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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 0:00 | My minimalism journey is definitely a work in progress | 我最小化的旅程 肯定是在进行中的工作 |
| 0:03 | But one aspect of it that I am very much not proud of is my situation with clothes | 但其中我并不骄傲的方面 就是我穿着衣服的处境 |
| 0:11 | Over the last four years. | 历经四年. |
| 0:12 | I've accumulated quite a bit either through purchasing things myself sometimes without thinking of things too | 我积累了很多 要么通过购买 东西我自己有时 不考虑的东西 |
| 0:17 | well before I make the purchase or things that I've been handed by other people like my sister and | 之前,我做购买 或东西,我已经交给了 像其他的人,我妹妹和 |
| 0:23 | so I now have a whole bunch of clothes that is | 所以我现在有一大堆衣服 |
| 0:27 | It's just sitting somewhere in my closet that I know subconsciously | 它只是坐在我衣柜的某处 我潜意识中知道 |
| 0:30 | I am not using that often and it is a lot more than I would like to admit | 我不经常用它, 它比我想承认的多很多 |
| 0:36 | Being someone who just loves to chuck things away and have an empty space less things and start from scratch | 成为喜欢把东西丢掉 空地少点东西 从头开始的人 |
| 0:41 | It's been very challenging for me to stop myself from doing this decluttering | 我很难阻止自己 做这个发牢骚的事 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 1 | My minimalism journey is definitely a work in progress | 我最小化的旅程 肯定是在进行中的工作 |
| 2 | But one aspect of it that I am very much not proud of is my situation with clothes | 但其中我并不骄傲的方面 就是我穿着衣服的处境 |
| 3 | Over the last four years. | 历经四年. |
| 4 | I've accumulated quite a bit either through purchasing things myself sometimes without thinking of things too | 我积累了很多 要么通过购买 东西我自己有时 不考虑的东西 |
| 5 | well before I make the purchase or things that I've been handed by other people like my sister and | 之前,我做购买 或东西,我已经交给了 像其他的人,我妹妹和 |
| 6 | so I now have a whole bunch of clothes that is | 所以我现在有一大堆衣服 |
| 7 | It's just sitting somewhere in my closet that I know subconsciously | 它只是坐在我衣柜的某处 我潜意识中知道 |
| 8 | I am not using that often and it is a lot more than I would like to admit | 我不经常用它, 它比我想承认的多很多 |
| 9 | Being someone who just loves to chuck things away and have an empty space less things and start from scratch | 成为喜欢把东西丢掉 空地少点东西 从头开始的人 |
| 10 | It's been very challenging for me to stop myself from doing this decluttering | 我很难阻止自己 做这个发牢骚的事 |
| 11 | However, I've been aware that my body has been going through so many changes this last year that I thought I was never in the right | 然而,我知道,我的身体 经历了这么多的变化 今年,我认为我从来没有在正确的 |
| 12 | Position to kind of assess the clothes properly and so I'd wait for a better time | 位置来正确评估衣服 所以我会等待更好的时间 |
| 13 | However, I'm done with that now. | 不过,我受够了 |
| 14 | I just think if my body changes again, then that's fine | 我只是觉得,如果我的身体再次改变, 那没关系 |
| 15 | I'm just going to buy new clothes at this stage or used clothes | 我现在要买新衣服或旧衣服 |
| 16 | But what I'm not going to do is keep waiting on doing this decluttering. | 但我不会做的是继续等待 做这个调侃。 |
| 17 | So today is the day | 所以今天就是这个日子 |
| 18 | I'm going to bring together my huge huge heap of things that I think I don't need any longer | 我要把一大堆我不需要的东西集合起来 |
| 19 | And I'm going to answer a bunch of questions that you've asked me on minimalism | 我要回答你问我的几个问题 |
| 20 | So I'm going to bring the clothes here go through them one by one and let's chat about minimalism in general | 所以我要把衣服带过来 逐个穿过去 我们来谈谈小意思 |
| 21 | Okay, I did say it's a huge pile most of these things are black | 好吧,我确实说 这是一个巨大的堆 这些东西大多是黑色的 |
| 22 | Some of these things are surprisingly not black, but yeah, let's get started | 有些东西不是黑色的,但是我们开始吧 |
| 23 | Okay | 还好 |
| 24 | So I'm going to create three piles one is definitely throw away | 所以我要创造三个堆 一个绝对是丢掉 |
| 25 | Two is definitely keep and three is keep for the next few weeks if I don't use them then they're going away | 二是绝对保持,三是保持 接下来的几个星期,如果我不使用,那么他们就会离开 |
| 26 | so these trousers first are going to go in the oh | 所以这些裤子首先要放进去 |
| 27 | Let me see where these first from | 让我先看看这些从哪来的 |
| 28 | Hmm. | 是吗? |
| 29 | I think they're going to go in the definitely throw away because I've never used them | 我想他们一定会丢掉 因为我从来没有用过 |
| 30 | I bought them from for hospital placement and I haven't used them there. | 我从医院买的,我没用过 |
| 31 | So those go. | 所以,这些去。 |
| 32 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 33 | So the first question | 所以第一个问题 |
| 34 | I'm going to answer is | 我会回答 |
| 35 | Dun oh, this is a good one | 邓,这个不错 |
| 36 | Are all parts is every part of your life minimalistic lots of love from Austria. | 所有部分都是你生活中 从奥地利得到的爱的每一个部分 |
| 37 | Okay, uh, I would say no absolutely not | 好吧,呃,我说绝对不 |
| 38 | I don't think it is. | 我不这么认为。 |
| 39 | I don't think it ever will be I don't want it ever to be | 我不认为它永远不会是 我不想它永远是 |
| 40 | I don't think that's the the state that I want to get to | 我想的不是那个州 |
| 41 | I think that these jeans definitely don't fit | 我觉得这些牛仔裤绝对不适合 |
| 42 | So they are leaving. | 所以他们要走了。 |
| 43 | Um, I think that's it doesn't need it doesn't need to be the case that every aspect of my life should | 嗯,我认为这是它不需要 它不需要是 情况,我的每一个方面 生活应该 |
| 44 | Be minimalistic | 尽量小一点 |
| 45 | I think the purpose of minimalism is to make you happier in general and I don't think there's a simple formula that you can apply | 我认为最小主义的目的是让你在总体上更快乐 我不认为有一个简单的公式 你可以应用 |
| 46 | To every single aspect of your life equally that will make you happy | 为你生活的每一个方面平等 让你快乐 |
| 47 | So I think we're more nuanced and complex than that. | 所以我认为我们比这更细微和复杂。 |
| 48 | So in some aspects of my life | 所以在我的生活的一些方面 |
| 49 | Extreme minimalism makes me very very happy and some aspects of my life very very little minimalism makes me happy | 极端的最小化让我非常快乐 生活的一些方面 极小的最小化让我快乐 |
