in some way, essentially. | 从某种意义上说,基本上。 |
| 401 | The people who are not trying to be magnetic | 那些不想成为磁力的人 |
| 402 | are usually the ones who are more magnetic | 通常是那些更磁性的 |
| 403 | because they're not striving for your approval. | 因为他们没有争取你的同意 |
| 404 | They're not hunting for your validation. | 他们不是在寻找你的验证 |
| 405 | There's this aura of security | 这里有安全气息 |
| 406 | that they have within themselves. | 即他们自己拥有的。 |
| 407 | And you have to stop chasing. | 你必须停止追逐。 |
| 408 | Stop chasing people, stop chasing men, especially. | 别追人,别追人 |
| 409 | Stop chasing approval, stop chasing validation. | 停止追逐批准,停止追逐验证. |
| 410 | When you are in your authentic magnetic energy, | 当你在你的真磁能量, |
| 411 | like I said, you will attract some people very strongly | 就像我说的,你会很吸引一些人 |
| 412 | and you will repel others. | 你将击退别人。 |
| 413 | You have to consider that if you have to chase someone | 你要是非要追一个人不可 |
| 414 | to try to be in your life, | 尝试在你的生活中, |
| 415 | then maybe they're not actually meant to be there. | 也许他们根本不该去 |
| 416 | Once you stop desiring to be magnetic | 一旦你不再渴望磁性 |
| 417 | and once you stop desiring for everyone to like you | 一旦你不再希望每个人都喜欢你 |
| 418 | so you can get that validation, | 这样你就能得到验证 |
| 419 | that is when you will step into your most magnetic energy | 那时你将进入你最磁性的能量 |
| 420 | and your aura will be the strongest. | 你的气息将是最强的。 |
| 421 | You become more magnetic by detaching from the outcome. | 你从结果中分离出来 就会变得更有磁性 |
| 422 | So you can start learning to validate yourself | 所以你可以开始学习验证自己 |
| 423 | by trusting your own thoughts and opinions, | 通过信任你自己的想法和意见, |
| 424 | trusting your intuition, not running to someone else | 相信你的直觉 而不是跑去见别人 |
| 425 | with every single little tiny decision that you have to make | 每一个小小的决定,你必须做出 |
| 426 | to make sure that they agree with you too. | 确保他们也同意你的意见 |
| 427 | And instead going with what you think, | 转而按你的想法 |
| 428 | what feels right to you, not people pleasing, not chasing, | 感觉你是对的,不是人们喜欢,不是追求, |
| 429 | giving yourself the validation that you're seeking, | 给自己你正在寻求的验证, |
| 430 | learning to become your own best friend, | 学会成为你最好的朋友, |
| 431 | not getting triggered and have your world start crumbling | 不要被触发 让你的世界开始崩溃 |
| 432 | when someone says the slightest negative thing about you. | 当有人说你有一点负面 |
| 433 | Learning how to validate yourself can take some time. | 学习如何验证自己需要一些时间. |
| 434 | Because when it comes down to it, | 因为当它来到它, |
| 435 | it's actually a process of learning how to trust yourself. | 这其实是一个学习如何相信自己的过程. |
| 436 | Now, lastly, don't forget that when it comes to your energy | 现在,最后,不要忘记 当它涉及到你的能量 |
| 437 | and your aura, it's something that you have to protect | 和你的气息,这是你必须保护的东西 |
| 438 | and cleanse regularly. | 并定期清洁。 |
| 439 | Like for example, if you get a nice new shiny car, | 比如说,如果你有一辆漂亮的新车 |
| 440 | if you don't ever wash it, then eventually over time, | 如果你永远不洗, 然后最终随着时间的推移, |
| 441 | it's not gonna be so nice anymore. | 不会再那么好啦 |
| 442 | I know that our energy is something much more mystical | 我知道我们的能量更神秘 |
| 443 | than a car and something that we can't really see, | 比一辆车和我们看不到的东西, |
| 444 | but our energy and our aura is constantly coming | 但我们的能量和气息不断的来袭 |
| 445 | into contact with different people, | 接触不同的人, |
| 446 | different things throughout the day. | 全天不同的东西。 |
| 447 | And if you don't protect that and continue to keep it clean | 如果你不保护它,继续保持干净 |
