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0:08Most people believe that a lack of discipline is a character flaw, a weak, shameful trait,多数人认为缺乏纪律是性格缺陷,软弱,可耻的特点,
0:14something that some have and others do not.一些东西,有些没有。
0:18However, this view is completely misguided.然而,这种观点是完全错误的。
0:21What few people know is that discipline, as it is generally understood, goes against the way the很少有人知道 纪律,正如人们所理解的, 违反的方式
0:27human brain is designed to operate.人类大脑是用来操作的
0:30And this is not a metaphor, it is a neurobiological fact.这不是一个比喻,而是神经生物学的事实。
0:35The brain did not evolve to prioritize long-term goals, abstract targets, or heroic self-control.大脑的进化并不是要优先考虑长期目标,抽象目标,或者英雄的自我控制.
0:42It evolved for one thing, immediate survival.它进化为一件事,即立即生存。
0:45Over millions of years, humans adapted to conserve数百万年来,人类适应保护
0:49energy, seek quick rewards, and avoid any unnecessary effort.能源,寻求迅速的回报,避免任何不必要的努力。
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1Most people believe that a lack of discipline is a character flaw, a weak, shameful trait,多数人认为缺乏纪律是性格缺陷,软弱,可耻的特点,
2something that some have and others do not.一些东西,有些没有。
3However, this view is completely misguided.然而,这种观点是完全错误的。
4What few people know is that discipline, as it is generally understood, goes against the way the很少有人知道 纪律,正如人们所理解的, 违反的方式
5human brain is designed to operate.人类大脑是用来操作的
6And this is not a metaphor, it is a neurobiological fact.这不是一个比喻,而是神经生物学的事实。
7The brain did not evolve to prioritize long-term goals, abstract targets, or heroic self-control.大脑的进化并不是要优先考虑长期目标,抽象目标,或者英雄的自我控制.
8It evolved for one thing, immediate survival.它进化为一件事,即立即生存。
9Over millions of years, humans adapted to conserve数百万年来,人类适应保护
10energy, seek quick rewards, and avoid any unnecessary effort.能源,寻求迅速的回报,避免任何不必要的努力。
11In other words, your brain换句话说 你的大脑
12does not want you to go to the gym, it wants you to stay on the couch, because that saves energy.不希望你去健身房, 它希望你留在沙发上, 因为这样可以节省能量。
13It does not want you to write an article or study, it wants you to open TikTok because dopamine它不希望你写文章或研究 它希望你打开TikTok 因为多巴胺
14comes faster.来得更快
15And this is not a defect, it is simply biology.这不是一个缺陷,它只是生物学。
16The problem is that modern society问题是现代社会
17demands just the opposite.要求恰恰相反。
18To thrive, we are expected to be disciplined, productive, and为了繁荣,我们要遵守纪律,有所作为,
19consistent.一致。
20But this creates an internal conflict.但这造成了内部冲突。
21On one side, a brain that has been shaped to act一方面,一个被塑造的大脑
22like a lazy hunter-gatherer.像懒惰的猎人采集者
23On the other, a world that demands behavior from a focused and另一方面,一个要求有重点和
24resilient supercomputer.有弹性的超级计算机。
25When someone tries to force discipline through willpower, they are,当有人试图通过意志力强制纪律时,他们是,
26in practice, trying to overcome millions of years of evolutionary programming with a handful of在实践上,试图用少数
27motivational phrases.动机短语。
28And guess what?你猜怎么着?
29It doesn't work, at least not for long.它不起作用,至少不会长久。
30James Clear, author詹姆斯·克莉尔,作者
31of the bestseller Atomic Habits, revealed one of the deepest insights about modern human behavior.最畅销的"原子哈比特人" 揭示了人类现代行为最深刻的见解之一
32Real discipline does not come from force, it comes from design.真正的纪律不是来自武力,而是来自设计.
33The most consistent people,最坚定的人,
34those who seem disciplined, are actually not stronger or more motivated.那些看起来纪律严明的人,实际上并没有更强大或更有动机.
35They have simply他们只是
36created systems and environments that make the right behavior easy, automatic, and inevitable.创造了系统和环境,使正确的行为变得容易、自动和不可避免。
37They do not fight against the brain, they manipulate it.他们不与大脑作战,而是操纵大脑。
38In the next few minutes,接下来几分钟,
39we will dismantle the illusion of discipline, expose the mistakes you didn't even know you我们会破除纪律的幻觉 揭开你不认识的错误
40were making, and build together a new way of thinking and acting.并共同构建一种新的思维和行为方式。
41A smarter way, more human,一个更聪明的方法,更人类,
42more effective.更有效一点。
43If you have ever felt weak for procrastinating, if you have ever hated yourself如果你曾经觉得软弱 拖延,如果你曾经恨自己
44for not being able to stick to your own plans, this video will not judge you.因为无法坚持自己的计划 这段视频不会评判你
45It will show you它会告诉你
46you were just trying the wrong way.你只是尝试了错误的方式。
47And now finally, you will understand the right way.现在,你终于能理解正确的方式了
48Discipline as a concept seems simple in theory.纪律作为一个概念在理论上似乎很简单。
49Just want something enough, stay focused,只是想要的东西足够,保持专注,
50and resist temptation.并抵抗诱惑。
51But when we look at how the human brain actually works,但当我们观察人类大脑的实际作用时,
52we realize that this view is not only simplistic, but completely naive.我们意识到,这一观点不仅简单,而且完全是天真的。
53This is because your brain这是因为你的大脑
54is not interested in your long-term goals.对你的长远目标不感兴趣
55It is focused on survival, comfort, and energy efficiency.它侧重于生存、舒适和能源效率。
56And if you don't understand this, you will live in conflict with it.如果你不明白这一点, 你会生活在冲突之中。
57For most of human evolution,对于大多数人类进化,
58our ancestors lived in hostile environments where resource scarcity was the norm,我们的祖先生活在充满敌意的环境里 资源匮乏是常态
59and the only priority was to survive until the next day.而唯一优先的就是生存到第二天
60In this scenario, the brain adapted在这个假设中,大脑适应了
61to prioritize immediate rewards.优先立即奖励。
62Eating now was more important than storing for later.现在吃饭比以后储存更重要。
63Sleeping more was safer than exposing oneself to risks.睡觉比冒险安全
64Avoiding effort meant conserving energy避免努力意味着节约能源
65for critical moments.在关键时刻。
66The brain was calibrated generation after generation to seek the quickest,大脑被校准 一代又一代地寻找最快的速度
67most pleasurable, and least costly path.最令人愉快, 成本最低的道路。
68And guess what?你猜怎么着?
69This software still runs in you today.这个软件今天还在你体内运行
70When you try to wake up early to go to the gym, your brain interprets this as a threat to comfort当你想早点醒来去健身房的时候 你的大脑会把它解释为对安慰的威胁
71and energy conservation.和节能。
72When you open your laptop to study or work on a project,当你打开你的笔记本 学习或工作的项目,
73it immediately suggests that you just take a quick look at social media.它立刻暗示你只需快速看一看社交媒体.
74Because there,因为在那里,
75pleasure is instant, predictable, and guaranteed.欢乐是即时的,可以预见的,并且可以保证。
76Going to the gym, reading a technical book,去健身房看一本技术书
77writing an article, that requires effort without immediate reward.写篇文章,需要努力而不立即得到报酬。
78The brain hates that.大脑讨厌这样
79And here's这里
80the most important detail.最重要的细节。
81Your brain is not rational.你的大脑不合理
82It is efficient.这是有效的。
83It does not choose它没有选择
84what is best in the long term, but what requires less energy right now.长期来说最好,但现在需要更少的精力。
85This is what neuroscience这就是神经科学
86calls cognitive ease, the brain's tendency to always choose the path of least resistance.称认知轻松, 大脑的倾向总是选择 最小阻力的路径。
87And this choice is not conscious.而此选择无意识.
88It happens even before you decide.它发生在你决定之前。
89The problem, therefore,因此,这个问题,
90is not a lack of willpower.并不是缺乏意志力。
91It is a design conflict.这是一个设计冲突。
92Your brain wants to survive and feel你的大脑想要生存和感觉
93good now.现在好。
94You want to evolve and grow in the long term.欲长时进化增长.
95And as long as these two goals are只要这两个目标
96not reconciled, you will continue to feel frustrated, tired, and unsuccessful.你将感到沮丧、疲倦和失败。
97James詹姆士 詹姆士 詹姆士
98sums this up brilliantly.总结得非常精彩
99Motivation is overrated.动机被高估了.
100Environment is more important.环境更重要。
101In other words,也就是说,
102if you constantly need to rely on willpower, it means you are fighting against the natural如果你不断需要依赖意志力 这意味着你正在对抗自然
103structure of your brain.你的大脑结构
104And that is a battle you will lose always.你永远会输掉这场战争
105Because over time, fatigue wins.因为随着时间的推移,疲劳会获胜。
106And when you are tired, your brain goes back to autopilot.当你累了,你的大脑会回到自动驾驶。
107And the autopilot always chooses而自动驾驶总是选择
108the easiest path.最简单的路径。
109If you really want to change, the first step is not to try harder.如果你真的想要改变,第一步就是不要更努力.
110The first第一个
111step is to understand what you are dealing with.步骤是了解你面对的是什么
112And now that you know your brain is programmed to现在你知道你的大脑被编程到
113sabotage any attempt at forced discipline, an inevitable question arises.破坏任何强制纪律的企图 必然会出现一个问题
114What if the problem如果问题
115is not you, but the environment you live in?不是你 而是你生活的环境?