| 50 | So that's kind of how I balance it one aspect of my life that I am extremely minimalistic in is | 所以,这就是我如何平衡 它的一个方面 我的生活,我是极端的最小主义 |
| 51 | decorations and home decor in general I | 一般的装饰和家庭装饰 |
| 52 | Like surfaces to be empty the only exception being art and paintings | 就像表面是空的 唯一例外是艺术和绘画 |
| 53 | So paintings and sculptures are a slight exception | 所以绘画和雕塑只是个小例外 |
| 54 | But in general little trinkets little pieces of art around the house little decorations even sometimes | 但一般说来,小小小小小小小小小小小小小小小小小小小小小小小小装饰 |
| 55 | Like photo frames and things like that. | 像相框之类的东西。 |
| 56 | Just I don't like them a lot | 我只是不喜欢他们 |
| 57 | So in that aspect of my life, I'm quite minimalistic | 因此,在我的生活的这个方面, 我相当的最小化 |
| 58 | I don't own any home decorations at all things that I don't want to be minimalistic with our | 我不拥有任何家用装饰 在所有的东西 我不想对我们的最小化 |
| 59 | Technology. | 科技. |
| 60 | I do really really like tech in general and electronics. | 我真的很喜欢一般的技术和电子技术。 |
| 61 | They do make me happy | 他们确实让我高兴 |
| 62 | I would like to have a proper computer a proper phone a proper camera | 我想有一个合适的电脑 一个合适的电话 一个合适的相机 |
| 63 | Apple watch these things I do like to use and buy so I would have been minimalistic with those and when it comes to | 苹果看这些东西,我确实喜欢使用和购买 这样我就会是最小化 这些,当它涉及到 |
| 64 | Clothes this one is a complex one because in general I do usually just wear a t-shirt and jeans or | 这件衣服很复杂 因为一般来说 我通常只穿T恤和牛仔裤 |
| 65 | just a skirt or a dress and | 只是一条裙子或一条裙子 |
| 66 | sometimes I think that I'm | 有时候我觉得我 |
| 67 | You know missing out on my youth and I should be dressing more colorfully or wearing other things that I do make an effort | 你知道,我年轻时失踪了,我应该穿得更漂亮些 或者穿我努力过的其他衣服 |
| 68 | To buy those things, but I just never end up wearing them | 买这些东西,但我从不穿 |
| 69 | So I think I've gotten to the stage where I've accepted the way that I dress | 所以,我想我已经到了舞台上 我接受了我穿的衣服的方式 |
| 70 | So this is an attempt to make my clothing more minimalistic too. | 因此,这是试图使我的衣服更加简陋。 |
| 71 | Oh, I do love these jeans | 哦,我喜欢这些牛仔裤 |
| 72 | I haven't worn them in a while. | 我好久没穿了 |
| 73 | These are page jeans | 这些是牛仔裤 |
| 74 | they are | 他们是 |
| 75 | inside out | 进去 |
| 76 | So let's flip them around but | 所以,让我们翻转他们身边,但 |
| 77 | Page jeans are really really nice and these are actually blue. | 裤子真的很好看 这些其实是蓝色的 |
| 78 | They're not black. | 他们不是黑人。 |
| 79 | They are a very very dark blue | 他们是非常深蓝色的 |
| 80 | So I think that's the reason why I don't often wear them and they've ended up in my not often worn pile | 所以我觉得这就是为什么我不经常穿这些衣服的原因 他们最后都在我的不常穿的堆里 |
| 81 | But I think I'm going to keep these for the next two weeks and see if I wear them then | 但我想我会留着这些 在接下来的两周, 看看我是否穿它,然后 |
| 82 | These trousers I bought them without trying them on and I realized that they were way too short | 这些裤子是我买的,没穿就发现太短了 |
| 83 | So I've never actually worn them. | 所以我从来没有穿过 |
| 84 | So those will immediately leave | 所以他们马上离开 |
| 85 | These are my daily jeans. | 这些是我的日常牛仔裤。 |
| 86 | I don't know why they've gone in this pile. | 我不知道为什么他们 已经在这个堆。 |
| 87 | Definitely keeping those | 绝对留着这些 |
| 88 | Were you going to stick yourself or did you adapt it by getting influence? | 你是要坚持还是要通过施加影响来适应? |
| 89 | This is a very very good question | 这是一个非常好的问题 |
| 90 | I think it is a combination of both the word minimalism and the perfect definition of it | 我认为是"最小化"这个词 和"完美定义"的结合 |
| 91 | I had no clue that that existed until basically Matt Diavella | 我根本不知道这存在 直到马特·迪亚韦拉 |
| 92 | so I didn't know about it before but I always had these sort of tendencies for | 所以我以前不知道 但我总是有这种倾向 |
| 93 | Having less and wanting less and definitely I hated clutter | 越来越少,也越来越渴望,我绝对讨厌杂乱无章 |
| 94 | so I would I think drive my parents nuts because for example if we would have this huge table in my room when I was younger and | 所以我想让我的父母发疯 因为举例来说,如果我年轻的时候 房间里有个大桌子 |
| 95 | if we would put flowers or something in the middle of the table or my mom would want to kind of put for example a a | 如果我们在桌子中间放花什么的... ...或者我妈妈想放个比如说... |
| 96 | Jar of pens or pencils so we could use them to do our homework and I would just remove it | 一堆笔或铅笔 这样我们就可以用它们做功课了 我就把它拿掉 |
| 97 | So I was minimalistic to the point of being impractical | 所以,我太小了,不切实际了 |
| 98 | Because I'd like the surfaces to just be empty and for nothing to be there | 因为我想让表面空荡荡的 |
| 99 | So I would just put things away and I remember every time when I was younger and I would do my kitchen clean | 所以我会把东西收起来 记得每次我年轻的时候 我会做我的厨房清洁 |
| 100 | I would just hide everything away and try to throw away as much as possible because I wanted there to be as little things | 我会把所有东西都藏起来 尽量丢掉 因为我希望有一样小的东西 |
| 101 | As possible. | 尽可能 |
| 102 | So in terms of aesthetics, I've always had a very minimalistic aesthetic. | 因此,在美学方面,我一直有一个非常极小的美学. |
| 103 | I don't like clutter | 我不喜欢乱搞 |
| 104 | I don't like mess and I don't like seeing that I have a lot of things or having a lot of things in general | 我不喜欢乱七八糟的,我不喜欢看到 我有很多东西 或有很多东西在总体上 |
| 105 | I think we were also raised in quite a minimalistic way. | 我认为我们也是以极小的方式长大的。 |
| 106 | We weren't | 我们没有 |
| 107 | Indulged or allowed to have as much as we wanted of things for example | 沉闷或被允许拥有我们想要的东西 比如说 |
| 108 | That wasn't a concept even when we had celebrations or things like that | 就算我们有庆典之类的事情 也不算什么概念 |
| 109 | The gifts that my mom would buy us would be very practical things and things always just things that we needed | 我妈妈会给我们买的礼物 是非常实用的东西 总是我们需要的东西 |
| 110 | So I think my mom is quite an essentialist even though to me | 所以我觉得我妈妈是个基本主义者 虽然对我来说 |
| 111 | She's a bit of a hoarder, but I think she's quite an essentialist | 她有点囤积,但我觉得她是个基本主义者 |
