【英音】聊聊女人的友谊 | 伦敦国王学院 | Elizabe
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | Don't put that in the shot! | 别把那个插进去! |
| 0:14 | So why are we friends? | 那为什么我们是朋友? |
| 0:17 | So, we both went through the same traumatic test from hell and failed. | 所以,我们都经历了同样的 创伤测试 从地狱和失败。 |
| 0:28 | Okay, how do you feel? | 好吧,你感觉如何? |
| 0:30 | Ready? | 准备好了吗? |
| 0:30 | Are you ready? | 你准备好了吗? |
| 0:31 | Okay, good. | 好吧,不错。 |
| 0:32 | Hi everyone and welcome back. | 大家好 欢迎回来 |
| 0:34 | Today I am in a new location and I have someone with me. | 今天我在一个新地点,我有一个人和我在一起。 |
| 0:37 | So I am currently in Dubai where I've been for the last two weeks | 所以我现在在迪拜 过去两周我去过的地方 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Don't put that in the shot! | 别把那个插进去! |
| 2 | So why are we friends? | 那为什么我们是朋友? |
| 3 | So, we both went through the same traumatic test from hell and failed. | 所以,我们都经历了同样的 创伤测试 从地狱和失败。 |
| 4 | Okay, how do you feel? | 好吧,你感觉如何? |
| 5 | Ready? | 准备好了吗? |
| 6 | Are you ready? | 你准备好了吗? |
| 7 | Okay, good. | 好吧,不错。 |
| 8 | Hi everyone and welcome back. | 大家好 欢迎回来 |
| 9 | Today I am in a new location and I have someone with me. | 今天我在一个新地点,我有一个人和我在一起。 |
| 10 | So I am currently in Dubai where I've been for the last two weeks | 所以我现在在迪拜 过去两周我去过的地方 |
| 11 | and I have the lovely Sheen with me. | 我带着可爱的Sheen |
| 12 | Sheen, please introduce yourself. | 希恩,请自我介绍 |
| 13 | Hello, I'm Lizzie's new bestie in Dubai. | 你好 我是利兹在迪拜的新美人 |
| 14 | Oh, in Dubai, in Dubai. | 哦,在迪拜,在迪拜。 |
| 15 | That was, that was, she's definitely my new bestie in Dubai. | 那是,那是, 她绝对是我在迪拜的新最好的。 |
| 16 | I'm in a few, in a few hours. | 我几小时后到 |
| 17 | Sure. | 当然 |
| 18 | So, it's the first time I've been invited on Lizzie's massive YouTube channel. | 所以,这是我第一次被邀请 在利兹的大型YouTube频道。 |
| 19 | I know she was waiting for me to get to 20k before putting me on there. | 我知道她在等我到2万才把我放上去 |
| 20 | No, you're, Sheen. | 不,你是,谢恩。 |
| 21 | It's not true. | 非实非实. |
| 22 | Sheen has disappeared from my life, | 希恩从我的生命中消失了 |
| 23 | so I had to come after raising her to get her on my channel. | 所以我不得不在抚养她后来 让她在我的频道。 |
| 24 | But yeah, today we're going to do a very fun video together. | 但是,是的,今天我们要 做一个非常有趣的视频在一起。 |
| 25 | So, tiny, tiny little disclaimer. | 所以,微小,微小的 免责声明。 |
| 26 | This is day 13 of us having two hours of sleep per night. | 这是第13天 我们每晚有两个小时的睡眠。 |
| 27 | So, just gonna put that in there. | 所以,只是要放进去。 |
| 28 | If we're slow, if we're tired, if we're looking, | 如果我们慢,如果我们累了,如果我们在寻找, |
| 29 | if our eyes are looking in different directions. | 如果我们的眼睛在看不同的方向。 |
| 30 | It's that, it's that. | 就是这样,就是这样。 |
| 31 | If we start speaking in multiple languages, just Google it. | 如果我们开始用多种语言说话,就用谷歌。 |
| 32 | So, Sheen, a question that we get asked a lot is, | 所以Sheen 我们经常被问到的一个问题是 |
| 33 | why are you friends? | 为什么你们是朋友? |
| 34 | Yes, it sounds rude. | 是的,这听起来很无礼。 |
| 35 | How do you know Liz? | 你怎么知道丽兹? |
| 36 | Why are you friends with Liz? | 为什么跟丽兹是朋友? |
| 37 | I should meet her to know why you're friends with her. | 我应该见见她 知道为什么你们是她的朋友 |
| 38 | So, you and Sheen, are you really friends? | 你和Sheen 你们真的是朋友吗? |
| 39 | Why are you friends with Liz? | 为什么跟丽兹是朋友? |
| 40 | Sheen. | 谢恩 |
| 41 | 是给Instagram的吗? | |
| 42 | Post? | 邮差? |
| 43 | Especially when I came to Dubai, people were like, | 特别是当我来到迪拜时 人们会说 |
| 44 | oh, I thought you two were not that close. | 哦,我以为你们两个没有那么接近。 |
| 45 | That was, that was quite shocking. | 那是,这是相当令人震惊的。 |
| 46 | So, it kind of led us to an overthinking rabbit hole | 所以,它导致我们到了一个 过度思考的兔子洞 |
| 47 | of female friendships in general and relationships between girls. | 一般女性友谊和女孩之间的关系。 |
| 48 | So, we put out a kind of story on my profile | 所以,我们在我的资料里写了一个故事 |
| 49 | and we've asked you all and luckily sent in a bunch of questions. | 我们很幸运地问了你们几个问题 |
| 50 | We've narrowed it down to a few. | 我们已经缩小到几个了 |
| 51 | So, Sheen, shall we get going? | 希恩,我们要走了吗? |
| 52 | Let's do it. | 贡举志五种 上. |
| 53 | How did we meet? | 我们怎么认识的? |
| 54 | So, we were introduced by a common friend of ours over sushi. | 所以,我们是由我们共同的朋友介绍的 寿司。 |
| 55 | Sushi, yes? | 寿司,是吗? |
| 56 | Oh, yeah, it was sushi. | 哦,是的,这是寿司。 |
| 57 | It was sushi over dinner and that was the first time that we met. | 那是晚餐时的寿司 我们第一次见面 |
| 58 | We had a great chat, I think. | 我想我们聊得很开心 |
| 59 | I mean, I lost respect for her very quickly | 我的意思是,我失去了对她的尊重 很快 |
| 60 | because she was like, oh, flotation, the tanks, love them. | 因为她喜欢,哦,漂浮, 坦克,爱他们。 |
| 61 | And I was like, who is this girl? | 我当时想,这个女孩是谁? |
| 62 | I think she was the first person in my life to be like, | 我想她是我生命中第一个喜欢的人 |
| 63 | oh, I've been to one too. | 哦,我也去过一次。 |
| 64 | And I was like, right, are they not the best thing? | 我当时想,对了,他们是不是最好的事情? |
| 65 | And she was like, no, they were awful and completely underwhelming. | 她喜欢,不, 他们是可怕的和完全下沉。 |
| 66 | I would never go again. | 我不会再去 |
| 67 | And I think that went from like really, really hot to really, really cold. | 我觉得这从真的,真的热到真的,真的冷。 |
| 68 | It was like a wet blanket. | 这就像湿毯子。 |
| 69 | I was like, oh, okay, yeah, we'll see. | 我当时想,哦,好吧,是的,我们会看到。 |
| 70 | So then I went on a tangent about how they were life-changing | 于是我转身说他们如何改变生活 |
| 71 | and going through my little experience in that tank. | 经历我在那辆坦克里的经验 |
| 72 | And how everyone should have a flotation tank in their house. | 和如何每个人都应该有一个浮囊 在他们的房子。 |
| 73 | It's a thing. | 这是一件事。 |
| 74 | It should be a thing. | 应该是一件事情。 |
| 75 | It should be standard. | 这应该是标准的。 |
| 76 | It should be standard in devices across all homes. | 所有家庭的装置都应是标准设备。 |
| 77 | But yeah, that's how we met. | 但我们就是这样认识的 |
| 78 | First impressions of each other? | 第一印象对方? |
| 79 | Oh, first impressions that Elizabeth is very short. | 第一印象是伊丽莎白很短 |
| 80 | It's not a lie. | 这不是谎言。 |
| 81 | You also told me, you were like, you're really short. | 你还说你很矮 |
| 82 | I was like, where is she? | 我当时想,她在哪里? |
| 83 | Oh, she's there. | 哦,她在这里。 |
| 84 | This is day one. | 这是第一天。 |
| 85 | It has gotten so much worse over the year. | 一年来情况变得更糟了 |
| 86 | But yeah, my impression of you, that you were tall. | 但我觉得你很高 |