| 448 | and strong, so to say, it can be affected. | 并且强壮,可以说,它可能会受到影响。 |
| 449 | If you encounter in your day really low vibe people, | 如果你遇到在你的一天 非常低调的人, |
| 450 | or even if you're just watching | 即使你只是看着 |
| 451 | like a really low vibe scary TV show, | 像一个非常低的氛围 可怕的电视节目, |
| 452 | or you have a moment of fear or panic in your day | 或者你一天有一点恐惧或恐慌 |
| 453 | for some reason, all of these things can affect our energy. | 由于某种原因,所有这些东西都会影响我们的能量. |
| 454 | If you're starting to feel off, | 如果你开始感觉脱落, |
| 455 | or if you feel like things feel heavier for some reason | 或者,如果你觉得事情 感觉更重的原因 |
| 456 | and you don't know why, | 你不知道为什么, |
| 457 | or you're feeling more tired all the time, | 或者你总是觉得更累了, |
| 458 | or if you feel like you can't ever relax, | 或者如果你觉得你永远不能放松 |
| 459 | those could potentially, potentially be a sign | 这些可能,可能是一个征兆 |
| 460 | that your energy needs purifying or protecting. | 你的能量需要净化或保护 |
| 461 | You can do this through meditation, | 你可以通过冥想做到这一点, |
| 462 | especially meditations that are for | 特别是用于 |
| 463 | like balancing the chakras, or my personal favorites, | 喜欢平衡cakras, 或我个人的最爱, |
| 464 | meditations where you sort of visualize your energy field | 冥想你的能量领域 |
| 465 | and start cleaning up the impurities. | 并开始清理杂质。 |
| 466 | I know it sounds weird, | 我知道这听起来很奇怪, |
| 467 | but if you just sit with binaural beats | 但是如果你只是坐 与双音节 |
| 468 | for 10 or 15 minutes, and then you just try to visualize | 10或15分钟,然后你试着想象 |
| 469 | and imagine your aura and your energy field, | 想象你的气息和能量田园, |
| 470 | and then you start kind of visualizing, | 然后你开始 一种视觉, |
| 471 | pulling out the dirty spots, impurities, whatever, | 拔出脏点,杂质,随便, |
| 472 | you start patching the holes in your energy, | 你开始补补能量的漏洞, |
| 473 | you start creating like a big bubble | 你开始像泡泡一样产生 |
| 474 | around your energy of protection, it can do wonders. | 围绕你的保护能量, 它可以做奇迹。 |
| 475 | Also, water is very energetically purifying, | 而且,水的净化非常活跃, |
| 476 | so lots of baths or showers can be really helpful, | 所以很多的洗澡或淋浴 会很有帮助, |
| 477 | or even the ocean, if you live by an ocean, | 甚至是大海 如果你生活在大海边 |
| 478 | that could be a wonderful way to kind of purify your energy. | 这可能是一种美妙的方法 来净化你的能量。 |
| 479 | Or also, let's say that you're at work | 或者说,你还在工作 |
| 480 | and a new client comes in for the first time, | 一个新客户第一次进来 |
| 481 | and this guy just sucks, like he just has terrible energy. | 这家伙只是很烂, 就像他只是有可怕的能量。 |
| 482 | Go to the bathroom after and just wash your hands, | 洗完手就去厕所 |
| 483 | like wash it off of you. | 就像把它洗掉一样 |
| 484 | It's not like a nice warm bath, | 这不像一个温暖的浴池 |
| 485 | but it can feel restorative for your energy field | 但它可以感觉恢复你的能量领域 |
| 486 | and can sometimes kind of recalibrate you. | 并且有时可以让你重新适应 |
| 487 | I actually talk about this topic briefly in my video, | 其实我在视频里 简短地谈到了这个话题 |
| 488 | nine self-care habits that completely upgraded my life. | 九种自我护理的习惯 完全提升了我的生活。 |
| 489 | I hope that this video was helpful for you | 我希望这段视频对你很有帮助 |
| 490 | and gave you some valuable tips | 并给你一些宝贵的提示 |
| 491 | on how to become your most magnetic self. | 如何成为你最磁性的自我。 |
| 492 | So I think that you should probably go check out | 所以我觉得你应该去看看 |
| 493 | this video here, but if not, that's okay, | 这段视频,但如果没有,没关系, |
| 494 | and I will see you next time in my next video. | 下次我下次在录像里再见到你 |
| 495 | Thank you so much for watching, love you guys, bye. | 非常感谢你们看,爱你们,再见 |
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