| 112 | So our gifts would be underwear and socks for example and things that we needed to change and needed to have rather than | 所以我们的礼物是内衣和袜子 比如我们需要改变的东西 需要拥有而不是 |
| 113 | Things that we just wanted for fun | 我们想要的乐趣 |
| 114 | And I remember very strictly our mom did not allow us to have toys or plushies in the house | 我非常严格地记得我们的母亲 不允许我们在家里有玩具或外加 |
| 115 | She just didn't like those so we didn't have extra things beyond what we needed | 她只是不喜欢那些 所以我们没有多余的东西 超出我们需要的 |
| 116 | so in this way | 所以这样 |
| 117 | I think we were raised a bit essentialist and this combined with my minimalistic aesthetic meant that I | 我认为我们长大了 有点本质主义 再加上我的最小主义美学 意味着我 |
| 118 | Very much went in the direction of being quite a minimalist myself | 一直以来我都是个小人 |
| 119 | So for example, I never liked clothes that had prints on them or things on them | 比如说,我从不喜欢穿有指纹或东西的衣服 |
| 120 | I just like them to be quite simple and plain. | 我只是希望他们能简单明了 |
| 121 | So | 这么说 |
| 122 | This being my aesthetic plus the way that I raised | 这是我的美学 加上我提起的方式 |
| 123 | I think directed me towards minimalism more and then when I found out that it was legitimately a thing I | 我认为引导我走向最小化 更多,然后当我发现 这是合法的东西,我 |
| 124 | Immediately thought yes, this is for me | 立即想到是的,这是给我的 |
| 125 | This is exactly what I want and there's so many reasons to be a minimalist | 这正是我想要的 并且有很多理由 作为一个最小主义者 |
| 126 | especially if you have that sort of | 特别是如果你有那种 |
| 127 | Tendency yourself for example having less means that I tend to spend a lot less | 举例来说,你少花钱就等于我少花钱 |
| 128 | There's less things for me to need to replace most of the items that I buy tend to be higher quality | 换掉大部分我买的东西 需要的东西就更少了 往往质量更高 |
| 129 | So not only do I get to enjoy things of higher quality | 所以,我不仅可以享受 质量更高的东西 |
| 130 | I also get to keep them for a lot longer time | 我也得多留一段时间 |
| 131 | Whether the saves or waste money in the long term | 长期节约或浪费钱 |
| 132 | I I really don't know because I think it goes a bit both ways | 我真的不知道,因为我觉得两边都有 |
| 133 | And I also think I have a lot less attachment to the things that I have and a lot less desire | 而且我也认为我对事物的依恋 少了很多 欲望 |
| 134 | Or need for things in general. | 或总需要物. |
| 135 | So very rarely do I think oh, there's this thing that I want to buy | 所以很少,我认为 哦,有一件东西 我想买 |
| 136 | Because I generally don't want to buy things | 因为我一般不想买东西 |
| 137 | So I think there's strong reasons to be a minimalist and I just go with my instinct and feed it a bit more | 所以,我认为有很强的理由 做一个最小的主义者 而我只是走 我的本能 并喂它多一点 |
| 138 | So I definitely think I've been influenced | 所以我肯定觉得自己受到了影响 |
| 139 | But the influence has always grown on what was my natural tendency | 但影响一直在增长 在我的自然趋势 |
| 140 | These are the black t-shirts that I mentioned I'm wearing quite a big one baggy one now | 这些都是黑色的T恤,我提到,我穿 相当大的一袋现在 |
| 141 | But this is what I like to wear black jeans black t-shirts leather jacket can't go wrong very much love it | 但我喜欢穿黑色牛仔裤 黑色T恤 皮夹克不会出错的 |
| 142 | This is another black t-shirt, but it has a very very low scoop neck in the front | 这是另一件黑色的T恤,但它有一个非常低的勺颈 在前面 |
| 143 | So I've often worn this front to back so I've had the back in the front, but I still think it looks a bit weird | 所以我经常穿这个前衣到背部 所以我的背部在前面, 但我仍然觉得这看起来有点奇怪 |
| 144 | I I don't think I need this I can throw that away | 我想我不需要这个 我可以扔掉它 |
| 145 | White t-shirt definitely not wearing that that can go away | 白T恤绝对不穿 那可以消失 |
| 146 | I do have a few colored clothes scattered in here | 我这里有几件彩色的衣服 |
| 147 | From the times that I kind of wish that I could wear other colored clothes | 从那时起,我有点希望 我可以穿其他的彩色衣服 |
| 148 | Oh these trousers I used to love these but they don't fit too well | 哦,这些裤子我以前很喜欢这些,但是它们不太合适 |
| 149 | um | 垛 |
| 150 | Let's keep them and see because they're not way too small, but they're slightly smaller than I would like them to be | 我们留着看吧 因为它们不是太小 但它们比我想的要小 |
| 151 | Next oh it's this dress | 下一个是这件衣服 |
| 152 | This was given in the wrong size, so it doesn't fit me | 这是错的,所以不适合我 |
| 153 | It's a very very nice long black dress, but doesn't fit we'll go away | 这身黑色长裙很漂亮,但不适合我们离开 |
| 154 | um | 垛 |
| 155 | This is a lovely long black dress do I want to keep this I | 这是一件可爱的黑色裙子 我想留着这个吗? |
| 156 | Think I should keep this I have worn this already. | 我想我应该留着这个 我已经穿这个了。 |
| 157 | I very much liked it | 我很喜欢 |
| 158 | These are my daily black jeans too | 这些也是我每天穿的黑牛仔裤 |
| 159 | Okay, off this top. | 好吧,从上面下来。 |
| 160 | I love this top. | 我喜欢这个顶部。 |
| 161 | I used to wear it quite a lot | 我经常穿这个 |
| 162 | It has these fun shoulders, and I think I wore this in my oh | 它的肩膀很好玩 我想我穿这个在我的哦 |
| 163 | I did wear this in my home tour on YouTube my first time tour | 我第一次在YouTube的家巡演中穿这个 |
| 164 | So it does have some sentimental value. | 因此,它确实有一些多愁善感的价值。 |
| 165 | It's very good quality | 质量很好 |
| 166 | I've only worn it very little but I think I haven't worn this in a while | 我刚刚穿得很少 但我想我很久没穿了 |
| 167 | I don't see myself wearing it again soon, so I think this is going to be my sister can have that one | 我看不到自己很快再穿了 所以我觉得这将会是我妹妹可以拥有的 |
| 168 | This is another top that I haven't worn in a while therefore that immediately goes | 这是另一顶 我很久没穿了 因此,立即去 |
| 169 | Have you ever thought of selling everything you owned like pressing the reset button and starting all over again? | 你有没有想过卖掉你拥有的一切 比如按下重置按钮 然后重新开始? |
| 170 | I would love to do this this really excites me this really really excites me. | 我很想这样做 这真的很让我兴奋 这真的很让我兴奋。 |
| 171 | I wish I could I genuinely wish I could I wish | 我真心希望我能够 |
| 172 | the only thing | 唯一的东西 |
| 173 | This would be such a pain to organize | 组织起来会很痛苦 |
| 174 | But if I had someone who could do this for me who could just get all my stuff together sell it and I could start | 但是如果我有个人能为我做这个 只要我的东西一起卖,我可以开始 |