| 87 | I think that was that. | 我想就是这样 |
| 88 | I didn't say it though. | 我没说 |
| 89 | I was like, oh, she's too tall. | 我当时想,哦,她太高。 |
| 90 | I'm really tiny. | 我实在是太小了 |
| 91 | I felt very tiny that day. | 那天我感觉很小 |
| 92 | So yeah, that was the first thing. | 所以,这是第一件事。 |
| 93 | I think you were quite intimidating. | 我觉得你很吓人 |
| 94 | Everyone says that. | 每个人都这么说 |
| 95 | I have a resting bitch face. | 我有一个休息婊子的脸。 |
| 96 | That's my problem. | 这是我的问题。 |
| 97 | It's not your face. | 这不是你的脸。 |
| 98 | That's probably your words. | 这可能是你的话。 |
| 99 | That's the problem. | 这就是问题所在。 |
| 100 | She will cut from day one. | 她会从第一天开始切。 |
| 101 | And she has like, she's very, very warm and talkative, | 她喜欢,她非常, 非常温暖和说话, |
| 102 | but also in a way that kind of, I think, yeah, | 但在某种程度上,我想,是的, |
| 103 | I think you were just very strong in your position. | 我认为你只是非常强壮 你的地位。 |
| 104 | And I think you always maintain that, | 我想你总是坚持这一点, |
| 105 | which is something I greatly, greatly admire. | 我非常钦佩你 |
| 106 | But so yeah, she became a bit less of a wasabata. | 但是,所以是的, 她变得有点少 的意大利茶。 |
| 107 | Over time. | 随着时间的推移。 |
| 108 | Over time, over time. | 随着时间的推移,随着时间的推移。 |
| 109 | Okay, who is more likely to get married first? | 好吧,谁更有可能先结婚? |
| 110 | I can't believe you said me. | 我不敢相信你居然说起我 |
| 111 | Do you actually think me? | 你真的认为我? |
| 112 | I think so. | 我想是这样。 |
| 113 | You're joking. | 你在开玩笑吧 |
| 114 | I actually genuinely think you're going to get married. | 我真心觉得你会结婚的 |
| 115 | I'm not the one who's being offered 15 camels | 我不是那个被提供15只骆驼的人 |
| 116 | in return for my hand. | 以换取我的手。 |
| 117 | I only got 11 camels. | 我只有11只骆驼 |
| 118 | I got 25 yesterday. | 我昨天有25个 |
| 119 | 25? | 25岁? |
| 120 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 121 | You're not getting married. | 你不会结婚的 |
| 122 | No, no, no. | 不,不,没有。 |
| 123 | I genuinely think you're going to get married first. | 我真心觉得你要先结婚 |
| 124 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 125 | I can see it happening a lot sooner than me. | 我看得出来 事情发生得比我快得多 |
| 126 | I hope so. | 我希望是这样。 |
| 127 | Inshallah. | 英玛拉 |
| 128 | Did you have girl best friends growing up? | 你有女朋友长大吗? |
| 129 | Of course not. | 当然不是。 |
| 130 | I'm one of those girls that girls don't like. | 我是一个女孩,女孩不喜欢。 |
| 131 | You are. | 没错 |
| 132 | I did have two sisters, so I was quite close to them. | 我确实有两个姐妹, 所以我很接近他们。 |
| 133 | I think I had such a nerd thing to say. | 我想我有这样一个书呆子的事情要说。 |
| 134 | Yes, I have my sisters and my mother. | 是的,我有我的姐妹和我的母亲。 |
| 135 | They were my friends. | 他们是我的朋友 |
| 136 | My mom was like, I'm joking, I'm joking. | 我妈妈说,我开玩笑,我开玩笑。 |
| 137 | My mom is my friend now. | 我妈现在是我的朋友了 |
| 138 | I don't think she was my friend then. | 我觉得她不是我的朋友 |
| 139 | I think I had male friends for a while. | 我想我有一段时间的男性朋友。 |
| 140 | I think mostly because I did take science subjects in school, | 我想主要是因为我在学校学习科学课程 |
| 141 | so that was much more likely for boys to be an advanced science subject. | 因此,男孩更有可能成为高级科学科目。 |
| 142 | I had a lot of boy cousins growing up, | 我有很多男孩表弟长大, |
| 143 | so I think I was very subjugated to banter | 所以我觉得自己很屈从 |
| 144 | and comfortable around banter. | 和舒适的周围布丁。 |
| 145 | But I think the older I get, | 但我觉得年纪越大 |
| 146 | the more I tend to crave and enjoy female friendships. | 我越是渴望和享受女性友谊 |
| 147 | So yeah, that's my story. | 所以,是的,这是我的故事。 |
| 148 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 149 | I went to a girls only school, | 我上过女生学校 |
| 150 | so I had loads of female friends. | 所以我有很多女朋友。 |
| 151 | But then when I grew up, | 但当我长大了, |
| 152 | because then I would make other friends outside of school, | 因为我会让其他朋友 校外, |
| 153 | so I did have a lot of male friends. | 所以我有许多男性朋友 |
| 154 | But when I went to uni, | 但当我去了uni, |
| 155 | I kept making more male friends. | 我不断交更多的男性朋友 |
| 156 | And during my PhD, | 而在我的博士学位期间, |
| 157 | my two best friends were two white boys. | 我的两个最好的朋友是两个白人男孩。 |
| 158 | We had nothing in common. | 我们没有什么共同点。 |
| 159 | It's hilarious. | 这很有趣。 |
| 160 | But yeah, I do think that friendship with boys are easier | 但我觉得和男生的友谊比较容易 |
| 161 | because they will tell you to your face everything, | 因为他们要当面告诉你一切 |
| 162 | and they will rip you apart. | 他们会把你撕成碎片 |
| 163 | But I feel like, as you said, | 但我觉得,就像你说的, |
| 164 | I do crave for female companionship a lot more | 我更渴望女性伴侣 |
| 165 | because there's a lot more relatability. | 因为还有许多相对性。 |
| 166 | Is that a word? | 那是个词吗? |
| 167 | Relatability, yeah. | 相对性,是的。 |
| 168 | Relatability. | 相对性. |
| 169 | We made a word today. | 我们今天说了一句话 |
| 170 | And there's also just so much more in common. | 还有更多共同点。 |
| 171 | They understand your life experiences, | 他们理解你的生活经历 |
| 172 | and I think that brings a stronger connection. | 我认为这带来了更强大的联系。 |
| 173 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 174 | Who is the most talkative? | 谁最能说话? |
| 175 | Are you joking? | 你在开玩笑吗? |
| 176 | Sheen is very, very good with speaking | 谢恩很会说话 |
| 177 | and very comfortable with speaking. | 和非常舒服的说话。 |
| 178 | Every time we grow our new people, | 每次我们壮大我们的新人, |
| 179 | I feel like you're the one just setting the tone | 我觉得只有你决定了基调 |
| 180 | and being very comfortable | 和非常舒适的, |
| 181 | and easing into the conversation. | 并放松到对话。 |
| 182 | And then? | 还有呢? |
| 183 | And then you come to the start. | 然后开始吧 |
| 184 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 185 | I still think you talk more. | 我还是觉得你说话更多。 |
| 186 | Look, if we slowed down Elizabeth | 听着,如果我们慢下来伊丽莎白 |
| 187 | to normal human speaking levels, | 到正常的人类水平, |
| 188 | she'd definitely talk more. | 她肯定会多说话。 |
| 189 | It's just that you go like this, right? | 只是你就这样走,对吧? |
| 190 | And even at the meet-up last week, | 即使上周在聚会上 |
| 191 | someone was like, | 有人说, |
| 192 | oh my god, can we slow her down? | 哦,我的上帝,我们能慢下来吗? |
| 193 | And I was like, I know. | 我当时想,我知道。 |
| 194 | This is what I live with. | 这就是我的生活。 |
| 195 | Like last night, for example, we're having a DMC, | 比如说,昨晚,我们有一个DMC, |