116In the next part, we will explore why your environment接下来,我们将探索 为什么你的环境
117is in fact, the true architect of your behaviors, and how you can manipulate it to work in your事实上,你行为的真正设计者, 和如何操纵它 在你的工作
118favor.帮个忙
119If this content is making sense to you, click the subscribe button and subscribe to the如果您认为此内容合理, 请点击订阅按钮并订阅
120channel.频道.
121Thank you for your support.谢谢你的支持。
122Now that you understand that your brain is designed to seek the现在你明白你的大脑是用来寻找
123easiest path, we need to look at the true battleground where this decision takes place,简便的路,我们需要看看真正的战场 做出这个决定,
124the environment around you.周围的环境
125Most people believe that self-control is an inner strength, a kind大多数人相信自我控制是一种内在的力量,一种
126of moral muscle that just needs to be strengthened.需要加强的道德力量
127But the truth, as James Clear revealed, is much但正如詹姆斯·克莉尔所揭示的 真相是
128more uncomfortable.更让人不舒服。
129Self-control is fragile, and it crumbles in the face of a poorly designed自我控制很脆弱 面对一个设计不完善的
130environment.环境。
131Think about this.考虑一下
132You decide to start working out.你决定开始工作。
133You are motivated, determined,你是有动机的,坚定的,
134ready to change your life.准备改变你的生活。
135But when you wake up, your workout clothes are crumpled at the bottom但当你醒来时,你的锻炼服被挤在底部
136of the drawer.抽屉。
137Your sneakers are in the trunk of the car.你的运动鞋在车厢里
138It's cold outside.外风寒.
139Meanwhile, the couch is同时,沙发是
140three steps from the bed.从床三步.
141Your phone is in your hand, and Instagram is already open.你的手机在你手上,Instagram已经打开了。
142The choice选择
143is no longer between good and bad.不再是好和坏之间。
144The choice is between what is available and easy and what is选择的是 既容易又容易
145hidden and laborious.隐而劳苦.
146And the brain, as we have seen, always chooses what requires less effort.正如我们所看到的那样,大脑总是选择 需要更少的努力。
147That is the real problem.这是真正的问题。
148You are trying to change your behavior while maintaining an environment你试图改变你的行为 同时维持环境
149that encourages the opposite.这助长了相反的情况。
150And this is where the concept that has changed the way thousands of这就是改变成千上万人的方式的概念
151understand discipline comes in.理解纪律的产生。
152Choice, architecture.选择 建筑
153这个术语,由Clear,
154shows that human behavior is shaped by what is closest, most accessible, and most visible.显示人类的行为是由最接近、最容易接触和最明显的东西塑造的。
155It's not a matter of strength.亦不为力.
156It's a matter of behavioral engineering.行为工程问题.
157Want an example?想举个例子吗?
158In a study cited by Clear, the simple change of position of water bottles in a cafeteria,在Clear引用的一项研究中 水瓶在食堂位置的简单改变
159placing them at the front instead of the back, increased water consumption and reduced soda把它们放在前面而不是后面,增加水消耗和减少苏打水
160consumption without any motivational campaign or prohibition.消费没有任何激励运动或禁止。
161What changed?什么变了?
162The environment.环境
163The decision became easier.决定变得容易了。
164And when a healthy decision becomes the simplest option,当健康的决定成为最简单的选择时
165the brain does not resist.大脑无法抵抗
166It follows.随顺.
167Now, imagine applying this to your own life.现在,想象一下把这个应用到自己的生活中。
168Want to read more?想读更多吗?
169Leave the book on the bed, not in the drawer.把书放在床上,别放在抽屉里
170Want to stop getting distracted by别再分心了
171your phone, turn off notifications, hide the device, use blocking apps.你的手机 关闭通知 隐藏设备 使用屏蔽程序
172Want to wake up and想醒来
173work out?工作吗?
174Leave your clothes ready next to the bed, as if you were setting a trap, but this time,把你的衣服放在床边 仿佛你在设陷阱 但这次
175against your own laziness.对抗自己的懒惰
176Because deep down, this is what you need to understand.因为内心深处,这是你需要理解的。
177Discipline does not come from effort.纪律并非来自努力。
178It comes from preparation.它来自准备。
179Disciplined people are not有纪律的人不是
180stronger.更强。
181They are smarter in how they set up their space, their rituals, and their triggers.他们更聪明 如何设置他们的空间, 他们的仪式, 和触发器。
182They know that when the right environment is set up, good behavior becomes almost inevitable.他们知道,当建立合适的环境时,良好的行为几乎是不可避免的.
183They do not rely on motivation.他们不依靠动机。
184They create a system where the right behavior requires less他们创造了一个制度 正确的行为要求更少
185energy than the wrong one.能量比错的多
186And that is the key.这是关键
187You need to stop relying on self-control你不能再依赖自我控制了
188and start designing your environment as if you were an engineer of your own mind.并开始设计你的环境 就像你是一个工程师 你自己的思想。
189A behavior that requires conscious effort today can become automatic tomorrow,一个需要自觉努力的行为,今天可以自动成为明天,
190if it is well anchored in the environment.如果它扎根于环境
191But what if you could go beyond that?但如果你能超越这个范围呢?
192狦ぃ琌埃硂よ obstacles 临堵硂
193that your brain already performs on autopilot?你的大脑已经在自动驾驶上表演了?
194That is exactly what you will discover in the这正是你会发现的
195next part.接下来的部分。
196How to use the concept of habit stacking to hijack existing behavior loops如何使用习惯堆栈的概念来劫持已有的行为循环
197and turn them into allies of discipline.把他们变成纪律同盟
198So far, you have understood two brutal truths.到目前为止,你已经理解了两个残酷的事实。
199Your brain is biologically programmed to avoid effort, and your environment shapes your behavior你的大脑被生物编程 以避免努力, 你的环境塑造你的行为
200more than your willpower ever could.比你的意志力更强
201But even with these two ideas in mind,但即使考虑到这两个想法,
202an inevitable question arises.一个不可避免的问题。
203How in practice can you transform desirable habits into automatic如何在实际中将理想的习惯转化为自动
204behaviors?行为?
205How do you move from intention to execution without relying on motivation,你如何不依靠动机 就从意图走向处决
206which is volatile and weak?什么是不稳定和软弱的?
207The answer lies in one of the most powerful strategies revealed by James答案在于詹姆斯揭示的最强大的策略之一
208Clear, habit stacking.干净,习惯堆放。
209The human brain operates based on habit loops, which involve three parts,人类大脑的运行基于习惯循环,它涉及三个部分,
210cue, routine, and reward.提示,常规,和奖励。
211And these loops are already operating in you, even if unconsciously.这些环路已经在你身上运行了 即使是无意识的
212You brush your teeth when you wake up.你醒来后刷牙
213You check your phone when you sit on the couch.你坐在沙发上检查手机
214You have coffee as soon as you enter the kitchen.你一进厨房就喝咖啡
215These actions require no effort,这些行动不需要任何努力,
216because they are already part of the automatic structure of your behavior.因为它们已经是您行为的自动结构的一部分。
217What habit stacking proposes is simple yet brilliant.习惯堆放的建议很简单,但很聪明。
218Instead of trying to create a new而不是试图创造一个新的
219habit from scratch, you connect it to an existing habit.从零开始的习惯,您可以将其连接到现有的习惯。
220This way, you leverage a cue that is这样一来,你利用一个提示,那就是
221already rooted in your brain to implant a new desired action with much less resistance.已经植根在你的大脑中 植入新的 想要的动作 抵抗力要小得多。
222For example, after brushing your teeth, automatic habit, you meditate for two minutes.例如,刷牙后,自动习惯,会冥想两分钟.
223After之后
224preparing breakfast, you write a page in your journal.准备早餐,你在你的日记上写一页。
225After locking the front door,锁上前门后,
226you repeat a focus affirmation for the day.你将重复今天的焦点确认。
227This sequence creates a kind of neural coupling.这种序列产生一种神经耦合.
228The brain starts to automatically associate the new behavior with the old one.大脑开始自动将新行为与旧行为联系起来.
229You are, in practice,你是,实际上,
230hijacking the automatic routine to hack discipline.劫持了自动例行公事 以侵入纪律。
231And why does this work so well?为什么会这样?
232Because you eliminate the biggest barrier, the start.因为你消除了最大的障碍 开始
233Initiating an action requires more mental启动行动需要更多的精神
234energy than maintaining it.能量比维持它。
235Once you are in motion, inertia works in your favor.一旦你动起来,惯性就有利于你
236Habit 堆栈创建
237momentum.势头。
238And momentum more than willpower is what keeps behaviors consistent over time.与意志力相比,动力更能使行为在一段时间内保持一致。
239But be careful.但当心.
240This method requires a strategic approach.这一方法需要一种战略方法。
241You cannot stack just any habit anywhere.你不能随便堆东西
242The new action needs to be short, start small, with something that takes less than two minutes.新的动作需要简短,开始小,需要不到两分钟的时间.
243Clear.清净.
244It needs to be specific, not vague.它需要具体,而不是含糊不清。
245Read a page, not read more.读一页,别多读.