| 175 | From scratch I would love that. | 我从头到尾都很乐意 |
| 176 | I think it would be so therapeutic. | 我觉得这很能治疗 |
| 177 | I very much love fresh starts | 我非常喜欢新的开始 |
| 178 | I think this is why maybe I subconsciously make myself move house every year | 我想这就是为什么我潜意识地 每年让自己搬家 |
| 179 | Because even though part of me hates it another part of me feels a bit scared that I would stay in one place for a very | 因为即使我的一部分讨厌它 另一部分我感到有点害怕 我会留在一个地方 |
| 180 | Long time, so I think maybe I do have these tendencies myself | 很久了,所以我想也许我也有这些倾向 |
| 181 | And yeah, I would absolutely love a reset button just once a year a good reset would be so great | 是的,我绝对喜欢重置按钮 只是一年一次 一个好的重置将是如此的美好 |
| 182 | I definitely would be down for that. | 我绝对会失望的。 |
| 183 | How do you not buy random things when you feel bad? | 你怎么不买随机的东西 当你感到不好? |
| 184 | Oh retail therapy. | 哦,零售疗法。 |
| 185 | Um, I | 额,我... |
| 186 | This is a bag that I've never used. | 这是我从未用过的袋子 |
| 187 | It's actually a leather bag. | 其实是皮包. |
| 188 | So it's quite nice | 不错啊 |
| 189 | I think I'm going to give this to my mom or my sister. | 我想我会把这个给我妈妈或妹妹。 |
| 190 | I think they will definitely like it | 我想他们一定会喜欢的 |
| 191 | Um, I just use one bag that I've used for ages. | 嗯,我只是用一个袋子 我已经用了很多年。 |
| 192 | So no need to put others for me. | 所以没必要给我放别的 |
| 193 | Oh | 瓳 |
| 194 | This this top this is where I feel really really bad. | 这个顶部是我感觉很糟的地方。 |
| 195 | So this is the top that I got last year | 这是我去年的顶级 |
| 196 | I was a residence welfare lead and I got this top from Kings when I was working there and the moment I saw it | 我是一个住家福利的领头人 我从国王那里得到了这个顶部 当我在那里工作,当我看到它的时候 |
| 197 | I thought oh no | 我以为不 |
| 198 | They've given me something that I know I'm going to have to throw away because it's nice | 他们给了我一些东西,我知道我不得不扔掉,因为很好 |
| 199 | But I | 不过 |
| 200 | Realistically, I can't wear it anywhere else and I had to wear it during my shifts, which was fine | 现实中,我不能在别的地方穿,我不得不在值班的时候穿,这很好 |
| 201 | but in general in day-to-day life, it's a nice top, but I | 但总的来说,在日常生活中, 这是一个不错的顶部,但我 |
| 202 | It's not black. | 亦无黑. |
| 203 | So I I probably would not wear it. | 所以我可能不会穿它。 |
| 204 | So therefore that that goes and | 因此,这就是, |
| 205 | I | 一、导 言 |
| 206 | Get this as and I see it a lot on Instagram where people say oh I felt sad and I spent X amount of money on things | 我从Instagram上看到很多, 人们说,哦,我感到悲伤,我花费了 X 数额的钱的东西。 |
| 207 | I think I still have the tendency to do that | 我想我还是有这种倾向的 |
| 208 | I think I bought this camera that I'm filming on right now when I was a bit sad and I thought you know what? | 我想我买了这台摄影机 当我有点伤心的时候,我想你知道吗? |
| 209 | Let's just buy the cameras. | 买相机吧 |
| 210 | I kind of get that instinct | 我有一种直觉 |
| 211 | I guess I do the same thing but there's a lot less options and categories for me to buy things in so for example | 我想我也是这么做的 但我买东西的选择和类别都少了很多 比如说 |
| 212 | I've been on a buying clothes ban almost for the last year because like I said, my body has been changing a lot | 去年我几乎被禁买衣服 因为就像我说的 我的身体变了很多 |
| 213 | So I know that anything that I buy right now, for example, is not likely to fit me very soon. | 所以我知道,我现在买的任何东西, 比如说,都不可能很快适合我。 |
| 214 | So | 这么说 |
| 215 | That's one reason that I just don't have the option to buy clothes in general unless I absolutely need something | 这也是我无法买衣服的原因之一 除非我绝对需要什么 |
| 216 | and I don't buy makeup and as I absolutely need it and | 我不买化妆品 因为我绝对需要它 |
| 217 | I and I've run out of something else | 我和我已经用完了别的东西 |
| 218 | So I do have these sort of roles that help me in a way | 所以我有这种角色 在某种程度上帮助我 |
| 219 | But I think when you're feeling sad shopping is probably not a good way to deal with that sadness | 但我觉得当你感到悲伤的购物 可能不是处理悲伤的好办法 |
| 220 | And there's probably other | 可能还有别的 |
| 221 | Systems that you can do it other ways of coping with it | 系统,你可以做到这一点 其他应对方法 |
| 222 | So I think this is more a question of how to deal with sadness in general rather than how to stop shopping when | 所以,我认为这更是一个问题 如何处理一般的悲伤 而不是如何停止购物 |
| 223 | You're sad because I would say you can easily create a rule of banning yourself from shopping when you're not feeling too well or | 你很伤心,因为我会说,你可以很容易地 建立一个规则,禁止自己购物 当你感觉不太舒服或者 |
| 224 | Give yourself some time before you buy something or always hold on to the receipts and think that you can refund if you want to | 买东西之前先给自己点时间 或者总是拿着收据 想退的话就退吧 |
| 225 | But I would say this is more a question on how to not be sad and how to | 但我会说,这更是一个问题 如何不伤心和如何 |
| 226 | Cope with sadness, which I think is a lot deeper and a lot more that can go through in this video | 科普带着悲伤,我认为这更深 和更多的可以通过 在视频中 |
| 227 | So, oh, I'm sorry. | 所以,对不起。 |
| 228 | I wasn't too helpful with that. | 我帮不上什么忙 |
| 229 | How much money can be saved by being a minimalist? | 做一个最小主义者能省多少钱? |
| 230 | I don't know | 我不知道,你觉得呢? |
| 231 | I spent a lot of money on food and technology. | 我花了很多钱 食品和技术。 |
| 232 | So I don't think I save a lot of money | 所以我不认为我省了很多钱 |
| 233 | I don't think being a minimalist saves me money because I would say I spend a lot more on food than the average person. | 我不认为做一个最小主义者可以省钱 因为我会说我花在食物上的钱比普通人多 |
| 234 | So | 这么说 |
| 235 | therefore | 因此, |
| 236 | Don't think I've saved money by being a minimalist. | 别以为我是少管闲事才省钱的 |
| 237 | So I just don't think I've been the best at saving money in general | 所以,我只是不认为 我是最好的 储蓄一般 |
| 238 | I think that's my problem. | 我想这是我的问题。 |
| 239 | So minimalism for me has not saved me money. | 所以对我而言,最小化 并没有节省我的钱。 |
| 240 | No. | 没有 |
| 241 | The Marie Kondo method | 玛丽近藤方法 |
| 242 | I think this is the thing of | 我觉得这就是 |
| 243 | Does it this item spark me joy and then I'll keep it? | 这东西能让我高兴吗? |