| 196 | and she's talking so fast, | 她说话这么快, |
| 197 | and I was like, my brain has given up. | 我当时想,我的大脑已经放弃了。 |
| 198 | It's too late to register that speed. | 登记速度已经太迟了 |
| 199 | But I think, yes, | 但我认为,是的, |
| 200 | usually I start off the conversation, | 通常我开始谈话, |
| 201 | and then Elizabeth swoops in. | 然后伊丽莎白冲进来了 |
| 202 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 203 | And I think I'm the night time talker. | 我想我是夜话家 |
| 204 | I think I'm the reason we've been up | и稱и琌и癬ㄓ |
| 205 | until 5 or 6 a.m. every day, | 直到每天早上5点或6点, |
| 206 | because I just love pillow talk | 因为我喜欢枕头话 |
| 207 | and night talk, | 和夜话, |
| 208 | and I'm just there like, hey Sheen, | 我只是在那里一样,嘿,希恩, |
| 209 | oh, what about this, | 哦,这个怎么样, |
| 210 | and what about that? | 那又怎么样? |
| 211 | And I'll just start a literal, | 我会开始一个字, |
| 212 | existential conversation. | 生存对话。 |
| 213 | I'm gone, right? | 我走了,对吧? |
| 214 | At 5.30. | 5点30分 |
| 215 | I'm gone, dreaming. | 我走了 做梦了 |
| 216 | And then suddenly I hear, | 然后突然我听说 |
| 217 | yeah, what do you think about thumbnails? | 对,你觉得缩略图怎么样? |
| 218 | I thought it was a nightmare. | 以为恶梦. |
| 219 | I was literally bringing up my phone | 我其实是提起我的电话 |
| 220 | and being like, | 和喜欢, |
| 221 | Yoshi, you should do this and this. | 吉,你应该这样做和这个。 |
| 222 | Literally, I was like, what? | 从字面上说,我像,什么? |
| 223 | Well. | 这个嘛 |
| 224 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 225 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 226 | Does friendship mean you're always comfortable? | 友谊意味着你总是很舒服吗? |
| 227 | With each other? | 和对方? |
| 228 | I guess so. | 我想是这样。 |
| 229 | Oh, comfortable sharing things with each other. | 哦,舒服地分享东西 彼此。 |
| 230 | Sorry, I gave up. | 对不起,我放弃了 |
| 231 | Does friendship mean you're always comfortable | 友谊意味着你总是很舒服吗? |
| 232 | sharing things with each other? | 互相分享吗? |
| 233 | Yes. | 对 |
| 234 | Yes, but with the caveat of time. | 是的,但有时间 |
| 235 | I think that. | 我觉得 |
| 236 | When you're ready to talk about it. | 欲说时. |
| 237 | I think this was one of the first | 我想这是第一次 |
| 238 | kind of glitches that we had | 那种故障,我们有 |
| 239 | in our friendship, | 在我们的友谊中 |
| 240 | and one of the first things | 和最初的一件事 |
| 241 | that we had to learn about each other | 我们不得不互相学习 |
| 242 | was that I. | 刚才是我 |
| 243 | That Elizabeth is weird. | 那个伊丽莎白很奇怪 |
| 244 | Something I don't easily share | 我不太喜欢分享的东西 |
| 245 | things with others. | 和别人在一起 |
| 246 | And you've gotten so much better at this. | 而且你已经得到了这么多的好。 |
| 247 | You are literally the reason | 你其实就是原因 |
| 248 | that I've gotten so much better at this. | 我得到了这么多的改善。 |
| 249 | But something meaningful happened in my life, | 但我的生活中发生了一些有意义的事 |
| 250 | and I only told Sheen quite a while later, | 我刚刚跟Sheen说了很久 |
| 251 | and I think you said at the time that | 我想你当时说过 |
| 252 | this made me realise that we're just | 这让我意识到,我们只是 |
| 253 | not that close of friends, | 不是那么亲密的朋友, |
| 254 | because I would have told you so much sooner, | 因为我会早点告诉你 |
| 255 | and I was like, | 我当时想, |
| 256 | but you're still the first person I told. | 但你还是我告诉的第一个人 |
| 257 | So we just had to kind of adapt, | 所以我们得适应一下 |
| 258 | I think, to the different rates of openness | 我认为,不同的开放率 |
| 259 | and comfort with each other. | 并互相安慰。 |
| 260 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 261 | But I think we are past that, | 但我认为我们已经过去了, |
| 262 | I would safely say. | 我敢肯定地说。 |
| 263 | Just because I think we slowly, | 只是因为我觉得我们慢慢地, |
| 264 | I think we ease each other in. | 我想我们互相放松一下 |
| 265 | Like a lot of conversations, | 像很多对话, |
| 266 | we were kind of testing the waters. | 我们在测试水 |
| 267 | Right. | 对 |
| 268 | And we were like, | 我们就像, |
| 269 | giving a bit of information, | 给一些信息, |
| 270 | to be like, | 喜欢, |
| 271 | let's see how she reacts to this. | 看看她对此的反应 |
| 272 | I did this really stupid thing, | 我做了这个非常愚蠢的事情, |
| 273 | and then I would be like, | 然后我会想, |
| 274 | oh my god, | 天呐 |
| 275 | and then just completely silent, | 然后完全无声, |
| 276 | and then we'll divulge, | 然后我们再透露, |
| 277 | and then it just went on and on. | 然后就一直这样 |
| 278 | This is why we have conversations | 这就是为什么我们有谈话 |
| 279 | into the next day, | 进入第二天, |
| 280 | because just steps and steps. | 因为只有步骤和步骤。 |
| 281 | You'll say, | 你会说, |
| 282 | oh yeah, I did A to B, | 哦,是的,我做了A对B, |
| 283 | and then you're like, | 然后,你喜欢, |
| 284 | well actually it was A to B, | 其实是A到B |
| 285 | and then it was A to Z. | 然后是A对Z |
| 286 | This is what actually happened. | 事情是这样的 |
| 287 | Yeah, so. | 是啊,这样。 |
| 288 | Yeah, I think in this friendship, | 是的,我想在这个友谊中, |
| 289 | I would be comfortable saying anything. | 我会很舒服地说什么。 |
| 290 | I think we've gotten, | 我觉得我们得到了, |
| 291 | especially like in Dubai, | 特别是在迪拜 |
| 292 | we've gotten to that point | 我们已经到了这一点 |
| 293 | where we can just share | 我们只能分享 |
| 294 | the deepest, darkest things | 最深最黑暗的东西 |
| 295 | about each other, | 彼此之间, |
| 296 | and we know that the other person | 我们知道另一个人 |
| 297 | will accept us, | 会接受我们 |
| 298 | and make fun of us for it. | 取笑我们 |
| 299 | You keep that information, | 你留着这个信息, |
| 300 | you throw it at them, | 你扔给他们, |
| 301 | when it's their weakest time. | 当它是他们最弱的时间。 |
| 302 | It's just to be like, | 这就像, |
| 303 | do you remember how stupid you were with that? | 你还记得你用这个有多蠢吗? |
| 304 | Do you talk about boys? | 你在谈论男孩吗? |
| 305 | All the time. | 一切时. |
| 306 | We talk about boys all the time. | 我们一直在谈论男孩。 |
| 307 | I think this is one of the main things | 我想这是主要的事情之一 |
| 308 | that we talk about in general. | 我们一般地谈论这个问题。 |
| 309 | We do talk about boys a lot. | 我们经常谈论男孩。 |
| 310 | And we are very supportive, | 我们非常支持 |
| 311 | but at the same time, | 但与此同时, |
| 312 | a bit too harsh. | 有点太苛刻了 |
| 313 | Do you think so? | 是吗? |
| 314 | What about you? | 你怎么样? |
| 315 | We are a bit brutal. | 我们有点残忍。 |
| 316 | We are. | 我们是。 |
| 317 | I think we just have high standards | и谋眔иΤ蔼翴 |
| 318 | for the other person, right? | 为了另一个人,对不对? |
| 319 | So we expect someone great, | 所以我们期待一个伟大的人 |