246Immediate.马上
247It should happen right after the previous habit, without pause.它应该发生在之前的习惯之后, 没有停顿。
248If you follow如果你跟着
249this logic, you will be creating mental tracks that make discipline inevitable.这个逻辑,你会创造精神轨迹 使纪律变得不可避免。
250You will no你将不
251longer have to decide if you want to do it.更需要决定你是否想这么做
252Your body will simply do it.你的身体会做的
253And that is the true这是真的
254victory.胜负。
255When the right action happens before doubt arises, before laziness sets in, before当正确的行动发生于疑惑产生之前, 懒惰落下之前, 之前
256rationalization convinces you to give up.合理化说服你放弃。
257And you know what's even more interesting.你知道什么是更有趣的。
258These small stacks, almost insignificant at first glance, accumulate over time exponentially.这些小堆积物,乍一看几乎微不足道,在一段时间内成倍累积。
259They transform into solid routines.他们变成了坚实的常规。
260And when you look back, you realize you have built an entire当你回头看,你意识到 你已经建立了整个
261lifestyle on connected micro habits.生活方式与相关的微观习惯。
262But if all of this is so powerful, why do so many people still但是如果这一切如此强大 为什么还有这么多人
263procrastinate, even when they know what they should do?拖延,即使他们知道应该做什么?
264The answer lies in a fundamental concept.答案在于一个基本概念。
265Procrastination is not laziness.拖延不是懒惰。
266It is poorly designed.设计很差。
267In the next part, we will dismantle接下来,我们将拆除
268this common belief and understand why your habits fail.这个共同的信念 并理解为什么你的习惯失败。
269Not due to lack of effort, but because they不是因为努力不够 而是因为...
270do not follow the four invisible laws of behavior change.不遵循四个无形的行为定律。
271If what you're hearing resonates with you,如果你听到的与你共鸣
272you'll find real value in my ebooks.你会在我的电子书里找到真正的价值。
273Beyond the Shadow breaks down Jung's core ideas,除了影子 打破郑的核心思想
274while Dialogues with the Unconscious gives you a 30-day path to apply them in your life.而与无意识的对话 给了你一个30天的路径 应用到你的生活中。
275Both are linked in the pinned comment.两者在标注的评论中都有联系。
276The word procrastination carries a huge weight.拖延一词带有巨大的重量.
277For most people, it is associated with failure, weakness and lack of ambition.对大多数人来说,它与失败、软弱和缺乏雄心有关。
278It is common to这是常见的
279hear someone say, I am so lazy or I just can't get organized.听到有人说,我太懒了,或者我无法组织起来
280But this narrative is completely但是这个叙述是完全的
281misguided.被误导了
282And worse, it is self-destructive.更糟的是,这是自毁的。
283According to James Clear, procrastination is根据詹姆斯·克莉尔,拖延是
284not a personality flaw, nor is it a matter of laziness.不是个性缺陷,也不是懒惰的问题.
285It is a symptom, a clear sign that your这是一个症状,一个明显的迹象,你
286environment, your habits and your systems have been poorly designed.环境,你的习惯和系统设计都很差
287When you procrastinate,当你拖延的时候,
288it is not because you don't want to act.不是因为你不想演戏
289It is because acting the way your life is set up today是因为你今天的人生就是如此
290requires too much effort, is unappealing and does not generate immediate reward.需要付出太多的努力,是没有吸引力的,不会立即产生报酬。
291Your brain,你的大脑
292as we have seen, operates on the basis of quick rewards.正如我们所看到的那样,在迅速奖励的基础上运作。
293And that is why it avoids tasks that这就是为什么它避免任务
294seem difficult, boring, time-consuming, or that do not provide clear gratification.似乎很困难,很无聊,很耗时,或者这并不能提供明确的满足感。
295Studying, for example, is a task that requires focus, energy and offers an abstract return,例如,学习是一项需要专注、精力和抽象回报的任务,
296knowledge that will only be useful in the future.知识只会在未来有用。
297另一方面,打开YouTube或Instagram
298provides immediate reward with no effort and with varied stimuli.毫不费力地立即提供各种奖励。
299For the brain, the choice is对于大脑来说,选择是
300obvious.很明显
301It is not a matter of morality.这不是道德问题。
302It is neuroscience.这是神经科学。
303This is where the four laws of这就是四法
304change come in, described by Clear as the pillars for making any habit easy to maintain.Clear将改变描述为使习惯易于维持的支柱。
305They are, make it obvious.是的,让它很明显。
306If the desired habit is hidden or out of sight, it will be forgotten.如果理想的习惯被隐藏或消失,就会被遗忘.
307The brain needs to be constantly reminded of the action.大脑需要不断被提醒 动作。
308What is visible is what will be done.可见的就是将要做的事情。
309Make it attractive.让它吸引人
310The habit needs to generate anticipation of pleasure.习惯需要产生对快乐的期待.
311You can do this by你可以这样
312associating it with something you already enjoy or by making the process lighter and more将它与你已经享受的东西联系起来,或者通过使过程更加简单和更加简单
313interesting.有趣,你喜欢我
314Make it easy.令诸方便.
315The more friction there is, the lower the chance of execution.摩擦越多,处决的可能性就越小.
316The habit needs to be reduced to the simplest form possible until it is impossible to say no.习惯需要降低到尽可能简单的形式,直到无法表示不.
317Make it satisfying.令其满足.
318The behavior needs to generate a sense of completion, of reward.行为需要产生完成感,奖励感.
319Without this, the brain does not create attachment to the habit.没有这个,大脑不会产生对习惯的依附.
320Let's apply this in practice.我们在实践中应用这个
321Imagine someone who wants to create the habit of studying every night.想象一下有人想创造每晚学习的习惯.
322But their current但是他们现在
323environment is like this.环境是这样的。
324The study material is buried at the bottom of the backpack,研究材料埋在背包底部
325the desk is cluttered with random objects, and the TV is on.桌子上全是随机物体 电视也开着
326Additionally, they plan to study此外,他们计划学习
327for a whole hour without breaks and with no form of tracking or reward.整个小时没有休息,也没有任何形式的跟踪和奖励。
328Result?结果?
329They open他们打开了
330their phone and scroll through TikTok.他们的电话和滚动 通过TikTok。
331Then they feel guilty.然后他们感到内疚。
332Then they try again the next day,第二天他们又试了一次
333and fail once more.并再次失败。
334Now see how the same habit changes with the four laws applied.现在看看同样的习惯如何改变 与这四条法律。
335The study material is already open and on the table, obvious.研究材料已经打开,放在桌面上,很明显。
336They start with a favorite drink他们从最爱的酒开始
337or relaxing music.或者放松音乐。
338Attractive.诱人.
339They will study for just five minutes at first, with simple goals,他们一开始只学习5分钟 目标很简单
340easy.轻点
341Upon finishing, they mark their progress on a board or app and earn a small reward,完成后,他们在板或应用上标出自己的进步,并获得小的奖励,
342like an episode of a show.像一集的节目。
343Satisfying.满足.
344Do you see the difference?你看到区别了吗?
345It's not that the person不是那个人
346improved.改进。
347They simply learned to design the right behavior.他们只是学会了设计正确的行为。
348They learned that discipline is an他们学会了纪律
349poorly made and a natural consequence when the system is well designed.当系统设计良好时,制造不良和自然后果。
350Procrastination in this这件事情的拖延
351context ceases to be a mystery and becomes a warning sign.上下文不再是一个谜,成为警告标志。
352Every time you avoid something,每次你躲着什么
353ask, is this action obvious?问,这个动作明显吗?
354Is it minimally attractive?没有什么吸引力吗?
355Is it easy to start?开始容易吗?
356Is it generating是产生
357any reward?有什么奖励吗?
358If the answer is no to one or more of these questions, you have a design problem,如果一个或几个问题的答案是否定的, 你有一个设计问题,
359not a discipline problem.不是纪律问题
360And the most fascinating thing is that when you start最令人着迷的是 当你开始
361applying these laws consistently, procrastination disappears almost effortlessly.一贯地适用这些法律,拖延几乎无心地消失。
362You don't need to force yourself to act.你不需要强迫自己采取行动。
363The action happens naturally.行动是自然发生的。
364The behavior flows.行为流畅.
365But maybe you are thinking, this all makes sense.但也许你认为,这一切是有意义的。
366But I still don't like these tasks.但我还是不喜欢这些任务
367I still hate waking up early.我还是讨厌早起
368I still detest writing, studying, training.我仍然讨厌写作 学习 训练
369So here's the所以这是
370that will change your perspective.这将改变你的观点。
371What if you didn't need to like discipline to become如果你不需要 纪律成为
372disciplined?纪律?
373In the next part, we will break the myth that you need to love the process to achieve在接下来的部分,我们将打破你需要爱的神话 实现的过程
374results.结果。
375You will discover why the most consistent people are not passionate about routine.你会发现为什么最一致的人 对例行公事不热情
376They他们
377simply made the action inevitable.只是使行动不可避免。
378There is a very popular and very dangerous idea in productivity生产力有一个非常受欢迎和非常危险的想法
379culture that you need to enjoy the process to become a disciplined person.文化,你需要享受的过程 成为一个有纪律的人。
380How many times have有多少次过
381you heard phrases like fall in love with the routine, love the journey, or do what you love,你听到的句子 像爱上了常规, 爱的旅程, 或做你喜欢的,
382and you'll never work a day in your life.你永远不会工作一天 在你的生活中。
383It sounds beautiful, inspiring, but it's false.这听起来很美,鼓舞人心,但是假的。
384And worse, it's demotivating for those trying to climb out of a hole.更糟糕的是,那些想从洞里爬出来的人的情绪正在下降。
385The truth is harsh,事实很严酷
386but liberating.但释放。
387You don't need to like discipline.你不需要喜欢纪律。
388You just need to make it inevitable.你只需要让它不可避免
389Highly productive people don't wake up every day wanting to do what needs to be done.高生产力的人不会每天醒来 想做需要做的事。
390They他们
391don't feel excited about every task, nor do they have infinite energy to maintain healthy habits.不要对每一项任务感到兴奋,他们也没有无限的精力来维持健康的习惯.