| 244 | I | 一、导 言 |
| 245 | Don't know if that works for me. | 不知道这对我有用吗? |
| 246 | I think this wouldn't work for me because I'm | 我觉得这对我没用 因为我 |
| 247 | Already semi minimalist. | 已经是半最小的了 |
| 248 | So maybe for clothes this would work. | 所以也许换件衣服可以用 |
| 249 | But when it comes to other items, they don't spark me joy | 但是,当它涉及到其他的东西, 它们不会点燃我的快乐 |
| 250 | I just need them. | 我只是需要他们。 |
| 251 | So yeah, it's like kind of my makeup or my deodorant | 对,就像我的化妆品或除臭剂 |
| 252 | They don't make me happy but I need to have them | 他们不让我高兴 但我需要他们 |
| 253 | So I guess the Marie Kondo method wouldn't work for me. | 所以我猜近藤玛丽的方法对我行不通 |
| 254 | I think but maybe for others | 我想,但也许其他人 |
| 255 | I'm not sure is that hard to be a minimalist. | 我不确定做个最小主义者有那么难 |
| 256 | No, I find it very easy | 不,我觉得很简单 |
| 257 | I think I would find it a lot harder if I wasn't one and in that case, I would have to kind of | 我想我会发现它得多难 如果我不是其中之一 那样的话,我会不得不有点 |
| 258 | Just shop more which I hate to do to start with and | 只要多买点 我最不想做的 |
| 259 | All this top I miss it so much I haven't seen it forever | 所有这一切,我想念它这么多 我从来没有见过它永远 |
| 260 | Oh, this is one of my favorite tops to chill in at home. | 哦,这是我最喜欢的顶级 在家中冷却。 |
| 261 | It is so so comfortable. | 它是如此舒适。 |
| 262 | Yes, this sparks me joy | 是的,这让我兴奋 |
| 263 | Okay, Marie Kondo. | 好的,近藤玛丽 |
| 264 | I see you. | 我看见你了 |
| 265 | I see you | 我看见你了 |
| 266 | I don't think it's hard to be a minimalist | 我不觉得做个最小主义者很困难 |
| 267 | I think for me I think I can see how it could be hard if you're just starting from the beginning and especially if you | 我想对我来说,我想我能理解 如果你只是开始, 特别是如果你 |
| 268 | Have any sort of hoarding tendencies. | 有某种囤积倾向。 |
| 269 | I think we very difficult one of my friends is a hoarder and | 我觉得我们很困难 我的一个朋友是一个囤积者 |
| 270 | I think he stresses me out with his hoarding and I stress him out with my minimalism | 我觉得他用囤积来强调我 我用我最小的刻薄来强调他 |
| 271 | So whenever I suggest to him that hey, we could do a complete clear out of you know, even photos or videos or physical stuff | 所以每当我建议他嘿嘿, 我们可以做一个完全清楚的,你知道的, 甚至照片或视频或物理的东西 |
| 272 | I think he just gets terrified | 我觉得他只是害怕了 |
| 273 | And I just get stressed thinking of the amount of stuff that he has | 我只是有点紧张 想着他有多少东西 |
| 274 | So I can see how if you're on the hoarder end of the spectrum, it would be really really stressful | 所以,我可以看到,如果你在 囤积的光谱端, 它会真的很紧张 |
| 275 | but I also think that extreme minimalism is quite problematic and it probably is anxiety driven too because there's no reason that | 但我也认为极端的最小化 相当有问题 它可能是焦虑驱动太 因为没有理由 |
| 276 | Having a reasonable amount of stuff should make you anxious either way if that makes sense | 拥有合理数量的东西 无论是哪种方式,你都会感到焦虑 如果有道理的话 |
| 277 | So seeing a normal setting and feeling that oh my god, there's too much stuff there. | 所以,看到一个正常的设置, 感觉,哦,我的上帝, 那里的东西太多了。 |
| 278 | This is stressing me out | 这让我压力很大 |
| 279 | That's probably anxiety. | 这可能是焦虑。 |
| 280 | So for example this house everything in here is just was here when we moved in | 举个例子,我们搬进来的时候 这里的一切都在这里 |
| 281 | So none of this stuff is mine and it has a bit more things that I would like for example | 所以,这些东西都不是我的, 它有一点更多的东西,我想 例如 |
| 282 | The fact that this carpet has three four colors has four colors. | 这地毯有三种四种颜色,有四种颜色。 |
| 283 | I don't like that. | 我不喜欢这样 |
| 284 | It bothers me | 这让我烦恼 |
| 285 | I wish it was just one color and and this is a bit nuts | 我希望它只是一种颜色 这有点疯狂 |
| 286 | I think it's probably not the healthiest thing in the world | 我觉得这也许不是世界上最健康的事 |
| 287 | So I think yeah, if you're extremely minimalist to the point that you just cannot bear things to be normal | 所以,我想是的,如果你是极端 最小化的,你只是无法忍受的事情是正常的 |
| 288 | That's probably a problem | 这大概是个问题 |
| 289 | And if you're extremely if you're hoarding extremely to the point that you can't live in a space then that's also maybe not the best | 如果你极端地囤积到无法生活在空间的地步 那也可能不是最好的 |
| 290 | So I would say to answer that question in a very long-winded way | 所以我要说 用很长的风向回答这个问题 |
| 291 | Yes | 对 |
| 292 | Minimalism is probably going to be hard for the average person to start with I personally it vibes with me | 最小化可能很难让普通人从我个人开始 我个人的感受 |
| 293 | So I find it great | 所以我觉得很好 |
| 294 | I think extreme minimalism is very hard and it should be very hard because | 我认为极端的最小主义是非常困难的,应该非常困难,因为 |
| 295 | It's a lot and it's probably not the healthiest thing either. | 可能也不是最健康的东西。 |
| 296 | Is a minimalistic life lead to a clear mind? | 极简主义的生活是否导致头脑清醒? |
| 297 | I think it does for me. | 我觉得对我来说是 |
| 298 | I think whenever I clean and everything is just empty. | 我想每当我清洁,一切都是空的。 |
| 299 | I just feel oh | 我只是觉得 |
| 300 | So I think for me it does but I don't know for other people like I said if you have a hoarder | 所以我想,对我来说,它确实如此 但我不知道其他人 就像我说的,如果你有一个囤积者 |
| 301 | I think I think if you do have a hoarder mindset a minimalistic life leads to anxiety rather than a clear mindset | 我认为,如果你真的有 囤积者的心态 最低生活导致焦虑 而不是明确的心态 |
| 302 | So depends on where you are in the spectrum | 那要看你们在谱系中的位置 |
| 303 | I feel as though I'm wasting value if I throw my clothes and old stuff away how to overcome that | 我觉得我浪费了价值 如果我扔掉我的衣服和旧东西如何克服 |
| 304 | It's kind of the sunk cost fallacy, I think for most things so very often so for example | 这是一种沉没 成本谬论, 我想大多数事情 如此频繁,例如 |
| 305 | Let's take this jacket. | 让我们拿这夹克。 |
| 306 | It's a perfect example. | 这是一个完美的例子。 |
| 307 | So this is an old saint. | 故此为老圣. |
| 308 | This is an old saints jacket | 这是老圣人夹克 |
| 309 | I bought it four years ago and what they didn't tell me at all saints was just how much these kind of | 我四年前买的,他们没有告诉我 所有的圣人只是多少这种 |