| 320 | but then when you see that they look | 当你看见他们时, |
| 321 | just like a little bit. | 就像一点点。 |
| 322 | Anyway, yeah, | 总之,是的, |
| 323 | we talk about boys. | 我们谈论男孩。 |
| 324 | We talk about boys, | 我们谈论男孩, |
| 325 | but I think we do a combination of, | 但我认为我们做的组合, |
| 326 | it's a huge topic, | 这是一个巨大的话题, |
| 327 | so we talk about, | 所以,我们谈论, |
| 328 | we kind of want to open up | 我们有点想打开 |
| 329 | about one of the things that we've been through, | 关于我们经历的一件事 |
| 330 | and then we kind of want to open up | 然后我们想打开 |
| 331 | about what that means about ourselves | 关于那意味着什么 关于我们自己 |
| 332 | and what insecurities we perhaps have. | 以及我们可能有的不安全 |
| 333 | So we have more philosophical conversations | 所以我们有更多的哲学对话 |
| 334 | about that with a mixture | 说到这个 和混合物 |
| 335 | of just calling each other out | 只是互相呼唤 |
| 336 | and making fun of our stupid decisions, | 嘲笑我们愚蠢的决定 |
| 337 | sending all the memes that hurt | 发送所有伤害的记忆 |
| 338 | to just in the right place. | 在合适的地方。 |
| 339 | That cut, that cut. | 那块,那块 |
| 340 | So I think it's a combination of both, | 所以我觉得这是两者的结合 |
| 341 | and I think it's kind of a fun topic | 我觉得这话题很有趣 |
| 342 | to kind of open up a lot more about yourself, | 那种开放 很多关于你自己, |
| 343 | and yeah, just have someone supportive there, | 是的,只要有人支持那里, |
| 344 | so yeah, great topic to talk about. | 所以,是的, 伟大的话题谈。 |
| 345 | There we go. | 开始了 |
| 346 | What makes a good friend? | 是什么让一个好朋友? |
| 347 | Ashine 你是个好朋友 | |
| 348 | I know. | 我知道,我记得 |
| 349 | I haven't met a good friend yet. | 我还没遇到一个好朋友 |
| 350 | You know I'm editing this video. | 你知道我正在编辑这段视频。 |
| 351 | I can literally just take that out. | 我可以把它拿出来 |
| 352 | Well, that's a great friend. | 嗯,这是一个伟大的朋友。 |
| 353 | What makes a good friend | 是什么让一个好朋友 |
| 354 | is someone who can be very honest with you. | 是个对你很诚实的人 |
| 355 | So for me that's very important | 所以对我很重要 |
| 356 | when someone can tell you | 当有人可以告诉你 |
| 357 | things that you don't want to hear, | 你不愿意听的东西, |
| 358 | because a friend obviously is there to support you, | 因为显然有朋友支持你 |
| 359 | and even if you decide to do things | 即使你决定做一些事情 |
| 360 | that they might not agree with, | 他们或许不同意, |
| 361 | they will still be there for you, | 他们仍然会在那里为你, |
| 362 | but it is still their duty | 但这是他们的责任 |
| 363 | to kind of remind you of your values, for example, | 让你想起你的价值观 比如说 |
| 364 | or just tell you that this is not good for you | 或者告诉你这对你不好 |
| 365 | in the long term, this is what's going to happen, | 从长远来看,这是会发生的, |
| 366 | and you're still okay with that, | 你仍然可以接受这一点, |
| 367 | and when you're just making bad decisions, | 当你做出不好的决定时 |
| 368 | it's good to have someone have your back | 有个人支持你真好 |
| 369 | and just tell you, | 告诉你 |
| 370 | because we all get carried away with things, | 因为我们都为事情着迷 |
| 371 | so for me that's very important, | 所以对我很重要 |
| 372 | and that's a trait I have in all of my friends, | 这是我所有朋友的特质 |
| 373 | including you, people who can be honest with me, | 包括你,能对我诚实的人, |
| 374 | and secondly obviously is the emotional support. | 其次是情绪支持 |
| 375 | I absolutely love having friends | 我绝对喜欢有朋友 |
| 376 | who I know I can reach out to any time, | 我知道我可以随时联系他 |
| 377 | and also I would like to think that I am the friend | 我也想认为我是朋友 |
| 378 | who is also there all the time for anyone who needs it, | 他总是在那里 为任何需要它的人, |
| 379 | so I think these two things | 所以我觉得这两件事 |
| 380 | are what I really look forward to in a friend, | 我真正期待的是一个朋友, |
| 381 | and everything else is just extra packaging, | 其他的只是额外的包装, |
| 382 | like the laughs. | 喜欢笑。 |
| 383 | Yeah, for me it's a very big vibe thing, | 是啊,对我来说,这是一个非常大的 气氛的事情, |
| 384 | I think I get, I'm very, I like the word, | 我想我得到,我非常,我喜欢这个词, |
| 385 | I hate the word vibes, | 我恨这个词的氛围, |
| 386 | because it just sounds a bit loose, | 因为它只是听起来有点松, |
| 387 | but I think I like, | 但我认为我喜欢, |
| 388 | I can't believe I didn't go for that, | 真不敢相信我没有这么做 |
| 389 | like I don't like you in any sense. | 就像我不喜欢你一样 |
| 390 | It's small things that you can sense | 这是小事,你可以感觉到 |
| 391 | from someone's interactions with you, | 从某人与你的互动, |
| 392 | so if they're not taking little jabs at things you do, | 所以,如果他们不 采取小刺你做的事情, |
| 393 | if they're not kind of bringing you down, | 如果他们不是那种让你失望, |
| 394 | because the thing is, | 因为事情是, |
| 395 | if you were to hear our conversations, | 如果你听到我们的对话, |
| 396 | 99% of the time we are just like brutally assaulting | 99%的时间,我们只是 像残酷攻击 |
| 397 | the other person, | 对方, |
| 398 | and it would seem that way on the surface, | 表面上看起来是这样 |
| 399 | but I think deep down it's quite different, | 但我觉得在内心深处 这很不一样 |
| 400 | so I think it's the deep downness that matters to me, | 所以我认为这对我来说很重要 |
| 401 | so even if someone is very, very nice on the surface, | 所以,即使有人 非常,非常好的表面, |
| 402 | or if things are a bit out of proportion | 或者事情有点不合比例 |
| 403 | to how close we are, | 与我们有多接近, |
| 404 | and it's just small things like this | 像这样的小事 |
| 405 | that I tend to pick up on a lot, | 我经常去捡 |
| 406 | and I like to be on the same page with a person, | 我喜欢和一个人在同一页, |
| 407 | and on that same page is the main thing, | 在同一页上 最重要的是, |
| 408 | so can I level with this person, | 所以,我可以与这个人, |
| 409 | will they accept my vulnerability in saying, | 他们会接受我的弱点吗? |
| 410 | I don't feel okay, | 我感觉不舒服 |
| 411 | I don't think this friendship is okay, | 我不认为这种友谊是好的, |
| 412 | something's going up, | 有事发生 |
| 413 | and if someone would be like, | 如果有人会喜欢, |
| 414 | what are you talking about, | 你在说什么? |
| 415 | you're completely delusional, | 你完全错觉了, |
| 416 | or like it's all in your head, | 或喜欢它的所有在你的头上, |
| 417 | this is not real, | 这不是真的, |
| 418 | or yeah, just get over it, | 或者是的,刚刚克服它, |
| 419 | it means nothing, | 这毫无意义, |
| 420 | if someone is very dismissive of my reality, | 如果有人对我的现实很不屑一顾 |
| 421 | I do find that quite concerning, | 我确实觉得这相当有关, |
| 422 | and I think that's the only thing that I will say, | 我只能这么说 |
| 423 | I can't be friends with this person, | 我不能和这个人做朋友 |
| 424 | because I just can't communicate with them, | 因为我无法与他们沟通 |