392What they have is a structure that ensures the right actions happen even when they don't feel他们有一个结构,确保正确的行动,即使他们感觉不到
393like it.喜欢它。
394And that changes everything.这改变了一切。
395Imagine you want to create the habit of running in the想象一下,你想创造一种习惯 运行在
396morning.晨报.
397You might even have good reasons, health, aesthetics, energy, discipline,你也许有很好的理由 健康 美学 能量 纪律
398but on nine out of 10 days, you will wake up without the desire.但是在十天中的九天, 你会醒来时没有欲望。
399Your body will crave more你的身体会更加渴望
400sleep.睡觉。
401Your mind will seek excuses.你会找借口的
402It will be cold or hot or raining.会很冷,会很热,会下雨
403You will think today is你会认为今天
404not the best day.也不是最美好的一天。
405And just like that, the habit dies once again.就像那样,习惯再次死去。
406Now imagine a different scenario.现在想象一个不同的情景。
407Before going to bed, you leave your running shoes and workout clothes next to your bed.在睡觉前,你把跑鞋和运动服留在床边.
408You place your phone alarm far away, forcing yourself to get up.你把手机警报器放得很远 强迫自己站起来
409You choose an energetic你选一个充满活力的
410playlist that starts playing as soon as you turn off the alarm.播放列表,一旦关闭提醒,即开始播放 。
411You have a workout partner waiting你有一个锻炼伴侣等待
412for you on the corner at 630 a.m. You already know the running route and have prepared a light早上6点30分在角落给你 你已经知道运行路线了,已经准备了灯光
413breakfast for afterward.饭后早餐.
414In this second scenario, the act of running hasn't become more enjoyable.在第二种情况下,跑步的动作并没有变得更令人愉快.
415It remains demanding.它仍然要求很高。
416But you have reduced friction so much and increased the structure但你减少了这么多摩擦 并增加了结构
417around it so much that running has become the path of least resistance.跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑跑
418The decision was made决定作出
419before the desire appeared.在欲望出现之前
420And that's what disciplined people do.而纪律之人亦如此.
421They don't rely on desire.他们不依赖欲望。
422They create systems that work even on bad days.它们创造了即使在坏日子也能工作的系统.
423And here comes a crucial point.这一点至关重要。
424Your goal你的目标
425shouldn't be to fall in love with discipline.不应该爱上纪律
426Your goal should be to make important behaviors你的目标应该是做出重要的行为
427so automatic, so well integrated into your routine, that executing them requires less如此自动,如此很好地融入你的常规, 执行它们需要更少
428effort than avoiding them.而不是逃避他们。
429That's the difference between living in the realm of motivation and生活在动机领域和
430living in the realm of systems.生活在系统领域。
431In the realm of motivation, everything depends on your mood,在动机方面,一切取决于你的心情,
432your energy, your momentary enthusiasm.你的精力,你的热情
433In the realm of systems, action is automatic.在系统领域,行动是自动的。
434It's the default, the only logical choice.这是默认,唯一的逻辑选择。
435James Clear summarizes this with brutal clarity.James Clear以残酷的清晰概括了这一点.
436You do not rise to the level of your goals.你没有达到你的目标水平。
437You fall to the level of your systems.你跌到了你系统的水平
438This means your future will not be defined by your intentions but by your daily habits.这意味着你的未来不会由你的意图来决定,而是由你的日常习惯来决定.
439And the more these habits are automated, the less you will depend on motivation,这些习惯越是自动化, 你就越不依赖动机,
440that unstable resource that so many people insist on pursuing.如此多的人坚持追求的不稳定资源
441That's why saying,这就是为什么说,
442I don't like routine or I hate waking up early is no longer a valid excuse.我不喜欢例行公事 或讨厌早起 不再是一个有效的借口
443No one needs to love these things.没有人需要爱这些东西。
444You just need to make them so well integrated into your life你只需要让他们融入你的生活
445that they cease to be a choice and become part of your identity.他们不再是一个选择 并成为你身份的一部分。
446And speaking of identity,说到身份
447there is a final, deeper, more transformative level that connects all these ideas into a终极的、更深刻的、更具有变革性的层面将所有这些想法联系起来,形成一个
448powerful truth.强大的真理。
449Discipline is not an end.纪律不是结束。
450It is a reflection of who you believe you are.这反映了你相信自己是谁
451In the next and final part, we will explore how true transformation happens,在接下来,也就是最后的部分,我们将探索真正的转变是如何发生的,
452not when you force yourself to act differently, but when you see yourself as someone different,不是你强迫自己改变行为 而是当你把自己看成是不同的人
453and how that changes everything about how you live, act, and create lasting habits.以及这如何改变你的生活,行为, 和创造持久习惯的一切。
454After everything that has been said, it becomes clear that what we call在说了这么多话之后,显然我们所说的
455discipline is not an innate virtue nor a mystical talent reserved for a few enlightened ones.纪律不是天生的美德,也不是留给几个开明者的神秘才华。
456Discipline, in fact, is a side effect, a natural consequence of a well-designed system,事实上,纪律是一种副作用, 一个设计良好的系统的自然后果,
457an intentional environment, and a solid identity.一种有意识的环境, 和一个坚实的特性。
458When all these elements are aligned,当所有这些元素一致时,
459acting in a disciplined manner ceases to be a constant effort and becomes your new normal.以纪律行事不再是一种持续的努力,成为你的新常态.
460But there is an even deeper, more structural point that needs to be understood.但还有一个更深,更结构的点需要理解.
461No change in habit, routine, or behavior will truly last if there is no change in how you see习惯、常规或行为方面没有变化 如果你看不见任何变化
462yourself.你自己来
463And that is the true core of transformation.这就是真正的变革核心。
464James Clear argues that the詹姆斯·克莱尔认为
465level of behavior change is not what you want to achieve, but who you decide to be.行为水平的变化不是你想要的,而是你决定要成为谁。
466Identity shapes habits, and habits reinforce identity.身份塑造了习惯,习惯强化了身份.
467It's a cycle.循环.
468If you want to be a如果你想成为一个
469disciplined person, you need to start acting like someone who believes they are disciplined.纪律的人,你需要开始行动 像一个人谁相信他们是纪律。
470Small daily decisions, seemingly insignificant, are votes of affirmation in the direction of日常小决定,看似微不足道,是朝向
471identity.身份证明
472Every time you train, even when you don't feel like it, every time you choose to read,每次你训练, 即使你不喜欢, 每次你选择阅读,
473instead of scrolling through your feed, every time you execute even for two minutes,而不是通过你的视频滚动, 每次你执行甚至两分钟,
474you are telling yourself, I am the kind of person who does what needs to be done.你告诉自己,我是那种 做需要做的事的人。
475And this is more powerful than any motivational video, any technique, or any elaborate plan.这比任何鼓励录影带,任何技术, 或任何精心策划的都强。
476Because you are not just trying to act differently, you are becoming someone different.因为你不只是试图 采取不同的行动, 你正在变成一个不同的人。
477And when identity changes, behavior follows as a natural consequence.而当身份改变时,行为会顺从于自然结果.
478Therefore, real discipline因此,真正的纪律
479is not the ultimate goal.这不是最终目标。
480It is merely the reflection of a mind that has learned to play这仅仅是一个思想的反射 它学会了演奏
481the right game.正确的游戏。
482Of someone who has stopped fighting against their own brain, and started一个不再反抗自己大脑的人
483to design a path of least resistance for the correct behavior.设计一条对正确行为最小阻力的路径。
484Of someone who understands对一个明白的人
485that they don't need to win by force, they just need to win by structure.他们不需要武力取胜 只要通过结构取胜
486So, if you've made it所以,如果你已经做到了
487this far, you now have a real choice before you.到现在为止,你还有真正的选择
488You can continue blaming yourself for not being你可以继续责怪自己没有
489strong enough.足够强大。
490Or you can start today to build the environment, habits, and identity that make或者你可以从今天开始 建立环境、习惯和身份
491discipline inevitable.纪律是不可避免的。
492Stop waiting for motivation.停止等待动力。
493Stop punishing yourself for not having infinite别再因为没有无限而惩罚自己了
494willpower.意志的力量。
495You don't need to be perfect.你不需要完美无缺
496You just need to be consistent enough to let the system do你只需要保持一致 让系统做
497the work for you.工作给你。
498Now I want to know from you, what is the first habit you will redesign starting现在我想从你那里知道,什么是第一个习惯 你会重新设计开始
499today?今天吗?
500Comment below, because the simple act of writing is already a vote for your new identity.下面的评论,因为简单的写作行为已经是对您新身份的投票.
501And if this video made you rethink how you view discipline, don't forget to subscribe to the如果这段视频让你重新考虑你如何看待纪律 别忘了订阅
502channel.频道.