| 310 | Expanded so I've worn it once with a cashmere top underneath and it just got so big to the point that when I wear it | 拓宽了,所以我穿过一次 上面有一个羊绒, 它只是变得如此大 以至于当我穿它 |
| 311 | I just feel as though it's so unflattering on my body and it doesn't hug my body anymore. | 我只是觉得好像它在我的身体上如此的不平,它不再拥抱我的身体了. |
| 312 | So I haven't worn this jacket in | 所以我没穿这件外套 |
| 313 | Three years because it's gotten too big and it costs 350 pounds | 三年了,因为太大了,要三百五十磅 |
| 314 | So I feel I saved up for | 所以我觉得自己存了钱 |
| 315 | So I saved up for a proper leather jacket because it's so much my aesthetic and I would love to have one and yet | 所以我省了钱买一件正经的皮夹克 因为这是我的美学,我很想有一件 |
| 316 | This is one that I've never worn and so I don't have a proper leather jacket because I feel like it's just throwing my money | 我从来没有穿过,所以没有一件合适的皮夹克 因为我觉得它只是扔了我的钱 |
| 317 | Away at this point and I haven't worn and I haven't thrown it away because I feel as though there's so much money there | 此时此刻,我还没有磨损,也没有丢掉 因为我觉得那里有这么多钱 |
| 318 | So this will go to my sister and I can just cry it was it was a loss. | 所以这个会交给我妹妹 我只能哭 那是个损失 |
| 319 | It's a bad investment | 投资不好 |
| 320 | It's a mistake. | 师错曰. |
| 321 | I just feel whatever we just we got to move on. | 我只是觉得我们只是需要继续前进。 |
| 322 | We can't hold on to these things forever | 我们不能永远坚持下去 |
| 323 | So another black top that I don't like anymore. | 所以,另一个黑色的顶部 我不再喜欢。 |
| 324 | I think the cuts in the shoulders not my vibe | 我觉得肩膀上的伤口不是我的感觉 |
| 325 | I think I've realized for me, for example, all these clothes that have been just sitting in my closet for the longest time | 我想我已经意识到,例如,所有这些衣服 一直坐在我的衣柜里 时间最长 |
| 326 | there's no real difference between them sitting there and taking up space and stressing me out and reminding me of the money that I spent than | 他们坐在那里 占空间 强调我 提醒我花的钱 |
| 327 | Donating them or gifting them to someone and then them having that thing and actually using it and getting joy from it | 捐献或赠送给某人 然后他们有了那个东西 并实际使用它,从它得到快乐 |
| 328 | So if anything it just trains me to be a lot more mindful before I buy things and dealing with loss or sadness in general | 所以,如果任何东西 它只是训练我 要多多注意 在我买东西和处理 损失或悲伤的一般 |
| 329 | It's just something that I've become a lot more comfortable with and I just tell myself yet deal with it | 只是有些事情我已经变得更自在了, 我只是告诉自己,但处理它 |
| 330 | You made this mistake. | 你犯了这个错误。 |
| 331 | It's your fault. | 都是你的错 |
| 332 | We move on. | 我们继续前进。 |
| 333 | So that's how I tend to behave | 所以我才会这样 |
| 334 | Oh, this is a top that I used to wear when I worked in Selfridges almost every day have not worn it in a while | 哦,这是我以前在塞尔福里奇工作时穿的顶部 几乎每天都没有穿过 |
| 335 | And probably won't wear it again. | 可能不会再穿了 |
| 336 | Oh | 瓳 |
| 337 | This is a lovely top. | 这是一个可爱的顶部。 |
| 338 | It's really warm, but I feel as though I definitely look like a grandma with it on | 真的很热,但我觉得 我看起来像一个奶奶 穿它 |
| 339 | So it's a note for me | 所以这是给我的纸条 |
| 340 | My hoodie, I love this hoodie because it says the artist down here and | 我的连帽衫 我喜欢这连帽衫 因为上面写着这位艺术家 |
| 341 | But the thing is me and hoodies. | 但问题是 我和流氓 |
| 342 | I just don't like the way that I look in hoodies | 我只是不喜欢我穿连衣帽的样子 |
| 343 | I don't think I can pull them off. | 我拿不出来 |
| 344 | So also believe oh | 所以,也相信哦,我们 |
| 345 | This top this top feels divine. | 这个顶部感觉很神圣 |
| 346 | It feels so so so nice | 感觉真好 |
| 347 | It's an other stories top. | 这是另一个故事 |
| 348 | I got it. | 我来 |
| 349 | I think | 我觉得 |
| 350 | Last year or the year before winter before I think but I've worn it once or twice only at home when I've been absolutely | 去年或冬天的前一年,我想,但我穿过一次或两次 在家里,当我是绝对的 |
| 351 | Because it's so so warm. | 因为它是如此温暖。 |
| 352 | However, I don't think I can pull it off outside of the house. | 然而,我不认为我能 把它在房子外面。 |
| 353 | So | 这么说 |
| 354 | Yeah, we are gifting that too that's gone | 是啊,我们有天赋 也已经走了 |
| 355 | This top | 这个顶 |
| 356 | This is the top I've worn in quite a lot of YouTube videos because I like the neckline of it | 这是我在很多YouTube视频中穿的顶级衣服 因为我喜欢它的领带 |
| 357 | So it has a straight neckline. | 故其颈脉直. |
| 358 | However | 不过 |
| 359 | It's still not one of my favorites. | 还没成为我最喜欢的 |
| 360 | So it's leaving. | 所以它要离开了 |
| 361 | How can you get happy with only having a few things? | 只有几样东西你怎么能高兴呢? |
| 362 | Oh | 瓳 |
| 363 | I think I'm happier when I have a few things things don't make me happy. | 我有些事让我不高兴,我觉得我更快乐 |
| 364 | They make me happy for a second | 他们让我高兴一秒钟 |
| 365 | but it's very short-lived and | 但时间很短 |
| 366 | It's very few items that I can see again and again and they make me just as happy | 我很少看到这些东西,它们让我高兴 |
| 367 | I think my iPhone is one of those items | 我觉得我的iPhone就是其中之一 |
| 368 | I don't know why I just love my iPhones or my phones in general because I think there's just so much joy that I get | 我不知道我为什么只是喜欢我的iPhone 或我的手机 一般来说,因为我觉得有这么多的快乐,我得到 |
| 369 | Out of the interactions that I can have with people and the connections I can have with people on my iPhone | 从我和人的互动 和我的iPhone上的人的联系 |
| 370 | So I think that's the reason why I'm quite connected to it | 所以我觉得这就是我和它有关系的原因 |
| 371 | But that's one of the few things where I will continuously be happy | 但是,这是少数的事情之一 我将持续快乐 |
| 372 | I think when it comes to a certain piece of clothing or | 我想当它涉及到 某件衣服或 |
| 373 | Just you know something for the house or something like that. | 只是你知道一些东西 房子或类似的东西。 |
| 374 | It's not going to make me happy for very long. | 它不会让我快乐很久。 |
| 375 | So | 这么说 |
| 376 | I'm not I | 我没有 |
| 377 | don't think I've been less happy having less things and | 别以为我不太喜欢少东西 |
| 378 | I'm much more happy when I donate things or gift things away and when I have less things | 当我捐东西或礼物离开, 当我的东西更少的时候,我更快乐 |
| 379 | So it might just be a personal tendency | 所以可能只是个人倾向 |