| 425 | so I think that communication is very, very important, | 所以我认为沟通非常重要 |
| 426 | and on top of that, | 再说一遍 |
| 427 | it's just a sense of humor, | 这只是一种幽默感, |
| 428 | it's can I take your banter, | 我可以拿下你的护身符, |
| 429 | can I make fun of them, | 我可以取笑他们, |
| 430 | and they accept it, | 他们将接受它, |
| 431 | I will respect someone's boundaries, | 我会尊重别人的边界 |
| 432 | because I do have friends that are just like, | 因为我有朋友,就像, |
| 433 | they will take things very, very personally always, | 他们会把事情 非常,非常个人总是, |
| 434 | and that's absolutely fine, | 这绝对是罚款, |
| 435 | because they're great in other ways, | 因为他们在其他方面都很棒 |
| 436 | but I think those deep, fun, 6am friendships, | 但我认为这些深,乐趣,六晨的友谊, |
| 437 | are the friendships that I can just go in, | 我只能进去的友谊 |
| 438 | and I know that the other person will know that, | 我知道对方会知道 |
| 439 | you're just crying in their sleep, | 你只是哭 在他们的睡眠, |
| 440 | but yeah, | 不过,是的, |
| 441 | I think that's what makes a great friendship for me, | 我觉得这就是我最大的友谊 |
| 442 | okay, | 罢 |
| 443 | and are you in a relationship, | 而你们是在一段关系中, |
| 444 | with the people, | 与众人, |
| 445 | okay, yeah, | 好吧,没错, |
| 446 | can we just, | 我们能... |
| 447 | 我上过的YouTube频道 | |
| 448 | I'm not in a relationship with those people, | 我和那些人没有关系 |
| 449 | I feel I've had to disclaim this in every single collaboration, | 我觉得每次合作我都不得不否认这一点 |
| 450 | we are not together, | 我们不是在一起, |
| 451 | no, we're not in a relationship, | 不,我们没有关系, |
| 452 | I was in a relationship, | 我当时的关系, |
| 453 | that's why it came to define, | 这就是为什么它来定义, |
| 454 | but I did not have enough camels, | 但我没有足够的骆驼, |
| 455 | we're not in a relationship, | 我们没有关系 |
| 456 | no, we're not, | 不,我们不是, |
| 457 | and don't worry, | 别担心 |
| 458 | if it ever happens, | 如果真的发生 |
| 459 | you'll know, | 你会知道, |
| 460 | with each other, | 彼此之间, |
| 461 | are you still giving me hope like this, | 你还在给我这样的希望吗? |
| 462 | will you do this to me Sheen, | 你会这样对我申, |
| 463 | I can't believe it, | 我简直不敢相信 |
| 464 | it's so soon, | 这么快 |
| 465 | women I tell you, | 我告诉你,女人 |
| 466 | it's so soon, | 这么快 |
| 467 | women, | 妇女, |
| 468 | for you, | 给你 |
| 469 | would you have been friends in high school, | 如果你们是高中的朋友, |
| 470 | no, | 没有 |
| 471 | yeah, | 对 |
| 472 | you don't have been friends with me in high school, | 你高中时没有跟我做朋友 |
| 473 | look, | 听着, |
| 474 | I have a very strong feeling, | 我有一种很强烈的感觉, |
| 475 | you were a nerd, | 你是个书呆子, |
| 476 | in school, | 在学校, |
| 477 | says the Oxford girl, | 说牛津女孩, |
| 478 | Sheen only has, | 谢恩只知道 |
| 479 | been to Oxford and Cambridge, | 去过牛津和剑桥 |
| 480 | and has a PhD, | 并拥有博士学位, |
| 481 | I am the university, | 我是大学, |
| 482 | pauser, | 暂停器 |
| 483 | slash drop out, | 斜线退出, |
| 484 | so, | 这么说吧 |
| 485 | I don't know who's the nerd here, | 我不知道谁是书呆子 |
| 486 | look, | 听着, |
| 487 | I was cool, | и慌 |
| 488 | in high school, | 高中时, |
| 489 | that's not what I meant, | 我不是这个意思 |
| 490 | were you? | 是吗? |
| 491 | that's not what I meant, | 我不是这个意思 |
| 492 | no, | 没有 |
| 493 | we would not have been friends, | 我们不会成为朋友, |
| 494 | I would have bullied you, | 我会欺负你 |
| 495 | would you? | 你会吗? |
| 496 | yeah, | 对 |
| 497 | I feel like I would get you to like, | 我觉得我会 让你喜欢, |
| 498 | buy my snacks, | 买我的零食 |
| 499 | and like, | 喜欢, |
| 500 | you definitely would, | 你当然会 |
| 501 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}这些桌子怎么样 | |
| 502 | have changed, | 已经改变了, |
| 503 | 现在我买你Cheetos, | |
| 504 | the nerds always come on top, | 书呆子们总能登顶 |
| 505 | at the end, | 最终 |
| 506 | you know, | 你知道吗? |
| 507 | like, | 喜欢 |
| 508 | you know what they say that, | 你知道他们怎么说的 |
| 509 | like, | 喜欢 |
| 510 | the famous and cool people, | 那些有名而酷的人, |
| 511 | in high school, | 高中时, |
| 512 | peak in high school, | 高中的时候, |
| 513 | that is so true, | 这是如此真实的, |
| 514 | that is so, | 就是这样 |
| 515 | so, | 这么说吧 |
| 516 | so true, | 如此真实 |
| 517 | I did, | 没错, |
| 518 | at least I was on a nerd, | 至少我是一个书呆子, |
| 519 | do you ever get jealous of one another? | 你们互相嫉妒过吗? |
| 520 | yeah, | 对 |
| 521 | all the time, | 一直这样 |
| 522 | this is a huge problem, | 这是一个巨大的问题, |
| 523 | this is all fake, | 这都是假的 |
| 524 | yeah, | 对 |
| 525 | this is, | 这是, |
| 526 | this is all fake, | 这都是假的 |
| 527 | yeah, | 对 |
| 528 | in reality, | 事实上, |
| 529 | we are sabotaging each other, | 我们互相残杀, |
| 530 | leaving mean comments on each other's channels, | 给对方的频道留下了恶评 |
| 531 | oh yeah, | 对 |
| 532 | I am that person who always writes those mean comments, | 我就是那个总是写那些恶毒评论的人 |
| 533 | yeah, | 对 |
| 534 | no, | 没有 |
| 535 | we don't, | 我们没有 |
| 536 | I don't think we do, | 我觉得我们没有 |
| 537 | I think, | 我觉得 |
| 538 | I think we are very supportive of each other, | 我认为我们非常支持对方, |
| 539 | and we have been very lucky, | 我们很幸运 |
| 540 | because, | 因为, |
| 541 | all of my other friends have nothing in common, | 我其他朋友没什么共同点 |
| 542 | in terms of what we do, | 就我们的工作而言 |
| 543 | in our life, | 在我们的生活中, |
| 544 | but the one thing we have in common is YouTube, | 但我们唯一的共同点是YouTube, |
| 545 | we kind of started at the same time, | 我们开始的时候, |
| 546 | but we are doing very different things, | 但我们正在做非常不同的事情, |
| 547 | and we have different parts of our journey, | 我们有不同的旅程, |
| 548 | but, | 不过 |
| 549 | like for example, | 比如说, |
| 550 | when you hit 100k, | 当你打100公里, |
| 551 | I just got so excited, | 我太兴奋了 |
| 552 | and I was telling everyone at work, | 我告诉大家在工作, |
| 553 | and everyone was like, | 大家都说, |
| 554 | what does that mean? | 这是什么意思? |
| 555 | what does that mean for you, | 这对你意味着什么? |
| 556 | it's like all of my incentive, | 就像我所有的奖励, |
| 557 | yeah, | 对 |
| 558 | so I feel like, | 所以我觉得, |
| 559 | we have been part of each other's journey, | 我们曾经是彼此旅程的一部分, |
| 560 | because, | 因为, |
| 561 | we help and support, | 我们帮助和支持, |
| 562 | and we were there at milestones and stuff, | 我们在那里 在里程碑和东西, |
| 563 | so it just feels like, | 所以感觉就像, |
| 564 | it's a celebration for both of us, | 这是我们俩的庆典 |
| 565 | whenever one of us does something, | 只要我们中有人有所作为 |
| 566 | exactly, | 没错 |
| 567 | I think that's exactly true, | 我认为这是完全正确的, |