503Because here, we go deeper than just ready-made phrases.因为在这里,我们更深入 不只是现成的短语。
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0:08Most people believe that a lack of discipline is a character flaw, a weak, shameful trait,多数人认为缺乏纪律是性格缺陷,软弱,可耻的特点,
0:14something that some have and others do not.一些东西,有些没有。
0:18However, this view is completely misguided.然而,这种观点是完全错误的。
0:21What few people know is that discipline, as it is generally understood, goes against the很少有人知道 纪律,按照一般的理解, 是违反
0:27way the human brain is designed to operate.人类大脑被设计成可以操作
0:30And this is not a metaphor, it is a neurobiological fact.这不是一个比喻,而是神经生物学的事实。
0:35The brain did not evolve to prioritize long-term goals, abstract targets, or heroic self-control.大脑的进化并不是要优先考虑长期目标,抽象目标,或者英雄的自我控制.
0:42It evolved for one thing, immediate survival.它进化为一件事,即立即生存。
0:45Over millions of years, humans adapted to conserve energy, seek quick rewards, and avoid数百万年来,人类适应 节约能源,寻求快速的回报,并避免
0:52any unnecessary effort.任何不必要的努力。
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1Most people believe that a lack of discipline is a character flaw, a weak, shameful trait,多数人认为缺乏纪律是性格缺陷,软弱,可耻的特点,
2something that some have and others do not.一些东西,有些没有。
3However, this view is completely misguided.然而,这种观点是完全错误的。
4What few people know is that discipline, as it is generally understood, goes against the很少有人知道 纪律,按照一般的理解, 是违反
5way the human brain is designed to operate.人类大脑被设计成可以操作
6And this is not a metaphor, it is a neurobiological fact.这不是一个比喻,而是神经生物学的事实。
7The brain did not evolve to prioritize long-term goals, abstract targets, or heroic self-control.大脑的进化并不是要优先考虑长期目标,抽象目标,或者英雄的自我控制.
8It evolved for one thing, immediate survival.它进化为一件事,即立即生存。
9Over millions of years, humans adapted to conserve energy, seek quick rewards, and avoid数百万年来,人类适应 节约能源,寻求快速的回报,并避免
10any unnecessary effort.任何不必要的努力。
11In other words, your brain does not want you to go to the gym.换句话说 你的大脑不想你去健身房
12It wants you to stay on the couch, because that saves energy.它希望你留在沙发上, 因为这样可以节省能量。
13It does not want you to write an article or study, it wants you to open TikTok, because它不希望你写文章或研究, 它希望你打开TikTok,因为
14dopamine comes faster.多巴胺来得更快
15And this is not a defect, it is simply biology.这不是一个缺陷,它只是生物学。
16The problem is that modern society demands just the opposite.问题是,现代社会的要求正好相反。
17To thrive, we are expected to be disciplined, productive, and consistent.为了兴旺发达,人们期望我们遵守纪律,取得丰硕成果,并始终如一。
18But this creates an internal conflict.但这造成了内部冲突。
19On one side, a brain that has been shaped to act like a lazy hunter-gatherer.一方面,一个被塑造成像懒惰猎人-采集者的大脑.
20On the other, a world that demands behavior from a focused and resilient supercomputer.另一方面,一个要求有针对性和弹性的超级计算机行为的世界.
21When someone tries to force discipline through willpower, they are, in practice, trying to当有人试图通过意志力强制纪律时,他们实际上正在试图
22overcome millions of years of evolutionary programming with a handful of motivational克服数百万年的进化 编程与少数激励
23phrases.短语。
24And guess what?你猜怎么着?
25It doesn't work, at least not for long.它不起作用,至少不会长久。
26James Clear, author of the bestseller Atomic Habits, revealed one of the deepest insights"最畅销的原子哈比特人"的作者詹姆斯·克莉尔(James Clear)揭示了最深刻的见解之一
27about modern human behavior.关于现代人类的行为。
28Real discipline does not come from force, it comes from design.真正的纪律不是来自武力,而是来自设计.
29The most consistent people, those who seem disciplined, are actually not stronger or最坚定的人, 那些看起来纪律严明的人, 实际上不是更强大或
30more motivated.更有动机。
31They have simply created systems and environments that make the right behavior easy, automatic,他们只是创造了系统和环境 让正确的行为变得容易,自动,
32and inevitable.和不可避免的。
33They do not fight against the brain, they manipulate it.他们不与大脑作战,而是操纵大脑。
34In the next few minutes, we will dismantle the illusion of discipline, expose the mistakes在接下来的几分钟里,我们将拆除纪律的幻想,揭露错误
35you didn't even know you were making, and build together a new way of thinking and acting.你甚至不知道自己在做什么, 并共同构建一种新的思维和行为方式。
36A smarter way, more human, more effective.更聪明的方法,更人性化,更有效.
37If you have ever felt weak for procrastinating, if you have ever hated yourself for not being如果你曾经觉得软弱 拖延, 如果你曾经恨自己 没有成为
38able to stick to your own plans, this video will not judge you.这段录像不会评判你
39It will show you that you were just trying the wrong way.它会告诉你 你只是尝试了错误的方式。
40And now finally, you will understand the right way.现在,你终于能理解正确的方式了
41Discipline as a concept seems simple in theory.纪律作为一个概念在理论上似乎很简单。
42Just want something enough, stay focused, and resist temptation.只是想要足够多的东西, 保持专注,并抵抗诱惑。
43But when we look at how the human brain actually works, we realize that this view is not only但当我们观察人类大脑的实际作用时, 我们意识到这个观点不仅仅是
44simplistic but completely naive.简单但完全天真
45This is because your brain is not interested in your long-term goals.这是因为你的大脑对你的长期目标不感兴趣.
46It is focused on survival, comfort, and energy efficiency.它侧重于生存、舒适和能源效率。
47And if you don't understand this, you will live in conflict with it.如果你不明白这一点, 你会生活在冲突之中。
48For most of human evolution, our ancestors lived in hostile environments where resource对大多数人类进化, 我们的祖先生活在敌对环境中 资源
49scarcity was the norm, and the only priority was to survive until the next day.稀缺是常态,唯一优先是生存到第二天.
50In this scenario, the brain adapted to prioritize immediate rewards.在这种情景下,大脑适应于优先的即时奖励.
51Eating now was more important than storing for later.现在吃饭比以后储存更重要。
52Sleeping more was safer than exposing oneself to risks.睡觉比冒险安全
53Avoiding effort meant conserving energy for critical moments.避免努力意味着为关键时刻节省能源。
54The brain was calibrated generation after generation to seek the quickest, most pleasurable,大脑经过一代又一代的校准 寻找最迅速 最令人愉快的
55and least costly path.和成本最低的路径。
56And guess what?你猜怎么着?
57This software still runs in you today.这个软件今天还在你体内运行
58When you try to wake up early to go to the gym, your brain interprets this as a threat当你想早点醒来去健身房时 你的大脑会把它理解为一种威胁
59to comfort and energy conservation.以舒适和节能为目的。
60When you open your laptop to study or work on a project, it immediately suggests that当你打开你的笔记本电脑学习或工作 在一个项目,它立即暗示
61you just take a quick look at social media.你只是看看社交媒体。
62Because there, pleasure is instant, predictable, and guaranteed.因为在那里,快乐是即时的,可预测的,和保证的。
63Going to the gym, reading a technical book, writing an article.去健身房 读一本技术书 写篇文章
64That requires effort without immediate reward.这需要付出努力而不立即得到奖励。
65The brain hates that.大脑讨厌这样
66And here's the most important detail.这是最重要的细节。
67Your brain is not rational.你的大脑不合理
68It is efficient.这是有效的。
69It does not choose what is best in the long term, but what requires less energy right now.它没有选择什么是长期最好的,但现在需要更少的精力。
70This is what neuroscience calls cognitive ease.这就是神经科学所谓的认知轻松.
71The brain's tendency to always choose the path of least resistance.大脑总是倾向于选择阻力最小的路径.
72And this choice is not conscious.而此选择无意识.
73It happens even before you decide.它发生在你决定之前。
74The problem, therefore, is not a lack of willpower.因此,问题不在于缺乏意志力。
75It is a design conflict.这是一个设计冲突。
76Your brain wants to survive and feel good now.你的大脑想要生存,现在感觉很好。
77You want to evolve and grow in the long term.欲长时进化增长.
78And as long as these two goals are not reconciled,只要这两个目标不协调
79you will continue to feel frustrated, tired, and unsuccessful.你将继续感到沮丧、疲倦和失败。
80James Clear sums this up brilliantly.詹姆士·克莱尔非常出色地总结了这一点。
81Motivation is overrated.动机被高估了.
82Environment is more important.环境更重要。
83In other words, if you constantly need to rely on willpower,换句话说 如果你需要不断依赖意志力
84it means you are fighting against the natural structure of your brain.这意味着你正在反抗你的大脑的自然结构。
85And that is a battle you will lose, always.你将永远输掉这场战争
86Because over time, fatigue wins.因为随着时间的推移,疲劳会获胜。
87And when you are tired, your brain goes back to autopilot.当你累了,你的大脑会回到自动驾驶。
88And the autopilot always chooses the easiest path.而自动驾驶员总是选择最简单的路径.
89If you really want to change, the first step is not to try harder.如果你真的想要改变,第一步就是不要更努力.