| 380 | Difficult to have less things to start with if you are coming from somewhere where you've been normal or average | 如果你是从正常或普通的地方来 很难少做点事 |
| 381 | But I think in the long term there's evidence that having less things just makes you feel better | 但我认为,从长远来看,有证据表明, 少的东西只是让你感觉更好 |
| 382 | I think even though it might be super super painful to kind of let things go and donate things to start with | 我想即使它可能超级痛苦 那种放手 和捐赠的东西开始 |
| 383 | I think there's many reasons why that will make you happier in the long term | 我认为有许多原因 让你从长远来看更快乐 |
| 384 | Number one if you're not using those things anyway, and they're not your favorite thing | 如果你不是在用那些东西的话,第一,它们不是你最喜欢的东西 |
| 385 | actually someone else getting joy from them and you knowing about that or thinking about that or | 其实是别人从他们那里得到欢乐 而你知道 或思考 |
| 386 | Kind of guessing that will make you much much more happier because you're being altruistic and you're you're helping other people | 那种猜测会让你更快乐 因为你是利他主义 而你是在帮助别人 |
| 387 | So that will make you feel good and also having less connections to things | 这样你就会感觉好点 和事物的联系也会减少 |
| 388 | Means that you have less to lose in a way and I think that just in the long term just makes you happy | 意味着你没有多少损失 我认为从长远来看 只会让你快乐 |
| 389 | So I think that's it's a win-win. | 所以,我认为这是一个双赢。 |
| 390 | I have used these for | 我用过这些 |
| 391 | Five years or four years at this point. | 五年或四年此时. |
| 392 | I've used them for a very very long time | 我用它们很久了 |
| 393 | They've gotten quite worn out to the point that I'm not comfortable using them anymore | 他们已经很磨损 以至于我不再愿意使用它们了 |
| 394 | So I think that those will be | 所以,我认为这些将是 |
| 395 | Throwing away potentially not even good for donation. | 丢掉甚至可能不利于捐赠。 |
| 396 | Oh | 瓳 |
| 397 | This is a top I wear quite a lot actually | 这真是我穿的顶级衣服 |
| 398 | It's one of the it's a thermal top and it's really thin but very very warm and I get very cold | 它是热顶的之一 它真的很薄 但非常温暖 我变得非常冷 |
| 399 | So I quite like to have it. | 所以我很喜欢它。 |
| 400 | Oh, this is my favorite t-shirt of all time | 这是我最爱的T恤 |
| 401 | I don't know why but there's just some materials of t-shirts that just fall perfectly and are very flattering. | 我不知道为什么 但有些T恤的材料 完全掉下来,很受宠若惊 |
| 402 | So I just love that one | 所以我就喜欢那个 |
| 403 | These are a | 这些是 |
| 404 | pair of jeans that | 牛仔裤 |
| 405 | Haven't worn in a while because I think they're a bit small | 好久没穿了 因为我觉得它们有点小 |
| 406 | This is so hard. | 这太难了。 |
| 407 | Am I gonna fit into these again? | 我还能再加入吗? |
| 408 | Okay, I'm gonna keep them for now because they're almost new. | 好吧,我现在要留着它们 因为它们几乎是新的。 |
| 409 | So hmm, maybe might do another declutter soon then | 所以,也许可以再做一次解析 很快 |
| 410 | Oh, I love this little all Saints top again another t-shirt. | 哦,我爱这小所有圣徒 再次T恤。 |
| 411 | That's one of my favorite black t-shirts | 这是我最喜欢的黑色T恤之一 |
| 412 | And yep another t-shirt actually this one is one that I don't like I think | 还有一件T恤 其实是一件我不喜欢的 |
| 413 | Let me try and remember this | 让我试着记住 |
| 414 | it has a nice clean neckline, but I | 脖子上有条干净的绳子 但我... |
| 415 | Was not the biggest fan of this t-shirt. | 不是T恤最大的粉丝。 |
| 416 | I think | 我觉得 |
| 417 | not sure and | 不确定和 |
| 418 | Next this top. | 下一个这个顶部。 |
| 419 | No, I don't like this leave | 不,我不喜欢这个假期 |
| 420 | This top again from Selfridges haven't used that in a while. | 塞尔福里奇的顶部已经很久没有使用过了 |
| 421 | I'll leave this top | 我会离开这个顶部 |
| 422 | Has an okay neckline, but I think it's a bit too low cut. | 脖子线不错,但我觉得剪得太低了 |
| 423 | We'll also leave | 我们也会离开的 |
| 424 | This t-shirt I | 这件T恤我 |
| 425 | Have not worn it in a while. | 好久没穿了 |
| 426 | We'll leave how to let go of sentimental things. | 我们将离开如何 放下多愁善感的东西。 |
| 427 | Mmm, I think it depends on what they are | 嗯,我想这取决于他们是什么 |
| 428 | Some sentimental things for example cards | 一些多愁善感的东西,比如卡片 |
| 429 | I will take a photo of so I'll keep the photo of them and I can throw the actual physical item away | 我会照张相,这样我就留着他们的照片 然后把实际的实物扔掉 |
| 430 | Because I don't want to hold on to them for too long. | 因为我不想拖太久 |
| 431 | Some things are | 有些东西是 |
| 432 | Extremely sentimental and extremely valuable | 极度多愁善感,极有价值 |
| 433 | And in that case, I will not throw them away | 那样的话,我不会丢掉的 |
| 434 | I will keep them depending on how long or I will give them to someone who can keep them for me | 我会留着它,视时间而定 否则我把它们交给能帮我保管它的人 |
| 435 | So my mom for example, I think she'd be happy to hold on to some things for me if I needed to | 比如说我妈妈 我想她会很乐意帮我保管一些东西 如果我需要的话 |
| 436 | if it's something that has no physical value and can be photographed and | 如果这是没有物理价值的东西 可以拍照和 |
| 437 | You've kept for a very long time and | 你留了很长一段时间 |
| 438 | Does not have an extreme sentimental value then I would throw it away and take a photo of it | 没有极度的情感价值,我就把它扔掉,拍下来 |
| 439 | So I think that would be my tip | 所以我觉得那是我的小费 |
| 440 | But equally saying that I wouldn't throw things away just to be more minimalistic or just to be a minimalist if you actually | 但同样地说,我不会把东西丢掉 只是为了更简陋 或者只是做一个简陋主义者 如果你真的 |
| 441 | Love something and it's important to you and has a lot of sentimental value | 爱的东西,它对你很重要, 并且有很多感伤的价值 |
| 442 | Just hold on to it. | 坚持住 |
| 443 | Like that's the most value that you can get | 碞钩硂琌眔程璶 |
| 444 | It's just about how to make your life the best and not about the rules. | 这只是如何让你的生活 最好的而不是规则。 |
| 445 | I think so. | 我想是这样。 |
| 446 | Yeah | 对 |
| 447 | I haven't worn these trousers in very long | 我很久没穿裤子了 |
| 448 | You can go | 你们可以走了 |
| 449 | This dress | 这裙子 |
| 450 | Also | 还有 |
| 451 | Can also go how do you become a minimalistic if your partner isn't this is a very good question | 如果你的搭档不是个好问题 那你怎么变成一个小人 |