| 568 | I think we are, | 我认为, |
| 569 | at least emotionally, | 至少在情感上, |
| 570 | very very invested, | 非常投资, |
| 571 | in whatever the other person is doing, | 无论别人做了什么 |
| 572 | and so any success on their part is just like, | 所以他们的任何成功都一样, |
| 573 | yes she did it, | 是的,她这样做, |
| 574 | she did it, | 她这样做, |
| 575 | and also because we get to see the background a lot, | 也因为我们经常看到背景 |
| 576 | it's, | 这是, |
| 577 | we know the hard work that goes into things, | 我们知道在事物中付出的艰苦努力, |
| 578 | and, | 还有, |
| 579 | yeah I think, | 是的,我认为, |
| 580 | the main feeling is pride, | 主要的感觉是骄傲, |
| 581 | I hate the word pride, | 我讨厌骄傲这个词 |
| 582 | I hate pride, | 我讨厌骄傲 |
| 583 | how I've changed you, | 我如何改变你, |
| 584 | the first time I met you was like, | 我第一次遇见你的时候 |
| 585 | I don't like when people tell me they're proud of me, | 我不喜欢别人说他们以我为傲 |
| 586 | which is true, | 这是真的, |
| 587 | and I've been, | 我曾经是, |
| 588 | which is happening for this every day, | 每天都有这样的事发生 |
| 589 | I don't like it for myself, | 我不喜欢自己 |
| 590 | which is awful, | 这是可怕的, |
| 591 | because I'm a massive hypocrite, | 因为我是个大伪君子 |
| 592 | but, | 不过 |
| 593 | I think just like, | 我觉得就像, |
| 594 | 看你在YouTube上的成长 | |
| 595 | how much you've, | 你多少钱, |
| 596 | just, | 刚刚, |
| 597 | I don't know, | 我不知道,你觉得呢? |
| 598 | how confident and amazing you are, | 你是多么自信和惊人, |
| 599 | on your channel, | 在你的频道, |
| 600 | especially in the latest video, | 特别是在最新视频中 |
| 601 | I was like, | 我当时想, |
| 602 | oh tears in my eyes when I saw that video, | 哦,眼泪在我的眼睛 当我看到视频, |
| 603 | I was so happy, | 我很高兴 |
| 604 | I know, | и笵 |
| 605 | that really, | 这真的, |
| 606 | oh my god, | 天呐 |
| 607 | we went Ski Dubai, | 我们去了滑雪迪拜, |
| 608 | about to go skiing, | 准备去滑雪, |
| 609 | and this girl is just like, | 这个女孩就像, |
| 610 | helping me like, | 帮助我喜欢, |
| 611 | preview my video, | 预览我的视频, |
| 612 | before it goes online, | 在上线之前 |
| 613 | and she was like, | 她当时想, |
| 614 | oh my god, | 天呐 |
| 615 | I'm so emotional, | 我很激动 |
| 616 | you've come so far, | 你已经走了这么远, |
| 617 | and I was like, | 我当时想, |
| 618 | what is happening? | 发生什么事了? |
| 619 | She has though, | 不过,她已经 |
| 620 | she has though, | 不过,她已经 |
| 621 | and like, | 喜欢, |
| 622 | the whole house here, | 整个房子在这里, |
| 623 | and just everything, | 还有一切 |
| 624 | it's, | 这是, |
| 625 | you've grown so much, | 你长大了这么多 |
| 626 | in the space of like, | 在一样的空间里, |
| 627 | a few weeks, | 几个星期后 |
| 628 | and months, | 和数月, |
| 629 | and it's just incredible, | 太不可思议了 |
| 630 | we have a whole video online, | 我们在网上有一个完整的视频, |
| 631 | we're doing, | 我们这样做, |
| 632 | somewhere on your own, | 在你自己的某个地方 |
| 633 | and, | 还有, |
| 634 | yeah, | 对 |
| 635 | it's just amazing, | 这太神奇了, |
| 636 | so I think, | 所以我认为, |
| 637 | so much cheese, | 这么多奶酪, |
| 638 | see, | 看到没? |
| 639 | how can we be jealous of each other, | 我们怎么能互相嫉妒呢? |
| 640 | we're too cheesy, | 我们太俗了 |
| 641 | yeah, | 对 |
| 642 | I don't think, | 我不这么认为 |
| 643 | I don't think we are, | 我不认为我们是, |
| 644 | yeah we could be, | 是啊,我们可以, |
| 645 | we can't be, | 我们不能是, |
| 646 | well, | 这个嘛 |
| 647 | while we're on this topic, | 当我们讨论这个话题时 |
| 648 | how do we handle, | 我们怎么处理, |
| 649 | our long distance relationship? | 我们的长途关系? |
| 650 | oh, | 瓳 |
| 651 | a very good question, | 一个很好的问题, |
| 652 | we text a lot, | 我们经常发短信 |
| 653 | yeah, | 对 |
| 654 | and, | 还有, |
| 655 | it's kind of, | 这有点, |
| 656 | like, | 喜欢 |
| 657 | it's not like, | 这不是像, |
| 658 | conversations open and close, | 开诚布公的谈话 |
| 659 | if that makes sense, | 如果有道理的话 |
| 660 | so it's not a full, | 所以不是满的 |
| 661 | like it's not awkward, | 喜欢它不尴尬, |
| 662 | conversation, | 谈话, |
| 663 | and a lot of this is just like, | 而这很多就像, |
| 664 | sending memes, | 我派遣许多使者, |
| 665 | or seeing something in real life, | 或者在现实生活中看到什么 |
| 666 | and being like, | 和喜欢, |
| 667 | oh, | 瓳 |
| 668 | this is you, | 这是你, |
| 669 | this is negative, | 这是负面的, |
| 670 | never, | 从来没有, |
| 671 | they're always negative things, | 他们总是消极的东西, |
| 672 | never supportive, | 从不支持, |
| 673 | never good things, | 从来没有好的东西, |
| 674 | and, | 还有, |
| 675 | I think we, | 我认为, |
| 676 | I think my main tip would be, | 我想我的主要提示是, |
| 677 | be active and follow up, | 积极跟进, |
| 678 | and it comes back to that communication, | 然后又回到了那个交流, |
| 679 | and like, | 喜欢, |
| 680 | being on the same level, | 在同一层, |
| 681 | because I know that, | 因为我知道, |
| 682 | whenever Ashene says, | 当阿修尼说 |
| 683 | let's get on a call, | 我们打个电话 |
| 684 | it's not a fake thing, | 这不是假东西, |
| 685 | and whenever I say, | 当我说, |
| 686 | hey, | 糑 |
| 687 | let's get on a call, | 我们打个电话 |
| 688 | let's do this thing, | 让我们做到这一点, |
| 689 | we both know that it's real, | 我们都知道这是真的, |
| 690 | and then it always happens, | 然后它总是发生, |
| 691 | and we put a time limit, | 我们定了一个期限, |
| 692 | and we're like, | 我们就像, |
| 693 | we're doing this, | 我们这样做, |
| 694 | and we were very good with like, | 我们很擅长这样, |
| 695 | like, | 喜欢 |
| 696 | when you were like, | 当你像, |
| 697 | you're coming, | 你来了, |
| 698 | let's book this now, | 让我们现在订这个, |
| 699 | and I booked it for three days, | 我订了三天 |
| 700 | because I didn't want to impose. | 因为我不想强加。 |
| 701 | Elizabeth was like, | 伊丽莎白说, |
| 702 | is it okay if I come on Friday, | 如果我星期五来,可以吗? |
| 703 | and I leave on Sunday, | 我星期天就离开 |
| 704 | and I was like, | 我当时想, |
| 705 | you're coming all the way to Dubai, | 你大老远赶来迪拜 |
| 706 | for three days. | 三天时间 |
| 707 | I was sitting at your place, | 我当时坐在你家 |
| 708 | and, | 还有, |
| 709 | I mean, | 我是说... |
| 710 | I never offered, | 我从来没有提出过 |
| 711 | first of all, | 首先, |
| 712 | she is huge. | 她是巨大的。 |
| 713 | Well, that was so bad, | 这太糟糕了 |
| 714 | I was literally panicking, | 我吓坏了 |
| 715 | when I was getting off the plane, | 当我下飞机时 |
| 716 | I was like, | 我当时想, |
| 717 | Ashene actually never said | 灰原其实从来没有说过 |
| 718 | that I was going to stay at her place, | 我会住在她家, |
| 719 | and I didn't want to. | 我不想这样 |
| 720 | I should have just said, | 我应该说, |
| 721 | Elizabeth, | 伊丽莎白, |
| 722 | why do I drop you off? | 我为什么要送你? |