90The first step is to understand what you are dealing with.第一步是了解你面对的是什么。
91And now that you know your brain is programmed to sabotage现在你知道你的大脑被编程破坏
92any attempt at forced discipline, an inevitable question arises.任何强制纪律的企图, 必然会产生一个问题。
93What if the problem is not you?如果问题不是你呢?
94But the environment you live in.但你所生活的环境。
95In the next part, we will explore why your environment is, in fact,接下来,我们将探索你的环境,事实上,
96the true architect of your behaviors.你行为的真正设计者
97And how you can manipulate it to work in your favor.如何操纵它 为你效劳。
98If this content is making sense to you,如果你觉得这个内容有意义的话
99click the subscribe button and subscribe to the channel.单击订阅按钮并订阅频道。
100Thank you for your support.谢谢你的支持。
101Now that you understand that your brain is designed to seek the easiest path,现在你明白你的大脑是用来 寻找最简单的道路的
102we need to look at the true battleground where this decision takes place.我们需要看看这个决定的真正战场。
103The environment around you.你周围的环境
104Most people believe that self-control is an inner strength,大多数人认为自我控制是一种内在力量
105a kind of moral muscle that just needs to be strengthened.一种需要加强的道德肌肉
106But the truth, as James Clear revealed, is much more uncomfortable.但事实,正如詹姆斯·克莉尔所揭示的,更让人不舒服.
107Self-control is fragile.自我控制是脆弱的。
108And it crumbles in the face of a poorly designed environment.面对设计不良的环境 它会崩溃
109Think about this.考虑一下
110You decide to start working out.你决定开始工作。
111You are motivated, determined, ready to change your life.你充满了动力 决心 准备改变你的生活
112But when you wake up, your workout clothes are crumpled at the bottom of the drawer.但当你醒来时,你的锻炼服 被挤在抽屉的底部。
113Your sneakers are in the trunk of the car.你的运动鞋在车厢里
114It's cold outside.外风寒.
115Meanwhile, the couch is three steps from the bed.同时,沙发离床三步.
116Your phone is in your hand.你的电话在你手里
117而Instagram已经打开了.
118The choice is no longer between good and bad.选择不再在善恶之间.
119The choice is between what is available and easy.选择的是现有和容易。
120And what is hidden and laborious.所隐而劳者也.
121And the brain, as we have seen, always chooses what requires less effort.正如我们所看到的那样,大脑总是选择 需要更少的努力。
122That is the real problem.这是真正的问题。
123You are trying to change your behavior while maintaining an environment你试图改变你的行为 同时维持环境
124that encourages the opposite.这助长了相反的情况。
125And this is where the concept that has changed the way这里就是改变方式的概念
126thousands of people understand discipline comes in.成千上万的人明白纪律
127Choice, architecture.选择 建筑
128This term, used by Clear, shows that human behavior is shaped byClear使用的这一术语表明,人类行为是由
129what is closest, most accessible, and most visible.最接近、最方便和最明显的东西
130It's not a matter of strength.亦不为力.
131It's a matter of behavioral engineering.行为工程问题.
132Want an example?想举个例子吗?
133In a study cited by Clear, the simple change of position of water bottles在Clear引用的一项研究中,水瓶的简单位置变化
134in a cafeteria, placing them at the front instead of the back.放在餐厅,放在前面而不是后面
135Increased water consumption and reduced soda consumption增加水消耗和减少苏打水消耗
136without any motivational campaign or prohibition.没有任何激励运动或禁止。
137What changed?什么变了?
138The environment.环境
139The decision became easier.决定变得容易了。
140And when a healthy decision becomes the simplest option,当健康的决定成为最简单的选择时
141the brain does not resist.大脑无法抵抗
142It follows.随顺.
143Now, imagine applying this to your own life.现在,想象一下把这个应用到自己的生活中。
144Want to read more?想读更多吗?
145Leave the book on the bed, not in the drawer.把书放在床上,别放在抽屉里
146Want to stop getting distracted by your phone?不想被你的手机分心吗?
147Turn off notifications, hide the device, use blocking apps.关闭通知,隐藏设备,使用屏蔽应用程序.
148Want to wake up and work out?想醒来工作吗?
149Leave your clothes ready next to the bed, as if you were setting a trap.把衣服放在床边 仿佛在设陷阱
150But this time, against your own laziness.但这一次,反对你自己的懒惰。
151Because deep down, this is what you need to understand.因为内心深处,这是你需要理解的。
152Discipline does not come from effort.纪律并非来自努力。
153It comes from preparation.它来自准备。
154Disciplined people are not stronger.纪律严明的人并不强大。
155They are smarter in how they set up their space, their rituals, and their triggers.他们更聪明 如何设置他们的空间, 他们的仪式, 和触发器。
156They know that when the right environment is set up,他们知道,当适当的环境建立,
157good behavior becomes almost inevitable.良好的行为几乎是不可避免的。
158They do not rely on motivation.他们不依靠动机。
159They create a system where the right behavior requires less energy than the wrong one.它们创造了一个系统,其中正确的行为需要的能量比错误的要少.
160And that is the key.这是关键
161You need to stop relying on self-control and start designing your environment,你需要停止依赖自我控制 开始设计环境
162as if you were an engineer of your own mind.就像你是一个工程师 你自己的思想。
163A behavior that requires conscious effort today can become automatic tomorrow,一个需要自觉努力的行为,今天可以自动成为明天,
164if it is well anchored in the environment.如果它扎根于环境
165But what if you could go beyond that?但如果你能超越这个范围呢?
166What if, instead of just removing obstacles from the environment,如果,而不是仅仅去除环境的障碍,
167you could hack the very habits that your brain already performs on autopilot?你可以黑进你大脑在自动驾驶上的习惯吗?
168That is exactly what you will discover in the next part.这正是你会发现 在下一部分。
169How to use the concept of habit stacking to hijack existing behavior loops如何使用习惯堆栈的概念来劫持已有的行为循环
170and turn them into allies of discipline.把他们变成纪律同盟
171So far, you have understood two brutal truths.到目前为止,你已经理解了两个残酷的事实。
172Your brain is biologically programmed to avoid effort,你的大脑在生物上被编程 以避免努力,
173and your environment shapes your behavior more than your willpower ever could.你的意志力无法改变你的行为
174But even with these two ideas in mind, an inevitable question arises.但即使考虑到这两个想法,也必然会出现一个问题。
175How, in practice, can you transform desirable habits into automatic behaviors?在实践中,如何把理想的习惯转变为自动的行为?
176How do you move from intention to execution without relying on motivation,你如何不依靠动机 就从意图走向处决
177which is volatile and weak?什么是不稳定和软弱的?
178The answer lies in one of the most powerful strategies revealed by James Clear, habit stacking.答案在于詹姆斯·克莉尔(James Clear)所揭示的最强大的策略之一,习惯堆叠.
179The human brain operates based on habit loops, which involve three parts,人类大脑的运行基于习惯循环,它涉及三个部分,
180cue, routine, and reward.提示,常规,和奖励。
181And these loops are already operating in you, even if unconsciously.这些环路已经在你身上运行了 即使是无意识的
182You brush your teeth when you wake up.你醒来后刷牙
183You check your phone when you sit on the couch.你坐在沙发上检查手机
184You have coffee as soon as you enter the kitchen.你一进厨房就喝咖啡
185These actions require no effort,这些行动不需要任何努力,
186because they are already part of the automatic structure of your behavior.因为它们已经是您行为的自动结构的一部分。
187What habit stacking proposes is simple yet brilliant.习惯堆放的建议很简单,但很聪明。
188Instead of trying to create a new habit from scratch, you connect it to an existing habit.与其试图从零开始创造新的习惯,不如把它与现有的习惯联系起来.
189This way, you leverage a cue that is already rooted in your brain这样,你就能利用一个已经植根于你的大脑的提示
190to implant a new desired action with much less resistance.植入一个新的 想要的动作 更没有抵抗力。
191For example, after brushing your teeth, automatic habit, you meditate for two minutes.例如,刷牙后,自动习惯,会冥想两分钟.
192After preparing breakfast, you write a page in your journal.准备早餐后,在日记上写一页.
193After locking the front door, you repeat a focus affirmation for the day.锁好前门后,重复当天的焦点确认.
194This sequence creates a kind of neural coupling.这种序列产生一种神经耦合.
195The brain starts to automatically associate the new behavior with the old one.大脑开始自动将新行为与旧行为联系起来.
196You are, in practice, hijacking the automatic routine to hack discipline.你,在实际上,劫持 自动例行 黑进纪律。
197And why does this work so well?为什么会这样?
198Because you eliminate the biggest barrier, the start.因为你消除了最大的障碍 开始
199Initiating an action requires more mental energy than maintaining it.发起行动需要更多的精神能量,而不是维持它。
200Once you are in motion, inertia works in your favor.一旦你动起来,惯性就有利于你
201Habit stacking creates momentum.哈比特堆栈产生动力.
202And momentum more than willpower is what keeps behaviors consistent over time.与意志力相比,动力更能使行为在一段时间内保持一致。
203But be careful.但当心.
204This method requires a strategic approach.这一方法需要一种战略方法。
205You cannot stack just any habit anywhere.你不能随便堆东西
206The new action needs to be short, start small, with something that takes less than two minutes.新的动作需要简短,开始小,需要不到两分钟的时间.
207Clear.清净.
208It needs to be specific, not vague.它需要具体,而不是含糊不清。
209Read a page, not read more.读一页,别多读.