| 452 | So I think and this is a very good topic to talk about because minimalism and dating I think is quite interesting | 所以,我想,这是一个非常好的主题 谈论,因为 最小主义和约会 我认为相当有趣 |
| 453 | Even at the very early stages of just meeting people | 即使是在刚认识人的早期阶段 |
| 454 | I think if you're a minimalist they will realize that and they will catch on to that | 我认为如果你是小人 他们就会意识到 他们会抓住这一点 |
| 455 | It might be just looking at you wearing the same things again and again or in my case | 也许只是看着你穿同样的东西 一遍又一遍,或者我的情况 |
| 456 | Just wearing the same color again and again and the same things again and again | 一次又一次地穿同样的颜色 一次又一次地穿同样的颜色 |
| 457 | I think there's how would you cope as a minimalist with someone who's not a minimalist and how would the non-minimalist | 我认为,你如何作为一个最小主义者 面对一个不是最小主义者的人, 和如何将非小主义者 |
| 458 | {\fn黑体\fs20\shad2\2aH82\3aH20\4aH33\fscx95\3cH592001\be1}但你是个小人物 {\fn黑体\fs20\shad2\2aH82\3aH20\4aH33\fscx95\3cH592001\be1}然后你怎样 | |
| 459 | Co-live together if that makes sense. | 如果有道理的话 一起生活 |
| 460 | Minimalism is still not the norm even though it's quite well known and mainstream | 迷你主义虽然相当知名和主流,但至今仍不是常态. |
| 461 | It's not the case that most people would be minimalist. | 大多数人不会是最小的 |
| 462 | So when they do find it out | 所以当他们发现 |
| 463 | There's I think a moment of like, oh, okay | 我觉得有那么一刻,哦,好吧 |
| 464 | That's a bit weird perhaps is something that people might say. | 这有点奇怪 也许人们会说些什么 |
| 465 | So I think if you when it comes to | 所以我想,如果你说到 |
| 466 | Coping with the non-minimalistic partner. | 与非最小的伴侣。 |
| 467 | It depends on what your standards are for the things that you have | 这取决于你的标准 对于你拥有的东西 |
| 468 | I don't think it would be or should be a deal-breaker in general because you know, people are free to do whatever they like | 我认为这不会是 或应该是一个交易破坏者 在总体上,因为你知道, 人们可以自由 做任何他们喜欢的 |
| 469 | I think you can negotiate the amount of clutter or the amount of things that you have in shared spaces | 我想你们可以商谈 在共享空间里你拥有的麻烦或东西的数量 |
| 470 | But I think they're free. | 但我觉得他们自由了 |
| 471 | I've had for my partners to have closets full of clothes and wear whatever they like. | 我为我的搭档准备了衣柜 衣柜里装满衣服 随便穿什么 |
| 472 | It's their choice | 这是他们的选择 |
| 473 | I think any | 我觉得有 |
| 474 | potential partner of mine | 我的潜在伙伴 |
| 475 | he would probably have to be okay with me just wearing black because | 我穿黑衣服他可能不会介意 |
| 476 | Yeah, I guess that's the case. | 是的,我想是这样。 |
| 477 | I'm probably repeating outfits a lot of the time and | 我可能经常重复穿衣服 |
| 478 | Yeah, I think it's just the way things are | 是啊,我觉得这只是事情的方式 |
| 479 | Sometimes our friends say that we should get matching outfits for something and there's a huge part of me that goes oh fast fashion | 有时候我们的朋友说,我们应该 得到匹配的服饰的东西, 有我的一大部分 走快时尚 |
| 480 | I don't want to do that | 我不想那样 |
| 481 | So I guess in some cases it can be a bit weird and if your partner is a sort of person who wants to do | 所以我猜在某些情况下 可能有点怪 如果你的搭档是那种想做的人 |
| 482 | Things like that, then yes, it can slightly be at a tiny bit of friction | 这样的事情,然后是的, 它可以稍微在一点点的摩擦中 |
| 483 | But I don't think it's a big deal and I think in the long term if you're not too rigid about it | 但我觉得这没什么大不了的 长远来说,如果你不太僵硬的话 |
| 484 | It doesn't really matter either way, but there are a few things that I would guess that yeah | 不过有些事我想是的 |
| 485 | They would probably need to be okay with I put it easy. | 他们也许需要接受我的话 |
| 486 | Honestly, I don't really mind a lot. | 老实说,我不介意 |
| 487 | So it's fine | 没关系 |
| 488 | I've learned to live with the multicolored carpet. | 我学会了和多彩地毯一起生活 |
| 489 | I could probably deal with a lot more. | 我也许可以应付更多。 |
| 490 | So yeah | 对 |
| 491 | These are summer trousers. | 这些是夏天的裤子 |
| 492 | I think yeah, I'm not worn in forever. | 我想是的,我没有永远磨损。 |
| 493 | They will go | 他们会去的 |
| 494 | These trousers are lovely, but I'm not worn they will go | 这些裤子很可爱,但我不穿,他们会去的 |
| 495 | Oh | 瓳 |
| 496 | Shorts, yeah, I don't wear shorts. | 短裤 是的 我不穿短裤 |
| 497 | I hate my legs out. | 我讨厌我的腿。 |
| 498 | So they believe these shoes are quite lovely, but they're definitely not my style | 所以他们相信这双鞋很漂亮 但绝对不是我的风格 |
| 499 | It would not fit my sister either so I'll have to donate those to someone and | 也不适合我妹妹 所以我得把这些捐给别人 |
| 500 | This skirt. | 这裙子 |
| 501 | Oh, I love this skirt. | 哦,我喜欢这裙子。 |
| 502 | I still haven't worn it. | 我还没穿呢 |
| 503 | It's just this really pretty dark blue | 只是这个很深的蓝色 |
| 504 | Skirt, and it's just the way that it falls is just gorgeous. | 穿着短裙 摔下来的方式太美了 |
| 505 | I wonder if I could wear this in winter | 不知道冬天能不能穿这个 |
| 506 | Hmm | 垛 |
| 507 | Okay, maybe I'll try to wear this one of these days and I'll see and if not that will go there | 好吧,也许我会尝试穿这个 这些天中的某一天,我会看到,如果不,那会去那里 |
| 508 | And lastly off this dress is so lovely. | 最后脱下这裙子太可爱了 |
| 509 | I haven't seen it in forever | 我好久没见了 |
| 510 | Yes, so I quite like this dress | 对,所以我很喜欢这裙子 |
| 511 | It's just a simple black dress and I think maybe if I had a black shirt to go underneath it | 这只是一件简单的黑色裙子 我想也许如果我有件黑色衬衫去它下面 |
| 512 | It would look really nice. | 它会看起来真的很好。 |
| 513 | So I might try this with a black shirt. | 所以我可以试试黑衬衫 |
| 514 | So yes | 没错 |
| 515 | Thank you for watching this very very chill vlogmas video. | 谢谢你看这个非常寒冷的录像 |
| 516 | If you made it so far | 如果你到现在为止 |
| 517 | Thank you so much for spending this time with me | 谢谢你陪我 |
| 518 | I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day and be kind yourself and others and don't believe everything you think. | 我希望你有美好的一天休息, 并善意的自己和其他人, 不要相信一切你的想法。 |
| 519 | Thanks. | 谢谢 |
| 520 | Bye | 再见 |
| 521 | So I quite like this dress. It's just a simple black dress and I think maybe if I had a black shirt to go underneath it | 所以我很喜欢这件裙子 这只是一件简单的黑色裙子 我想也许如果我有件黑色衬衫去它下面 |
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