| 723 | Honestly, | 说实话 |
| 724 | that would have been... | 那会是... |
| 725 | You would have lied, | 你会撒谎的 |
| 726 | but really. | 但其实 |
| 727 | I would have been, | 我会是, |
| 728 | she'd gone like, | 她走了一样, |
| 729 | oh yeah. | 对 |
| 730 | Travelodge, please. | 旅行,请。 |
| 731 | Travelodge, Dubai. | 旅行者,迪拜。 |
| 732 | They don't have Travelodge. | 他们没有旅行者。 |
| 733 | I know, | и笵 |
| 734 | that's why it's funny. | 这就是为什么它很有趣。 |
| 735 | But yeah, | 不过是的 |
| 736 | I booked Travelodge. | 我订了旅行车 |
| 737 | But yeah, | 不过是的 |
| 738 | I do think, | 我觉得 |
| 739 | just following up on things, | 只是跟踪一些事情, |
| 740 | being very, | 变得非常, |
| 741 | like, | 喜欢 |
| 742 | specific with, | 具体如下: |
| 743 | you know, | 你知道吗? |
| 744 | I'm not in the pace to do this right now, | 我现在没有这个速度 |
| 745 | or, | 或者说, |
| 746 | yeah, | 对 |
| 747 | just, | 刚刚, |
| 748 | I think, | 我觉得 |
| 749 | supportive, | 支持,帮助, |
| 750 | communication, | 交流, |
| 751 | human touch, | 人类的触摸, |
| 752 | know what the person is up with, | 知道这个人是干什么的, |
| 753 | and if it's been like, | 如果它一直是这样, |
| 754 | two weeks, | 两周, |
| 755 | which it hasn't been yet, | 还没有呢, |
| 756 | but if it gets to two weeks, | 但是,如果它得到两个星期, |
| 757 | then it's just like, | 然后它只是喜欢, |
| 758 | yo, | 哟 |
| 759 | what's happening? | 发生什么事了? |
| 760 | Don't do silent treatment. | 不作无声之治. |
| 761 | Yeah, | 对 |
| 762 | don't do silent treatment, | 不要做沉默治疗, |
| 763 | basically. | 基本上说 |
| 764 | But I think, | 但我认为, |
| 765 | like, | 喜欢 |
| 766 | so the nature of the relationship itself changes, | 所以关系的性质 本身改变, |
| 767 | when you go into a long-distance friendship, | 当你进入长途友谊, |
| 768 | and I think it's good and bad, | 我认为这是好的和不好的, |
| 769 | obviously you miss seeing the person every now and then, | 显然你时不时地想见他 |
| 770 | being spontaneous with when you meet and stuff, | 当你们相遇的时候, |
| 771 | but at the same time, | 但与此同时, |
| 772 | when you do actually meet, | 当你真的见面, |
| 773 | it's a lot more intentional, | 这是更多的故意, |
| 774 | and you spend better quality time together, | 你们一起度过了更好的时光, |
| 775 | because you appreciate and value | 因为你欣赏和珍惜 |
| 776 | the time that you get to spend together. | 你们一起度过的时间 |
| 777 | But I think we were both very clear on the fact that, | 但我们都很清楚 |
| 778 | okay, | 罢 |
| 779 | the dynamics are gonna change now, | 动态会改变, |
| 780 | and that's fine, | 没关系 |
| 781 | because we still care, | 因为我们还在乎 |
| 782 | and as long as both parties care, | 只要双方都关心 |
| 783 | the friendship goes ahead unharmed, | 友谊无伤于人 |
| 784 | if anything, | 如果有的话, |
| 785 | it gets deeper, | 越来越深 |
| 786 | and one thing I've noticed, | 我注意到一件事, |
| 787 | since I've moved especially, | 自从我特别搬家之后 |
| 788 | is that people who care, | 是那些关心的人, |
| 789 | and who actually think about you and miss you, | 谁真的想到你,想你, |
| 790 | they express that. | 他们表达这一点。 |
| 791 | I don't believe in this whole thing of, | 我不相信这整件事, |
| 792 | oh, you know, | 哦,你知道吗, |
| 793 | when you are geographically close to someone, | 当你在地理上接近某人时 |
| 794 | your friendship is deeper and better, | 你的友谊更深 也更好 |
| 795 | because that's just lazy. | 因为那只是懒惰。 |
| 796 | I think if you genuinely care about someone, | 我想如果你真的关心某人 |
| 797 | even when they're far away, | 即使他们离我很远 |
| 798 | the friendship doesn't change, | 友谊没有改变, |
| 799 | and by that, | 由此, |
| 800 | I don't mean that you need to be texting every day, | 我不是说你需要每天发短信 |
| 801 | like we do, | 就像我们一样, |
| 802 | but because with my other friends and stuff, | 但因为与我的其他朋友和东西, |
| 803 | it's usually like months before we talk, | 通常在谈话前几个月 |
| 804 | . . . . . . . . . | |
| 805 | it's weird to explain, | 这很奇怪的解释, |
| 806 | it's like I have the connection, | 我好像有联系 |
| 807 | I feel the connection between us, | 我感觉到我们之间的联系 |
| 808 | and if I message you, | 如果我给你留言, |
| 809 | I know you'll reply, | 我知道你会回答的 |
| 810 | and if you message me, | 如果你给我留言, |
| 811 | you know I'll reply, | 你知道我会回答的 |
| 812 | but at the moment, | 但是现在 |
| 813 | we are busy, | 我们很忙, |
| 814 | and once we have, | 一旦我们有了, |
| 815 | but we know we are gonna prioritize each other very soon, | 但我们知道我们很快会优先处理彼此 |
| 816 | and that is what keeps a long distance friendship going. | 而这就是保持 长距离的友谊。 |
| 817 | I agree, | и種 |
| 818 | with my best friend, | 与我最好的朋友, |
| 819 | because we've been long distance for the last five years, | 因为我们过去5年的距离很长 |
| 820 | and he's my flatmate now, | 他现在是我的室友了 |
| 821 | there's been times where it's been months, | 曾经有好几个月了 |
| 822 | or even happier, | 或者更快乐, |
| 823 | without not even sending a text, | 没有发短信, |
| 824 | and a lot of people find that weird, | 很多人都觉得奇怪 |
| 825 | especially my sister, | 特别是我的妹妹 |
| 826 | finds that very weird, | 觉得很奇怪 |
| 827 | she's like I would never do that with someone | 她就像我永远不会对别人那样 |
| 828 | that I call the best friend, | 我唤作最好的朋友, |
| 829 | but it's just that vibe and that clarity, | 但它只是那种气氛和清晰, |
| 830 | and then one of us will always be like, | 然后我们中的一个将永远是这样, |
| 831 | yo, what's up, | 哟,怎么了, |
| 832 | and that's always like the text I've said, | 我总是这么说 |
| 833 | when it's been a long time, | 当它已经很久, |
| 834 | and it just goes to that level, | 并且它只是到那个水平, |
| 835 | or are you alive, | 或者你还活着, |
| 836 | that's some good text to say, | 不错的文字说, |
| 837 | and it just goes to that level, | 并且它只是到那个水平, |
| 838 | because we always know that there's no weirdness, | 因为我们总是知道 没有怪异, |
| 839 | and there's no, | 没有 |
| 840 | like we just know each other so well, | 就像我们这么了解对方一样 |
| 841 | I think, | 我觉得 |
| 842 | and our relationships are very uncalculated, | 而我们的关系 是非常没有计算, |
| 843 | I think that's the good thing, | 我想这是好事 |
| 844 | and then you know that it's just like genuine, | 然后你知道这就像真实的, |
| 845 | and you know it's never bad intention, | 你知道这绝不是坏意图, |
| 846 | that's the knowledge that you have, | 这就是你的知识, |
| 847 | that's what I mean by you have the connection, | 这就是我的意思,因为你有联系, |
| 848 | because you know there's no bad intention, | 因为你知道没有什么坏意图, |
| 849 | and if things have, you know, | 如果事情已经发生了,你知道, |
| 850 | been like this for a while, | 曾经是这样的一段时间, |
| 851 | it's just, it's not intentional, | 只是,这不是故意的, |