210Immediate.马上
211It should happen right after the previous habit, without pause.它应该发生在之前的习惯之后, 没有停顿。
212If you follow this logic, you will be creating mental tracks that make discipline inevitable.如果你遵循这个逻辑,你会创造精神轨迹,使纪律变得不可避免.
213You will no longer have to decide if you want to do it.你不再需要决定你是否想这么做了
214Your body will simply do it.你的身体会做的
215And that is the true victory.这是真正的胜利。
216When the right action happens before doubt arises, before laziness sets in,当正确的行动发生之前 产生怀疑, 懒惰落到,
217before rationalization convinces you to give up.在理性说服你放弃之前
218And you know what's even more interesting.你知道什么是更有趣的。
219These small stacks, almost insignificant at first glance, accumulate over time exponentially.这些小堆积物,乍一看几乎微不足道,在一段时间内成倍累积。
220They transform into solid routines.他们变成了坚实的常规。
221And when you look back, you realize you have built an entire lifestyle on connected microhabits.当你回头看时,你意识到你已经在连接的微居上建立了一种完整的生活方式。
222But if all of this is so powerful, why do so many people still procrastinate,但是,如果这一切是如此强大, 为什么这么多人仍然拖延,
223even when they know what they should do?即使他们知道自己该做什么?
224The answer lies in a fundamental concept.答案在于一个基本概念。
225Procrastination is not laziness.拖延不是懒惰。
226It is poorly designed.设计很差。
227In the next part, we will dismantle this common belief下一部分,我们将摧毁这个共同的信念
228and understand why your habits fail.并理解为什么你的习惯失败。
229Not due to lack of effort,不是因为没有努力
230but because they do not follow the four invisible laws of behavior change.因为他们不遵循四个无形的行为定律
231If what you're hearing resonates with you, you'll find real value in my e-books.如果你听到的 与你共鸣, 你会发现真正的价值 在我的电子书。
232Beyond the Shadow breaks down Jung's core ideas,除了影子 打破郑的核心思想
233while dialogues with the unconscious gives you a 30-day path to apply them in your life.而与无意识者的对话 给了你30天的路 在你的生活中应用它们。
234Both are linked in the pinned comment.两者在标注的评论中都有联系。
235The word procrastination carries a huge weight.拖延一词带有巨大的重量.
236For most people, it is associated with failure, weakness, and lack of ambition.对大多数人来说,这与失败、软弱和缺乏雄心有关。
237It is common to hear someone say,听到有人说
238I am so lazy, or I just can't get organized.我太懒了,或者我无法组织起来
239But this narrative is completely misguided.但这种叙事是完全误导的.
240And worse, it is self-destructive.更糟的是,这是自毁的。
241根据James Clear的说法
242procrastination is not a personality flaw, nor is it a matter of laziness.拖延并不是个性缺陷,也不是懒惰的问题。
243It is a symptom, a clear sign that your environment,这是一种症状, 一个明显的迹象,你的环境,
244your habits, and your systems have been poorly designed.你的习惯, 你的系统设计不好。
245When you procrastinate, it is not because you don't want to act.当你拖延的时候,这不是因为你不想行动。
246It is because acting the way your life is set up today requires too much effort,这是因为你今天的生活 需要付出太多的努力
247is unappealing, and does not generate immediate reward.是不讨人喜欢的,不立即产生报酬。
248Your brain, as we have seen, operates on the basis of quick rewards.正如我们所见,你的大脑在快速回报的基础上运作。
249And that is why it avoids tasks that seem difficult, boring,这就是为什么它避免 任务看起来困难,无聊,
250time-consuming, or that do not provide clear gratification.耗时,或不能提供明确的满足。
251Studying, for example, is a task that requires focus, energy,例如,研究是一项需要集中注意力、精力和精力的任务。
252and offers an abstract return, knowledge, that will only be useful in the future.并提供抽象的回报,知识, 这只会在未来有用。
253另一方面,打开YouTube或Instagram
254provides immediate reward with no effort and with varied stimuli.毫不费力地立即提供各种奖励。
255For the brain, the choice is obvious.对于大脑来说,选择是显而易见的.
256It is not a matter of morality.这不是道德问题。
257It is neuroscience.这是神经科学。
258This is where the four laws of behavior change come in,这就是行为改变的四大法则
259described by Clear as the pillars for making any habit easy to maintain.被Clear描述为使任何习惯易于维持的支柱.
260They are, make it obvious.是的,让它很明显。
261If the desired habit is hidden or out of sight,如果想要的习惯被隐藏或消失
262it will be forgotten.它会被遗忘。
263The brain needs to be constantly reminded of the action.大脑需要不断被提醒 动作。
264What is visible is what will be done.可见的就是将要做的事情。
265Make it attractive.让它吸引人
266The habit needs to generate anticipation of pleasure.习惯需要产生对快乐的期待.
267You can do this by associating it with something you already enjoy,你可以用你已经喜欢的东西来做这个
268or by making the process lighter and more interesting.或者让过程更简单更有趣
269Make it easy.令诸方便.
270The more friction there is, the lower the chance of execution.摩擦越多,处决的可能性就越小.
271The habit needs to be reduced to the simplest form possible,习惯需要降低到尽可能简单的形式,
272until it is impossible to say no.直到无法拒绝为止
273Make it satisfying.令其满足.
274The behavior needs to generate a sense of completion, of reward.行为需要产生完成感,奖励感.
275Without this, the brain does not create attachment to the habit.没有这个,大脑不会产生对习惯的依附.
276Let's apply this in practice.我们在实践中应用这个
277Imagine someone who wants to create the habit of studying every night.想象一下有人想创造每晚学习的习惯.
278But their current environment is like this.但是他们现在的环境是这样的.
279The study material is buried at the bottom of the backpack.研究材料埋在背包底部.
280The desk is cluttered with random objects and the TV is on.桌子上全是随机物体 电视也开着
281Additionally, they plan to study for a whole hour without breaks此外,他们计划 学习一个小时 不休息
282and with no form of tracking or reward.并且没有任何追踪和报酬。
283Result?结果?
284They open their phone and scroll through TikTok.他们打开他们的手机 滚动通过TikTok。
285Then they feel guilty.然后他们感到内疚。
286Then they try again the next day.第二天他们又试了一次
287And fail once more.再失败一次
288Now see how the same habit changes with the four laws applied.现在看看同样的习惯如何改变 与这四条法律。
289The study material is already open and on the table.研究材料已经打开并放在桌面上。
290Obvious.当然
291They start with a favorite drink or relaxing music.他们从最喜欢的饮料或放松的音乐开始.
292Attractive.诱人.
293They will study for just five minutes at first, with simple goals, easy.他们一开始只学习5分钟,目标简单,容易.
294Upon finishing, they mark their progress on a board or app完成后,他们在董事会或应用程序上标出进步
295and earn a small reward, like an episode of a show.并获得一个小奖赏, 像一集节目。
296Satisfying.满足.
297Do you see the difference?你看到区别了吗?
298It's not that the person improved.这并不是说这个人有进步。
299They simply learned to design the right behavior.他们只是学会了设计正确的行为。
300They learned that discipline is an illusion when the system is poorly made.他们得知,当系统制造不良时,纪律是一种幻觉.
301And a natural consequence when the system is well designed.和自然的后果 当系统设计良好。
302Procrastination, in this context, ceases to be a mystery and becomes a warning sign.在这种情况下,拖延不再是一个谜,成为警告标志。
303Every time you avoid something, ask, is this action obvious?每当你回避什么,问, 这个动作明显吗?
304Is it minimally attractive?没有什么吸引力吗?
305Is it easy to start?开始容易吗?
306Is it generating any reward?它能产生任何回报吗?
307If the answer is no to one or more of these questions,如果对其中一个或多个问题的答案是否定的,
308you have a design problem, not a discipline problem.你有一个设计问题, 不是纪律问题。
309And the most fascinating thing is that when you start applying these laws consistently,最令人着迷的是,当你开始 坚持执行这些法律,
310procrastination disappears almost effortlessly.拖延几乎无心地消失。
311You don't need to force yourself to act.你不需要强迫自己采取行动。
312The action happens naturally.行动是自然发生的。
313The behavior flows.行为流畅.
314But maybe you are thinking, this all makes sense.但也许你认为,这一切是有意义的。
315But I still don't like these tasks.但我还是不喜欢这些任务
316I still hate waking up early.我还是讨厌早起
317I still detest writing, studying, training.我仍然讨厌写作 学习 训练
318So here's the question that will change your perspective.因此,这里的问题会改变你的观点。
319What if you didn't need to like discipline to become disciplined?如果你不需要 纪律变得纪律?
320In the next part, we will break the myth接下来,我们将打破神话
321that you need to love the process to achieve results.需要热爱实现结果的过程。
322You will discover why the most consistent people are not passionate about routine.你会发现为什么最一致的人 对例行公事不热情
323They simply made the action inevitable.他们只是使行动不可避免。
324There is a very popular and very dangerous idea in productivity culture.在生产力文化中有一个非常流行和非常危险的观念.
325That you need to enjoy the process to become a disciplined person.你需要享受成为一个有纪律的人的过程
326How many times have you heard phrases like,你听过多少次了,比如,
327fall in love with the routine, love the journey,爱上了常规 爱上了旅程
328or do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life?或者做你所爱的事 你永远不会工作一天在你的生活中?