| 852 | so just don't ignore it, | 所以不要忽视它, |
| 853 | and just talk about it, | 说说看 |
| 854 | so that's always good. | 所以这总是很好的。 |
| 855 | Okay, final question, | 好吧,最后一个问题, |
| 856 | what is one thing you have learned from each other? | 你们从对方身上学到了什么? |
| 857 | Shall I go first? | 我先走吗? |
| 858 | Yeah, you can go first. | 是啊,你可以先去。 |
| 859 | Okay, one thing I have learned from Elizabeth, | 好吧 我从伊丽莎白那里学到了一件事 |
| 860 | very recently as well, | 最近也一样 |
| 861 | is just how to put things behind you, | 就是把事情抛在脑后 |
| 862 | which is very interesting, right? | 这是非常有趣的,对不对? |
| 863 | I think I make a lot of excuses for things that don't work out, | 我想我为一些不成功的事情找了很多借口 |
| 864 | or for things that I am not okay with, | 或为我所不适的事情, |
| 865 | but I will just put up with it, | 但我会忍受它, |
| 866 | because I don't know, | 因为我不知道, |
| 867 | this is just who I am as a person, | 这就是我作为一个人, |
| 868 | and I've never learned how to move forward from these things, | 我从来没有学会如何从这些事情中前进, |
| 869 | and I was so impressed by you about how you're like, | 我非常佩服你 你的样子, |
| 870 | nope, this is not working out, | 不,这是行不通的, |
| 871 | this is not for me, | 这不是给我的 |
| 872 | you switch off, | 你关掉 |
| 873 | or you're like, | 或者你喜欢, |
| 874 | this person disrespected me, | 这个人不尊重我 |
| 875 | switch off, | 关掉 |
| 876 | and you move on, | 你继续前进, |
| 877 | and I think, | 我觉得, |
| 878 | obviously it doesn't mean that you don't care anymore, | 显然这并不意味着你不再在乎了 |
| 879 | or that you're completely done, | 或者说,你完全完成了, |
| 880 | but it's just the fact that you can switch that off, | 但事实上你可以把它关掉 |
| 881 | being like, | 喜欢, |
| 882 | I will not do this anymore, | 我不会再这么做了 |
| 883 | and that's one thing I've been trying to do, | 这是我一直想做的一件事 |
| 884 | because the more you grow, | 因为你成长得越多 |
| 885 | there are things that in your workplace, | 在你的工作场所有些事情 |
| 886 | in your personal life, | 在你的个人生活中, |
| 887 | in all of the things that don't work out, | 在一切不成功的事情, |
| 888 | or really bother you for some reason, | 或真正打扰你 出于某种原因, |
| 889 | and you don't get closure from things, | 你从不因为事情而关闭, |
| 890 | and if you keep wallowing in it, | 如果你们在其中徘徊, |
| 891 | and keep hoping that, | 并一直希望这样, |
| 892 | oh, if I'm nice, | 哦,如果我是个好人, |
| 893 | maybe it's gonna change, | 也许它会改变, |
| 894 | and then it doesn't change, | 然后它不会改变, |
| 895 | it's just very toxic, | 它只是非常的毒性, |
| 896 | and being able to just make the decision, | 并且能够做决定, |
| 897 | switch off, | 关掉 |
| 898 | and move on is so much healthier, | 继续前进更健康 |
| 899 | so that's one thing I've learned from you. | 所以我从你身上学到了一件事 |
| 900 | No, okay, thank you. | 不,好吧,谢谢。 |
| 901 | I think what I've learned from you is a great, | 我想我从你身上学到的是一个伟大的, |
| 902 | great example of what it actually means to be a strong woman, | 成为强壮的女人意味着什么 |
| 903 | because I think this is something that I'm learning, | 因为我认为这是我在学习的东西, |
| 904 | not learned, | 没学过 |
| 905 | I know the theory in my mind, | 我知道这个理论在我的脑海里, |
| 906 | but I find it very difficult to apply, | 但我觉得很难申请 |
| 907 | and it's too, | 这也是, |
| 908 | back to that admitting vulnerability, | 回到承认的弱点, |
| 909 | in the sense that I always thought that it was, | 从我一直以为是, |
| 910 | it made, like, weak, | 它使一样,软弱, |
| 911 | it would be weak to kind of show how you actually feel, | 显示你的感受会很软弱 |
| 912 | and how hurt you are, | 和如何伤害你, |
| 913 | and how bad things are, | 事情有多糟糕, |
| 914 | and what your emotional state is all the time, | 和你的情绪状态 是所有的时间, |
| 915 | I was like, that's very weak, | 我当时想,这是非常软弱的, |
| 916 | and then the strong thing to do is just to hide it all the time, | 然后,最强的一件事就是 只是隐藏它所有的时间, |
| 917 | and to have this wall, | 而拥有这堵墙, |
| 918 | and to be highly functioning, | 和高度运作, |
| 919 | and just perfect, everything is great, | 完美无缺 一切都很好 |
| 920 | even with your friends, | 即使与你的朋友们, |
| 921 | even with your family, | 即使与你的家人, |
| 922 | even with the closest people, | 即使与最亲近的人, |
| 923 | and I think that's the kind of way that I viewed myself, | 我觉得这就是我看待自己的方式 |
| 924 | and the way that I viewed my life, | 和我的人生观, |
| 925 | but I think meeting you, | 但我想见到你, |
| 926 | I realized that there's a level above from that, | 我意识到,有一个水平 从这个, |
| 927 | and the level above from that is being able to trust people | 上面的级别能够信任人们 |
| 928 | that you care for with your life, | 你关心你的生活, |
| 929 | and what you're going through, | 和你经历的一切, |
| 930 | and I think you are such an icon of support and vulnerability, | 我认为你是一个 支持和脆弱的偶像, |
| 931 | like, honestly, in my life, | 就像,说实话,在我的生活中, |
| 932 | I think those are the two things | 我想这是两件事 |
| 933 | that would be like the first two words I would say about you, | 这就像前两个字 我会说关于你, |
| 934 | of course, there's like the strength, | 当然,有像 力量, |
| 935 | like the confidence, | 像信心一样, |
| 936 | and like the warmness, | 喜欢温暖, |
| 937 | but I think those are the two things | 但我认为这是两件事 |
| 938 | that you are such an icon for, | 你是一个偶像, |
| 939 | and I admire so much in you, | 我非常欣赏你 |
| 940 | and I think you really broke me down that first time, | 我觉得你真的 打破了我第一次, |
| 941 | when you were like, | 当你像, |
| 942 | we're not friends anymore, | 我们不再是朋友了 |
| 943 | because clearly you do not care about me, | 因为你显然不在乎我 |
| 944 | so that was a harsh lesson to learn, | 所以这是一个严酷的教训, |
| 945 | and that way I was like, | 那样我就像, |
| 946 | oh my god, I'm getting canceled by my friend, | 哦,我的上帝, 我被我的朋友取消了, |
| 947 | and it was something that is like, | 事情是这样的, |
| 948 | yeah, just, I was used to my whole life, | 是啊,只是,我习惯了我的生活, |
| 949 | but I think, at least with you, | 但我认为,至少与你, |
| 950 | that wall has broken down a lot, | 那堵墙破了好多 |
| 951 | and I think I'm getting better with that, | 我觉得我越来越好了 |
| 952 | but I think that's something that I really, | 但我认为,这是 我真的, |
| 953 | really, really want to do, | 真的,真的想这样做, |
| 954 | is reach that level of strength, | 达到这个强度, |
| 955 | because I still think I'm very, very weak | 因为我仍然觉得我非常非常软弱 |
| 956 | when it comes to that, | 说到这个 |
| 957 | and it's a lot stronger to be. | 更强壮 |
| 958 | So, to me, it is, | 所以,对我来说,这是, |
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