329It sounds beautiful, inspiring, but it's false.这听起来很美,鼓舞人心,但是假的。
330And worse, it's demotivating for those trying to climb out of a hole.更糟糕的是,那些想从洞里爬出来的人的情绪正在下降。
331The truth is harsh, but liberating.真相是残酷的,但解放。
332You don't need to like discipline.你不需要喜欢纪律。
333You just need to make it inevitable.你只需要让它不可避免
334Highly productive people don't wake up every day wanting to do what needs to be done.高生产力的人不会每天醒来 想做需要做的事。
335They don't feel excited about every task,他们对每一项任务都不感到兴奋
336nor do they have infinite energy to maintain healthy habits.他们也没有无限的精力来维持健康的习惯。
337What they have is a structure that ensures the right actions happen他们拥有的结构能确保正确的行动发生
338even when they don't feel like it.即使他们不喜欢
339And that changes everything.这改变了一切。
340Imagine you want to create the habit of running in the morning.想象一下你想在早上创造跑步的习惯.
341You might even have good reasons.你也许有很好的理由
342Health, aesthetics, energy, discipline.健康 美学 能量 纪律
343But on 9 out of 10 days, you will wake up without the desire.但是在10天的9天里, 你会醒来,没有欲望。
344Your body will crave more sleep.你的身体会渴望更多的睡眠。
345Your mind will seek excuses.你会找借口的
346It will be cold or hot or raining.会很冷,会很热,会下雨
347You will think, today is not the best day.你会认为今天不是最好的日子
348And just like that, the habit dies once again.就像那样,习惯再次死去。
349Now imagine a different scenario.现在想象一个不同的情景。
350Before going to bed, you leave your running shoes and workout clothes next to your bed.在睡觉前,你把跑鞋和运动服留在床边.
351You place your phone alarm far away, forcing yourself to get up.你把手机警报器放得很远 强迫自己站起来
352You choose an energetic playlist that starts playing as soon as you turn off the alarm.你选择一个充满活力的播放列表,一旦关闭了警报,就会开始播放.
353You have a workout partner waiting for you on the corner at 6.30 a.m.早上6点30分有个健身搭档在角落等你
354You already know the running route and have prepared a light breakfast for afterward.你已经知道运行路线了 准备了一个轻快的早餐
355In this second scenario, the act of running hasn't become more enjoyable.在第二种情况下,跑步的动作并没有变得更令人愉快.
356It remains demanding.它仍然要求很高。
357But you have reduced friction so much and increased the structure around it so much但是,你减少了这么多的摩擦 和增加的结构围绕它这么多
358that running has become the path of least resistance.跑步变成了抵抗最小的路
359The decision was made before the desire appeared.这一决定是在愿望出现之前作出的。
360And that's what disciplined people do.而纪律之人亦如此.
361They don't rely on desire.他们不依赖欲望。
362They create systems that work even on bad days.它们创造了即使在坏日子也能工作的系统.
363And here comes a crucial point.这一点至关重要。
364Your goal shouldn't be to fall in love with discipline.你的目标不应该是爱上纪律
365Your goal should be to make important behaviors so automatic.你的目标应该是使重要的行为如此自动。
366So well integrated into your routine that executing them requires less effort than avoiding them.完全融入你的日常工作 执行它们比逃避它们更需要努力
367That's the difference between living in the realm of motivation and living in the realm of systems.这就是生活在动力领域和生活在系统领域之间的区别.
368In the realm of motivation, everything depends on your mood, your energy,在动力领域,一切取决于你的心情,你的能量,
369your momentary enthusiasm.你短暂的热情。
370In the realm of systems, action is automatic.在系统领域,行动是自动的。
371It's the default, the only logical choice.这是默认,唯一的逻辑选择。
372James Clear summarizes this with brutal clarity.James Clear以残酷的清晰概括了这一点.
373You do not rise to the level of your goals.你没有达到你的目标水平。
374You fall to the level of your systems.你跌到了你系统的水平
375This means your future will not be defined by your intentions, but by your daily habits.这意味着你的未来不会由你的意图来决定,而是由你的日常习惯来决定.
376And the more these habits are automated, the less you will depend on motivation,这些习惯越是自动化, 你就越不依赖动机,
377that unstable resource that so many people insist on pursuing.如此多的人坚持追求的不稳定资源
378That's why saying I don't like routine or I hate waking up early is no longer a valid excuse.这就是为什么我不喜欢例行公事 或者我讨厌早起 不再是一个有效的借口
379No one needs to love these things.没有人需要爱这些东西。
380You just need to make them so well integrated into your life that they cease to be a choice你只需要让他们融入你的生活 让他们不再是一个选择
381and become part of your identity.成为你身份的一部分
382And speaking of identity, there is a final, deeper, more transformative level说到身份,有一个最终的,更深入的,更变革的层次
383that connects all these ideas into a powerful truth.将所有这些想法联系起来,形成一个强大的真理。
384Discipline is not an end.纪律不是结束。
385It is a reflection of who you believe you are.这反映了你相信自己是谁
386In the next and final part, we will explore how true transformation happens,在接下来,也就是最后的部分,我们将探索真正的转变是如何发生的,
387not when you force yourself to act differently, but when you see yourself as someone different,不是你强迫自己改变行为 而是当你把自己看成是不同的人
388and how that changes everything about how you live, act, and create lasting habits.以及这如何改变你的生活,行为, 和创造持久习惯的一切。
389After everything that has been said, it becomes clear that what we call在说了这么多话之后,显然我们所说的
390discipline is not an innate virtue nor a mystical talent reserved for a few enlightened ones.纪律不是天生的美德,也不是留给几个开明者的神秘才华。
391Discipline, in fact, is a side effect, a natural consequence of a well-designed system事实上,纪律是副作用,是设计完善的体系的自然后果
392and intentional environment and a solid identity.和有意识的环境和坚实的认同。
393When all these elements are aligned, acting in a disciplined manner当所有这些因素都得到调整时,以纪律的方式行事
394ceases to be a constant effort and becomes your new normal.不再是一个持续的努力 并成为你的新正常。
395But there is an even deeper, more structural point that needs to be understood.但还有一个更深,更结构的点需要理解.
396No change in habit, routine, or behavior will truly last没有改变习惯,常规, 或行为会真正持续
397if there is no change in how you see yourself.如果你对自己的看法没有变化的话
398And that is the true core of transformation.这就是真正的变革核心。
399James Clear argues that the deepest level of behavior changeJames Clear认为行为最深层次的变化
400is not what you want to achieve, but who you decide to be.不是你想达到的目标 而是你决定成为什么样的人
401Identity shapes habits, and habits reinforce identity.身份塑造了习惯,习惯强化了身份.
402It's a cycle.循环.
403If you want to be a disciplined person,如果你想成为一个有纪律的人,
404you need to start acting like someone who believes they are disciplined.你得开始表现得像一个相信他们有纪律的人
405Small daily decisions, seemingly insignificant,日复一日的小决定,看似微不足道,
406are votes of affirmation in the direction of a new identity.是以新身份为方向的确认票。
407Every time you train, even when you don't feel like it,每次你训练, 即使你不喜欢,
408every time you choose to read, instead of scrolling through your feed,每次你选择阅读, 而不是滚动 通过你的饲料,
409every time you execute even for two minutes, you are telling yourself,每次你处决两分钟 你都会告诉自己
410I am the kind of person who does what needs to be done.我是那种做需要做的事情的人。
411And this is more powerful than any motivational video, any technique, or any elaborate plan.这比任何鼓励录影带,任何技术, 或任何精心策划的都强。
412Because you are not just trying to act differently, you are becoming someone different.因为你不只是试图 采取不同的行动, 你正在变成一个不同的人。
413And when identity changes, behavior follows as a natural consequence.而当身份改变时,行为会顺从于自然结果.
414Therefore, real discipline is not the ultimate goal.因此,真正的纪律不是最终目标。
415It is merely the reflection of a mind that has learned to play the right game.这只是一个学会了正确游戏的心灵的反射。
416Of someone who has stopped fighting against their own brain,一个不再与自己的大脑搏斗的人
417and started to design a path of least resistance for the correct behavior.并开始为正确的行为设计一条阻力最小的路径.
418Of someone who understands that they don't need to win by force,一个人谁明白 他们不需要通过武力赢得,
419they just need to win by structure.他们只需要通过结构赢得胜利。
420So, if you've made it this far, you now have a real choice before you.所以,如果你已经走到这一步, 你现在有一个真正的选择在你之前。
421You can continue blaming yourself for not being strong enough.你可以继续责怪自己不够强壮
422Or you can start today to build the environment, habits,或者你可以从今天开始 建立环境,习惯,
423and identity that make discipline inevitable.和身份 使得纪律不可避免的。
424Stop waiting for motivation.停止等待动力。
425Stop punishing yourself for not having infinite willpower.别因为没有无限的意志力而惩罚自己
426You don't need to be perfect.你不需要完美无缺
427You just need to be consistent enough to let the system do the work for you.你只需要保持一致 让系统为你工作
428Now I want to know from you.现在我想从你那里知道。
429What is the first habit you will redesign starting today?你从今天开始就重新设计的第一个习惯是什么?
430Comment below, because the simple act of writing is already a vote for your new identity.下面的评论,因为简单的写作行为已经是对您新身份的投票.
431And if this video made you rethink how you view discipline,如果这段视频让你重新考虑你如何看待纪律
432don't forget to subscribe to the channel,不要忘记订阅频道,
433because here we go deeper than just ready-made phrases.因为这里我们更深入 不只是现成的短语。
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